zogie I just want to let you know even when you enter your 30s you are still gonna be SOOOOOOOO very young, I know society tries to display your 30s are like all of a sudden you're elderly but you have still so much of your life ahead of you!!!! DONT LET THIS WORLD RUSH YOU IN ANY ANYTHING because GOD isn't and I repeat your 30s is STILLLL so young! Im 26 and its still soooo much I haven't did but im gonna take my time and do things at my pace and you're beautiful enjoy life! 🤗
I disagree. Yes 30s in age isn’t old, but it’s not young either. Unfortunately, or fortunately we don’t know when our time on earth will end. So 30s are definitely are crucial time, especially biologically speaking. I think we shouldn’t go on/live like we are going to be here forever.
@@dijonay971she has an immature mindset. As someone who is 10 years ahead. She will likely feel VERY different when this maturity develops. In your 30s you start to FEEL age and you also start to see death.. it changes your whole perspective.
@@quishaiesha I didn’t mean you are immature for your age, but you just have a young mentality. Your perspective is that of a young mind, so when it’s comes to the topic of age.. you just don’t quite have the knowledge/experience.
I'm 35, no kids, no husband and I close on my very first condo in Jan. I am very content with life and I sincerely do not desire motherhood or marriage.
So true, time flies when you hit 30, it made me more intentional with my time and cherish the little things more. You have so much wisdom at 30, but still figuring out life.
@themalawiandiner180 Yes, it's a bit of an odd stage. You're still young enough to be carefee but old enough to have heavy responsibilities. I'm looking forward to 50 lol
I’m currently 36. Life doesn’t start until 30. I’m not married YET, no kids YET and not a home owner YET but I’m very optimistic. It all happens in Gods timing. The things I thought I wanted b4 I just now gained wisdom on how to maintain those things. If they came earlier I probably would’ve squandered it off. God knows what he’s doing. Do the work and trust in God timing and it will all work out!
I love this way of thinking. It prevents depression. It is true - all happens inndue time. Do you follow @Fumi Desalu Vold? She talked about timing recently. She married a whyte Norwegian at 39. Had a baby at 49. They r still happily married
Well these days with the caliber of men out there it's not shocking. You keep doing you girl. You are so fabulous and enjoy every minute of your single no kids life!
I love your take on this! I’m 35 divorced with 2 kids. There is no “right way” to do this. I thought I was doing everything right and I had no idea I would end up where I am today. Life’s journey. Needless to say I am happy and I’ve grown so much. Learning how to flow through life. Nothing is promised and that’s okay!! 💕
I just turned 30 in may this year.. I went through childhood abuse and it’s only until now I’ve decided to forgive to be free and let go of my past! I love it here. Still live at home been single for over 5 years and no kids x I highly understand now.. self love is so important and keeping God first
30 is so young hunny, don't compare your life to anyone. Im 41 going to be 42 i have no kids, I haven't purchased a home, I don't own a car (as I live in London and no need for it) but I'm enjoying my life! Please don't stress about it. Life will turn out how it should be ❤
People need to stop with this age thing and stop stressing about things like this and relax things will happen when they happen and exactly how they’re supposed to happen. Worrying or stressing or even panicking about it is never going to change anything. We want things to happen the way we want them too but trust and believe life and God always has different plans for us. ( the saying we make plans and God laughs is real)
Chilllleee I'm 43 about be 44 in Feb (aquarius) and no kids about to buy my first home in 2025 no husband never been married no bf just applicants 😂 and I'm great i came to realize its God timing not mines i trust in him in EVERYTHING i do he has guided me so far i rather have peace than to be in a ff up relationship (i was in a 10 yr relationship) i will say be patience, trust God its not a race ❤❤❤
Zogie I am 52 with no children and never wanted any. I love my freedom to be honest. My Nigerian husband is 30 with no children and he does not want any. My in-laws love me to pieces as I do them, They are truly the best! He is a Physics/Mathmetician teacher and he sees enough children to support his decision. We been married for one year. Take your time and never give up on love. As long as you don't go looking for it. It will find you. I wish you the very best.
