Panel Discussion :: Relationship Goals (Part 5)

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  • @buzzybeejones9028
    @buzzybeejones9028 6 років тому +3248

    23:20
    "Marriage is not a reward for doing something right,
    Singleness is not a punishment for (doing something wrong)"
    Wooooow, definitely needed this x

    • @mahogany86
      @mahogany86 6 років тому +18

      Yes!!! I replayed that part twice!

    • @uluamsam
      @uluamsam 6 років тому +15

      Beautiful!!!! Good word! That was a solid nugget.

    • @cjone765
      @cjone765 6 років тому +42

      Hey Love, Just to put this into perspective for you, think of allllll the people out there who are not living lives for Christ, that are married or in a relationship. Do you really think that God has rewarded them for the lives that they have been living? They lie, cheat, steal, have multiple sex partners...you name it. Look at Hosea's wife, she was a prostitute, he was a man of God, a Prophet, to be exact. God to told Hosea to MARRY her. Was that a reward for her "good behavior"? I think not. TRUST ME, I struggle with this too, but I remember that God has a plan for me and He knows the desires of my heart is to be in a relationship and then married. So I TRUST HIM to work it out for me. And while you're waiting, as the Pastor Todd said, "Maximize your singleness!" Enjoy being by yourself, accomplish your goals, go back to school, travel and just enjoy life's simple pleasures. Remember: getting married is not the goal, STAYING married is.
      Hope this helps, I tend to ramble ha!

    • @depressednobody2501
      @depressednobody2501 6 років тому +1

      BuzzyBeeJones but being victim to somebody who's playing around(hoes, playboys and all that is) it's your(my) own punishment for liking someone who would do that to me and being naive when ppl were warning me to get out of that situation

    • @justthabi
      @justthabi 6 років тому +7

      That saved me, that was God talking!

  • @afroteen4647
    @afroteen4647 6 років тому +2172

    Watching this at the age 19 is an extremely valuable lesson for me .Thanks

  • @NatalineJ
    @NatalineJ 6 років тому +1061

    Building a relationship with God without distractions!!!! AMEN

    • @avon_originalsghstephanie3475
      @avon_originalsghstephanie3475 5 років тому +2

      Amen

    • @sherieesharpe7216
      @sherieesharpe7216 4 роки тому +2

      I believe god wants ya to love and learn nog lovd abd loose out on thay learning process so please take changes and chances god wants you to be loved and love another as you do him its part of the life plan x

    • @sherieesharpe7216
      @sherieesharpe7216 4 роки тому

      Sorry for the key pad errors my phone is abit off today lol

    • @maryannmccamon534
      @maryannmccamon534 2 роки тому

      Amen to this

  • @chinonblokebboys
    @chinonblokebboys 5 років тому +873

    I watched the five (5) episodes in a day and God has answered some questions I've had in my heart for a while. I love the simplicity, realness and transparency in the teachings and from the people. God bless pastor Mike and the Transformation Church.

    • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
      @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman 5 років тому +2

      Awesome!

    • @mamashoni
      @mamashoni 5 років тому +1

      Amen!

    • @Lednovations
      @Lednovations 5 років тому +2

      Same here, am on part 5 started this evening

    • @valeriefrischling4117
      @valeriefrischling4117 4 роки тому +5

      Makes me want to listen again and again to make sure i get it all down in my soul. God is good and knows what we need! We learn from.our own experiences but also others

  • @delshawnmcdaniel2828
    @delshawnmcdaniel2828 6 років тому +1297

    This entire series is bittersweet for me. As much as I NEEDED hear hear this series it makes me be honest with myself and realize that I have work to do

    • @YoHippestHippie34
      @YoHippestHippie34 5 років тому +10

      Same!!!

    • @valeriefrischling4117
      @valeriefrischling4117 4 роки тому +23

      We all have work. But he is good and is with us on our journeys. God bless you and may he give you the strength when you feel like there is none to be found

    • @mahlatsenkoana1117
      @mahlatsenkoana1117 4 роки тому +1

      @@valeriefrischling4117 same

    • @instrinsiclove
      @instrinsiclove 3 роки тому

      Totally agree!

    • @thegracefullwoman9725
      @thegracefullwoman9725 2 роки тому +2

      May God strengthen us and our spouse's to live a life pleasing to Him. To love, honor and cherish ❤

  • @ItssKayKayTV
    @ItssKayKayTV 4 роки тому +293

    Pastor Todd: “Don’t touch her that long again Vernon” 😂😂😂

  • @alexandraboone3255
    @alexandraboone3255 4 роки тому +223

    Major Key: Singleness is not a punishment for not doing something right.

  • @IzzyEze
    @IzzyEze 6 років тому +513

    Deal Maker: Someone who's passionate about God and serving others.
    Deal Breaker: Immaturity (e.g. emotional immaturity). I don't want to be dating a child.

    • @sworduser5086
      @sworduser5086 6 років тому +13

      30% of people saw this and ran crying.

    • @Athenagoddessxoxo
      @Athenagoddessxoxo 3 роки тому +1

      amennn!

