Life after Loss| what my Monster in-Law said to me after my dear Husband died | Reality Star speaks
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- This week we profile Phume Sibisi Khethang
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Ladies, please normalise opening every episode with a word of prayer. These testimonials are not ordinary testimonials and are very sensitive.
Love this comment ❤
I agree
I have a feeling that they do. I don't think they can start without consulting the Almighty with such a great task.. it's just that they don't do it in public for the sake of time.
I have a feeling they do pray before the interview, but perfect comment. We need to always pray as viewers before watching these testimonies. So glad I found this channel because so much resonates with my life.
I think the do just not on screen
Yho, it's like I'm reliving what happened to me almost 10 years ago....I buried my late husband when I was only 32yrs old, no help from his mother or his sister...instead she took the little money he left and didnt even take out le 50c to help bury her son....cherry on top, she even took a scale sa go kala weight after funeral and never came back ever again until she died....but I forgave her shem.
I refused to do traditional things bcos I told them gore I'm born again, I will never do anything that goes against the principles of God and my Christian values. They said dont come back when things dont go well for u....I told them, not with the God I serve....
My God continues to bless and provide for me and my kids bcos I didn't depend on men but on the creator, my source, my everything, the God in whom I trust....#blessedbeyondmeasure#
So sorry u went thru this, th mind boggle is theyl say they wanna do th traditional things to help u, but they dont help u with any thing else, like funds etc...suspicious
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Even though we walk in the shadow of valley of death, we fear no evil, God will restore you sis Inno❤
You can say that again Lorraine 🙏
Sorry for what happened to the Sadiki family, may God restore all that you have lost 1000 fold🙏🙌
Indeed 🙏
So sorry my sister the good Lord is forever in control❤❤❤.
Guys can we at least make them get to 300 k with this episode please, so that even in their lose, they can find small celebrations
And we almost there 😢😢
N not skipping them ad's ❤
You guys though❤❤❤ such a great family over here. YES to watching all ads
Yes let's not forget to like and subscribe, just pause when you are watching and do the things.🤗
God bless you Phume
This mother and daughter in law rivalry is a curse. Ladies please pray for your future mothers in law, remove this curse before meeting them
Absolutely true. It's a total curse.
It is indeed, I have two sons and I pray for myself that I don't become a monster-in law.... yooh Lord help me
It's not a curse ukukhohlakala...they are just wicked
Amen
I know exactly what she's saying about what is said by makotis when the husbands pass away I've been there 😢
Mrs Khethang, may God give you all the strength. You are indeed a strong woman sis🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen 🙏
I'm first to watch,I'm so sorry about the loose on innocent sadiki. I'm so sorry, muhalivho wanga mudzimu vha ni engedze zwi na zwiluza,I love so much nwabuba
I’m sorry for what happened to you and your family Inno,God will restore you❤
The same question l asked God why me ,l was married to my husband he died when l was 26,😢he was everything,it's been 14yrs now l don't know my abantu basemzini ngabangcina ngosuku lomngcwabo , awuwedwa mtase phola cc
It took Me 10 years to go back there. I was 32 when I lost him. In my case the were no Harsha words spoken. It was their Lack of Empathy that broke Me.
" I don't think she ever liked me, but she loved her son too much to accept me". I can relate.
Love and light to you Mme❤
She did . Sending you hug and ❤️
I lost my mum 8 days ago, and I must say it is so painful to loose a loved one. It's so so so hard. You are strong my Sister. Big hugs, May God comfort you.
I am so sorry for your loss dear.
Sorry sis. Take heart❤
❤ sorry my love 😢
Ooooh it's a very hard experience to loose a mother or a loved one dear I've been there. Only God Our Creator and Time can heal you. Condolences dear...Please grieve for your loved.
🫂 🫂 God is with you even through this hard times. Lost mine in 2020. It still hurts as if it was yesterday 😢
Pastor Inno my thoughts and prayers in this trying times,God will restore everything and it will be more and bigger than what you lost ❤️
Do not ask God questions God's plan for us are good confess the promises of God are good and faithful
Oh my goodness Her late husband was my classmate from primary to high school I lost a friend a brother still can't believe he's gone I was shocked 😢😢😢😢😢may his soul continue to rest in peace we use call each other Mdotji. Death be not proud 💔💔💔
So sorry for ur loss phume. We as women we go through so much from our in laws. I lost my husband to cancer 2022. My mother on law told me that if her son die in our house she will get me arrested. And it come to pass he passed away in our home 8am 29th August. She told me to give her the ID and His clothes but I refused till today we are still not talking. But I thank God because I did all for him even made sure he got buried at home where they wanted and paid for everything. We were married for 17 years. We are still healing with my 4 children. It is well dear. My comfort scripture Romans 8:28.