Heyi😢, I’m so sorry to tell you this, but this is a terrible time ticking bomb 💣! I hope when it explodes you will be ready! This is very sad, but it’s okay you shall survive
Hhhhmmm a nigerian guy who is 22 years younger than you still has plenty of time to change his mind down the road about having children. What I am trying to say is that its very rare for a nigerian guy to not want kids of his own due to the nigerian culture and how much having kids is a MAJOR part of it. Wish you all the best in your marriage and truly hope for you he doesnt change his mind down the road due to cultural pressure. 😊
16:00 this part almost made me tear up! Love this for you! Your dating Nigerian men video bought me here, your personality, relatability and realness kept me here ❤️👏🏾 your mindset is going to take you far! Keep it up ❤
Sounds like 6 months for God to make it happen! 😊❤ God bless you Zogie girllll. You’re so personable and sweet. I’m confident you’ll have all those things in Jesus name, and more!
Me 🙋🏾♀️I’m skinny but love watching you Zogie. You’re So honest and entertaining and I know you said weight held you back, but I’ve watched you put yourself out there from when you were much heavier and now that you’re slimmer and the energy is still top tier.
Zogie, I got married at 33! Im still child-free but im content... I cant imagine chasing crumb snatchers now... Met hubby at 30... I'm glad I did bc I knew more about the woman I was
Zogie, first of happy new year in advance. I pray you live long and have good health. I've been following your channel for a year plus. I'm a man, I'll be 32 in 5 months, I live in Africa, no wife, not even a girlfriend, no job right now and no kids. Well, as for me there's nothing wrong with your current status. I believe people like us probably know or still don't know what we want as companion in our life. Either way, i think it's important to take care of ourselves then let the universe bring what we need not what we want to us. Happy new year in advance.
I’m in your EXACT position and I agree 100%. Turning 30 in June and I haven’t “achieved” those things but I’m content and actively working towards my goals. So happy to see women choosing themselves more and more these days over societal norms. Choose peace and happiness every time y’all ❤
💗💗I’m in my early thirties. I’m divorced with 1 child. I have my career and my own home. I have my sisters and few friends that I hangout with. We go on frequent vacations together and I’m contented. I would never marry again. I was the one doing all the child rearing and housework while working full time. My husband provided financially that was all he did.
And those who have the above will tell you no😊t to do any of them. Lol. Well maybe the mortgage. But even that these days is major stress in this economy. Freedom is underrated in this consumer obsessed society.
My dear, you've got your heart in the right place. So proud of you. I'm in my late 40s and still waiting and knowing that all will be perfected at the right time.
Turning 30 without kids and a husband is often a blessing especially if you live in a society that thinks marriage for women is an achievement. Enjoy your freedom as too many of our women end up being pressured to marry men they should never have or have kids that they really didn't want to have. Especially for a woman like you who is a high achiever often our men don't like it & that can be a source of strife. Enjoy yourself, enjoy your freedom.
@@Akha141 what makes marriage an achievement exactly? Men marry women who are available to them when they feel they getting marriage. Marriage will never be an achievement. You do not need any qualifications to get married.
Marriage is actually heavenly when you marry the person who aligns with you. Most women don't experience that unfortunately but when it happens it's incredible.
34 about to turn 35 in 3 months, no husband nor kids, I'm currently unemployed and moved back in with my mum. My mum was married at 21 for 40 years till my dad passed, had 4 kids at my age, had me at 35. Currently working on myself academically, finishing my masters, developing my freelance work, working on my fitness, wish to travel...pushing everyday. Everyone's path is different, don't feel pressured, you are still young to do lots of things and even for older people, you can still reset and live life to the fullest.
Thirty is young , trust me Life can change within a twinkle of an eye . My own sister didn’t have a boyfriend , home , job or children when she was thirty three. Fast forward, she has a great husband , well paid job, lovely house and four beautiful , well mannered kids Don’t let anyone ever tell you that it will never happen On the other hand if you don’t want these things that is fine . Do what you want to do
I loved this. Kudos for making the necessary steps to live the life you want and I agree, keep it pushing and keep negativity at bay 💅🏾. I’ve licked 30 and I regret so much pressure I put on myself cause life always improves
Hey Zogie, this video is literally the reason why I enjoy watching you. You are doing amazing! I am so happy to see my big sister say this at 30. There is so much more to life than marriage and kids. Men do not think about this when they age, we shouldn't either. Love is beautiful and there so much more to love than romantic relationships and I want to explore that and I am glad to know you are too!
Same girl. I'll be thirty in 6 months and I have none of the above. I will say this though, life can take turns very quickly. You could have all of that this time next year 😅 just keep praying and asking for guidance. I think the worst thing would be to make a decision in haste and regret it. Just wait on God and stay open. Also watch out for any counterfeits. They tend to pop up close to when you're about to meet your husband.
we also gotta remember as humans our life expectancy has increased dramatically, when marriage was still a business transaction between father and suitor ppl were only living up to 40 latest, you’re not even halfway thru life zogie! 30s is young!!!!
