COMING OUT AS TRANSGENDER TO MY SISTERS IN-LAW
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- Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
- I came out as trans to my future sisters in-law.
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"How do you feel about Jamie being transgender?"
"Happy! Because he's unique"
Why are children so precious
Ikr!!! But the children around me are super annoying because they just scream all day and destroy my belongings. I wish I could be in contact with such well-behaved, rational children!
Awwwee they are so CUTE
it depends on how their parents act around them
SSR *newnique!*
Being trans is not unique
Jammi is ‘nunique’, ‘transender’, and ‘still huggy’. Those girls are adorable and this conversation was so well done.
@@Mypromiselive maybe I'm mistaken, but I didn't take it as ridiculing, the commenter found that cute, no? Maybe romanticising it could actually leas to problems, but as these girls will likely be unaffected by this (as it probably won't reach them), I wouldn't say it could affect their linguistic development
@@Mypromiselive wow, you really are extreme. I'm sorry you suffered a lot with a lisp, but nobody here is ridiculing them. Not in the video, not in the comments. You could argue they are being exposed, and with that, I agree. However, it was clear that Shaaba was correcting their pronunciation in a nice way in order to try to help the girls, and that nobody in the comments takes issue with their "lisp. My guess is that you are projecting your own insecurities onto little girls who seemed absolutely delighted to be included in a video, and not insecure or embarrassed at all (of course, the discussion here isn't about whether or not it's appropriate at all to expose them at this age to the internet, regardless of a supposed speech impediment, had they got the proper consent from their parents or not; that's a whole different topic). This doesn't invalidade your experience, as I'm sure you've prpbably suffered a lot to feel so wary of this. I hope you are working on overcoming the trauma other people have caused you. But I don't appreciate your accusing people of "not caring about little girls' future" just because we don't see malice in everyone in the world. Nobody here is judging them for that "lisp" but you.
Don't forget about 'Gratulationyou'reaboy'
No it never was. To bring it up just for this purpose was pointless and suspicious for reactions :(
And a gratulation boy 😂
“B-but… lgbtq makes kids CONFUSED!”
These kids literally being the most accepting people wver
Your a unintelligent g@ae person 😅
I saw a TT about this. She talks about how they know all we want is to provide a shame free space for kids to be themselves. They don't want that. They want to be able to control their children with shame. They don't want their kids feeling like they are okay, just the way they are.
Exactly. I wouldn't let my child enter the community until their teen years, but it's good to not judge people
Children do not know hate, they are taught hate. Absolutely adorable.
Except for veggies. Children are born with a hatred against those things
@@alexlovelady8249 lol
@@alexlovelady8249 lol
you've got to be carefully taught
@@alexlovelady8249 Actually, movies have had to change what children won't eat because in other cultures kids are brought up loving things like broccoli. See Inside Out.
Jamie: I can't wear her high heels
Little girl: (immediately) Yeah, you can
Whoever raised these kids, you dropped this 👑
i agree :)
I agree, we need more parents like theirs.
Yeah, these kids are going to grow up to be so incredibly accepting and kind
Frick yeah
@Cassandra Wrenn but only after 109902439402384023089480923 years of practice can they successfully walk with them. is how it is sometimes :(
'what's the difference between me and Jamie?'
"Jamie's more huggy."
So adorable 🥺
These girls are awesome
at first i thought she said "Jamie's more ugly"
@@Sergio-lw8fw o u c h
Fr his hugs are so adorable :)
My 8-year-old daughter understands it just as well. Kids aren't confused by transgender people. They completely get it.
Their not confused becouse their minds never got polluted with strict binary gender roles in the first place.
So true
@@SuperNovaBass73 they need to make it seem like they aren’t alone lol, even though kids are smarter than them lol
I’m a Nb kid lol and I get it
Yeah one of my sister’s best friends in elementary school is an openly trans girl, so she’s more cool with it then all the adults in my extended family combined
It’s embarrassing to know that 7 year olds can understand it and accept it easier than some adult cant 🤦
Exactly
Right
goes to show that literal 7 year olds are more mature than some adults
@Tony Lewis it makes sense that you wouldn’t understand because ur cis, and everything relating to gender feels normal to you. But trust me, when you’re trans, it’s a lot different. Gender dysphoria is when you’re really uncomfy and usually depressed about things that indicate that you’re biologically the other gender. And since gender and biological sex are different, they don’t match up for some people. That’s what makes us transgender
@Tony Lewis If you actually want an explanation, here's one: Imagine you were suddenly swapped overnight into a female body, but everything else about you was the same as it is now. Would you start calling yourself a woman and identifying with femininity, instead of calling yourself a man in a woman's body? It's a bit simplistic, but that's kind of what it feels like being trans. It's possible to feel like a gender because gender and sex aren't the same.
i mean i get her Jamie looks like the most huggable person ever
He does, and it's not fair
@@evaann-louise2408 how so?
@@pepebabushki9376 every way
Ikr
I'm jealous
"who can wear make up?"
"EVERYONE!"
Children really are more understanding than adults.
it is maybe not that men can't wear makeup
but that they either think it is unnatural or they don't care how they look
@@alspezial2747 Don't make a blanket statement for all men.
@weeby weeb if you feel good about yourself you do not need makeup.
if you need makeup you use it to alter how you look like, most likely because you are unhappy about yourself.
Exhibit A: Philip Oakey
@AL spezial People can like to wear makeup and not hate themselves. They can do cool styles. It doesn’t always mean they don’t like how they look.
