Homeless! Living off the grid. Our current situation.

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  • @markbooth1117
    @markbooth1117 Місяць тому +563

    Ste, if you can remember where I live when I saw you when you were working, you are welcome to come and help yourself to what I have. Are you at Jacks place/ Royal George ? You are welcome to borrow a frontier stove or my Jackery, etc to keep your small electrics going. What ever you need. Our Washing machine, etc is available for you to use.

  • @user-if4fd5wl1y
    @user-if4fd5wl1y Місяць тому +472

    £616 for a bit of grass and leccie seems very steep to me

    • @user-dg5dv8cw5w
      @user-dg5dv8cw5w Місяць тому +69

      very very steep

    • @TreeRatChaser
      @TreeRatChaser Місяць тому +56

      Can rent a house in county Durham area for less than that ..

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +53

      It's the going rate for this time of year. And it's a really good site. Clean and the owner is very helpful. And beautiful views.

    • @lilyloveponies
      @lilyloveponies Місяць тому

      ​@@TreeRatChaser I was thinking the same!

    • @bywhacky7395
      @bywhacky7395 Місяць тому +8

      high season prices

  • @NotASheep100
    @NotASheep100 Місяць тому +190

    Know exactly what your goin thru pal...
    Me and my misses lost it all...down to my ill health...and couldnt work for years.
    We ended up living in a tent
    ..then an old tourer....then we saved hard and ended up in an old static on a lovely site.
    Then the site had new management...and we got kicked off !!
    So here we are again....no home..misses just lost her job
    ..no income...no benefits...!
    But we will get thru...we will survive...😊
    We will rise up again...
    As long as you have shelter, food, love and a good relationship...you will survive.
    Just take care of your mental health...because thats where it hits hard.
    Love an respect to you an your misses...
    😊

    • @puzzlemagnet1957
      @puzzlemagnet1957 29 днів тому +8

      It's hard for me to believe this situation in the UK. Unless you're dealing with severe issues like addiction and refusing help, there is plenty of support available, especially for those who are ill. I've personally experienced sudden unemployment and the inability to pay rent, but within a week of contacting Universal Credit, I received an interest-free loan that covered my rent for the month. Within a month, I got my first Universal Credit payment, which gave me enough time to find work without needing to move or look for another place to live.
      In England, there's so much assistance available that it's hard to imagine ending up on the streets. Frankly, it makes no sense to me. Additionally, what this person is doing doesn't add up either. They claim to have jobs but are now homeless-that just doesn’t make sense. I suspect they are leaving out key details that would explain their situation.

    • @renatavestres9370
      @renatavestres9370 29 днів тому +3

      May God bless you and answer your prayers

    • @emzicoolintheuk
      @emzicoolintheuk 25 днів тому

      @@puzzlemagnet1957it’s the cost of everything. People are struggling to make ends meet.

    • @adeleleah3918
      @adeleleah3918 24 дні тому

      Quite simply...your wrong. I work in the frontline of healthcare AND lost everything last year. And i was very much left to it. Your ideas and beliefs about the system are out of date...since the tories came in in 2010 swinging cuts and profiteering off properties have left many ordinary folk in s*** street ​@puzzlemagnet1957

    • @nannaflamingo2806
      @nannaflamingo2806 24 дні тому

      Sending love ❤️

  • @JoshuaJaques-i5z
    @JoshuaJaques-i5z Місяць тому +277

    I've been homeless for nearly 1 month now, strangely enough my mental health has improved by leaps and bounds and feel just fortunate to be alive. It has its days and I have limited resources but I make the best of what I have. I'm 29 years of age living in midland England and appreciate you shedding some light on your situation, it gives me hope and a sense of community knowing I'm not the only one going through this. Kudos to you and your partner.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +24

      I'm so very sorry to hear this. I'm glad your mental health has improved it's good to hear a positive side to your situation. I wish you the very best of luck. And hopefully you are housed very soon.

    • @user-wv4ss2kf4d
      @user-wv4ss2kf4d Місяць тому +5

      Absolutely stress free

    • @DLC-sy7pp
      @DLC-sy7pp Місяць тому +5

      Good luck and best wishes young fella. 🙏 👍

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 Місяць тому +20

      Definitely NOT the only one enduring this. I will say I honestly believe that when the economy starts growing and housing becomes affordable again we will see people who truly don’t want to get back into a big headache of being overburdened with bills! This lifestyle will continue on for many. It may be a little harder to survive but less the stress of being on a clock and killing your self with hours on in at a job that really doesn’t care about us. A warm dry place to rest at night with a hot meal is all we need. Imagine taking that saved money and enjoying life!!!!!! You got this I promise….. good luck to all who are experiencing this. Turn it into a positive lesson…… 💪🏽💯

    • @user-wv4ss2kf4d
      @user-wv4ss2kf4d Місяць тому +16

      @@thesun-N-moon8885 I'll never return to a house or flat I'll die in a van

  • @sophies9274
    @sophies9274 Місяць тому +68

    nothing embarrassing about a man and woman providing for their family very competently from what i can see. all the best x

  • @HowlingFunRVAdventures
    @HowlingFunRVAdventures Місяць тому +71

    During the last recession we became houseless. But never homeless, we had our camper and it was tight for a family of four. We actually became happier with time because we were so grateful for what we had.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +3

      Brilliant 👏 thanks amazing that it brought you all closer.

    • @Scott-dp3lu
      @Scott-dp3lu 29 днів тому

      Id love to live in a camper van but id be worried if it got nicked iv lost my house, possessions and car all in one.

  • @JBOutdoors
    @JBOutdoors Місяць тому +148

    Thanks!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +65

      Justin m8! Wow, you really did not have to do that, pal. You are a legend! Thank you from our hearts sincerely, m8. This means the world.

