That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. You my friend is leaving high up in a fantasy land. And guess what, you’ll eventually come down. And when you do, it’ll hurt like hell.
I am an average looking girl and my looks used to bother me, but now I don't care as the goal of life is to make relationship with God not men. It's just the part of life not whole life. I am enjoying my life very well.
Not being prideful here but I have always been a pretty & popular girl and I could get any man I'd want - they just hover around being all sweet or fake! But my heart never felt like "home" with anybody.. i was always restless. That peace came from Jesus and now I have been staying single away from men only waiting for my God's chosen one. You are absolutely on the right track! God has protected us for him and for his chosen one for us ♡ Rest is worthless
God has proven a very useful crutch for humanity for millennia. I'm ugly too. Really didn't date in high school or college days. Yeah, it was lonely. Happily married now with 3 wonderful kids. Things worked out. Obviously many people lean on the illusion of God and a better life to come after death. I get it. It is appealing. It helps. I didn't rely on the tired and easy route. I didn't give up, throw in the towel, and use the God crutch. There is something to be said for that.
I once met a woman at a poetry reading,that was not cute at all.. but she had a queen aura. her husband was like a little puppy dog all over her. He was there for every need. i never forgot that!
But i believe being beautiful, pretty, cute, attractive, etc are all different things. Beautiful is by heart Pretty is by face Cute is by behaviour Attractiveness is by personality Now that aura depends on what one personally feels about oneself. Also a matter of fact most people find themselves Attractive and most people loves their own voice while singing. So at last i believe it depends on how others perceive you and your personality. Also the vibes matters a lot. The vibes of the two must match
She spoke the truth. Im average looking and i have always had to win people over with my personality and behavior. I had a minor glow up at 18-24 but i resented better treatment bc of my looks, so i intentionally made myself look plain. Being an ugly duckling made me cherish people with true good personalities, so i continue to look plain bc i want to weed out the fake people in my life.
I remember doing this myself in college a bit, about not trying to get attention from looks. I didn’t wear makeup on the daily and paid attention to boys who noticed me when I wasn’t wearing makeup. It felt like if I wore makeup and I got attention that it was the makeup and not me.
She's not talking about maintaining relationship, is about the range of men will submit to beautiful woman. Is about how much can you be entitled, by the looks. Not to maintain, but to attract. I think average woman and man who do team work as she said, would have a stable relationship
She never said successful long term stable relationship. Just who can have very high expectations and who don't have to contribute as much in order to attract someone's attention or get men to give them what they want.
I was thinking the same thing. Most wealthy men are simps. That’s who we’re talking about here. Yes, the beauty will attract initially. But a confident man will reject her when she doesn’t reciprocate when he fulfills his role.
Mosta ya that comment about havin more than 6" and are a trained green beret, Navy Seal internet commando fold in real life against your average post teeny bopper.......... let alone A runway model with a sexy body......... don't make me laugh.........
Yeah. The real problem are the simps of the world. If we can end simping, we can end all these issues between men and women. Even feminists can't wild out like they're doing now if all men don't allow it, because most people in government, positions of power, and law enforcement are men.
Often men need to learn the lesson too that just like she says - an incredibly beautiful woman will be after her desires and have him wrapped around her finger. Might be more sensible to find someone who has more of a relational / partner approach. Of course there’s the occasional stunning woman with a great personality that didn’t grow Up to feel entitled to privilege - she s a rare precious stone !
In these days dont matter at all unfort You see couples being made with a click of fingers just because they are attract to each other physically but personality wise the couple doesnt know and then after a while they break up same for marriages
Personality matters if your look is on point. Otherwise if you look terrible but got the best personality on earth nobody cares...they'll still treat you like crap...
I dunno. I’ve seen plenty of gorgeous women get treated like absolute garbage from average looking men. 🤷🏼♀️ I feel like average men should also be realistic and go for average women.
Someone once told me that woman are like new cars. They lose value the instant you drive them off the lot. No matter how beautiful a 10 is, she will lose two points as soon as she's yours, because that's just how hunter mentality works.
@@channel-nv9xcthat's why women are avoiding marriages causing whole male loneliness scenario where men are abusing women online for choosing to stay single which I see all.over the comment sections and "only choosing to settle for those who are compatible with her and also have physical attraction" otherwise stay single for life or die a vrgn. In the past women were forced and rped in marriages which I still see happening in my traditional society..
@@frenzybuzz3703 and sadly a lot of these men on the internet, if it were up to them, would happily reinstitute laws that allowed for women to be forcibly taken as brides by men. Men don't want to step up and be more attractive mates, they want women to submit to their will and obey.
The real problem are the simps of the world. Beautiful women may not be able to keep a great guy for long but they can easily keep a simp as long as they want.
Yeah i think it’s refreshing ! And surprisingly true in this day and age - look at what „influencers“ Represent all over the socials . Unhealthy unrealistic aspirations for young women especially
The smartest women now are learning to teach the men since women have damaged them. The ones who they were men who in for thousands of years, asked out women and lately in the past hundred years or so women think it’s cool to turn them down and complain and wonder why they’re single. But now the smart women will learn to ask them out and over 90 to 200% of out of your 100% I’ll say yes only a small percentage will say no men don’t look at all just we want a woman of Quality real man will love a good woman who is clean Virtuous and true faithful to heavenly father or just lives a clean, good life yes protect yourselves you know who that actually good men are they’re the ones you rejected if you would ask out the good ones who you ignored and thought it was cool to date the negative bad ones you thought you could have fun with but they just discarded you women complain when you date these bad ones Maybe you should rethink and find the good ones there’s a secret if you choose to go ahead and start asking out the good ones you come across 99 to 1000% and more beyond calculation will say yes don’t be foolish and abuse this wise and ask the good ones not everything is about beauty and you should be building up women it’s amazing that you can look down and say oh there’s all these ugly women women that are ugly to us are ones that don’t keep their souls right because a man almost all women are beautiful unless they don’t do what’s right we love almost all women yet you’re putting them down it’s you that’s having a negative image of saying oh they’re ugly when in fact, this attitude that your producing of all these women are ugly that’s what’s ugly. You should look at their beautiful souls and train them and every inspiring way I’ll give you a secret that Jesus will give you if you start choosing to ask out the good men I’ll say yes, they might be in shock and you might have to start teaching them what emotional maturity means that you have to be there for each other during the hard times because there are a lot of those and that’s reality and life but it’s worth it and you can choose to learn to have fun and teach the men how to have fun. Remember a lot of them haven’t been taught with love and happiness is and don’t get to have the glamorous lives at so many of you get to have having fun going around and having friends while men work themselves to death and then get turned down by women who complain and wonder why they’re lonely maybe you should change the paradigm and start asking out the good men, but I’m referring to the women who want to be good women you ask out the good men women who don’t wanna be good women that won’t choose it up and be happy Jesus time if you say the word, fun, fun, fun throughout the day it’ll energetically inspire you to find fun moments teach them in this teach them how to love you thinking today’s world people had parents obviously peoples parents weren’t there for the kids in today’s world must start rebuilding our society on time Jesus would say unto one of the least of these you have done it to you have done it unto me build up women and teach them to start asking out the men quit being petty, weak women whining all women and men are ugly. If you have the energy to get off your rear and make UA-cam videos you better start doing marriage, counseling, marriage, teaching, and dating all in one smartly at the other marriage and dating coaches are doing, but don’t criticize and whine herself into hell, you have the potential to inspire, but if you waste UA-cam learn from other dating coaches and become something steady coach, Melanie Christian dating coach of what good men want and a good woman maybe you should start there and you can find I’m not saying it perfectly but Pontiac you’ll find the name if you find it other really inspiring dating coaches but seek the positive ones if you seek the negative you will fail I hope you choose smartly, but don’t you dare waste your time and miss inspire others incorrectly teach well. you have the power to teach and inspire people for good. Make sure every word is inspiring because you never know when God will take you off this earth and whatever last things you were saying, could’ve been your last words if you have a chance to record something record something great start researching quotes that can express your soul and inspire others forever because they will remember there’s a new secret out now with the women that asked them men out men say yes, but don’t waste your opportunity. Learn how to love and how to teach them how to have fun be happy and love lot of them don’t know because they didn’t have parents and you intuitively, the good ones are and who are you will feel it
I'm probably slightly below average ('cause I got a crooked nose) and I too am trying to become rich. Not just to better my life, but to better the lives the those in unfortunate circumstances.
