Life's Not Always A Fair Battle

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  • @cathytheisen1815
    @cathytheisen1815 8 місяців тому +122

    Hi Tessie, I was lower middle class growing up, with an alcoholic father and a loving, wise mother. She told me to remember three things: The best don't always finish first. You don't always get what you want. And life's not fair. Now I'm in my senior years and realize what she was saying. Be grateful for what you have, keep your faith in God, and just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Food might have been scarce sometimes but my mom would find joy in playing dress up with me. No matter how low we got she always found something to be grateful for. She found ways to be joyful. Hugs from Vermont.

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +13

      Your Mother Taught You Well Cathy,
      Blessings

    • @jscasecase471
      @jscasecase471 8 місяців тому +3

      I grew up similarly. You need to find your joy in your surroundings. We grew up very low income but we were happy because we didn’t know any different.

    • @debbieframpton3857
      @debbieframpton3857 8 місяців тому +9

      A very wise mother

    • @hollyj2925
      @hollyj2925 8 місяців тому +5

      Agree 👍

    • @lilylangman5620
      @lilylangman5620 8 місяців тому +4

      Yes , always be thankful for what you do have and the rest works itself out.

  • @Shirleygirly7
    @Shirleygirly7 8 місяців тому +4

    Our dear 30 year old friend who has only been married 6 months just found out she has Lou G disease...she has 2 years to live. She is full of joy and the peace of Jesus! What an amazing example to me....thank you Lord for saints who shine in the midst of such sorrow!💝

  • @ask-128
    @ask-128 8 місяців тому +20

    I changed the term low income....to modest income....it makes me feel better..good video Tessie

  • @lindawamsley5227
    @lindawamsley5227 8 місяців тому +30

    I often think about a book that Dr D James Kennedy wrote many years ago titled, "Life's Not Fair, But God is Good"! I too like many others can relate to what you're saying today Tessie. Things will get better, joy comes in the morning!❤

    • @cindyjames4201
      @cindyjames4201 8 місяців тому +4

      I loved Dr. James Kennedy

    • @BethGrantDeRoos
      @BethGrantDeRoos 8 місяців тому +4

      OMGosh lindawamsley I used to listen to D James Kennedy!🙂

  • @WillowsGarden
    @WillowsGarden 8 місяців тому +4

    Hi Tessie! My furnace went on the fritz and I need a new one. It’s in the teens and snow the next two days.
    I’ve seen homeless people that have nothing, so I feel blessed.
    I’m not complaining, I have a roof over my head, food to eat and I woke up because the Lord our savior gave me another day.
    Have a blessed day everyone!

  • @kathycrager4222
    @kathycrager4222 8 місяців тому +17

    Hi Tessie! I’m here to build you up and bring you joy today. You brought me joy with this video. I reflected back on the day when I received my cancer diagnosis two years ago. It just feels like it was yesterday. I didn’t cry, I didn’t think I was going to die, I pushed forward with a smile on my face and a positive attitude. I went through all the treatments. It wasn’t always easy. I was diagnosed a stage four. Today I am still cancer clear, and it will be three years in March. It’s not about how much money or “stuff” we have, but how we take care of ourselves and what we’ve been given by God. You are a blessing to many of us. So what I see is that ole satan trying to knock you down. There will always be people who have more than others, but are they truly happy? I feel I am truly happy and I am so grateful that I serve a mighty God that takes care of me and all my needs. My heart and prayers are with you. I should write a book LOL. We all have a story, where we came from, where we’ve been, and where we are headed.
    May God shine his light upon you and bring you peace. I pray a blessing over you and your husband so that you can continue doing what you’re doing. With love and respect,
    Kathy

    • @kathyhullinger1585
      @kathyhullinger1585 8 місяців тому +1

      Kathy, I fell so happy you are cancer free. The Lord was right by you through that journey. Our faith in him can move mountains.

    • @kathycrager4222
      @kathycrager4222 8 місяців тому

      @@kathyhullinger1585 Amen 🙏

  • @wisewomanhealing
    @wisewomanhealing 8 місяців тому +16

    Hi, Tessie. I love your positive attitude. You do not sugar coat. You show your real emotions and reactions but there is still joy there too. Thank you. ❤😊 God bless!

  • @foreverlovely2580
    @foreverlovely2580 8 місяців тому +15

    I'm going through so much I just have to keep going and praying to God for guidance. So sad 😔 sometimes. I watched your videos to smile.