I'm so sad to see other people's comments here imagine bashing another woman n you don't know your tomorrow😢😢🥺😞
John 13:7
Jesus answered him, “What I am doing you do not understand now, but afterward you will understand.”
Please find comfort in him Ausi Inno for he knows what he is doing and blessed is the one who trusts the Lord and whose confidence is in him,ga gona sesa siameng❤.
Thanks for sharing this touching testimony it has tears in my eyes. Her husband was a special man of God, for the way he loved her. I am so touch by this special video.
Some mother in laws are evil. They're so evil they're don't even realize they hurt even their own sons by hurting you.
"My wife is coming, i know how she walks" he adored his wife🥺
Now this is “I’ve been through the most” was wondering if it’s all about heavenly visitations now.
I'm so sorry sis Inno...may God strengthen you.eix this fire even here in oliven happened in 3 houses but different extations(location).but I thank God even these 3 houses non one died.we don't know where this fire comes from .but God is in charge sis.love you
I’m so sorry for what Happened to Ino Sadiki…🥹🥹🥹 May the God Lord be with you woman of God. Be strengthened…💔💔
Twins thanks for allowing your guest to tell the story. We feel like we understand her story. What a touching story. An hour or more allow us to truly learn and hear the guest testimony, connect with them and sew how God used them and how it blesses us, how we can pray for them, relate etc. Thank you beautiful twins. God bless.Thank you Phume for sharing your truth. ❤
I feel like there is a spiritual husband involved. Loosing 2 husbands, loosing a mum just before marriage, 3 miscarriages etc. I feel like she is married in the spirit.
It might be hey, it chased away the first husband, then the mom dies because it doesn't want her to get married, then it kills the children ka miscarriage, now the husband...
Wasn't she the one who said Jesus is an ancestor mo pastors wives....that's blasphemy phela. I immediately stopped watching it after that comment 😢
@@azicraftsandarts5177TRUE
Losing two husbands? Where did you hear that sis? I got divorced.. re married then he passed away . So is my mother .. people do pass away nje so spiritual Ntoni Ntoni ?
@@PhumeKhethang-dy9wc Divorce is losing him too. So you think it’s normal to have 3 miscarriages back to back? Life is spiritual sis.
@@azicraftsandarts5177Exactly. She doesn’t want to accept it but this is not normal, it’s a spiritual matter for sure.
The worst is:
1. Having a mum-in-law who was never loved by her husband, worse when she was also abused by her mamazala.
2. Hurting and dissapointing a girl who was never loved by her dad.
These women bleed on those who didnt cut them.
People bleed onto wrong people and not the ones who have inflicted the wounds and pains kubona. The kindest of souls always always catch stray bullets💔💔 A very sad truth😢😢
I couldn’t stop crying 😭 😭😭she is left with a beautifully memories and I must say she is a strong woman of God🥹🥹❤️
I know the pain of losing a mother, just two weeks after leaving her to go to the police academy, thinking I am going to create a better tomorrow and only to receive a call 2 weeks being at the college that she is no more, I felt like my heart was ripped out and that a part of me died also, but God has been healing my broken heart. God is faithful,
Condolences , may her soul rest in peace ❤
Go nale batho ba phelang ka dipelo tsa TAU inside them...they are so cruel BUT let's pray for them Amen
What a lovely testimony of where GOD reigns, Basotho bare senghanang Se nrola morwalo, Thnx Phume for standing your ground about yr property it's a pity yr mother in Law demonstrated who and what she is, let's pray that GOD reveal the truth and that you were also loved by both your Mom and your living husband ( may they rest in eternal Peace)❤❤❤
Yooo watching this testimony in tears..but towards the end when she received a call from the hospital the sound was too high
Inno nomndeni wakho nxesi sisi ngento ekuvelele, sinawe ngomkhuleko sisi and thank u for another beautiful vlog.❤❤❤
Thank you sis Phume for sharing your story, you're so strong and God has been by your side all this time ❤
My Husband n I are married for 11yrs. He is still much alive. My fear is how my life is going to look like without him bcs his relatives HATES me.
God will your conforter
i can relate
God didn't give us a spirit of fear but love and sound mind so just trust in God he will confort you when the time come
U will be fine my love! God will give you amazing strength, you will be left in awe by his faithfulness. Stay prayed up and steadfast in His love for you.
Stop fearing what is yet to happen or you will bring it upon yourself.
1:00:10 as I think about my previous in-laws 🙏God truly protects us from what we do not know and see.