Financial stability will never bring a sense of fulfillment for a woman. I just thought that I should let you know, before you pave into that road. If you’re doing it out of sacrifice but not out of a mere of choice, my at most sympathy is with you. But if you’re doing it out off being blood thirsty for independence even after finding a man, I feel sorry for your man and future Children.
Hard truth. My friend is one of those beautiful and attractive women so she has extra high standards for the man she chooses to be with , despite the fact that she is almost 40 years old.She always talks about those men who approach her and she rejects them because of how they look or where they live. I am considered below average, or practically ugly so I don't actually have any opportunities concerning relationships. What my friend talks about doesn't make any sense to me and many times I find it hurtful.
If she's 40 and maintaining high standards there's a good chance she will remain single. The upside is that if a relationship is what you really want it's still possible. You just have to find the person you vibe with and provide value like you would in any business. Some people don't like that analogy, but it works.
There are so many ways to improve your physical looks. Have you even tried? Majority of men do not find any women ugly. Meaning they find something attractive in the woman in front of them. They do not see the insecurities we see in ourselves either. I think you should take one thing at a time and improve it. Like for a few weeks focus on makeup. Then move onto your body. Then clothing. Then hair. In which ever order. You should always have standards too even during this process.
Abeg don't be low in your confidence level. Only fools and simps judge people based on their looks, and the majority of guys, as I have always maintained, are simps. Those guys, she said, worship women because of their looks; if she is being honest with herself and not only her, almost every woman knows this, that she will never respect any man who worships her because of her beauty. A man who all he sees in her, the only value he sees in her is her beauty, she would have no respect for him. Sure, that is a fact. This is due to a lot of reasons. 1. He will never be in control of himself because he will always find more and more attractive women who he will always treat in the same way. 2. She will find it difficult to grow. Why? The reason is that he won't help her to grow. After all, he will never find any other value that needs growth and development in her. The only value he will find in her will most likely be her physical appearance. 3. She won't be different from a sex object because that's how he will always see her and that's what has made her attractive to him in the first place. So that friend of yours might think she's in the position of more advantage compared to you. No, she's not. She might not even be able to experience the most important things of life. Sure.
There's a lot of truth to what this lady said. Fortunately, I never had the beauty to experience any kind of entitlement, but I imagine that the ladies who did, or do, in fact, are not the luckiest of us all. Can there be anything scarier than being gorgeous, and fear eternally of losing your best asset to time or illness? You know that time is the enemy you cannot defeat, and are more aware of every wrinkle, every gray hair...And when that beauty passes so does the privilege. I imagine it has to hurt as hell to miss something so defining you no longer possess. Also, if the 1% beauty is the only asset one possesses, then it is really hard to keep anyone's attention for a long time. Even the most beautiful woman becomes ordinary, boring and replaceable, if she does not manage to develop some kind of personality. In my opinion, entitlement usually comes with a lack of empathy, lack of depth, lack of will to question oneself and the world around you. I imagine that extremely beautiful people are, also, often very lonely. Not an easy thing to have girlfriends when you're an object of envy. Not easy to have a relationship if the person you are in relationship with is not equally self-assured and trusting. It's hard for me to believe that a self-assured, confident, smart person would choose someone entitled as a long term partner, potential mother to his children. All things considered, maybe average is a blessing we aren't even aware of. 😊
I’m average and I get treated with respect and like a queen . I even get doors held for me and it depends on how they’re raised. If they are told that they’re prettier than better than the average woman, they are going to mistreat others because of it. The irony is that immature men who operate from their ego will reward their entitled behavior .
That's why I treat all women, or men for that matter, with the same amount of respect. Some men complain about women being entitled while theyre encouraging that behavior
Very interesting perspective. The only thing is that “submission” is not sustainable long-term. Men but people more generally are superficial but not that superficial. There has to be chemistry, shared values and all the rest for any relationship to withstand the test of time.
She means "submission" in that women getting what they want. And she is right. The hottest women don't have to go 50/50 with men, and honestly, men aren't going to even try and pull that shit with the top 1% of women. And if you can't afford that, the top 1% women will figure that out and move on to someone who can, and they can infact elicit that kind of treatment.
Exactly! There has to be similarities, and chemistry, and shared values, which is why it's very hard to find the person in this world full of people if you don't go looking.
That only applies to men who were raised well and have good strength of character. Unfortunately, there are way too many weak men who will do whatever a hot woman wants for as long as she wants.
Looks matter - Temporarily. For both men and women. Good behaviour , integrity , talent combined with hard work , and determination ultimately win. I have seen some very beautiful men and women who are so conceited - once that is revealed the charm vanishes
The truth about being beautiful is that people actually EXPECT you to be more entilted. They think you know you can have it all. Most will be surprised by even the tiniest nice attitudes from you. They will even find it strange if they find out you are actually insecure and doubt yourself. We also can't forget that what can look like entiltement in most beautiful people is actually a self defense tactic against all the unwanted advances from the clueless or pick up artists that beautiful people have to put up with everyday.
This is true to the extent of their age. When a man learns to love himself first he will eventually leave a woman of beauty if he doesn’t get the same love.
Even if you are beautiful you need luck.. I saw a lot of beautiful women who just had bad luck and their life is so misserable compared with the average.. Luck and faith are above beauty and image...
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THIS. BEEN THINKIN ABOIT THIS FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS SINCE I STARTED TO TALK WITH THIS GUY... THE ENERGY IS TEAMWORK, 50 50... HE IS YOUNGER AND HE IS SO NICE AND POLITE AND HONEST... CAN'T EXPECT HIM TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING OR GIVING ME EVERYTHING... THE WAY HE TREAYS ME MATTERS A LOT!
Being super attractive is a blessing. Those women usually get whatever they want and whoever they want. I feel sad that wasn’t born like that, but Im blessed in other ways in life.
Done be sad because not all men give us silver platter treatment. Many men resent us for being beautiful and are just out to see what they can get form us.
As a below-average overweight lady, I confirms what she says is true. I tried to do anything to attract men. I developed very high self confidence, believed I was really one of a kind, good make up, dresses, even asked some guys out. Didn’t work. I was never skinny. Maybe that was the problem 😅 but I realized I was deluded. And now I am much happier to know that I am unattractive and that is ok.
I don’t know your age but, if an older man excites you, your willingness to cater to his needs that he then reciprocates with respect and passion will make you the most beautiful woman he’s ever met
I still get jealous of the hyper beautiful woman but as I'm now in mid 30s, and will soon be in my 40s in a few years, I realized that life is too short to spend it being jealous. Life is hard, and we don't all get the genetic lottery. So we have to look at ourselves in a different way. Yes men still fall prey to hyper beautiful women no matter how much they complain how their personality drops them to a zero. They are still obsessing and spending time on them. As a woman it's easy to fantasize and wonder how life would be if we had that influence. But the truth is we will never reach that level. So now I'm learning to focus on other parts of my life. Yeah I get made fun of a lot for being one of the ugly ones in my family, but it's not a revelation to me. I already knew that. And I think I'm now slowly accepting that nothing is going to change that.
Really beautiful women have disadvantages also, most men don't love them because of who they are, they just like the fact that they are with a beautiful woman, their partner always has trust issues, they have more fake friends than really friends and unwanted attention from Men with bad intentions so it's all sunshines and rainbow
That's kind of fucked up your family makes fun of you for being ugly. Plus beauty fades with age so the playing field evens out for everyone sooner or later
Very true what she said. The few truly beautiful can command anything from any man. They truly worship at the feet of beauty. And true beauties never need to do the work on themselves because why should they. They get everthing they need because of their looks. They are forgiven all their sins. If they have a selfish or poor personality it doesnt matter because men will make excuses for them and put up with it. The rest have to look after themselves.