    • @gtavmj-1852
      @gtavmj-1852 Місяць тому +22

      @@BushcraftWithSteOutdoors now THATS community spirit! :)

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +22

      @gtavmj-1852 absolutely 💯 💯 💯 @JBOutdoors is an amazing guy. Nice outdoors channel, too!

    • @JBOutdoors
      @JBOutdoors Місяць тому +23

      It’s not much, but hopefully it helps. I know you’re built for it, you’ve taught me a lot! It pains me to see a housing situation like this awaiting a higher power list to speed the process. I hope everything turns around for you and glad to see you’re making the most of it! Don’t worry about the negativity out there, people just assume!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +14

      @JBOutdoors Absolutely genuine guy! Amazing, thank you buddy.

  • @ellenkimphipps2470
    @ellenkimphipps2470 Місяць тому +43

    BEEN IN THE SAME PLACE MY SON AND MYSELF 60 YR OLD LADY WERE HOMELESS FOR 4 YEARS, AM FROM SOUTH AFRICA AND BELIEVE ME YOU HAVE IT BETTER THAN WE DO IN OUR COUNTRY THEY DO NOTHING TO HELP THE HOMLESS, BUT WE MADE IT THROUGH HARD WORK AND DETERMINNATION, NOT THAT WE ARE INA MASION OR ANYTHING, BUT KEEP YOUR SPIRTS UP AND TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME. I WISH YOU EVERYTHING OF THE BEST AND I HEAR YOU WHEN YOU SAID THE ONES YOU THOUGHT WOULD HELP DONT , BUT BELIEVE ME HELP WILL COME FROM THOSE YOU LEAST EXPECT IT. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.

  • @systemSkynet
    @systemSkynet 29 днів тому +36

    My kid didn't know I was homeless for near a year. I only saw her once a fortnight so we went "camping" then. Best nights of my life cos I knew how to camp. Brilliant episode dude

  • @thewatchman6074
    @thewatchman6074 Місяць тому +188

    In all my Seventy years, I have never seen the country in such a mess. Successive governments have neglected and failed the people of this country and I really feel for your generation, however, I suspect things are coming to a head within the next few months, and there will be a drastic change for the better very soon. I'm glad you have each other to lean on in these tough times, and wish you both the very best. Stay strong and stay positive, and your luck should change.

    • @SuperEarther
      @SuperEarther Місяць тому +6

      i hope you are right but i did hear whispers of even more energy hikes

    • @Hasdac
      @Hasdac Місяць тому

      We've all been given five years hard labour. ​@@SuperEarther

    • @Victoria-gq8gt
      @Victoria-gq8gt Місяць тому +5

      Successive? Don't you mean Tory?!!

    • @thewatchman6074
      @thewatchman6074 Місяць тому

      @@Victoria-gq8gt No, both parties have flooded the country with illegal immigration for decades, and both parties have destroyed our industrial capacity. Both ignore the wishes of the people., and simply work for the EU, WEF etc.

    • @SuperEarther
      @SuperEarther Місяць тому +12

      @@Victoria-gq8gt they are both run by the same donors

  • @awayinthewilderness4319
    @awayinthewilderness4319 Місяць тому +100

    Adversity will only make you stronger. Stay positive, Ste. Nothing to be embarrassed about. Times are tough right now.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +10

      Yes I agree. We are getting stronger by the day. Thank you for your support.

    • @davidjacobs828
      @davidjacobs828 Місяць тому +6

      ​@BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      6 ton a month seems extortionate .
      It would make more sense to wild camp free.
      Never owned an iron myself ...
      I spent 2 years purposefully homeless while I saved up for my motorhome .
      But I lived in my volvo estate as opposed to a tent .
      ( had a tent also for drinking beer in )😂
      I parked in a 24 hr gym car park so I could use the showers ,bogs etc.etc.etc..
      And also charge my power banks up . And use their WiFi..
      Don't hold your breath on the council house idea , could easily be 5 years.
      I like your tent ..

    • @christinerobinson4163
      @christinerobinson4163 Місяць тому +2

      Keep looking up. Sending positive thoughts and prayers to you and yours. It's not easy; Hard times make us stronger.

    • @earnold1896
      @earnold1896 Місяць тому +2

      Why embarrassed. He's doing well. I'd rather be there where he is than my house but only thing is I couldn't get up from the ground as I get bad cramp. Houses can be a disaster and a trial for a few reasons.

    • @awayinthewilderness4319
      @awayinthewilderness4319 Місяць тому +3

      @@earnold1896 He mentioned that. I was basically saying the same thing you are.

  • @johndanville6643
    @johndanville6643 20 днів тому +8

    And it's not embarrassing at all.iv been there. Homeless living in a tent in a bloody grave yard. Power to you both 👏

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  20 днів тому +2

      Bloody hell, I bet you have some tales to tell! Thanks buddy, glad you are sorted now.

  • @OldSchoolPrepper
    @OldSchoolPrepper 26 днів тому +10

    FOR EVERYONE: one way to support this channel is to allow the commercials to run all the way through while you watch the video, this is the way Ste Outdoors can get paid any money. If you skip the commercials, then they don't get money...if you watch at least 30 seconds they get a tiny bit but if you allow the commercial to play all the way through then they get more money. A sneaky way to do this easily and benefits both you and the channel is to start the video and let everything run...turn off the sound. Open a 2nd tab and go into UA-cam again, watch the video and skip the commercials like you normally do...so you'd have two tabs open on YT both running the same video, one you leave to run all the way and the 2nd you use to skip commercials.