Well done Zogie, I have all these things, but still there is so much more to do achieve. You are an awesome being, take it from me, I am a male in my 50s ad blown away by your perspective of thinking.
Zogie! I been a silent watcher for a while. Like you said I always related to your perspective although I’m not plus size. Im a black woman who’s single about to turn 34 this year and still not married from an immigrant household. I always got those questions. And just last year i started my part time photography business while balancing working in corporate. Also achieving my fitness goals i feel like there so much things i want to achieve and financial success i want to reach. That my mindset is if marriage comes I welcome it but I’m not letting my life stop or be upset about it.
I'm 37 and I just got married for the first time in May of this year and I am expecting my first child in March. When I was your age I was just starting grad school. That may be older to some people but hey that's my journey and I just can't compare my life to other people. Stay blessed and in gratitude. Wishing you the best in this new year Zogie!
I turn 30 in six months, so I felt drawn to watch this-and you did not disappoint! You shared a message I truly needed to hear as I step into 2025 with a fresh perspective of optimism. I feel so blessed to have stumbled upon this video and plan to rewatch it weekly at the gym. It’s packed with positivity and serves as a powerful reminder to trust God’s timing, embrace His process, and stay focused on the mission He’s placed in my heart. Sending lots of love from Canada!
Zogie! I love you and your channel. I've been watching for a while now and as I just said, I absolutely love you. You remind me of my sisters and cousins
I thought I was an old maid in 1986. I was 23 at the time. My friends all got married when they were 22. My! How times have changed. BTW: I eventually got married and had 3 children. 😊
I'm truly just grateful for all of the supportive and kind comments here.. this is rare in online spaces and I sincerely appreciate the community that you've built here Zogie. I'm so excited to see all that 2025 brings you dear!
This video was so powerful Zogie! You look beautiful 😍 I’m glad you touched on how weight impacts what you feel like you can do. I pray that your 30’s are blessed and healthy ❤.
Girl you are so successful, beautiful, and full of life. You are only getting better with time. I pray you meet a man on or above your level mentally physically and financially
Thanks for sharing this video. We all have something to be grateful for, I know a couple of people who have died this year and I’m grateful to God for everything
I’m loving this hair niece😍😍😍 things have changed so much the pressure was surely on back in the day.. But now a lot of young ladies are truly waiting to be more established.. Continue to be who you are🤗🤗🤗
I’m old and was in such a hurry. Take your time and figure out what YOU want. Dont measure against others - continue competing with yourself! Just keep working on yourself. You are doing great!!!
Great perspectives, Zogie. [Speaking with my almost-22 year old, I just found out that she watches you on TikTok!) Yes, life is indeed what you make it, and everybody has their own path. At 54, I still have goals to attain, and I will. Happy New Year! 🧡
This video is more than just the title...Truly a good one Zogie, that's my current mindset now, just live. If God wants you to have something it'll happen regardless of your situation. Like you said just live your life and do the best in can. Have a blessed year ahead🥳🙏🏾✨
I'm 43, and no husband, and live in an apartment. Every so often it bothers me because most people my age, have a husband and a house but I try to keep negative thoughts out of my mind and remind myself that everyone's journey is different. I am saving and building my credit and am working towards being a homeowner one day. I doubt I will ever marry and that's ok.
AMEN 🙏 SISTER!! That was so comforting Zogie. I feel you 💯%. I really thought that this year was the year I would get the ring 💍. Family discussions for the bride price had started and Oga still did not propose. That was what I was looking forward to the most , entering into my bride era but I guess it’s not yet the right time. I guess I can be grateful that although I don’t have the promise of forever at 34 I still have a really good man that is so good to me and who obviously loves me . I am so blessed to grow and share a life with him 6 years later
What's for you will be for you. I am 37. I have more or less all the things you mentioned but guess what even after that, you have new goals, new challenges. Life keeps redirecting you to new paths so I say as long as you are actively working on living a full life, let everything else flow where its meant to.
It’s unfortunate how social media has put so much emphasis on marriage and relationships, when there’s so much more to experience in life. It’s surprising how life unfolds in ways we don’t always expect. Everyone goes through unique stages, and each person’s path is different. Being single gives us the freedom to pursue what we want, and God’s timing is always perfect. Trust the process and stay patient.