What a man gives to a woman does not depend on her general level of attractiveness. It depends on how she makes him feel. And if it is a healthy, normally man who has a healthy relationship to his emotions (which is what women aspire) , he wants to feel love and a very deep connection between himself and the woman he wants. He wants to feel unique to this woman and wants to experience a deep and healthy relationship, with a unique emotional intimacy, he wants to feel understood. If that connection isn't there a man will not be able and also not be willing to give a woman the world, no matter how attractive she might be on a physical level. But if he feels that, then he will do and climb mountains for her.
Lmao I don’t need to be a 10 in order to get a man to provide. Go to the nearest military base it’s men that provide for women that never left their home town. Those women are not paying a single bill. I know some very beautiful women. One of them is a single mom and works as an esthetician to provide for her daughter. The dad isn’t with her. Another is a stay at home mom and her husband is just a regular guy. Average and beautiful women not only get the same men, but the same treatment.
Exactly, also many extremely beautiful women end up with narcissistic men or cheaters. Men will provide for someone who they like more than any other woman and to be a man's favorite option you don't have to be the most beautiful
Most men would love dating 8’s, 9’s and 10’s but would be happy to marry a 5 to 7 in looks. As long as she is not fat and face is average they’re ok with that.
Being desired by men is honestly low hanging fruit, get everything you can out of them, when you realize who they truly are and what they truly value, you'll become repulsed by them, focus on yourself, your goals, your happiness, your finances, that all that really matters in this world, men are just a resource, that's all they are, not something you should be playing your life around.
Men are just a resource? Please tell me you're single and bitter without telling me you're single and bitter. You need a good man in your life. There's many out there but you should take down that wall you spent so long putting up
The most beautiful women I know are with the biggest dbag men that mistreat them. Sure they have money but they are some of the most unhappiest people I know. I was honestly surprised to find out how miserable they are.
A hyper attractive woman stops being hyper attractive very quickly once you’ve looked into her soul and have found significant discrepancy to the outside.
But that is when you only have your physic/appearance as an asset. If you put more/other things on the table, you can access a different kind of men... But I think it is true that if you are average with a nice face/body, you can get more than the rest...
No woman should be entitled. Ever. All relationships should be equal respect and responsibility. Any woman that is entitled as she describes is absolutely not attractive. Those women are repulsive. I lose all attraction instantly when I see that attitude. And no man ever should give any woman any money or material object. No man. For no woman. Ever.
True. As a former ugly woman, men never even noticed me. After taking care of myself and getting more attractive, men are very nice to me, and I’m just average
An entitled personality is a curse for a beautiful woman to have. Her personality and character will be unattractive. She might get the top man, but top men will eventually trade up their aging entitled brat whom they've grown irritated with, for a younger hotter woman. Now a beautiful woman young woman who's mature, humble, loyal, and doesn't take her own beauty so seriously has a much better chance of aging gracefully and keeping her man.
@@melanisticcat6774 so true espically in case of women so rather then finding a simp for yourself find a lover find a person who treats you as human, respects your boundaries and emotions and acknowledge your feelings rather then a beauty queen and in his eyes you are just a doll he likes search more then that.
Beauty is subjective .You have to find someone who finds you most beautiful inside out . Just because you are average don't mean you don't deseve to be treated well or loved till death. It's better to be single insted of compromising on quality of men.
She’s 100% real, There are too many females with unrealistic expectation because they’re always trying to be like the one percent of females that r absolutely beautiful.
When i act polite people feel uncomfortable around me, men wonder why im so nice, i was raised in such ways they think I'm insecure or scared or whatever. Then hit them with the bam bam (bratty/entitled attitude)if they're rude or act outta oocket with me just because im kind
Beauty will get the man but it won’t keep the man. Kings, invest the most in loyalty and integrity. Yes looks are important too, but not the most important over other qualities. Beauty won’t raise your kids. Queens, don’t lower your standards and find a good man. There is a huge difference between being entitled and knowing your worth. Beauty does not define your worth, your character does. If you want a traditional man, be a traditional woman and vice versa. But above all, you’re meant to be a team. Not one submitting to another, that’s bs. Anyone hoping to subjugate the other is not looking for a partner but a pet
That's why it pays off to level up before dating. You get more beautiful - you get a better partner - you keep staying beautiful when you aren't drained by working and your relationship. She is right in a way, but looks aren't a constant, they are highly changeable.
I feel it, I was in total goddess mode before I had my children. Then i started putting myself last. I guess my swag & beauty faded. my ex told me, he wasn’t sexually attracted to me anymore. He left. 11 years later, he is beating down my door. As a woman, I feel we have many cycles. Inner beauty, inner adornment of joy & peace.boundary setting & self love has to be cultivated 1st.
a sad fact of little bits of this life. It's so small to so few people that it doesn't really matter to the majority. Most people are average. Nothing wrong with a short person going for a short person and an average person going for an average person, there is plenty to choose for everyone
I think it would be more discouraging and cruel telling average looking or ugly women like me to compromise and tolerate shit form men because we don't look good. I have suffered from it and I am not special for any men but that doesnt mean I am not special for myself ..I have self respect and know difference between right and wrong ..my mental health matters to me. So I will never have any space for such kind of man. It's not I deserve I good man , I have no hope for it but I deserve to be treated as human being with dignity ..it's okay to be lonely rather than being desperate and lowing yourself because your looks can't satisfy somebody's whims and fantasy
An average woman can have the high standards but maybe it could not based on physical beauty but it can based for emotional safety and inner beauty which will be intangible but can be felt if the men is compatible for her. So love youraelf first.
I consider myself really average and I remember this super hot guy offering to walk me home, we got halfway before I realized he was hitting on me, I turned him down because he was 6 years younger and I wanted someone older, like I said, I am extremely average, he is really hot but he loved my personality and thought i was intelligent. It wasn't about looks for him.
As a guy, ive noticed being physically attractive to a woman comes first, then everything else. Ive never been with a woman who didnt find me physically attractive.
My best friend at high school was the most popular girl of the school and people on the street would be amazed by her beauty. She would get asked for date almost every day. She would insult the guys that she thought were unattractive like “how dare you, look at yourself” and they would still chase her 😂😂😂
Yes looks matter only initial stage of relationship later on the person you are matters because looks fades with the passage of time but your honest personality is timeless ❤
High quality men have come to realize that physical beauty is now dirt cheap especially that so much of it is available fully and freely naked online. Beautiful women have brought their own standards down by making themselves too much available to be seen online and everywhere and monetizing it. Teamwork is rare in a world turning narcissistic. Actors and politicians know that mind responds similar to poster in face and real face.
If women would just normalize their weight their beauty would increase. Women are beautiful creatures. All of them. The woman as a creation is beautiful. The problem is obesity destroyes looks. Other than that, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. All the hyper beautiful women...how many are obese? If you can fit in a bikini consider yourself hyper beautiful to someone. Humility is charm but looks is physique. Give your nature a chance!
Yesterday I went to the store with my kid niece. As we were walking to the entrance door an older white man in his 70's was walking in front of us and held the door open. We assumed he was opening it for us to walk through since we were right behind him. So, we walked through, and said a thank you to him. He didn't say anything back to us. He basically ignored us as we walked through the door. He was staring into the parking lot at a reddish-brown haired hispanic woman maybe in her 30's wearing tight bell bottom lilac pants that was walking toward the door. He was waiting and holding the door open for her. He was trying to show her that he was submitting to her needs. He wasn't embarrassed about it. I guess he thought she was a super hot woman. When we all got in the store I heard her talking in spanish to the other person she was with and giggling about it. He didn't seem rich, but kind of average, or maybe poor, idk. I can't imagine a guy that's younger than 70 doing that for some woman he thought was attractive. They do things differently now. In ways that are less about the woman, and more about the guy...but, sort of about the woman, as long as it's not too much! Guys are women's competition now. Is she saying that a guy that doesn't submit to you (whether you're a 1% or not) isn't into you enough to be with him? I think that's pretty much how I interpreted it.
