Major Keys to Marriage :: Relationship Goals (Part 4)

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  • @michaelwashington9534
    @michaelwashington9534 6 років тому +4152

    I hope I’m not the only guy watching this!! I just wanna do better

    • @msgirly6827
      @msgirly6827 6 років тому +41

      Michael Washington and that is a beginning👏🏿

    • @briagregory1740
      @briagregory1740 5 років тому +39

      That's beautiful

    • @Ecool27
      @Ecool27 5 років тому +12

      Facts

    • @WaserBeh
      @WaserBeh 5 років тому +59

      Ur not alone brotha

    • @blacsamstudio548
      @blacsamstudio548 5 років тому +78

      We in here with you brother

  • @NatalineJ
    @NatalineJ 6 років тому +3571

    I always wondered as a kid who would I look up to. Parents are divorced, grandparents on both sides are divorced. As I grew a little older I realized that I have to look up to God. Plain as day.

    • @erinp.1456
      @erinp.1456 6 років тому +30

      Natalinexo amen amen amen! Say it sis 🙌🏾

    • @deannawyche3278
      @deannawyche3278 6 років тому +29

      Was just turned on to this today. My pastor gave me and my husband the same illustration when we had marriage counseling over 26 yrs ago. We will be celebrating 31 yrs of marriage this year. I give the same advice to young couples about to be married. This series is awesome.

    • @majingana5180
      @majingana5180 6 років тому +41

      Natalinexo, Your case is gonna be way different from that of your parents. U will accomplish what has seemed impossible in your family with God.

    • @NatalineJ
      @NatalineJ 6 років тому +4

      Majin Gana Bless you✨ thanks so much❤️

    • @nickandchrismom
      @nickandchrismom 6 років тому +14

      Natalinexo yes Lord!! We MUST look to God alone. Your marriage will last sis, divorce will not be your portion! Keep seeking God!!!

  • @JillianHardy3317
    @JillianHardy3317 6 років тому +3995

    I am SOOOOOO glad that I have discovered this series while I'm single!

  • @jnr039
    @jnr039 4 роки тому +1514

    Who's here in 2020 during Covid-19?? Blessings to you all.

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 роки тому +645

    "Your relationship with God dictates how all your other relationships go."
    AMEN 👏

    • @pastormichael4139
      @pastormichael4139 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks you for your comment and support. your comment and constant support have brought me this how far. Keep supporting please send me a email for more prayer
      pastordavid264@gmail.com.............................

    • @carolinehampton9973
      @carolinehampton9973 3 роки тому +1

      So true!

    • @laurastewart8702
      @laurastewart8702 2 роки тому

      I really want to appreciate Dr Wiseone UA-cam channel for his powerful love spell that brought my husband back to me after 2years of separation. He left home after we had an argument over a certain mistress he was seeing. He got so mad that he left home without coming home for weeks. I felt bad about everything and I talked to a friend about a possible way to get him back home. She introduced me to Dr Wiseone and I visited his website then I messaged him on his email then I told him my problem. He did the spell and later that day my husband, Harry called and said he wanted to see me. We had lunch together and He told me he wanted me back and he also missed me. He apologized and that was it. I will recommend Dr Wiseone love spell channel to anyone heartbroken or depressed.

    • @blesscoleman
      @blesscoleman 2 роки тому +1

      Is it okay if I screenshoot your comment? It’s so amazing and true and so eye opening

    • @nomvelonomfanelohlophe683
      @nomvelonomfanelohlophe683 2 роки тому

      I felt that too 🛐❤🔥👑

  • @henofit
    @henofit 7 років тому +3199

    many girls and boys NEEDS to watch this instead of "relationship goals youtubers"

  • @isnarasilva8277
    @isnarasilva8277 6 років тому +3053

    Netflix? Nah.
    I have a better series right now!!
    Thank you Lord! ❤

  • @kamiciasmith688
    @kamiciasmith688 5 років тому +1443

    This man is a whole character 😂😂 .. his wife is sooo pretty ❤️

  • @momofthreemunchkins
    @momofthreemunchkins 4 роки тому +884

    Who’s here binge watching during the Covid-19 pandemic? Beats Netflix! This will be sent to any man I allow in my life and he will have to watch this series before he even gets a chance at a second interview. 😂 #relationshipgoals

  • @aprylaevans
    @aprylaevans 5 років тому +822

    “No person can ever give you:
    1. Identity
    2. Purpose
    & No person can ever accept you... God has already done that” 🙌🙏🙌

  • @brizieexo1253
    @brizieexo1253 6 років тому +1405

    Imagine if other 16 yr olds like myself listened to this series and not only tooke notes but employed this knowledge in our lives. The world would be so different. This would be a game changer for not only our generation but those who will come after us.

    • @anna-kw8ft
      @anna-kw8ft 6 років тому +55

      Briziee xo yess! i’m 16. i’ve been taking notes for every part of this series and applying it to my everyday life.