  • @TenaciousDanzig
    @TenaciousDanzig Місяць тому +30

    No need to be embarrassed. These are crazy times. You seem to have a very positive outlook, which I'm sure will stand you in good stead. I doubt I would be so resilient. Good luck and thank you for sharing

  • @Ramen.Butterbeard
    @Ramen.Butterbeard Місяць тому +74

    I'm 58 and due to bereavement, have had to sell up, couldn't afford all the bill's, not eligible for benefits, so am now sofa surfing, have bought a tent, but hate to pay the utter rip off site fees, asked for these days, non electric pitch should cost around £4 a night, but of course the country has been set up to suck people dry, for company profits and shares , lucky I've got good friends, and am looking at alternatives, like van life, time will tell, good luck to all in the same situation, stay positive 👍

  • @generationxdad
    @generationxdad Місяць тому +78

    Glad to hear you and your missus have a strong connection and maintaining a unified front. A lot of people today would have likely bailed on their partner when times get rough, so it speaks volumes to the character, heart and dedication you two have for each other and is so wonderful to see ❤.
    The world seems to be going even more sideways with each passing day and it is unfortunate to see good people like you two cast into that kind of situation. Your bushcraft training will prove invaluable for sure and this will be a true testament to the wealth of knowledge you have been and will continue to give us all.
    Stay strong brother ❤👊.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +4

      Thanks, Ste m8, for your kind words. Take it easy.

    • @tlims6401
      @tlims6401 29 днів тому +1

      I loved reading that. You have a good heart❤
      God bless you

  • @ChiefScout_Outdoors
    @ChiefScout_Outdoors Місяць тому +34

    Gutted for you mate, we are in the same boat and looks like we will lose our flat very soon.
    We have the campervan to live in.
    Keep your heads up, keep supporting each other, you will get through this.
    🤩👍🌟

  • @BushcraftExplorer
    @BushcraftExplorer Місяць тому +91

    Very nice setup. My wife, I and our two teenage boys ended up homeless back in 2012. The 2008 crash spiraled us down until - like thousands of people in the US; we ended up homeless. We finally rented a RV spot in the woods on someones property and spent the winter in summer tents in Oregon. The next summer we purchased a Tipi and the following winter was much better and warmer. We all took it as a challenge to survive and prayed allot that God would help us - and He did! Your skills will definitely help, and what you learn now can be used to help others learn to survive when they become homeless too.... Unless things change for the better in this world - many more people will become homeless here in the future. God Bless you both and keep you safe, warm, and well fed!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +11

      I'm sorry to heat that you and your family have had some tough times. I'm sure some of it was fun too. Yeah I love the outdoors it's my happy place. I wish you and your family well wishes.

    • @BushcraftExplorer
      @BushcraftExplorer Місяць тому +4

      @@BushcraftWithSteOutdoors 👍

    • @darciehilton1166
      @darciehilton1166 28 днів тому +1

      I am looking for a good family to live in a house and help my son and I. We help each other. We have a small farm. Looking for help to help.

  • @Rrj24
    @Rrj24 29 днів тому +18

    You’re just houseless not homeless brother. Respect to you and yours. From Cardiff

  • @dickberggren3556
    @dickberggren3556 Місяць тому +20

    I have been your situation for 3 years, just keep your head high. Nothing to be embarrassed about. It is tough at the moment but all will work out for the best. Keep believing and keep your head high.

  • @loghoppers
    @loghoppers Місяць тому +30

    We are full time tent Nomads in the uk 🇬🇧 and we loves it matey, don't be too down. "living like animals" laughed at that. We can't carry tables and such, but we're on foot with backpacks tho. Tough times ahead, stay safe cully. 👍🏼

    • @robonaught
      @robonaught 26 днів тому +1

      Hi, if you don't mind me asking, how do you make a living constantly moving around?

    • @loghoppers
      @loghoppers 26 днів тому +2

      @@robonaught thanks for asking and we don't mind at all, We're releasing a video about that very soon. HAPPY HOPPING 👍🏼

  • @deanoboland
    @deanoboland Місяць тому +24

    Very sorry to hear your troubles buddy,glad to see you and your mrs staying strong. I woke up one day was so stressed with mortgage payments and the cost off everything I did this by choice. Turned out to be a 12 year adventure ended up in france then in Spain camping campsite fees are ridiculously cheaper. Plus great weather made so many friends from all over Europe. I now live in Cornwall in a one bedroom apartment but to be honest I am wild camping as much as I am in my apartment love being in nature.STAY STRONG GUYS 👍

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +3

      Wow, that sounds amazing. I could live like this forever. But I'm not sure the missus could 🤔. I bet you have some amazing stories to yo tell. Thank you for your support.

  • @jonothandoeser
    @jonothandoeser Місяць тому +29

    You have a home, it's just made of a different material than most homes. And it's FINE for the time being. You'll look back in a few years and this will all seem a big adventure!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +5

      I totally agree, and nomads still live like this today it's just an alternative style of living. ......for me and you. We are a special breed 😄 my Mrs on the other hand needs home comforts like windows and a letter box haha

    • @Hansen710
      @Hansen710 Місяць тому

      @@BushcraftWithSteOutdoors now you can take it, give it some years and you will age fast..
      that lifestyle is not healthy, and so is the equitment used either
      unhealthy eating and heating that effects your health, bad sleep and so on is not stuff that keeps you young
      i have lived in a 50 year old alternative community with over 1000 people, and it was not a place many people got old.

  • @christine6597
    @christine6597 Місяць тому +50

    Your video just popped up and Im watching now from Australia.
    Its the same here mate.. No one can afford to live.. 1 in 4 Aussies are worried about becoming homeless & the rate of homelessness already here has never been seen like it is now..
    Its every western country it seems..
    Ive just subbed to your channel.. I really hope you & your Mrs are ok moving forward.