I’m one of the A’s in the LGBT ever-evolving acronym and I have to say, I feel so blessed to have been spared from relationship-drama that comes with getting into someone else’s pants.
This is true for extremely good looking or even just good looking tall men as well. The top 5% of the bell curve will always get the best treatment from the top 75% of people to have a shot with them. Same is true for very smart people, they’re the ones making millions of dollars, and same with athletes. Find out where you have the makings of being top 5-15% and push on that. Maybe you’re charismatic, funny, good at juggling.
She is forgetting a very important key element. That same beautiful woman will only be valuable to men if she is elusive and mysterious. If she is easy to attain, they will get bored of her the minute they sleep with her. An average woman who is unnattainable will be chased by men and offered marriage. Men want a woman they perceive as hard to get.
Well i had very low standards in the past. And not average, It depends also on the man. A true man will step up. And if you are average don't worry about that either. How you feel about yourself is what counts and plenty men will treat you right. It's not that black and white. Good men are hard to find but they are out here.
Being a woman is an asset in itself. Thats why the porn industry and prostitution will never end. Its not just looks but sex also allows for entitlement. I see entitlement working for women in general. Its all about finding the right one. Even this said "1%" has to find the right simp to exercise entitlement 🤷🏾♀️ Then theres makeup. You can be beyonce if you want, with the right skills. My point is, shes right to some degree but there are a lot of caveats.
So many people here talking about beauty is not all that matters. Of course we ALL know that. But what Sadia is talking about here is : beautiful women have higher chances of bagging successful men.
Ah you’re projecting. If he leave her for a younger woman, I’m sure it wouldn’t be lost on her either. She can always find a better man. No marriage is guaranteed true but a woman divorced from a rich man is better than being divorced from a broke man. 🤷🏻♀️
@@Sailormoon899 How Am I projecting?? Do you know the meaning of projection? Yes when a woman gets divorced in her fifties is a great catch. Successful MEN THAT GOT MARRIED Based on the beauty of their spouse, Tends to replace them when the beauty fades. Statistics my darling!!! LOL
Sailormoon899 How Am I projecting?? Do you know the meaning of projection? Yes when a woman gets divorced in her fifties is a great catch. Successful MEN THAT GOT MARRIED Based on the beauty of their spouse, Tends to replace them when the beauty fades. Statistics my darling!!! LOL
How Am I projecting?? Do you know the meaning of projection? Yes when a woman gets divorced in her fifties is a great catch. Successful MEN THAT GOT MARRIED Based on the beauty of their spouse, Tends to replace them when the beauty fades. Statistics my darling!!! LOL
I dont really know if I am attractive nor do I believe it when a guy tells me that. But I understand what she means, when I was talking to a friend, about my bar experiences, that men buy drinks for me all the time and random guys always try to get my number when Im walking around. And she told me that never happened to her…So yeah..
If I wanted in my younger years I could have gotten that type of attention but I respected men too much to want to look down on them. The stupid things men do for beautiful women… you just start to think they’re dumb. So I never tried too hard to be ultra attractive bc I wanted someone to like me for who I was. I would often play down my looks if I could. No one wants a foolish man for a husband.
What good is to think you are so beautiful that you think nobody deserves you? Having values, personality and kind outweighs any beauty, that's just my opinion.
This applies to a lot of things beyond physical attractiveness. People are received differently for a number of factors and should tailor their social approach with awareness of how they're seen. It's a kind of virtue signaling that really undermines a person trying to make their way when someone humble brags under the guise of providing advice.
Hyper attractive Angleina Jolie did not last with hyper attractive Brad Pitt show to stop glorifying looks. The simple things still matter like love, loyalty and patience.
You’d be surprised how beauty is a double edged sword when it comes to finding love. Beautiful women find it tougher to enter relationships and then stay in relationships because of all the men who are interested in her. She reasons I can always do better, until one day she can’t. In a weirdly paradoxical way, beautiful women actually can’t find love.
Beauty attracts attention
Personality captures the heart
I agree
Well said!
If you have a beautiful personality
That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard.
You my friend is leaving high up in a fantasy land. And guess what, you’ll eventually come down. And when you do, it’ll hurt like hell.
@@clodaghcollins2551 I totally agree 💯
I am an average looking girl and my looks used to bother me, but now I don't care as the goal of life is to make relationship with God not men. It's just the part of life not whole life. I am enjoying my life very well.
Amen 🙏🏽
Jesus is lord ❤
And god is made up and your life delusion 😅
Not being prideful here but I have always been a pretty & popular girl and I could get any man I'd want - they just hover around being all sweet or fake! But my heart never felt like "home" with anybody.. i was always restless. That peace came from Jesus and now I have been staying single away from men only waiting for my God's chosen one.
You are absolutely on the right track!
God has protected us for him and for his chosen one for us ♡
Rest is worthless
God has proven a very useful crutch for humanity for millennia.
I'm ugly too. Really didn't date in high school or college days. Yeah, it was lonely.
Happily married now with 3 wonderful kids. Things worked out. Obviously many people lean on the illusion of God and a better life to come after death. I get it. It is appealing. It helps.
I didn't rely on the tired and easy route. I didn't give up, throw in the towel, and use the God crutch. There is something to be said for that.
Love that for you ❤
I am not average. And I am not that breathtakingly beautiful.
But if a woman feels attractive, she exudes that aura. Trust me.
I once met a woman at a poetry reading,that was not cute at all.. but she had a queen aura. her husband was like a little puppy dog all over her. He was there for every need. i never forgot that!
@@AliciaHodges-j1k There you go 👏
But i believe being beautiful, pretty, cute, attractive, etc are all different things.
Beautiful is by heart
Pretty is by face
Cute is by behaviour
Attractiveness is by personality
Now that aura depends on what one personally feels about oneself.
Also a matter of fact most people find themselves Attractive and most people loves their own voice while singing.
So at last i believe it depends on how others perceive you and your personality. Also the vibes matters a lot. The vibes of the two must match
@@Noryang_26🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Very true💕💕💕
She spoke the truth. Im average looking and i have always had to win people over with my personality and behavior. I had a minor glow up at 18-24 but i resented better treatment bc of my looks, so i intentionally made myself look plain. Being an ugly duckling made me cherish people with true good personalities, so i continue to look plain bc i want to weed out the fake people in my life.
More power to you.
She is also an average looking woman.
Beautiful sentiment!❤
I remember doing this myself in college a bit, about not trying to get attention from looks. I didn’t wear makeup on the daily and paid attention to boys who noticed me when I wasn’t wearing makeup. It felt like if I wore makeup and I got attention that it was the makeup and not me.
Meh. If beauty was all that's needed to maintain a relationship, there wouldn't be so many actresses and models with multiple divorces.
Models marry only millionaires or very hot men and they divorce like those marrying average males
you're still talking about women dealing with top tier men...
That's not even what she said at all
She's not talking about maintaining relationship, is about the range of men will submit to beautiful woman. Is about how much can you be entitled, by the looks. Not to maintain, but to attract. I think average woman and man who do team work as she said, would have a stable relationship
She never said successful long term stable relationship. Just who can have very high expectations and who don't have to contribute as much in order to attract someone's attention or get men to give them what they want.
Not all men will reward women for just being physically attractive...a lot of them sadly will
I was thinking the same thing. Most wealthy men are simps. That’s who we’re talking about here. Yes, the beauty will attract initially. But a confident man will reject her when she doesn’t reciprocate when he fulfills his role.
@user-kt8cd6rf5i Dejectedly true
Mosta ya that comment about havin more than 6" and are a trained green beret, Navy Seal internet commando fold in real life against your average post teeny bopper.......... let alone A runway model with a sexy body......... don't make me laugh.........
Yeah. The real problem are the simps of the world. If we can end simping, we can end all these issues between men and women.
Even feminists can't wild out like they're doing now if all men don't allow it, because most people in government, positions of power, and law enforcement are men.
