Crazy Ex-Girlfriend: the character analysis you needed

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  • Опубліковано 25 вер 2024
  • Why Rebecca Bunch is one of the best female characters in modern TV history... Today I'll explore the evolution of her character- explore her motivations, character development, and relationships. Including the depiction of BPD, trauma from childhood, male centricity, and the obsessive love trope.
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  • @antiheroine3611
    @antiheroine3611 Рік тому +88

    "The guys that I was most violently obsessed with were the people I aspired to be. " That's an incredible insight. Damn.. I might have to watch this show

  • @dragonflyry
    @dragonflyry Рік тому +387

    “this is the first video in my crazy ex girlfriend series” THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU this has been one of my all time faves since it was airing & theres next to NO content about it on youtube!!! you’re such a queen

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +18

      anything for you darling

    • @littlecookie22
      @littlecookie22 Рік тому +11

      there are also video essays by bagels after midnight

    • @talesyuki
      @talesyuki Рік тому +7

      @@littlecookie22 Yeah and they're great, but there's a surpringly tiny amount of videos about CxG. Such a good show!

    • @bellalalala3327
      @bellalalala3327 Рік тому +5

      @@littlecookie22 bagels after midnight singlehandedly fed my cxgf obsession for a whole year

  • @Emwaroccoanastasia
    @Emwaroccoanastasia Рік тому +294

    there is such a small amount of crazy ex girlfriend analysis content, thank you for this! i love it!!

  • @bips3470
    @bips3470 Рік тому +101

    one of my favorite little tidbits from this series is actually how they weaved episode titles into the seasons’ themes! during season 1, every episode title mentions Josh in some way, and they’re all exclamations to show how excited Rebecca is in her own delusion. in season 2, this persists but they are all framed as questions - potentially to drive home the idea of paranoia and self doubt. this keeps up in season 3 with full stops, to evidence her passive-aggressiveness and need for revenge, and then the focus shifts to Nathaniel. it’s not until season 4 where the titles begin with “I” and have no one else’s name on them, that Rebecca truly starts to focus on herself and her healing journey!

  • @evildoesnotsleep-x2b
    @evildoesnotsleep-x2b Рік тому +146

    there has never been a show like this, introspective and funny with loads of creativity infused in every detail

  • @societycrumbles
    @societycrumbles Рік тому +82

    Criminally underrated show, so smart, clever, funny and touching. Everyone needs to see it.

  • @x_MirariM_x
    @x_MirariM_x Рік тому +40

    The show's writers didn't actually have a specific diagnosis in mind when writing the first two seasons. They showed clips of Rebecca's behaviour to real psychologists and asked what they might diagnose someone with these tendencies, and while it might seem backward I actually love this approach to mental illness, since it allows them to avoid stereotyping/preconceived biases and mirrors how actual people are diagnosed. It's a testament to how real and organic the writing in the show is, and how believable of a character Rebecca is, that they could perfectly capture a specific mental illness without even realising it.

    • @deedreamerify
      @deedreamerify 5 місяців тому +1

      I didn't know this! I'm doing a rewatch and this is a great piece of insight to bring into it, thank you for commenting this!

  • @thoraortegren
    @thoraortegren Рік тому +31

    as a person with bpd, the representation of my illness in this show honestly made me feel so seen. I first watched this when i was 16 and undiagnosed. Even then, I always related to Rebecca’s struggles. I really feel that this is the only accurate representation of bpd. Finally we aren’t just crazy people who manipulate others to get what we want,,, we’re actually people. We see Rebecca’s good and bad side. We see how compassionate she is, but also how impulsive. This show is a necessity for all borderlines. I watched the show again at 19, fresh after my diagnosis, and it was so helpful in my own healing. I cant thank Rachel Bloom enough for this show. I really wish more media out there would reduce the stigma around borderline. I just watched “bodies bodies bodies” and one of the characters reveals their mom is a “borderline” and the whole cast treats it like it’s this crazy disease and if her mom had it, then she does and she must be the one murdering everybody! That made me feel so shitty. CEG, shows that we are all human, despite our diagnosis.

    • @peachberrypie
      @peachberrypie Рік тому +1

      I was diagnosed with anxiety, then depression, then bpd by 3 different therapists, not sure who to trust, but I see myself in the character. I do a lot of what she does and I have been doing it for years lol

  • @thaboiinblue
    @thaboiinblue Рік тому +51

    This was one of the CW’s BEST shows. SUCH high quality and excellent acting, musical performances, comedy, writing, and heart.
    My favorite songs were “I’m So Good At Yoga” (you HAVE to listen to it uncensored), “Stuck in the Bathroom”, “Sex with a Stranger”, “Don’t Settle For Me”, and “Let’s Generalize About Men”. Also Paula’s “Face Your Fears” was HILARIOUS!