I think also coming from african culture where there is so much emphasis on marriage and family also gives us pressure..also i had thought i would be too, approaching 30 was filled with soo much emotions and it was during the pandemic..it has been 3 years since and i am not even sure where i am at..sometimes its a range of emotions..other times i try not to think about it although i wanted to be healed, happy and whole before that step (as i hear that step is also not as easy as we foresee)
Am 40 no kids no husband. I just purchased my first property. Your 30 girl your life just began work on you enjoy your own company. Aspire you're dreams
One day you could even possibly add public speaking to that baddie list ! I’m the follower who came across you with not too much in common with you but damn - I love and ENJOY your take and perspective on things! Great sense of humour , stunning , a viiiiibe 😘😘 all the best for your 30’s - my big day (30th) is now 2 weeks away.
Young Sis, if you give up on your desire for love, there will be no path for it to reach you. If you want it , open your self to it.. imagine it as a reality. Then go about your happiness, embracing the fullness of each day. I am now 50 but did not find my person until 38 and we're now 12 years together with 3 children. It's certainly possible for you to have what you want. Blessings to you in the New Year🎉❤
It is well Zogie. Admire your self awareness. Don't let them pressure you into marrying any yeye man oh. When problem comes it's you alone that will suffer. What is for you, is for you x
I turned 30 22 days ago and trust me it’s little by little day by day we make progress towards being in the condition to receive these things. You’ve got this 🔥
Everything you do make sure it comes from the heart. That man that you desire you’re gonna notice him across a crowded room and he’s gonna notice you as well. Good luck love you, lady you look beautiful, but you gotta fill it.
zogie I just want to let you know even when you enter your 30s you are still gonna be SOOOOOOOO very young, I know society tries to display your 30s are like all of a sudden you're elderly but you have still so much of your life ahead of you!!!! DONT LET THIS WORLD RUSH YOU IN ANY ANYTHING because GOD isn't and I repeat your 30s is STILLLL so young! Im 26 and its still soooo much I haven't did but im gonna take my time and do things at my pace and you're beautiful enjoy life! 🤗
I love that you have this mindset at 26! 👌🏿Shout it from the rooftop to all your peers 💖
I disagree. Yes 30s in age isn’t old, but it’s not young either. Unfortunately, or fortunately we don’t know when our time on earth will end. So 30s are definitely are crucial time, especially biologically speaking. I think we shouldn’t go on/live like we are going to be here forever.
@@dijonay971she has an immature mindset. As someone who is 10 years ahead. She will likely feel VERY different when this maturity develops. In your 30s you start to FEEL age and you also start to see death.. it changes your whole perspective.
I don't have a immature mindset I was just letting her know that she doesn't have to rush in her life that's all but have a bless life.
@@quishaiesha I didn’t mean you are immature for your age, but you just have a young mentality. Your perspective is that of a young mind, so when it’s comes to the topic of age.. you just don’t quite have the knowledge/experience.
Side note: This hairstyle on you suits you PERFECTLY!
Thank you hun x
@@ZogieDeGeminiit is so pretty. I can’t even.
I'm 35, no kids, no husband and I close on my very first condo in Jan. I am very content with life and I sincerely do not desire motherhood or marriage.
Congratulations!! ❤️🔥
Congrats babe!!! Yeah kids are a no for me too. & it’s BIG BY CHOICE 😂🫡🫡
@@dijonay971 thank you 🙏🏾
@@GoziTV thank you 🙏🏾
I never desired marriage, kids yes but that’s not fair to the kids 😂
Omg, 30 is young. 😮😅😂 the only thing I would say, though is 30s passes fast. I blinked and I'm 37 lol. Beautiful video
So true, time flies when you hit 30, it made me more intentional with my time and cherish the little things more. You have so much wisdom at 30, but still figuring out life.
@themalawiandiner180 Yes, it's a bit of an odd stage. You're still young enough to be carefee but old enough to have heavy responsibilities. I'm looking forward to 50 lol
Indeed! I was born in1987.. gonna be 40 soon.. Time just flies once you hit 30..
@@Forflower33 yes It does. I'm 38
Im also 37
I’m currently 36. Life doesn’t start until 30. I’m not married YET, no kids YET and not a home owner YET but I’m very optimistic. It all happens in Gods timing. The things I thought I wanted b4 I just now gained wisdom on how to maintain those things. If they came earlier I probably would’ve squandered it off. God knows what he’s doing. Do the work and trust in God timing and it will all work out!