Often men need to learn the lesson too that just like she says - an incredibly beautiful woman will be after her desires and have him wrapped around her finger. Might be more sensible to find someone who has more of a relational / partner approach.
Of course there’s the occasional stunning woman with a great personality that didn’t grow
Up to feel entitled to privilege - she s a rare precious stone !
Looks matter but personality is very important
In these days dont matter at all unfort
You see couples being made with a click of fingers just because they are attract to each other physically but personality wise the couple doesnt know and then after a while they break up same for marriages
personality is the most important
Men see looks first then they get to know personality
@@jillanejames4590 usually people are like that, men and women, but not all of them.
Personality matters if your look is on point. Otherwise if you look terrible but got the best personality on earth nobody cares...they'll still treat you like crap...
I dunno. I’ve seen plenty of gorgeous women get treated like absolute garbage from average looking men. 🤷🏼♀️
I feel like average men should also be realistic and go for average women.
Because they allow it. People treat you accordingly, never forget that.
Someone once told me that woman are like new cars. They lose value the instant you drive them off the lot. No matter how beautiful a 10 is, she will lose two points as soon as she's yours, because that's just how hunter mentality works.
Then those gorgeous women are not smart. Gorgeous women who know their value will not give their attention to any man out there. I know I don’t.
@@channel-nv9xcthat's why women are avoiding marriages causing whole male loneliness scenario where men are abusing women online for choosing to stay single which I see all.over the comment sections and "only choosing to settle for those who are compatible with her and also have physical attraction" otherwise stay single for life or die a vrgn. In the past women were forced and rped in marriages which I still see happening in my traditional society..
@@frenzybuzz3703 and sadly a lot of these men on the internet, if it were up to them, would happily reinstitute laws that allowed for women to be forcibly taken as brides by men. Men don't want to step up and be more attractive mates, they want women to submit to their will and obey.
Trust me many beautiful women don't last long in relationships not all but many of them
Bingo… Fleeting looks I look better with age
The real problem are the simps of the world. Beautiful women may not be able to keep a great guy for long but they can easily keep a simp as long as they want.
Oh yeah?
And why is that?
@@synergyrevolution2332 and that's all they gotta do
@@pearlfeather9326 thinking highly of themselves which is not bad but at the end of the day it still gonna make no change
I appreciate the blunt honesty. 👌
Yeah i think it’s refreshing ! And surprisingly true in this day and age - look at what „influencers“
Represent all over the socials . Unhealthy unrealistic aspirations for young women especially
The smartest women now are learning to teach the men since women have damaged them. The ones who they were men who in for thousands of years, asked out women and lately in the past hundred years or so women think it’s cool to turn them down and complain and wonder why they’re single. But now the smart women will learn to ask them out and over 90 to 200% of out of your 100% I’ll say yes only a small percentage will say no men don’t look at all just we want a woman of Quality real man will love a good woman who is clean Virtuous and true faithful to heavenly father or just lives a clean, good life yes protect yourselves you know who that actually good men are they’re the ones you rejected if you would ask out the good ones who you ignored and thought it was cool to date the negative bad ones you thought you could have fun with but they just discarded you women complain when you date these bad ones Maybe you should rethink and find the good ones there’s a secret if you choose to go ahead and start asking out the good ones you come across 99 to 1000% and more beyond calculation will say yes don’t be foolish and abuse this wise and ask the good ones not everything is about beauty and you should be building up women it’s amazing that you can look down and say oh there’s all these ugly women women that are ugly to us are ones that don’t keep their souls right because a man almost all women are beautiful unless they don’t do what’s right we love almost all women yet you’re putting them down it’s you that’s having a negative image of saying oh they’re ugly when in fact, this attitude that your producing of all these women are ugly that’s what’s ugly. You should look at their beautiful souls and train them and every inspiring way I’ll give you a secret that Jesus will give you if you start choosing to ask out the good men I’ll say yes, they might be in shock and you might have to start teaching them what emotional maturity means that you have to be there for each other during the hard times because there are a lot of those and that’s reality and life but it’s worth it and you can choose to learn to have fun and teach the men how to have fun. Remember a lot of them haven’t been taught with love and happiness is and don’t get to have the glamorous lives at so many of you get to have having fun going around and having friends while men work themselves to death and then get turned down by women who complain and wonder why they’re lonely maybe you should change the paradigm and start asking out the good men, but I’m referring to the women who want to be good women you ask out the good men women who don’t wanna be good women that won’t choose it up and be happy Jesus time if you say the word, fun, fun, fun throughout the day it’ll energetically inspire you to find fun moments teach them in this teach them how to love you thinking today’s world people had parents obviously peoples parents weren’t there for the kids in today’s world must start rebuilding our society on time Jesus would say unto one of the least of these you have done it to you have done it unto me build up women and teach them to start asking out the men quit being petty, weak women whining all women and men are ugly. If you have the energy to get off your rear and make UA-cam videos you better start doing marriage, counseling, marriage, teaching, and dating all in one smartly at the other marriage and dating coaches are doing, but don’t criticize and whine herself into hell, you have the potential to inspire, but if you waste UA-cam learn from other dating coaches and become something steady coach, Melanie Christian dating coach of what good men want and a good woman maybe you should start there and you can find I’m not saying it perfectly but Pontiac you’ll find the name if you find it other really inspiring dating coaches but seek the positive ones if you seek the negative you will fail I hope you choose smartly, but don’t you dare waste your time and miss inspire others incorrectly teach well. you have the power to teach and inspire people for good. Make sure every word is inspiring because you never know when God will take you off this earth and whatever last things you were saying, could’ve been your last words if you have a chance to record something record something great start researching quotes that can express your soul and inspire others forever because they will remember there’s a new secret out now with the women that asked them men out men say yes, but don’t waste your opportunity. Learn how to love and how to teach them how to have fun be happy and love lot of them don’t know because they didn’t have parents and you intuitively, the good ones are and who are you will feel it
She is correct 💯.
And I am a woman with average look. That's why I work really hard to be wealthy, to be able to reach privileged status.
🙌 I was thinking the same thing. Provide your own privilege as an average looking woman. It’s safer anyway.
I'm probably slightly below average ('cause I got a crooked nose) and I too am trying to become rich. Not just to better my life, but to better the lives the those in unfortunate circumstances.
Financial stability will never bring a sense of fulfillment for a woman. I just thought that I should let you know, before you pave into that road. If you’re doing it out of sacrifice but not out of a mere of choice, my at most sympathy is with you. But if you’re doing it out off being blood thirsty for independence even after finding a man, I feel sorry for your man and future Children.
@@kassd4169 i would date you in a heartbeat because you’re very thoughtful of the less fortunate.
@@cccddd2323 dude if you don't want to respect a woman's life of hardwork and sacrifice keep your non ethical comment to yourself
"Favor is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised." - Proverbs 31: 30
Not favor....but charm ...😊
Lord who?
@@KubilayErtunathe Lord Jesus Christ, king of the Universe
@@peacefulruler1 It's 2024 no one is going to believe in this cult anymore 😂.
Only true God-fearing men believe this word. Most men don't even GO to church regularly. It's sad.
Hard truth. My friend is one of those beautiful and attractive women so she has extra high standards for the man she chooses to be with , despite the fact that she is almost 40 years old.She always talks about those men who approach her and she rejects them because of how they look or where they live. I am considered below average, or practically ugly so I don't actually have any opportunities concerning relationships. What my friend talks about doesn't make any sense to me and many times I find it hurtful.
If she's 40 and maintaining high standards there's a good chance she will remain single. The upside is that if a relationship is what you really want it's still possible. You just have to find the person you vibe with and provide value like you would in any business. Some people don't like that analogy, but it works.
There are so many ways to improve your physical looks. Have you even tried? Majority of men do not find any women ugly. Meaning they find something attractive in the woman in front of them. They do not see the insecurities we see in ourselves either. I think you should take one thing at a time and improve it. Like for a few weeks focus on makeup. Then move onto your body. Then clothing. Then hair. In which ever order. You should always have standards too even during this process.