    • @pellis6928
      @pellis6928 8 місяців тому +2

      Oh my forever lovely... I'm praying with you and for you...please don't get discouraged and give up. Nothing is impossible for God to work out for you. You just tell Jesus each day to take over and you can't do it without him and I promise he will. Love you my lovely friend🤗💙🙏

    • @foreverlovely2580
      @foreverlovely2580 8 місяців тому

      @@pellis6928 Thank you so much I appreciate you 🙏🏼💕🌸💕🌸

  • @LovesJESUS
    @LovesJESUS 8 місяців тому +16

    Hello Tessie, I hope all your trials for 2024 are over. Mine didn’t start out great either, first week found out my sister has lung cancer, second week my whole household had Covid. The way I look at it’s over early, so the rest of the year will be great. God willing. 😊

  • @NanaMom104A
    @NanaMom104A 8 місяців тому +4

    In my childhood I always heard that it's not what you've got, it's how you take care of it.

  • @afdraftsrmandy3176
    @afdraftsrmandy3176 8 місяців тому +37

    I needed your pep talk today. We've had a rough 2 years since my husband had several strokes. God gives me all I need for each day, but I sometimes feel sorry for myself. I was reminded by a friend today to keep the faith, then I heard your talk, Tessie. I thank you for persevering and sharing your story about it.

    • @bonniethiessen5506
      @bonniethiessen5506 8 місяців тому +6

      Sending prayers for you and your husband 🙏

    • @wandalanders-z4k
      @wandalanders-z4k 8 місяців тому +2

      God bless you! I know what you're going through in a way. Mine has dementia and it so hard to have him but not have him... I call him my baby. He laughs. I miss being able to talk to him. Having to deal now with him not being able to stand and is becoming bedfast. I have to care for him alone 24hrs and 7 days a week. And that is ok but sometimes I just need a rest or be able to see my doctor, etc. I need to hire someone to stay a little with him, but afraid he will be afraid or not treated well. He is sweet and kind so it is better than some have it. But the stress is taking it's toll on me. It is ok to feel down about your situation. It doesn't mean you have less trust in God to help you etc. But, we are human and He cares about our sorrows. I wish you all the best and health and happiness.

    • @afdraftsrmandy3176
      @afdraftsrmandy3176 8 місяців тому +2

      @bonniethiessen5506 thank you!!!

    • @cassandrahoward8325
      @cassandrahoward8325 8 місяців тому +2

      Jesus told us that in this world we will have trials and tribulations but be of good cheer ,for He has overcome the world ❤❤❤ You live this out in a way I know is pleasing to The Lord!!😊😊

    • @afdraftsrmandy3176
      @afdraftsrmandy3176 8 місяців тому

      @@cassandrahoward8325 we are sure trying!

  • @mawmaw1833
    @mawmaw1833 8 місяців тому +7

    I smile only because my husband told me to put my pictures on external hard drive.well,hebroke it.a lot of memories were in it.m daughter and grandson that are no longer with us.so,have a fit,get mad,cry whatever you need.you will get thru it

  • @bethaspell1827
    @bethaspell1827 8 місяців тому +11

    We all get discouraged at times. When we can remember God us with us through good and bad. My thoughts is to just live below your means. You do great. Keep up the good work.

  • @bethhopkins4277
    @bethhopkins4277 8 місяців тому +7

    ❤❤I am praying you have a smooth week! You always inspire me. Thank you!!

  • @Minnesota_Mama_Bear
    @Minnesota_Mama_Bear 8 місяців тому +12

    I can relate, along with so many others. We do what we need to do to keep our homes working. We fix & use things until they're dead. We do what we need to do. 💚🌞

  • @maureendietz622
    @maureendietz622 8 місяців тому +2

    There are very few people that have perfect lives. I have been widowed 21 years and i am so grateful to God for keeping me in my home all these years but is not without its challenges. I depend on Him every day of my life to help me.

  • @jacquiemoppett2391
    @jacquiemoppett2391 8 місяців тому +11

    Tesse I noticed your stove. If you are using propane or bottled gas. I had a similar problem. I was down to 1 small burner and no way to replace the stove. We bought a new set of burners for propane from amazon for less than £8.00 . It revitalized my stove. In the UK 🇬🇧 "We say keep you chin up." When you hit a rocky place. GOD BLess.❤

  • @thehillbillychickenranch
    @thehillbillychickenranch 8 місяців тому +20

    Hugs, Tessie. ❤ GOD uses those troubled times, to grow us. Keep smiling and keeping your joy. Remember that our treasure is stored up in heaven. Being poor is a state of mind. We don't all look poor, to be poor. Just like some folks don't look rich, but are. Count your blessings!

    • @BethGrantDeRoos
      @BethGrantDeRoos 8 місяців тому +5

      thehillbillychickenranch I REALLY liked you comment that. '❤ GOD uses those troubled times, to grow us', and am reminded of Charles Stanley (amongst many people) who noted that we NEED to ask the Lord to use whatever challenge we are enduring, to grow us.

