“I Got Bullied in School” Tony Reacts to Dhar Mann's video

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 25 вер 2024
  • Tony Jeffries reacts to a film made by Dhar Mann “Curly Haired KID TEASED At School” Which was based on my story when I was a young kid bullied at school, fought in national boxing competitions and becoming an olympic medalist boxer.
    Want to Learn Boxing? Check these videos:
    How to Box 101 | Complete Boxing Tutorial for Beginners
    • How to Box 101 | Compl...
    5 Tips to Win your First Fight
    • HOW TO WIN Your First ...
    Master Hitting the Heavy Bag for Boxing
    • Stop looking bad on th...
    Street Fighting Technique | Punch Faster and Harder
    • Street Fighting Techni...
    How to Punch Faster in Boxing | 3 Drills:
    • How to Punch Faster in...
    Grab the Worlds Best Boxing drills package here:
    www.masterboxi...
    Text Me Directly: my.community.c...
    MY SOCIAL MEDIA:
    Follow me on Instagram: / tony_jeffries
    Subscribe to my UA-cam channel: www.youtube.co...
    Follow me on Twitter: / tony_jeffries
    Business Email: Tonyjeffries@gmail.com
    My name is Tony Jeffries, Olympic Bronze medallist now co-owner of Box 'N Burn, 2 boxing fitness gyms in Los Angeles, as well as the Box 'N Burn Academy...this i a sour education program where we teach trainers how to teach boxers
    #boxing #dharmann

КОМЕНТАРІ • 1 тис.

  • @Dbarr311
    @Dbarr311 2 роки тому +618

    I use to get picked on at school too, I never really told anyone how much it hurt me. I convinced my father to put me in Karate and sure enough it built my confidence to defend myself. Long story short I didn't get picked on anymore.

    • @jtames9040
      @jtames9040 2 роки тому +23

      Actually we need to give our energy and focus to the most powerful spiritual being which is God Jesus Christ and not to karate meditation which is done through satanic spirits.
      God is
      everything, the truth in life
      which is in the Orthodox
      christianity religion btw. it is the original and true form of
      christianity that Jesus taught us when he came to earth, and you can feel God's grace through the holy sacraments after baptism, repentance-
      confession and holy communion
      in the orthodox christian
      church, something that
      completely changes your life
      and turns you into a happier
      person with a meaningful life
      and also saves you by
      strengthening your bond with
      God. I suggest you become an orthodox christian at an
      orthodox christian church near you, get baptised and receive the holy spirit and live a spiritual life (repentance- confession to
      the priest and holy communion)
      This is all God wants from us
      and through these sacraments we will be saved💯

    • @robbielarney3442
      @robbielarney3442 2 роки тому +43

      @@jtames9040 What the fuck hahahaha

    • @johnhays3321
      @johnhays3321 2 роки тому +14

      IN MY LEARNING OF KARATE , THERE WAS NOT TEACHING OF MEDITATING WITH USE OF DEMONS , AND NO TEACHING FORBIDDING CHRISTIANITY ,
      HOWEVER , YES JESUS IS , AS WRITTEN , "I AM THE WAY AND THE TRUTH , AND THE LIFE , NO MAN CAN COME TO THE FATHER BUT BY ME ." (❤) !

    • @hey1070
      @hey1070 2 роки тому +4

      Should have had knocked the F out of them lol

    • @Nightm4re987
      @Nightm4re987 2 роки тому +9

      @@jtames9040 You know, God wants us to be peaceful and calm, not aggresive or violent, but he also wants us to be safe, Jehova is a God of love and mercy, but also one of Justice, he doesn't want us to use violence, but if we use it for the right reasons and right moral, he will also be with us to protect us, he's also miserichordius god, he always forgives, and he will always accept you, so, as long as we don't train and use these things with the mere purpose of hurting and damaging other persons, but for a living and to be better and achieve our dreams, he will accept and forgive, we all commit errors, everyone does, the only person who doesn't is him.

  • @lewishowes
    @lewishowes 2 роки тому +976

    Inspiring story my brother!

  • @toddwambach7652
    @toddwambach7652 2 роки тому +74

    Super positive , don't bully don't encourage bullying ,stand up for the bullied

  • @carltaylor2975
    @carltaylor2975 2 роки тому +70

    You can literally SEE on his face how much affected him back then, and how much it still affects him to this day. He's uncomfortable even talking about it, it's awkward and makes him uneasy. I can totally relate to that, I was bullied too, and it truly is terrible. It changed me as a person for years, destroyed my confidence. The message is solid, if you're bullying people, STOP, it hurts worse than you can know. When I got out of the military I started lifting weights and trained some MMA with my friends and did some sparring. I wish I would have stuck with it more back then but I just wasn't at a spot in my life I could continue to do it. Now at the age of 39 I'm trying to learn how to box again, I don't have anyone to teach me but I've been training the best I can, and doing some sparring at the gym I train people at; it's AWSOME. The main message here is don't bully people, and if you ARE getting bullied, you need to learn how to fight and stand up for yourself. Go to a boxing gym, go learn MMA, go take some BJJ classes, anything at all like that, every man should know how to defend himself. You deserve to feel safe when you are walking around, or are in social settings, fighting will help immensely with your self confidence. :)

  • @danielclark8632
    @danielclark8632 2 роки тому +285

    Hi Tony, my Son (12) is currently having a hard time in his first year of secondary school. Been using some of your videos to get him working out with me (new to boxing myself). Starting to build some confidence, hoping he will stick with it. Will show him the short film. Cheers for your honesty, with how much you share

    • @mowgli8027
      @mowgli8027 2 роки тому +24

      My boy is having a hard time as well but he can't fight back because he got head surgery from a....hematoma?. Basically his brain was bleeding so they fixed it. I want him to learn boxing to avoid punches not to throw them.