    • @ayaaralemua7154
      @ayaaralemua7154 Рік тому

      Run with scissors 😂

    • @BurnTheTeddy
      @BurnTheTeddy Рік тому +2

      the boyband with four joshes is HILARIOUS too

    • @themanfromhell24
      @themanfromhell24 Рік тому

      i loved the show... except for the songs. they were honestly the worst part, to the point that i would have to skip through to the next scene every time. most of them would start out great, but then would go on for waaaaaayyy too long. It ended up giving me the impression that they were being extended to fill time, which was disappointing from a show that is otherwise full of attention to detail.

  • @jovanakrivokapic
    @jovanakrivokapic Рік тому +92

    Everybody should watch it honestly, such a good quality show and beyond hilarious too, loved itttt. AND THE RIDICULOUS INTRO SONGS, made me giggle so much

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +17

      hahah my favourite is "I'm just a girl in love"

  • @SweenyTodd98
    @SweenyTodd98 Рік тому +42

    This show is so good! I actually got to see Rachel Bloom perform live back in the fall of 2019. Being in the audience and getting to sing "You Stupid Bitch" back to her was an incredible experience!

    • @Danielle-zq7kb
      @Danielle-zq7kb Рік тому +4

      So lucky! I saw the televised version of the live musical show.

  • @elicohen4515
    @elicohen4515 Рік тому +49

    This was a great show and I’m very happy to see people engage with it even years after it ended

  • @BigMacsm245
    @BigMacsm245 Рік тому +21

    Multiple Crazy Ex videos? Amazing! It's such a great show. Netflix done a bad job advertising it (I know it's the CW but we don't get CW where I live) looked very generic and boring in their previews but I watched it because I liked Racheal Bloom and it turned out to be one of the best shows of all time! You can really tell that a lot of love was put into the show.

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh Рік тому +1

      Netflix doesn't do well advertising much of anything

    • @BigMacsm245
      @BigMacsm245 Рік тому +1

      @@rahbeeuh True, It amazes me how many of their previews still use the "random clips with a voice over narrator who isn't even in the show" like it's still the 90's. It's like the south park voice over parody but they're still using it seriously.

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh Рік тому +2

      @@BigMacsm245 the show aired in a completely different time for TV. It was originally set to air on Showtime but that deal fell through. I think had it aired on Showtime their promo would've been different. With a show like CXGF I don't think most networks know what to do with it bc of how different it is

  • @devisrina
    @devisrina Рік тому +31

    Oh my god it’s an amazing show! Season 3 was my favourite season. The plane scene really hit my feels, and I’m so glad that the flight attendant was there and offered her kindness.
    Although I am team Nathaniel, and I like to believe they get together afterwards, I like the key message that she didn’t have to get together with someone and I like that she is just doing what she loved.

    • @writerwannabe8778
      @writerwannabe8778 Рік тому +1

      Same. I loved Nathaniel. Ugh, and strip away my conscience is my favourite song. There's also an edit of the show, with the song 'Reasons not to die', I think you'd probably like. It's how discovered that song. I love the song and the video shows clips of my favourite episode that means so much to me, of Rebecca's therapist telling her ''she deserves love'' and hopes ''you'll one day believe that'' (to Rebecca.)

  • @befaithfully
    @befaithfully Рік тому +26

    I watched the show at least three times - some episodes even more. Also I listen to many songs on spotify. And just watching this video makes me wanna watch the show again. 😊

  • @ivbwatchwithme8501
    @ivbwatchwithme8501 Рік тому +17

    Thank you for sharing this! I’m so glad I have another person to talk about this show with! In 2021, I got a tattoo of the 11 o’clock symbol at the very end of the show and last year, I showed it to Rachel Bloom herself. She is incredibly sweet and I even got to have a conversation of substance with her where I showed her a picture of my niece. This show and her work are the reason why I want to break into the world of television writing. She’s my hero and the fact that I got a real moment with her means so much to me!!! And your analysis of this was fantastic! I look forward to hearing more of what you have to say!

    • @writerwannabe8778
      @writerwannabe8778 Рік тому +1

      I'm happy you got to meet her and that this show brought you so much. Awesome! Also: that's such a cool tattoo with a great story. Love from another CEG fan.

  • @hillakatz5855
    @hillakatz5855 Рік тому +13

    yasssss i fucking love this show, all the characters are so well-written and 3-dimensional. theyre all presented as stereotypes that the show eventually inverts through their respective character arcs. there were also so many times i was watching this show where someone will say something in dialogue or song and id be like "oh wow ive always thought that too, i didn't know other people did as well!"