  • @corleyoutdoors2887
    @corleyoutdoors2887 Місяць тому +21

    Been on the edge of homelessness for the last 6 months, it’s been a struggle since Yellow Freight filed bankruptcy last July. The circumstances I’m under now are why I haven’t posted videos this year. I’m sorry to hear you and yours are going through something similar. Stay strong Ste!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +2

      I'm so sorry to hear this. We wish you all the very best and really hope you come out of this horrible situation very soon. We have everything crossed for you. Stay strong.

  • @KatKin123
    @KatKin123 Місяць тому +23

    Please don’t be embarrassed - life is precarious these days and I can relate - single mama with three kids. It’ll happen and you’ll get a place. Well done for making the most of the experience. Just need to look at life a bit differently, tent, van, boat - not sure a 25 yr mortgage is particularly appealing these days. Stay positive!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +6

      Absolutely 💯 what you said it's a shock to the system, but alternative living Is an essential consideration these days. Even if I could afford to buy a house I wouldn't want to be obligated to pay a £300k mortgage for the rest of my life! Especially at 44 years old! Hope you are well and stay safe.

  • @thebeardedgorilla8596
    @thebeardedgorilla8596 Місяць тому +17

    Brother, I hate to hear that about you and your sweet missus. I pray that y'all will get what you need and be where you wanna be. Stay positive and know that y'all are in my prayers 🙏

  • @NOTHING-AT-ALL.
    @NOTHING-AT-ALL. Місяць тому +65

    Ive been putting a bag together for the last 3 years to comfortably survive homelessness, what a time to be alive 🤣

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +8

      Ohh no. I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope it doesn't come to that for you. All the very best to you.

    • @NOTHING-AT-ALL.
      @NOTHING-AT-ALL. Місяць тому +8

      @@BushcraftWithSteOutdoors its more of a contingency feels like the writing is on the wall for a lot of us

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 Місяць тому +3

      @@NOTHING-AT-ALL.💯
      If I had a partner to go at it with I would!! I’m sick of paying outrageous prices to be covered…. Nothing left to enjoy the days off! Pitiful…

    • @NOTHING-AT-ALL.
      @NOTHING-AT-ALL. Місяць тому +5

      @@thesun-N-moon8885 honestly, very often do i entertain the idea of making myself homeless on purpose so my outgoings drastically decrease, then i might be able to buy a half acre somewhere, but alas…a man can dream 🤔

    • @CornishLiving8
      @CornishLiving8 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@NOTHING-AT-ALL.If you don't do it,.you'll stay in the same place forever.

  • @boatingmanchester
    @boatingmanchester Місяць тому +21

    Tip! If you put the end of the rubber gas hoses in a cup of hot water for a min they will soften up slightly expand and allows you to slide the hose on no problem

    • @uk_prepper6775
      @uk_prepper6775 Місяць тому

      except you need to burn the gas to make the water hot

    • @boatingmanchester
      @boatingmanchester Місяць тому

      @@uk_prepper6775 What about the electric he has hooked up ? You not boil water with electric ?

  • @Victoria-gq8gt
    @Victoria-gq8gt Місяць тому +10

    Disfusting that good people are made homeless!! Australia is crumbling too. My sincere prayers you have the strength to endure until your circumstances change. May your lovely partner keep strong. You seem a courageous man and I know youll make it together.

  • @jeffrichards5106
    @jeffrichards5106 Місяць тому +12

    Sorry to hear about your situation, Ste. Hope all works out. At least you have a nice big warm cozy tent and necessities. Best of luck to you and the Mrs. I'll keep you in my prayers.

  • @Bruce-mz7ex
    @Bruce-mz7ex Місяць тому +17

    I'm 72 getting ready to stand up a camp in the Blue Ridge mountains of North Georgia!

    • @gerardandreas
      @gerardandreas Місяць тому

      Why You Do That ? Getting Retired On Mountain?

  • @djmastergroove946
    @djmastergroove946 Місяць тому +10

    And the main thing also. You have each other! I hate to see anybody homeless sorry that you're going through hard times. I hope everything works out and more luck comes you're way! 🙏🏻✊🏻

  • @debbieferguson6386
    @debbieferguson6386 29 днів тому +6

    Hello, I'm not quite what you call homeless, but I do reside in a Static Caravan. My partner passed away 29th January 2023, and it is very hard and has been very challenging and is challenging, but yes, I have started again in my life with 2 dog's and 2 cats as well, I wish you both well and back on your feet again xx

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you, that sounds cosy. I'm glad you are making the most of it. Take it easy.

  • @petrinadrake3547
    @petrinadrake3547 28 днів тому +3

    Thanks

  • @alexpervanoglu7420
    @alexpervanoglu7420 Місяць тому +6

    Couple of tips.
    Don't use ptfe tape on a gas regulator, they seal using a rubber o ring.
    When fitting the pipe on use a small amount of washing up liquid rubbed on the metal parts and heat the pipe ends in hot water. Makes it lots easier, and make sure they are fully on.
    Then make up a gently stired washing up liquid and water mix to spread around the connetors and look for bubbles. No bubbles no gas leaks.

  • @Qzeh
    @Qzeh 23 дні тому +2

    Don’t be embarrassed mate, I’m currently at my local library in a tent, same sort of situation, I’m in band C currently, been homeless for 6 months and been in the tent at the library for nearly 7 weeks now, still waiting for space to be cleared in social housing whilst I’m currently placing bids on council property’s, I only need a 1 bed myself. Some days are worse than others I agree but we’ve all gotta keep our heads and hopes high, I hope your situation gets rectified asap the same as mine! Great content like usual bud, keep up the hard work and graft, all the best to you and your partner buddy. Your channel has given me the motivation to keep pushing on. Wishing everyone in the same situation all the best! Cheers 👌🏻

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  23 дні тому +1

      M8! That's a bit crap! Are you working? Are you actually in the building at least? I really do hope things improve for you soon! Have they not offered you temporary accommodation?