I love this way of thinking. It prevents depression. It is true - all happens inndue time. Do you follow @Fumi Desalu Vold? She talked about timing recently. She married a whyte Norwegian at 39. Had a baby at 49. They r still happily married
Depends many people over 60 told me life starts at 40 or 50 . It's all subjective. Also 30s is still so youngish especially these days.
I am 41, dont have kids either and never been married. I live in DC...maybe we can be friends and get to know each other?
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Well these days with the caliber of men out there it's not shocking. You keep doing you girl. You are so fabulous and enjoy every minute of your single no kids life!
Thank you so much!!
I love your take on this! I’m 35 divorced with 2 kids. There is no “right way” to do this. I thought I was doing everything right and I had no idea I would end up where I am today. Life’s journey. Needless to say I am happy and I’ve grown so much. Learning how to flow through life. Nothing is promised and that’s okay!! 💕
Facts!!! Well said...I totally relate.
if you dont mind me asking...why did you get a divorce...did you file for divorce or did your ex husband did?
All that glitters isn’t gold. That’s something I have to remind myself daily.
Omg yes at this saying!!
Funny ur talking about 30s. I broke off a 6yr relationship at 33 met my now husband of 7yrs a few months later and had my son at 34
I love relationships like yours . Where you know what you wan tans lock it down . That’s what I want lol . Congrats btw
I just turned 30 in may this year.. I went through childhood abuse and it’s only until now I’ve decided to forgive to be free and let go of my past! I love it here. Still live at home been single for over 5 years and no kids x I highly understand now.. self love is so important and keeping God first
30 is so young hunny, don't compare your life to anyone. Im 41 going to be 42 i have no kids, I haven't purchased a home, I don't own a car (as I live in London and no need for it) but I'm enjoying my life! Please don't stress about it. Life will turn out how it should be ❤
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I'm also in London in same position. Im 37
People need to stop with this age thing and stop stressing about things like this and relax things will happen when they happen and exactly how they’re supposed to happen. Worrying or stressing or even panicking about it is never going to change anything. We want things to happen the way we want them too but trust and believe life and God always has different plans for us. ( the saying we make plans and God laughs is real)
My dear. You look good, you are touching lives. Spend time discovering your purpose and potential. All those things will come
Girl same. I’m 30 and idc. I’m in my Prime and I’m Wiser. Lethal combo. Can’t tell me shit and I’m getting myself fit. 💅🏾
Chilllleee I'm 43 about be 44 in Feb (aquarius) and no kids about to buy my first home in 2025 no husband never been married no bf just applicants 😂 and I'm great i came to realize its God timing not mines i trust in him in EVERYTHING i do he has guided me so far i rather have peace than to be in a ff up relationship (i was in a 10 yr relationship) i will say be patience, trust God its not a race ❤❤❤
Keep the faith alive & a Progressive New Year to you, my fellow Aquarius ♒️ mate...🎉
There’s no rush. It’s all on God’s timing you’re doing amazing at life!
Zogie I am 52 with no children and never wanted any. I love my freedom to be honest. My Nigerian husband is 30 with no children and he does not want any. My in-laws love me to pieces as I do them, They are truly the best! He is a Physics/Mathmetician teacher and he sees enough children to support his decision. We been married for one year. Take your time and never give up on love. As long as you don't go looking for it. It will find you. I wish you the very best.
Love this comment ❤
please tell us the story of how you met!
Heyi😢, I’m so sorry to tell you this, but this is a terrible time ticking bomb 💣! I hope when it explodes you will be ready! This is very sad, but it’s okay you shall survive
Hhhhmmm a nigerian guy who is 22 years younger than you still has plenty of time to change his mind down the road about having children. What I am trying to say is that its very rare for a nigerian guy to not want kids of his own due to the nigerian culture and how much having kids is a MAJOR part of it. Wish you all the best in your marriage and truly hope for you he doesnt change his mind down the road due to cultural pressure. 😊
@afrogoddess she's lying. No naija guy is marrying a woman 20 years his senior
30 is super young, live your life and stop stressing about a man and kids so many women would trade places with you in a new York minute
16:00 this part almost made me tear up! Love this for you! Your dating Nigerian men video bought me here, your personality, relatability and realness kept me here ❤️👏🏾 your mindset is going to take you far! Keep it up ❤
Thank you so much!!
Sounds like 6 months for God to make it happen! 😊❤ God bless you Zogie girllll. You’re so personable and sweet. I’m confident you’ll have all those things in Jesus name, and more!