  • @decdavey6470
    @decdavey6470 8 місяців тому +6

    Having these things taken care of is the reward of your being savers. ❤

  • @mlutaylor47
    @mlutaylor47 8 місяців тому +7

    See such calm and inner poise in your message. So worthwhile to be in touch with you each day. Thank you❤

  • @starkcontrast4220
    @starkcontrast4220 8 місяців тому +14

    Something will always happen. For me there were big storms this past week and my electricity was out for 3 days. Just appreciate things when you have them.

  • @kathyhullinger1585
    @kathyhullinger1585 8 місяців тому +16

    You and your husband are so wise and grounded. You always have such helpful thoughts. Times like you have been through recently have been hard but you handle it all with grace and wisdom. Your home and property are just beautiful and cozy. I remind my self now often of how blessed I am. I was not expecting to face life threatening cancer this year but hearing your words reinforces what I know and need to hear. A grateful heart and being thankful allows us to live abundantly...no matter what we face.

    • @kesmarn
      @kesmarn 8 місяців тому +3

      Prayers for you, kathy!

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +3

      Praying For You Kathy,
      Having A Grateful Heart Is Such A Blessing 😊,
      GOD Bless,
      Andrea

    • @kathycrager4222
      @kathycrager4222 8 місяців тому +4

      Praying for healing of your cancer.

    • @kathyhullinger1585
      @kathyhullinger1585 8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much Kathy!@@kathycrager4222 You are such a blessing.

    • @kathyhullinger1585
      @kathyhullinger1585 8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much Andrea. You have truly blessed me.@@pr9764

  • @rosalynnecole23
    @rosalynnecole23 8 місяців тому +19

    Tessie, in a nutshell JOY is what's on the inside. Inside of your home, heart, family, low income, etc, etc... You're good. We are not worried or concerned about the people that have less joy (those haters). I am so happy to hear you say you had savings. 🥰

  • @JudyannPowell-dr4md
    @JudyannPowell-dr4md 8 місяців тому +7

    Tessie so sorry all that's happen.tessie I so enjoy your heart talks .you are so sincere and loving.

  • @CynthiaLundquist-oi2cu
    @CynthiaLundquist-oi2cu 8 місяців тому +1

    My word for the year is gratitude. My husband was recently diagnosed with a life threatening illness. If he does not have a complicated surgery at a medical center 8 hours away he will die. We will have to travel, live away from home for probably a month or more as he goes through surgery and recovery. Not what I was expecting for 2024. But I am grateful for friends, neighbors, and family who will take care of our home while we are away, grateful we have a decent vehicle to get us back and forth safely to the medical center, grateful to the doctors and workers who diagnosed his problem, grateful to the surgeon who is skillful in performing the surgery, grateful that the medical center is within driving distance. We are low income as well, never living over our means. I am grateful that I learned frugal living ways from my grandmothers so that we have a savings that will be used to pay for these unexpected expenses. We are all in the same boat. One step forward and two steps back, but if all goes well, I will still have my husband, best friend, and life partner with me to continue the journey called life. Gratitude.

  • @SterlingsStyle
    @SterlingsStyle 8 місяців тому +10

    Thanks for the encouragement! I love reading the scripture at the end of your videos. ♥ I look forward to watching your videos. :)

  • @Linda-fg2rz
    @Linda-fg2rz 8 місяців тому +21

    Stand strong Tessie. This too shall pass. When we think of past troubles, we are glad we got through them and they always taught us something. Everything happens for a reason.

    • @cindyjames4201
      @cindyjames4201 8 місяців тому +9

      my mother used to say "this too shall pass".

  • @nmfn2011Pine
    @nmfn2011Pine 8 місяців тому +11

    Happens to everyone around the globe when things happen and need fixing or replacing. Big houses mean bigger. things to go bad.

  • @owen4248
    @owen4248 8 місяців тому +14

    Tessie you said it well your spot on I have been blessed to be middle income but now I find my self low income I know well about problems in the house things need fixing I too have had some trials but I am working through them life is not always sunny been a windy day here :-) Love you my sister :-) God Bless You and Ken :-)

  • @carolyn6290
    @carolyn6290 8 місяців тому +7

    Love your genuine , honest spirit!

  • @joanncole9603
    @joanncole9603 8 місяців тому +1

    November 2nd, my husband went to be with the Lord. I will be forever grateful that a few days before, he told our oldest son that he was ready to see Jesus. I was concerned about how I would handle it but my God has helped me tremendously along with praying friends and family. Be glad Tessie that you and your husband was wise enough to save the money for emergencies like this or you might have to be borrowing money right now.