    • @Qzeh
      @Qzeh 23 дні тому

      @@BushcraftWithSteOutdoors I’ve gotten a lucky break as I have a public toilet near me, the library is open fairly often so I can charge my power bank, got a couple local shops and a chemist nearby, sadly not working at the moment as I don’t have my own transport to get to various nearby work places, plus my setup is extremely basic at the moment, I’ve not been offered any social housing or emergency housing as of yet, I’m hopefully as had some type of trust organisation come out and verify me as rough sleeping, she’s helped me out massively bless her, been helping with food and all sorts really, she’s the one that’s been pushing to try to get me in somewhere even if it’s just temporary for now, basically she’s an angel in my eyes! I’m hopeful something will be sorted soon myself, just got to keep pushing, can’t deny it my mental health is completely shot and I do have to take medication 3 times daily for it, some days ain’t to bad but others are worse, I’ve just decided to be completely open about it all, atleast others out there going through the same situation know they ain’t the only ones. We all just got to hold on and keep up the good fight 💪🏻

  • @robertsplaylist6444
    @robertsplaylist6444 Місяць тому +11

    It's a terrible state of affairs we live in a supposed first world country and so many find themselves in this unfortunate position , I'm from Australia and things aren't any better , all the best to you and your wife

  • @jujutrini8412
    @jujutrini8412 20 днів тому +2

    No need to be embarrassed. This is just real life. People go through rough patches in life. Perhaps by you putting this out might help someone out. You never know.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  20 днів тому

      Hey there, thanks for stopping by. If anyone gets any benefit from these vids, that's my job done. Thanks, take care.

  • @Jf123esp
    @Jf123esp Місяць тому +6

    I can’t believe how positive your being and even though your wife is dealing with depression , she sounds so happy and positive also. God has deffo got a plan for you guys and we can all see here that your very appreciative… I can see you guys travelling around in a huge RV home very soon … keep up the positivity and hope and obviously your videos because your definitely touching a lot of people and we wanna watch you!! I’m watching you from Spain and I’ll make sure I tell everyone to subscribe and watch your videos. This can really happen to anyone and you guys just prove that us humans can make the best out of any situations if we stick together and use positivity … sorry if this message doesn’t make sense😂 however I just came across your page and fallen in love with the vibes already .. looking forward to seeing your journey! ❤ I’m praying for you guys to go viral & be able to live an amazing live VERY SOON 🙏❤️ lots of love. Jess. Xxx

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you awesomely from our hearts. You comment really made us smile you are great. I will keep the updates coming. Stay safe.

  • @chrisrobinson4608
    @chrisrobinson4608 23 дні тому +1

    My friend no need to feel embarrassed at all. I'm also in a similar situation. . .we live in very hard times. I feel the warmth of God and my passed loved ones watching over me which gives me great strength. It also helps having a supportive family. I'll say a prayer for you and your family 😊✝️

  • @Canadian_Craftsman
    @Canadian_Craftsman Місяць тому +10

    Hey man fully appreciate your honesty and transparency!!! I was just laid off our company went under after 70yrs they couldn't afford to be open anymore... continue doing what is essential and what you need but most importantly be thankful and happy&healthy strong&safe brotha✊️🔥✌️💚

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +2

      I'm so sorry to hear that, bud. I hope your situation improves. It seems to be a crisis that is spreading all over the world. Take it easy.

    • @Canadian_Craftsman
      @Canadian_Craftsman Місяць тому

      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors I've got 3 kids as well can't be easy but can always be worse right!!!(=✊️🔥✌️💚

  • @カスパ
    @カスパ 25 днів тому +1

    You're both gonna come out the other end of this and be grateful for the experience. You've got each other, you've got the plan, so hang in there, stick to it and stay on budget! I wish you the very best, I especially realize just how lucky I am in my current situation after watching, which being homeless myself would be the only only other option so thank you for sharing your experience and humbling us. I'm glad you had people come through for you, I really am.

  • @vishaljassal436
    @vishaljassal436 Місяць тому +6

    Amazing positivity shown from you both in this video. Stay strong. Thoughts and prayers for you both and if we can help in anyway please ask. No one should experience homelessness

  • @elainebrickell1033
    @elainebrickell1033 25 днів тому +1

    So sorry for your hard time, life is not easy, you have nothing to be embarrassed about, my thoughts are with you both

  • @loghoppers
    @loghoppers Місяць тому +7

    As I mentioned in my video, there's 8000 homeless ex forces, let alone the other people you mentioned too mate. Again, stay safe, positive vibes your way.

  • @leemichel8199
    @leemichel8199 Місяць тому +4

    As long as you stick together and to a plan ,keep pushing forward there's always a way brother ,I've been homeless a few times ,dig in chin up and keep busy, I feel your pain ,always do the next thing ,.I know it's daunting and will test you both. I know things will be ok, brother. I have faith in you, mate ,praying for you both 🙏 🤲. Stay strong bro. 💪 Lee

  • @colinpow
    @colinpow 29 днів тому +5

    It's a sad but great and honest video. Good luck to you both.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you. Hope as the updates continue, it will help someone in the same situation.

