My first Q&A part 1

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  • Опубліковано 27 лип 2024
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  • @carrueross2705
    @carrueross2705 2 роки тому +603

    And wanting to fly is not stupid. You are curious and want to travel and there’s a whole world out there to discover. Definitely go for it! 🐚🍄🌹

    • @missileonard7332
      @missileonard7332 2 роки тому +9

      Hey Girl!!! 👋🏻 Get Out and do things that will make you happy....!!! 😊
      ✈ 🛩2 ⚓ 🚢 ⛵
      🪂 🏕 🏎 🏍

    • @karenb282
      @karenb282 2 роки тому +11

      I was in my early 30s the first time I flew - Boston to San Francisco. Loved every minute of it ❤

    • @bonniehowell9206
      @bonniehowell9206 2 роки тому +12

      @@karenb282 Besides taking two flights as a child, the first time I flew alone as an adult was on my 28th birthday. I was absolutely terrified because we hit severe turbulence, but when the plane landed and by the time I got out of the airport, it began to snow right at 12:00 a.m. on my birthday!
      It was the first time I even seen snow ,so it was a magical experience.

    • @carrueross2705
      @carrueross2705 2 роки тому +2

      I’ve flown many times but have had several memorable ones, one being flying to San Francisco only 4 days after 9-11. Just after the flights were open again. It was surreal and everyone clapped when we landed. I mean it was scary but I had made plans and nothing was going to stop me from seeing my daughter!

    • @amypardue4986
      @amypardue4986 2 роки тому

      KEEP DOING IT TO THE FUN BECKY .😎👍👑👻💖

  • @mommabear5615
    @mommabear5615 2 роки тому +802

    Everytime I see Becky the glow up blows my mind. She looks so much happier. It's like a light is shining from the inside.

    • @BajanBeauty090
      @BajanBeauty090 2 роки тому +21

      I completely agree

    • @charlene9489
      @charlene9489 2 роки тому +14

      I think she finally feels free to be herself

    • @Swiss_Girl
      @Swiss_Girl 2 роки тому +7

      well said!👏

    • @ladymopar2024
      @ladymopar2024 2 роки тому +9

      I agree and I hope it continues she deserves it. She's been through a lot this year I'm look at her still sweet the nerve to leave Old Amber and strike out on her own as a mother I think that the best we can ask that she is always happy and thankful everyday

    • @heypidge4270
      @heypidge4270 2 роки тому +5

      Right?! It's so good to see. I love that her creativity is flowing more now, it's such a gift.

  • @italiagrl70
    @italiagrl70 2 роки тому +1028

    Becky, you should be so proud of yourself for standing up and finally putting your happiness and health 1st. I know your mother would be so proud of you, and as a mother, I promise you that even spending a few moments with her meant the world to her. Remember, she’s always with you.

    • @joyofjess
      @joyofjess 2 роки тому +25

      Beautiful comment ❤️

    • @ladymopar2024
      @ladymopar2024 2 роки тому +22

      It's a Wonderful comment I hope Becky reads it and takes it to heart

    • @laurenvanraalte
      @laurenvanraalte 2 роки тому +18

      I’m not crying, you’re crying 😭 ❤️

    • @gggiannax3
      @gggiannax3 2 роки тому +7

      Jami your comment brought a tear to my eye. You are a wonderful woman.

    • @BobSmith-lu5ug
      @BobSmith-lu5ug 2 роки тому +10

      I know you weren't talking to me, but you swear that's how it is (even a few moments meant the world)?
      I lost my mom last year, and I'm fighting to keep my dad with me now, literally in our house/ mentally and physically. He got badly hurt 3 weeks after my mom passed.
      I know this is UA-cam, but I'm being so serious. I miss my mom so much and I tried for her and was her caregiver until the day she died in front of me (cancer).
      I hope this isn't weird, if it is, I'm sorry.. I just regret not spending every second with her.
      Edit** THANK YOU I appreciate all of your kind words***

  • @Donde_Lieta
    @Donde_Lieta 2 роки тому +572

    To be blunt: Amberlynn should be paying for most of those car repairs because it sounds like a lot of them were caused by her weight. A tiny car like that is not built to carry that amount of weight consistently in the same part of the car.

    • @TheSmallestJo
      @TheSmallestJo 2 роки тому +85

      With all that money she flaunts, she really should’ve bought Becky a truck...