  • @pennycox1432
    @pennycox1432 8 місяців тому +7

    Love your channel. Thank you for always showing us to push through. Yes, I noticed the scriptures at the end of your videos.❤

  • @leecopeland2061
    @leecopeland2061 8 місяців тому +5

    Aww Tessie what a great heart to heart! Full of feeling and wisdom and encouragement!!
    You are always positive and upbeat and you see the silver lining in the cloudy storms. 😃❣️😃
    Thats why I watch you, ,- and you are just soo... uniquely YOU!! I truly come to love you and think of you often. You are like a sister to me - like family! ❤❤❤ Love you sister Tessie. You inspire us and encourage us and teach us! You are a JOY!! Thank you for being a part of my life and sharing yours with me!!💕🌺💖

  • @bethanyg153
    @bethanyg153 8 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for sharing your heart!

  • @commentater4448
    @commentater4448 8 місяців тому +8

    Tessie, if you have never watched the movie "Up," I suggest you see at least the first 15 m. Its all about this struggle. You save for a dream and then life happens. Repeat. The best we can do is turn our thinking around and say "Thank God I have the money" instead of "I used all my money!". ❤

  • @kathycortez232
    @kathycortez232 8 місяців тому +7

    Amen sis amen another utube on here lost her only son to cancer I feel she has more to cry about than I do I can’t imagine losing my only son please pray for her and his sisters it has broke my heart ❤️ much love ❤️

    • @kesmarn
      @kesmarn 8 місяців тому +1

      Prayers for someone who has suffered the greatest loss that a human can experience (in my view). Our Heavenly Father witnessed the death of his son on the cross too... but the Resurrection was what followed.

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому

      ​@@kesmarnSo Beautifully Said Kes,
      And A Wonderful Reminder That We Pray To Our GOD who Truly Understands!
      Praying For You Too Dear Sister,
      GOD Bless,
      Andrea

  • @keebler5064
    @keebler5064 8 місяців тому +11

    You look discouraged but, good job focusing on the positives. You have an amazing family and home. A lot of people need encouragement and look to you for it because you are honest! Unlike most of the people online.

  • @owen4248
    @owen4248 8 місяців тому +2

    Good Morning Tessie, Sisters, Brothers, and Friends, Wish you all a wonderful blessed Monday filled with Gods Joy and Happiness :-) Remember to pray for one another and for all around the world :-) God Bless You ! Love you all :-) Keep smiling be safe :-)

  • @aproverbshome173
    @aproverbshome173 8 місяців тому +2

    Great Inspiration! People dont realize expensive things dont bring peace. We could live in mansions and be miserable. However you have a beautiful home and have peace! Big difference.

  • @beckyshook3526
    @beckyshook3526 8 місяців тому +6

    My mother in law always said one step forward two steps back

    • @Rachelpbalys
      @Rachelpbalys 8 місяців тому +1

      We always said, two steps forward, three steps back 😊

  • @lindahawkins5983
    @lindahawkins5983 8 місяців тому +6

    Hang in there, God has your back. I am also living with a lot of broken things, but thank God I have my little home. Peace and joy be with you always!

  • @gailpurcell3209
    @gailpurcell3209 8 місяців тому +9

    Similar situation for me yesterday, too. But mine didn't cost much to fix. We cranked up the heaters, and it worked. Thank the Lord. ❤

  • @owen4248
    @owen4248 8 місяців тому +40

    Good Evening Tessie, Sisters, Brothers, and Friends, Be sure to hit that like button Tessie will appreciate it Greatly also be sure to watch all the ads :-)

    • @owen4248
      @owen4248 8 місяців тому +5

      @@MichaelR58 Good evening Michael 58 , Stay safe and healthy my friend :-) YAH Bless !

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +2

      Good Evening Owen 🙂

    • @owen4248
      @owen4248 8 місяців тому +3

      @@pr9764 Good evening P R :-)

    • @juliewebber2749
      @juliewebber2749 8 місяців тому +3

      Good evening Owen

    • @owen4248
      @owen4248 8 місяців тому

      @@juliewebber2749 Good evening julie webber :-)

  • @shellygreenan2407
    @shellygreenan2407 8 місяців тому +2

    My scripture for 2024...all things work for good for those that love the Lord., not some things, ALL things. God provides every need . Your trials are all lessons. .you can't always control what happens to you, but you can control what happens through you. This is exactly how you are " mentoring" others. Today I turn 55, and your resilience, honesty inspires me again. Thanks Tessie 💜from MA

  • @Janet-p4n
    @Janet-p4n 8 місяців тому +10

    Happy belated birthday!

