How To Halal Date (For Beginners)

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  • Опубліковано 19 вер 2024

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  • @AsifTagar-n6t
    @AsifTagar-n6t 9 днів тому +2

    Wow much needed 👍 thanks for reminding us the Quran's ayat, wish me best of luck, for a partner like you, willing to live a life according to Quran and sunnah 💯

    • @AsifTagar-n6t
      @AsifTagar-n6t 9 днів тому

      Sundas are you single???

    • @sa2417
      @sa2417 8 днів тому

      @@AsifTagar-n6t stalker alert 😂

    • @AsifTagar-n6t
      @AsifTagar-n6t 8 днів тому

      @@sa2417 Iam not stalker don't blame, I just honestly ask something, its ok, I won't come again, no problem, Iam going to remove subscription 👍

  • @UmicomFoundation
    @UmicomFoundation 9 днів тому +4

    Great advice and good tips. I will make note of the supplications of the prophet Musa. Barak Allah feeki and may Allah grant you best match for this world and next. You truly deserve the very best.

    • @Sunnysundas
      @Sunnysundas  9 днів тому +2

      Ameen, jazakAllah khair brother for your kind support as always 🙏

    • @wheelfan100
      @wheelfan100 9 днів тому

      ​​@@Sunnysundas I recommend reading the blackpill Bible by weath waffles. (the term Bible has nothing to do with Christianity is just a western equivalent of sahih. Sahih in Arabic means authentic.) so its basically called the authentic blackpill. It talks about the challenges men have when dating/marrying in the modern age

  • @TheThompson425
    @TheThompson425 9 днів тому +4

    I think it is amazing the way you came back to You tube. It really is not easy to put yourself out there in front of people. I know I have wanted to do You tube for years but am scarred to seem so Vulnerable.

    • @Sunnysundas
      @Sunnysundas  9 днів тому +2

      @@TheThompson425 🙏🙏🙏 taking that first step is the hardest. The second, third etc are much easier. You just have to set your mind to it and focus

  • @lw4423
    @lw4423 9 днів тому +13

    STEP 1: Don't get advice from bachelors in their 30s.

  • @razer0072073
    @razer0072073 8 днів тому +2

    Here's a bit on mate selection:
    There is a building where women can go in and select a husband. The rules are that you
    are allowed to go in and select a husband and leave, go up floors, but you are not
    allowed to go back down floors. A woman goes in and finds the men on the
    first floor have jobs. She decides to see what
    the second floor has. She goes up and finds the men on the second floor have jobs and
    are quite handsome. She goes to the third floor, there the men have jobs, are handsome
    and love kids. Things are getting better so
    she proceeds to the 4th floor. The men there
    have high income jobs, are very handsome
    love kids and are quite the romantic. Well, golly! I have to see what the 5th floor has,
    she says and heads on up. The fifth floor is empty with only a sign that reads, "There are
    no men here, this floor proves that women are never satisfied, please take the lift to the
    ground floor and exit the building." Across the road is a building where men can go and select a wife. Same rules apply.
    First floor has women who are quite pretty. Second floor has women who are quite pretty and love intimacy. Floors three, four and five have never been visited.

  • @malikfidahussain9624
    @malikfidahussain9624 9 днів тому +7

    To obey and follow the rules given by Allah Almighty is the destiny of those who claim to be a Muslim whether male or female, the choice to have life partner is given by Islam , with the caution not to follow the شیطان , the EVILS intentions , other wise the Halal will become Haram.