So sorry mamfundisi for what you went through its so devastating
48:30 The music increased over her speaking right here.🤦🏾♀️
Yes it was blocking out her voice
Iyaa neh you have reminded me about the passing of my husband. We need to ask God to strengthen the new widows it's a lot guys. To me it's after 8 yrs and He was sick for 17 years but I m still not ok.😢😢😢
Mother joh you are a real strong woman of God and learn us mother's in laws to love our daughters in law may God bless you my mother❤🙏
Shuu life is taught....but through Jesus he made everything easier ❤
So painful cc,I was nearly killed by my monster in law....I can relate 😭💔 m so sorry for the daughter who has been misled 😢
Me being an over thinker, let me tool 🤐
I get you
Thanks!
Her story is a true illustration of how cruel people can be 😢😢😢 You lose your love and your pillar and people are all about hogging material things. That is sad😢
To me this is nt new, im Zulu married to a Sotho guy and my in laws treated me so bad till i decided to leave and start afresh and it hurts bcz i left with nothing for peace sake. South Sotho hates Zulus , u dont hv to do anything wrong, nje they jst hate us for loving their son 😢. So sorry cc for what u went through, may God heal u ❤. To u innocent sorry for ur house cc kuzolunga ❤
As if Zulus love everyone, who calls other people izilwane? This statement cannot be coming from a Zulu speaking person😢
Sorry sesi for what happened to you,it was not because you are a zulu,I'm a pedi speaking and married to the pedi's,but I went through a lot.
Why is it that when the husband dies they blame the wife?? 😢
The One that married..... But forgetting who turned Saul in to Paul. Who ever knew that Rahab The Harlot would be Jesus Granny? Believers are the ones that are hindering pple from being saved bcos of their mouths. What is the meaning of GRACE?
The enemy is not happy. Sis Innocent God will certainly bless you with a new bigger and better house. Now unto Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly unto Him be the glory🙌🏾
they say you killed your husband bcoz their greedy hearts are on the money......weeeeeeeee
They always say that and quick to rush for his money and would even want their kids to benefit instead of the deceased children.
MmeKgethang thanks for speaking out and yes more than 80% of us, widows go thru that hurt and by women
I say I will not let a woman undergo that in my family
God loves us
Joh. The Pastor has such a Calling on her Life. I could have listened for 5 hours. What a Powerful Powerful Testimony... I would really love to hear her speak again. She just lifted me up on how to be a better Wife to my Husband
I think that sickness was an attack, I hate when doctors see nothing that minor stuff
That is the 1st thing that came to me, it was a spiritual war.
Mybe covid vax
Kept him too long in hospital..someone not adding up
I got so emotional God is truly our strength
HUSBAND FROM HEAVEN. 🙏🙏🙏GOD IS GOOD.
Yho Phumi your story is similar to mine except that I had a three months old baby at the time, i promise you it's been 9 years but I'm still not healed
Sending love and prayers. Hug hug to you ❤️🫂
Thanks!
The spirits or kingdom of darkness that you denounce when you come to Jesus where the one who didn't want to see your happiness.I think you also need serious deliverance woman of God. Jesus loves you more .Remain blessed ❤❤
Am a widow too,I have gone through much,I have been called a murderer after having six children of God have mercy on widows.
Abomamazala bayalibala ukuba nabo beze ngalendlela nawe uzengayo,and sadly thinking that you are not good enough for her son
The music overpowers her voice do something about that next time
Especially from the 48 minutes ....& She's now narrating a crucial part of their story 😢
I'm literally thinking about this as I read your comment... The music is really disturbing 😢
Yes, I had to turn up my volume and still couldn’t hear what she said regarding answering the 3rd call 😢
Have you ever loved someone like you know or have met them.. that's how much I adore my Queen Phume Khetang❤❤❤
Much love and I am humbled by your kind words❤️
Watching this is hard knowing what Inno is going through love and light to your family ❤
A beautiful love story😢, may God confort you.
That Man loved you unapologetically and fulfillef his duty as s Husband.
I never asked God Why Me? When I lost My Hubby in Jan 2012. But currently I'm asking Him Why Me😢. My Mom is slowly Perishing infront of Us because of Dementia 😢😢😢💔💔💔. The irony of it all Hubby and My Mom were Best Friends.😢. My Mom loved him like a Son. Hubby Cherished and Loved My Mom💔. It also Dawned on Me that I keep losing the One's that matter to Me the most💔💔💔.
This is way too sad..the way she narrates her story if really felt like I personally knew her amazing Hubby...May He RIP in power, his spiris is guarding you dear Sister, from the way he LOVED you soo loudly. ❤ You're beautiful,keep your strength,keep going. U NOT ALONE....