1. "Your wearing makeup and hes not"
2. "Your weird"
3. "107 years"
4. "Hes unique"
5. "Hes huggy"
This is adorble 😌🏳️🌈🏳️🌈👍👍👍
Also ‘He’s wearing socks’ which cracked me up
@@gateauxq4604 yes lol
It's a beautiful thing Lgtbq 🌈🏳️🌈
"He's a transcender" was a highlight
@@darth_autie_117Jamie is absolutely a transcender
"Do you have a message to send to everyone?"
"Jamie's transgender and it doesn't matter."
She's adorable.
- How do you feel about Jamie being transgender?
- Happy! Because he's unique!
This part absolutely melted my heart
yeah its great.
* nunique :)
NUNIQUE**********
It was at that part that sounded fake because of how many times they had prompted them
“He’s newnique!” They’re adorable
One time I asked my sister what she would do if she saw a little boy in a dress and she said, “I would say, that’s a pretty dress.”
Kids are precious. They don't give a damn about gender roles. They are not transphobic, racist, homophobic, or just a bad person. Adults corrupt their innocent minds into their own disgusting beliefs
Awww that so cute
That’s so sweet
your sister is precious
@pratyush mitra i bet she'll be like heyy added this bow to it make it sparkle
"people bully jamie. and tell him that he's not really a boy"
"that's NAUGHTY!!"
I actually cant with how sweet these girls are-
Hahaha, we can kick them in the butt butt!!! Lol!!
Why didn't she just call herself Pinocchio? He lied a lot and dreamed of being a real boy ...
@@clarkkentsuperman5911 love this analogy because pinocchio does become a real boy at the end of the movie 😊
@@nobody08088 Exactly... in a fantasy world...
@Mr.Nobody * you don't really believe that the story of Pinocchio is based on reality...???
Most important difference to kids: "he's more huggy"
They got it just right.
Jaime: "who are you to me?"
Kids: "Brothers!"
The tables have turned. It is the children who are coming out to you.
aHuman 😂
IM DEAD!!
@@toadslilsis I'm so sorry.
aHuman you know “I’m dead” is an expression right? 😂 they’re joking!
😂
Shaaba: "What's the difference between me and Jamie?"
Kids: "He's huggy."
Shaaba: "I'm not huggy?"
Kids: "He's a better hugger."
The cutest and purist thing ever.
Aw
Aw
ah yes the purist thing ever
But I mean Jammi has to be an awsome hugger
Not sure if it's just me, but I think this would be a funny roast/insult because the kids are basically saying "your hugs suck lol"
"How do you feel about Jamie?"
"HAPPYYY
Cause hes Noo-nique!"
I'm crying, these kiddies are adorable, I wish my dad was half as understanding as these girls
Yeah, I love everything they said so much! I wish my dad was like that as well
@@pre-christmasgift8954 but this is not that is it. This is getting validation from extremely young children. Why is it that adults need validation from kids on their transitioning decisions... ??
I'm so sorry to read that two of you have a parent who isn't understanding. Sometimes it can take a bit of time (news that big can be a shock to the system), sometimes they'll never truly get it.
Either way, that's about THEM and THEIR comprehension (or how they were taught and raised), it's not a reflection of you. You are valid, valued, seen, and worthy. Don't let anyone tell you differently 💕
@soulfulfreedomheart2505 "Why is it that adults need validation from kids on their transitioning decisions?"
He doesn't. If you watched the video, you would know that his transition started before those kids were even conceived - so he certainly wasn't consulting them on his decision or seeking validation on it. He didn't ask for their approval.
Being responsible and explaining things to children, in an age appropriate way, so that they don't find out when they're older (or from someone else) and feel lied to, is not seeking validation from those children - it's respecting them enough to prepare them for the world. Jamie has a platform and, at some point as they get older, one of those girls (or one of their friends) are going to see his videos. Ensuring that isn't a shock and, instead, helping them understand is a beautifully caring thing to do for their mental health and for maintaining honest and open relationships within the family.
@@soulfulfreedomheart2505 he doesn't what the fuck are you talking about????????????
The fact that the girls didn't completely understand and it was the first time they'd ever heard of anything like this, but they still kept saying he/him when referring to Jamie, EVEN for past tense of childhood like "when he looked like a girl"... They never even accidentally misgendered him. Like that just shows how easy it is
The gender diffrence wasn’t even the first thing they noticed
He was more huggable
That’s the bigger concern
@@the-pan-potato3139
It is by far the most important question of our time! Neuroscientists and physicians everywhere are studying this very issue for once we understand who the huggiest person is we can all be granted the greatest of physical affection.
Because kids are pure we aren't born with the transphobic nonsense the society teaches us
XD
And even then, they just mentioned it and moved on until Jamie and Shaaba brought it up again.
"he has been jamie for-"
"-107 years!"
i love how kids have such exact numbers for absolutely no reason
Hahahah that was tooo cute ♥️♥️♥️
Too cute
To cute!!!!!!
That was so cute-
Same 😊
Its sad that these 7 year olds are more supportive than most adults
It’s spelt most, but yeah I agree. I’m 14 and I absolutely understand it all. Yet Karen can’t? Smh.
@@yee-raplantar-maximoff4318 I totally agree, I completely understand it all, and I am younger than you. Screw off Karen, go bother someone else
Coming out to adults : 100s of uncomfortable questions
Coming out to kids : clever
My mom was just like "Are you sure?", "Yes", "Do you know how to proceed, i want to help you"
I thought she was saying that the idea that you could get medicine that would make Jamie grow his beard was clever.
