5 TIPS to move in silence on social media as a public figure or aspiring influencer!

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024

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  • @karinealourdementalgems
    @karinealourdementalgems  Рік тому

    Watch my level up playlist if you liked this video ua-cam.com/play/PLxKSvIWh3CP19bulk0HviWyklpVFIdNG9.html

    • @withChaiwa
      @withChaiwa Рік тому

      I love you❤️ You don't do podcasts?

  • @sheng3229
    @sheng3229 Рік тому +106

    Karine, also along with your reel, part of my journey to moving in silence started when finding out that most of my friends didn't roll with me like that 😔😔 I was literally so sad for the longest because of that. I used to be very vocal about success and celebrate others success but I guess the people I was with did not see it the same way as me. Protect yourself esp if you have something valuable so others don't trampled on you.

    • @karinealourdementalgems
      @karinealourdementalgems  Рік тому +17

      It’s a tough lesson but sadly it’s the truth, many people really don’t support and they are your “close” friends

    • @jluzzie
      @jluzzie Рік тому +2

      We might need a support group, because girl, SAME!

  • @slayfaee
    @slayfaee Рік тому +19

    Even my own cousins and “friends” were hate watching. I learned my lesson hard not to overshare. People really pray for your downfall so I will never post about my personal life again

  • @Hopehope179
    @Hopehope179 Рік тому +24

    In part I disagree. I’ve learnt people will talk regardless of you posting or not. Some of the most successful people I follow live unapologetically. Live freely and forget about what people think. Things I never share though is income, live location and hateful or negative content. However live and let live, we can all learn from each other’s experiences good and bad!

    • @4everdee33
      @4everdee33 Рік тому

      I can see what you mean - I'm getting to a point where Im like, fuggg it i want to share! Close friends helps with that greatly.

  • @BillieB.
    @BillieB. Рік тому +4

    Couldn't agree more. Some people just go way overboard with sharing their personal lives in my opinion.

  • @nadiaa6932
    @nadiaa6932 Рік тому +2

    1.) does it help
    2.) is it kind
    3.) is it relevant ?

  • @VV-yz8dm
    @VV-yz8dm Рік тому +10

    Your content keeps getting better and better. I have been watching your first channel since you were at 100k. keep it up Karine

  • @ShaySunshyne
    @ShaySunshyne Рік тому +2

    3:07 That first tip 🙌🏾 it’s been the main thing I’ve been struggling with. I don’t overshare but I’ve been learning from some comments that they were just there to watch. Weird

  • @deanna6742
    @deanna6742 Рік тому +4

    bye 🤣🤣🤣 that was too funny 12:56
    I definitely agree with everything you said. I always thought ppl overshare on social media, but sometimes I even tell myself to keep my mouth shut

  • @odesiacreates
    @odesiacreates Рік тому +2

    So glad u posted this 👍🏼💪🏽

  • @TaylorWinter
    @TaylorWinter Рік тому

    Love this video. Lately I’ve been like I need to stop tweeting my every thought so much. When you’re use to tweeting and posting since middle school it’s hard to break these habits but I’m working on them.

  • @NadiaPink
    @NadiaPink Рік тому +2

    Thank you wonderful video and you look gorgeous as usual. ❤

  • @doreendoreen9508
    @doreendoreen9508 Рік тому

    Thank you Karine 😘❤️

  • @thegoodnews6682
    @thegoodnews6682 Рік тому

    You look freaking 😍

  • @jessicascreenwritingservices
    @jessicascreenwritingservices Рік тому +51

    So true! There’s even family members I refuse to tell good news to. Always love your mental gems 💎✨🙌🏾

    • @Marvelous_M
      @Marvelous_M Рік тому +6

      I recently learned to do this

  • @sharolynk414
    @sharolynk414 Рік тому +20

    Lol I mindlessly deleted my ig two days ago and the most surprising thing was feeling free. Thought it would be regret. Free from hate watchers, free from hate watching. 2023 started with a bang I swear!! As for fb I’m slowly pulling down photos and unfriending ppl.
    Something inside me light up when I saw the notification bc I feel like I’m stepping into a new mindset and you’re always coming through✨

  • @PointlessPeachesII
    @PointlessPeachesII Рік тому +26

    Facts. I mentioned one thing about my business and my sales have plummeted ever since. So, now I don't say a g'damn thing because there are so much power in the tongue. Stay prayed up 🧿🧿🧿

  • @TellyTingz2000
    @TellyTingz2000 Рік тому +7

    I love your privacy and silence Vids because I’m a Scorpio I’m naturally private

  • @valenciaorange2000
    @valenciaorange2000 Рік тому +22

    We all need mental reminders. Thank you for this Karine! I will be listening to this again in my sleep tonight.