Yooh sis Phume, nxese sis wami for all the pain that you went through. Your husband truly loved you till the very end as per the promises you made to each other when you got married. Please take comfort in that, hold on to those beautiful memories. God loves you, you are the chosen one, strong beautiful woman of God. I pray for God's peace and healing in your life. Inno sisi, rest assured God will restore and multiply everything that the devil has stolen from your family. Love you lots beautiful twins ❤❤❤
Wanted to be first comment but ke 😢😅
Sending hugs to Inno and her family with the loss of their home. I speak restoration unto your family. ❤
What a strong , beautiful woman!! I love her!!
Yooh this just triggered me. Exactly what happened to my baby daddy last year , he passed on. From driving himself one moment to ICU with kidney and heart failure to dying all in 3days. The image never leaves my mind, was with him, prayed and pleaded with God but still yooh ... death is one painful thing 💔
Yooh literally re-lived my life thru this woman... what a powerful testimony ❤😢
Yho what an emotional story sis phume stay strong ❤ sis inno may God bless you and your family sorry for what happened to you sis stay strong
Why was the MUSIC TURNED ON LOUD WHEN SHE WAS EXPLAINING THAT SENSITIVE INFO.....Do sth about it INNO/ MILI PLEASE
Thanks this took me back to my story when I lost my hubby in 2020.but God is has been goo
Yoh after this, I know I will love my husband differently 😢 yoh.
Her voice is bold and still calm and healing
Thank you ❤️🙏
@@PhumeKhethang-dy9wcsending all the love and comfort ❤❤❤❤
I feel your pain.😮.May God strengthen, comfort and heal you..
I'm so sorry Phume for your loss sis, God has got you and the strength He's bestowed upon you is remarkable.
Such a blessed pastor and his wife. I wish i was okder when my mom passed on. I would have also made sure mom is a born again christian. This lady is a great story teller. Lord bless you. Im in tears for a stranger 😭 😭😭
This episode touched my heart 🥺
I love me some phume❤❤God bless you mommy.
Tjoo I can relate ,I remember walking in at Richards bay Netcare the Bay hospital ,my mom was late 😭😭
Yeah same hospital 😢😢😢😢
My bby, those that judged you and your late husband, are ignorant. Remember the scripture that says, My people perish because of lack of knowledge, we always look outside of the church, but the most ignorant are those who are iwithin the church. Lord have mercy. May the Father of mercies, Father of all comfort, comfort you and the children. 🙏🙏
The pain is written, all over her face😢
😢😢😢😢it hurts every single day
I understand Phume's situation'i also experianced that.Mother's in law can be monsters yah not all of them eh but the majority ,struuuh.
I have never cried watching this😢..may God be with you my sister..Christians especially born again ones..they are too judgmental..I'm a widow myself..
Yooh ausy Mpumi I'm sorry for your lose😢this is so painful to listen 😢
Very emotional podcast 😢 😪
Innocent, big hugs . May God keep you and family strong and give you peace . We bring nothing on this earth and take nothing when we go . Be encouraged sis , you and your sister are doing kingdom work and God sees your labour in the vineyard . Looking foward to an amzing testimony of restoration, God always comes through for His children . We gove thanks for your life and those of your loved ones . Indeed the fire has not and will not burn you .
So sorry sisPhume. May you find comfort in God. ❤
I can relate to what u said....going tp my late mum's place is such a struggle for me...the wound of losing her becomes new each time i go😢🇧🇼🇧🇼
😢 It's so sad.
Afteŕ my mom passed away I went through a lot. One of my uncles was so adamant to destroy my life. I wish I can get to share my story with you guys
This a Powerful Testimony,we thank GOD for you woman of GOD
It is painful 😢and I do feel your pain Mrs Kgethang even though my sister in-law she's the one who accused me
I am triggered by this testimonial and went through the same thing 3 years ago. I have so much anger and finding it hard to forgive my in laws and just let go 😢
Same happened to my aunt..Granny passed on on Wednesday buried on Sartuday morning after it ws her wedding same day😢😢😢
This is so sad and touching.. The story is like a movie...
This hits home so bad. But why are women like that to others, dont mother in laws want their sons be loved and be happy? 😢
Such a sad story. It breaks 💔 my heart how we get treated.
I also lost my husband and there's a lot to tell from the day he couldn't speak for himself as he was in coma for 5 months.
I know exactly how it feels, I knew that the next day my husband would be discharged only to receive a phone call in the early hours that he's no more 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
And the cooking part 😂😂 I hate doing laundry till this day because it was his duty 🤭🤭🤭🤭
Exactly what unfolded with My Lovely Dad.....❤