Abeg don't be low in your confidence level. Only fools and simps judge people based on their looks, and the majority of guys, as I have always maintained, are simps. Those guys, she said, worship women because of their looks; if she is being honest with herself and not only her, almost every woman knows this, that she will never respect any man who worships her because of her beauty. A man who all he sees in her, the only value he sees in her is her beauty, she would have no respect for him. Sure, that is a fact. This is due to a lot of reasons. 1. He will never be in control of himself because he will always find more and more attractive women who he will always treat in the same way. 2. She will find it difficult to grow. Why? The reason is that he won't help her to grow. After all, he will never find any other value that needs growth and development in her. The only value he will find in her will most likely be her physical appearance. 3. She won't be different from a sex object because that's how he will always see her and that's what has made her attractive to him in the first place. So that friend of yours might think she's in the position of more advantage compared to you. No, she's not. She might not even be able to experience the most important things of life. Sure.
exactly 💯 spot on 🎯 this is the most genuinely useful comment I came across online 👏🏻 ❤
@cecee3480 exactly 💯 spot on 🎯 this is the most genuinely useful comment I came across online 👏🏻 ❤
Being very beautiful or extremely handsome in looks is never easy. Life becomes even more complicated if you have a beautiful heart to match it.
Wow! So true!
This is true
I feel like this is true
However can you elaborate what you mean by "even more complicated"
Thank you
There's a lot of truth to what this lady said. Fortunately, I never had the beauty to experience any kind of entitlement, but I imagine that the ladies who did, or do, in fact, are not the luckiest of us all. Can there be anything scarier than being gorgeous, and fear eternally of losing your best asset to time or illness? You know that time is the enemy you cannot defeat, and are more aware of every wrinkle, every gray hair...And when that beauty passes so does the privilege. I imagine it has to hurt as hell to miss something so defining you no longer possess.
Also, if the 1% beauty is the only asset one possesses, then it is really hard to keep anyone's attention for a long time. Even the most beautiful woman becomes ordinary, boring and replaceable, if she does not manage to develop some kind of personality. In my opinion, entitlement usually comes with a lack of empathy, lack of depth, lack of will to question oneself and the world around you. I imagine that extremely beautiful people are, also, often very lonely. Not an easy thing to have girlfriends when you're an object of envy. Not easy to have a relationship if the person you are in relationship with is not equally self-assured and trusting. It's hard for me to believe that a self-assured, confident, smart person would choose someone entitled as a long term partner, potential mother to his children. All things considered, maybe average is a blessing we aren't even aware of. 😊
Exactly! 👏👏👏👏👏
On point
Profound!!!
She’s not 100% telling the truth
You are so incredibly spot on. I speak from experience. It sure as hell hurts.
I’m average and I get treated with respect and like a queen . I even get doors held for me and it depends on how they’re raised. If they are told that they’re prettier than better than the average woman, they are going to mistreat others because of it. The irony is that immature men who operate from their ego will reward their entitled behavior .
Lol very attractive women get more than respect, free meals and hold Doors open
@@carmendelabellemotte7865 a few surgery and you are beautiful too
You’re right, and there’s plenty of hyper-attractive women who don’t get treated well for one reason or another.
That's why I treat all women, or men for that matter, with the same amount of respect. Some men complain about women being entitled while theyre encouraging that behavior
@@KRW3321so true
Very interesting perspective. The only thing is that “submission” is not sustainable long-term. Men but people more generally are superficial but not that superficial. There has to be chemistry, shared values and all the rest for any relationship to withstand the test of time.
Maybe for you don't generalize ze
She means "submission" in that women getting what they want.
And she is right. The hottest women don't have to go 50/50 with men, and honestly, men aren't going to even try and pull that shit with the top 1% of women. And if you can't afford that, the top 1% women will figure that out and move on to someone who can, and they can infact elicit that kind of treatment.
Exactly! There has to be similarities, and chemistry, and shared values, which is why it's very hard to find the person in this world full of people if you don't go looking.
That only applies to men who were raised well and have good strength of character. Unfortunately, there are way too many weak men who will do whatever a hot woman wants for as long as she wants.
she's manipulating us for money, she doesn't actually believe in it or she would be submitting and not making videos
Looks matter - Temporarily. For both men and women. Good behaviour , integrity , talent combined with hard work , and determination ultimately win. I have seen some very beautiful men and women who are so conceited - once that is revealed the charm vanishes
The truth about being beautiful is that people actually EXPECT you to be more entilted. They think you know you can have it all. Most will be surprised by even the tiniest nice attitudes from you. They will even find it strange if they find out you are actually insecure and doubt yourself. We also can't forget that what can look like entiltement in most beautiful people is actually a self defense tactic against all the unwanted advances from the clueless or pick up artists that beautiful people have to put up with everyday.
Girl you better preach 🙏🏽
@@Pikachu-qr4yb why?
@@margaridaguerreiro802 cause you’re spitting facts.
Said by the woman who has had multiple cosmetic procedures. Love the phony English accent.
🤣🤣
that does not make it untrue
This is true to the extent of their age. When a man learns to love himself first he will eventually leave a woman of beauty if he doesn’t get the same love.
Stunning beauty gets you about 3, maybe 6 months. Then after that everyone is average.
Even if you are beautiful you need luck.. I saw a lot of beautiful women who just had bad luck and their life is so misserable compared with the average.. Luck and faith are above beauty and image...
Looks matter, but initially for shortest time
Maybe, but those are the most important seconds in life.
She’s right. Attractive, educated, and can articulate her thoughts.
Ok simp
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THIS. BEEN THINKIN ABOIT THIS FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS SINCE I STARTED TO TALK WITH THIS GUY... THE ENERGY IS TEAMWORK, 50 50... HE IS YOUNGER AND HE IS SO NICE AND POLITE AND HONEST... CAN'T EXPECT HIM TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING OR GIVING ME EVERYTHING... THE WAY HE TREAYS ME MATTERS A LOT!
Sad but true . But also true is that every woman who treats you with respects deserves to be treated with respect .
Being super attractive is a blessing. Those women usually get whatever they want and whoever they want. I feel sad that wasn’t born like that, but Im blessed in other ways in life.
Done be sad because not all men give us silver platter treatment. Many men resent us for being beautiful and are just out to see what they can get form us.
All Sadia Khan says all day is saying that water is wet and that fire burns
Yet, you drown and get burnt by making the same mistakes most men do towards attractive women.
😂😂😂😂😂😅so true!!!
Beauty also attracts lots of issues like envy. Envious people are not kind. So being smart has to come along with the beauty.
A friend once said to me personality doesnt walk down the street with you. So looks do matter.
I agree with what sadia just said 100 percent when men are attracted to you ithey will do 2:03 anything for you unfortunately
no, only dumb guys.
When you see a woman in the morning without makeup you will see her true physical beauty.
But the problem is most men don’t mind the artificial look these days
Hahahaha yes my friend
As a below-average overweight lady, I confirms what she says is true. I tried to do anything to attract men. I developed very high self confidence, believed I was really one of a kind, good make up, dresses, even asked some guys out. Didn’t work. I was never skinny. Maybe that was the problem 😅 but I realized I was deluded. And now I am much happier to know that I am unattractive and that is ok.
I don’t know your age but, if an older man excites you, your willingness to cater to his needs that he then reciprocates with respect and passion will make you the most beautiful woman he’s ever met
Most people aren't bad looking, they just don't take care of themselves or are out of shape. Get fit, I'm sure you'll look pretty good!
her voice is kind,gentle n geniune.im a female n i wil open the door for her!
She was an actor. Voice training comes with that.
@@stinger4712 No, she wasn´t. That´s another woman with the same name.
I still get jealous of the hyper beautiful woman but as I'm now in mid 30s, and will soon be in my 40s in a few years, I realized that life is too short to spend it being jealous. Life is hard, and we don't all get the genetic lottery. So we have to look at ourselves in a different way. Yes men still fall prey to hyper beautiful women no matter how much they complain how their personality drops them to a zero. They are still obsessing and spending time on them. As a woman it's easy to fantasize and wonder how life would be if we had that influence. But the truth is we will never reach that level. So now I'm learning to focus on other parts of my life. Yeah I get made fun of a lot for being one of the ugly ones in my family, but it's not a revelation to me. I already knew that. And I think I'm now slowly accepting that nothing is going to change that.