  • @mountaindew9
    @mountaindew9 Рік тому +12

    I love this show, I'm here for some more analysis. I really think this show is criminally underrated, I wish it had more seasons because it is just so fun to watch

  • @anawieder5003
    @anawieder5003 Рік тому +5

    Rebeccas relationship with Naomi is a classic example of splitting. Either she idealizes her mother which makes her feel terrible about herself, or she devalues Naomi which gives her someone to blame (to be fair Naomi is extremely invalidating most of the time). The same is true with her dad (mostly idealizing) until all the facts force her to confront the the truth of who he is. She definitely needs dbt to resolve her extreme views of herself and others

  • @neivilde.1242
    @neivilde.1242 Рік тому +12

    i love that show so much, like the arc rebecca goes through is amazing, and i love every character in it, and how they get meaningful storylines also, and are 3 dimentional

    • @writerwannabe8778
      @writerwannabe8778 Рік тому +1

      It nails every aspect of a series and there's not many shows that do this. It's my absolute favourite show. And I love Rebecca's character so much. Along with all the characters in the show being really funny, with their own uniqueness and the diversity of their various storylines which gives the show so much going for it.

  • @SerenaSkybourne
    @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +109

    What do you think Crazy Ex-Girlfriend should have been renamed instead? It may have done better as a show if people didn’t assume that it was sexist based on the title

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh Рік тому +24

      Here are some possible alternatives:
      1. West Covina
      2. Love Kernels
      3. When was the last time you felt happy?
      4. The Villain in my Own Story
      5. Exes Gonna Ex
      6. Meet Rebecca
      7. Tell me I'm okay
      8. Swim Chan

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +15

      @@rahbeeuh i loveeee "west covina" for some reason hahaha

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh Рік тому +7

      @@SerenaSkybourne the song could be a factor lol. It's so fun! I just listened to it yesterday

    • @xxlin2
      @xxlin2 Рік тому +15

      I didn't check it out for the longest time because I assumed it would be a very different show

    • @joelpartee594
      @joelpartee594 Рік тому +4

      Different title for each Season, maybe call each one a Series British style. Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, Girl In Love, You Do/You Don't Want to be Crazy, Meet Rebecca. Alternatively:
      In Love, with West Covina

  • @JonNewsh
    @JonNewsh Рік тому +3

    This video is like having someone read me for 40 minutes straight… Honestly Rachael did an amazing job with the show! You can very much tell it came from personal experience and that’s what makes it so relatable and honest. I think that’s why it may have no been widely enjoyed though, it’s very much understandable seeing Rebecca’s actions through the lense of mental illness, but if an audience member hasn’t experienced that they may not understand her. Plus some people going through those struggles may not want the reminder and feel uncomfortable while watching it.

  • @val834
    @val834 Рік тому +3

    Crazy ex girlfriend helped me through one of the most disappointing break ups of my life. To me it’s absolutely crazy this show is not popular because I think it’s a masterpiece. It’s incredibly written and shot. Some people might be put off by the musical aspect, but also that is perfectly inserted in the plot. This show is genuinely the smartest show of the past decade, it knows exactly where it needs to end and every step is perfectly planned.
    It’s so significant to me that, even being one of my favorite shows of all times, I can’t binge it. I grieved my relationship with it, I started my healing journey because of it and when it ended I was ready to put that relationship away and move on.
    THANK YOU SO MUCH for talking about it, I hope your series will bring a whole new audience to it and make people discover it. Who knows, maybe someone in the community is going through something similar as my experience and the show will help them through it like it did for me! 💖

  • @xooeyengmann2020
    @xooeyengmann2020 Рік тому +10

    OMGGGGG I never realised how badly I needed you to talk about this show I'm so excited!!

  • @Spicie95
    @Spicie95 Рік тому +2

    I just finished binge-watching the show last night, and I love it!!
    The title doesn't bother me, since it actually gives the narrative to the ex-girlfriend and reminds us that sometimes people do bad things because of trauma or mental struggles which they need to deal with.

  • @ag00714
    @ag00714 Рік тому +2

    This show really hits home for me as my sister was diagnosed with bpd, and it kind of helped me come to terms with it in a way. I never had a good relationship with her as she was often behind many of the worst points in my life and while watching the show I could never truly sympathize with Rebecca and I didn't know why. A few days after watching season 3(?) she came to me with her diagnosis and I was able to see many if their similarities. While at first I was conflicted on how I felt (happy that she could get help but still angry about past actions) the show helped me to better understand and to see that her even getting the diagnosis was a big step. Our relationship has gotten better however there's still a bit of cautious distance. Either way this is an amazing show that I truly hold dear.