Excuse me Sis, let’s not forget the over 40’s watching too 🥰
Of course I love y’all!
Me 🙋🏾♀️I’m skinny but love watching you Zogie. You’re So honest and entertaining and I know you said weight held you back, but I’ve watched you put yourself out there from when you were much heavier and now that you’re slimmer and the energy is still top tier.
Thank you so much!!
Girl I’m 31 & feel you, I gave up on love and am just solely focusing on bettering myself and advancing in my career.
Zogie, I got married at 33! Im still child-free but im content... I cant imagine chasing crumb snatchers now...
Met hubby at 30... I'm glad I did bc I knew more about the woman I was
Zogie, first of happy new year in advance. I pray you live long and have good health. I've been following your channel for a year plus. I'm a man, I'll be 32 in 5 months, I live in Africa, no wife, not even a girlfriend, no job right now and no kids. Well, as for me there's nothing wrong with your current status. I believe people like us probably know or still don't know what we want as companion in our life. Either way, i think it's important to take care of ourselves then let the universe bring what we need not what we want to us. Happy new year in advance.
You are still very young, do not put too much pressure on your self
I’m in your EXACT position and I agree 100%. Turning 30 in June and I haven’t “achieved” those things but I’m content and actively working towards my goals.
So happy to see women choosing themselves more and more these days over societal norms. Choose peace and happiness every time y’all ❤
💗💗I’m in my early thirties. I’m divorced with 1 child. I have my career and my own home. I have my sisters and few friends that I hangout with. We go on frequent vacations together and I’m contented. I would never marry again. I was the one doing all the child rearing and housework while working full time. My husband provided financially that was all he did.
@@reckoning_now I think the term for this is “married single woman”
Oooo Zogie is preaching. When you stay in your lane and focus on your journey, you'll be exactly where you're meant to be in God's timing.
I feel you Zogie. I’m 47, no husband, no kids, not even a boyfriend. I’m simply diverting my attention to other areas of life catching up
And those who have the above will tell you no😊t to do any of them. Lol. Well maybe the mortgage. But even that these days is major stress in this economy. Freedom is underrated in this consumer obsessed society.
My dear, you've got your heart in the right place. So proud of you. I'm in my late 40s and still waiting and knowing that all will be perfected at the right time.
Turning 30 without kids and a husband is often a blessing especially if you live in a society that thinks marriage for women is an achievement. Enjoy your freedom as too many of our women end up being pressured to marry men they should never have or have kids that they really didn't want to have. Especially for a woman like you who is a high achiever often our men don't like it & that can be a source of strife. Enjoy yourself, enjoy your freedom.
Marriage is an achievement when you marry a man who you are compatible with... So marriage is an achievement when done correctly
@@Akha141 what makes marriage an achievement exactly? Men marry women who are available to them when they feel they getting marriage. Marriage will never be an achievement. You do not need any qualifications to get married.
Marriage is actually heavenly when you marry the person who aligns with you. Most women don't experience that unfortunately but when it happens it's incredible.
34 about to turn 35 in 3 months, no husband nor kids, I'm currently unemployed and moved back in with my mum. My mum was married at 21 for 40 years till my dad passed, had 4 kids at my age, had me at 35. Currently working on myself academically, finishing my masters, developing my freelance work, working on my fitness, wish to travel...pushing everyday. Everyone's path is different, don't feel pressured, you are still young to do lots of things and even for older people, you can still reset and live life to the fullest.
16:19 there’s a glow in your eyes Zogi!! OMO I love watching you morph !!!
It's called stress free, enjoy it.
You are wise and mature beyond your years Zogie, great perspective.
Kudos to you Zogie, love love your mindset.
Thirty is young , trust me
Life can change within a twinkle of an eye .
My own sister didn’t have a boyfriend , home , job or children
when she was thirty three.
Fast forward, she has a great husband , well paid job, lovely house and four beautiful , well mannered kids
Don’t let anyone ever tell you that it will never happen
On the other hand if you don’t want these things that is fine .
Do what you want to do
This is my favourite video of yours to date. You don't know how much I needed to hear this, thank you Zogie. Wishing you the best 2025 ❤
I loved this. Kudos for making the necessary steps to live the life you want and I agree, keep it pushing and keep negativity at bay 💅🏾. I’ve licked 30 and I regret so much pressure I put on myself cause life always improves
Yes! Thank you!
