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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
    @EntrepreneursInCars  2 роки тому +38

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    • @AustinKloud
      @AustinKloud 2 роки тому

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      @KyleSmithnewlife 9 місяців тому

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  • @gabrielscott9243
    @gabrielscott9243 2 роки тому +128

    I accidentally learned that if they fuck up once they'll keep going.

    • @bolotabr12
      @bolotabr12 5 місяців тому +4

      Like any cheater it doesn’t matter their gender

    • @obstinatejack
      @obstinatejack 4 місяці тому

      for sure

  • @OhCanada613
    @OhCanada613 2 роки тому +1331

    Guys its easy if she cheats, leave, that's about it. Imagine taking back ur ex after she f*cked another guy, and who knows what else. Guys have some self respect and some standards. Life gets better if you respect urself.

    • @SauceOnChickenBall
      @SauceOnChickenBall 2 роки тому +69

      Iv done it. It makes me sick looking back at how dumb I was.

    • @improvisedsurvival5967
      @improvisedsurvival5967 2 роки тому +36

      Never took one back. Not even for sex. We through.

    • @dawidzygmunt5688
      @dawidzygmunt5688 2 роки тому

      As long as you were non toxic,she is not worthy of your time- even if she would decide to change or hurting herself. Woman like this is a trash

    • @Zanatos9
      @Zanatos9 2 роки тому +25

      @@SauceOnChickenBall Agreed, did once (because I found out she was pregnant). Was 50/50 it was mine, stuck around on the agreement of no more of that shit. Concentrate on the kid (I wanted the nuclear family for the kids sake). Made sure to test it was mine. Low n behold, she did it again 3 years later. Her stuff was placed at the curb

    • @masterchiefbanana
      @masterchiefbanana 2 роки тому +8

      @@Zanatos9 that was absolutely the right decision, I just hope your Kid wont miss his Mom too much

  • @iketurnher4745
    @iketurnher4745 2 роки тому +68

    They always come back when they see that you're now successful. They will even try to sabotage your knew relationships to get you back.

  • @jermaineayivoh8263
    @jermaineayivoh8263 2 роки тому +127

    Women are like children. They only respect true authority. If a woman cheats on a man, it is the ultimate sign of her disrespect and lack of love for him. If you take a cheating woman back, it signals to her that you as a man have no authority, no boundaries and that you are not to be taken seriously, no matter how many times she swears up and down that she has “changed” and promises not to do it again until she is blue in the face.
    When a woman asks for “forgiveness” for cheating it is nothing more than a self preservation tactic, what it really means is that she doesn’t want to face any consequences for her actions. She is asking the man to let her ultimate sign of disrespect towards him slide without any repercussions for herself. The minute a man agrees to such terms, she will lose respect for him because she now understands that no matter what she does, all she has to do is say “sorry” and receive a get out of jail free card.
    Imagine robbing a bank and you got caught by the police. If all you had to do is say “sorry I won’t do it again” for the police to let you go without any sort of punishment, would it really deter you from trying to rob another bank in the future ? Why would it ?
    All you would have learned from that scenario, is that there are no real repercussions for robbing a bank, so you could just do it again at some other point and just say “sorry” again to be let off scot-free once more.
    This is the biggest mistake most men make with women.

    • @vanmontgomery3754
      @vanmontgomery3754 2 роки тому +3

      Very well said !!

    • @INSTAKILLA
      @INSTAKILLA 2 роки тому +2

      Preach

    • @larking1555
      @larking1555 2 роки тому

      Women are not like children. Calm the hell down. Assholes are assholes. This is not a gender issue. No one should be footing all the bills either. Male or female. If you think there aren’t a whole slew of men in this world that live off women- all I can say is I sure wish I lived in your bubble.

    • @taylorswag4462
      @taylorswag4462 2 роки тому +1

      “Women are like children” damn that sexism can’t be anymore clear
      Just be a decent person instead of feeling like you need to be a certain way.
      If your girlfriend cheats, then leave, simple.

    • @jermaineayivoh8263
      @jermaineayivoh8263 2 роки тому

      @@taylorswag4462
      Reality is “sexist”, but I am willing to bet that women like yourself don’t bat an eye when that same sexism benefits you. I don’t hear women say anything about “ladies night” in nightclubs when you lot get in for free. Or the notion that most women hold that a man should pay for the date, or that women can join the military without having to reach the same standards as men for the fitness tests.
      The truth of the matter is no true equality exists between the sexes because women can’t handle true equality. There are gender roles for a reason.
      Just like man became arrogant thinking he can become more than he truly is by trying to be like God, women today have developed a level of arrogance thinking they can become more than they are by trying to be like men. We are the first borns, God made man first and then made the woman as his help mate. There are hierarchies to everything in life.