    • @tiffaninicole5395
      @tiffaninicole5395 5 років тому +9

      Amen!!

    • @albertinekabuasa1324
      @albertinekabuasa1324 5 років тому +63

      I’m 16 & I’m glad I’ve found this series because being young I seem to think I know a lot about relationships but I don’t even know the half of it , never in my life again will I give just ANYBODY a chance , I need to see the presence of God in their life & consider moving forward because without God nothing will be made perfect.

    • @anna-kw8ft
      @anna-kw8ft 5 років тому +2

      Albertine Kabuasa YASS

    • @Caleb13M
      @Caleb13M 5 років тому +2

      @@anna-kw8ft amen same here!

  • @_heyimbritt
    @_heyimbritt 6 років тому +1491

    I usually hate what church says about dating and singles so fake and unrealistic advice but this! This was biblical, honest, and realistic. Great series 🖤

    • @conversationswithcassiepau5170
      @conversationswithcassiepau5170 6 років тому +19

      you and me both. i been getting sick of pastors giving us a bunch of theory without the practical part of this whole dating and marriage thing

    • @michellediane4638
      @michellediane4638 5 років тому +4

      YUP FEEL IT 100

    • @victoriaheindel1143
      @victoriaheindel1143 5 років тому +2

      TOTALLY!! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @islandvibe1014
      @islandvibe1014 5 років тому +5

      I felt the same way, they make seem like it’s a sin to talk about this stuff

  • @Apol-los
    @Apol-los 6 років тому +893

    "Satan's plan is to divide and conquer. God's plan is to unite and conquer."

  • @shionafernandes4343
    @shionafernandes4343 4 роки тому +267

    His wive is kinda a quiet person and he is like a real extrovert person. Perfect match😂❤

  • @makenasimani4688
    @makenasimani4688 2 роки тому +131

    Watching this 4 years later when she says she is done having babies and now with baby no.4👶🏾😊. God always has the final say

  • @netoantoinette5877
    @netoantoinette5877 6 років тому +736

    'The faith of one person in the household can save the entire family' - Amen. Lord give me the grace

  • @banyamah
    @banyamah 6 років тому +1640

    Lol his wife is sooo patient

    • @marta0929
      @marta0929 6 років тому +115

      because she is STRONG :D

    • @rforsyth64
      @rforsyth64 6 років тому +107

      Right! i'd be like... can you let me talk.....rolls eyes LOL!

    • @ketwannawalker4106
      @ketwannawalker4106 6 років тому +155

      They balance one another

    • @chinemeremudoh3732
      @chinemeremudoh3732 5 років тому +40

      She is!!! Lolol. Pst Mike is animated.

    • @marshajg
      @marshajg 5 років тому +6

      Ikr!

  • @sairathealchemist
    @sairathealchemist 6 років тому +1476

    I love how transparent they are about their sex life....seriously. I feel like a lot of pastors come to church and act like they arent that way when they have sex with their spouses. I mean....c'mon

    • @zgetahun
      @zgetahun 6 років тому +103

      This is a HOT (Humble. OPEN and transparent!!!) church....pastor Mike is funny and not like any other pastors we are all accustomed too...those who show up to church looking like they don't do anything with their spouses...

    • @cindyanne5201
      @cindyanne5201 6 років тому +48

      i love how they're true and real and just no "too_holy_to_talk_about_it" attitude...

    • @Its.bribeauty
      @Its.bribeauty 5 років тому +29

      But have 6 kids 😂😂😂😂 how?

    • @myoldchannel0
      @myoldchannel0 5 років тому +7

      @@Its.bribeauty *"HOW SWAY?!?!"*

    • @beggsnachin
      @beggsnachin 4 роки тому +11

      @classyt20f7 I haven't gotten that far in the video yet but I beg to differ. You may be uncomfortable hearing that and that's fine. But there are those of us that need practical, real world advice. It is HARD to apply these foofy "church words" at times, to actual life. And married lofe includes sex. Are we to just endure... God's presence? Neither is the intention behind marriage. And like it or not, men are biologically designed... Sex is their language. And women have prediminately other needs that initiate sex.

  • @GailDeshawnda
    @GailDeshawnda 4 роки тому +327

    I tried dating an atheist once. He had the sweetest most giving heart, but I knew deep down it would never work. You can't build a relationship out of right and wrong

    • @Emma_Nuella598
      @Emma_Nuella598 4 роки тому +14

      Same thing is happening with me RN.😪

    • @vanessacelis5335
      @vanessacelis5335 4 роки тому +34

      Gail Deshawnda Girl same happened to me. He was the most heartwarming man but..he didn’t believe in God. Broke my heart but I knew I had to let go & let God.