    • @ChiefCedricJohnson
      @ChiefCedricJohnson 3 роки тому +1

      Matthew 7:15
      Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

    • @vanessarenae5169
      @vanessarenae5169 3 роки тому +1

      I've been the immature one because of child trauma and emotional and verbal trauma from my marriage. But I'm growing out of immaturity, and looking at the reasons why I am so reactive and defensive. The lord can help those plus who are struggling with growth.

  • @ashad1404
    @ashad1404 6 років тому +709

    That honesty vs transparency piece was GOOD!!!

  • @kenishamullen3887
    @kenishamullen3887 6 років тому +629

    I think that singles have a hard time with the season they are in because the church and the world makes it seem like there's something wrong with you when you aren't married or dating. People will ask you or tell you you're so pretty and smart and this and that I'm surprised no one has picked you up and it makes it seem like man is there something wrong because no one has decided to put a ring on my finger.

    • @marta0929
      @marta0929 6 років тому +57

      Not just church, I think it just happens a lot in our society in general. Not just with marriage, with school, career, life goals expectations (fancy cars, owning a home by a certain age) etc

    • @kenishamullen3887
      @kenishamullen3887 6 років тому +24

      Marta Perek-Blose you're right. People place their goals on others.

    • @VenChrl
      @VenChrl 6 років тому +10

      kenisha mullen that’s exactly how I’m feeling... even family members be surprise

    • @gisselcoutinho1751
      @gisselcoutinho1751 6 років тому +34

      In my opinion I feel like it would be society.Society makes it seem like we need someone,but in reality if we have God we have everything we need

    • @thetoughgroup
      @thetoughgroup 5 років тому +29

      To be fair, sometimes there IS something wrong with us which might explain our solitude. This is an exercise in self-improvement and self-awareness. A partner or spouse is not a reward for being ready for one, but the absence thereof might be due to our own issues that we need to resolve.

  • @cattydyall5566
    @cattydyall5566 6 років тому +315

    i love it when she said"Marriage is not a reward for doing something right and singleness is not a punishment" love that

  • @gregmorrell2792
    @gregmorrell2792 5 років тому +248

    I am 17 years old and I have never been on a date. I started watching these a couple of months ago and stopped. I picked it up again yesterday. There is a girl I love and who loves me and Because of these videos and God using Pastor Mike as a vessel I am becoming a better godly man every day. I don't watch sermons online, but I love these. I am tearing these apart because doing a relationship the right way is something I want. Something I'm certain that most Christian's want. Thank you for showing me how to do this the right way

    • @lawandstreeter7074
      @lawandstreeter7074 5 років тому +2

      @greg morrell What a blessing you are in! Stay focused hun and i hope it works out for you!

    • @gregmorrell2792
      @gregmorrell2792 5 років тому +3

      @@lawandstreeter7074 we broke you for a month and miraculously met an event where she was sorry for everything she said and did and we have been given another chance. Someday we want to get married. She isn't the same person I knew. My parents have restricted me talking to her and it's so very hard on but I'm not giving up faith

    • @sylviarwenyo2882
      @sylviarwenyo2882 5 років тому +1

      @gregmorell God's got you bro

    • @wltruesdale5632
      @wltruesdale5632 4 роки тому +2

      @Greg Morrell here's another great resource The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? www.amazon.com/dp/1434704890/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_IPypEbSSW1BBP

  • @ThrivewithJesus
    @ThrivewithJesus 6 років тому +834

    37 yrs of marriage??? She looks 37 😳

  • @marleejohn3519
    @marleejohn3519 6 років тому +369

    0:00 "How many people have been blessed by this sermon series?" *Raises both hands... even though I'm at home.. in Canada...* Haha but honestly though, this series is BLESSING me in more ways than I can express!! Thank you Jesus for leading me here and I pray God continues bless this ministry!!

    • @allthingsberyl7715
      @allthingsberyl7715 5 років тому +4

      Oh my gosh I did the same thing 😂😂...but I am at home in Ghana 🇬🇭

    • @versatility6762
      @versatility6762 5 років тому +2

      Oh my,God I'm also in Ghana.
      God continue to bless this ministry

    • @xbc.03someone56
      @xbc.03someone56 5 років тому +1

      I just died😂😂😂😂

    • @evelynaaspidov123
      @evelynaaspidov123 5 років тому +2

      Same! I have been mmmmhhhmmming and amening all though this series!

  • @queenjazmyne
    @queenjazmyne 6 років тому +208

    Deal breaker :Inability to communicate
    Deal maker: God centered leader

  • @dustylee526
    @dustylee526 6 років тому +801

    This "Relationship Goals" series is so amazing. God brought me right to this series as I partake on a new journey of celibacy and my continued length of singleness. I have been ready to have kids and get married, but didn't realize me being single is great to find myself "before the person. I've dealt with loneliness while being single and feeding my loneliness with fornications. So thank you Pastor Mike and Natalie Todd for these videos. Thank you for allowing your testimonies and services be recorded and shared with the world. All the time I'm on UA-cam and I never seen you all before. When I tell you God introduced this video to me in the right time of my life. Thank you all for the help during this journey I'm beginning.

