What To Do When 10's Ignore You
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- Опубліковано 29 сер 2024
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Gaming the hottest girls is a little different than gaming girls who are merely "cute". A big piece of this is getting on their radar. That's not a totally new concept, but there are a lot of nuanced points in this video that definitely are.
That love-hate bell curve concept is mind blowing
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Indeed it is. I wonder why its so true, though ?
What a phenomenal point.
It's gonna cook my noodle for a while
@@carllewis9389 You get richer than them
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Todd's game is definately my favourite out of all the pickup artists i've watched, so subtle and methodical, a real magician.
It's all about the subtle things :]
I find you can see he's been taught by Mystery (less emphasis on advanced game though, like story telling, group theory, merging sets etc.). I like both very much and Todd's more active.
Watch RSD MAX game bro
Hes pretty much the only guy who i think isnt basically full of shit. Everyone else seems like theyre real “game” is the hustle they put over their audience
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I ain't worried about a 10 ignoring me. I'm worried about a 5 ignoring me Lol.
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You will happen to find that most 10 does not ignore but 5 does. Because 5 is NOT confident. So never play with 5. Play with 8,9,10
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Showing disinterest with hot girls gives you an enormous plus point. Hot girls want attention and they want you to notice them.
Great job in dealing in this kind of matter bro! Excellent job!🤙🙌
This is what you call QUALITY content. Thanks Todd! I’m really feeling like getting my hands on The System right now.
Lol how can a girl not instantly recognise Todd's value? He's Todd 😂
Jacked Fruit Do you eat mainly fruit to bodybuild? Thanks, God Bless!
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Do not say I did not warn you
@@nightcrawler1967 That video is seriously disturbing
Waldviertler Jungs I’m a vegan and i’ve never felt better in my life. I’m gaining muscle mass and feeling more energized than ever. Those in that video are malnourished and probably don’t understand that you need carbohydrates and glucose from fruits, honey etc. they believe that all sugar is the same, and that’s why they look fucked up
@@nightcrawler1967 It is entirely sustainable, and in fact superior if you track your calories, macros and take the right vitamins daily. This is something most bodybuilders are already doing so it isn't that hard for them. However most regular people are not capable of this and would be better off just eating meat.
Totally relate to the sense of entitlement. Its like groundhog day, you start from 0 every new interaction. Sometimes thats good sometimes its not
not true. ur energy and experirnce chsnges.
That last bit about “a thin line between love and hate” blew my mind. It’s true looking back on certain experiences of mine. Awesome video man
Every video you put out "Nah. I am sure he is going to twist words and say same thing" but every video turns out so much better than previous and I have mind blown every time.
Once again, thanks for quitting RSD!
What’s your definition of a 10? Most guys rate girls too highly. A true 10 is almost impossible to find.
+YogiOabs To me a 10 is my dream girl including character traits, to the world it's all about what the majority likes. It's too difficult, too many opinions to choose a universal girl. Guess is easier to pick a celebrity and have guidelines.
YogiOabs lmao bro it's subjective man. It's all opinion what I find as a 6 could be a 10 to you. It's all opinion
A 10 is someone whom, if you didn't get the chance to open properly or ask her number, you go back to the time and place for weeks hoping to game her properly. She's not interchangeable. A 9 OTOH if you miss a chance with her, your brain knows another like her will be around tomorrow
And you are the one who sets the scale for tens?
Fuck off lamo
Build value at the venue to get on a 10’s radar. Social proof. Commanding presence. Once she sees other people reacting positively and being drawn to you, she’ll follow.
Lol, I thought the same thing. I spent many nights befriending bouncers, bartenders, managers, owners, DJ's etc. Eventually I got to where I could enter my regular venues and not only know half the people working, but would see at least a few regulars that I'd met along the way.
I'd walk in, feeling like I owned the damn place, saying hi to people left and right like a damn celebrity. A few times I even got invited to the VIP area with bottle service.
You know what happened? Girls were just as disinterested as they were before, if not even more so.
Same thing happened when I got in shape. I thought, if I get jacked with 6 pack abs, girls will be all over me. Well I've been in jacked, 6 pack abs shape for almost 3 years now and girls have never been more DISinterested in me.