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. 2 роки тому +59

    Its important to keep listening to these guys experiences, not to laught at them, but to keep reminding yourself not to fall into the same trap.

    • @outsider8683
      @outsider8683 2 роки тому +7

      That's what I call wisdow, bruh. Not-happening-with-me fellas prefer to laugh to fill their superiority meter, but will be the firsts to get womenly emotional when something similar happen with them.🦄

    • @Balthier1992
      @Balthier1992 Рік тому +1

      Brother it literally will happen to everyone of us

    • @obstinatejack
      @obstinatejack 4 місяці тому

      i think most grown ass men will experience these types of situations, hopefully thru a friend and not your own

  • @choochoo2348
    @choochoo2348 2 роки тому +40

    If she can’t ride with you when things are bad you don’t need her around ❗️

    • @Ap_twsh
      @Ap_twsh 8 місяців тому +2

      Woman like that are just used and thats all they are good for unfortunately.

  • @SG-bb8pq
    @SG-bb8pq 2 роки тому +453

    "I've changed" The pattern is ingrained in her to repeated this process over and over an again. She will never stop until she drains the next partner and move on to the next. Never ending cycle.

    • @kemuan01
      @kemuan01 2 роки тому

      It only stops when they “hit the wall” and can no longer attract any man of value

    • @immortaljanus
      @immortaljanus 2 роки тому +19

      "No, you don't get it. This time, I'm REALLY changed..."

    • @miiko7859
      @miiko7859 2 роки тому +1

      Oh really? You’ve changed that much? Ya no come back when you have a sixpack and a genital reassignment then I’ll be convinced you’ve changed

    • @300beatz
      @300beatz 2 роки тому +19

      She did change, she changed from this guy, to that guy, to that guy, and then back to this guy. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez 2 роки тому +3

      @@300beatz good one. 🤣 thanks for the laugh.

  • @unvaccinatedmgtowfitness
    @unvaccinatedmgtowfitness 2 роки тому +55

    Don’t ever get involved with broken women, whether from a broken home or she’s just mentally unstable and her own life is a dumpster fire.

    • @Vivungisport
      @Vivungisport Рік тому +1

      LOL, so god dam true😊🙏

    • @McGregaFletch
      @McGregaFletch Рік тому +3

      Wait! There’s one’s that aren’t??

    • @Applleheead
      @Applleheead 8 місяців тому +1

      Yeah leave us to the broken men that we so love lol such a vicious cycle

  • @AthenaCannon
    @AthenaCannon 2 роки тому +414

    Chris Rock: If you lose your job, your woman may not leave you immediately. But believe me, the count down is on!

    • @kevinayers6322
      @kevinayers6322 2 роки тому +6

      You need to stop

    • @orangehearing4682
      @orangehearing4682 2 роки тому +16

      @@kevinayers6322 why?

    • @experimentalfirearms3273
      @experimentalfirearms3273 2 роки тому +2

      @Player 98 fr

    • @JT-km6th
      @JT-km6th 2 роки тому +20

      @Player 98 We don't live in a society that values commitment anymore. Even career advice in many areas is to stay for 2-3 years then move to get a bump in salary. It is engrained into the culture, so no. That ship has sailed.

    • @sgt.vernex6378
      @sgt.vernex6378 2 роки тому +2

      @@JT-km6th sad but true

  • @jopanet
    @jopanet Рік тому +14

    Facts. Never get back with a woman who isnt loyal or bounces when times get tough.

  • @Jasonrm92
    @Jasonrm92 2 роки тому +128

    My LTR/Fiancee of 11 years done this when I lost my career/savings due to covid/unemployment lmao. Zero support, she wasn't interested. I was with her from 17-28.
    Dodged a massive bullet if you ask me.
    Build yourself back better.

    • @biebersucks27
      @biebersucks27 2 роки тому +7

      Damn bro. W can be far more brutal.

    • @Zanatos9
      @Zanatos9 2 роки тому +10

      Consider yourself lucky you didn't get married. Or you could of been worse off.