    • @nimuyreemu3723
      @nimuyreemu3723 6 років тому +3

      Dusty Lee I have been there too...feeling and battling serious condemnation..

    • @thatgirljo2119
      @thatgirljo2119 6 років тому +1

      same.

    • @noellefraser6029
      @noellefraser6029 6 років тому

      Amen sis

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 6 років тому +1

      Dusty Lee I did the and thing. I suppose to got married but he wasn't the one right for me. Now I will celibacy journey like I was and continue my relationship with God.

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 6 років тому +1

      Dusty Lee Man I understand the struggle everything we go thru always lesson and keeps me strong.

  • @jakeyaspencer1604
    @jakeyaspencer1604 6 років тому +557

    How did I get to Part 5 in only two days?! This has been blessing me tremendously. This delivery and level of understanding is crazy. I have been learning so much about myself as well as God - especially as it pertains to relationships. Thank you Pastor Mike, thank you God.

    • @Ashleyunfiltered
      @Ashleyunfiltered 6 років тому +6

      JaKeya Baker I said this to another commenter but honestly if you love this pastor as much as I have and you haven’t watched the “grace like a flood” series .. you are missing out
      Not a lot of people are aware of it because it was a couple years ago and doesn’t have as much views as this series but it deserves it ! Trust me on that . Especially if you want to understand and start learning more about who god is

    • @EpisTrader
      @EpisTrader 6 років тому +2

      ItsurGurlAshalay2008 I’m just watching this series now. And I’ll mostly likely watch that as well 🙂

    • @andreacarter367
      @andreacarter367 5 років тому +1

      Me too

    • @MsMonaaa14
      @MsMonaaa14 5 років тому

      Same😂😂

    • @3fizzo
      @3fizzo 5 років тому

      Lol me too i love it this is actually the first teaching series i ever sat through and was interested in

  • @fabiraguha4246
    @fabiraguha4246 4 роки тому +55

    I'm 18 years old in France and that serie is so precious for our generation!

  • @nazineful
    @nazineful 6 років тому +401

    I just can't get over the wisdom in this series!!!!

    • @lifewithsimone8704
      @lifewithsimone8704 6 років тому +6

      nazineful Ashley & Carrington on UA-cam do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!

    • @nazineful
      @nazineful 6 років тому +1

      Awesome, thanks for that!

    • @nickandchrismom
      @nickandchrismom 6 років тому +1

      nazineful indeed, wisdom in abundance

    • @OphiiZZ
      @OphiiZZ 6 років тому

      Girl that part !

  • @arlenawabule51
    @arlenawabule51 6 років тому +202

    watched this everyday and I have fallen in love about being single. still waiting but enjoying this time with my Jesus 😊

    • @anatasciamohlomi2766
      @anatasciamohlomi2766 5 років тому +3

      Same here....the first one was just for me.... I love my current state n I am content

  • @kish218
    @kish218 6 років тому +82

    Honesty and Transparency:
    When I first met my fiancé, we had a conversation through a wall, like literally not seeing each other’s faces. I just realized, how we was so transparent that time. He told me about his life (his family and all that) without me asking me anything about it. Am amazed, how he confided me all those stuff. 3 years of being good friends, 2 years officially dating, 2 years being separated (I went to pursue my dreams, the season of my singleness I got more intimate with God). Now we are into the engagement stage, and we both are preparing for marriage, spiritually, mentally and financially.
    God is so good!

  • @InyeneUkpe
    @InyeneUkpe 5 років тому +106

    I'm currently dating..but I just recently became content in my singleness!! Thank you Transformation church! Love from Nigeria!!

  • @1rperry68
    @1rperry68 6 років тому +184

    This was so good! I’m 49, never married & this blessed me! Let’s me know I’m doing something right for a change!

    • @ChiefCedricJohnson
      @ChiefCedricJohnson 3 роки тому +1

      Matthew 7:15
      Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

  • @genesisnunez7629
    @genesisnunez7629 6 років тому +358

    I need to attend this church. I need God.

    • @shawil5818
      @shawil5818 6 років тому +31

      Glitchez is right. However, it is good to find a wholesome, wise, loving church (building) in order to fellowship with those who are like-minded. Church is a place to learn.

    • @brandonballard7472
      @brandonballard7472 6 років тому +5

      Let’s go!! I need to also😂

    • @ChillAndOutTheWay
      @ChillAndOutTheWay 5 років тому +5

      I pray that you've found Him! He is the BEST thing smokin' and such a life giver! Lifting your name in prayer that you invite our AMAZING God into your heart and He just blows your mind like only He can do!

    • @vanessaveiga9257
      @vanessaveiga9257 5 років тому +9

      We are the church. Together. Has nothing to do with a building

    • @myoldchannel0
      @myoldchannel0 5 років тому

      Where is it at?