    • @Damnayo
      @Damnayo 4 роки тому +21

      I just got out of a relationship with one literally yesterday. It hurts because he’s the best I’ve had. But he’s missing God in his life. It was a tough decision and I’m feeling more secure in my decision after watching these series.

    • @GUURL101
      @GUURL101 3 роки тому +2

      Woww!!!!! This was almost me too lol

    • @lydiadawit9382
      @lydiadawit9382 3 роки тому +6

      That me right now. I just had to leave the person I thought I was going to marry after dating for a year and this break up is the most painful thing I have ever experienced.

  • @ItsRachelMae
    @ItsRachelMae 4 роки тому +88

    I swear that THIS type of honesty in the church is EXACTLY what we need!

  • @diragurl
    @diragurl 6 років тому +441

    "Choose the Tone that gets you the results you want, not the tone that makes you feel better" FACTS

  • @Ms-Jones
    @Ms-Jones 6 років тому +364

    “Women you are the prophet in your home” #wow

  • @DesCoop
    @DesCoop 6 років тому +1469

    I am obsessed with this series thankyou so much

    • @beautifulj2952
      @beautifulj2952 6 років тому +3

      Des Coop me to girl lol

    • @amariet.887
      @amariet.887 6 років тому +9

      Des Coop yessss, me also🙋🏽‍♀️. I’m just learning about this church and pastor. My sister sent me this link and I’ve been hooked. Lol

    • @kyndallhill36
      @kyndallhill36 6 років тому +3

      I'm with yall! This thing is the bomb!

    • @KendraConyers
      @KendraConyers 6 років тому

      omg me too!

    • @iloveHislove04
      @iloveHislove04 6 років тому

      Meee too!

  • @kasozistuart7734
    @kasozistuart7734 4 роки тому +268

    A female friend referred me to watch part1, because I was going through a stressful moment. I'm now watching part4 and I'm not sleeping until all parts are done. These teachings are very deep. I will always refer to them for reflection and re-alignment. Glory to God 🙏

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому +3

      Listen, I watched 1-4 before sleeping & I'm awake, on to pt5 now.. 💣

    • @colourtheirworld8676
      @colourtheirworld8676 2 роки тому +1

      That’s exactly what I’m doing now. Binge watching it!

  • @BeckyMesser
    @BeckyMesser 4 роки тому +411

    3 things wives need from their husbands:
    -security
    -affection
    -communication
    3 things husbands need from their wives:
    -honor/respect
    -support
    -sex

  • @jayelynsworld9115
    @jayelynsworld9115 6 років тому +448

    I’m glad I’m watching this at age 21 because it allows me to love my singleness and not feel like I have to feel lonely when I can truely love how to love myself.

    • @lindstheteacher1611
      @lindstheteacher1611 5 років тому +11

      Jayelyn Jarrae same! I’m 21 and have never been in a relationship. I love how he still talks about singles too when the topic is “dating” “marriage” or “sex”.

    • @dorian6786
      @dorian6786 5 років тому +3

      Jayelyn Jarrae yes I want to learn about myself and learn to love myself too. Loneliness was the reason why I turned to toxic relo

    • @jefferypowell7777
      @jefferypowell7777 2 роки тому

      Hey this series was good

  • @BabyfaceJaiyeBear
    @BabyfaceJaiyeBear 6 років тому +438

    Christian in the streets
    But a freak in the sheets.
    Haha. I love, love, love how raw and open this testimony is. None of that fake stuff fr.

  • @talorpinkston7269
    @talorpinkston7269 6 років тому +457

    I cannot stop listening, taking notes, and reflecting on my past choices. So thankful for this series.

  • @stephaniejovine2440
    @stephaniejovine2440 11 місяців тому +8

    Omg I love this series. I'm just watching this 6 years later but am so grateful! Mike Todd is Hilarious! I'm so glad this couple has been anointed to speak truth in a relatable sense.

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC 2 роки тому +46

    “Your words are either building up the person you want to be married to, or you’re tearing down the person you have to be married to.”
    Bless.

  • @stephaniedelgado1178
    @stephaniedelgado1178 6 років тому +404

    I grew up in a Christian household (and still do) & growing up, my church has never talked about topics like this, but coming across these series has changed my perspective on relationships. I cannot wait to apply these Godly tips to my future boyfriend/husband. ❤️

    • @yeb7997
      @yeb7997 5 років тому +3

      Yepp same here. Stay beautiful btw

    • @gracen4980
      @gracen4980 4 роки тому

      Honestly same!

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому

      Love it.. 💣

    • @brittanycoats-geho3095
      @brittanycoats-geho3095 28 днів тому

      Same. It was never talked about how to date biblically it was just something we were told to do with no roadmap. Or it was just expected. Even as an adult it's never something I've heard this in depth.