@@fuzzypanda1684depends...idk ofcthey might be picking up on the fact that you're doing it just for show. If you "know" a bunch of people but don't have actual friendships with them really then it doesn't necessarily mean much.
Getting to know people is quite important but it's kinda only the first step. You gotta take that and build actual connections out of it, and that is in your control.
@@chrisjfox8715 I 100% agree with you when it comes to developing real, long lasting friendships and relationships. I learned a long time ago that having lots of casual friends and acquaintances pales in comparison to having just a few real, true friends.
But we're talking about attracting women. And aside from being in shape and wealthy, social proof is one of the best ways to attract women. If they see that everyone knows and likes you, then you must be desirable, therefore, they want you.
My point was that even after getting into shape and developing tons of social proof, I still failed to attract girls, even when I was in the VIP section with obvious in's with the manager, bouncers etc.
This is why I love Todd and his videos. Within 21 seconds, he's already bullseyed the point.
Long story short we live in the world of 4-Hour live streams about how impossible it is to get girls, Todd will set you straight in 21 seconds flat. THATS a Sensei.
Home-hitting content every time. You the man, Todd!
Super hot blond walked into the same liquor as me the other day. I totally ignored her, gave her a dirty look while walking out the store. Win 👍
How is this a win lmaooo
@The Green Pill Mindset is the green pill a new opportunity ?
I'm male 43 and tired of the shit test..... being better looking than average and poor can be a blessing to get laid but they're all the same, drama drama and damage
Lool
maybe for you that's a win, but for true players not even a slight gain
The amount of people who can't tell that Anthony was joking is concerning.
If i Ignore hot girls they ignore me. You have to get on their radar before you neg girls. And I only neg if the girl is stealing my frame. Negging is not always the best tactic.
its the last resort. when something is dead insulting them resurrects them immediately. IMMEDIATELY
neging is not a good option. Its like saying your low value and therefore need to bring them down to your level. If you need to neg people your low value.
Todd>rsd
@Ali if you have fame, status and money, social media game works tremendously well
The last pic I posted on instagram was in 2014 I got 30 likes frrom friends etc but I am scared of posting new pic
Ali Everything about engineering is totally epic
Love that outro beat! A very cool mix of jazz and hip hop.
its by beat era
Sleeping with alot of girls is so overrated... Ive done plenty but in the end they are all the same after a while. 10s or 6s. Sex is sex sooner or later. Just an ego boost. But waste your life away chasing girls and youll be 40 and still be that old guy at the club that evryone cringes at.
Yes you might still get a one night stand but your true value will be found out very quickly and theyll know youre a loser.
I have my own business with amazing reviews online about me by my clients. Every girl that googles me are way more attracted to me. Not because of money but because of my ststus and the value i bring to other people and how highly they talk about me. Dont chase women. Chase excellence. Dont become the 40 yr old loser lurking the streets and clubs preying for a lay. Be the guy that girls try to lay with. Be the guy that can afford the nice car nice tables at the club. The ones girls chase after. Dont be the creep trying to pick up girls all the time
True value should come from your self and your journey. Dont let others decide how you feel thats like given them a part of you they can do with as they wish.
This is pretty revealing, so refreshing. Thank you, Todd!
Damn, slept with 5 girls in 7 nights.........I will be that some day for sure.
It's quite easy believe me 👍
@Anton Boludo just be a liar and a creep, but it's not in me to do it.
I'd prefer to have a bit of self respect, rather than self indulgence...
@Anton Boludo I just came up with the name in my head, I seen it on an advertisement, decided to use it as a username 😁
@Anton Boludo I used to but found it very shallow and meaningless.
It's quite easy, the only part of the body where someone's flowing blood is visable is the blood vessels in the eye.
Focus on the blood in their eye's while talking to them, with good intentions.
It's hard to explain,but it works.
@Anton Boludo Hey man, what is "Mystery Method, a.k.a. Venusian Arts"?
My friend got rejected that harshly before too, where after a time of hooking up with girls, he felt a bit too cocky and then hit on this girl that was having a bad day, and then essentially told him to leave her alone. These things happen unfortunately.