  • @LifebyJazzieey
    @LifebyJazzieey 4 роки тому +64

    I’m going through a break up rn. This series has helped me to see that God is really and truly working through me. And through my singleness as of now

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you God bless you richly

    • @BaileyBeck811
      @BaileyBeck811 2 роки тому

      Same lovie!

  • @Kdanielle
    @Kdanielle 3 роки тому +16

    The couple that’s been married for 37 years....I could listen to the husband all day. Good wisdom

    • @pastormichaeltodd7834
      @pastormichaeltodd7834 3 роки тому +1

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +234 9156047151 ) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.............

  • @sairathealchemist
    @sairathealchemist 6 років тому +239

    omg I can't help but notice how these couples favor each other in looks and style lol I loved it .

    • @ellauglov8891
      @ellauglov8891 6 років тому +5

      Saira Jackson yesss!! i love it

  • @lexiks1367
    @lexiks1367 3 роки тому +14

    I am 25 and newly single. I’ve always struggled with being content as a single woman. Thinking that sex meant love, and confusing my single time with being deprived of love. I also thought that I’d find my husband through sex. This series has helped remind me of Gods love for me, and that my husband will be a Godly man, but I need to do ALOT of work before I can even get there. Thank you transformation church. I feel the Holy Spirit and love in all of these messages.

  • @thespiritualgospel555
    @thespiritualgospel555 6 років тому +177

    This really blessed me & my sons father we have decided too separate until we marry & are practicing celibacy & putting god in the center of our relationship this go around we are young & we want too make sure we do it the correct way this time thank you so much I took so many notes too help me become a great wife too my husband 🙏🏾

    • @lovelyjolie22
      @lovelyjolie22 6 років тому

      Bria Bri ok yess I have 2 kids by the same man but unfortunately he is also Muslim so what do I do? 😔

    • @steadwin1
      @steadwin1 6 років тому +7

      If I may, he is still a man and I assume your husband. Keep God first in your life and let God do the transforming. As stated in the previous series, you have to take care of the single you first with God on the inside. It was also stated that one woman with God on the inside can save a whole house. But through it all, remain a good wife and if not married yet, remember the advice given and be ready for when you do say "I do".

    • @Blaq_butterfly
      @Blaq_butterfly 4 роки тому

      Proud of you. It’s never too late to change things up💯

    • @mayajones6714
      @mayajones6714 4 роки тому

      Amazing 😉 God bless you for honoring Him!

    • @Applied_Pressure
      @Applied_Pressure 3 роки тому +2

      That's awesome. My partner and I seperated and thankfully we are coming back together... but this time in a faith based relationship including celibacy. I'm so pumped to be doing it this way.

  • @sarahfriedman2316
    @sarahfriedman2316 6 років тому +82

    Why is no one talking about Pastor Natalie's contour/highlight? Girl! You are glowing!
    WORK IT!

  • @vanessalaurelgibson5640
    @vanessalaurelgibson5640 6 років тому +72

    After her divorce, God showed her how He was a provider she saw the hand of God in her finances while she was single. I can attest to this in my very own life! I'm in the process of learning how to be content in my singleness!

  • @BlessedByHisGrace7
    @BlessedByHisGrace7 6 років тому +113

    “Love grows with knowledge “ yessss Lord! 🙏🏾

  • @shyrleimartinez2632
    @shyrleimartinez2632 6 років тому +51

    "love grows with knowledge. you have to learn to love someone. your love for god grows with knowledge. as you begin to experience god, you learn to love god. when god takes you to deep places and brings you out my soul looks back in wonder how i got over."

  • @MutterallerDrachen2087
    @MutterallerDrachen2087 6 років тому +17

    As a single person, who only recently felt called to marriage, I wanted to answer the question on how to be content in singleness. Totally agreed with Ms. Wilson. I found contentment in healing and being self aware and taking care of myself. I learned what I enjoyed, learned how to take care of my physical health. I love to run now. It’s my me time and helps me deal with stress. I found friends who have my back most of which are married. But I have my group. I tried new things. I traveled. Nationally. Internationally. I found what centers me in stress. How I cope. I found my purpose; I found my strength and place. Which has made me secure, and has prevented a lot of potential heartaches.

  • @gee9342
    @gee9342 6 років тому +444

    He said FEMININITY and yes, it is a word!

    • @tajj13
      @tajj13 6 років тому +90

      But he said Femiminity lol

    • @violetgutierrez5315
      @violetgutierrez5315 6 років тому +22

      Tiffi 😂😂😂I laughed so hard

    • @lboggans1
      @lboggans1 6 років тому +10

      Yea, but i think the meaning he gave was a bit off. At work by definition is the expression of Womanhood or womanliness, feminine ways.

    • @odneybaptista6981
      @odneybaptista6981 6 років тому +1

      Ge E B

    • @brandiewilliams8707
      @brandiewilliams8707 6 років тому +1

      YEEAAASSS, it sis a word...lol. BUT, his response was awesome

  • @IjeomaUnegbu
    @IjeomaUnegbu 6 років тому +311

    Wow. I love this series!! So much wisdom! Thank you God. Thank you Transformation Church.