  • @lindseybellamy6374
    @lindseybellamy6374 Рік тому +8

    I am so glad people love this show. I am always recommending it and I don't know anyone who has watched it and it's so good. Looking forward to the rest of the videos ❤

  • @Cassper11
    @Cassper11 Рік тому +11

    THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS! I love this show, I love her and as someone with BPD it’s amazing to see it portrayed in the show ❤

  • @lestervalentin5418
    @lestervalentin5418 Рік тому +2

    totally LOVE this analysis and would love to hear more of your analyses, especially about paula and valencia because i think that after rebecca, they are the 2 most interesting characters and have shown the most growth throughout the show

  • @By_Ash_Away
    @By_Ash_Away Рік тому +3

    Finding this show the summer before I went to college was so eye opening for me. Even in just the first few episodes I felt seen in a way no show ever had made me feel before. No, I hadn’t done most of the specific things Rebecca did, but it felt so radical to see a show depict the underbelly of these ‘quirky’ decisions. I was the person whose entire day was put on hold because my crush(es) hasn’t texted me back. I felt there was something wrong with me that I had to keep hidden from the world. So seeing Rebecca do and feel those same things was amazing. I kept thinking ‘I can’t believe they’re doing this’ because I hadn’t seen a show deal with a character like her that way before.

    • @By_Ash_Away
      @By_Ash_Away Рік тому +1

      Also - Feeling Kinds Naughty was a shock for me, as someone who is queer but also had self image issues and had difficulty figuring out when I wanted to be LIKE someone or be WITH them.

  • @rahbeeuh
    @rahbeeuh Рік тому +5

    I saw a comment under one of the Crazy Ex-Girlfriend songs mention how the songs are likely how Rebecca imagines it vs the character's imagination. I s'pose that makes sense but like you said it's hard to separate which is the case.
    🎉 SPOILERS AHEAD 🎉
    I think of the episode in the last season where they're in a play. Those are their real voices vs how we've heard them in prior episodes. So maybe there's sum'n to that comment.

    • @joelpartee594
      @joelpartee594 Рік тому

      I split the songs into categories. There are a lot of songs that are showing us Rebecca's perspective - like "West Covina". There are songs that show us the perspective of another character, like Greg singing "What'll It Be". There are songs I feel are coming from the show itself satirizing what's going on - "Sexy Getting Ready Song" is an early example of that. Crucially, I don't think any of the songs are "written by" Rebecca, because she doesn't have that level of self-awareness or sense of humour - we see her songwriting in that episode with a musical play, and it's completely earnest and humourless.

  • @tatehildyard5332
    @tatehildyard5332 Рік тому +4

    One thing I'll say though is that intentions aside, Naomi Bunch was a pretty blatant abusive mother. She verbally belittled and undermined Rebecca at every available opportunity, locked her into a career path from the time she was a child, incentivized her eating disorder, and ignored the blatant cry for help that was her first suicide attempt and even when Rebecca's mental instability was shoved right in her face during the arson trial, she saw no reason to change or examine anything. She just sent her off to a quack, put on pills she clearly was not responding to positively and put her right back on the path she had that caused the breakdown in the first place because she cared more about the idea of Rebecca and how she represented Naomi as a parent than Rebecca herself. Suddenly making an effort right before another suicide attempt and then walking it all back by the next time you see each other does not make up for it. Think about how badly Rebecca was crushed under Naomi's thumb that a decision made in the midst of a literal nervous breakdown still put her on a more emotionally positive path than any point with Naomi involved in her life. I'm not solely blaming Naomi, but I'm just trying to say this is not a mother character who deserves the good grace of a sympathetic analysis.

    • @vivvy_0
      @vivvy_0 Рік тому

      loved her song tho 👀😂

    • @DominionMovementDotOrg
      @DominionMovementDotOrg Рік тому +1

      it makes me wonder if she is actually codependent due to having narcissistic and neglectful parents who never actually raised her but instead used and ignored her. it makes sense that this would lead her to continuously struggle due to that, including getting pathologized and scapegoated

    • @yeetyeet1655
      @yeetyeet1655 Рік тому

      @@DominionMovementDotOrgThe grand majority of people diagnosed with BPD have immense childhood trauma, so this does make sense

  • @pjhunt4135
    @pjhunt4135 Рік тому +5

    Must admit I haven't caught this show yet but you've inspired me to look out for it

  • @DaisyDine
    @DaisyDine Рік тому +5

    OMG .. When I tell you I SCREAMED when I saw the title!!! So Excited that you will cover this amazing show in a full- series! YEY !! Thank you so much! I literally re-watched it for the third time last month and was thinking about how exciting would it be to hear your thoughts on it 😊