    • @beth1188
      @beth1188 2 роки тому +63

      They aren't together it's not amberlynn responsibility. Would u be responsibility for ur exs car I doubt it

    • @Just_Jayy
      @Just_Jayy 2 роки тому +131

      @@beth1188 you’re doing a lot in defense of amber, Amber. We can see your comment history 😬
      Not you joining 2 weeks ago 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @shirin8609
      @shirin8609 2 роки тому +9

      Idk Becky seems to wanna move on and she says she wanna stay friends with Amberlynn, so if she's okay with not requesting remuneration then I'm fine with her decision. Maybe Amberlynn can pay her back in Cheesecake Factory meals when they hang out 😜

    • @beth1188
      @beth1188 2 роки тому +33

      @@Just_Jayy this is a new account my other one I can't get Into. And nah I don't like amber but I don't like bexky either. Yall act like Becky is this great person when she is just as bad as amber

  • @TemplePriestess
    @TemplePriestess 2 роки тому +456

    Becky you are growing so much more comfortable with the camera and in front of it! Sooooo Proud of you. Wish I could get more comfy with it myself. You inspire me to try. 🙏🏽

    • @PuddleofMitchell
      @PuddleofMitchell 2 роки тому +4

      You can do it! I look forward to watching what you post. 💚

    • @lisaatkins9879
      @lisaatkins9879 2 роки тому +2

      You may feel uncomfortable when recording, but you seem more adjusted every time I watch a video. I am proud of how much you have flourished, just keep filming! They don't have to be long, just show us you are living your life! We celebrate that with you. Leave a thread to your art work! We love u Becky & just want you to be happy & fulfilled.

  • @TheDanyell13
    @TheDanyell13 2 роки тому +127

    One tip my high school art teacher used to give was when we got stuck was to find any picture in a book, or magazine or online, turn it upside down and then draw it that way. We did that for a warm up, and he said it was to disconnected you from your critical brain, and forces you to focus on the lines and the shapes. I don't know if this would help you at all or if it made sense at all, but it might be worth a shot.

    • @_dreamscape
      @_dreamscape 2 роки тому +8

      Such a neat idea!!! Reminds me of my high school english teacher, when we had writer’s block in poetry, she told us to google images or look through a magazine for a picture that captured us and just write metaphors and abstract imagery from the image and make it into a story… has helped me in creative blocks before

    • @TheDanyell13
      @TheDanyell13 2 роки тому +3

      @@_dreamscape yea it was a good exercise it got our brains out of the “make sense of everything mode” and “everything has to be perfect” mode which we all have. Another one we did was drawing something without looking at the page, and use one continuous line and no erasing. The idea again is to get away from “it has to be clean and perfect and no mistakes” if it looks awful who cares but it’s a good challenge that you can do one a week, or daily before getting down to the serious.

    • @mrswieauchimmer2983
      @mrswieauchimmer2983 2 роки тому +1

      Great Tip!

    • @binx2942
      @binx2942 2 роки тому +1

      ^^ did this a lot to get me through AP studio art when I felt like giving up when my deadlines were approaching

    • @racritiahobson2797
      @racritiahobson2797 2 роки тому +1

      As a certified art teacher, I LOVE this idea! Totally trying this with my students Monday! 🤩❤️

  • @Pr1ncesssierra
    @Pr1ncesssierra 2 роки тому +313

    4:08 That broke me. Becky, I’m so, SO, sorry for your loss. I wish you so much healing ❤️‍🩹 and healthy grieving for your mother. I can see all over you how much you truly loved her and how much she meant to you. Losing a parent is so hard.

  • @hellom8744
    @hellom8744 2 роки тому +343

    Beck has such a calming energy. With Amber I always felt like she was introverted and uncomfortable but when she speaks to the camera on her own she keeps such a relaxed pace and calming tone. Love seeing her confidence grow ☺️

    • @GCPunk
      @GCPunk 2 роки тому +6

      This! I'm going through a few things myself, got tired of music, saw Becky put up a vid. I clicked and was instantly soothed... something about her vibe!

    • @StrawbrryMilkTea
      @StrawbrryMilkTea 2 роки тому +3

      Why bring Amber up? Just let her be omg

    • @doinked895
      @doinked895 2 роки тому +1

      Good Vibes Guys💜💙❤️💖💓💙💖💙💓💜💙💖💜

    • @hellom8744
      @hellom8744 2 роки тому +1

      @@StrawbrryMilkTea it’s just an observation. People can bring up amber without being hateful. I have no hate towards amber or their relationship but during lives Becky obviously looked uncomfortable for whatever reason and it’s a stark contrast to now.