    • @justis377
      @justis377 2 роки тому +7

      Damn Bro that’s good you’re still so young. I’m 23 but learning & experiencing woman nature makes it so much harder to love them the same

    • @mehmetabdullah250
      @mehmetabdullah250 2 роки тому +3

      You definitely dodged a bullet bro at least she showed you her true face when you were still young

    • @experimentalfirearms3273
      @experimentalfirearms3273 2 роки тому +2

      Fuck 'em

  • @michaelryan3818
    @michaelryan3818 2 роки тому +344

    Exact same situation here. Had to take a lower paying job when we moved to Memphis, she cheated and broke up with me. 1 year later I'm living in Colorado after 2 promotions and guess who starts calling. Sorry, but I've got mountains to climb.

    • @danjonmills
      @danjonmills 2 роки тому +6

      Nice.
      How'd you handle it; did you tell her to kick rocks or did you go stone cold killer and just blank her completely?

    • @michaelryan3818
      @michaelryan3818 2 роки тому +36

      @@danjonmills I was pretty civil actually. I explained to her exactly why she wouldn't get the second chance with me and haven't talked to her since.

    • @Andy-Andeee
      @Andy-Andeee 2 роки тому +12

      @MY CATS COOL only go backwards when reversing your car 🧐

    • @biebersucks27
      @biebersucks27 2 роки тому +5

      Based. Stay strong fella!

    • @zeroizanagi
      @zeroizanagi 2 роки тому +6

      Nah, she's got that mountain to climb to reach you. Don't climb the mountain you already conquered to carry her up

  • @tychonovavontacocat8390
    @tychonovavontacocat8390 2 роки тому +104

    I lost a big job in construction and she cheated on me. Then she came into the bar smoking section where I was and started yelling at me and being crazy, and I said your just the town bicycle and everyone gets a ride. Then this guy started simping for her and after a few minutes came at me but I then recognized him as my cousin and she got so mad when she saw us talking. Haha. She thought he was going to handle me. Haha.

    • @krishnakamal9612
      @krishnakamal9612 2 роки тому +8

      Taking advantage of this situation to break up with you or blame on you saying its your mistake not mine, 😲 well i don't know about my opinion offended, then i am sorry 😲

    • @tychonovavontacocat8390
      @tychonovavontacocat8390 2 роки тому +1

      @@krishnakamal9612 ...She thought we couldn't go to the bar anymore and I wouldn't be dropping over a hundred dollars every night.

    • @krishnakamal9612
      @krishnakamal9612 2 роки тому +3

      @@tychonovavontacocat8390 you're right 👍

    • @obstinatejack
      @obstinatejack 4 місяці тому

      should warn your cous to stay away from her

  • @PhantomFilmAustralia
    @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 роки тому +69

    When a woman says that she's changed will always come back.
    When a man says that he's changed would never want the woman back.

    • @paintspot1509
      @paintspot1509 2 роки тому

      Have you ever spoken to a female before?

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 роки тому +2

      @@paintspot1509 I'm not sure. I didn't ask what pronoun they identify with.

    • @paintspot1509
      @paintspot1509 2 роки тому

      @@PhantomFilmAustralia I would recommend it. You might learn alot

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 роки тому +3

      Thanks for the tip. You're a legend! 👍

    • @lovewhitey4462
      @lovewhitey4462 2 роки тому

      Interesting take 🧐

  • @spartanses
    @spartanses 2 роки тому +190

    She's not yours, it's just your turn

    • @hbkkidcorrupt
      @hbkkidcorrupt 2 роки тому +7

      Wrap up fellas

    • @experimentalfirearms3273
      @experimentalfirearms3273 2 роки тому +3

      Yucky

    • @Alonsooooooo
      @Alonsooooooo 2 роки тому +4

      shit that hurts so bad, but is so true, I need to practicing stoicism so I could stop caring about these things

    • @Way2sublime77
      @Way2sublime77 2 роки тому

      Sounds like you've been to Thailand too 😂

    • @Vivungisport
      @Vivungisport Рік тому

      Your turn to slide in the pocket😊

  • @Zanatos9
    @Zanatos9 2 роки тому +44

    I remember I got a "let's break up" when I came home and said I got laid off (union). She thought that meant fired lol.

    • @redpilljesus
      @redpilljesus 2 роки тому

      Dodged a bullet.

    • @lemonlime257
      @lemonlime257 2 роки тому

      But it does mean you aren't working a job

    • @redpilljesus
      @redpilljesus 2 роки тому +15

      @@lemonlime257 for the moment, dude. It's a union - he'd get a new contract.

    • @klopcodez
      @klopcodez 2 роки тому +2

      What happened after that

    • @earthlymatters888
      @earthlymatters888 2 роки тому +3

      Finish the story dude

  • @safelol4727
    @safelol4727 Рік тому +3

    When I was married i could not afford anything. After dvorce life improved significantly

  • @smith077906
    @smith077906 2 роки тому +31

    'Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me'

  • @25enyce
    @25enyce 2 роки тому +3

    This happens to most men when getting your life together. Treat her like a toll road after paying... just keep moving forward!