    • @lifewithsimone8704
      @lifewithsimone8704 6 років тому

      Ashley & Carrington on UA-cam do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!

    • @IjeomaUnegbu
      @IjeomaUnegbu 6 років тому +1

      Awww, thanks a lot! I love Ashley and Carrington too!!! I've seen a couple of their videos. Thanks again! :)

    • @alymdiaburch776
      @alymdiaburch776 6 років тому

      Ijeoma Unegbu in

  • @mcmic1212
    @mcmic1212 6 років тому +65

    "I was a man before I got married and I was a man after I got married." 🤣🤣 FACTS!

  • @TheGreta2400
    @TheGreta2400 6 років тому +192

    This series is soo good. I'm home sick today but I discovered this and I'm binge watching. I've never had a word that I can't wait to get to the next part...truly a Blessing.🙏

  • @HubbaDoc
    @HubbaDoc 6 років тому +43

    Pastor Barbara was amazing. I’m 35 and just experienced a divorce and that is true it is not the end and you can be so free within the process! That was encouraging

  • @tshepisonjikelane2994
    @tshepisonjikelane2994 4 роки тому +21

    2 years later, I am listening to this amazing series and my life has been changed ever since. I listen to each episode 3 to 4 times and I just can't get enough. I can't wait for the book. What a time to be alive in Christ!

  • @brandychristian922
    @brandychristian922 6 років тому +220

    I'm cracking up at how everyone is cracking up at him for using a word that they don't know😂😂😂

    • @charismam4059
      @charismam4059 6 років тому +5

      Brandy Christian that was too funny

    • @bernak4541
      @bernak4541 5 років тому +11

      Lol also coz he was saying it wrong 🤪

    • @busisaxulu9922
      @busisaxulu9922 5 років тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Applied_Pressure
      @Applied_Pressure 3 роки тому

      Yes, because he DID say the word wrong lol

    • @rochelle1199
      @rochelle1199 3 роки тому

      @@pastormichaeltodd6576 Please stop spreading false prophecies on every other comment.

  • @markiekot
    @markiekot 5 років тому +41

    "Cause I know I look good!" Yes Pastor Barbara, you're my mood goal , having more confidence then all these insta models out here, at 67?? She just won in life for me and Jesus is the source of it

    • @estherkitabire8609
      @estherkitabire8609 4 роки тому +1

      This is one of the best part of a very transparent needed godly conversation!

  • @tisha7252
    @tisha7252 6 років тому +281

    Never fail to disappoint... The different perspectives are VERY helpful.

    • @lifewithsimone8704
      @lifewithsimone8704 6 років тому +5

      All That Is Good Ashley & Carrington on UA-cam do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!

    • @tisha7252
      @tisha7252 6 років тому

      Thank you SO much for pointing me in a good direction. I will check them out! I appreciate it! Have an abundantly blessed day!

  • @chevornbishop8366
    @chevornbishop8366 4 роки тому +11

    As a 20 year old this having this series in my life is unspeakable joy, for I know this will build my foundation within all my relationships

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @annalisarascon
    @annalisarascon 4 роки тому +20

    26 years old, and started this series! So good, thank you for being honest in your sermons 🙌🏼💕 #singlenessseason #embraceit

  • @SchneierViktor
    @SchneierViktor 6 років тому +20

    Pastor Mike!! You just saved my marriage with this series!!! Thank you for your heart in Jesus!

  • @creatvambition1090
    @creatvambition1090 2 роки тому +5

    I love how God shows up and gives me exactly what’s needed for growth and maturity. I love the different levels of wisdom on this panel. Faith and Focus 🔥 🔥

  • @nancygachoki3797
    @nancygachoki3797 Місяць тому +2

    20/9/202
    Honest. Vs transparency
    Singleness is not a punishment
    Trust God to develop you and teach you how to love 👏👏👏
    Be real to our self 🙏
    Be honest with God
    Faith in God and focuse
    Good bless you pastor Mike and the team may God visit you in times of need .Thankyou for insights

  • @breeb5913
    @breeb5913 6 років тому +233

    I've been watching this series non-stop!! so amazing!

    • @lifewithsimone8704
      @lifewithsimone8704 6 років тому +1

      Bee B Ashley & Carrington on UA-cam do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!

    • @danij376
      @danij376 6 років тому

      Me too!!

    • @nickandchrismom
      @nickandchrismom 6 років тому

      Bee B yeeeeeeeeeessssssssss! GREAT series, great church.

    • @Ashleyunfiltered
      @Ashleyunfiltered 6 років тому

      You think this is amazing !!! Watch the grace like a flood series . A series that was made couple years ago that not a lot of people are aware of compared to this series but it’s just as amazing as this one ❤️ seriously this pastor is gonna save this generation

  • @nikiasharif4147
    @nikiasharif4147 6 років тому +161

    I am very intrigued by the couple who decided to submit their relationship under leadership while staying committed to dating intentionally. Do they have a channel or any resources to explain this process and why they chose to take this route?