  • @sontaranmc2109
    @sontaranmc2109 Рік тому +1

    Yesss, I love this series! Great video, I agree with everything you said, and have some stuff that I think might be interesting additions in future episodes.
    So, first off, BPD is actually a somewhat controversial diagnosis in a lot of psychology spheres. Not so much in that it's never correct, just that it's sometimes used irresponsibly and in a misogynistic way. Basically, there's a long, storied history of psychologists using diagnostic labels to medicalize women's "problematic" behavior, with the most infamous classic edition being "hysteria". But also, once hysteria fell out of fashion as a diagnosis, you start to see an uptick in diagnoses of HPD, which is now easily the least commonly diagnosed cluster B disorder after being recognized as misogynistic as well. BPD is, according to some, the latest iteration of this phenomenon. Though of course, as I said, it's kind of an ongoing controversy because there are some people (Rebecca being an example as a character) where it does seem to be a helpful label! It's just a tricky subject, though I think the show handled it decently well.
    For a little more detail on where the criticism comes from, there are two particular diagnoses that false BPD diagnosis is associated with: autism and CPTSD. A *lot* of autistic women get diagnosed with BPD due to autistic women's greater tendency to mask themselves, and the ways that bullying and social deprivation as kids can lead to them being somewhat obsessive in they relationships they make as adults. Which, while I don't think it's intentional, does seem somewhat mirrored in Rebecca's general difficulty being herself and historic struggles with friendships. I personally see a lot of myself in that side of her, though of course that is just me. The other, and arguably more important one here, would be CPTSD, which is basically when consistent, ongoing trauma, especially as a child, causes you to adjust to living in an actively hostile environment. It would tend to go hand in hand with BPD for obvious reasons, since both are associated with formative childhood trauma. But sometimes BPD is used dismissively as a diagnosis, essentially saying "here's the problem, you have Bad Person disorder, and here's how you can fix it." Like I said, tricky subject.
    For my two cents as a student in the field, the most important thing is putting the human first over everything. And that's what makes the show so special, I think--I know very few shows that introduce a character, lets them exist on their own as just... themselves, and *then* give them a diagnosis. Usually that's part of their presented identity as a character from the very beginning, which allows their diagnosis to become essentially an all-consuming archetypal trope for them to fulfill, and that's just not good for people who actually experience these disorders. And I liked how you (accurately) called out that Valencia shares a lot of Rebecca's "crazy" behaviors that got her diagnosed, because those of us with mental illnesses aren't totally different or inhuman, we just have an unhealthy balance of traits and coping mechanisms that are, fundamentally, very human. Rebecca's BPD diagnosis process is basically what these sorts of things are supposed to do, which is provide people with community and frameworks to better understand themselves to they can start to heal. But if she had that diagnosis from the start of the show, I think it would be a much weaker effect, because audiences are conditioned to view anybody with a diagnosis label through a medical lens of problem correction, which is one that serves nobody.

  • @stellablake6200
    @stellablake6200 Рік тому +2

    So excited you're covering this show! 😊 I felt the same way about her getting diagnosed when I watched it the first time, like by season three I was worried they weren't ever going to address what was really going on with her, but I was so glad when they did. And as a bisexual musical theater nerd whose undiagnosed mental illness reaked havoc on my life until I was finally able to get a diagnosis and learn coping skills, this show is basically everything I've ever wanted lol

  • @floatingvibez
    @floatingvibez Рік тому +1

    Very thoughtful analysis! You’re absolutely correct, this is a highly underrated and under reported about show! Rebecca Bloom is incredible

  • @katarinakrnjevic8183
    @katarinakrnjevic8183 Рік тому +1

    Crazy ex girlfriend is one of best tv shows of 2010s that should get more popularity. It's musical yet it has both good comedic and dramatic moments.

  • @jesserivera2043
    @jesserivera2043 Рік тому +1

    Meet Rebecca. That's the name I feel the show can go with, which also allows the timeline to work up to the season 4 theme song

  • @talesyuki
    @talesyuki Рік тому +1

    Not just a single video about CxG from Serena, but A WHOLE SERIES of them??? I'm here for it!!! Such a genious show!

  • @Soapsim
    @Soapsim Рік тому +7

    I quit watching the show early on in the fourth season because I felt it went downhill and couldn't take my frustration with Rebecca's character anymore. I don't mind that she is deeply flawed but I found it hard to continue to suspend disbelief at what her friends put up with from her. Every time they needed something from her, she ended up letting them down. You brought up her offering to watch Paula's kid to prove to Paula that she can be a good friend, but did not mentioned that she then LOST THE CHILD somewhere because ultimately she did get swept up in her own obsessions again.