Hey Zogie, this video is literally the reason why I enjoy watching you. You are doing amazing! I am so happy to see my big sister say this at 30. There is so much more to life than marriage and kids. Men do not think about this when they age, we shouldn't either. Love is beautiful and there so much more to love than romantic relationships and I want to explore that and I am glad to know you are too!
Same girl. I'll be thirty in 6 months and I have none of the above. I will say this though, life can take turns very quickly. You could have all of that this time next year 😅 just keep praying and asking for guidance. I think the worst thing would be to make a decision in haste and regret it. Just wait on God and stay open. Also watch out for any counterfeits. They tend to pop up close to when you're about to meet your husband.
That hair is bomb by the way … You are doing absolutely fine for yourself Zogie …
we also gotta remember as humans our life expectancy has increased dramatically, when marriage was still a business transaction between father and suitor ppl were only living up to 40 latest, you’re not even halfway thru life zogie! 30s is young!!!!
Zogie, I only met my boyfriend at 33. I'm 35 now and still wondering what life will bring. You've still got a lot of time - enjoy yourself!
Well done Zogie, I have all these things, but still there is so much more to do achieve. You are an awesome being, take it from me, I am a male in my 50s ad blown away by your perspective of thinking.
Zogie! I been a silent watcher for a while. Like you said I always related to your perspective although I’m not plus size. Im a black woman who’s single about to turn 34 this year and still not married from an immigrant household. I always got those questions. And just last year i started my part time photography business while balancing working in corporate. Also achieving my fitness goals i feel like there so much things i want to achieve and financial success i want to reach. That my mindset is if marriage comes I welcome it but I’m not letting my life stop or be upset about it.
I'm 37 and I just got married for the first time in May of this year and I am expecting my first child in March. When I was your age I was just starting grad school. That may be older to some people but hey that's my journey and I just can't compare my life to other people. Stay blessed and in gratitude. Wishing you the best in this new year Zogie!
I turn 30 in six months, so I felt drawn to watch this-and you did not disappoint! You shared a message I truly needed to hear as I step into 2025 with a fresh perspective of optimism. I feel so blessed to have stumbled upon this video and plan to rewatch it weekly at the gym. It’s packed with positivity and serves as a powerful reminder to trust God’s timing, embrace His process, and stay focused on the mission He’s placed in my heart. Sending lots of love from Canada!
Zogie! I love you and your channel. I've been watching for a while now and as I just said, I absolutely love you. You remind me of my sisters and cousins
Thank you my lovely
I thought I was an old maid in 1986. I was 23 at the time. My friends all got married when they were 22. My! How times have changed. BTW: I eventually got married and had 3 children. 😊
I'm truly just grateful for all of the supportive and kind comments here.. this is rare in online spaces and I sincerely appreciate the community that you've built here Zogie. I'm so excited to see all that 2025 brings you dear!
This video was so powerful Zogie! You look beautiful 😍
I’m glad you touched on how weight impacts what you feel like you can do.
I pray that your 30’s are blessed and healthy ❤.
Girl you are so successful, beautiful, and full of life. You are only getting better with time. I pray you meet a man on or above your level mentally physically and financially
Thanks for sharing this video. We all have something to be grateful for, I know a couple of people who have died this year and I’m grateful to God for everything
😮 What beautiful wisdom. Wow…Zogie. My birthday is literally in a few hours and you just spoke life. Amen to such a powerful word.
I’m loving this hair niece😍😍😍 things have changed so much the pressure was surely on back in the day.. But now a lot of young ladies are truly waiting to be more established..
Continue to be who you are🤗🤗🤗
"You're are where you're meant to be" yesss Zogie....that what i lived by. God's timing is divine. Good video❤
I’m old and was in such a hurry. Take your time and figure out what YOU want. Dont measure against others - continue competing with yourself! Just keep working on yourself. You are doing great!!!
Great perspectives, Zogie. [Speaking with my almost-22 year old, I just found out that she watches you on TikTok!)
Yes, life is indeed what you make it, and everybody has their own path. At 54, I still have goals to attain, and I will.
Happy New Year! 🧡
You look very pretty with this make up look
This video is more than just the title...Truly a good one Zogie, that's my current mindset now, just live. If God wants you to have something it'll happen regardless of your situation. Like you said just live your life and do the best in can. Have a blessed year ahead🥳🙏🏾✨
I'm 43, and no husband, and live in an apartment. Every so often it bothers me because most people my age, have a husband and a house but I try to keep negative thoughts out of my mind and remind myself that everyone's journey is different. I am saving and building my credit and am working towards being a homeowner one day. I doubt I will ever marry and that's ok.