    • @StrawbrryMilkTea
      @StrawbrryMilkTea 2 роки тому +3

      @@hellom8744 Becky has stated numerous times that they don’t want to discuss Amber. You’re just being disrespectful at this point.

  • @Tombbistol
    @Tombbistol 2 роки тому +456

    Seeing Becky being sad and saying “ I wish I told my mom I would like spend more time with her “ actually broke my heart . Becky deserved spending more time with her mom and family , she is such a softie . Also Becky looks fantastic with short hair , definitely not “ rounder and fatter “!
    Edit : Okay now I know about the gfm story I have to say I am kinda disappointed in her attitude towards the people who donated her , I wish she can just be genuine and honest .

    • @maggiemarie1349
      @maggiemarie1349 2 роки тому +4

      I totally understand it.. I’m
      So glad I spend quite a bit
      Of time with my
      Mom before she passed...
      Also if I wasn’t paying attention I would’ve never found her on the floor
      Of her bedroom from a massive stroke ...
      My mom could’ve been there for over a week if I hadn’t jus went there and checked on her .... my mom was very distant the last couple years of her life I tried to break the cycle and so glad I did or she would’ve been rotting on her floor... when I found her she was still
      Alive I called 9 one one and got her help... she died 36 hours later...jus so
      Glad she had comfort care her last few hours

    • @mw9107
      @mw9107 2 роки тому +36

      @@wompwomp90 being in a mentally abusive relationship makes you do things you never thought you would do. Also watching a parent/ loved one die takes a toll on you and sometimes people withdraw instead of being there.

    • @smilenicole2010
      @smilenicole2010 2 роки тому +24

      @@wompwomp90 Amberlynn is a lying, manipulative abusive partner to be with. Becky was dealing with a lot while in that relationship and was seemingly very vulnerable. Seems like her mom passing and the time afterwards has made her realize what Amberlynn costed her. While it is partially Beckys fault for missing out on that time, she was being manipulated and torn between two sides bc of that narcissistic 10 ton chain tied to her ankle.

    • @c.t.6567
      @c.t.6567 2 роки тому

      @@smilenicole2010 10 ton? If estimate a little more then that

    • @erin9868
      @erin9868 2 роки тому +4

      She could have spent a lot more time with her mom if she hadn't been such a homophobic and cruel person. Amber is responsible for a lot of things, but thats not one of them.

  • @lisao3455
    @lisao3455 2 роки тому +167

    Becky, you are looking so healthy and vibrant! So proud of you for making the changes you need to be happy ☺️

    • @gGg-pq6il
      @gGg-pq6il 2 роки тому

      She's looking healthy??? What are you looking at?

  • @lolafalana421
    @lolafalana421 2 роки тому +60

    You need to get a real job so you can afford a real car. No hate just facts. Better yourself. Don’t depend on others.

    • @cptings3396
      @cptings3396 2 роки тому +2

      You tube is a real job carry on Becky

  • @girl123interrupted
    @girl123interrupted 2 роки тому +53

    Becky if you do a go fund me for car repairs, get the money and use it to chill and hang out rather than repair the car YOU NEED FOR DOORDASH/income it isn’t a good look. Your supporters are down for you but when you come to people asking for help you need to come at us, honestly

  • @boovely8392
    @boovely8392 2 роки тому +239

    Girl the shrek in the background has me weak 😂 glad to see you're doing well!😁

    • @elid3630
      @elid3630 2 роки тому +12

      Legit I can’t get “Shrek Is love Shrek is life” out of my head with that thing in frame lol

    • @jessicap5010
      @jessicap5010 2 роки тому +4

      Looks terrifying lol

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +16

      It was actually her nephew Shawns. He loved that crazy looking thing lol it’s still got stains from where he would sit it beside him while he ate. The shirt that is on him was Shawns too ❤️

    • @charlene9489
      @charlene9489 2 роки тому +17

      @@yourstruley2000 you can tell how much Becky loves and cares for people by how she always remembers to remember them when they're gone.

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +8

      @@charlene9489 She truly loves and cares for everyone. Even ppl who hate her. She wishes no ill will towards anyone. She has always been a kind and sweet soul and wears her heart on her sleeve. Thank u for noticing that in Becky ❤️

  • @TheMaggiesDad
    @TheMaggiesDad 2 роки тому +155

    You are so refreshing your honesty your humility and just plain like ability. Please don’t change as your success increases. Which it definitely will. One cute thing I wanna point out with humor and love the Swiss alps are in Switzerland not Sweden. Lol and if you wanna go there one day you will. Don’t ever limit yourself. You’re an amazing woman.