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +5

      yeahh it's odd how lenient people are with her at times

    • @joelpartee594
      @joelpartee594 Рік тому +1

      That's certainly fair, but I love the fourth season. It's got a lot of great resolutions, some very funny and surprising episodes, and a killer series finale. It helps me to remember that this show is about radical empathy and the need for self care - Rebecca is me when I'm at my worst, and this show tells me I can be better.

  • @sparklingdaisy3169
    @sparklingdaisy3169 9 місяців тому

    This made so much sense to me. How Rebecca acts similar to how i act whenever i get new friends and i end up ruining them by oversharing and getting obsessive.
    I might restart therapy again. There have been a few times where i questioned whether i have BPD or not.

  • @bbrenduhh
    @bbrenduhh Рік тому +2

    Loved this so much I started rewatching the show and it was better than I remembered! Why the need to know if it’s spiders’ or spider’s warms my soul I will never know but it is a high priority and immensely satisfying when clarified

  • @lindseybellamy6374
    @lindseybellamy6374 Рік тому +2

    On the theme of female lead shows where they are the anti-hero I highly recommend Yellowjackets it's absolutely amazing. So many layers to the show its fantastic x

  • @Babbalucia1986
    @Babbalucia1986 Рік тому +3

    Oooooh. I was waiting for this! Absolutely underrated!

  • @mariellanylund4939
    @mariellanylund4939 Рік тому +3

    Yes yes yes, my fave show!!!

  • @rea.neeko.artemis
    @rea.neeko.artemis 6 місяців тому

    i personally like how the title of the show is! it is no secret that from the get-go one could easily assign rebecca as a crazy ex-girlfriend because of how intense her obsessions are, with stalking and manipulation to make herself appear appealing to josh. and then throughout the series we get to know rebecca and how nuanced she actually is, how her childhood traumas and lack of self-worth impact her, how her unmedicated and untherapised behavior is... she's so very human. so by the end of it, the show brings nuance to the term "crazy ex-girlfriend" in itself by humanising the people such a label could be placed on.

  • @Kelps_K
    @Kelps_K Рік тому +5

    Omg YESSSSS!!! I literally listened to the soundtrack yesterday! 😃❤ Love the show so much! My fave song is "Don't be a lawyer", what's yours? 😊

  • @habeashumor9814
    @habeashumor9814 Рік тому +1

    I was starting to cry during this video. I love CEG, but I also have yet to finish it because it's so close to home for me that it cuts deep. I come from the same comedy/musical theater community in NYC that Bloom is from, PLUS I'm a lawyer with daddy issues and abandonment issues.

  • @Isabelle-hv6ny
    @Isabelle-hv6ny 7 місяців тому

    Still so thankful for this video. I wanted to watch this but thought: "Maybe watch the show first" And I binged the show. It was sooo amazing. I can not believe that I almost missed it.
    Now I am ready for your videos😂❤

  • @chadluetje989
    @chadluetje989 Рік тому +1

    It's always a blast to see more Crazy Ex Girlfriend content

  • @LoserLeagueLeader
    @LoserLeagueLeader 2 місяці тому

    "Tell me Im okay Patrick" is one of my favorite songs and I rewinded 3 times to figure out if I really heard George 😂

  • @SickGirl666
    @SickGirl666 Рік тому +29

    I love rewatching this show. Its so comforting and I love the humor in it 😭 its so good

  • @explodingmangos3416
    @explodingmangos3416 5 місяців тому

    23:30 I like the headcannon that Valencia has ASD and just got really good at masking it because she’s pretty so people wouldn’t press too hard, I think Rebecca mentions it to her like once but Valencia brushes her off and it’s never brought up again!

  • @kaotaja_jess
    @kaotaja_jess Рік тому +1

    I have never clicked a video so quickly

  • @amarijackson9270
    @amarijackson9270 Рік тому +1

    i swear you make a video about every single one of my faves!!!!!!!!

  • @AlvaSudden
    @AlvaSudden Рік тому +1

    I am subscribing after less than a minute into the video. Thanks for doing this.

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +1

      damn thats so cool! I've got another video in this series coming this week

  • @peacockin1
    @peacockin1 Рік тому +2

    Looking forward to more cxg vids 😊. Theres so much to dissect in this show its not suprising. I do think that unfortunately the title maybe put people off from watching it initially. But the songs theyll stay in my head forever 🎶

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +2

      i acc love the title, it's a shame it got misinterpreted

    • @joelpartee594
      @joelpartee594 Рік тому

      @@SerenaSkybourne I think I was put off by the combination of the title and it being on The CW. I now give The CW enormous props for renewing the show through its fourth season, despite the low ratings.

