The #1 Key to Stay Connected With Your Spouse
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- 🎁100 Deeper Connection Prompts & Ideas - deeperconnection
Staying connected with your spouse in the busyness of the day-to-day can be challenging. In this episode, Julia will share her and her husband’s near-fatal mistake that took them to shocking levels of disconnection and the #1 Key they found to create and sustain deeper connection than they had ever experienced before.
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I am addicted to your advice. My husband and I are married for 22 years. This past two years we have done so much of therapy and figured out on his coming communication to get close to each other. Your advice hits on the nail.
Awe, thank you! I am grateful to know it is hitting the nail for you.
My takeaway is the importance of being honest about our experience even if it takes away the “peace”
Thanks for sharing your takeaway, Matthew. When we aren't honest we create "momentary peace." When we choose to be honest, it may feel uncomfortable in the moment, but it will create long-term peace.
I’m married for 7 years now … 7 years of discussions growing resentment en hate en anger. My husband keeps telling me I have to be nicer to him but I have so much bitterness in my heart. I seek god but I feel like there is a block and there is no change. I hope I can forgive my husband for the things he did to me. And visa versa. He is completely disconnected to me. Hope this works
Esther, I encourage you to focus on healing your bitterness and working through forgiveness.
I know this is a GREAT video , because when these video's make me feel uncomfortable and out of my COMFORT zone , it's because like you say it doesn't allow us to "Self Edit" our Marriage and our posture thereof. What it does is tells me NOT what I want to hear , but what I NEED to hear , the truth hurts a lot sometimes , my question is how do you get over "self editing" fueled by fear of admitting the truth about things ... thank you
I am grateful to know this is connecting for you. Getting over self-editing is a moment-by-moment choice. It starts by noticing you are doing it. And when you notice you are doing it, you stop yourself and choose vulnerability. It is really helpful to journal. Journaling is a safe place to grow the muscle of saying what is there without editing. Our unedited thoughts are typically filled with limited beliefs. That is why we want to see the unedited version so we can locate the limiting beliefs and rewrite them.
Thank you for responding this makes so much sense but a lot of times it’s fear that holds us back from being 100 percent authentic with ourselves and others it’s a human cancer
@@BJJ_Richie I agree with you. The challenge with our fears is if we aren't facing them, we are bringing them about.
I sometimes tend to avoid being honest to keep peace. I need to work on this.
I understand, Jacqueline. The first step to working on it is noticing it. So you are already moving into the work.
I am unable to open the 100 connection ideas
My apologies and thank you for saying something. Here is a link...geni.us/deeperconnection