But, I loved how the one twin who was hugging Jamie was so fierce about the people who might want to bully him, and the other one was so bored and wondering why are these adults going on about this so much.
So pleased I watched this.
@@celinematerzok6421 I only saw this now but that's so sweet. I'm glad you have a supportive mom :)
@@sonofghouls666 Yeah, its nice to have a supportive parent. I wish more could have supportive parents and a supportive culture to life in. Whats happening in the US is alarming.
It's so poignant as well because it is clever to be true to yourself. It's very logical. You have a problem that could be alleviated by transitioning, so you transition. When we strip the concept of all the politics, lack of access to healthcare, discrimination ect, its really a no brainer.
"Jammi was born a girl"
"Oh okay"
"He didn't have a beard"
*gasping*
These girls are so precious 😁🥺💗
omg a 6 month old didnt have a beard?!
@@annaj2089 apparently, how shocking is this!!!!
@@onyx5453 so shocking! i thought all babies had beards
@@annaj2089 who knew??? :O
@@onyx5453 i certainly didnt
When my sister came out and we explained to my child that "Uncle" is now "Auntie" the only confusion she had was why correcting her grandparents when they used the wrong name would make them upset...
Oh wow kids are so wholesome sometimes haha 🥰
Aw bless your kids sole (sorry if I spelled something wrong)
[Nyx Nova] its spelled "soul" :)
Awwww, that's so pure!!!
My Nephew understood it so fast XD although he called me “calo” for a year or so, he thought i was a guy bc my brother is called Carlos XD so since he pronounced it the same he wasn’t confused, i just told him my real name and he got it fast, he even got happy when he didn’t corrected himslef, XD he said “i know your name!” And it was so adorable
God, they're so cute. 🥺💖
I grew up with lesbian parents and when I was little, my mum was genuinely afraid to tell *me*, her own daughter, because of how others had made her feel over the years. I grew up calling my other mum a variety of titles, "stepmum" "auntie" and just her name. I was told they were friends, although my mum did make it clear that my non-bio mum used to be married to my father (they split up when she came out and my father, later becoming friends with my parents, donated for me. I treated him like a dad and saw him till he passed away). At 10 years old, I was being really badly bullied by a girl who's dad knew about my parents. She would call me lesbian everyday and, as someone who was confused at the time, not knowing why she was saying this stuff is what hurt me the most because I felt like she somehow knew what I was going through in secret, and was using it against me. This bullying got really bad despite multiple complaints to the school, this girl absolutely ruined my life, and my mum couldn't watch me go through the pain of it anymore without letting me know why it was happening. So she told me, and I will never forget that day. We were sat in her room, as we often were, and I was venting about the latest things my bully had done and said to me. By this point, people in school who's parents knew mine had let slip that this bitch was bullying me bc of my parents. I didn't believe them. On this day, my mum said to me, as she often did, "what would you do if it was true, if me and [name] were really together?" I gave my usual response, "I wouldn't care." Now, normally this was followed with "OK but it's not true." but this time, my mum said "We are." And I was like "Oh, OK. Cool. Anyway, [talks abt something else]." and she was surprised that I was so understanding and accepting. I guess she thought I'd be mad at her for some reason/would blame her for my bullying? Which is so silly, it's not her fault that people decide to be assholes to her and her kid. We went downstairs afterwards and she told my non-bio mum that she had told me about them and I said they should get married LOL. I didn't know it was illegal back then. But my mum said she had always wanted a civil partnership but my non-bio mum didn't see the point so they never did. But they were basically a married couple, just not officially lol. They split up when I was 15 and I was so upset bc I have always thought of them as both my parents, whether I knew they were together or not. But now I'm closer with both of them and my mum has a new girlfriend who she adores just as much as she adored my other mum. I'm really happy for her. As for that bitch of a bully, her dad tried to follow me home to idk??? Hate crime my parents I guess????? And so my mum got the police involved LOL. The police tried to take us out of class and get us to like each other, no fucking way that was happening. Also, 2 years later, I found out about bisexuality and spent the next 2 years after that trying to deny it and just pretending I was an "ally" to the LGBT+ community but I couldn't keep it in for long. I came out when I was 14.
TL;DR Kids are not bigoted, parents are. Bigotry is a learnt behaviour and you are NOT born LGBT-phobic.
yes exactly you are raised like that both my parents support and i used to ask my mom on a daily baisis a few years ago when i realised im apart of the lgbtq+ community:
Me: ''Would you see a difference on me if a married a woman?''
Her: ''No''
Me: ''Would you see a difference if i told you i didnt feel like a girl or a boy?''
Her: ''No''
Me: ''Would you see a difference if i married a man''
Her: ''No''
I love that you just moved on to a completely different topic after she told you. I'd have kept talking shit about the bully.
Totally random question, but as bi why would you feel the need to “come out”? I have never really understood this. Should I have at some point come out as heterosexual? To me “coming out” is equal with saying you are seeking approval or acceptance. F others if they don’t accept you, that is their problem. You are what you are and it is no one’s business, just live your life authentically, people will figure it out for themselves what you are and what you aren’t. No biggie.
@@plan4life I'd say it's not approval, but like it makes it clear for the people around you, it might also clear out some non-supporting people which is sad but ... Meh.
Also, since it is not currently completely accepted and you never know who is supporting and who isn't, knowing that you have a group of people accepting it and with which you know you can talk can help.