The downside about game is that we tend to put all of the responsibility on us. Todd, its possible that the girl that told you to *FUCK OFF* when have done that to any guy with any opener. Sometimes its okay to say that its just on the girl and not you.
Why is the Love-Hate curve so effective? I want to understand this
because they're highly dense and highly charged emotions that are difficult to just walk away from. women want intense feelings which strike them at their core. love and hate is essentially the same thing...two sides of the same coin. like hot and cold weather. everybody remembers a sweltering 105 degree day or a bitter cold ass negative 14 degree day. girls dont care about "he's nice" or "ehhh". they want to feel something! indifference is the absolute LAST thing you want a girl to "feel" about you. tell me when was the last time you gave a fuck about a 40 degree day??
LexWithTVSetsTheMinimum yo, but how do you change their feeling from hate to love? I know from Patrice O'Neill that this is how he did it. He called it "bear hunting", where he called the girls out or gave them alotta shit and they were like "Excuse me", where he then backpaddled and turned the emotions from hate to love. Does kt wlrk that way? And btw. is being indifferent key, because this is when women start to game you (and it is also important for long term relationships). Because when they kinda know that you want them, but are not sure about it, they feel insecure and are also interested and start testing the water, which is HUGE, because then you have the upper hand (status and value wise) and you can basically play them like a fiddle. Search for "being indifferent" and "Patrice O'Neill" on youtube. Also his name and "bearhunting" and "Bill Burr saying Patrice O'Neill had the best game". Its a very great insight and a tad different on how Patrices game looked like. He as a more abrasive and rash personality compared to Todd and is very loud and in general offensive, but he was also very charming, funny and caring. Just watch his shit - it is also very entertaining as he was a comedian as well. Have fun and get back at me how you liked it and what do you think it can be turned around (even if I think I answered it myself now ^^).
My take: Even if she hates you, she has strong feelings towards you. You occupy a large amount of her focus/thoughts/intensity. To do that you must have the power to make her hate you, which means you are not a bland/boring/agreeable person - you've already got some attractive qualities (perhaps assertiveness, confidence etc.)
Damn. Great answers here!
@@mekudu-man3804 you pretty much have the answer. women dont want even keel...they want a rollercoaster--regardless of what they admit. they love drama. you want to always have her unsure about where she stands with you and keep her chasing. hot and heavy for the entire weekend but cold during the week. never texting back right away, backhanded compliments, occasionally breaking plans, playfully flirting with other girls in front of her...shit like that keeps her on her toes. honestly...you have to keep girls in a perpetual state of terror. it sounds fucked up, but its the real.
Thanks for sharing Todd! Great value as always
Todd is our Neo of "Matrix"
This is sooo fk solid wow every single video of you is like a freakin bible the more i approach women every weekend the more i appreciate your videos man
Ladies and gentlemen TODD FUKIN VALENTINE!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Geez, I WISH girls would just say "f*** off" to me. At least then I'd know to move on. It's better than having them engaging with you, smiling, laughing, going along with the push/pull flow, you spend an hour or two or three with her, things are going great, then when you leave the bar together she suddenly does a 180 and latches onto the nearest guy she can find and goes home with him instead.
No joke that's happened multiple times to me. An immediate rejection is ALWAYS preferable to the long con. Especially when she literally breaks away from you and latches onto the nearest guy who isn't you.
I call it the "anyone but you" mentality, because no matter how well it's going, in the end she'll go home with anyone...as long as it's not you.
You are doing something wrong. Seems like maybe you are being too much of a nice guy. Try to build more sexual tension on a date. Kiss the girl, talk more sexual. Cut down on the smiling/laughing vibe. One of the main characteristics of the nice guy
5 girls in 7 days thats fucking sick ~~~~~~~
What’s your opener to a group?
Love the concept that “excuse me” is a talk to me phrase.
So true! I always thought that a negative.
say I dont think i will. when someonr says that
Think of it this way: your going in with the mindset you need to impress them when you should be thinking how do they impress me? You just need to show up.
*what to do when you ignore 10's*
Rj the great fax
One of my worst sets was ironically one that should’ve been easier. I was talking to this girl who was like an 8 who ended up being very promiscuous. I’m used to girls being a little more conservative but after a couple lines she goes in and kisses me. It threw me off so much I got really confused because I’ve never had a girl literally kiss me after pretty much just meeting her before.