  • @thehouseofsolomon
    @thehouseofsolomon 6 років тому +599

    “I’m yo daddy”😂I...CAN...NOT! Please go on tour

  • @smerfett1607
    @smerfett1607 6 років тому +398

    This guy is funny and so transparent. Lol

  • @phionanazziwa563
    @phionanazziwa563 9 місяців тому +3

    These series are a blessing to me and as a generation this what we need to hear pastors talk about. Thank you lord Jesus

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 роки тому +59

    I love how different they are. He's so extra and outspoken & she's so calm and composed 😂❤️

    • @pastormichaeltodd5686
      @pastormichaeltodd5686 3 роки тому

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  • @LinguisticWhispers
    @LinguisticWhispers 6 років тому +577

    My responses are not valid just because there justified 🙌🏿

  • @divinefavor06
    @divinefavor06 6 років тому +156

    “You never can be pulled higher unless you are pulled by something (Someone) higher than you”!!!

  • @GWorld3
    @GWorld3 6 років тому +348

    "I'M YOUR MAN! I'M YOUR DADDY!" LMBOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DONE

  • @bigbapester
    @bigbapester 4 роки тому +62

    Marriage is supposed to be a reflection of the relationship between Jesus Christ and the church.

  • @dominicia254
    @dominicia254 4 роки тому +80

    I just got married to my husband and we only met almost five months ago. Tonight we watched this together as a married couple and we really enjoyed it together. We both love God with all our hearts. Thank you 😊 so much God using them Lord.

    • @obiageliakuma9972
      @obiageliakuma9972 2 роки тому +3

      Am so blessed by this message. God bless you more for preaching this.

    • @leennation
      @leennation Рік тому +2

      🥺now I have so much hope that I can find someone to marry me in less than 6 months and you don't need to date for like 6 years to achieve that❤️

  • @Katana_926
    @Katana_926 6 років тому +606

    I stumbled upon this ministry two days ago and I have been watching ever since. I am catching up on the series and I can truly say.... EVERYTHING that I have seen thus far.... it is good. I thank God for this ministry because it is helping me through things that I have encountered and am going through.

    • @surprisemadula4391
      @surprisemadula4391 6 років тому +1

      Same, It's helping me immensely.

    • @thedebtfreelady
      @thedebtfreelady 6 років тому +2

      Ditto! Found this ministry last week on ig and have been hooked! Been praying about purpose and Pastor Mike has been nonstop on ministering to my soul regarding.

    • @tessjosie6862
      @tessjosie6862 6 років тому

      Me tooo!!!!

    • @Ade419
      @Ade419 6 років тому

      Me too. Exactly two days ago. Pray it blesses you as much as it is me

  • @airielmerritte5589
    @airielmerritte5589 7 років тому +637

    Pastor Mike I don't know if you see these comments, but a month ago God told me to "Fall in love with myself again." I'm still learning what all that entails, but out of the blue my friend DM's part 1 if this series and wow! God has been speaking to me through #RelationshipGoals omg I have been so close to making wrong decisions because of the loneliness in my singlehood, but thank God I have a whole new perspective, a GODLY PERSPECTIVE.

    • @icanonlybeme7053
      @icanonlybeme7053 6 років тому +10

      Airiel Merritte yes! Amen! Same here. God bless you in your transformation.

    • @erickae3768
      @erickae3768 6 років тому +6

      Amen and amen!!!

    • @nickandchrismom
      @nickandchrismom 6 років тому +10

      Airiel Merritte Wow, awesome. This series is BOMB! Furthermore listen to God, keep seeking Him and He'll show you how to love yourself and thy neighbors. Love you in Christ! It is well!

    • @deeps4426
      @deeps4426 6 років тому +1

      God bless you and your friend!!

    • @taylorhill8435
      @taylorhill8435 6 років тому +2

      Holy sprit when down in the DMs🤣

  • @Esther_Ndira
    @Esther_Ndira 6 років тому +286

    It has been 4 days now since I've been listening to this, and I must say that my perspective has changed for the better.Everybody need to listen to this!!!

  • @vanessacruz7373
    @vanessacruz7373 8 місяців тому +3

    2024 and im here watching this and willed with gratitude and wisdom.

  • @alexrosales2357
    @alexrosales2357 5 років тому +198

    3:35 pastor natalie"someone is getting snipped ✂️"
    Pastor Mike "The devil is a liar"
    😂😂💀

    • @JessM20_
      @JessM20_ 5 років тому +10

      That was funny lol😂😂😂

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому

      💀😂💀

    • @justlexyy1
      @justlexyy1 3 роки тому +3

      Lol and he ended up getting snipped

    • @rethabilenxumalo9742
      @rethabilenxumalo9742 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pukhamademosthenes7244
    @pukhamademosthenes7244 6 років тому +1103