Finally, I'd say to clear away any misunderstanding :D Imagine you don't "come out" to friends cause you don't wanna date them so why bother. Then they might never refer someone by defaulting on hetero from what they've seen :D
exactly what i wanna tell my nan who's taught my sisters that boys date girls, girls date boys, etc.
she's worried about telling my sisters that i'm trans specifically because "they'll judge you" but what if the reason for that is because you taught them to????
I know this won't be for everyone, but a friend of mine who is a trans man explained it to the kids in his family like this (sharing in case it helps someone):
"We have two really important parts - a body and a brain. The body does lots of jobs we need it to do, like running, walking, carrying, (the kids chipped in other activities) etc, and the brain is where we think and feel."
He then asked the kids if they were a boy or a girl "out here" (pointing to the body - not genitals before anyone gets weird...) & whether they felt like they were a boy or a girl "in here" (pointing to their heads). He then explained that, when he was born, "out here" (body) he was a girl, but "in here" (brain) he was a boy.
This is the bit that might lose a few people (personal preference for what works for your family), but one of the kids asked if this was like a friend of hers who had been born with a cleft palate and had to have it operated on. He explained that yes, something had also got a bit confused when he was growing as a baby and so, just like her friend, he took medicine and had an operation to put it right, so that now he was a boy "out here" (body) & "in here" (brain) - the way he was always supposed to be.
They understood it immediately, were completely fine with it, and one little one even said "I'm glad you're better now" & gave him a hug. Then they had a normal day.
It really isn't difficult if it's explained in a way that works for that child. I know everyone has different outlooks, so this won't work for everyone, but the more people share their experiences and approaches (I'm sharing this with permission), the more help and inspiration there is for people going through the process now 💕
"i' glad you're better now" i love them
@@diegamer2325 It's lovely isn't it? 💕 To me, that's the best way for kids to understand it 👍
Shaaba : Jamie is transgender
The girls : Okay.
Shaaba : James didn't have a beard.
The girls : *existential crisis*
Lol
"But...but... he's always had a beard ever since we met him, and that's like FOREVER AGO." lmao
It really do be like that
LMAOOOO
then again try to imagine jamie without a beard though
"Jammi has been bullied for not being born a boy."
"I'mma kick them in the butt-butt."
Precious.
I mean honestly, same though I’d also kick the butt butt
I loved Shaaba’s reaction to that!
“Yes, we should kick them...”
*remembers she’s taking to children*
“No, we shouldn’t kick them!”
We must protect them no matter what.
Can't really blame them, I'd kick them too
Same!
Hate 👏 Is 👏 Taught, my sister was so amazing when I came out to her as trans and bi, she immediately used my preferred pronouns and she was only 9 years old then lol.
I find it funny that two 7 year olds can understand transgender better than a lot of adults I've seen. It just shows that transphobia really is just a result of what people are taught when they are younger, it really isn't that hard to explain transgender to kids. I'm glad that so many young people are being taught these things :). happy pride month everybody🌈
I love how they're more shocked about the fact that Jamie didn't have a beard than about him being trans
Imagin if Jamie ever shaved off his beard
the girls: life is a lie
gender is a construct but beard isn't
@@arklu8341 I like this comment A LOT, it made my day, thank you
Blue s20fe
They have their priorities straight
Jamie *explains transitioning*
Girl: Clever
Imagine eyebrows moving up and down.
she sounded like peppa pig tho- xD
fav
"Oh you went on a complex series of medications to transition? Clever "
Very clever indeed
It's embarrassing that adult humans think this is the same as grooming children.
everybody's talking about how adorable the kids are but shoutout to shabba and Jamie for explaining it so well to young ones
When I came out to my 8 year old brother we were sitting on my couch. He smiled and said “what do you want me to call you?” I said Leo, and he stood up on the couch, patted me on the head, and said “I’m proud of you! You’re my favorite brother now! Wait... maybe that’s Nate... I don’t know if you’re my favorite brother but you’re close.”
That’s adorable
Cute 💞
Aww I’m thinking about changing my name to Leo and for some reason this story helps affirm its the right name for me 😊
That is so cute!
Aamanda Zittlau Yass go for it!!😄👏🏼i hope your transition goes smoothly 💙
People should be more like these kids. He’s huggy, he comes out, he’s still huggy. Beautiful.
and most importantly he still is and always was a boy
But what will the children think?!?!
They think people are people because they haven’t learned hate.
This video was the sweetest takedown of anti trans bs I’ve ever seen.
Best part was Shaaba calling him a transender as a joke, and then the little girl corrected her by saying he was transgender. And people say this is confusing to kids 🤦♀️
Shaaba: When Jammi was little, Jammi was in a girls body
Girl: 😐
Shaaba: He didn't have a beard
Girl: 😲
is it one just one foot or did you shove both feet in one sock?
@@iamnotpasta4408 wot
:^|
:^0
@@darkmodeaj oof for some reason it went to the wrong comment :p
@@iamnotpasta4408 u confuse me gurl
“How can u tell that I’m a girl and he’s a boy?” “U have socks and he doesn’t” lmao Kids are so adorable
honestly makes just as much sence as most other gendered things .
@@chloesibilla8199 you can't see a gender from socks. You can see that I'm female from my face and my body tho which makes sense
@@user-me8hy8ew4o i know this i was making a joke on unnecessarily gendered things . i one ACTUALLY saw "his and hers" socks for childen , it was strange.