  • @themormonblacksheep
    @themormonblacksheep 2 роки тому +26

    Once a cheater always a cheater. I'm a female so idk why the algorithm brought me here, but men there are amazing women who don't play games out there! I try not to get jaded about how there are so many broken man-children out there and look forward to meeting grown ass men who don't need a mom. So men, stay strong and find a woman who has found herself and truly loves herself. ❤💪

    • @besmart2350
      @besmart2350 Рік тому

      No, all women love to cheat, no need to pretend. It’s called hypergamy. Good women don’t exist

    • @CYellowan
      @CYellowan Рік тому

      Just don't mix up "being a mom" with being a helpful and supportive person as well. From psychology, we are all children on the inside anyways.

    • @besmart2350
      @besmart2350 Рік тому

      @@CYellowan women are children, men are not

  • @damondenis9406
    @damondenis9406 2 роки тому +30

    To invite her back into your bed shows that he hasn't learned a thing. It will happen to him again with another woman.
    Guys Women are just along for "The Ride" once you realize this & adjust your thinking of how they fit into "Your Life" you will live so much happier.

    • @jahnoii
      @jahnoii 2 роки тому +1

      I’m trying to get this to settle into my mind

    • @tangobear3536
      @tangobear3536 11 місяців тому

      Exactly. Small head decision that could've blown up everything he accomplished.

  • @xMrjamjam
    @xMrjamjam 2 роки тому +5

    I've changed meaning she's changed her mind because right now you are her best financial option at least until someone better comes along

  • @alfredconsiglio3967
    @alfredconsiglio3967 Рік тому

    Truth. Once broken 💔 it's very hard to change mindset

  • @romesrepublic
    @romesrepublic 2 роки тому +56

    Couldn't agree more. A woman like this is only good as a friends with benefits. Then it doesn't matter what she's up to. Just make sure you always wrap it if you're gonna tap it. A woman like this has no morals or integrity and will not hesitate to use a child to try to trap you.

  • @brownsuede4413
    @brownsuede4413 2 роки тому +48

    I had a similar situation where my EX cheated on me after one month moving into the house we brought together...Now im trying to get out of the lease, don't care about my credit I can fix it I just want to be gone and out of her life

    • @bassacoustic1549
      @bassacoustic1549 2 роки тому +12

      Oh man. Good luck dude. At least you’ve made a firm decision, being in limbo about it all would be even worse.
      You’ll be stronger for the experience and know to keep them at arms length until you’re a million percent sure they have good character. Lots of absolute trash about I’m afraid.

    • @romesrepublic
      @romesrepublic 2 роки тому +2

      Woah, how long did you guys date before moving in?

    • @brownsuede4413
      @brownsuede4413 2 роки тому +4

      @@romesrepublic @ 3 years before moving in together

    • @brownsuede4413
      @brownsuede4413 2 роки тому +5

      @@bassacoustic1549 Indeed brother, These scars are just markers for what couldn't kill me

    • @0rtaz
      @0rtaz 2 роки тому

      @@brownsuede4413 I'm sorry what happened to you. three years is quite a long time. At that time did you notice something strange in her that made you a little suspicious, but perhaps you ignored?

  • @bonnitacazares7379
    @bonnitacazares7379 2 роки тому +6

    My first love cheated on me and i was so devastated. I dropped everything i was doing and rearranged my whole life for him. After about 6 months i just couldn't stay anymore so i left. But by that time i was so broken inside i was never the same again. Anyhow, after a few years we started talking again and decided to meet up. Us meeting up meant i would have to travel 2 hours to his house. The beginning was great, i felt like we are going to be in love again, but then it happened. He got mad at me for not wanting to have sex with him. I hadn't seen this man for 3 year and the first time i see him he gets mad i don't want sex. I was so heart broken.

    • @DaOverman00
      @DaOverman00 5 місяців тому

      You should learn from your mistakes. The same thing I was told when my ex partner cheated on me.

  • @katlynklassen809
    @katlynklassen809 2 роки тому +8

    A woman will explain away half a decade as a bad confused time but she will kick you to the curb in less than a year under the same.

    • @trustme7660
      @trustme7660 2 роки тому

      I’ve been kicked for less they really don’t care they’ll drop you on a dime

    • @phillipwilliams3051
      @phillipwilliams3051 11 місяців тому

      That's because women don't want to hear a man's problems, he should always have it together that's how they are wired

  • @johnnyb5048
    @johnnyb5048 2 роки тому +1

    Love the shorts Cooper. Keep it up!