Really beautiful women have disadvantages also, most men don't love them because of who they are, they just like the fact that they are with a beautiful woman, their partner always has trust issues, they have more fake friends than really friends and unwanted attention from Men with bad intentions so it's all sunshines and rainbow
That's kind of fucked up your family makes fun of you for being ugly. Plus beauty fades with age so the playing field evens out for everyone sooner or later
Is this you in your profile pic? lady, you are stunning!
@ thank you! Thats very kind of you. Yes it is me but with a lot of makeup and the right angle.
Very true what she said. The few truly beautiful can command anything from any man. They truly worship at the feet of beauty. And true beauties never need to do the work on themselves because why should they. They get everthing they need because of their looks. They are forgiven all their sins. If they have a selfish or poor personality it doesnt matter because men will make excuses for them and put up with it.
The rest have to look after themselves.
What a man gives to a woman does not depend on her general level of attractiveness. It depends on how she makes him feel. And if it is a healthy, normally man who has a healthy relationship to his emotions (which is what women aspire) , he wants to feel love and a very deep connection between himself and the woman he wants. He wants to feel unique to this woman and wants to experience a deep and healthy relationship, with a unique emotional intimacy, he wants to feel understood. If that connection isn't there a man will not be able and also not be willing to give a woman the world, no matter how attractive she might be on a physical level. But if he feels that, then he will do and climb mountains for her.
Lmao I don’t need to be a 10 in order to get a man to provide. Go to the nearest military base it’s men that provide for women that never left their home town. Those women are not paying a single bill.
I know some very beautiful women. One of them is a single mom and works as an esthetician to provide for her daughter. The dad isn’t with her. Another is a stay at home mom and her husband is just a regular guy. Average and beautiful women not only get the same men, but the same treatment.
Exactly, also many extremely beautiful women end up with narcissistic men or cheaters. Men will provide for someone who they like more than any other woman and to be a man's favorite option you don't have to be the most beautiful
True most time most beautiful women get cheated on beacuse their patners didn't view them more then a decorative piece they got hold off.
It is a like having a skill, they must learn to use the beauty wisely to bag the best men. I mean the decent loyal ones.
Exactly!!! Speak them facts!!!
@@rosyapplekitchen635the decent loyal ones. That’s the key.
Most men would love dating 8’s, 9’s and 10’s but would be happy to marry a 5 to 7 in looks. As long as she is not fat and face is average they’re ok with that.
Sadia, Thank you for being honest. It’s so refreshing to hear the truth.
Being desired by men is honestly low hanging fruit, get everything you can out of them, when you realize who they truly are and what they truly value, you'll become repulsed by them, focus on yourself, your goals, your happiness, your finances, that all that really matters in this world, men are just a resource, that's all they are, not something you should be playing your life around.
Men are just a resource? Please tell me you're single and bitter without telling me you're single and bitter. You need a good man in your life. There's many out there but you should take down that wall you spent so long putting up
She actually speaks facts with this one.
Sadly she speaks a lot of truth....
The most beautiful women I know are with the biggest dbag men that mistreat them. Sure they have money but they are some of the most unhappiest people I know. I was honestly surprised to find out how miserable they are.
Thing is that beauty is a gift and a skill which they need to learn how to use to get the best men. Sadly a lot of them waste it on idiots
A hyper attractive woman stops being hyper attractive very quickly once you’ve looked into her soul and have found significant discrepancy to the outside.
Thanks for being truthful , specially about such a sensitive, touchy-feely topic.
But that is when you only have your physic/appearance as an asset. If you put more/other things on the table, you can access a different kind of men... But I think it is true that if you are average with a nice face/body, you can get more than the rest...
I can't do entitled, not for a second. Hard Pass.
Looks do indeed matter, but cultivating a meaningful relationship goes far beyond the exterior.
She ain't wrong. Very realistic indeed.
No woman should be entitled. Ever.
All relationships should be equal respect and responsibility.
Any woman that is entitled as she describes is absolutely not attractive. Those women are repulsive. I lose all attraction instantly when I see that attitude.
And no man ever should give any woman any money or material object. No man. For no woman. Ever.
If the "attractive" woman gets everything on silver plate from thristy dudes, then how to you expect her to learn a thing or two about responsibility?
finally a logical comment 👍
True. As a former ugly woman, men never even noticed me. After taking care of myself and getting more attractive, men are very nice to me, and I’m just average
I think most people aren't ugly. They just don't take care of themselves or are out of shape. Once you do both those, most people look pretty good
@ you are right
An entitled personality is a curse for a beautiful woman to have. Her personality and character will be unattractive. She might get the top man, but top men will eventually trade up their aging entitled brat whom they've grown irritated with, for a younger hotter woman. Now a beautiful woman young woman who's mature, humble, loyal, and doesn't take her own beauty so seriously has a much better chance of aging gracefully and keeping her man.
Tale as old as time 40-45 year old aging woman traded in for his 25 year old girl
@@melanisticcat6774 so true espically in case of women so rather then finding a simp for yourself find a lover find a person who treats you as human, respects your boundaries and emotions and acknowledge your feelings rather then a beauty queen and in his eyes you are just a doll he likes search more then that.
Exactly look at DiCaprio
@@erwangaillard1637 25 is too old for him he likes 18 year olds
@@melanisticcat6774 same dynamics
Beauty is subjective .You have to find someone who finds you most beautiful inside out .
Just because you are average don't mean you don't deseve to be treated well or loved till death.
It's better to be single insted of compromising on quality of men.
Women, our value is more than being a body for the male gaze, being a breeder, being free labor.
If you are hyperbeautiful life is just easier for you, is not a sad fact of life, it is just facts.
Well said! ❤
She’s 100% real, There are too many females with unrealistic expectation because they’re always trying to be like the one percent of females that r absolutely beautiful.
When i act polite people feel uncomfortable around me, men wonder why im so nice, i was raised in such ways they think I'm insecure or scared or whatever. Then hit them with the bam bam (bratty/entitled attitude)if they're rude or act outta oocket with me just because im kind
Sad.
You have to or they’ll think that you have low self esteem and can walk all over you.
Beauty will get the man but it won’t keep the man. Kings, invest the most in loyalty and integrity. Yes looks are important too, but not the most important over other qualities. Beauty won’t raise your kids. Queens, don’t lower your standards and find a good man. There is a huge difference between being entitled and knowing your worth. Beauty does not define your worth, your character does. If you want a traditional man, be a traditional woman and vice versa. But above all, you’re meant to be a team. Not one submitting to another, that’s bs. Anyone hoping to subjugate the other is not looking for a partner but a pet
That's why it pays off to level up before dating. You get more beautiful - you get a better partner - you keep staying beautiful when you aren't drained by working and your relationship.
She is right in a way, but looks aren't a constant, they are highly changeable.
I feel it, I was in total goddess mode before I had my children. Then i started putting myself last. I guess my swag & beauty faded. my ex told me, he wasn’t sexually attracted to me anymore. He left. 11 years later, he is beating down my door. As a woman, I feel we have many cycles. Inner beauty, inner adornment of joy & peace.boundary setting & self love has to be cultivated 1st.
a sad fact of little bits of this life. It's so small to so few people that it doesn't really matter to the majority. Most people are average. Nothing wrong with a short person going for a short person and an average person going for an average person, there is plenty to choose for everyone
as someone who is a unicorn, it's lonely on fantasy island!!!!!!!
I think it would be more discouraging and cruel telling average looking or ugly women like me to compromise and tolerate shit form men because we don't look good. I have suffered from it and I am not special for any men but that doesnt mean I am not special for myself ..I have self respect and know difference between right and wrong ..my mental health matters to me. So I will never have any space for such kind of man. It's not I deserve I good man , I have no hope for it but I deserve to be treated as human being with dignity ..it's okay to be lonely rather than being desperate and lowing yourself because your looks can't satisfy somebody's whims and fantasy
An average woman can have the high standards but maybe it could not based on physical beauty but it can based for emotional safety and inner beauty which will be intangible but can be felt if the men is compatible for her. So love youraelf first.