Johanna not me. you wouldn’t be able to tell if i shaved my head or grew it out to my feet. if i had makeup on , you’d think i was a girl. and if i grew a beard out , you’d think otherwise
Kids are adorable indeed. My oldest younger nephew was about as old as they are when he asked his mom "if the boygirl that took the pictures on my birthday would come to visit again someday" and his younger brother sometimes refers to me as a boy and sometimes as a girl to his parents.
And I also once encountered a girl that was curious and asked what I was and after explaining it in the most basic way she shouted a happy "OK!" and ran back to her mom and heard her happily combine the words boy and girl in any way possible for a good while when she walked on with her mom.
Children are awesome, they (until a certain age of course) are not bothered with the idea of questions being possibly hurtful or uncomfortable and will just ask out of the most pure sense of curiosity, and it's usually only the first question that pops up that they would really like to see answered and if you do, they resort to whatever they were doing.
"so, jamie is a-"
"congradulations boy!"
these kids are the best lol
I used to be a transphobe and homophobe. I always assumed I felt like a girl because everyone called me one, and I felt like I had to feel like a girl. I would call myself a girl, and would get used to it when someone called me she. When I turned 10, I started wanting to use the men’s restroom and started noticing that I never did feel like a girl In my life. I would always be the boy in house games, make my friends call me boy names, and even told them to use he for me. I’ve never felt like a woman in my life. I know who I am now, I am Karl, and I go by he/xem pronouns. Some children say they are a boy or girl because it’s “trendy” and I’m sure they would love to know it’s “trendy” for me to not be able to use the men’s restroom without being scared for my life. No exaggeration there. Some people have mad me think even at the age of 7, about doing let’s just say deadly things. I know now when I pass, I will pass being the best trans man I can be. My father grew up with a trans woman, so he thinks all trans people are ONE way. He especially doesn’t know what it’s like to be born a woman and be called a lady for years knowing that you aren’t one. And if anyone dose anything to you for who you are, or you feel not like the gender you were assigned at birth, feel attraction to other people of the same gender, or people of just not the gender you would be attracted to if you turned out straight, I want you to know it’s going to be okay. You are amazing, if your family doesn’t support you, I will, I will be your big brother Karl for as long as life exists. Bye, I hope everyone has a lovely day.
Dang I wrote a lot
this is such an amazing message and made me feel very safe and wanted thank you brother karl
Omg bless u my bro Karl ;w;
Karl this is why the homophobes are wrong when they say we are evil
Karl I’m very proud of you for sharing this with the internet. It’s hard to do and especially to admit that you were wrong about something and then you completely changed your mind about it. You are now my internet brother and I’m yours. I hope when you do die It’s peaceful and you have a good life as yourself.
The children are right, 107 years old, it's official lads, trans people are immortal
They are too powerful! One day, the trans folks shall rule over the transphobes!!!
@@advikaaaaaghh We shall dominate, and overpower the cisgender community!! But we shall spare some kind souls.
@@Alex-xc8bi I'm cassgender am I alright? (Cassgender means you know what gender you are but you don't care you can identify as girl,boy,enby but you know what you are)
WOOO
@@birdsbirdsandmorebirds6251 yeah i think you'll be fine
"And he has been Jamie for..."
"107 years!"
"Do you think I'm that old?"
"......no"
Imagine
@@sarastories8074 imagine him being that old and still making videos for us
@@yourlocalcupofconfusion322 i think he would
@@sarastories8074 i think so too
these kids have exactly the right mind set, 'so what if he's trans?' because it shouldn't have to be something big that everyone is shocked by, and that nothing has changed; Jammi is still Jammi and they love his hugs! I love that these kids are like that and I wish everyone could, thank you for taking the time to read this comment. (:
Well that was the most wholesome thing I've seen in quite a while
I think I needed that today, and it was already a pretty good day!
“What have you learned today”
“Boys don’t wear socks.”
Definitly
thats kinda gay
spaceflood and that’s a bad thing?
Navy Blue
really?
spaceflood I don’t get why it ‘being gay’ is an issue
"He grew up as a girl.."
"??Did *he* ?"
Idk, something about her not saying she/her even while processing just makes me really happy. These are the best new sister-in-law's..😭💕
Didn't even think of that!
My cis ass is just like ye they always knew him as he, they say he. Not spotting the emotional weight of what just happened
I mean they knew him as a boy their whole life
This is off-topic, but, I love that profile pic lolol
@@a01fe_m You have pleased the lord 😌🙏🏼
Zuii_r0 perfect, Seven dressed as a nun is just such a beautiful creation
This is the video that i'm showing to people when they say that teaching young children about gender and sexuality is "confusing".
Same!!
You’re ignoring the fact that those kids had no idea what was being said until they described it more, and now they agree with it because they’ve been told it at a very young age. This is why it’s damaging. This is why it’s confusing. These kids have been brainwashed to believe this, thus they are confused.
@@tatertot8954
Man, I guess math is damaging
Kids get confused by it, then learn about it, then agree that yes, indeed 2 + 2 = 4
@@tatertot8954 wow, people literally can’t say anything to little kids, maybe you shouldn’t be banning harmless stuff like this from being told to kids, what part of this looks like brainwashing to you? No one is trying to “convert them”, surprise surprise they can’t know shit about what for their brother in law is literally just a fact of life. Grow the hell up man.
@@tatertot8954 1: You can't expect every child to know the exact definition of every word on the English language, so of course it would need explaining.
2: Children are a lot smarter than we give then credit for, I've taught children and they've asked truly the most confusing questions.