    • @Username-dh3mn
      @Username-dh3mn 2 роки тому +2

      honesty ??? how is she honest when she lied about where her GFM money was going ?

    • @Aliayye
      @Aliayye 2 роки тому +1

      @@Username-dh3mn if you think that was 100% Becky then you’re wrong. Yes it was wrong but we all should know amber had a big play in that.

    • @Username-dh3mn
      @Username-dh3mn 2 роки тому +1

      @@Aliayye she did it a second time tho…

    • @plasticpalace
      @plasticpalace 2 роки тому +3

      "Which it definitely will."
      lol. Once her association with Amber drifts further and further in the past it's over for The Thumb.

  • @benryan00
    @benryan00 2 роки тому +16

    Hey becky, why didn't you use the gofundme money to fix your car. You received over 2000 dollars.
    When people pledge to a "cause" they expect the money to go to that. Not buy some stupid musical instrument

  • @mrs.stadus7183
    @mrs.stadus7183 2 роки тому +14

    It’s the huge burp at 20:25 for me 😂🤦‍♀️....Becky I love you but you have got to edit this type of stuff out!

  • @anabrr1123
    @anabrr1123 2 роки тому +472

    Aw Becky you seriously feel like an old friend. Your room feels so comfy and homey🥰 so happy you have your own space!

    • @sushigirl0012
      @sushigirl0012 2 роки тому +4

      Best reply yet!

    • @MS-dw2pb
      @MS-dw2pb 2 роки тому +1

      Lmaooooo love all the fake positivity from a few weeks ago 🤣🤣🤣

    • @anabrr1123
      @anabrr1123 2 роки тому

      @@MS-dw2pb LMAO oh shit what I miss? Haven’t been tuned in for weeks 😆

  • @TheGeekMonster
    @TheGeekMonster 2 роки тому +372

    Becky is so humble and kind and thoughtful and well spoken on her own. A complete 180 from sitting on a certain someone's livestreams, trying to get a word in edgewise while her partner shrieks and cackles and interrupts her.

    • @boxingmotoman
      @boxingmotoman 2 роки тому +9

      Yes I agree. How mean was it that they held a gun to hear head and made her stay there for 4 years. Cmon huh let me sell you the Golden gate bridge.

    • @TheGeekMonster
      @TheGeekMonster 2 роки тому +5

      @@boxingmotoman Your comment has absolutely nothing to do with my comment.

    • @kelf114
      @kelf114 2 роки тому +10

      @@boxingmotoman In a way, Amber did. It's called Emotional Blackmail.
      Hope you never have to learn it the hard way by being in an abusive relationship.

    • @young321bookie
      @young321bookie 2 роки тому +7

      @@kelf114 - ALR never forced this lowlife to do anything.
      Becky is just as bad as ALR in many different ways. They belong together.

    • @Bigeyeroll
      @Bigeyeroll 2 роки тому +4

      Humble and kind? Is she not fighting for her life in the community tabs for lying about her gfm? She’s literally arguing with people like an entitled brat.

  • @charlene9489
    @charlene9489 2 роки тому +563

    It says a lot about you that you love otters. Otters are very caring and playful animals, and I see that in you, too, Becky. Otters are collectors of special things, even keeping a special rock from the time they are able to find them. They use the rock as a tool to open up clams and such for food. They are also very loving, and hold hands with each other to prevent floating away from those they love. You also have the qualities of a collector and someone who holds onto their loved ones. People don't realize how much their favorite animal can say about them lol

    • @kindagoodkindabeck9358
      @kindagoodkindabeck9358  2 роки тому +114

      Wow never thought of it like that before!

    • @jesusismytwinkie335
      @jesusismytwinkie335 2 роки тому +42

      I’m a party pooper but otters are known to r**e baby seals to death I’m not exaggerating u can look it up :-/ that’s just my reason as to why I don’t think they r cute

    • @SisterKnight
      @SisterKnight 2 роки тому +28

      Otters are actually terrifying, they drown and r@pe puppies, baby seals and any small animal to death. They also r@pe female otters. Don't ever let your small animals near them because I read a story about a man who had to watch his dog have a slow horrifying death. Otters will attack you in the wild too if you try to intervene. 😰 But they are so adorable in zoo setting lol.

    • @LegallyBoopy
      @LegallyBoopy 2 роки тому +56

      @@SisterKnight Are y'all okay?