I consider myself really average and I remember this super hot guy offering to walk me home, we got halfway before I realized he was hitting on me, I turned him down because he was 6 years younger and I wanted someone older, like I said, I am extremely average, he is really hot but he loved my personality and thought i was intelligent. It wasn't about looks for him.
But for you it was looks. If he was average looking, would you have walked with him in the first place?
I love the honesty.❤ This is fact.❤ Beauty is important, you will be treated well. People will adore and praise you because of your VISUALS. 😅
As a guy, ive noticed being physically attractive to a woman comes first, then everything else. Ive never been with a woman who didnt find me physically attractive.
She not lying at all is very true people have to accept it ❤
My best friend at high school was the most popular girl of the school and people on the street would be amazed by her beauty. She would get asked for date almost every day. She would insult the guys that she thought were unattractive like “how dare you, look at yourself” and they would still chase her 😂😂😂
Yes looks matter only initial stage of relationship later on the person you are matters because looks fades with the passage of time but your honest personality is timeless ❤
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High quality men have come to realize that physical beauty is now dirt cheap especially that so much of it is available fully and freely naked online. Beautiful women have brought their own standards down by making themselves too much available to be seen online and everywhere and monetizing it. Teamwork is rare in a world turning narcissistic. Actors and politicians know that mind responds similar to poster in face and real face.
If women would just normalize their weight their beauty would increase. Women are beautiful creatures. All of them. The woman as a creation is beautiful. The problem is obesity destroyes looks. Other than that, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. All the hyper beautiful women...how many are obese? If you can fit in a bikini consider yourself hyper beautiful to someone. Humility is charm but looks is physique. Give your nature a chance!
Yesterday I went to the store with my kid niece. As we were walking to the entrance door an older white man in his 70's was walking in front of us and held the door open. We assumed he was opening it for us to walk through since we were right behind him. So, we walked through, and said a thank you to him. He didn't say anything back to us. He basically ignored us as we walked through the door. He was staring into the parking lot at a reddish-brown haired hispanic woman maybe in her 30's wearing tight bell bottom lilac pants that was walking toward the door. He was waiting and holding the door open for her. He was trying to show her that he was submitting to her needs. He wasn't embarrassed about it. I guess he thought she was a super hot woman. When we all got in the store I heard her talking in spanish to the other person she was with and giggling about it.
He didn't seem rich, but kind of average, or maybe poor, idk. I can't imagine a guy that's younger than 70 doing that for some woman he thought was attractive. They do things differently now. In ways that are less about the woman, and more about the guy...but, sort of about the woman, as long as it's not too much! Guys are women's competition now.
Is she saying that a guy that doesn't submit to you (whether you're a 1% or not) isn't into you enough to be with him? I think that's pretty much how I interpreted it.
I’m one of the A’s in the LGBT ever-evolving acronym and I have to say, I feel so blessed to have been spared from relationship-drama that comes with getting into someone else’s pants.
This is true for extremely good looking or even just good looking tall men as well. The top 5% of the bell curve will always get the best treatment from the top 75% of people to have a shot with them. Same is true for very smart people, they’re the ones making millions of dollars, and same with athletes.
Find out where you have the makings of being top 5-15% and push on that. Maybe you’re charismatic, funny, good at juggling.
Same goes for men, if they have average money then they have to share 50/50 of the housework and childcare, especially if their wives also work. 🤷🏻♀️
She is forgetting a very important key element. That same beautiful woman will only be valuable to men if she is elusive and mysterious. If she is easy to attain, they will get bored of her the minute they sleep with her.
An average woman who is unnattainable will be chased by men and offered marriage. Men want a woman they perceive as hard to get.
Well i had very low standards in the past. And not average, It depends also on the man. A true man will step up. And if you are average don't worry about that either. How you feel about yourself is what counts and plenty men will treat you right. It's not that black and white. Good men are hard to find but they are out here.
Define top 1% women.
This is what Kevin Samuels was saying on is platform, you may not like the messenger, but the message was delivered.
Being a woman is an asset in itself. Thats why the porn industry and prostitution will never end. Its not just looks but sex also allows for entitlement.
I see entitlement working for women in general. Its all about finding the right one. Even this said "1%" has to find the right simp to exercise entitlement 🤷🏾♀️
Then theres makeup. You can be beyonce if you want, with the right skills.
My point is, shes right to some degree but there are a lot of caveats.
There's no way that 1 in 100 women (1%) are what you might call "attractive." I'd say it's about 1 in 300-500.
She speaking the truth but a lot people will say she shallow or she says that because she is very pretty
So many people here talking about beauty is not all that matters. Of course we ALL know that. But what Sadia is talking about here is : beautiful women have higher chances of bagging successful men.
And then been left for a younger version 😂😂
Ah you’re projecting. If he leave her for a younger woman, I’m sure it wouldn’t be lost on her either. She can always find a better man. No marriage is guaranteed true but a woman divorced from a rich man is better than being divorced from a broke man. 🤷🏻♀️
@@Sailormoon899 How Am I projecting?? Do you know the meaning of projection?
Yes when a woman gets divorced in her fifties is a great catch.
Successful MEN THAT GOT MARRIED Based on the beauty of their spouse,
Tends to replace them when the beauty fades.
Statistics my darling!!!
LOL
Sailormoon899 How Am I projecting?? Do you know the meaning of projection?
Yes when a woman gets divorced in her fifties is a great catch.
Successful MEN THAT GOT MARRIED Based on the beauty of their spouse,
Tends to replace them when the beauty fades.
Statistics my darling!!!
LOL
How Am I projecting?? Do you know the meaning of projection?
Yes when a woman gets divorced in her fifties is a great catch.
Successful MEN THAT GOT MARRIED Based on the beauty of their spouse,
Tends to replace them when the beauty fades.
Statistics my darling!!!
LOL
I dont really know if I am attractive nor do I believe it when a guy tells me that. But I understand what she means, when I was talking to a friend, about my bar experiences, that men buy drinks for me all the time and random guys always try to get my number when Im walking around. And she told me that never happened to her…So yeah..
What does this lady know about the life of 'hyper beauties'? She would be considered average in my country.
A plastic average
She wouldn’t be nothing without the hair extensions & false eyelashes! lady, give me a break
Sounds vety superficial and immature. She herself sounds very entitled for an average woman. There are men who want women of substance.
Tend to agree with you. Harsh but true.
If I wanted in my younger years I could have gotten that type of attention but I respected men too much to want to look down on them. The stupid things men do for beautiful women… you just start to think they’re dumb. So I never tried too hard to be ultra attractive bc I wanted someone to like me for who I was. I would often play down my looks if I could. No one wants a foolish man for a husband.
I agree with you and your hyper beauty EVERY
TIME you speak a word 🥰
What good is to think you are so beautiful that you think nobody deserves you? Having values, personality and kind outweighs any beauty, that's just my opinion.
Personality, values etc are planty while beauty is rare like a diamond. It outweights everything else with ease.
she's telling us all the ingredients of truth 👏 blessings from Jamaica 🇯🇲 to all believers in Jesus name 🙏 ❤
This applies to a lot of things beyond physical attractiveness. People are received differently for a number of factors and should tailor their social approach with awareness of how they're seen. It's a kind of virtue signaling that really undermines a person trying to make their way when someone humble brags under the guise of providing advice.
That's a very sad thing she just said.
Hyper attractive Angleina Jolie did not last with hyper attractive Brad Pitt show to stop glorifying looks. The simple things still matter like love, loyalty and patience.
It takes a wise man to see beyond looks.
You’d be surprised how beauty is a double edged sword when it comes to finding love. Beautiful women find it tougher to enter relationships and then stay in relationships because of all the men who are interested in her. She reasons I can always do better, until one day she can’t. In a weirdly paradoxical way, beautiful women actually can’t find love.