    He is so extra lol. 😂😂😂

  • @TheGreta2400
    @TheGreta2400 6 років тому +238

    OMG...I can't stop crying this word was sooo POWERFUL. I wish I had this word when I was married. I did not want to marry because I knew I NEVER wanted to divorce but I thought I had done all I could. So when we divorced it devastated my SOUL & 5 yrs later I'm still Broken because I failed as I believed giving ALL of Me had not been enough. Now I see although he was a minister & we were in church we did NOT know our individual Love languages and we did not continue to make the other persons 'needs' a priority. That failure made me not want to date because I didn't want to marry because I did not want to fail again. This word has given me renewed HOPE because I finally realize where we went wrong & how it can be prevented...Thank You. (HOPE is a powerful thing)

    • @lattymo
      @lattymo 6 років тому +13

      Greta V Bless your heart. Grateful you have been renewed. God is awesome! There is life after divorce

    • @adesuwaosayaren252
      @adesuwaosayaren252 6 років тому +6

      God bless you hun and I will pray for you in this season of healing!

    • @2601selah
      @2601selah 6 років тому +2

      Yes it is! Praise God for your renewed sense of hope! Prayers to you 🙏🏽

    • @dehnysserenee2780
      @dehnysserenee2780 6 років тому +6

      I am going through a divorce right now and it is so devastating, specially because my husband cheated on me. I forgave him in the past for this and he did it again and I realized God was opening the door for me to exit. This series has made me realize why my marriage failed and it can be prevented. I believe that God will make a way for us to find a Godly man that will bring us closer to him in due time.

    • @MillyAkanimo
      @MillyAkanimo 6 років тому +3

      Dea Morales make it work girl, you can savage it. Pray and work towards it. Divorce is not God’s plan for us.

  • @kalariaejindu9104
    @kalariaejindu9104 6 років тому +206

    I need Pastor Mike and Sarah Jakes Roberts in one room ministering! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @empresslyglam5566
    @empresslyglam5566 4 роки тому +30

    This is the first Christian that when out with relationships and sex like this, I respect y’all

  • @jdagrees9609
    @jdagrees9609 5 років тому +52

    I am currently working on my relationship with God and one year celibate but I’m so excited for whoever God has for me 🙏🏾🥰

    • @denishagardener4317
      @denishagardener4317 2 роки тому +4

      That’s a blessing and I’m aiming towards a celibate life why single.…3 months down. You really feel at peace with god and yourself during absence

    • @ayannaafiya599
      @ayannaafiya599 Рік тому +1

      I can't wait for the update from u sis🥺

  • @kimpression_
    @kimpression_ 6 років тому +305

    Bishop Luda and Prophet Usher!!! Say that, Sir!!!!!

    • @keeshabrown7353
      @keeshabrown7353 6 років тому +13

      Kimber Williams He stupid for that one. I was rolling!

    • @jaimarie3481
      @jaimarie3481 5 років тому +7

      I was not ready for that...lmbo

  • @angiegutierrez5141
    @angiegutierrez5141 7 років тому +430

    This is so good Pastor Mike and Pastor Natalie. Since this series started I have been so careful with what I want.

    • @ryansmith7721
      @ryansmith7721 6 років тому +13

      Angie Gutierrez Yes, I already knew I wanted a man with a strong authentic relationship with Christ. Now, after this message, it got deeper. I thank God for them and their message!

    • @cdjaerial4907
      @cdjaerial4907 6 років тому +1

      Angie Gutierrez women should not be pastors

    • @pathugleygreen6052
      @pathugleygreen6052 6 років тому

      +Smith

    • @cmessett11
      @cmessett11 5 років тому +4

      Caleb de Jonge Take it up with God. He is the giver of gifts & ministries.

  • @queenjazmyne
    @queenjazmyne 6 років тому +276

    ❤❤❤❤ I stumbled upon this series and it's absolutely life changing. As a 20 year old woman single I needed this.

    • @machlisaint-vil1450
      @machlisaint-vil1450 6 років тому +10

      yes we on the same boat that will not sink!

    • @joannelopez8809
      @joannelopez8809 5 років тому +6

      No “stumbling” Sister... not a coincidence - but a God-incidence...He meant for you to find this.

  • @lamiilemiya
    @lamiilemiya 2 роки тому +24

    Just a 19 year old Christian girl watching this and honestly loving this!!

  • @dreamtv2710
    @dreamtv2710 2 роки тому +23

    I just turned 17 last month and I've been bingeing this series. I love it so much. I am learning to love and walk with God, and I'm trying to make Him the center of my life by reading His word and praying consistently and meaningfully. I will try my best to incorporate the messages Pastor Mike has shared into my life and make more meaningful and beneficial relationships. I am also learning to love myself after being insecure for years because God made me beautiful, in His own image.

  • @conversationswithcassiepau5170
    @conversationswithcassiepau5170 6 років тому +128

    i been getting sick of pastors giving us a bunch of theory without the practical part of this whole dating and marriage thing but this is so good...