    • @bri4606
      @bri4606 2 роки тому +5

      @@SisterKnight not even in a zoo, let them be free

  • @kimmyitaliana8463
    @kimmyitaliana8463 2 роки тому +9

    "So chill bro" that's the attitude you have towards people that donated to you 🤔🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ they have every right to be upset

  • @abiii1039
    @abiii1039 2 роки тому +31

    GFM scam! Again! I just had $1600 worth of car repairs last week and I’m getting new tires tomorrow. Guess what I do? I’m a gig worker. You need a car to do those kinds of jobs. What are you doing spending the money on bills? We all have bills!! How are you going to pay the bills when your car dies? Another GFM? Ridiculous.

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 2 роки тому

      Well she won’t be fixing anything if the car gets repossessed for missing car payments or losing car insurance though ….

    • @abiii1039
      @abiii1039 2 роки тому +2

      @@thewrongshoes ??? I don’t understand your reasoning. I have a car payment and insurance too. These are cyclical payments that everyone has. She has stated that she is too busy to get a real job. I feel no sympathy for someone who refuses to work.

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 2 роки тому +1

      @@abiii1039 ok I do think her saying she doesn’t have time to find a real job is Bulls***. That I agree with . Lots of places are hiring right now with the holiday season coming up. I’m moving myself next week and I still have time to have a full time job. She could at least get part time work

  • @katieriales5774
    @katieriales5774 2 роки тому +73

    Don’t say you won’t ever see the Alps! I’ve flown over them several times and have been to the Dolomites. Never thought I would but it happened. You can do whatever you want to do! ❤️❤️

    • @katieriales5774
      @katieriales5774 2 роки тому

      @Lassi Kinnunen 81 I would loooove to go skiing there!

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 2 роки тому +66

    My husband is a pilot. You definitely need to fly! Your whole world will open up and be so much bigger!

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +3

      Talk him into taking her lol she would absolutely LOVE that ❤️

  • @Mystique-16
    @Mystique-16 2 роки тому +15

    Chill bro? Be careful you’re real attitude is showing

    • @zingingcutie2364
      @zingingcutie2364 2 роки тому +8

      Her smug attitude is out of control in this. Becky gonna lose that attitude when people lose interest

    • @Qyeenz
      @Qyeenz 2 роки тому +2

      @@zingingcutie2364 People ALREADY lost interest. You’re 2 weeks late look at the views have been on a decline. The only reason this got views is because she admitted to being a scammer.

  • @alleybees
    @alleybees 2 роки тому +69

    Go Becky! Attract peace, attract love! Love to see you taking care of yourself queen! Hope this hunger moon empowers you ❤️

  • @susanlong6518
    @susanlong6518 2 роки тому +17

    I will apologize to all the people you scammed into helping you "FIX YOUR CAR". Amberlynn has been giving you money for the lives you have done, and you have friends and family that you could have asked for help. But, as your family has done in the past you run to gofundme for free money. Please know that money is income and if you do get disability checks you have to report that money as income. You will need to claim it on your taxes. Oh you do also know that Amberlynn will need to write the money she gave you in as a expense on her taxes unless she wants to pay the taxes on the money she gave you. The money she has given you is a business write off. BECKY PEOPLE ARE WATCHING AND PEOPLE ARE REPORTING. So many people trusted in every word you said and you have hurt them all. Why not just be honest and hope there re people who want to HELP YOU.

  • @HNA6663
    @HNA6663 2 роки тому +5

    Girrrrl, you don't owe Amberlynn SH!T. You wiped her A$$!!!! Becky I wish you nothing but success in the future. You seem genuinely sweet & your "cheesy quirks" are actually kinda cute / funny! Lol 🤣

  • @honeyfungus4774
    @honeyfungus4774 2 роки тому +99

    If you want to make lots of money, tell the truth about your life with Amberlynn. You'd make a freaking fortune. You don't owe her anything, so spill the tea.

  • @Shroom_gnome
    @Shroom_gnome 2 роки тому +56

    I lost my dad in 2017 and wishing I had spent more time with him has always been on mind since it happened. That’s what I would want him to know as well ❤️

    • @yellowmelancholy4875
      @yellowmelancholy4875 2 роки тому

      I lost my mom in 2007 (was five months pregnant with my son) and my dad in 2014. Having lost my mom prior to my dad, I was sure to spend as much time with him as I could.
      But yeah, I really wish I could have spent more time with my mama. It’s never enough time with our loved ones though.
      Sending love to you both! ❤️🙏

  • @bonniehowell9206
    @bonniehowell9206 2 роки тому +88

    You should definitely go back to that cemetery you took us to in that vlog for a Halloween special.
    I was sob interested that I googled it and amazed by the history and folklore surrounding it. I had no idea it was such a paranormal hot-spot in that area

    • @Jl2damax
      @Jl2damax 2 роки тому +3

      Omg this!