    • @Cyberautist
      @Cyberautist 7 днів тому

      @@malikfidahussain9624 Shaytan can twist everything Allah created. He can make the bad appear good and the good appear bad. So better you avoid any kind of personal success in life, so that Shaytan can’t exploit it and lure you away from Allah. Because Shaytan has full power over humanity, he can exploit every feeling and thought, so that Allahs guidance cannot reach you even if you read Quran, Shaytan will make you misinterpret the Quran and misguided you away from Allah. Best advice: Hate everything that Allah created and self-sabotage every natural need Allah created for you, because Shaytan will twist everything Allah created, to trap you and lure you away from Allah.
      Just hate everything and sabotage yourself from every worldly goal, so Shaytan can’t have success!
      Alhamdulillah! Deen over Dunya! Favour Allah and not favour the Dunya! That’s how Shaytan can’t twist your Aqida to lure you away from Allah!
      Favor Allah over Dunya means to hate that Allah created in this Dunya, because Shaytan loved Dunya, so you must hate it. That’s how Shaytan can’t twist your Aqida. And to favor Allah means to self-sabotage your worldly existence, prevent yourself to reach worldly goals and meet your natural worldly goals, because Shaytan loves the worldly desires and goals and
      Shaytan twists your Aqida if you follow what Shaytan loves. Shaytan will have never success against Allah if you hate everything Allah created and sabotage yourself in everything in this world. Just try to die a painful and aweful life, so that Shaytan can’t not lure you away from Allah by making you wish for a better life in this Dunya.
      Who ever favours ANYTHING in this Dunya, does favour the twisted Aqida of Shaytan, and thus does not favour Allah. Because in Islam logic should not have balance. It should always be as extreme as possible and life hating and Shaytan fearing.
      Fear that Shaytan can misguide you with everything in this Dunya and you will never seek to please this Dunya.
      If you believe that truly Allah can’t create an easily twisted world, your Aqida is twisted by Shaytan to favor the idea of Dunya as something to seek the pleasure of Allah. No! It only is a twisted argument by Shaytan to lure you into Jahanam faster. That’s why it says, seek the pleasure of Allah, not the pleasure of the Dunya!
      These words should not be twisted in the favour of Shaytan twisting them against you!
      Because Allah can’t inspire you like a prophet! You only can rely on Aqida and maximally avoid Shaytan. So if Allah can’t inspire you to become guided like a prophet, then you must protect yourself from the misguidance of Shaytan that applies to every humans mind and heart, while the guidance of Allah is only for prophets. So you must protect yourself from the powerful misguidance of Shaytan to have an untwistable Aqida! If you hate the creation of Allah including yourself, you honoring the purpose of creation: To worship Allah and avoiding Shaytan.
      You can only truly worship Allah if you stay away from Shaytan. Since Shaytsn can twist everything and every interpretation, your Aqida must become untwistable. I know this sounds paranoid and paradoxical, but that’s the only way to defeat Shaytan plan to twist everything Allah creates. Obviously Allah warned us about Shaytan and his powers to twist everything to evil whatever Allah creates. He can even twist angels into demons! That’s how powerful enemy Shaytan is. The only protection against this power of Shaytan is to not let him twist your Aqida. Hate everything Allah created and sabotage yourself in any worldly thing. This is the best Aqida and it is definitely not exactly the same Shaytan would you believing, because this Aqida is untwistable by Shaytan. He can’t stop you from this Aqida! It’s the perfect Aqida! To worship Allah means to defeat Shaytan! Hating what Shaytan loves you to do means to worship Allah. Shaytan loves the Dunya and follow your desires and twistable needs. So hate them, avoid them, sabotage them. Otherwise you love Shaytan and so Allah will not love you. Allah only love who hates Shaytan. So hating what Allah created means that Allah loves you. That’s why Allah will destroy everything because Allah can’t love or let exist forever what Shaytan loves. Best Aqida in the world!
      It’s not twisted by Shaytan against you in the slightest! Alhamdulillah!

  • @bekind913
    @bekind913 23 години тому

    May Allah talah make the best matches for marriage for all single people soon. Ameen.

  • @machine1st827
    @machine1st827 8 днів тому +2

    Let's start on a lighter note... Okay, as someone with severe ADHD, sitting through a half-hour video is basically my personal Mount Everest! Anything longer than a TikTok dance challenge makes me start looking for my fidget spinner.
    Now back to the topic...
    The advice given in the video is quite close to the Islamic way of finding a spouse. The video acknowledges modern social dynamics while reinforcing the importance of family involvement, mutual respect, and adherence to Islamic principles, especially the avoidance of private or secluded interactions.
    In essence, throughout the discussion, the video effectively maintains the core principles and values of Islamic teachings on marriage while thoughtfully adapting them to the realities of modern life.

    • @Sunnysundas
      @Sunnysundas  8 днів тому +1

      @@machine1st827 sorry about the length! Did you try watching it at 1.5x speed? That’s what I do 😂 Love the review as always, thank you so much! You could do that for a living!
      This video is targeting younger muslims starting out on their search 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bekind913
    @bekind913 23 години тому

    One advice I would give is do zikar. Astaghfaar is the best for marriage. Sometimes some things are blocking our duas. And Allah says in Quran He will increase blessings for people who ask for forgiveness.