    • @19aries81
      @19aries81 2 роки тому +17

      While been able to physically defend yourself I'd say knowing how to psychological defend yourself is more important, I got bullied at school and carried this with me for a long time, got some Bruce Lee books and it was actually his philosophy that helped me more than anything else

    • @dedicator00
      @dedicator00 2 роки тому +3

      let's go

    • @shhh._6645
      @shhh._6645 2 роки тому +6

      W dad W son

    • @legendarygaming5045
      @legendarygaming5045 2 роки тому +3

      learn your kid to kick, kicks are badass and super effective, no one expects a hard fast powerful kick to the legs

  • @wolf4627
    @wolf4627 2 роки тому +300

    I used to get bullied for being fat from a very young age all the way till i was 17 years old. From males and females as i got older it went from being fat to how dark my complexion is to my nationality. Thankfully i lost weight and learned how to defend myself but that part of my life has really affected my confidence in myself, i suffer from anxiety confidence and anger issues, always judging what people think of me. And im 31 years old now but bullying really affects people mentally its only at this age i realised that many of my problems are from my past, theres times i want to get revenge on the people who made my life hell but i see they moved on and changed but they dont see the affects of the bullying they did affected those who were the victims. Bullying really does change people forever.

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +68

      Its true, thanks for sharing mate.

    • @monmonthecat1652
      @monmonthecat1652 2 роки тому +4

      God bless you

    • @bruh_5555
      @bruh_5555 2 роки тому +5

      God bless you man don't worry you're an amazing person and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise

    • @superorionpetcarroll8052
      @superorionpetcarroll8052 2 роки тому +3

      @@Tony_Jeffries Ur the best boxer ever!

    • @danoliver3470
      @danoliver3470 2 роки тому

      use it to your advantage bro, like I try to.

  • @supersaiyansalamence
    @supersaiyansalamence 2 роки тому +110

    I started working out cause I used to get bullied in high school. I had a 6” growth spurt after high school and I’m now doing boxing, kick boxing, muy thai, and jiu jitsu. I don’t really get picked on anymore, but those years sucked.

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +35

      That's great to hear mate, share your story and mine as well for awareness 🙏🏻

    • @khunshub1846
      @khunshub1846 2 роки тому +2

      At what age was your growth spurt?

    • @mriz9318
      @mriz9318 Рік тому +2

      @@Tony_Jeffries wow hi Tony ur my idol man,
      So I've been doing some boxing with my dad lately
      And I hope to be a boxer just like U
      See ya

    • @EcclesiaSS
      @EcclesiaSS Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry to hear that. May the Lord heal you and your heart. ☦️

  • @andreadws7151
    @andreadws7151 2 роки тому +73

    I was bullied heavily in school for 3 years and as Tony said it can affects you for the rest of your life. I have a lot of insecurities and before that period of my life I had a lot of friends and I was a lot more extroverted. At the time I had a lot of economical problems at home too. I really don't know how I endure all of that as such a young age. Now I'm kinda a loner, I have a lot of trust issue and I feel insecure about myself all the time. I had a lot of dreams but I never had the confidence to achieve them.
    I want to point out that adults are not really useful, my teachers knew the situation because a lot of time I burst into tears in class, but most of them looked away or feel sorry for me and that's it. I never told anything to my parents because as I've said, at the time, we had a lot of problems at home too.

    • @nevaehmitchell4407
      @nevaehmitchell4407 2 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry for your experience. I can relate. I was bullied almost every year in elementary school. Sometimes it was even by a jealous "friend". I also had family problems though I was never the target. I only remember going to the counselor about the bullying once in 4th grade. I was never the type of kid to speak up or stand up for myself, even now. And I'm not sure if the bullying would've ever stopped. The only reason it stopped was because I went to online school in 5th grade due to coronavirus. And I did go from being that extroverted kid to an introverted teen(I'll be a teen in a few months). Looking back, I kinda wish I was able to stand up for myself. Even though most of the bullying was verbal. I'm glad I found this channel. Seeing that both my older siblings were in at least one fight before, I may need this in the future.

    • @andreadws7151
      @andreadws7151 2 роки тому +2

      @@nevaehmitchell4407 you are still very young ( I'm not ), don't make the same mistakes I did. Be who you really are and don't close yourself. I wasted the best years of my life by doing that. Always believe in yourself.