3: If you watched that video and thought "brainwashing", I am scared of your mind. Do you think teaching kids that 2+2=4 is brainwashing? Teaching kids that a full stop/period goes at then end of a sentence is brainwashing? No. Teaching does not equal brainwashing.
Also, you say that the children only accepted him because they were too young to understand. If you watched the video, you'll find it proves the contrary. Everyone, kids and adults, and scared and hateful towards things they don't understand. That's pretty much an inherent human trait. But, if you understand a concept, you'll be more inclined to accept it.
tl;dr Children are smart, adults can be idiots, maybe watch the video next time.
Why does this make me tear up tho??? Like wow that is too amazing, and tbh how you teach children about LGBTQ+ individuals; gentle approach, allowing questions and letting them process and also showing them it's normal to not understand fully at first seeing how they are 7 - yet they are so smart and capable of seeing life as it is! Doesn't matter what your past life was, the focus is on the present, who you are today as a brother (in law), as a family member, friend. They obviously love Jamie, and that is amazing!
Sheeba: Jammi was born a girl, and people called him "she" for a long time
Kids: *he* was??
(Kids are honestly amazing)
that's true.
Yeah
Ash Bee that’s true, but they grew up knowing he was always a man.
These little ladies are the best
Brett Wagland They have always known him as a he, but that doesn’t change anything. They know now he was born a girl, but the don’t call him a her, because he isn’t. Kids are more accepting than adults, thankfully.
"We cant tell children about transgender people! They will be confused!"
The children:
still huggy!
Get more confused by the concept of him without a beard
LITERALLY
Clever!
@@moodymud whats openminded to you? i mean, being a child, everthing we learn is basically indoctrination, doesnt matter if someone is liberal or conservative, so if these kids agree with transgenderism, its not bc they are more open, its bc they are more receptive to new information, they "learn" faster. its not about them agreeing.
It really shows how open kids are before they are taught to be racist or homophobic and such. Because as kids they saw no problem with Jamie and Shaaba having different skin colors or boys wearing dresses or high heels.
“So sometimes people say Jamie isn’t a real boy”
“That’s naughty!! I go kick them in the buttbutt”
THATS SO CUTE 🥺🥺
"People look at Jamie and say, *he's not really a boy* "
*" that's naughty "*
I melted-😭😭
That's what people tell me..just because I have the guts to tell them I'm not a girl. God people are so insufferable..
Long story but im a god and I can confirm there was a clerical error and you got the wrong body, we are terribly sorry for the mixup and we will give you one voucher to decide your species on your next trip with us. Again sorry for the inconvenience.
If anyone misgenders you I will kick them in the butt. As suggested by jamies future sister in law.
@@lillyanne7277 I thought it was kick
And that's how it's done!! Kids are so non-judgemental and accepting until taught to be otherwise. This video is beautiful ❤
That "still huggy" comment is the most wholesome thing i have ever heard.
Girls wear socks and boys don’t
Transition price: 100,000
The transition: *takes off socks*
Rett Rett *me a trans guy and not wearing socks* that’s the most validating this anyone has ever said to me😂
*gimmie my socks*
@@alexmartin543 im a cis girl and im wearing socks rn haha
Anna Jane Banana this proves it
Rett Rett OMG I’M WEARING SOCKS!!! Btw I’m a girl.
Jamie: comes out as trans
Girls: okay, next
Shaaba: Jamie didn’t have a beard
Girls: IMPOSSIBLE!
I love your pfp lol
@@leiacartier2259 Thanks muggle!
@@Theesevennstarss Excuse me? Ravenclaw and proud
@@leiacartier2259 ah! We're in the same house!
@@simplyabandoned9547 Yay!!!
Its crazy that kids are more accepting than grown adults sometimes
"Jamie for a 107 years, Jamie is a transender" love it. Children are so open and accepting when there is love. Thank you for sharing.
My partner and I were both presenting as the same gender one day at the seaside. We were pointedly holding hands at the time and had got ALOT of stick for it especially that day. We were on the way back to the B & B when, from nowhere, a little kid appeared right in front us. I was on my last nerve and thought, bloody hell what now?! The kid looked at us and then at our intertwined hands, perplexed look on their face. 'Why are you holding hands?' they asked in a very urgent tone. I was *done* so just rolled my eyes but my partner, much more patient than I said 'because we love each other very much'. The kid considered this for one second then said 'Okay, love is very important' then skipped away merrily. It was so validating, I couldn't stop smiling for days. This kid had just, in a matter of seconds, righted all the wrongs of the adults in that shiity little seaside town. Kids are magical. These kids are magical. Heart warming stuff.
omg thats so sweet
Cutest thing I have ever read oh my gosh
Honestly I need someone who’s able to calm me down bc I swear if anyone throws homophobic comments at me in the street or anywhere when I’m older whilst I’m with my hypothetical gf or non-binary partner then they better run for their lives.
thats wonderful
Jamie's trans
The girls: k
Jamie didn't have a beard:
The girls: HOW MANY OTHER LIES HAVE I BEEN TOLD BY THE COUNCIL??
The real truth of gaster's notes, the beard is an illusion
that moment when you are born as an adult
Take a seat, young Skywalker
This is even better because its from Gaster
I UNDERSTOOD THAT CLONE WARS REFERENCE
8:07 'cause he's newnique' Tears in my eyes, I love it 💜
that "clever!" filled my heart with such joy :') what sweet kiddos to have as sisters.
"What's the difference between me and him?"
"He's huggy"
That's so beautiful.