GAME IS BEAUTIFUL, Day game double makeout with 2 friends on a bar, almost pulling....the face of the chodes around..priceless. Love that shit, Todd my mentor I am forever in your debt. Each day is a adventure My only worry is will ever I stop that because I am 27 and I cant seriously see me stoping that at least for more than a Decade
No physical attraction = no sexual attraction .
Wrong, you can build sexual attraction with your inner values and GAME… There`re so many good looking guys having a hard time with women, while you can see the average looking midget joe with a taller 8, 9 or even a ten.
Never happened to you that you get choosing signals from a random hot chick in the streets or a bar, then you approach her and she rejects you, even she was giving you that look 4 or 3 mins before? That`s because, your game is weak. As a good looking built guy myself I can say this happened to me years ago, I could only attract certain type of women that felt into my looks only, but had hard time with the ones that, even they were amazed by my looks, the conversation didn`t Flow... You know, lack of game…. So now to me Game is everything even more than just physical attraction. Greetings from France.
The Bolt Thrower respect bro, same type of guy here and your comment is spotless!
Another guy who has no clue how female attraction works... Watch Dan Bacon's videos (start with the most popular ones) to begin to get it.
You're projecting. Female attraction doesn't work like yours.
Not necessarily. There can be physical attraction according to one's own preferences. But still a lack of sexual attraction.
@@theboltthrower8661 Don't bullshit. I live in Europe and I know that girls judge guys by looks. You can't look like shit and hope that you'd get an 8-9. Also, women in Europe are racist when it comes to dating. I'm South Asian and I've experienced it first hand.
Its not until you've gone out a lot that you truly understand that you HAVE to game 7s differently than how you game 9.9's. I think Madison and Max have both had content claiming you can just be chill and normal with 10s and stay in set and it will work out and they'll appreciate how fun and "normal" and non needy you are acting around them...and yeah that doesnt work at all.
doesn't work for you because you think about it and already negate it in your head ;) works for people who never heard of these stupid bullshit and they hang out/date/marry 8,9 and 10s ;)
Could you make in-depth video regarding being too arrogant and cocky in the set?
Pay very close attention to how she is responding. If she is still talking, smiling, engaging, bantering back at you etc. You haven't gone too far. If she is irritated, defensive, insulted etc. You have gone too far. Keep her engaged and enjoying the interaction.
easier to go from hate to love.. than from mild anything to love
System is the best product ever man! Thanks a lot
Is there instruction on how to use the system? Or are you being just left with a ton of concepts and material?
@@tengame6483 basicly the system is a road map of picking up girls and almost every small detail about social cues is explained so profoundly , in my opinion no pua product is better than this one
@@tomektomalos9088 i have the system myself and i know what i'm talking about. Theres no clear guidance on what skills to focus on and how to start. Theres no missions or tasks after each video internalize the concept. It's better than nothing though.
@@tomektomalos9088 and i'm very disappointed with the system. I believe he could make it better though..
By neg'ing a person your reacting to them thats not inner validation. A person that knows his value dont need to pull others down to know his value. If they dont see the value then its on to the next. You cant give your power away. Its like given a free ride into your life.
"she must just know I have value because I am Todd" ❤️😮😅
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I can look into your eyes and see the truth....It will set you free and one always playing the game is depriving themselves of the love that's really there.To each his own.
Let's be real here, any girl who doesn't have a glaring physical deformity is pretty much a 10/10 by default. Because it's us guys that are rating them, and most guys are desperate neanderthals with rock-bottom standards. So, getting ANY average-looking, non-deformed woman is gonna be tough since she's probably a 10/10.
Now, with men it's a different story because women are extremely selective. So only the tallest and best looking dudes are 10/10's.
Therefore, when the average guy is a 3-5/10 and the average woman is an 8-10/10, you can see why it's so difficult for the average guy to hook up with the average girl these days.
Very true, and could hurt many short peoples egos, crazy how they exist in the first place and the world is not full off men over 6 foot. But i like what ur saying here lets keep on telling the short guys that women dont like them because theyre short and will only go for the Alpha 6+ footers with the six pack and status. I mean its the truth, right?