    • @nevaehmitchell4407
      @nevaehmitchell4407 2 роки тому

      @@andreadws7151 Ok, I will. Ty

    • @danoliver3470
      @danoliver3470 2 роки тому +1

      damn bro. find yourself a good alternative boxing gym. never let yourself feel sorry for yourself. and maybe look into who Jesus is.

    • @jamestropicals8262
      @jamestropicals8262 2 роки тому

      @@andreadws7151 I’ve never been bullied, Most all of my friends and good

  • @nervanahmed-jw6rb
    @nervanahmed-jw6rb 5 місяців тому +3

    One time in my school I was always bullied from a girl and I stood up for myself and my parents they were so whenever you fall down you get up on your feet, so your story these memories of me getting bullied

  • @janronsoneranista113
    @janronsoneranista113 2 роки тому +48

    You deserve a million subscribers mate.
    I’ve known you virtually in a year. And in a short period of time, I saw your kind and generous heart as well as a family oriented man.
    Even your raw videos speak how good you are as a person.
    You always motivate and inspire us with your kind words.
    You even help us to earn more for our families. You deserve the best mate.

    • @Themapleleaforever
      @Themapleleaforever Рік тому +1

      Just a million?

    • @senseileo4829
      @senseileo4829 Рік тому

      @@Themapleleaforever 9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 million subs

    • @jamestropicals8262
      @jamestropicals8262 10 місяців тому +1

      Bro he already does, he almost has 2 million subscribers

  • @advaith4066
    @advaith4066 2 роки тому +5

    I've been bullied, and also been the bully sometimes but the stinky shit said to me really did get me. But when i started boxing and LOOKING AT YOUR VIDEOS and learnt to fight, no one has ever dared to disrespect me in that sense ever. You changed MILLIONS of lives for sure tony, bless ya big man!

  • @TheBlah7777
    @TheBlah7777 2 роки тому +15

    Man as someone who use to fight this makes me a bit emotional as well. GOD bless brother.

    • @TheBlah7777
      @TheBlah7777 2 роки тому +1

      And a tip I would give if you are being bullied and cant get it too stop. Learn Jujitsu and boxing both. Jujitsu is great if its only 1 on 1. Standing up is better if there are more then one opponent. And sorry yall are going through this stay strong yall are going to make it. GOD Bless.

    • @DaDominicanDawg
      @DaDominicanDawg 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheBlah7777 ty brother God bless your soul too ❤️

    • @teapotserving6975
      @teapotserving6975 Рік тому

      @@travislester7318 My friend Shumbul Touqeer gets bullied every day by Tina Dutta in a rough manner and when things go out of hands, Shalin Banot in favour of the defense his girlfriend, intimidates Sumbhul. So, what can be done to ensure her safety?

  • @onebridge7231
    @onebridge7231 2 роки тому +86

    I got bullied for wearing glasses. I was 11 and in 6th grade. A bully who flunked and held back 2 years was 15. He pulled a knife on me walking through a field on my way home. He was a lot bigger than me, but I was trying to get stronger. I always had my backpack loaded with books to build muscle and clocked the kid in the head with my pack and he dropped. I took his knife and stuck it between 2 large rocks and kicked it until it broke. Kid never messed with me again.

    • @haidar9628
      @haidar9628 2 роки тому +1

      who?

    • @leoyeye2761
      @leoyeye2761 2 роки тому +1

      Jesus thats something

    • @thatssponge8120
      @thatssponge8120 2 роки тому +1

      11 year olds go to 5th did u get transfored a grade up or something?

    • @remyhavoc4463
      @remyhavoc4463 2 роки тому +3

      @@thatssponge8120 bruh not everyone starts on the same age 😂
      And different countries still exist. I'm from the Philippines and I was 11 in Grade 6 with majority being 11 too, there are a few who are 10 and maybe 2 or 3 that are 12

    • @thatssponge8120
      @thatssponge8120 2 роки тому +1

      @@remyhavoc4463 srry didn’t know ah

  • @Sluj666
    @Sluj666 2 роки тому +24

    My biggest regret is never training as soon as I started getting bullied. I never boxed,exercised, or train but I still wanted to be tough. No one was around to teach me and I couldn't afford Tae Kwon Do anymore. I just couldn't learn on my own. Now I'm training and boxing just as my lifestyle.

  • @DronesConnection
    @DronesConnection 2 роки тому +33

    Love your honesty Tony 💯
    You’re a true champion 🥊
    Endless respects Sir 🙌🏼

  • @shaun1552
    @shaun1552 2 роки тому +11

    Most of the time there's a deeper story with bullies, not that it makes it right, but majority of the time bullies are being bullied at home! Sad vicious circle, causes deep psychological damage! Boxing is good for self confidence for the bullied and the bullies.... you hardly see a boxer being bullied or even bully other people!

  • @christianchaplin8872
    @christianchaplin8872 Рік тому +6

    Thanks for sharing Tony, very emotional.
    Reading through the comments, this story resonates with a worryingly large number of people.