  • @juicebox464
    @juicebox464 2 роки тому +4

    That's one thing I have never put up with if they cheat there gone 100% it's not worth your time

  • @wickedwitch7456
    @wickedwitch7456 2 роки тому +2

    I wonder if these type of people don't actually know what they're doing is wrong. Like, we all want a stability in our life, and she she saw her future with him was bleak it was easy to cheat, and when he's successful she is ready to have that old future back.
    From her point of view she would probably justify herself as looking out for herself or something and i realised most people justify their actions more than actually accepting their flaw.
    I can't properly explain it but i say people often believe the lie they told themselves

  • @alexstrings
    @alexstrings Рік тому +1

    I used to be a violinist when music was a big deal in the early 2000, I got sick, I lost my hair. She left.

  • @Boo.....
    @Boo..... 2 роки тому +5

    We spend so much of our time watching movies, reading books and listening to songs where it's the guy who is being cussed for cheating, we almost forgot that it goes the other way just as much.

  • @alfredolicud1990
    @alfredolicud1990 Рік тому +2

    The man DEFINITELY dodged a bullet.

  • @andonisvatougios1734
    @andonisvatougios1734 Рік тому +1

    Rich, as much as I think you should move on from those gals that bitched you, you do make a valid point here.

  • @brunowario5169
    @brunowario5169 2 роки тому +3

    So true Rich, manipulative women will cause unnecessary drama in your life.

  • @pawneraser9022
    @pawneraser9022 2 роки тому +38

    What's the point of having a wife?

    • @dlbutler
      @dlbutler 2 роки тому +24

      Children, who are best raised in an intact family structure. If you don't want to be a father, then having a wife is pointless. And, I'll preempt the host of follow on comments by noting that having kids in a marriage these days is a high-risk proposition, as you will likely get marginalized as a dad for all but your financial contributions.

    • @Sohelanthropus
      @Sohelanthropus 2 роки тому

      Actually having a partner who adds to your life so you 2 can raise a family

    • @pawneraser9022
      @pawneraser9022 2 роки тому +14

      @@dlbutler I think my question could go further by asking, whats the point of having a wife in a time where marital and relationship values are deteriorating? These stories are atrocious and it just sounds like having fairweather freind around to make a big commitment with.

    • @jithinff8686
      @jithinff8686 2 роки тому +3

      @@pawneraser9022 its pointless brother

    • @Fuck90Percent
      @Fuck90Percent 2 роки тому +2

      @@Sohelanthropus u can raise a family without being married

  • @ezengineering4363
    @ezengineering4363 2 роки тому +11

    Holy shit. This is close to home.

  • @MXRiderFiftyTwo
    @MXRiderFiftyTwo Рік тому +1

    Where he went wrong is, he answered her message and made contact

  • @sushant.280
    @sushant.280 Рік тому +1

    Guys...just focus on yourself and earn everything... that's the way of men

  • @dmark2639
    @dmark2639 2 роки тому +57

    Problem is...99% of modern women are like that.

    • @trustme7660
      @trustme7660 2 роки тому +4

      That just shows women view men as investments when one fails jumps to the one who’s winning but keeps her eyes open to all just looking for the biggest pay out

  • @nikki5399
    @nikki5399 2 роки тому +1

    There are 2 kinds of people. Those who cheat(and somehow live with themselves), and those who don’t. You’re 100% in one group or the other, there are no shades of gray. Once you find out that she has the ABILITY to cheat on a person you move on. Past behavior is the biggest predicator of future behavior.

  • @LulaRoberts
    @LulaRoberts Рік тому +1

    🤔🧐Well Spoken Sir 👍.

  • @johndotter351
    @johndotter351 5 місяців тому

    If she didn't want you at your worst she dosen't deserve you at your best!

  • @Hogiewan1
    @Hogiewan1 2 роки тому +1

    Trying to end a 30 year disaster of a marriage due to substance abuse, terrible money problems due to her spending, and infidelity with a former friend. I hired a kick a$$ attorney, legally abiding PI, and foiled her plans by surprising her with divorce papers and got full custody. So glad to have stumbled onto Rich and his content. It’s helped me navigate and better myself. Thank you!

  • @jjohnsengraciesmom
    @jjohnsengraciesmom Рік тому +1

    Do Not do Friends With Benefits. It never ends well.