    • @ta_reesa1251
      @ta_reesa1251 5 років тому +33

      I think this would be a great vlog or something...that singles can learn and grow from.

    • @martumadrazo1450
      @martumadrazo1450 4 роки тому +8

      I hope this is not to late, i know two Christian couples here in youtube, search for Paul and Morgan, Nate&Sutton they teach mainly about godly relationships ❤️

  • @ginasineni3309
    @ginasineni3309 6 років тому +154

    You are amazing. God is amazing. Transform Church is amazing. I am Abundantly happy that God placed your video in my feed at JUST the right time. May God continue to bless you and your family.

    • @lifewithsimone8704
      @lifewithsimone8704 6 років тому +2

      Gina Sineni Ashley & Carrington on UA-cam do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!

  • @karolininfante6553
    @karolininfante6553 6 років тому +69

    great diversity of wisdom, I love how you all come together to help each other and support. that's what a family Church is all about!!😘😘

  • @ashleye2835
    @ashleye2835 4 роки тому +11

    When you're single, but you learn something useful from each person on here. Thank you for this and this series as a whole!!!

  • @nickaylawilliams2419
    @nickaylawilliams2419 2 роки тому +3

    This series came out a few years ago and today in the season I am, as uncertain as things seem.. I am learning to say "God I do not know what this means, but I trust you." Growth is sometimes painful but it is necessary, perspective and wisdom is just as difficult to gain... BUT GOD!!! God is greater... He is an all-knowing and merciful God. God bless Transformation church and Ps Mike for ensuring that these things are addressed.
    By far the most moving panel discussion I've watched. Grateful!

  • @911Getsome
    @911Getsome 5 років тому +4

    I am a 55 yr old male. I was married for 27 years and I have been divorced for the past 8 years. I have been struggling through the dating scene and have been ignoring Gods plan for my life. It is with tears in my eyes that I listen to this amazing young man teach an old dog am new way to fulfilling happiness Gods way. The only true way to happiness. I can’t begin to thank you enough for this series. Your words are truly inspired by God. Bless you !!!

    • @moniquegalloway5602
      @moniquegalloway5602 3 роки тому

      Amen that message and series change you around i know that i am late i am watching this in 2020 December 14,2020 i am singleness but have daughter that teenager 18 year old but living with mom. i was young been mother at 24 year old not be married been wedlock i am 46 year old so i am trying do better . christian man only. this is helping growing to close to God churches have doesn't talk like this for series that you have watching online to listening untied states church services. i am Toronto,Ontario Canada.

  • @terac8871
    @terac8871 6 років тому +13

    This was an amazing series. I'm currently divorced and have been feeding my loneliness with ungodly relationships, because of my brokeness. Thank you for showing me that being single and alone is two different things and that this is a time to rediscover myself and allow the spirit of God to fill me. This series was such a blessing and came right on time ! We need more of this type real world teachings in churches.

    • @SuccesswithLatoya
      @SuccesswithLatoya 6 років тому

      Tera Collins Amen hun, I’m in the same boat but after discovering Master Todd and this series I’m filled with much of Gods Unconditional Love! And more.

  • @cairagraves1555
    @cairagraves1555 6 років тому +31

    I came across this series at the perfect time. I was feeling so lost and so lonely and this has helped me so much thus far. I can't wait to continue to listen!

  • @Somebody02594
    @Somebody02594 5 років тому +5

    listening to this message truly opens my eyes to how backward the world truly is in the eyes of God and how much work and willpower it actually takes to be a true, full-blown Christian... honestly... its no joke.
    I'm watching this in 2019 and it's like, 2 years later the message is still so valid...honestly...
    dang.
    Thank God for the internet and this church. Honestly speaking. I'm so grateful.

  • @Capeverdeprc
    @Capeverdeprc 6 років тому +19

    This series has been Blessing me! I'm divorced and have been for 2 years we were separated for 3. I tried dating sometime after the divorce and found myself not getting what I thought I wanted...and the entire time God wanted ME all to HIMSELF! I'm happily Single and enjoying this season God has me in

  • @tumeloramolula8495
    @tumeloramolula8495 5 років тому +22

    Am I the only one who died when he said "feminiminy"??? I Loooove this series dou! Praise God for this!

  • @LadyJuly65
    @LadyJuly65 6 років тому +42

    I love the transparency of the panel. Than you for sharing your hearts. I know this series has truly helped some people.

  • @marisajuarez3337
    @marisajuarez3337 5 років тому +71

    I want to learn more about the intentional friendship and intentional dating

    • @cheybrown3063
      @cheybrown3063 4 роки тому +2

      Marisa Juarez
      Honestly!!! I want to know more about this and how to apply - what does it entail!

    • @abigailcaesar8332
      @abigailcaesar8332 4 роки тому +10

      @@cheybrown3063 From my perspective intentional friendship is where you learn about that person in depth and up personal, no touching, lol nothing vertical, you go into it knowing that its a friendship and your getting to know that person like a true friend not letting lust and hormones get in the way of that.