    • @HomesteadTessie
      @HomesteadTessie  8 місяців тому +4

      Oh my goodness thank you so much what a blessing we will use it wisely

  • @jscasecase471
    @jscasecase471 8 місяців тому +7

    I will say that I think I am happier living a simpler life. My hubby grew up with money, I did not. Trying live up to his expectations a living high was stressful. Now I have taught him to live frugal and we are both happier for it. Thank you for reminding us that you need to find joy in all you have. It is had sometimes but I believe we are better in the end.

  • @marybethtanner959
    @marybethtanner959 8 місяців тому +5

    Mb was here . Love you. Remember don’t let yesterday ruin today

  • @kathyann9643
    @kathyann9643 8 місяців тому +12

    There are a growing number of homeless people in this country. I feel very blessed even though I would be considered low income by most. I always have everything I need and most of what I want. Everything is relative.

  • @alexg1668
    @alexg1668 8 місяців тому +5

    A good message thanks

  • @lesliehouse
    @lesliehouse 8 місяців тому +9

    Hang in there Tess! You do things that are beneath most folks. I’ve learned alot from you.

  • @addywell3100
    @addywell3100 8 місяців тому +10

    You are right , it is how you look at life and challenges. We have had the hardest time of our life recently. The day before Thanksgiving my husband ended up in the hospital and was diagnosed with cancer. Then the very next week we were back as he had a series of stokes from the cancer. We never thought this would happen and life tossed us a big curve ball. Being joyful is not where I am at this moment. Everyday is a struggle with my mindset. It is extremely difficult to be positive when you see your husband struggling with this disease. I thank God for our family as they have all tried to be here and help. Tess I am glad you had your savings account for the emergencies that have come your way. You both have been good stewards of what God has given you and He will bless you for your due diligence.

    • @afdraftsrmandy3176
      @afdraftsrmandy3176 8 місяців тому +2

      Many prayers lifting you and your husband up, sweet friend. Strokes are so difficult and change so much. God will give you the strength you need daily!

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +2

      Praying For You, Your Husband And Family Addywell,
      You Are Blessed That Your Family Are Willing And Able To Help,
      GOD Bless,
      Andrea

    • @addywell3100
      @addywell3100 8 місяців тому

      Thank you!Appreciate your prayers and encouragement.@@afdraftsrmandy3176

    • @addywell3100
      @addywell3100 8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for praying for us andGod bless you for caring Andrea!

  • @bettyjo2737
    @bettyjo2737 8 місяців тому +5

    Tessie, the world sees rich differently than we do, you are rich in so many ways! I think part of our tests are how we respond to these tests and in the midst of them. I think you did a great job and thank you for sharing everything with all of us! I am learning so much from you. You and your videos are such a blessing to all of us ❤ I am so thankful for you!

  • @lindamoen6618
    @lindamoen6618 8 місяців тому +6

    In the Bible there is a book of Job and he lost everything and the devil was after him all the time testing and testing him but he never gave up his faith in God we are being tested all the time. Just remember it can always be worse we in northern MN have snow, cold below 0 with windshield -30 that would have made your situation much much worse. God Bless you and your family keep your faith and keep your smile which keeps us in smiles

    • @merilynl2424
      @merilynl2424 8 місяців тому

      "Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him: but I will maintain mine own ways before him." (Job 13: 15) He said He would never leave us nor forsake us.
      "And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us." (Rom. 5: 3-5)
      Nothing that He permits/allows into our lives is to hurt us but to grow us.

  • @KerryJames-l6z
    @KerryJames-l6z 8 місяців тому +5

    Same here tessy inhave accepted am in pensiin rent government home fully funded 12 month emergency fund sinking fund trying to build a buffer second hand everything basic food it looks like this is pretty much it financially age 55 praying to down size but greatful hear hope in Jesus

  • @CRE-w3x
    @CRE-w3x 8 місяців тому +2

    I understand so well! It’s obvious you take pride in your home and yard! You inspire me to do better. I’ve got to get a new pump, plus a bunch of work done on my house. I put it off because I don’t know how I’ll pay for it. I’ve been sick for the last week and a half. My insurance is going up to the point where I may have to go back to work full time. I’m retired, still working part time. My mother has dementia and the stress has me so depressed.. between all of it going on. I just try to keep praying… Thanks for being real!

  • @peggyaustin5238
    @peggyaustin5238 8 місяців тому +7

    I had a setback myself today because my sink in the bathroom sprung a massive leak. I had to buy a new faucet because the type I had no washers in it so I had to buy a whole new faucet. Long story short it cost me 225.00 because I had to call a plumber and just to walk in my house was 100.00 plus parts and labor. Just grateful I had enough in my account.