  • @Boglimuni
    @Boglimuni 16 днів тому +1

    I lost my house a year ago and currently in a caravan on a farm touching a year wouldn’t change it ever me the 2 cats and freedom keep your head up there’s more to life than being a sheep

  • @nicolacollis2977
    @nicolacollis2977 Місяць тому +8

    You are doing what you can mate, dont be embarrassed keep your chins up

  • @starlight8298
    @starlight8298 Місяць тому +6

    To avoid a gas accident , lube connections with Vaseline , and slip them all the way on , making sure your o clips, are on both connections and done up tight . 👍Set up a tarp over your tent and cooking area , for when it rains . A dry tent is more comfortable to live in .

  • @tucker2074
    @tucker2074 28 днів тому +2

    In the next 2yrs everyone will get to live in a tent, Mate you and your partner are legends, much respect

  • @aysheanaif2927
    @aysheanaif2927 Місяць тому +4

    Don’t be embarrassed situations change I hope you get rehoused soon. Positive thinking and love to you both ❤

  • @romybrooks3778
    @romybrooks3778 23 дні тому +1

    Thank you for your honesty & openness.

  • @DevilDog68
    @DevilDog68 Місяць тому +4

    Well that's shocker! I'm praying for you and your lady. God bless

  • @laurenjarrett
    @laurenjarrett 27 днів тому +1

    This video is inspiring me more I could ever describe. I’m being illegally evicted from my house share which has been in disrepair and abandoned since covid times and I have been paying £600 to live there in a dingy room, surrounded by addicts and trapped in the middle of a busy loud street in town, I couldn’t think of anything I would rather pay £600 on than some land I could feel safe and find peace on. Luckily have found a van to fix up so I’m halfway there 🙏 you guys are amazing!!

  • @user-qf1vx2wn2w
    @user-qf1vx2wn2w Місяць тому +80

    £616 per month sounds very expensive just to camp on a farmer's field

    • @DLC-sy7pp
      @DLC-sy7pp Місяць тому +10

      It is.

    • @loghoppers
      @loghoppers Місяць тому

      @@user-qf1vx2wn2w cheaper than some rents/mortgages these days tho. We live in a tent full time, not because of homelessness.. But because the system screws all who are in it, and I'd rather live free, with backpacks and choice of anywhere (within reason) to stay where and when we like. 👍🏼👌🏼

    • @guzzisue
      @guzzisue Місяць тому +2

      Summer and school holidays drive up the price of campsites.

    • @DLC-sy7pp
      @DLC-sy7pp Місяць тому +6

      @@guzzisue But it's still at the camp owners discretion. They don't have to charge a couple without kids so much.

    • @archiemillington306
      @archiemillington306 Місяць тому +8

      FARMERS FOR YOU AND I BET THE FARMER GETS A GRANT FOR NOT USING THAT PATCH OF GROUND

  • @amalfimike
    @amalfimike Місяць тому +1

    I developed a painful ear infection practically overnight. Bathed the inside of my ear with warm salty water for 2 days running and it's completely cleared up now. Can't beat mother nature's remedies

  • @paulliddle8008
    @paulliddle8008 Місяць тому +3

    So sorry to hear this Ste, i hope you get sorted soon buddy. Nice to see you both making light of your situation. All my best. 🤙🏻

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you. We are staying positive. Every step is a step forward. We appreciate all the love and support shown.

  • @sandy27665
    @sandy27665 Місяць тому +2

    Keep going you two,life always turns.Love is the greatest gift you can have it moves mountains.Stay strong my lovelies you will be ok.x

  • @bobhanson3275
    @bobhanson3275 Місяць тому +6

    I can only imagine it's embarassing, Please keep on trucking ! I have empathy for you, and totally Not judging you. God Bless !

  • @tracysmith-yv5lt
    @tracysmith-yv5lt 16 днів тому +1

    i m glad at the present time we have a quality tent from when we went camping. It .breaks my heart the bills at the moment you can not enjoy anything as long as you can cook keep yourself well times of things to come for a lot of people 8 thousand waiting list for one area.

  • @jean405
    @jean405 Місяць тому +4

    Nothing to be embarrassed about! You have a temporary solution, enjoy this time. I’ve subscribed to your channel, I hope it helps

  • @lifesahobby
    @lifesahobby Місяць тому +2

    Didnt get to write a proper message . I dont know your circumstances, all i know is that you will endeavor the rough with the smooth . Eventually things will improve .
    Im a bit envious in a silly way . Heres to the support we can provide as a community. We are here for you guys .

  • @emzicoolintheuk
    @emzicoolintheuk 25 днів тому +1

    Some people are selling up and buying a van to live in because they are sick of living in the matrix. Sounds very appealing to me. Unfortunately a tent limits you. This is a journey for you… wishing you both all the best. ❤

  • @liammalarky3483
    @liammalarky3483 Місяць тому +3

    Viennese Whirls! My favourite!!! Your situation reminds me of the stories from my grandparents' youth during the worldwide "great depression" of 1929 onwards. Folk lost everything in that. The well-off backstabbing social climbers who'd previously looked down on folk were snubbed when they ended up on skid row, but folk rallied round folks like yourselves. Working families are under the cosh these days through no fault of their own. It's tough but inspiring to see you making the best of it. It takes a bit of mental adjustment and outlook to accept things as they are now. A sense of humour goes a long way to help. All the best.

  • @RichardTLDR
    @RichardTLDR 26 днів тому +1

    The hidden homeless of Britain. You don’t realise it until you nearly or actually end up joining them.
    Good luck to you, you’re amazing.

  • @RobertParker1001
    @RobertParker1001 Місяць тому +6

    Recognised your tent and site , I was on there last Saturday, wish you well and good luck.