    • @lisaatkins9879
      @lisaatkins9879 2 роки тому +3

      Have a party at the spot! Try to spent the night!

    • @bethw6534
      @bethw6534 2 роки тому

      I know where that house is! Would be awesome to get inside!

  • @EmZ2601
    @EmZ2601 2 роки тому +94

    It’s nice to finally see you be able to answer questions without someone interrupting you or answering for you :)

  • @J_is_okay
    @J_is_okay 2 роки тому +33

    Love the Itachi poster! Can't wait for the room tour/collection tour. Art is only a hobby for me but I love drawing. I'm working on sketching all the Dark Souls 3 bosses currently 😁

  • @GVPurpleHair
    @GVPurpleHair 2 роки тому +61

    Becky, You are such a strong and kind hearted human! Thank you so much for never being afraid of being vulnerable with us. I know your mother is in heaven smiling down at you right now. Much love to you and your family Beckster ❤

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +2

      Awe thank u sweetie ❤️ right back atcha 😉

    • @Honeygirlhaylee
      @Honeygirlhaylee 2 роки тому +1

      @@yourstruley2000 are you becky

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +2

      @@Honeygirlhaylee I’m her sister

    • @Honeygirlhaylee
      @Honeygirlhaylee 2 роки тому +3

      @@yourstruley2000 Oh lmao, it's nice to see Becky's family supporting her

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +2

      @@Honeygirlhaylee thanks sweetie ❤️ It’s great to see everyone supporting Becky through this big change ❤️

  • @daliapena1073
    @daliapena1073 2 роки тому +36

    This is how you don’t talk about an ex ! Not like amber Lynn saying she’s not going to talk about and then mentioning her the next video ! Good job Becky .

  • @Mikitanfox1
    @Mikitanfox1 2 роки тому +48

    Your energy and presence seems so much better now, good job on your improvements and getting into your new space :D

  • @rebeccaheath703
    @rebeccaheath703 2 роки тому +24

    Wow that girl is making u pay for Netflix. Wasnt she suppose to pay u half of the lives she made when u were there. Wow shes a piece of work and a liar.

  • @blondeferalgirl
    @blondeferalgirl 2 роки тому +26

    I know your mom is so proud of you and watching over you always.

  • @Pamelalrene
    @Pamelalrene 2 роки тому +15

    Looking so beautiful Becky. I mean it. This hair is perfect for you. And your skin looks so clear and soft.

  • @nathanchung27
    @nathanchung27 2 роки тому +43

    This is the perfect example of a good ex making a comeback. I'm being petty _for_ you, Beck. Keep it up!

  • @DonkeKongChick
    @DonkeKongChick 2 роки тому +216

    Becky you are looking good! If you still want to lose weight, cut out pizza, pasta and bread for a while and if u drink soda-switch to 0 sugar. It worked for me! I lost 20 pounds and feel great. I never realised how eating that stuff made me feel bad and messed with digestion. Good luck in your new adventures!

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +20

      Congratulations sweetie!!! That’s AMAZING ❤️

    • @mrfudge5869
      @mrfudge5869 2 роки тому +19

      Drop soda completely. The gasses cause the stomache to bloat/stretch

    • @josie3221
      @josie3221 2 роки тому +10

      tbh i feel like a small calorie deficit is most sustainable. that way there’s no confusion as to why something did/did not work.

    • @cassandrabeard5070
      @cassandrabeard5070 2 роки тому +8

      I lost 42lbs in 16 weeks, still going. What helped me was routine, before then i never had breakfast and id eat whenever i was hungry but now i eat at the same times everyday, it was a challenge getting started but now its just become habit, im loving how i feel now, i wish i knew all the good that would come from it before i started. Ive tried so many new tasty foods, got better at cooking and its easier to get around now. Also planning meals the week ahead is a great idea. To start anything that puts you in a calorie deficit will make you loose weight, the rest can follow. Xx

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +4

      @@cassandrabeard5070 that’s awesome sweetie!!! I’m very proud of u! It’s so hard to lose weight. I’ve lost 60 pounds so far and still going! We can do this yall ❤️

  • @jessishirley2434
    @jessishirley2434 2 роки тому +34

    You seem like you're thriving🙌 breakups are so tough and scary but you are putting in the work to live the life you want. Keep it up!!!