@Cussy I think there is very very very few 10 girls and im from Scandinavia... That might help my game 🤔
@@cussyrichards6121 I wish you well in life. But history tells otherwise.
Your right about the standards thing but there is a simple fix to the problem and thats rasing the standards and stop looking for validation from others. Men do have power they just dont use it. Most women dont want to be the picker deep down they want to be picked like men do. Most more value in being picked then begin the picker for women.
Ah, the "hot girl blasé..." One of the most difficult things to overcome in game. Which should point to the solution. Make sure you get anything BUT a blasé response. To borrow a slogan from one of the world's most successful sporting franchises: "Hated, adored, never ignored." You should be the same. If the girl gives you a shit test, she's also giving you a platform to display your value. If you tolerate being ignored, it's an honest signal of low value.
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Genius Tod! Great deep advices like only a few AVENs can figure out.
Hey Todd, what are the main differences between game in America and Europe?
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the real trick is to stop rating girls out of 10, and view them all as 2s
just start valueing your self as higher value then anyone else in your life. They need to be cool to be in your life. You set the standard. Move on if they dont meet it.
Is there a video about Flipping hate into love? This fascinating too me
My question to the commenters and to AskToddV is woman described as 10's or 7's, where can I see examples of this structure? What makes someone a 10? Is there like a chart or some kind of facial analysis thing that gives a clear reading?
Benami Ark it's all opinion so what I see as a 7 could be a 10 to you, but a 10 is a girl who u notice and look because she is soooooooo hot and no one is on her level. 10s are the hottest of the hot. 7s are more common they are hot but not wicked hot like damn I'm nervous to walk past this girl hot. 10s are hot af 7s are hot but have weak points. 10s borderline flawless
Yeah, definitely depends on your preference and experiences. I think my girl is around an 8, but another guy I know who’s been with a lot more girls than me thinks she’s a 6. The thing about 10’s though is you’ll know when you see one.
A 10 is someone who, if you just flirted or said hi but didn't get to game, causes you to go back to the same place and part of town to run into again, because she's not interchangeable like a 9.
If you see more than 2 equal or greater in beauty than her in less than 3 months, she's not a 10.
Here's the name of the song Neutro Shorty - Soy Yo
The love/hate continuum point was absolutely spot on.
Liking and disliking is so low on the emotional spectrum, it's almost non existent, you don't want to be there.
The best way to create sexual tension is to get the girl riled up by going after her friends like Todd said. The hotter she is, the better this strategy works.
The best sex you can have is after an argument, and there's a reason for that.
Great videos Todd,.... but then it is not Love in its essence. Love have no counter. However, in the way the word love is used (and understood) it is true, but it is more addiction/hate 😏
the last sentence is legend
I just realised, why I always get hit on by the people I don't find attractive. Because I burn them as I'm not stopped by my wish to qualify to her. Big learn from your vids brother
Do you know any video of Todd approaching 10s?
his idea of 10s is what I'd call a 7 at most... it's ridiculous. just because you can't get a true 9 or 10, doesn't mean that the best women you can actually get are not 10s. lol
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 so is this guy not legit lol
@@arsenal78910 he's legit... for up to 8s :D
Did that girl who was mean to you know who you were? Lke, she reacted that way based purely the impression she got from you or maybe because you knew you were a popular pick up artist and she knew what was goin on all along?
Love and hate are choices and independent of like and dislike
How do you express how high- value you are?
@Alex Morales I do, I havent seen this before, got any links?
allabout meaning h
Its simple if you feel it then you are it. People can feel how someone feels about them self. Its a basic social skill. You can tell if someone want you to impress them. Use this.
I think the "fuck off" probably means she dont find u attractive at First. Shes giving off the "I know I'm hot so fuck off" vibe. you gotta rebuttal and definitely go for her friend and push her far in the backround.
If someone had said that to me i would have laughed and said good on you. I would not give her a reaction because i decide how i feel.
Exhausting...he is breaking down one outcome of hundreds or posible outcomes..
Confirmed signs she is interested in you?
When to give up on someone?