  • @dianag4025
    @dianag4025 8 місяців тому +7

    God never gives us more than what we can handle. Even though it seems like a lot at the moment.

  • @bonniethiessen5506
    @bonniethiessen5506 8 місяців тому +2

    I hear you, Tessie. 2023, for us, was horrible. Then, today, Sunday, some park manager pounds on our door telling us we have to be out of here by tomorrow. Threatening to have us physically thrown out and locked out. Our lot rent is fully paid for January and we own our mobile home. I nearly had a full-blown panic attack. We can't do anything until Tuesday because Monday is Martin Luther King day. We've had over $4,000.00 hacked (stolen?) from our bank accounts in 2023. We're looking for places to move to, but without help financially, it's impossible. I pray you never have to go through that. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers 🙏 I love watching your videos and have been watching older videos as well. Thank you for letting me vent. Thank you for being an inspiration for me ❤❤

    • @mj-hk6iv
      @mj-hk6iv 8 місяців тому +2

      Please contact your States Attorney General and see if they can help you. If you are seniors, contact your States Dept on Aging. Blessings

    • @bonniethiessen5506
      @bonniethiessen5506 8 місяців тому +1

      @@mj-hk6iv Thank you!! ❤️🙏

    • @smc7929
      @smc7929 8 місяців тому +2

      I’d check to see if it’s legal for them to try this.

    • @bonniethiessen5506
      @bonniethiessen5506 8 місяців тому +1

      @smc7929 We will try getting ahold of someone hopefully Tuesday, since today is a holiday.

  • @debby891
    @debby891 8 місяців тому +3

    I always thought we grew up “poor” but my dad would say life isn’t measured by what money you have in the bank but by the steps that you take in your faith. I’m 65 now and from many challenges in life, my dad gone for 11 years, his words still ring true. Sending much love and strength in faith♥️🙏♥️

  • @owen4248
    @owen4248 8 місяців тому +9

    Tessie, You said it well something will always happen being in a house there is always something needing fixing it's hard to keep up there are times I've been discouraged but I always manage to get through been having some trials too but it's good now you have been through a lot I am low income now too :-) Love you my sister :-) God Bless You and Ken :-)

  • @carolyn6290
    @carolyn6290 8 місяців тому +9

    Hang in there Tessie. We all have our battles and keeping a spirit of thankful ness.

  • @dottiebs5873
    @dottiebs5873 8 місяців тому +5

    God doesn't give us what we can't handle. We might feel like we can't take it anymore and then all of the sudden there's light at the end of the darkest tunnel. I have to tell myself this almost every day. Stay strong. ❤

  • @tkcompton2
    @tkcompton2 8 місяців тому +4

    Hi Tessie - I know exactly how you feel. This past year was a test for us. My husband was seriously ill and in hospital for a month and then a rehabilitation center for another month for physical therapy. It drained our savings and he was forced
    To retire. But we worked together and our income is extremely lower than what it was but the Lord was there for us and everything worked out. He is always there for us. I do know exactly where you are coming from. I’m so grateful that the lord is there for us always

  • @terryhenderson424
    @terryhenderson424 8 місяців тому +7

    We spent much of '22 reactively being flexible and adaptable. Our watch words for '23 were "flexibility and adaptability"; being proactive about it sure felt better. We are differently prepared as a result and '24's watch words are every little bit counts".

  • @loucilehall9281
    @loucilehall9281 8 місяців тому +4

    Everything in my house is falling apart and it’s not paid for yet. Gets very discouraging.

  • @KerryJames-l6z
    @KerryJames-l6z 8 місяців тому +4

    The chimney from your oil lamp can be cleaned with newspaper

  • @violethastings794
    @violethastings794 8 місяців тому

    I'm almost 70 now, but grew up on a farm, dirt poor and for sure had to do with whatever we had. While I can't say I live that way now, we do live on a fixed income so I try to be aware of what I want versus what I need and I try to remember that at my age, I really don't need anything other than day to day stuff. I thought of my own life when you said the water went out and you jumped in to do what you had to do. My husband just today laughed because I fixed my "survival stuff" because the temperature is going to be REALLY low tonight. But hey...if our water does not freeze and my jugs of water aren't needed....my plants and my dog won't care that I stored that water in a jug...just in case. It's never a bad thing that we "don't sweat the small stuff". Your stories of strength and appreciation always makes my day. Stay safe and warm.....and joyful!!

  • @cindyjames4201
    @cindyjames4201 8 місяців тому +1

    I so admire your wisdom and strength. Blessings!!