  • @AichaCT
    @AichaCT 6 років тому +136

    i LITERALLY have NEVER heard pastors preach like this i was so SHOCKED but then i was like they must really cared to expose it out there like usually in churches it's all no sex bla bla... but this they really went to places you never thought but very helpful.

    • @evodiemukandila794
      @evodiemukandila794 2 роки тому

      Girl I was SHOCKED too I was like I know he did not just say big papi or daddy. But aye the truth is the truth.

  • @AsiaShanyia
    @AsiaShanyia 6 років тому +204

    im only 18 but this series really speakin 🙌🏿🙏🏿.

  • @SO-ze6hl
    @SO-ze6hl 5 років тому +35

    "My responses are not valid just because I think they are justified." The most amazing and relatable point made in the entire sermon. I love this series and I love his passion for realistic biblical teachings in today's society. Simply amazing!!

  • @jackielerock8727
    @jackielerock8727 4 роки тому +34

    I’m 43 and single, just watching this for the first time and I am so grateful that God has kept me from marriage until now. I would have destroyed my marriage with my brokenness. I’m growing, progressing, and feel like God is preparing me for a marriage that will glorify HIM. It’s not the goal but I’m looking forward to the blessings God has for me as I grow in my obedience to Him. Thank you Pastor Michael for being such a faithful servant of the Lord.

  • @nequeforeverrr
    @nequeforeverrr 5 років тому +279

    I see why you shouldn’t move in with your partner before marriage..

    • @SirSJProduction
      @SirSJProduction 4 роки тому +1

      Why that?

    • @eternitysafro1083
      @eternitysafro1083 4 роки тому +14

      El Jorge Sex before marriage that can lead to child(ren) out of wedlock.

    • @alicekibibi2654
      @alicekibibi2654 4 роки тому +13

      El Jorge because of a deep commitment before the covenant

    • @niyohenriette8002
      @niyohenriette8002 4 роки тому +16

      @@SirSJProduction there is many reasons why, but let me talk about this one. Because God created marriage for a purpose and it should be different from dating to honor God's grace

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому

      💣💣💣

  • @love10l61
    @love10l61 6 років тому +63

    " ... The faith of one person in a household can save their entire family
    Every day ...- Devotion - Prayer - Worship

  • @syrgirl
    @syrgirl 6 років тому +134

    Security also equals having a plan for your future together + being willing to initiate that sometimes difficult conversation. Also, making sure she knows she's the only one for you. I can't tell you how many women feel insecure because their man hasn't cemented it that she is IT for him.

  • @philisiwephomelloshinga1002
    @philisiwephomelloshinga1002 5 років тому +63

    I am 21 and single and I am so glad I came across this series. I listen to 1 sermon each day and I always fill rejuvenated by the end of it. 😫Also Pastor Mike just made me fall in love with the idea of “marriage”. The world has changed the meaning behind this phenomena and I was honestly quarter to quitting this whole “relationship goals” thing.

  • @mandisamoses3281
    @mandisamoses3281 2 роки тому +8

    "the destination isn't marriage, but the finish line is till death do us part"
    I'm 15 and tryna navigate my way through love. So glad I found this!

  • @chrischoiniere1406
    @chrischoiniere1406 6 років тому +85

    Seriously... Everyone read The 5 Love Languages. Even if you aren't in a romantic relationship, it will help with ALL over your relationships.

  • @lillianmbuba5611
    @lillianmbuba5611 6 років тому +659

    "You got more degrees than a thermometer" brooooo I'm shook!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @angel02134
      @angel02134 6 років тому +11

      Lillian Mbuba I was in my feelings about this one. Felt like he came and said it directly to me lol

    • @Transitiontotech101
      @Transitiontotech101 6 років тому +3

      this made me weak.lolllll

    • @jacintacaleb320
      @jacintacaleb320 6 років тому +3

      mate i died right there oi

  • @livedirect4658
    @livedirect4658 6 років тому +147

    It's past 1am and I cannot stop watching this series. So glad I came across this

  • @PilferpupCartoons
    @PilferpupCartoons Рік тому +19

    The honosty in their personalities and relationship really reflects the words they speak. Absolutely a great sermon.

  • @thatonegirlelaine
    @thatonegirlelaine 4 роки тому +22

    They are so wise at their age. I needed this lesson 30 years ago, but better late than never.

  • @sarasundgren9011
    @sarasundgren9011 6 років тому +105

    So good; "No person can ever give you identity, no person can ever give you purpose and no person can ever accept you.. - This is a God-hole no person can fill.. "
    Thank you for sharing Natalie & MIke:) Im so grateful to hear & see real people walking w God sharing their journey very transparent.
    Great you inspired by Jesus want to help people progress, not be perfect..

  • @chrisq9589
    @chrisq9589 6 років тому +71

    I love how Bertha lives in his "rib", I see what you did there Pastor Mike!