"Jamie didn't have a beard"
The girls: *EVERYTHING I HAVE BEEN TOLD IS A LIE*
We’ve been tricked, we’ve been backstabbed, and we’ve been, quite possibly, bamboozled
I think the idea that Jamie didn't have a beard as a 7year old was very confusing.
That's how I feel too tbh his beard is epic
@@jennabeth6851 please stay confused XD if this would be what confused adults, our problems would be solved.
Can someone time stamp that so I can find it. I didn’t see it when I watched it
“I just love him more and more” goes in for the hug …that really got me 😢❤️🔥
I died of cuteness in the first 45 seconds. THIS WAS SO ADORABLE!! Also these two are actually perfect at spot the difference.
“And we share the same...”
“....”
“The same....”
“House??”
Sotsu why do i see you everywhere
i mean i'm not complaining cus your comments are *gold*
"Jamie is a trancender" he has transcended to the final level
MAXIMUM JAMIE!
I love your profile pic :)
Lmaoooo
you fool this isn't even his final form!
I’m using that from now on XD
How do you feel about Jamie being transgender?
Happy because he's unique!
Oh my tiny shriveled heart!
This is one of the sweetest thing I've ever seen.
Kids get the concept of "you are who you are" better than almost anyone.
coming out to parents is stressful
coming out to friends is nice (if they are good friends)
coming out to old people is frustrating
coming out to kids is adorable
Never seen anything more relatable!
when i came out to one of my friends, she literally came and hugged me while squealing happily and it was really nice--
@@jermfanaccount we all need a friend like that.
especially when they are interested in it too :D
@@jermfanaccount My bestie would probably ask me what that is, and forget after I tell her and just forget I even said anything about it- It's quite sad but that's what she did when I came out as Pan/Omnisexual
I'm non binary and I only wear one sock
Bbbbut my OCD the sock balance is broken
I wear two half socks
@@thetrueyesten you solved the equation thanks I am in your debt
The concept of socks is unknown to you?
@@Kurokodairua why not.
yall know what this means. once the generation of "no common-sense" adults are gone these are the type of people who are going to be leading our world. and HOPEFULLY no homophobic/transphobes people
Transphobes: "bUt, iT wIlL cOnFuSe tHe cHilDrEn"
Meanwhile, actual children:
I am a cis guy, but at the end I was proper crying, there is so much love and understanding here, it's unimaginable how some people grow up with so much hate and ignorance.
yeah, we were taught to be close-minded at such a young age that our environments were not accepting of trans people. it just goes to show with how much trans people were initially transphobic; same thing goes with other people from the lgbtq+ community who were previously homophobic, lesbiphobic, aphobic, etc. until we learned that its not wrong to be that way, to be different :')
I'm crying too, this is the cutest video ever
I came out to my cousin yesterday as a trans girl
And i wish i had siblings like this
But my cousin supports me
can we just appreciate the fact the girls took such a long time to even think of gender as the difference between the two?! I mean, being more huggable is clearly a top priority, but they basically put gender on the same level of importance as foot size. Learn from this, this is important.
gender means next to nothing to children, but they can tell when it means something to everyone else. that’s how you can explain kids saying they’re transgender.
Cracked the code:
Gender=footsize
*mic drop*
@@taylorbarnhart9882 Actually it can mean a lot, but that is when (for instance) someone misgenders a child (also one that is not transgender, for the record) for whatever reason: children will try to be blunt about reinforcing what they are or feel at that moment (especially if they have any more negative experiences with the other sex, like a boy having an annoying sister or vice-versa and they really don't like to be "compared" with the annoying sibling).
Hugability is the m o s t important, no one can tell me any different
Eccentric Pigeon 100% true
this video actually made me cry lmao
im a cis girl, but i am a part of the lgbt community (im an ace lesbian, and im questioning if maybe im genderfluid?)
as a kid i never had this. i grew up thinking i was straight because as a kid my parents never taught me about this kind of stuff. school didn't either, because unfortunately i live in a homophobic country that has a law for "protecting children" from learning about the lgbtqa+ community, tho it was only brought in last year
a few years ago when i started being more active on social media was the first time i heard positive things about this topic. i havent heard too much before, or if i did it was negative comments. so i think a bit more than a year ago i took on the bi label
but I've met so many accepting people online and heard so many supportive comments and advice, and it helped me realize who i am
im now just thinking that if i grew up in a place where it was completely normal, maybe i would've realized sooner
though im trying to talk to my sister who is around the age of the girls in this video, and even though because of my parents and the whole system here she views it kinda strange, when i told her about some really basic stuff, she seemed accepting
anyways i support you jammi, and all of you lgbtqa+ folks out there, youre loved and valid no matter what others say :)
Hmmm
This whole "child protection" thing sounds familiar. Do you happen to be Polish?
@@potatoman6556 nope, hungarian
but yeah I've heard its bad in poland too :(
@@leven_doodles Jaj hát az még jobb.
Olyan jó amikor szembe kerül egy másik Magyar az interneten.
Azért a szüleid/barátaid elfogadnak?
@@potatoman6556 oh azta, még egy magyar
hmmm hát szüleim igazából... nem ítélnek el, inkább csak nem hiszik el
majd úgyis találkozok olyan pasival aki tetszik, honnan tudom hogy leszbikus vagyok e ha még nem voltam kapcsolatban lánnyal, stb
barátaim közül akiknek elmondtam elfogadóak, illetve van sok internetes barátom is akik sokat segítettek ezzel kapcsolatban
@@leven_doodles Jó hallani hogy vannak akik támogatnak. Főleg úgy hogy lehetne sokkal rosszabb.