  • @benjaminbilskie4953
    @benjaminbilskie4953 2 роки тому +21

    This video is great tony ! When I was 13 In the 7th grade I was a fat kid and I got picked on by the 8th graders and on the way home from school they would throw rocks at me and thank god I was at least 50 yards away from them and I remember going home and just feeling hopeless .... there wasn’t any martial arts schools around my area or I would’ve been there ! I feel your pain and now at 33 I’ve trained a bit of Muay Thai and Boxing and I’ll never compete but I am confident and it’s funny because all of those guys that did that to me couldn’t touch me now ! I am 100 percent against bullying and will shut it down in any situation! Thanks for the video ! This made me happy .

    • @jaeguevara3776
      @jaeguevara3776 2 роки тому +1

      You have to compete bro, just treat it as part of your training!

  • @aldavedesierdo42
    @aldavedesierdo42 2 роки тому +26

    I also got bullied not because of my appearance but because of my personality. I was a people pleaser and overall weak kid back in my days and i easilly get cry when i'm overwhelmed. But as i grew up and more exposed in the reality of life I understand that it's my fault for being weak and it's time to improve myself.

  • @peterrussell6029
    @peterrussell6029 2 роки тому +16

    Great clip Tony 👍
    The timing of this clip could not be better - I‘m just back from a school reunion I helped to organise. While looking to contact the 200+ guys in our year we found that some of them had fallen on hard times and we decided to bring this to the attention of the group - I got to make a speech about the importance of looking out for each other in the years ahead.
    During the speech our year‘s bully / ar@ehole in chief tried to drown out my speech by cheering loudly, hoping everyone would join in - they didn’t and he shut up - I took a sip of water and carried on regardless. I guess some people are hopeless cases …

  • @nikolikestheviolin
    @nikolikestheviolin Рік тому +26

    I like how you’ve grown the channel and gained so many new subscribers. Keep up the hard work!

  • @johnburns2940
    @johnburns2940 Рік тому +5

    That little British boy went ahead to: "Punch Santa's beard off!"
    Thanks Tony it's very touching for all of us who suffered at school. 💜

  • @SportingIcons
    @SportingIcons 2 роки тому +12

    You’re an inspiration mate. I will say when I saw that actor playing your dad I thought I can’t see Phil doing that as he’s a no bs straight talker, I can see him reacting the same way my dad did which was tell you to fight him back which as you said is what really happened. Although my dad would teach me to fight by beating me up thinking it would toughen me up which I can’t say worked. Thank fully your dad sent you to the boxing gym where you became a boxing icon 👊

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +2

      I appreciate it ma man, means a lot 🙏🏻

  • @rossmartian
    @rossmartian 2 роки тому +7

    Amazing Tony. Had me thinking back to my childhood, and to Why I started mma and my music because of the bully’s in school. From year 9 no one ever touched me again after I put my bully on the deck.

  • @genises200
    @genises200 2 роки тому +10

    Tony! Would you be able to make a video on a breakdown on Gennadys jab? Or how well Canelo got out jabbed? Breakdown of jabs are always great

  • @shawnsuave5694
    @shawnsuave5694 Рік тому +4

    Tony is a breath of fresh air on UA-cam. Great to see a man who is here for our men.

  • @markmcallan973
    @markmcallan973 Рік тому +5

    Brought tears to my eyes! I grew up just like that but I had no parents to help me they were junkies, however I pushed on and I fell on love whith boxing and Muay Thai and won some titles,it taught me to love and respect people now I have a family of my own🤟 thanks boxing and thanks Tony for all your efforts to make this world better 🤟👌👍

  • @BlitzBrawler
    @BlitzBrawler 2 місяці тому +3

    I think everyone thats getting bullied wants bullies to be slow and dumb like in this film,its not reality so its little bit harder to deal with em,the bully was punching so slow,the actor didnt want to hurt him,it was 10 times actors were acting,his punching was slower than Minecraft java edition axe,and to anyone thats getting bullied stand up for yourself,you can make it if you want

  • @rahulsawant8369
    @rahulsawant8369 2 роки тому +22

    Yes Sir ! Bullying is a serious issue, one which is ignored and becomes the main reason for today’s Gun Violence in school and events. Especially in school, a kid who has been continuously bullied since young age will have a mindset which will perceive Society as a Threat or root cause for his problems. Thus keeping a safe and healthy environment in schools is must protocol now schools should follow.

  • @124madcow
    @124madcow 2 роки тому +9

    The funny thing about training martial arts is the better ya get the less shite ya get from people. I often think its the mental change that is more powerful than anything else.

    • @wiz4020
      @wiz4020 2 роки тому +5

      Your right about that, in my case I get the same feeling when I work out, lifting weights, just getting in shape, it lifts your self esteem, improving your confidence. You get this feeling if someone is stupid enough to fuck with you, they're going to get their ass kicked ! Definitely improves a person's confidence in themself !

  • @kotla671
    @kotla671 2 роки тому +14

    Great story and helps explain your passion. Glad you take the time and huge effort to share all you so. Not just great techniques but real lessons!