  • @derrickraynor4992
    @derrickraynor4992 6 років тому +147

    This series is so amazing, motivational, and inspiring for my future marriage.

  • @cameronmorgan0203
    @cameronmorgan0203 Рік тому +3

    Everything starts with JESUS and ends with Him. Nothing is possible without Him but ALL things are possible with Him 🙋🏾‍♂️👏🏾

  • @jacquelinecurry4912
    @jacquelinecurry4912 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Michael and Natalie Todd- for the vulnerability in sharing these major keys for marriage because of this message I am able to be who God has called me to be for my family. Because of this message my husband is becoming the leader and head of our family, the way God has called him to. THANK YOU!!!

  • @The00Christian
    @The00Christian 6 років тому +49

    I don't know if anyone caught this but I love that throughout this entire message, all of which are truthful and proper (as far as I have looked through the word), that they are just flirting back and forth while still getting the job done. Its honestly really refreshing

  • @rudzanimatosse3625
    @rudzanimatosse3625 6 років тому +70

    These series have literally turned my life around. I now do maximize my singleness and spend more time with my God and myself.. Thank you Pastor Michael

  • @BooTheBibliophile
    @BooTheBibliophile 6 років тому +445

    “Go to yo desk. “ “Do yo work.” “We can quit. Quit. You don’t even need the job.” 😂😂😂

    • @CrystalNicole13
      @CrystalNicole13 6 років тому +1

      E. Hudson smh lol

    • @beccadotelpy
      @beccadotelpy 6 років тому +6

      love that moment!
      22:54

    • @gracebalogun430
      @gracebalogun430 6 років тому +12

      This is true, i was complaining once about a drama i had at my old job to my ex. and he kept saying the exact same thing. then finally said quit your job. you dont need it. All they said is so true about relationships

    • @voguishnarrator5818
      @voguishnarrator5818 4 роки тому +2

      😂

    • @rethabilenxumalo9742
      @rethabilenxumalo9742 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EduardoGoncalvesJ
    @EduardoGoncalvesJ 5 років тому +14

    I prayed to God asking if I should go further in a relationship with a nonchristian girl that I'm dating and I just got the answer. Praise the Lord, cause he is perfect.
    Greetings from Brazil!!

  • @bodytracefit
    @bodytracefit 3 роки тому +5

    🗣HUSBAND…are you watching‼️???????????? This is about to be our FAVORITE SERIES 🙌🏽

  • @2gonurse
    @2gonurse 6 років тому +53

    Her name is Bertha😭😭😭😭.. Man.. this has set me up for a great marriage.. Whomever I marry, I will make his watch this series too 🤭🤭.. Encourage what you want to see in your man.. We r prophetess in our home, we can speak into existence what's not there.. LOVE IT!

  • @allan.ninyesiga
    @allan.ninyesiga 6 років тому +374

    I love it when you call me big papa😂😂😂😂😂 just fell off the couch

    • @lenahevideti7539
      @lenahevideti7539 6 років тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @saskiasingh7383
      @saskiasingh7383 5 років тому +2

      DYING

    • @nursemuthoni
      @nursemuthoni 5 років тому +1

      Allan Guma 😂😂😂😂

    • @samariaepps
      @samariaepps 5 років тому +9

      Allan Guma right! I love how he’s soooo real. This is the type of pastoring we need.

    • @jaimarie3481
      @jaimarie3481 5 років тому +1

      Me toooooooooo....lmbo

  • @tessyisblessedgraceandfavo612
    @tessyisblessedgraceandfavo612 6 років тому +64

    I have never sat down and listened to preaching for hours in and out until I came across your preaching last Wednesday on FB and you have drastically changed my perspective of love and marriage in a Devine way . you have ministered right into my soul and have changed it eternally : your preachings is infectious that you can listened 100 times without getting bored but rather be filled with the Holy Spirit , I wish I had this information when I was married as a young 19 years old girl ; but it’s never too late to learn the right and biblical way of relationship and life as a whole. I have shared ur series with most of my friends and two young daughters to learned and get inspired. I’m blessed to have come to know you dear Pastor. One Important thing I must mention is your have the modern day touch of preaching unlike most other pastors. As I aspire to become one soon , you have confirmed my type of a pastor I would be . Relating to people in a way that no one have dare to relate with out prejudice. I was lead by the Holy Spirit to reach out to to tell you how awesome you are and to continue to reach the neglected folks, young and old . Too many people are depressed and felt like they have let them selves down in relationships, their kids and family that they stayed depressed and isolated fear of being judged and talked about. But God is love and there’s always a come back only when u put God in the center of ur issues at least that’s what I have learned. Jesus is Lord . Thanks again. You are blessed and I thank you . God bless. Tessyisblessed

  • @omoladeadebowale433
    @omoladeadebowale433 5 років тому +21

    My relationship with God determines how my other relationship will be like

  • @sammylg22
    @sammylg22 5 років тому +69

    “Me with out the Lord, I literally suck” HAH! Yes we do! 🙌🏼 I always say this hehe

    • @ChiefCedricJohnson
      @ChiefCedricJohnson 3 роки тому

      Psalms 51:10
      Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.