  • @FKU7777
    @FKU7777 29 днів тому +1

    Best of luck to you both, I really hope your luck turns and things get better real soon. Keep your spirits up 🤜👍

  • @Thisisnotmyname2309
    @Thisisnotmyname2309 Місяць тому +10

    Weirdly, im jealous , I'm stuck in a different rut completely. I'd love to enjoy the simplicity & escape the shite. Don't be embarrassed by sharing real life.
    May the road rise up to meet you!

  • @shootscoot883
    @shootscoot883 29 днів тому +1

    This video made me subscribe!!! I hope things turn around for you and your misses!!!!

  • @waynemoore5154
    @waynemoore5154 23 дні тому +24

    There is something profoundly wrong when two working people paying taxes end up living in a tent. At the same time as people entering the country illegally and not contributed a penny in tax get put up in a hotel.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  23 дні тому +11

      Welcome to England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

    • @lindasharp8523
      @lindasharp8523 22 дні тому

      Because OUR government sells them arms to blow their people up. Blame the right folk or stfu

    • @nicknewman7680
      @nicknewman7680 19 днів тому +3

      Couldn’t agree more,

  • @Stacity
    @Stacity Місяць тому +1

    I am so sorry for your situation I have subscribed to the channel . This is why camping is a good skill to learn in circumstances especially like this i hope its not too long before you get rehoused I will be watching.

  • @sharonfarr9907
    @sharonfarr9907 28 днів тому +2

    Stay strong during these trying times, I became homeless in 2019 I lost everything my kids and I lived in a tent for 3 months before we found accomodation, sending love from Australia 🇦🇺

  • @khadijareeves616
    @khadijareeves616 29 днів тому +15

    Yes we all are in a mess, but God will provide 🌬️🙏🏽💙

  • @alysonpercy2581
    @alysonpercy2581 Місяць тому +1

    I understand how hard this will be for you both having been homeless for just under 3 yrs and finally got my one bedroom home in November last year.....I pray you stay strong and get your wee home very soon 🙏

  • @AllGraceJesus
    @AllGraceJesus Місяць тому +5

    Hi, new subscribers here. wishing you stay string in this difficult situation, please keep us updated 🙏

  • @darciehilton1166
    @darciehilton1166 28 днів тому +1

    I live in Antlers oklahoma USA on a small farm and need help. We have a guest house to share a home for help. But we cannot find help. Life is better with God.

  • @MrTang500
    @MrTang500 Місяць тому +3

    Hope things get better bud and thoughts with you both and things get back on track… 👍👍

  • @smikee
    @smikee Місяць тому +2

    Just stumbled on your channel, ballsy as "F" to post this, I feel your pain and with you guys all the way. hope all works out for you all.

  • @brianhorner6340
    @brianhorner6340 Місяць тому +3

    Shocking to see how you and your beautiful partner are having to live especially with what’s going on these past few days/weeks :( I won’t get started on the whole politic side of things as I’d never stop. Looks like you’ve got a safe place for now but make sure you get on to the housing daily as they’ll forget you no problem if you let them

  • @zianeshkasparen4358
    @zianeshkasparen4358 Місяць тому +2

    You are still living. It is how you look at your situation and deal with it, as they come.
    Do not feel ashamed. This can happen to all of us. Without any warnigs. And some people do not realize this. I hope you all the best and that you can overcome this little snaffo soon.

  • @STEALTH_CAR_CAMPER
    @STEALTH_CAR_CAMPER Місяць тому +4

    Hope you get something sorted soon, mind you look pretty sorted there. that site fee baffles me as that's more than the rent on a 3 bed house here . stay safe both 👍

  • @Lanipax
    @Lanipax Місяць тому +1

    No need to be embarrassed bro this could happen to any of us! Much love to you both.

  • @kin4351
    @kin4351 Місяць тому +2

    Bit of fairy liquid on the connections helps the tube go on and also lets you know if there’s a leak

  • @bobtetstall2681
    @bobtetstall2681 Місяць тому +1

    Kudos for your honesty, plenty of people are going through similar and if this offers an alternative to people then it’s worthwhile.

  • @salan3
    @salan3 Місяць тому +3

    You can tell it's reverse thread by the slots in the hex head. Fuels are usually reverse thread to stop connecting to non fuel systems.

  • @Jennifer-cz2if
    @Jennifer-cz2if 29 днів тому +2

    Can I just say how much I admire and appreciate your honesty! I have far too many friends at the moment who from a distance seem to have the perfect life, with the perfect home and the perfect careers to match, in this current climate! It really gets me down because me and my husband have just had a baby, there are many times when we don’t have a penny to our names, he works full time and I did but we’re both on minimum wage which as we all know is shocking, I’m currently on mat leave and my job wouldn’t even pay me SMP so I’ve had to claim mat allowance instead, I want better for my son and I had planned on starting a family when we had a house and were more financially secure but things happen and you just learn to roll with it. What upsets me is the fact that we’ve been renting a flat for 10 years now, we have rich in laws but they refuse to help us, they could easily gift us money for a deposit on a house but they flat out refuse, we thought once the baby was born they’d help us get a foot on the property ladder and they haven’t so now we’re stuck renting and the rent just keeps going up and up, there’s no way we can ever save up for a deposit so I feel like we’ll be stuck here forever in this flat, I try really hard to stay positive and I keep telling myself that we WILL have a house one day but it’s getting harder which each passing year. We worked out that we’ve spent about £65k on rent, that’s just dead money but it could have paid a huge chunk of a mortgage off! We can’t afford holidays or treats or any luxuries these days but I truly appreciate your honesty in that you’re willing to admit times are tough, I know so many people who post their amazing lives on social media but all we see is the good side, we don’t see the bad side or the debt they’ve got themselves into to be able to buy these fancy big houses or jet off on holiday once every few weeks and that’s what I have to remember, people only ever tell you the good stuff. I guess I just feel very bitter as me and my husband have worked so hard all of our lives and we still haven’t got anything to show for it and it feels like we never will. Times are so incredibly hard right now, I thought with labour things would improve but I honestly don’t hold out much hope anymore, everything just feels so hopeless and impossible! I believe these recent riots (which I’m not condoning) were always going to happen, it’s now a matter of civil unrest as people are so sick and tired of the cost of everything going up and wages not going up to match! People can’t even afford the basic necessities anymore, so I don’t believe it was purely down to racism but a combination of things, people have reached their limit and have absolutely had enough, so these riots will only get worse and keep happening if things don’t seriously change. But then you also have to think at the age of 37 (for me) would I really want a mortgage of £200k looming over me for the rest of my life?