  • @ShettikkaWoods742
    @ShettikkaWoods742 8 місяців тому +4

    Good blessings 😊

  • @tammys.1085
    @tammys.1085 8 місяців тому +1

    Praying for you Tessie. You are amazing. You encourage so many, G*d sees this, He is good. Blessings ❤ I am grateful for you. Thank you 🙏

  • @sallym9769
    @sallym9769 8 місяців тому +1

    Some people who are low income use it as an excuse to not care for what they have. Criticizing others is just an excuse for their lack of accountability for their lives. Prayer for your whole family Tessie.🙏

  • @marymarieware4597
    @marymarieware4597 8 місяців тому +1

    Tessie you are a blessing to so many people
    I'm praying that 2024 blesses you in so many ways. Keep your faith ❤❤

  • @edensgarden1775
    @edensgarden1775 8 місяців тому +6

    Hi Tessie. We cannot go outside. Drifting snow and are actual temp is -12. Going to be -35 during the night. So ready for Spring. Sorry you have had downfalls. Life can sure throw us lemons but God helps us through. God bless.

  • @JimmyandTammy
    @JimmyandTammy 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing! I love your thoughts on this topic. So true and heartfelt.

  • @pellis6928
    @pellis6928 8 місяців тому +9

    Hey Tessie, I do know what you mean when everything happens at once and back to back. I never had things happened in 3s. My test usually comes in 10s and up except the last tests (that have not stopped yet😂) I stopped counting when things hit around 30 different things (Then I could not count for a while😅 true story) but to make this short God has worked each thing out one at a time that was the most important. He had to temporarily strip me of my power so he could show me I was trying to do everything myself and not trusting him fully... I hope I have learned the lesson he wanted me to learn and I guess only time will tell but as of now I have learned so much I never knew or thought I needed to know. All is well with my soul and the rest will catch up eventually lol. So yes I can say I know what you are saying in this touching Heart to Heart tonight. Love you my special sisterfriend🤗💙🙏

    • @kesmarn
      @kesmarn 8 місяців тому +2

      Hello, Sweet P! Please know that you are loved, and prayers are going forth for you and the whole family. Even when I'm too "blind" to write, my heart is with you! 🙂 (At least my poor vision does provide me with lots more (often hilarious) typos these days.) Silver lining? (I had to correct that from "sliver lining...see what I mean?)

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому

      Hey P Ellis 🌻,
      All Is Well With Your Soul And That Is The Main Thing Dear Friend,
      'One Day At A Time Sweet JESUS' -- Praying For You Pam,
      GOD Bless,
      Andrea

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому

      ​@@kesmarnYour Sense Of Humour Keeps You Young Kes 😅,
      Blessings,
      Andrea

  • @carolorris1685
    @carolorris1685 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing, Tessie ❤ I needed this today

  • @marybethsmith6458
    @marybethsmith6458 8 місяців тому +5

    I always say if it ain't one thing then it's fifteen others. The car has to go in the shop and the power kicked off today and blew the socket in my kitchen light so it no longer works. Thankfully I still have one over the sink so I will just work over there til I can afford to fix it.

  • @wandahershey9227
    @wandahershey9227 8 місяців тому +1

    Praying the rest of the year is going to be awesome for you

  • @DingbadYoutube
    @DingbadYoutube 8 місяців тому +1

    Kindness is our word for 23. Keep the joy and take care. Thanks for the video.

  • @foreverlovely2580
    @foreverlovely2580 8 місяців тому +11

    Good evening to you Tessie ❤ I love the intro 👍🏼

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +1

      Good Evening Forever Lovely 🤚

    • @foreverlovely2580
      @foreverlovely2580 8 місяців тому

      @@pr9764 💕🌺💕

  • @janiceosullivan6469
    @janiceosullivan6469 8 місяців тому +6

    Happy belated Birthday.

    • @HomesteadTessie
      @HomesteadTessie  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much 😀What a blessing !!!

  • @owen4248
    @owen4248 8 місяців тому +14

    Hello Everyone Welcome to Tessie's Channel :-)

    • @foreverlovely2580
      @foreverlovely2580 8 місяців тому +3

      Hello 👋🏼 Owen and Michael 🙏🏼😊

    • @owen4248
      @owen4248 8 місяців тому +3

      @@foreverlovely2580 Hello Forever Lovely :-)

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +1

      Hello Owen 🤚

    • @kesmarn
      @kesmarn 8 місяців тому +2

      A blessed Sunday evening to you, Owen.

    • @carolyn6290
      @carolyn6290 8 місяців тому +2

      Your a trooper Owen!