  • @JT-km6th
    @JT-km6th 2 роки тому +4

    He doesn't understand how lucky he is she got 7 calls from the other guy and he saw it. We all know he would gotten back with her if it wasn't for that.

  • @DanielRodriguez-gy2fg
    @DanielRodriguez-gy2fg Рік тому +2

    yeah let me just stop you there lmfao 😂😂

  • @mandoarevee7578
    @mandoarevee7578 Рік тому +1

    Men who thrive create and produce RESOURCES. Modern women consume and extract RESOURCES.

  • @ivokelhuo
    @ivokelhuo Рік тому

    Friends with benefits dont work due to the " energy" exchange (degrading interests, taking up subconsciously cues from other person). Similar as surrounding with degrading people in your life.

  • @hadrianj684
    @hadrianj684 11 місяців тому +1

    I wouldn’t even do friends with benefits. Every sexual interaction could end in pregnancy resulting in being tied to this girl for life. Hell no.

  • @jorad4887
    @jorad4887 Рік тому

    once it's over it's over nothing is going to change, don't slip back in, find better options

  • @ngreat4390
    @ngreat4390 2 роки тому +3

    You didn't have financial problems because you paid for everything, you had financial problems because you weren't earning enough for that type of lifestyle. So your best bet would have been to create a plan

  • @imranrombouts7230
    @imranrombouts7230 2 роки тому +5

    I don't think being friends with benefits with an ex is that good of an idea lol

  • @kc9770
    @kc9770 4 місяці тому +1

    What a lost excuse for a human woman. I stand by the fact that if you love a support a man who is struggling, when he makes it, you’re a part of it. Money is meaningless. Money is irrelevant.
    Gosh I wish people would open their eyes. We’re literally here to love and experience and procreate. Chasing anything else is a waste of time. Cheating because a man’s financial situation changes? That’s absolutely insane

  • @krishnakamal9612
    @krishnakamal9612 2 роки тому +2

    I get it ,what he is saying
    It's not easy if your partner doesn't have love for you, it will totally messed up, many guy lost 8/10 partner, never do this,if you want your smooth sailing life
    Some guys would prefer the women they know should be an best option, rather then spending with unknown crazy women,for chasing in love 😀

  • @tangobear3536
    @tangobear3536 11 місяців тому +1

    Welcoming her back over for a night in bed was a massive mistake---massive. Small head thinking. She could've yelled and screamed to the cops after that if she didn't get what she wanted, and he'd be F'd.

  • @lordtimothy9740
    @lordtimothy9740 Рік тому +1

    Once a woman is gone do not under any circumstances take her back ever. The reason why that man in that video success went up is because he got rid of that woman she was the one who kept him broke.

  • @EC-ol8nz
    @EC-ol8nz 2 роки тому

    Beautiful said👍🏿

  • @theneonfox3414
    @theneonfox3414 2 роки тому +2

    If you go back to a cheater and give them a second chance than any damage after that is your own doing and self-pity is you feeling an idiot for making an obvious bad decision
    (a Cheetah never changes its spots) you’re worth more than reaccepting a cheater in your life

  • @alexm.handro1313
    @alexm.handro1313 5 місяців тому +1

    Never take her back after she has betrayed you.

  • @hasibgulastani9561
    @hasibgulastani9561 2 роки тому +1

    Very good advice;
    Accept the exes just for friends with benefits

  • @thesmartbudgetchannel2940
    @thesmartbudgetchannel2940 10 місяців тому +1

    If a woman cheats don't ever f****** take her back.

    • @bashiruddinahmad408
      @bashiruddinahmad408 10 місяців тому

      No sex from my wife in 2 years is she cheating I don't know..

  • @Applleheead
    @Applleheead 8 місяців тому

    Glad to hear he acknowledged some women do try to fix red flags.

  • @Im_michi
    @Im_michi 2 роки тому +1

    I’m a girl and yeah that girl doesn’t love him. She loves the money he now has.
    She cheated once and she’ll do it again because that’s what every cheater does. They never change and stop cheating if they have tried it once. So yeah I hope that guy doesn’t talk to her.

  • @lukekhalid896
    @lukekhalid896 2 роки тому +2

    The best part of this story is when he said, "Let me stop you there"🤣🤣. We all saw where this was going, like dude get to the friggin point. Lol

  • @aa_new_creation
    @aa_new_creation 9 місяців тому

    #1 She will never respect you if you take her back, even when it’s her idea.
    #2 She only wants to get back because it didn’t work out with him, you will always be in second place.
    Don’t get upset, leave tell her to take care and Never look back!