  • @thesheepstationcook8266
    @thesheepstationcook8266 Рік тому +2

    I was Bullies - I went to the Youth Club in Shepparton and learned Boxing - I excelled. One of my teachers was the Cousin of Lionel Rose. He took me under his wing and taught me - and I am so grateful for that. The bullying stopped from the students but continued from teachers.

  • @chiraggera3160
    @chiraggera3160 2 роки тому +4

    I actually discovered about you and your channel from the Dhar Mann video and been watching a few videos of yours.
    It was great to see your reaction video, learning about what really happened and how you did overcome those challenges to reach where you are!
    You're a legend!!

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for visiting Chirag, means a lot 🙏🏻
      You can check all my videos here: ua-cam.com/users/TonyJeffries1videos

  • @gregdavey4897
    @gregdavey4897 2 роки тому +7

    Tony, loved your honesty on how life really is, opposed to the fairy tale told by media.
    Great advice, and mentorship,
    True way of life, to never give up, and be an upstanding person, no matter who ever you are 👊

  • @hetp7394
    @hetp7394 2 роки тому +3

    THANKS SO MUCH, TONY !! Excellent video, I wish I'd learnt boxing when I was bullied at school for so many reasons by both girls and boys, for them thinking I was gay, being a minority and not having many friends. Although all that constant teasing and bullying - both verbal and physical caused me to have many anxiety issues like OCD etc, I have tried to look at it positively and it has made me become the person I am today. After all those years, I'm learning boxing now..never too late. I sometimes reenact my experiences at school and imagine how I'd have reacted with the inspirational advice/boxing I've learnt from your videos! I wish I had a role model like you growing up!! Take care mate and God Bless!! ;-).

  • @_captain_N
    @_captain_N 2 роки тому +2

    I have to give you much respects Tony cause saw this video too on Dhar Mann's channel cause I watch alot of his videos and when I saw your story it kinda made me break down into tears seeing that you kept going and continued to fight to become a great boxer that you are today. I mean you kinda reminded me of little Mac from the game punch out sorta in a way cause although the character is small he kept fighting and I would say Bobby was like Doc Louis little Mac's trainer cause he pushed you to keep fighting and no matter how many times you got knocked down you always managed to keep getting back up and keep fighting and you never gave up. I wish I could be just like you when it comes to depression I sometimes feel like giving up in life but you kinda motivated me to keep on going. if it wasn't for you I probably wouldn't still be captain N the game master of videoland. I wouldn't be doing what I do as well and I wanted to thank you Tony for sharing your story with me. oh PS: by the way did Bobby ever by any chance tell you to join the Nintendo fun club today like Doc Louis does with little Mac? ha ha I know bad joke but seriously I wanted to say thank you Tony and good job. I learned alot from you.

  • @JmacAt
    @JmacAt 2 роки тому +7

    Amazing video, a real powerful and positive message being sent out, you could see how proud you are and rightly so. Being bullied is such a horrible experience and it can stay with you, but I use it for motivation. Thanks for sharing

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +2

      Exactly John, Thanks mate. If u don’t mind, could u please share this vid on ya social media please. Will really help me out :) All good if not 👊🏻

    • @JmacAt
      @JmacAt 2 роки тому +1

      @@Tony_Jeffries happy to share Tony

  • @ben-neon19
    @ben-neon19 5 місяців тому

    You don't need to change who you are if you are bullied. A lot of people are saying how they changed themselves whether it's through working out, starting karate or ju jitsu, being more confident, getting a nice haircut, wearing nicer clothes. That's good but I find that it's best not to give a crap what bullies think AND do what you like. I like to think about it like this.
    "I want to get stronger so I can defend myself in a tough situation or be calmed enough when angry." My da taught me that the reason bullies, well, bully is because they are dealing with their own problems and are in tough situations so they take their anger out on other people.
    Great video man.

  • @raphaellauria8981
    @raphaellauria8981 2 роки тому +3

    Sorry Champ, I just need to tell you one more thing, you are a real mentor and inspiration to all of us. We feel like you want to protect us all the time like a father. Love you man!

  • @MarcoPolo-zc6zo
    @MarcoPolo-zc6zo 2 роки тому +2

    Great story. I really enjoy your videos. I used to get picked on for being the poor kid in school. I remember my tipping point was when I saw a timid guy who was smaller than me getting beaten up. I snapped and beat the crap out of everyone. I still hate bullies, but learned if I disengage soon enough that it usually diffuses the situation.

  • @eboymorales3047
    @eboymorales3047 2 роки тому +5

    this video Motivates me more to get stronger and fueling the fire inside of my heart to become a better human being than all assholes around me.. thanks Tony..

  • @zs8796
    @zs8796 6 місяців тому +2

    i got bullied twice, once in junior school then high school by 8 people.

  • @joshc.6706
    @joshc.6706 2 роки тому +4

    Such an inspiring story. I wish I would’ve learned self defense as a kid. Unfortunately I never really told my parents how bad it was until much later on. They were old school so they saw fighting as thuggery. I’m now an adult but I’m training in mixed martial arts and it’s been the best decision I ever made

  • @scottpancher7702
    @scottpancher7702 2 роки тому +2

    Awsome video my man i had my 12 and 13 yeqr old boy and girl get off their devices to watch it!!! Thanks man
    Love you're videos

  • @8-bite393
    @8-bite393 2 роки тому +3

    The most people who get into Combat-Sports were bullied in school. Me too.