  • @alejandraramirez8894
    @alejandraramirez8894 10 місяців тому

    we seriously need to talk more about this show

  • @pureheartbadass
    @pureheartbadass 14 днів тому

    always support people talking about this amazing show

  • @Fairysnuff91
    @Fairysnuff91 15 днів тому

    I don't know if I found Rebecca likeable but I definitely enjoyed watching her. I also thought she had an amazing arc because it didn't go from struggling to 'cured.' It went from 'struggling' to 'on top of it/ managing' which is much more accurate. It's such a good show, somehow accurate and yet fun and silly and wild at times. I wish more people would watch it.

  • @neoscencez
    @neoscencez Рік тому +1

    Yaaay! One of my absolute favourites shows and such an amazing portrayal of mental health and growth.

  • @corinnelucy8165
    @corinnelucy8165 Рік тому

    This was a great video and I'm commenting for the algorithm but also it really made me laugh that you said "a song with George" and the song is "tell me I'm okay Patrick"

  • @stellablake6200
    @stellablake6200 Рік тому +1

    It might have been interesting if the show had just been called Rebecca. I haven't read the novel Rebecca, but my understanding is that it's about a woman who married a widower whose first wife was named Rebecca, and at first it seems like Rebecca was this wonderful person who the narrator feels like she can never live up to but then eventually it comes out that Rebecca wasn't really the person most people thought she was and their marriage was actually kind of a sham. It might have been weird to draw that connection when I don't think the show is at all based on the novel, but there are definitely parallels with both Rebeccas being manipulative and invested in convincing everyone around them that they're good people

  • @Danielle-zq7kb
    @Danielle-zq7kb Рік тому +2

    I want to see this show as a Broadway musical! Really I want to see Rachel Bloom create something for Broadway.

  • @brittnis7294
    @brittnis7294 Рік тому +1

    This show is a masterpiece and so necessary but it doesn't surprise me that its underrated / only found a niche audience. I am surprised, and grateful that it got as many seasons as it did and was able to tell a complete story. It is interesting to compare this to something like Bojack with a male protagonist antihero that also suffered from mental illness. Cxgf definitely did not get as much appreciation or recognition/ mainstream success as Bojack did unfortunately.

  • @dilfpickler
    @dilfpickler Рік тому

    Another thing I absolutely love about this show is all the musical theater references and how well they emulate the media theyre molded after, while still telling the story perfectly!

  • @felixpelayo3268
    @felixpelayo3268 Рік тому +1

    I misjudged the show when it aired and didn't watch until I saw discussions on it, and watched on Netflix. I loved it until the last season and the jail arc, got too out there for me. But it is a perfect name for the show...?!
    Great video!

  • @lisisttan
    @lisisttan Рік тому

    Thank you for talking about CXG! It's honestly my favourite, I think we all can relate to Rebecca at some point of the show... Lovely video!

  • @Htmss
    @Htmss Рік тому +1

    Omg been waiting

  • @fad23
    @fad23 Рік тому

    I feel the need to rewatch the whole series.
    In any case, I'm stoked that on Saturday i will finally get to see Rachel Bloom in concert!

  • @kelleynele
    @kelleynele Рік тому

    THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO ❤ i’m always saying how this show is criminally underrated

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +1

      Yeah I agree and it’s sad how no one I know has seen it

  • @toric6005
    @toric6005 Рік тому

    6:18 It’s like the line in A Boy Band Made Up of Four Joshes, 🎶Every man you date is just a stand in for your dad!🎶

  • @luisgerardonolascolopez7615
    @luisgerardonolascolopez7615 3 місяці тому

    my favorite number in all the show is the math of love triangles ,because you get to see her own self loathing in an interesting way, shes smart, all the puns and facts in the song she knows herself but she dumbs herself, demeaning her own intelligence to be likeable to men, how the backdancers react to her is also herself noting her own selfishness and them being gay hammers on how she feels incompatible and rejected by men through and through

  • @dancincoolkid
    @dancincoolkid Рік тому

    I started watching because of the musical theatre in me, but then I realized there was more going on. Great (1st video) analysis!

  • @Danielle-zq7kb
    @Danielle-zq7kb Рік тому

    I misjudged the show based on the name, but it is perfect. Embarrassingly, Netflix kept telling me I would like it, so I finally gave the pilot a shot and really liked the music and the premise. Rachel Bloom did a fantastic job.

  • @aliceisaperson
    @aliceisaperson Рік тому +1

    Sorry this isn’t related to the video (all though I really enjoy it! Not nearly enough Crazy Ex Girlfriend analysises out there) but your outfit is so cute!