  • @Cyberautist
    @Cyberautist 8 днів тому +2

    How to halal date:
    1. Bring your parents and grandparents to the date. It will be such a halal feeling to have no room to build a natural attraction, sympathy or basic human trust in romantic matters.
    2. To maximise the emotional cockblocking (to prevent building social-emotional trust to the one you are dating), also invite your parents favourite Imam. That’s how you will feel really doing all of you at the date a halal favour. Imagine if praying to Allah was organised like this type of halal dating. Everyone would secretly hate each other for not letting oneself be alone with Allah and always judging if you should pray for what you’re praying.
    A world without sincerity and without natural social trust is a real halal world. Otherwise we would live like animals who have no self-sabotaging boundaries.
    Imagine a world where halal rules stopped your parents from sabotaging every natural, sincerely felt emotions! That would be Haram! They must suppress that what makes you a sincere human so that you become a halal obsessed, socially awkward Muslim who can’t respect privacy.
    That is what halal should be about. Creating rules for sabotaging humans to establish toxic piety. Because if your piety is not toxic enough you’re not a good Muslim! Remember you want to please Allah not the world! So you must ignore you God given empathy and ruining other people’s lives if do not give full respect to toxic piety and teach to others!
    You know Allah has ordered us to be Narcissistic tyrants and practice Religious Blackmailing daily - more frequently than praying. You must prevent anyone from cultivating empathy and sincerity if you want them to only please Allah! Not the world! And you can decide what Allah meant by Dunya. Toxic piety is the real Taqwa because it sabotages every worldly interest with which Shaytan lures you away from Allah, so you must deny every pleasure and call it a sin against Allah, even if Allah actually created it to help humans develop sincerity and compassion. No! Shaytan will screw everything Allah created to lure you away! So powerful is Shaytan! That to please Allah you have to hate everything Allah created that brings peace and joy! Otherwise Shaytan will use it against you!
    So bringing parents, grandparents and an Imam to every date will effectively destroy the purpose of feelings and let only dead and artificial , but halal “feelings” flourish! So Shaytan can not prevent you hating the world, because everything you feel is just shame, failure, humiliation and all the others feelings making you hating the world so much, that you can never trust any human anymore and get trapped in a socially constructed trauma nightmare hell until you die.
    Only if you die such an awe full death, you have proven not to love the world - including yourself, which altogether is what Allah created , but somehow your parents were right that the Shaytan will tempt you away from Allah, so they must sabotage your healthy social growth and every other conditions to sexually and emotionally humiliate you. Because these feelings that you want to have a normal date are haram and should not be acted out, because that’s not for what Allah has created them. No! Allah has created them to get not applied in any fashion and only artificially acted out, with out the slightest sense of natural need to get in touch with someone who likes as a person, rather as a template of perfect inhuman piety. The ideal Muslim! What a great feeling to have the correct concept of piety!
    So that concept is halal. Natural Fitra based behaviour is always haram and only Kafir follow natural needs , only holy people follow empty, insincere, artificial needs which only exist on paper in the Aqida books of children sabotaging Muslim parents. They are the real heroes!
    Because they prevent their children to get lured away by Shaytan, because Allahs guidance is only about how to avoid Shaytan by doing what your Narcissistic, Toxic parents say to you! That’s the only comment you must obey! Because Allahs guidance is a negative guidance: preventing you away from mistake, but if you follow a way to achieve success, you’re following the guidance of Shaytan! Because Shaytan exploits the creation of Allah to guide towards natural goals, which is technically positive guidance, but because Shaytan prevents you from the goals your parents impose on you, positive guidance only is acceptable if coming from your parents. All others are guidance from Shaytan.
    If someone tells you , Allahs guidance is positive and negative, he is trying to impose the argument of Shaytan on Allah. No there is no goal in life, it’s making you love the world of life on earth had a positive purpose instead of a purpose of avoiding the worldly needs.
    So Allahs guidance is of negative direction, because it leads you away from anything Shaytan tells you is a natural need of the creation Allah created. So you must learn to live in accordance with hate and insincerity and toxic, sabotaging tendencies.
    Than Allah will destroy creation so that nothing exists to get lured by Shaytan towards any point to create the world other than to destroy it!
    Because the purpose of creation is to destroy it and the eternal truth is, that creation is meaningless, and creates creation only to proof that point by destroying it. And anyone refusing this logic deserves eternal hell. Anyone else deserves eternal none existence, because only by not existing at all you can honour the eternal truth, that creation should not exist.
    Maybe Allah hasn’t proven it enough and that’s why he created it. So hate everything that Allah creates and you will honor Allahs eternal truth correctly!
    I hope this gives you the right perspective on what halal is meant to be if you love Allah and not the world! What a great slogan and so easy to understand! No balance in religion is required. Just hate everything and sabotage yourself so that Shaytan can’t have success!
    Wonderful! That’s must be the Aqida of a living religion!