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  28 днів тому

      Believe me when I say those who flash the high life and especially those who you know are far more unhappy and insecure than you. You are living a real life full of real-life financial difficulties, you live in the harsh reality, with many other hundreds of thousands if not millions of other people living the same life. Those of who you know want you to think they have it all together are up to their eyeballs in mortgage debt and credit cards to finance their keeping up with the jones's lifestyle. They are slaves to work who rarely get to enjoy all of their material possessions. It's all show don't worry about them. Stay humble. I too don't fancy a mortgage looming over me a 44 and 41, respectively. There are this out there, though, who do have it all together and do want to help, and these heroes are usually people you do not know.....yet. I wish you both and the little un well. Good luck for the future.

  • @sarahsallotmentjourney
    @sarahsallotmentjourney Місяць тому +7

    Do you have a ko-fi account ? Just do your subscribers can buy you a coffee or a treat . Good for you both just getting on with it what a lovely place to live .

  • @ArmageddonAfterparty
    @ArmageddonAfterparty 3 дні тому

    4:48 Do NOT be embarrassed about this, we're all just one or two incidents away from homelessness. Solidarity and Strength to you.

  • @stephanieabner4896
    @stephanieabner4896 Місяць тому +3

    Hey Ste! I’m Stephen’s mom!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +2

      Hello there, Stephens mum. How are you?

    • @stephanieabner4896
      @stephanieabner4896 Місяць тому +2

      I’m good!!! In Mexico with Stephen right now!! He told me about his wonderful experiences in Manchester with you and Jeanine!! Thank you for being kind!!

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +2

      @stephanieabner4896 Your son is a credit to you and an absolute 💯 top guy, we had an amazing time in his company.

  • @jeanettegarrod-williams9150
    @jeanettegarrod-williams9150 Місяць тому +1

    Homelessness is a problem all around the world. Nothing to be ashamed of. I'm in New York State. I'm in housing for low income and I'm an elderly woman and very grateful to have it I wish you the best of luck.

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +1

      I'm really happy you have a home now. I'd love to visit new York some day. Take care.

  • @lifesahobby
    @lifesahobby Місяць тому +4

    Ste , on your camping gaz stove . You screwed on the pipe onto the hitching point .
    A way i found to get that pipe on is to spit onto the connection . I spotted the lack of jublee clip on the stove side .
    You dont want that end popping off . Although unlikely , they do pop off if they get warm , then you have a gas jet spraying around at worst .
    A tip for the midges , i got some inscense sticks that work a treat .
    Btw mrs ste is doing a great job ❤️❤️

    • @lifesahobby
      @lifesahobby Місяць тому +1

      But they make great toast ❤️

  • @gregwatts5437
    @gregwatts5437 16 днів тому

    Hi to both of you, very well done video & I hope you are in your new home/flat ASAP. All the best for the future Greg.

  • @lewiitoons4227
    @lewiitoons4227 29 днів тому +3

    i hope your situation improves bro what a sin it can happen to anyone, what a beautiful set up tho for the time spent there

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you, we were very lucky to have it when we did. It's very true. People don't realise how easily it can happen.

  • @dalesouthern2615
    @dalesouthern2615 Місяць тому +1

    I applaud your attitude mate.
    Times are tough.
    Hope you're situation improves soon.
    All the best from down under

  • @IansAnglesey
    @IansAnglesey Місяць тому +4

    Best of luck to you both and I hope you get sorted... (fellow Tamesidion)... I think I know the site you are on, lovely area... stay safe both of you, now subbed....

  • @JohnM.-oy4rn
    @JohnM.-oy4rn 7 днів тому

    Sorry to hear of your situation man. I'm sure things will improve...

  • @greenvalleyoutdoors
    @greenvalleyoutdoors Місяць тому +4

    Hope you and your missus are as well as can be mate.
    Tent set up looks fantastic btw
    Stay positive mate
    Let me know if I can help in any way

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you. We are doing good. We are feeling positive with all this support around us. Means the world. Thank you once again.

  • @user-wu3uj5xv5w
    @user-wu3uj5xv5w 21 день тому +1

    Millimetres, away from this situation, myself. I am at home with my parents with my misses, child. I pay my way. But too much of everyone stepping on eachothers feet to put it lightly. My mental health isn't fantastic with the dramas. Had numerous jobs, a wage that would still see my head bearly above water even if I rented. I'd be in serious trouble with the bills. Currently training to do a better paid job right now. I don't even wish to entertain rent prices in my area. My partner works, and I am headed towards my goal. I don't even wish to participate in this rip-off, scam society anymore. I'd exploit every loophole I can. Thank you for this insight 😉

    • @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors
      @BushcraftWithSteOutdoors  20 днів тому +1

      Yours and mine story is absolutely the same, my friend, right from your first paragraph! I didn't want to go into specifics, but our situation ended badly, to the point that no amount of time passed would repair what had been broken. Hope you get your job, my friend, and good luck for the future.