  • @daveherbst5080
    @daveherbst5080 2 роки тому +2

    Hey Coach Tony
    Outstanding video!!!! I'll be encouraging our local Grade schools to watch your video and messages.
    Your emotions really shows all of us how truly passionate you are and that is what makes a GREAT Coach!!!!
    Thank you

  • @5ive-5tar
    @5ive-5tar 2 роки тому +5

    Wtf is the thumbnail Tony man ❤😂😂

  • @HJRC_
    @HJRC_ Рік тому +1

    After 27 years he still remembers it vividly... These things really stick to you...

  • @Thelegend-mq3tg
    @Thelegend-mq3tg 2 роки тому +4

    I used to get bullied relentlessly it traumatized me badly.

  • @jeremyclarkson9717
    @jeremyclarkson9717 Рік тому +2

    I remember when I was about a half year into boxing I thought I learned nothing but when I got into a fight at school with a kid I then learned how good this training really was

  • @jaawa31
    @jaawa31 2 роки тому +3

    I was bullied heavily for being the smallest, this went on for many years, until I started boxing. I didn't have to throw a single punch, one day I was determined to end the bullying, I just grabbed the main bully by his clothes, and I kept telling him to punch me, I told him over and over again, but he didn't punch me, he broke down crying. The other bullies started bullying him next. Still a lot of trauma in those years, I still go to psychotherapy for it.

    • @ashwinshankar8338
      @ashwinshankar8338 2 роки тому +1

      I hear you buddy. It can have lasting impact. Stay strong.

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +1

      Can't imagine mate, I hope this video will help you overcome that.

  • @Jackson_DGaming
    @Jackson_DGaming Рік тому +1

    Standing up by yourself is the most confident part that you have to do. If you don't. The bulliers will try to cause more physical bully on you. As long as you can forget about the bulliers. Whatever they're trying to say. Just forget them. And always be happiness. You can be the best person ever! I also got bullied by the people just because of being quiet in school. This time, I definitely deserve better person. I don't deserve a physical bully. That's how I do to be as a student. I hope you can do the same thing.

  • @schuletrip
    @schuletrip 2 роки тому +3

    I went to a few different schools. I was a Policeman’s son during the miners strikes as well, near Easington and NE Durham. Got filled in a fair bit too as I spoke German. Had our windows tanned and my Dad would come and get me because there were lads outside wanted to fight me. All because I was new and my Dads job. Madness.

  • @grandmastermario3695
    @grandmastermario3695 5 місяців тому +1

    Thats why alot of people end up choosing fighting as a proffession they get bullied school, or abused at home, or go through what i went through and have both, so they end up beating people up to get revenge for a living, unresolved unheald trauma.

  • @TheBlah7777
    @TheBlah7777 2 роки тому +3

    And a tip I would give if you are being bullied and cant get it too stop. Learn Jujitsu and boxing both. Jujitsu is great if its only 1 on 1. Standing up is better if there are more then one opponent. And sorry yall are going through this stay strong yall are going to make it. GOD Bless.

  • @kurtiscleary9759
    @kurtiscleary9759 Рік тому +1

    I have no idea what accent any of these accents these actors are attempting😂. Inspiring story all the same well in.

  • @hypoflipzy1157
    @hypoflipzy1157 Рік тому +2

    During 6th grade it somehow got out that my dad was in prison and this one kid started bullying me about it. He was from Egypt, so I called his father Osama bin Laden, he face went red and he stormed off. The next day as we were leaving band class he tapped me on the shoulder from behind, and as a I turned around he kneed me hard in the gut. I stood up, threw a light jab and followed up with a decent cross. He dropped and woke up like 20 seconds later, I never got in trouble and nobody tried to mess with me or my sister for the rest of our time in school.

  • @klc1975
    @klc1975 Рік тому

    It was courageous of you to be so honest about your past. Been there, done that, and I can relate. Thanks man!

  • @RTGMZ_1
    @RTGMZ_1 2 роки тому +5

    F A I L Means
    F- First
    A- Attempt
    I- In
    L- Learning 👿🔥
    Thankyou Tony Brother For Motivation ❤️🙏🏻
    Love you Brother ❤️

  • @CHEEKI_BREEKI_HARDBASS
    @CHEEKI_BREEKI_HARDBASS 8 місяців тому +2

    I used to get bullied but when I learned boxing, well that guy ended with 2 broken ribs

  • @BOXFITNESS243
    @BOXFITNESS243 Рік тому +9

    Tony I know exactly how you feel my friend I have been picked on my whole life when I was a kid because of my appearance

  • @veedale84
    @veedale84 Рік тому +1

    21:41 That's exactly why i am subscribed in your channel, to learn boxing so that i could stand up for myself. Thank you so much for these videos you're posting, keep up the good work!