  • @4everdee33
    @4everdee33 Рік тому +2

    Aww when the light went out - so cute! Showed some of your features more. You give me Toni Braxton vibes in the face.

  • @Marvelous_M
    @Marvelous_M Рік тому +41

    This video really came at the best time for me. I was already considering to write down topics i want to stay a way from, topics i enjoy, and i no longer care about what others think. I post truly what i want, and discuss random topics with my love and humor. Being myself allowed me to get the attention i was looking for (in a good way) I’m a comedian. I still need to work on my storytelling and finding a consistent schedule. Idk why I am always feeling overwhelmed or drained. It’s like a writers block version for content creation. Love you Karine thank you!

    • @bellanoire2271
      @bellanoire2271 Рік тому +4

      This sounds like a really good strategy! I never thought about actually writing specific topics on paper and dividing them into categories to share and not share. I’m definitely going to try this bc it’s so easy to end up with blurred lines. Especially when it’s something I’m really passionate about. This might help me gain more clarity and better protection of my peace. Thank you for sharing 😊❤️📝

    • @Marvelous_M
      @Marvelous_M Рік тому

      @@bellanoire2271 you’re welcome love! ♥️

  • @eibhlinnichrualoai
    @eibhlinnichrualoai Рік тому +4

    I just discovered your channel. I absolutely love it, what an absolutely fantastic resource for women. I love seeing younger women at the top of their game..subbed. xxx

  • @KamilaJones-qg9jh
    @KamilaJones-qg9jh 9 місяців тому +1

    Loved the video so much!! I saw it initially about two weeks ago and I’m still thinking about it and coming back to it lol. I wanted to ask if you could please share the study you mentioned in the video about most people following just so they can hate watch. I’ve try to look for it online but I can’t find it. I’m not saying I don’t believe you, I absolutely do based on what I’ve seen online, but the study sounds fascinating and I would love to read it!

  • @MarieAmicalola
    @MarieAmicalola Рік тому +1

    You have such beautiful energy Karine.

  • @bellanoire2271
    @bellanoire2271 Рік тому +9

    Karine, your skin and hair is literally GLOWING! 😍☀️🤎✨ The Lord’s anointing is upon you for sure! Every video you post is such an inspiration to me as I go through the most difficult season of my Level Up journey thus far (resisting conformity and embracing the Godly transformation of a renewed mind). Thank you for sharing these mental gems with us 💎💎💎💎

  • @realpristine
    @realpristine Рік тому +4

    Hate watchers are the first person to dislike the video 😂
    So persistent

  • @mercychemomenyi1231
    @mercychemomenyi1231 Рік тому +3

    Karine, thanks for shading light, totally agree, kindly note, there are so many public figures who are private you stuck on B a lot. It's tiring for me.

  • @realpristine
    @realpristine Рік тому +1

    Wait…. You get paid for reels now?😮

  • @tamarahbernixe
    @tamarahbernixe Рік тому

    I know with my cousins I was always the under dog and they really didn’t like that.
    They still think I’m who I was I don’t bother sharing I got a bursary and shared but I felt sick after I’m sure I got some evil eye

  • @sheng3229
    @sheng3229 Рік тому +3

    Girl this is the extension of your sneak peak reel huh 👀👀 lol just kidding. Thank you for the video love 💗

  • @StephaniaDesir
    @StephaniaDesir Рік тому +1

    I can't help but notice the cute top

  • @marygolay1829
    @marygolay1829 Рік тому

    Amazing thank you

  • @Leopoldocruzcortez
    @Leopoldocruzcortez Рік тому

    Im the 1,000th like 🤭✨

  • @YvonneOnline
    @YvonneOnline Рік тому +1

    This type of hair looks sooo good on you 😊

  • @stinathesaturnian
    @stinathesaturnian Рік тому +2

    you look amazing 😻

  • @bayleesoto455
    @bayleesoto455 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video. Absolutely every piece of advice was beneficial to my life. Also, you're such an inspiration to me! The way you carry yourself, mannerisms, and opinions!! Have an amazing day, Karine 🫶🏾

  • @TellyTingz2000
    @TellyTingz2000 Рік тому +1

    I don’t want to lose my mystery you are amazing I did love the video it’s just always going to be vulnerability blogs and according to your niche

  • @ThatGirlHonest
    @ThatGirlHonest Рік тому +1

    So true! But vulnerable attracts more genuine supporters and fans. Kim K has more money than Beyoncé. So I guess it depends on your intention as a content creator/entertainer.