    • @AHMEDGAIUSROME
      @AHMEDGAIUSROME 7 днів тому

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    • @Cyberautist
      @Cyberautist 7 днів тому

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  • @imtiazadar5475
    @imtiazadar5475 9 днів тому +2

    Hey beautiful best of luck. 🖤🇧🇩

  • @msulemvn
    @msulemvn 9 днів тому +1

    best wishes

  • @JindAllah
    @JindAllah 9 днів тому +2

    This is a better background

  • @HusnainKazmi-zt8cp
    @HusnainKazmi-zt8cp 9 днів тому +1

    Whether you are girl or a boy just submit your will to Allah almighty if you are a Muslim no other way

  • @Dust-in-this-universe
    @Dust-in-this-universe 6 днів тому

    Are you a Pakistani british ?

  • @HusnainKazmi-zt8cp
    @HusnainKazmi-zt8cp 9 днів тому +1

    Submit your will to Allah almighty alone.

  • @jackbrown2744
    @jackbrown2744 9 днів тому

    There is no halal date..... Maybe you can call arranged meeting

  • @exoticindiaa
    @exoticindiaa 8 днів тому

    According to islam, a 70 year old can marry you and keep his second marriage a secret. so jokes on you

  • @jihadhdaib88
    @jihadhdaib88 9 днів тому +2

    Marry me

  • @WaseeqASMR
    @WaseeqASMR 9 днів тому

    SubhanAllah, I am creating an audio drama called The Marriage Show which is to entertain everyone and inspire those who are disheartened and lose hope in the institution of marriage.

  • @seekfactsnotfiction9056
    @seekfactsnotfiction9056 9 днів тому +2

    *_”Halal Date”_* *hhmm who invented this term ?!*

  • @solounit_uz
    @solounit_uz 8 днів тому +1

    You can't. Now, go and pray.

  • @PK-se2jh
    @PK-se2jh 9 днів тому +4

    bruh imagine a PhD Student who Still talking about seventh century Arabian tribal laws in 21st century. Literally these people cannot progress.

    • @imtiazadar5475
      @imtiazadar5475 9 днів тому

      Better than you indians. Don't be jealous😂

    • @yasiral-hilali7855
      @yasiral-hilali7855 9 днів тому +10

      LOL @ what you consider progress

    • @Kzam19-ux8wg
      @Kzam19-ux8wg 9 днів тому +2

      I noticed a new trend where many western man wanted traditional wifes. So is this progress.

    • @sydwest2957
      @sydwest2957 9 днів тому +7

      Removing Women cloths and starting sexual deviations, broken family unit, broken centuries old marriage tradition is consider liberalism & progress and then they said why there is lot of suicide, teen pregnancy, drug usage, mental health issues - You have got what you intended

    • @Kzam19-ux8wg
      @Kzam19-ux8wg 9 днів тому

      @@sydwest2957 not to mention mass school killing, mass bombing women and children in the 21st century or is it arabian tribal laws or is because of a qarun phenomena all over again.?

  • @Thereoncewasatv
    @Thereoncewasatv 9 днів тому +1

    Im reporting this. Thanks for trigerring my beliefs. You cant fit Halal and date in single sentence. You're cancelled

    • @mariaasif920
      @mariaasif920 9 днів тому +3

      Please don't comment on things you have no idea she is helping people with good intention who are facing marriage crisis. please stop spreading negativity!!!

    • @MurtazaAmeen-z6v
      @MurtazaAmeen-z6v 9 днів тому

      I am with you brother. There is no such thing as "halal dating". Where dis she get that from? It is absolutely horrendous. I am reporting too.

    • @SultanAmir68
      @SultanAmir68 8 днів тому

      shutup karen

  • @salqubeq5203
    @salqubeq5203 9 днів тому

    Hahaha... halal date is a hilarious idea but innovative. Just drop the "dark ages" ideas girl & live life freely. Be free first of any concepts (specially concepts of people living 1500 years ago in the desert in the caves with no education) & then do as you like. The brain is a gift of Allah. Use it to navigate in todays world. Dont turn OFF your brain by following ancient idiots. Life is a gift & a joy. Live it. You have been given all the "intelligence" directly. you dont need others to tell you how to live life. Good luck! and btw "marriage is dead already in this day & age of inflation, cost of living crises, & no fault divorce laws". A new world emerges of singles with no children. you are doing fine! Cheers

  • @ZaraTanaka
    @ZaraTanaka 8 днів тому +1

    your very title is wrong to begin with. there is nothing called halal dating. nothing. just a tailless fox, having lost its tail in a trap in the wild, goes on to teach other foxes to cut off their tails as well, convincing them that tails are neither useful nor fashionable in modern times, and thus, they should do the same, just so that they can share the same misery.

  • @rabbi619
    @rabbi619 9 днів тому

    dating is halal