  • @vitkomusic6624
    @vitkomusic6624 10 місяців тому

    My story exactly the same. But i screwed up myself too.

  • @wesleywashington1251
    @wesleywashington1251 Рік тому +1

    You gotta be simping pretty hard for a woman to take her back after she cheats. Never take her back, bros. Respect yourself!! And never have a 'fantastic night' with an ex who's cheated on you. They don't deserve that 'fantastic night' with you ever again. Besides, she's only giving herself to you in bed because she wants you to take care of her again. See through the bullshit when she claims she loves you again. To her you're just a meal ticket she's trying to reclaim after throwing you away for what she thinks is a better situation. She's only out for herself.

  • @SuzanneQuew-vc4us
    @SuzanneQuew-vc4us 4 місяці тому

    Do you really want your know what she was doing? As a women, I’ve done this…she was checking to see how he was doing now, after the struggle. She liked him, but if he struggled financially, she didn’t like him, she only liked him as a wealthy/financially stable man. If that’s ok with him, that’s fine, take her back…but know, next time you could be struggling with three kids and her, she’s going to leave his a$& again. If he’s with her, he’s always going to have the pressure of hustling and staying financially set to keep her, always, because she’s that kind of woman. In her defense, she’s somewhat transparent about that, no? It’s like, she could forgive him once, but she was hesitant to stay with him, she probably did love him, but she’s probably beautiful and young, she only had a finite amount of time.
    I will say, as long as a women stays childless she’s going to be a catch, but you give up having children to stay attractive (no baggage) in your 40’s…

  • @robinorga528
    @robinorga528 2 роки тому +1

    Your right Richard

  • @Lord_necromancer
    @Lord_necromancer 2 роки тому +1

    Look, if you're struggling financially the clock is ticking. Her interest begins to drop, fast, once problem come up and if she's not cheating yet, she will be soon, no matter who she is. No exceptions.

    • @klopcodez
      @klopcodez 2 роки тому

      90% struggle financially that’s a fact very few in that 90% live comfortable the rest of the 9% live very comfortable but in living standards while the 1% live and get what they want

    • @col2959
      @col2959 Рік тому

      Not that clear cut mate.

  • @captainfalcon8615
    @captainfalcon8615 2 роки тому

    RUN!!!

  • @Octopus_MTEF_MinEco_BU
    @Octopus_MTEF_MinEco_BU Рік тому

    My G, Rich - keeps it real.

  • @omaralkayal7598
    @omaralkayal7598 2 роки тому +2

    this is wrong, he was almost going to forgive her but then saw the missed calls from the other guy
    he should have never invited her in the first place

  • @davidbooher5559
    @davidbooher5559 4 місяці тому

    Poor guy. He sounds reasonable and intelligent and he’s a good looking man. He dodged a bullet.

  • @automan1223
    @automan1223 9 місяців тому

    key take away is her negative energy was holding him down & ruining his future. As soon as he was single his opportunities opened up. I bet she told him if it were not for her he would have been such a loser when they were going out.

  • @master11213
    @master11213 2 роки тому +1

    When you pay for everything, it's means the other person is lazy or not willing to do more. I'm ok if you want to take care of the house, do some financial planning incase this stuff happens, or even invest in things that will provide outside of his income while he works.
    But if you just stay home and do basic things like cook clean and take care of kids, then you need to be able to ride those hard times out. Stop depending on others to provide and get it yourself

  • @profearoum
    @profearoum 2 роки тому +4

    Oh no no no, not even friends with benefits, just look at the guy, she knows she can manipulate him. Don't ever get involved with trash

  • @johnnytate69
    @johnnytate69 2 роки тому +2

    1) Marriage is IPO for women
    2) Divorce is cashing out.
    3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government

  • @spewku
    @spewku 2 роки тому +1

    This is nice and all, but where can I watch the whole thing?

  • @bigneiltoo
    @bigneiltoo 8 місяців тому

    It's okay to take them back. If she apologizes, accept it (it's so rare). Just don't marry her. And it's okay to still love her after she moves on. We only have a few people in life who we love years later. It gives us salvation. That doesn't mean they were perfect.

  • @N4divers
    @N4divers 10 місяців тому

    Never take a woman back after she’s cheated. Even if it’s for a hookup because that’s either how she’ll trap you with a kid or even try to accuse you of something to get you back. It’s sad we have to think this way but there are a lot of evil women out there.

  • @gsxr2fst498
    @gsxr2fst498 8 місяців тому

    Problem with friends and benefits. Men get weak and fall in love. It have to be an understanding.