  • @NicoleSlays
    @NicoleSlays Рік тому +1

    Hey sis 🥰 all excellent points that needed to be put out in the world.
    I agree with all you've said.
    There was a time in my life where I would over share. In that time I learned, that just because people follow me doesn't mean they are for me & want to see all the blessings in my life...
    I sincerely enjoy seeing others live their best life! I love to see to see others wins! It brings happiness to my heart just witnessing that.. with that being said I enjoy & appreciate you & your content 💕 Thank you for everything Karine.
    Just know every time I watch your content I am love watching 🥰❤️💖💐

  • @GeneralDame77
    @GeneralDame77 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos! Also you are super gorgeous keep up the awesome content🥲

  • @nicolesherman8974
    @nicolesherman8974 Рік тому +1

    Good morning sis ❤️. I hope you have a great day! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @2Ramako
    @2Ramako Рік тому

    I’m just in love with your hair ❤glowingg. And I’m here for this video, defintely tips I want to apply !

  • @sydorah
    @sydorah Рік тому

    Hey friennnnnd. Itis so refreshing to see your beautiful face. You look fresh- and lovely-youthful. Your curls are my fav. All blessings to you friend. 💜🌹

  • @-_Somebody_
    @-_Somebody_ Рік тому

    It’s good to see your face again beautiful! Happy New Year 🎊

  • @pumpyourselfup7683
    @pumpyourselfup7683 Рік тому

    It doesn't matter you are still posting and you are giving advice, you think nobody will be offended by the things you say online? I mean you are stay saying something about Yourself. Beyonce doesn't share personal stuff only Music. If you were talking about Career yes id say you are private but you can't share advice and not talk about yourself.

  • @Marissaremy
    @Marissaremy Рік тому

    Im going to share an unsolicited opinion… i love you! Grateful for your insight 🎉

  • @ocleadinlady
    @ocleadinlady Рік тому

    I’m listening but is there a commissioned link you feel comfortable sharing of the suede/terracotta planter in the background?

  • @TellyTingz2000
    @TellyTingz2000 Рік тому

    You know what it’s all about your niche too if you have a personal UA-cam channel discussing things revolved around only you and your niche is (Personal or mental health and wellness then I can see people crying and venting but karine your niche is NOT personal you help women - I think it’s healthy to have a personal account if that is your niche of choice and have an account where you help people ❤ and because you say people do NOT care that means you already manifested what you said . Say people DO care and focus on the positive and don’t care if people care or not. Also just like you say don’t over share but we are the same ones all up in the
    Mix of other peoples personal lives sitting back being entertained by their BSlol. This was an excellent video Queen

  • @zolelamaholwana
    @zolelamaholwana Рік тому

    I love your channel so much ! Can’t believe I’ve been watching for 2 years and sharing all of your content to close friends 🥺😍 Mahn you really elevated me a lot and I’m happy watching you grow !!! Keep it up and I love you so much ❤️

  • @Jenni.P
    @Jenni.P Рік тому

    I swear this is my favorite channel!!

  • @thanaicili3883
    @thanaicili3883 Рік тому

    Loving the content, happy new year

  • @ashleybanksss
    @ashleybanksss Рік тому

    I loooove your hair! Awesome channel and video! ✨️

  • @ebonyassassin
    @ebonyassassin Рік тому

    This is such a great video! Glad I do a lot of these tips already ❤ thank you!

  • @Medicalmythsandmysteries
    @Medicalmythsandmysteries Рік тому

    Good quality video ❤

  • @adriennf525
    @adriennf525 Рік тому

    Karine always drops golden advice 👑🙌🙌

  • @Misana
    @Misana Рік тому

    Thank you for this invaluable advice.

  • @chrisfishburne2236
    @chrisfishburne2236 Рік тому

    You're a gem, Karine! 💎💎🥰

  • @tay_la_artist
    @tay_la_artist Рік тому

    Thank you for this video!! 🙌🏽❤️✨

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Рік тому +7

    Yes, we live in a culture where folks are quick to cancel you so you must really ask yourself what is my intention in sharing this? Your makeup is looking amazing btw❤Keep the videos coming girl!

  • @glamdollrickell
    @glamdollrickell Рік тому +4

    This is soooo true! I’m always the person to block or unfollow if I don’t correlate with you or our sprits clash, I had a friend who asked why do I Delete ppl, well if I personally don’t care for you why would I want to see you ? The fact that she didn’t understand my perspective validates that study!

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan Рік тому +3

    Thank you for covering this much needed topic.🤍
    That ‘awareness’ clip.😂😂😂