  • @hannahbondy
    @hannahbondy 6 років тому +159

    I love this Christian series!!! It's real, true and helpful!

  • @clova1978
    @clova1978 6 років тому +40

    She was talking about a technique called feel felt found.
    I was taught this in business.
    I know how you FEEL
    I FELT the same way ( when somebody cut me off in traffic) but here's what I FOUND out..... sometimes when people are having a bad day they project onto you...... if you practice this technique you will be quick on your feet to respond you will always have a response and it actually really works I've used it for years

    • @hindenburg2006
      @hindenburg2006 5 років тому

      You used to work with Cheryl didn't you? :)

    • @sanjaespence1847
      @sanjaespence1847 3 роки тому

      Thank you for this. Sometimes I really don't know what to say to people

  • @KiaaSimone
    @KiaaSimone 6 років тому +152

    No he didn’t hit the “lay your body down”! 😂 took me out! That’s real, pastor!

    • @alexrosales2357
      @alexrosales2357 5 років тому +9

      "Versaceee on the floor" 💀💀💀

    • @Shae93
      @Shae93 4 роки тому

      Yes he did lol

  • @jelicianorwood24
    @jelicianorwood24 5 років тому +19

    I've gotten alot of clarification and now I see God hears me. I'm grateful and I'm fine being single. 😊 I can say 26 that I am so at peace and chill. God got me

  • @jessicamerced9116
    @jessicamerced9116 2 роки тому +8

    Their chemistry is so infectious, natural, and human. I absolutely love these two. This series has been incredibly educational and inspiring! 😊 I am enjoying my season of singleness and look forward to healing completely in our Lord Jesus 🙏 🙌 ❤

  • @RISYQUINTERO
    @RISYQUINTERO 6 років тому +95

    Best Marriage Series EVER!!

  • @yoohtubeloverabc123
    @yoohtubeloverabc123 6 років тому +38

    I am cracking up at Pastor Mike throwing his wife's donut out the window. It's good to know that even they have normal arguments too, although the whole situation was childish and petty lol. I love them so much.

  • @bethanysolomon375
    @bethanysolomon375 6 років тому +62

    "I'M YO DADDY!" - Pastor Mike

  • @woodah33
    @woodah33 9 місяців тому +2

    this is so good. We've all heard of the 5 love languages, but if we as men aim to fulfill all the things our wives need from us, then by default we will be giving in every love language.
    Similar to how Jesus said by loving God and our neighbors we are fulfilling the law He has given.

  • @BaileyBeck811
    @BaileyBeck811 2 роки тому +6

    omg I love how real & funny they are while speaking facts! like the word of God is real! we shouldn’t act like we’re in the 1900s worshipping God. We are in this golden age, where the humor is different, life is different, things are more casual. I love how they don’t filter their amazing personalities in front of God! God had the best sense of humor of them all ! Come on y’all!

  • @BrittIzLegit
    @BrittIzLegit 5 років тому +42

    This type of teaching reminds me of Myles Munroe! I love it.

    • @DrFabulous1
      @DrFabulous1 5 років тому +3

      I think he is a student of Myles munroe b/c I noticed alot of his messages have Myles Munroe undertones. For example, the basis of the past 2 messages in this series; "the importance of Singleness"

    • @marieketteliejeanbaptiste5432
      @marieketteliejeanbaptiste5432 4 роки тому +1

      Riiiight!!!

    • @joannapilgrim
      @joannapilgrim 4 роки тому +1

      But so much more relevant to today and relatable

    • @BrittIzLegit
      @BrittIzLegit 4 роки тому

      @@joannapilgrim he does make it relatable for today's time.

    • @jaykahuri9106
      @jaykahuri9106 3 роки тому +1

      Veeeeery trueee!!!.

  • @chimenebasilwa6484
    @chimenebasilwa6484 6 років тому +57

    Lord Jesus🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 why I didn’t find these series sooner. This is changing my life 😩❤️

  • @icanonlybeme7053
    @icanonlybeme7053 6 років тому +117

    I have been ON this series since yesterday. These messages have really confirmed things and given me new insight. And I have to say...You guys are my new favorite couple! I love the transparency and that you are able to have fun.

  • @TheProverblady
    @TheProverblady 4 роки тому +76

    Who needs netflix or hulu when you have Pastor Mike

  • @naromiesbeninche6975
    @naromiesbeninche6975 2 роки тому +8

    Oh my God. This is so Good. I have been with my Husband for 11 years married for 8. No kids yet(Please pray for me).
    There is a lot that I learn from that session. Thanks a lot 🙏🏿 💓 💗