  • @ArcaneA422
    @ArcaneA422 2 роки тому +83

    I teared up when you said you would’ve liked to have spent more time with your mom. I know the feeling. I lived 2 thousand miles away from my mom, and when I last saw her, i had only spent three weeks with her before she passed away. I also would’ve liked to have been closer and saw her more often 🥺. It was very hard and I still grieve her loss every day. Hearts to you Becky. ❤️💕

    • @ogstabbyoouussee9910
      @ogstabbyoouussee9910 2 роки тому +7

      Just want you to know, maybe to help soften the guilt. I actually lived with my mom for the last years of her life, it still wasn't enough time. I still wish I'd sat with her more or a million other things I can point at and say how could I have missed that opportunity? It's never ending.

    • @ArcaneA422
      @ArcaneA422 2 роки тому +3

      @@ogstabbyoouussee9910 sorry for your loss. And I totally see that being the situation too.

    • @ogstabbyoouussee9910
      @ogstabbyoouussee9910 2 роки тому +4

      @@ArcaneA422 aww I'm sorry for all of us! Mommas are the best!

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +5

      Y’all are breaking my heart 😢 BIG hugs and love sent to all y’all ❤️

    • @ArcaneA422
      @ArcaneA422 2 роки тому +3

      @@yourstruley2000 thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mexicanredneck1521
    @mexicanredneck1521 2 роки тому +18

    Did you really have to burp so loud, twice! and not at least say excuse me. That was kind of gross.

  • @letterstocleo72
    @letterstocleo72 2 роки тому +20

    Becky, I have to say this. You started that go fund me for your car that is why people donated to you. So they basically gave you money under false pretenses. I just think that was the wrong thing to do. If you were only going to use a certain amount on your car you should have disclosed you would be using the other money on bills. That’s what I think.

  • @amberlynnwilliams4676
    @amberlynnwilliams4676 2 роки тому +19

    Dude, your fucken awesome don't ever forget it! Your vibe is the best you seem so much happier with your self it's such a good look on you.

  • @jessicabradshaw804
    @jessicabradshaw804 2 роки тому +59

    Broke my heart to hear you say “I wish I would’ve spent more time with you” you’re so sweet... 💜 keep your head up, Becks🙏🏼 You’re a gem 💎

    • @GypsyRock
      @GypsyRock 2 роки тому +2

      Sucks that amberlynn guilted her into spending time away from her mom especially when she was dying :-( I’d carry guilt over that too if I Was Rebecca. I pray she finds peace over it. I know her mother is looking down on her with pride and love

  • @Lmaoyoudontknowme
    @Lmaoyoudontknowme 2 роки тому +31

    And shouldn’t you be working like a real job if you have no money & have had to live off go fund me money? I mean…. Isn’t a job the most logical answer?

  • @Donde_Lieta
    @Donde_Lieta 2 роки тому +60

    That Shrek in the background is iconic 😂 my best friend has one like that that he won at a carnival YEARS ago, it’s HUGE, he can’t bring himself to get rid of it. It’s a great conversation piece

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +12

      We got that at Walmart in 07’ I believe for Christmas. That was his last Christmas with us. Becky got to keep him because she was Shawns best friend ❤️ The shirt her Shrek is wearing was also Shawns shirt. She has quite a few of his things ❤️

    • @bonniehowell9206
      @bonniehowell9206 2 роки тому +7

      @@yourstruley2000 Awww. Reading this actually made me tear up.

    • @Donde_Lieta
      @Donde_Lieta 2 роки тому +7

      @@yourstruley2000 💜💜💜 that is so sweet 🥺💜 I love that Becky cherishes so many little things from the people who have touched her heart, she really treasures the people in her life, I love that about her.

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +2

      @@Donde_Lieta me too ❤️ She is one of a kind.. our Beckster lol

    • @Solanin0803
      @Solanin0803 2 роки тому +3

      First thing that I noticed as well.
      Set the whole vibe.
      Co, iconic, fun.
      I hope your friend keeps it 😂

  • @toebeans1385
    @toebeans1385 2 роки тому +45

    I love just hanging out watching these videos it feels like I’m just chillin with a friend.