  • @michaelhanrahan738
    @michaelhanrahan738 2 роки тому +3

    I was almost bullied in the 8th grade by someone who hit puberty a year or two before me and outweighed me by a good 20lbs. He tried to intimidate me into doing something for him. I was taking martial arts classes at the time and that gave me enough confidence to say no and walk away even though he would have completely mopped the floor with me if he wanted. He moved on to an easier target never bothered me again.

    • @DaDominicanDawg
      @DaDominicanDawg 2 роки тому

      Size not everything

    • @teapotserving6975
      @teapotserving6975 Рік тому

      @@thevengefulone3974 My friend Shumbul Touqeer gets bullied every day by Tina Dutta in a rough manner and when things go out of hands, Shalin Banot in favour of the defense his girlfriend, intimidates Sumbhul. So, what can be done to ensure her safety?

  • @hal27621
    @hal27621 2 роки тому +1

    I'm getting bullied at the moment, this video really helped, thanks Tony!

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +2

      I feel you mate, just ignore them. Hope I inspired you 😀

  • @oven1656
    @oven1656 2 роки тому +3

    Nice video mate, cool that Dharr mann made one about you

  • @maxviolence5604
    @maxviolence5604 2 роки тому

    I wish I met trainer like you in my youth, I went to boxing school when I was 12, saving money as I grew up in pretty poor house, for 2 lessons guy who was a trainer in there just told me to run for the whole time so I asked him on a 2nd lesson- I came to learn how to box, them exercises I can do around home or school, I payed you money for it, he went berserk on me, shouting he will show me how to f box, I ran from there and never went to other school but I always loved boxing even to this day I ve got boxing bag and gear at home and training on my own or doing pads with m8 btw. your channel is gold man keep it up good work

  • @insert6585
    @insert6585 2 роки тому +2

    Lol I Love How Tony Got Everybody To Talk In British Lol

  • @w8ngr
    @w8ngr 2 роки тому +4

    Older Tony’s accent much much betta

  • @afaris88
    @afaris88 Рік тому +1

    Wow, you got your own "inspired by a true story" movie. Happy for you, coach! 💪
    Me personally, I regret that I didn't learn martial arts as a kid. I used to get bullied a lot because I'm the smallest one. Got several chances to learn but didn't like the style. Even moved from one town to another several times for education. Only started to learn Muay Thai seriously since 2017, but a little too late coz I was in my 30's already. Now I'm learning boxing, and yours is the only channel I subscribe 👍

  • @peterianstaker5386
    @peterianstaker5386 2 роки тому +3

    Good accents 😂 are they Scottish, Australian or Macken?

  • @Casper_Capone
    @Casper_Capone Рік тому

    I've had my older brother be bullied till he committed suicide, I really wish he shared more about what was going on with his situation because I know I would've taken all the punches in the world for him. It really doesn't seem that bad from the outside, but when you face it from school and your parents it can become overwhelming.
    I just hope everybody knows it's never too late to ask for help, never give up on life or people. It does get better, you'll find people that would do anything for you and you'd do the same for them. I don't really know what to say other than that, really do look for the people around you, they do love you and care about you.

  • @omnikingscar1962
    @omnikingscar1962 2 роки тому +3

    Real story of tony: beated the bully to a pulp
    Dhar man story: weave weave weave weave
    🤣🤣😂😂 Tony is a savage. And your stamina videos helped me out a lot.

  • @jo3546
    @jo3546 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Tony even through this is more based to tell great story and is partially fictional, watching your actual reactions, seeing your fore head sweat bullets about what actually happens really shows how the trauma of bullying actually affected you. But the great thing is how it built who you are and with UA-cam gives you that "look at me now" confidence. So great motivational clip and your add on to the film and personal recollection is beautiful.

  • @armandohernandez3106
    @armandohernandez3106 2 роки тому +3

    Great video Tony. Wow how things have changed from those days of bullying. Now with social media, cell phones etc. Bullies have taken it to the next level. ✝️🇺🇸🥊 Coach Mando from the Alamo City.

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому +1

      Exactly Coach, we just need to educate people about bullying

  • @chriswilliamson7414
    @chriswilliamson7414 Рік тому +1

    Best thing about this short film is watching so many actors attempting to talk in a Geordie accent

  • @3bb4sr
    @3bb4sr 2 роки тому +3

    How can i send video to you cuz i want knockout somebody ❤️

  • @Mr-ye1vu
    @Mr-ye1vu 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve not seen acting this good since Goodfellas.

  • @Hello_Neighbor_Shadow
    @Hello_Neighbor_Shadow 2 роки тому +3

    Quality accents like.