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому

      Thankyou darling give me alll the compliments haha they’re always appreciated

  • @kalystaortiz3701
    @kalystaortiz3701 Рік тому

    i love the way you explain it and quote her because while i was aware of the show and it’s message, this really made me relate to it even more and it’s something about myself i never fully understood and i love your analysis with your mentions of male centered -ness and limerence

  • @guerrazun
    @guerrazun Рік тому +1

    i hate that every time people talk about her relationship with the professor as "obsessive" and not about the obvious grooming.

  • @sidiwvwhi
    @sidiwvwhi Рік тому +1

    never heard of this show but this video was very interesting

  • @lori1069
    @lori1069 Рік тому

    Thank you for this! My favorite show of all time, i am always trying to get everyone I know to watch it.

  • @Jae_Cee
    @Jae_Cee Рік тому

    SUBSCRIBED - CexG needs more analysis

  • @jahipalmer8782
    @jahipalmer8782 Рік тому

    I accidentally started watching Crazy Ex Girlfriend and OMG! I had no idea that something so interesting and well-written could exist. I freaking loved it so hardcore.

  • @melvasaiel
    @melvasaiel Рік тому

    Every week or so I do a specific search to see if there's any new Crazy Ex-Girlfriend content. I don't know why UA-cam doesn't just show them to me....but anyway, I just found your video and I'm excited to dive in! Subscribed!

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +1

      omg welcome to the fam and I can't wait to share the rest of this series! another video coming in 1 week

  • @carolinamoraes193
    @carolinamoraes193 Рік тому

    Loved your video!! Crazy ex girlfriend is such a brilliant show, it should be more recognised.
    I think one thing that its super important in the building of Rebecca as a chracter is her internalized sexism. We see how she is a feminist and know how sexism are terrible for women, but still wants to absorve those roles in her life. She is a strong, intelligente woman, but in "The Math of Love Triangle" she depicts herself as a cute-dumb woman, cause the sexism creates this idea the for a woman to be loveble she has to be like that.

  • @aljosathewise
    @aljosathewise Рік тому +1

    great analysis. i love the show. def my favorite show ever. wrote my thesis on it

  • @thetova6232
    @thetova6232 Рік тому

    This is my favourite show ever and I love that you are talking about it please help me convince my bf to whach it

  • @prettiestkitty6793
    @prettiestkitty6793 Рік тому

    The show was so relatable

  • @DNLALSA34
    @DNLALSA34 Рік тому

    Thank you for making a video on CXGF!! I know the fandom is starved for content lmao

  • @jx-x3326
    @jx-x3326 Рік тому

    ive been waiting so long for crazy ex-girlfiend deep dives!! THANK YOU

  • @nuggetdoja871
    @nuggetdoja871 Рік тому

    Thank you for talking about one of my favorite shows!

  • @bambida1st
    @bambida1st Рік тому +1

    So this is a great video. Just one note: George works with her at the law firm and she can never remember his name, Patrick is the poor delivery man who she trauma dumps on begs to tell her she’s ok in song.

  • @MariaJoseRangelUwU
    @MariaJoseRangelUwU Рік тому

    Can’t wait for more CEG videos!!
    Have you ever seen Jane the virgin?

  • @Sarina460
    @Sarina460 11 місяців тому

    I'm surprised you said many people stopped watching because they found Rebecca too unlikable. I found her faszinating and kinda cool from the beginning because she's smart, openly talks about taboo topics and feminist issues. Of course I also saw her bad sides from the beginning but I always rooted for her to get her life together.
    I was also put off by the show because of the title first and I'm so happy I gave it a chance. But when I tell others about it I always have to explain to them as well why they should look behind the title. One date asked me if I liked it because I was also a crazy ex-girlfriend - okay ciao 😅

  • @eriichidalgoo
    @eriichidalgoo Рік тому

    I AM SO GLAD SOMEONE MADE A FUCKING VIDEO ABOUT THIS

  • @lindseycassella3015
    @lindseycassella3015 Рік тому

    Crazy ex girlfriend analysis from Serena Skybourne??! I'm so here for this!

  • @bellalalala3327
    @bellalalala3327 Рік тому

    SERENA THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR THIS!! i love cxgf and ur channel!!!

  • @bonjoon
    @bonjoon Рік тому

    oh YES, finally someone talking about this show!!!!!!!

  • @wlk3607
    @wlk3607 Рік тому

    i seriously loved this show! so glad to see you talk about it

  • @dilfpickler
    @dilfpickler Рік тому

    THANK YOU for this CEGF content!! Theres so little content for this masterpiece of a show, i clicked Immediately and i had a great time!! You brought up so many of the points that my fiance and I do when we talk aboit this show, and some new points I havent thought about before! Subscribing immediately 🥰

    • @SerenaSkybourne
      @SerenaSkybourne  Рік тому +1

      Can’t believe so many people don’t talk about this show now, we need to stop sleeping on it haha