    • @cheybrown3063
      @cheybrown3063 4 роки тому

      Abigail Caesar
      Thank you! X

  • @uluamsam
    @uluamsam 6 років тому +64

    "When you have faith and focus, you win!!" 52:53

  • @kazygrl
    @kazygrl 6 років тому +12

    I've been binging this series for the past few days! I'm going through a breakup and this is breathing hope into me. I recently had an epiphany that I suffer from codependency, I come from a broken and dysfunctional family, I've always tried to use relationships to help me feel whole. I'm learning that God is the only one that can do that for me. This series is helping me to understand what a healthy relationship looks like.

  • @millicenttau
    @millicenttau 2 роки тому +4

    God led me to this series because he’s preparing me for kingdom marriage and I’m honestly learning SO MUCH! This is so good.

  • @dreeberry9329
    @dreeberry9329 6 років тому +39

    HEATED FELLOWSHIP...love the choice of words

  • @princessyoryor
    @princessyoryor 5 років тому +9

    Watching this has blessed me so massively..as a 17 year old i have so many questions about relationships and i have made a lot of mistakes in the past..listening to this has answered every of my question and given me a new and fresh strenght and hope to start all over again in the right way. Thank you Jesus❤

  • @mandisa8429
    @mandisa8429 2 місяці тому

    Pastor Michael is so real!!!!! These videos make me miss going to church every Sunday. he jokes about reality but it honestly hits home.

  • @LuxuriousGlamourStudio
    @LuxuriousGlamourStudio 5 років тому +9

    LOOK AT GOD! Suddenly I feel so content being single. I pray this lasts until God brings the right one. Pastor A & his wife especially the husband that we got to hear a lot from, mannn that WISDOM! This why I love transparency if only our churches & pastors & parents where this open & Godly with these subjects with us. 👏🏾👏🏾🙆🏽

  • @lboggans1
    @lboggans1 6 років тому +42

    Very good discussiin. FULL of wisdom. I will be making my 20 year old and 13 year old watch this series. Yup, knowledge is power.

    • @nwalker2619
      @nwalker2619 6 років тому

      Yes, I have 4 teenagers, better believe they will be listening to this whole series. I wish I had this when I was a teen. But God is a God of second chances. I'm single again and want to do it right this time.

    • @gisselcoutinho1751
      @gisselcoutinho1751 6 років тому +3

      Im 15 And listening to this whole series.Its pretty good to help me for my future

  • @tikkasharay
    @tikkasharay 6 років тому +112

    The name of the book is "The Right One: How to successfully date and marry the right person" by Jimmy Evans

    • @mahlatsenkoana1117
      @mahlatsenkoana1117 4 роки тому +5

      Thank you. Been going through the comments hoping to see this🙏

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC 2 роки тому +2

    “While marriage is a blessing, marriage is not a reward for doing something right and singleness is not a punishment for not doing something.”
    I felt that!

  • @katlynnparmiter56
    @katlynnparmiter56 5 років тому +3

    I continuously come back to this series as I progress through relationship, not only with my boyfriend, but with friends as well. And it continually pushes me and brings me back to reality. Like he was saying “being content” is something I struggle with for sure. I need to love the season I’m in before I can move on to the next, otherwise it will never be enough. I’ll continuously look for the next thing.

  • @Disciple816
    @Disciple816 3 роки тому +2

    I'm 41 an I've been married 4 times lol🤦‍♀️ but my last husband passed away . I've been watching the series an I just love his excitement about God an the marriage an the way it can an should be . This is very encouraging to me. I love this thank you

  • @ieyeshiabates3556
    @ieyeshiabates3556 5 років тому +3

    “Singleness is not a punishment” 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽 it would be good for my generation to realize this

  • @analyssarivera2314
    @analyssarivera2314 4 роки тому +2

    I've gained so much value from this entire series. I am always forwarding a sermon from this series to a new friend. Thank you for your honesty and wisdom. It's really helping me find comfort in the season of singleness. I am learning to find security in God and in myself during this season. One of the biggest blessings is finding out my identity in Jesus instead of being wrapped up in the feeling of discontent. Thank you all 🙏🏽

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 роки тому +4

    Singleness is not a punishment! 🙌🏼💯 YES! Enjoy the season you are in. Trust God’s timing and trust His word! 🙏🏼✨

  • @rachelturenne
    @rachelturenne 4 роки тому +7

    Watching this as a 31 year old, going through a divorce, being a mom to littles, and this whole series has been a great blessing!

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you,God bless you richly

  • @jileanfabien9479
    @jileanfabien9479 6 років тому +66

    Practical leads to progress. Love it...

  • @booth4one611
    @booth4one611 4 роки тому +1

    I have learned a lot from this series. God is really blessing the nondenominational churches, this was so needed and people really NEED THIS...

  • @2sto3s
    @2sto3s 6 років тому +6

    @37 years My God. ..... brought me to tears of joy

  • @morganferguson857
    @morganferguson857 6 років тому +11

    This series has changed my perspective on life. Thank you pastor mike I love the fresh different energy you bring to preaching!