Summary: Yes, do neg hot girls. Don't let other opinions distract you, neg them and you are better off.
neging is coming from place where you see her as begin higher value then you and therefor need to bring her down in value. I say that a completely wrong mindset. You should always see your self as high value and let others do the sucking up to you. And if people dont see the value then its there lose. You keep growing to your goals without them.
I had girls tell.me.to fuck off I just laugh and move to another girl.
do a video about corporal language, please todd
I got the fuck off a few times after I used openers like these: "hi", "excuse me", "how are you"
Todd, how can you work on calibrating teasing? I’m a kinda scary looking and sarcastic guy and when I tease they tend to take me seriously, or think I’m just rude or mean
Make your self laugh mate thats way better in the long run. Who cares what some random girl thinks that so reactionary. Look inward for your own validation.
thanks
Good explanation with the hi there facts
This guy makes me laugh way too much
That love-hate shit blew my mind 😲
Hey Todd V, that beat is dope!! Who made it???
Damn this niqqa a straight genius
ok, i wont close this window... need to let it sink then watch it again
(2324) your only as high value as you are in the set
so how i can show high valueness in a set or how i can communicate that to a girl by my tone and body language
My second question is what makes him a high value male?
In his game you don't have to be a high value male, you just have to convince the women that you are. And they are so stupid, it is not that difficult.
You just need to feel like you are one and dont let others decide your value.
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Hey todd ,If i speak with lines that im trying to sound like im a confident guy and with integrity or any quality, will this make me be persived to women that this is an honest signal?
CSR 5736 no
The outro music is so good. Anyone got some clues for me?
Peter Fischer flexanator - ostm raw
adun nou ty man
Gold
Straight fire
What to do when 3's ignore me... lmao
Gets rejected by 5’s ☹️
maybe this stuff would work. it might even turn me on. But then comes the memory of how she let a guy go all over her and she gave her body to him for an hour.. and after an hour his tricks got boring. and then she tried to connect to him in text but he was too threatening and too sexual to offer a safe place to talk. you just get the sense that something is dark in him. that maybe its not safe to be with him. maybe he doesnt have compassion and likes to lavish on friends and vanquishes enemies. its just not safe to nest near him. What would you do if you detected that in a guy? What if i became his enemy momentarily, would he vanquish me as well? is he even safe to be around?
Why such a somber music at the end though? It adds a depressing tone to the message, to tell the truth.
I don't have a problem with that hate with them hating me cuz the bottom line is I hate they ass too so it's no big deal on that the feelings are mutual I hate them too.
training pick up? pick up? this is like a marketing course of thirsty dudes. concentrate on yourself, bitches come and bitches go. no need to study when its your turn
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Marko Mägi but we are Soo horny
He never answered the question. The answer is to move on, she's not that interested. A tip, men should date within their range. The expectation that every male has to date the hottest women is just a blinding sense of entitlement, think in her shoes, the hottest women would want and can date the best looking guy over an average looking guy, because that would as well be dating within her range.
But what I've you date 9s and 6s are ignoring you?
Fuck off is better than being laughed at.
Had that happen and it’ll take the wind all the way outta your sails
If that happens again just laugh at them dont let others dictate your mood because then you will never be happy
@@jonasholmer4161 ~ yeah, I was pretty young when it happened
Love your enemies my brother
Toddsta
That soundtrack is really dope. Anybody know how it's called?
10s 0s they all ignore me
Damn! pretty deep I gotta admit. Especially that last part about a thin line between love and hate.
So you basically throw subliminal slangs not too over the top while talking to her friends.
Beat era??
Guys please use your brain!!!
Even " Seduction coaches" pull Tens very rarely, because...
1) These girls are difficult to find!
2) You have to look really good!!!
If your Looks are above a 7 out of ten, then you have a significant chance to get her.
Gg Dfgvcg stfu you use your brain too much
@@davidreynolds4942 thanks dude :)
In terms of SMV you want to be at least an 8.5. That doesnt mean its hopeless if you look like a 6. That value can be derived from multiple areas (personality traits, confidence, behavior, etc) so the girl sees you as higher in SMV.
@John Doe how very cliché of you sir 😂
number 2 is a limiting belief. Case in point, rsdLuke
As you mature women will approach you,,and if they don't, there not worth your time and effort
You mean "you've been judged not worth their time and effort". 😂😂