Thank you so much ,amazing advice ❤.God's time is the best as usual ❤
Proud of you
Thank you love
You are blessed, please believe , prayers good things come to you. 😊🙏🏽
AMEN 🙏 SISTER!! That was so comforting Zogie. I feel you 💯%. I really thought that this year was the year I would get the ring 💍. Family discussions for the bride price had started and Oga still did not propose. That was what I was looking forward to the most , entering into my bride era but I guess it’s not yet the right time. I guess I can be grateful that although I don’t have the promise of forever at 34 I still have a really good man that is so good to me and who obviously loves me . I am so blessed to grow and share a life with him 6 years later
The videos are NEVER long enough! Happy new year, Zogie! 😍😍
What's for you will be for you. I am 37. I have more or less all the things you mentioned but guess what even after that, you have new goals, new challenges. Life keeps redirecting you to new paths so I say as long as you are actively working on living a full life, let everything else flow where its meant to.
It’s unfortunate how social media has put so much emphasis on marriage and relationships, when there’s so much more to experience in life. It’s surprising how life unfolds in ways we don’t always expect. Everyone goes through unique stages, and each person’s path is different. Being single gives us the freedom to pursue what we want, and God’s timing is always perfect. Trust the process and stay patient.
I think also coming from african culture where there is so much emphasis on marriage and family also gives us pressure..also i had thought i would be too, approaching 30 was filled with soo much emotions and it was during the pandemic..it has been 3 years since and i am not even sure where i am at..sometimes its a range of emotions..other times i try not to think about it although i wanted to be healed, happy and whole before that step (as i hear that step is also not as easy as we foresee)
I just celebrated my last Christmas as a single women. The power of the tongue is very important ❤
This video was fantastic !!!!!
Am 40 no kids no husband. I just purchased my first property. Your 30 girl your life just began work on you enjoy your own company. Aspire you're dreams
One day you could even possibly add public speaking to that baddie list ! I’m the follower who came across you with not too much in common with you but damn - I love and ENJOY your take and perspective on things! Great sense of humour , stunning , a viiiiibe 😘😘 all the best for your 30’s - my big day (30th) is now 2 weeks away.
❤ Well done on all your great achievements
Young Sis, if you give up on your desire for love, there will be no path for it to reach you. If you want it , open your self to it.. imagine it as a reality. Then go about your happiness, embracing the fullness of each day. I am now 50 but did not find my person until 38 and we're now 12 years together with 3 children. It's certainly possible for you to have what you want. Blessings to you in the New Year🎉❤
You are such a breath of fresh air ❤️
Proud of you Zogie! Enjoy your 20's❤
Consider yourself fortunate; Because having kids and being married is hard work. Stay single and happy.
You’re a very intelligent girl! Love it! Love watching your videos!
Thank you so much!!
Pray and leave it in Gods hands x
Enjoy the 30s ride babe. Makeup and hair eatinggg 🔥❤️🙏🏽
I absolutely enjoyed this blog.. it was very inspiring and I always like your energy.
“No Kids” you seem very intelligent you made a smart choice
You are speaking factsss, love this, thank you for sharing ❤
Very timely ❤
Best video I watched of you! God bless you 🙏
I just turned 45 and I echo everything you said. What's meant for us will be, all things in Gods time
It is well Zogie. Admire your self awareness. Don't let them pressure you into marrying any yeye man oh. When problem comes it's you alone that will suffer. What is for you, is for you x
zogie God bless you honestly
Thank you for being you 💗
i'm in the same boat as you, 30 in 6 months and feel like I haven't achieved things that I should have. it's nice to know that i'm not alone
Dont worry Zogie, the people who have those things have matching headaches!😆
I can relate currently 😢 ❤
I turned 30 22 days ago and trust me it’s little by little day by day we make progress towards being in the condition to receive these things. You’ve got this 🔥
I applaud you👏🏾
What you want out of life can be attained but it will require work. If your heart is closed you won’t be open to love even if you find it 🙏🏽
Everything you do make sure it comes from the heart. That man that you desire you’re gonna notice him across a crowded room and he’s gonna notice you as well. Good luck love you, lady you look beautiful, but you gotta fill it.
I had your same mindset when I was turning 30... minus the marriage (never thought about being married)
I turn 40 in May, not married, no children. Looking forward to experiencing more in this life.