  • @SchelleyBoyd
    @SchelleyBoyd 4 роки тому +3

    Watching this on July 30, 2020 at 11:12 a.m. I just got off of work but my focus is Christ! I am a single mother of a 1 year old great little boy. I am getting over my son's father and finding it intentional to continuously work on me and my relationship with Christ! Pastor Mike has/is helping me!

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you God bless you richly

  • @tashiadavis9884
    @tashiadavis9884 6 років тому +1

    This panel was GREAT! so many nuggets of truth. Wow...A few key nuggets: 40% of divorces linked to Facebook/social media...wow. There is a difference between honesty and transparency. If you are asked about something you are being honest but if you volunteer information you are being transparent. Surround yourself with people who will be honest and push you guys together. Friends of the opposite sex that's not your spouses friend...asking for insecurity issues...wow...wisdom. I AGREE with this. You must guard and protect your marriage. I knew this but we were not in agreement about what guarding your marriage looks like. This was GREAT!! Nuggets for my future relationship. Thank you!

  • @murieldawkins8295
    @murieldawkins8295 2 роки тому +3

    It’s Jan 2022! I am watching this series. I want to give a shout out to Brenda for so much wisdom and understanding. Thanks for giving me a confirmation about divorce that it is not the end of my life that I will get on my feet and stay strong. Thanks To everyone on the panel and thanks to TC nation

  • @billionshadesgirl
    @billionshadesgirl 3 роки тому +1

    The way I've been getting blessed by the Transformation church these times...
    I just thank God for you all

  • @xklusivtees8750
    @xklusivtees8750 5 років тому +5

    This sermon was right on time!! Honestly I never knew what men NEED and your lovely wife truly helped. My relationship is far from perfect but I know that with God being the focus we can do it. Cannot say thank you enough 💜
    Appreciate your honesty tooooooo and the power of your testimonies give HOPE especially to s.o. like myself who bcuz of theses sermons have decided to accept Christ. My daughter's and I will visit your church (bucket list) because you helped us individually.

  • @candice5566
    @candice5566 5 років тому +3

    The couple in the back left that's dating is a picture of how I want to pursue a relationship. I have never seen anyone date intentionally the way they are. I am 19, I have never had a boyfriend, and I'm starting to be content with that because of these teachings. This series is really changing my life, thank you so much!

  • @nimuyreemu3723
    @nimuyreemu3723 6 років тому +10

    Thankyou Lord for loving me so much...loving me enough to teach me this...
    I KNOW IT IS YOU!!

    • @JaxMchunu
      @JaxMchunu 5 років тому

      Elizabeth Wairimu you and me both!! God is ridiculously kind ❤️❤️❤️!!

  • @YandaaaM
    @YandaaaM 3 роки тому +1

    I'm 18 years old and these entire series has helped me so much. It's preparing me for my dating life as well as my marriage life.
    Thank you so much

  • @cassandragajadhar6599
    @cassandragajadhar6599 6 років тому +8

    Pastor Adrian "took it to church" I absolutely enjoy his contribution (31:53) kinda upset he got cut off because he was going in!!!!

  • @shantavalentine9537
    @shantavalentine9537 3 роки тому +2

    I feel blessed i was feeling and struggling with being lonely 5 years and watching all these relationship goals I’m excited to finish them rain across him on tik tok and downloaded these 😍 pastors don’t really preach this but it’s something we face daily

  • @samanthamoran4283
    @samanthamoran4283 Рік тому +3

    Listening to this I’m seeing the mistakes I made in past relationships

  • @miranda2216
    @miranda2216 2 роки тому +2

    Marriage is a blessing but not necessarily a reward and singleness is not a punishment...I NEEDED THIS!!!

  • @charyse1361
    @charyse1361 6 років тому +83

    I needed this, I needed this, I needed thisssss

  • @Sincerely_a.p.t
    @Sincerely_a.p.t 4 роки тому +1

    These series have really been doing it for me! Pastor Mike Todd you don’t know what a blessing you are to us all.

  • @celinewoodson7440
    @celinewoodson7440 4 роки тому +3

    These series have really made me reflect on my dating life, to do it the right way and Gods way. Been constantly sharing them with my boyfriend and we are growing to get God in the middle of it all. Just praying God continues to lead the way for us

  • @JacqueAustin-z6i
    @JacqueAustin-z6i 4 роки тому +1

    These series have really blessed my life. I unfortunately didn't listen to all of these before I got married and now am feeling stuck, and unsure. I definitely encourage any single unmarried person to take heed to these messages because marriage is a blessing when it's with the right person and these videos help you sift the wheat from the chaff

  • @mimamimidebras6358
    @mimamimidebras6358 6 років тому +19

    This is so good I can't even focus on my studies right now!! Love it.

  • @mariolopez6939
    @mariolopez6939 2 роки тому +1

    I'm watching this at 28. After a failed engagement and the last three years in singleness. I needed to hear some of this. I've been watching this series over a couple of days. I am grateful for this because I have learned so much! Thank you. Just seeing all these couples in different stages and rooted so deep in faith is just inspiring.