  • @nopenope7777
    @nopenope7777 11 місяців тому

    Listen men....NEVER go back to an ex that cheats. Once a woman cheats they have no love for you. I suggest not going back to an ex unless the relationship ended amicably. They got a job in another city, had to move away to take care of a family member, college scholarship etc. it's rare so don't get your hopes up.

  • @kimberHD45
    @kimberHD45 2 роки тому +4

    “Friends with benefits thing”?! What are you trying to do, set him up for STD’s or get him killed? What kind of advice guru are you?

    • @besmart2350
      @besmart2350 Рік тому

      Why would he get killed? STD is true. Sluts have HIV

  • @davidbooher5559
    @davidbooher5559 4 місяці тому

    Meaning….. you 🫵 have financial problems.
    Classic ! ☝️👍💪

  • @ktg5713
    @ktg5713 2 роки тому +2

    Can Speak any language but he speaks facts

  • @ducatiscottiev2panigale617
    @ducatiscottiev2panigale617 Рік тому +1

    Just got rid of one

  • @olavilha
    @olavilha 4 місяці тому

    Let him speak. Dont stop him like that.

  • @morpheus2072
    @morpheus2072 2 роки тому +10

    The Non melinated Kevin Samuels

    • @sopronunciareglignocchi7255
      @sopronunciareglignocchi7255 2 роки тому +1

      White people have melanin, just not as much as non-whites as white people evolved in colder and more cloudy environments.

    • @morpheus2072
      @morpheus2072 2 роки тому +1

      @@sopronunciareglignocchi7255 very well aware. Sorry you're triggered by the metaphoric lingo.

    • @sopronunciareglignocchi7255
      @sopronunciareglignocchi7255 2 роки тому

      @@morpheus2072
      I'm sorry you're too thick to admit you're wrong. Instead you project your angst onto me, whilst rambling about it being a metaphor - even though what you said wasn't a metaphor.
      Try again.

    • @johnjohnny3862
      @johnjohnny3862 2 роки тому

      The living Kevin Samuel's... to soon? lol

  • @robertb6912
    @robertb6912 2 роки тому

    I'm so sorry

  • @daviedood2503
    @daviedood2503 5 місяців тому +1

    Talked to a woman for a month and a half. Randomly ghosted me. A year and one month later...
    _"Hey i hope this is still your number"_
    I left it on read and didn't respond. Was contemplating it. Then im like. She prolly had an issue with some dude she ghosted me for and figured she was thinking
    _"this white boy likes me and will occupy my time for now"_
    Until she'll just do it again. Not gonna lie, feels pretty good to leave HER there sitting on ice.. 🤔 surprised me actually she texted. I sorta saw it like an insult actually.. i also figured she'd conjure up some lie as to why she ghosted me randomly.. 🤣

  • @LeeWild-f1m
    @LeeWild-f1m 9 місяців тому

    My friend had a wife he needed heart surgery which put him out of work for a while he wasn’t getting paid because he was self employed his wife left him couple months later 🤦🏽what’s sad is us men would sick with are lady’s no matter what it’s been couple years now but my friend is doing great making money but he’s still single which I can’t blame him 🙌🏽

  • @rejectwokeness1314
    @rejectwokeness1314 2 роки тому

    Through weal or woe, through thick or thin... NOT!

  • @mandoarevee7578
    @mandoarevee7578 2 роки тому +1

    In life, men are like running a marathon. Women have no respect who quit b4 the finish line. When they see you reaching the goal at the end. She'll be waiting without you knowing. Only to get from you because your success. Not to congratulate you. BUT TO DESTROY YOU.

  • @felixramirez4402
    @felixramirez4402 2 роки тому +3

    What I don't get is how these moronic women even have the gall to try and get back with an ex who seemingly is getting their lives back in order. Like that really says alot about said women.

    • @randomflagg7331
      @randomflagg7331 2 роки тому +1

      True that, and what happened to being independent and trying to be more than a letch? They don't really bring anything to relationships now do they. Ask them and they get offended. They get offended about everything. They aren't interesting in the slightest anymore. They put too much emphasis on they look, combine that with two ideals neither one complete and the result is Avoid at all costs!!

  • @harryprater9014
    @harryprater9014 2 роки тому

    Run dude !!!!! Stay away.. been there.

  • @winfriedkloeser3244
    @winfriedkloeser3244 8 місяців тому

    Bin there, walked away bought a new truck and atv. Best decision ever. Got two puppies went hunting and fishing with all my friends. The dogs were crazy about riding the quads.

  • @stephenscott6111
    @stephenscott6111 2 роки тому

    Never ever.