  • @Ambitious_Prospects
    @Ambitious_Prospects Рік тому +1

    Same here Tony
    These kids at school (I’m 13) would make fun of me for my size
    I started going to the gym and boxing at home (I bought a punching bag)
    I also tried teaching myself mma
    (I have some Taekwondo experience)
    The were pissing me off so much
    And grappled me (we were on a big snow hill)
    I grabbed him and threw him off the hill
    Now he’s scared of me
    I defend the weak who also get picked on and try to motivate them to go to the gym and do martial arts

  • @rossfowler7530
    @rossfowler7530 2 роки тому +7

    Top man tony

  • @wrestlingwithjay3770
    @wrestlingwithjay3770 Рік тому +1

    Flashback in the mid June of 2022

  • @zaalj
    @zaalj 2 роки тому +8

    I got bullied too but I got back in a really smart way first I gathered as much evidences as I can and as karma hits I made my move by attacking them outside of school, the next day I knew they wanted a fight so I made sure everyone was watch after the small fight I showed all the proof I had of them after that I got them out of the school permanently

  • @vedicwarriorOriginal
    @vedicwarriorOriginal Рік тому

    Fantastic lessons in this video. Very similar story happened with me when I was a kid. Got picked on 'cause I looked different and weak. Dad put me through a martial arts school and everything changed. My confidence shot up, mental and physical health got better and better, and more importantly, prepared me for real life. Probably saved my life at times. Learning martial arts the right way, whether it is karate, boxing, jiu-jitsu or whatever, trains you to keep yourself away from danger and to take care of your friends and family. Now, I teach younger family members how to defend themselves and stand tall. Stay strong, stay safe. 💪👍

  • @TMNTPrincess_serenity
    @TMNTPrincess_serenity 2 роки тому +3

    I got bullied to I’m 11 now and I love martial art I’m am a girl and I just love martial art

    • @Tony_Jeffries
      @Tony_Jeffries  2 роки тому

      Keep it up, if u don’t mind, could u please share this vid on ya social media please. Will really help me out :) All good if not 🙏🏻

    • @TMNTPrincess_serenity
      @TMNTPrincess_serenity 2 роки тому

      @@Tony_Jeffries yes I will have my sis it on TikTok thank you I’m such a big fan

  • @raphaellauria8981
    @raphaellauria8981 2 роки тому

    This should be a lesson to all those bullies out there. You are not putting someone down, you are only creating a champion feeding on fear, anger, revenge. Be carful since one day, all that energy will explode on you.

  • @cryptoworldpeace2974
    @cryptoworldpeace2974 2 роки тому +3

    Hot take: “Dhar Mann” is as terrible for society as TikTok is.
    Mr. Jeffries, you’re great!
    Dhar man videos make me cringe harder than anything ever has, aside from the overall mess our society is in.
    Cheers lol

  • @help3393
    @help3393 2 роки тому +1

    - gracefully moves out of the way of a punch and touches hair -

  • @anthonyjarnagin6308
    @anthonyjarnagin6308 2 роки тому +3

    Yesssirrrr tonyyyyy🫡🫡🫡

  • @jacobm92
    @jacobm92 2 роки тому

    this is an inspirational story and everything but i find the acting (especially the kid playing the bully) to be really funny lol. "MAYBE I DIDNT MAKE MYSELF CLEAR!"

  • @DameEh25
    @DameEh25 2 роки тому +4

    First

  • @patrickcostello2429
    @patrickcostello2429 2 роки тому

    I have never been bullied...but I always hated bullies... defended a lot of my peers... great content as always👍

  • @speedyBK78
    @speedyBK78 2 роки тому +3

    first

  • @krashplays3211
    @krashplays3211 2 роки тому

    This is such a great inspirational story! This has also got to be one of my favourite Dhar Mann collabs out there, and what makes it more entertaining is how everyone else with a speaking role imitates a British accent!

  • @Yonkipog
    @Yonkipog Рік тому +3

    Dharman is so cringe man 😂 only watched 20 seconds and i can't stand this 😂

    • @noelosmanllari-vf2ep
      @noelosmanllari-vf2ep 6 місяців тому

      Whats cringe about dharmann

    • @Steve-q1z
      @Steve-q1z 6 місяців тому

      it’s cringe, but it’s not that level of cringe where it’s unwatchable..

  • @jamiearnold1711
    @jamiearnold1711 2 роки тому +1

    11:34 Tony giving Iron Mike a run for his money there.

  • @dylanconnolly2665
    @dylanconnolly2665 Рік тому +2

    I've been bullied quite a lot primarily because I was skinny I got stronger did kickboxing and got in a few fights learnt to become savage at roasting and I stopped getting bullied

  • @prvtthd401
    @prvtthd401 2 роки тому

    Attitude really is the biggest defense against bullies. Be confident and stand up for yourself.

  • @MendAmar
    @MendAmar Рік тому

    i have been defamed twice, got bullied for 7 years, and what's worse is that now I have malnutrition and became too skinny. But I fought back after 2nd defamation, I experienced it before but never knew about it, it was outrageous, and the day I was defamed again, I immediately told my teacher and dad that a crime was taking place and gave them proofs, the next day action was taken in the principal's office, but that bully was lucky that I didn't press charges, I only now think that he learned the lesson and hopefully he doesn't bully me again, warned him that if he does bully me, I will complain to the police and press charges.
    Also very inspiring to hear your story as well, thanks!

  • @nichooooo2748
    @nichooooo2748 2 роки тому +2

    Should rename this "How Dhar Mann got it all wrong"

  • @LouieYork-v1q
    @LouieYork-v1q 6 місяців тому +1

    I love how it went from a massive British accent to an American accent 😂