Ja, és amúgy pompásan rajzolsz, csak így tovább
Transphobic people: tHe ChIlDrEn WoN’t UnDeRsTaNd!!!!!!!
These two children in response to being told someone is trans: clevveeerrr
I think most children know more about the world than transphobic people
Emilio Animate And that’s the sad thing
Transphobes are so close minded that they cannot get it they cannot get close to understand it, but kids are born with an open mind and ready to learn without arguing, kids are more clever than most adults
Also kids "Why is water blue? Why do birds have a beek? Why do we have nails?"
Kids get confused about everything. We just need to raise them and teach them
But I have to say... they said "clever" because he took medicine who make him look more like a boy. They never questioned he feeling like a boy, it wasn't something weird, it was just a fact, and since he didn't look like a boy, they found it clever that he do something to look more like he wanted. Is a logical conclusion because they never questioned him, and I found that beautiful.
I love how when told about the transitioning process, she’s just impressed with how clever the science is, with no regard to judgement in any way. Prejudice is a learnt behaviour.
The real question is: why do u hate unicorns?
Eye- why does your username say you hate unicorns 😭
@ERR0R NAME-NOT-FOUND404 UNICORNS IS ONE THING BUT HOW CAN YOU HATE BABY YODA?!?!?!?!
So beautiful the mind of a child is
OH MY GOOOOOD, I died when she sad she was happy cause Jammier is UNIQUE awnnnnnnn so sweet
he's nooneek :)
proof hate is taught not inherit or instinct
"Who can wear makeup?"
"Everyone"
"Who can wear dresses?"
Anyone!"
These girls are more open minded than my whole family combined
lmao
Same
As a Minecraft youtuber named Eret once said: ''F*CK GENDER ROLES!''
@@wolfydawolf5680 YES! ERET RULES
@@wolfydawolf5680 King Eret supremacy
"Clever" "Newnique" "Transender"
So cute! Adorable girlies and you two clearly have a great relationship with them! This video was just wonderful!
"this stuff will only confuse the kids!"
the kids:
Transphobes: “kids are too young to know about that sort of thing! You’ll confuse them”
*The kids being more understanding & accepting than most adults*
The only thing they were confused about was that he wasn't born with a beard 😂
@@salcdaniel4240 Which is so cute, lol
Yeah right? Like my 6 year old brother told me he heard something about a surgery so a girl can become a boy or something, so I explained to him the concept of transgender, and he understood. So I was like "You see, you understand complicated concepts you're a grow-up" (because he is the youngest and he sometimes feels insecure because he is too young to understand some stuff) and he was like "it's not complicated", and he is right actually it's pretty simple and not confusing 😂
@@agathe25ksjsb298 you and your brother sound like good people :)
@@six4655 awww thank you
closed minded people: "noo don't tell the kids! you'll confuse them!"
"Jammi is transgender"
kids: "clever"
“Your weird”
Joomi is trangoonbder!!! Yea!! So clover!
My little brother was the first one to start using the right pronouns and call me a boy, while mother said it's unnatural and refused to even listen to me
Kids are clever and more accepting beyond their years because they kinda don’t care, and they just see personalities and up front stuff rather than gender. It also shows that Shaba had good role models in her life and her sisters do too. 😀
@@esmockingjay9730 Yeah, they have better things to think about rather than transphobia
Like Minecraft and LEGOs for example
It's so depressing that 7 year olds seem to understand this and yet most of our bloody politicians can't
Wow I can't believe these 7-year-olds ended transphobia
Transphobes are very naghty lol
"Who are you to me?"
"Brothers!"
*reverse card*
Oh, how the turntables
@@ariram407 turn how tables oh have the
@@ConstantChaos1 the have oh tables how turn
@@daydreams-of-death tables the how oh turn to
This comments are chaotic 😂
Kid: He's NUNIQUE
My heart: *Dies*
Honestly, I was fine the whole video, like, sure, smiling like crazy, but mostly fine, but I lost it at NUNIQUE. Just... kids are awesome.
Honestly tho
THIS!
You handled this really well
I remember when I came out to my extended family
It was during thanksgiving dinner
I was shaking all over but I felt like I needed to say something
I finally brought up the courage to do so and said what I needed to say
Everyone was supportive and understanding
And I was still apart of that side of the family
I went into the other room to decompress what I just did
My uncle who is very supportive of LGBTQ matters found me later and stated that I was extremely brave for doing what I did
I do really like that they gender was one of the last things they thought of and how the girl on the left said Jammi is huggy, that was very cute.
Shaaba: "Jamie didn't have a beard."
girls: *shook*
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transphobes: ItS GonNa cOnfUsE tHE kIdS
the kids: *more confused about why transphobes exist rather than about people being trans*
the kids: he wasn´t born with a beard???.... *shocked* (srry if i write something wrong, i speak spanish)
nalenks your spelling was correct
They're more confused about why Jamie didn't have a beard than why he's trans. Adorable XD
yessssss lmao transphobes, racists, homophobes, sexists (and more discriminatory idiots!) are with the small groups of categories of people who I am ay-okay with saying that i not only hate, but absolutely despise an will never forgive :D
@@nalenks8083 hiba a poner esto en ingles hasta que vi que hablabas español xd
Asi que....
Me encanta tu foto de perfil :3
I literally can't take how wholesome this is
gordin ramsyi