  • @kimberlystone3987
    @kimberlystone3987 8 місяців тому +5

    Happy Sunday Tessie ❤

  • @sheilacirioni4676
    @sheilacirioni4676 8 місяців тому +6

    We had issues as well. We are tested every day. We are tougher than you think.😄💝👍

  • @JenMct-xi8xp
    @JenMct-xi8xp 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤ Thank you for sharing .. your far from lower class Tess.. your blessed with a bank account, a pantry, beautiful home, .. vehicle & positive attitude filled with gratitude!

  • @ashhh66
    @ashhh66 8 місяців тому +1

    You have a good way of seeking things. Thank you for your sound thoughts.

  • @janeckrote3958
    @janeckrote3958 8 місяців тому +7

    We live on social security
    That's low income
    My husband has brain 11:31 cancer and really can't help with anything around the property . I'm 75 uts old snd have my own issues. We don't have enough for today's costs. It's very depressing. I'm afraid of losing my home and can't afford rents. Life ls hard, not what we thought retired living would be like be .

    • @kesmarn
      @kesmarn 8 місяців тому +3

      Many prayers for you. You are truly n a very tough spot! I almost never "go political," but I will just say that we as a country could do a better job of caring for our aging citizens who gave a life time of labor to get this nation to where it is today. God be with you both.

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +1

      Prayers For You And Your Husband Jane,
      GOD Bless You,
      Andrea

    • @merilynl2424
      @merilynl2424 8 місяців тому +1

      Prayers for you both Jane. We are seeing so many go through some really difficult times in the past 3 years. I've been severely ill for 22 years and it's not getting easier with age. Yet, God has been faithful throughout and His grace IS sufficient. My faith continues to grow stronger and stronger. When I think I can't go on He gives me the strength I need to keep going. I pray you know God's love for you. (John 3: 16) "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."
      Out of great suffering came life for everyone who places their faith in Jesus. In Him there is PEACE, HOPE & JOY!
      God Bless
      Koren

    • @mj-hk6iv
      @mj-hk6iv 8 місяців тому +2

      Please contact your States Dept on Aging to see if you qualify for assistance. You may qualify for a visiting nurse, assistance with utilities, food, medicine, or transportation. Blessings and prayers.

  • @deborahcreppon2239
    @deborahcreppon2239 8 місяців тому +6

    I hear you. Grateful you had the money to pay for it all, and I know you will be allright. God has you in his hands. Love Deborah.

  • @JB-pd4ni
    @JB-pd4ni 8 місяців тому +2

    It's been a rough start to the year for you, glad you and Ken can find something to be grateful for. Blessings to your daughter. Yes, let's hope the road ahead is smooth for all.

  • @robertalbert623
    @robertalbert623 8 місяців тому +5

    Chin up Tessie, life is a string of repairs , the more you do it the better you get at it the cheaper it gets

  • @darviecampbell2763
    @darviecampbell2763 8 місяців тому

    Wise words Tessie! May God bless you richly!

  • @terrylittle6402
    @terrylittle6402 8 місяців тому +5

    Life is hard, but God is good!

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому

      Amen To That Terry

  • @leeannwicker937
    @leeannwicker937 8 місяців тому

    A friend gave me a Charles Stanley book "Finding God's Blessings in Brokenness". This book is full of wisdom about dealing with the disappointments of life.
    I think that many people living on low income see the struggles as challenges rather than being beaten down. When they do that, life does not defeat them. Those with a woe is me attitude end up living in misery. Attitude is everything.

  • @christinagardener1889
    @christinagardener1889 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for being so encouraging.

  • @lindah629
    @lindah629 8 місяців тому +9

    Hi everyone 🙂❄️

    • @owen4248
      @owen4248 8 місяців тому +2

      Hi Linda H :-)

    • @foreverlovely2580
      @foreverlovely2580 8 місяців тому +2

      Hi Linda😊

    • @pr9764
      @pr9764 8 місяців тому +1

      Hi Linda🙂

    • @lindah629
      @lindah629 8 місяців тому

      @@owen4248 hi Owen 🙂❄️

    • @lindah629
      @lindah629 8 місяців тому

      @@foreverlovely2580 hi foreverlovely 🙂❄️

  • @cecilemarot2357
    @cecilemarot2357 8 місяців тому +4

    You are rich in all the things that are important and that matters and money is not part of it. Money does not bring happiness.

  • @connieaaron5743
    @connieaaron5743 8 місяців тому

    A great and important message! Thank you!

  • @brightstarr57
    @brightstarr57 8 місяців тому +1

    I am so sorry but glad you all made it through, including your daughter. Take care! ❤

  • @pamelaward4527
    @pamelaward4527 8 місяців тому +6

    Hi Tesse, Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lindahawkins5983
    @lindahawkins5983 8 місяців тому +4

    We all need to remember God will see us through, no matter what; peace and joy be with you!r