    • @PuffKitty
      @PuffKitty 2 роки тому +4

      I find her voice very soothing 😺

    • @JuneBear55
      @JuneBear55 2 роки тому +1

      She shows patience, no annoyance when she had to repeat an answer about a question she just answered. So refreshing just listening to someone who has a forward thinking and genuinely open to suggestions. It's rather exciting and I'm here for it.

  • @kasslue1877
    @kasslue1877 2 роки тому +16

    I love watching you step into who you are and seeing you grow is awesome. Your free to fly and explore and that is so wonderful to watch. You got this! Your such a beautiful lady. Iove how you have so many interests. Your very fun to watch.

  • @sarahhkoo
    @sarahhkoo 2 роки тому +33

    It's amazing to see such an incredible change in such a short period of time. Your real personality is slowly coming out and its honestly so great to see! Keep going Becky! Sending lots of love from Australia!

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 2 роки тому

      Yeah we get to see her real personality in her videos opposed to when she was just a character in the background of ALR videos. I never would have guessed she was this interesting

  • @nessabrown1928
    @nessabrown1928 2 роки тому +90

    I know the GPS struggles. Doordash is great but it destroys the car, I agree. That pause on the question about your mother was genuine. I hope you are continuing your self care ask you are dealing with changes and grieving.

    • @nessabrown1928
      @nessabrown1928 2 роки тому +5

      @@smellyvegan7880 I know. I wish I had the resources to be able to go online and ask individuals for help when I need it. There is no shame in asking for help. There is no shame in using your resources to get to a better place. This wasn't a fake cancer scam.

  • @DinahoftheRailroad
    @DinahoftheRailroad 2 роки тому +6

    Looking amazing, Beckster! So glad to see you're thriving and happy the way you deserve to be.

  • @sarecasticgames
    @sarecasticgames 2 роки тому +55

    Becky, you truly are glowing. Keep putting you and your needs first always ❤️

  • @positivityislife2543
    @positivityislife2543 2 роки тому +71

    The question about your mum... You broke my heart right there... sending you lots of love...
    I feel like the realisation of how bad/controlled her life with Amber really was is starting to hit her... Please look after your mental health at this time becky... Stay strong and keep glowing, also please stay away from Amber!!! Put yourself first for once... It absolutely will not help you move forward mentally if you still put yourself around her, your not under her control anymore, embrace that and cut them negative ties that you have with her!! Xx

    • @yourstruley2000
      @yourstruley2000 2 роки тому +8

      Thank u so much for the concern ❤️ Becky is having a hard time but I’m so proud of how she is dealing with it and talking to her therapists. Becky is growing up lol I’m proud of how much she has grown in just the past month!!! 😁

    • @positivityislife2543
      @positivityislife2543 2 роки тому +1

      @@yourstruley2000 your more than welcome.... Iv been and still am in the exact place as becky so I completely relate to her,.... She's got this she just needs to dig deep and keep digging!! Xx

  • @lucylu3193
    @lucylu3193 2 роки тому +12

    You’re absolutely flourishing.
    As a mom I can tell you, this is all that matters and what fulfils every piece of our hearts, seeing our kids doing well. It’s not about physical time, it’s about knowing we showed you enough love for you to go out alone, and truly LOVE YOURSELF. Your mom wouldn’t want you to have regrets, because look at your magnificent growth. 💜

  • @carrueross2705
    @carrueross2705 2 роки тому +9

    Hi 👋 Becky! Good to see you happy and thriving. Love and light to you! 🍄💫🌟

  • @juniperjaybird9522
    @juniperjaybird9522 2 роки тому +52

    This is not hate however you don't need to live off of the go fund me money. That was to get your car fixed so you should just get your car fixed. I really like you Becky but you also have to take accountability for your own life. 700 a month on bills is not much. You could easily get a fast food job and pay for those bills instead of using money that has been gifted to you. Please....this is what adulting is all about.

    • @trippinonlizard54
      @trippinonlizard54 2 роки тому +9

      Especially with tons of those places hiring at TWENTY an hour. I remember pre pandemic being happy with my 10 /hr plus tips. Was able to go back to SAHM shortly before it really hit.

    • @kimmyitaliana8463
      @kimmyitaliana8463 2 роки тому +1

      Right ! My rent alone is 2800 a month smh

  • @toppahoppa
    @toppahoppa 2 роки тому +68

    You “didn’t have to” live off gofundme money. You can get a job. Welcome to the world of adulting. Paying bills is a part of life.

    • @essteasea5463
      @essteasea5463 2 роки тому +7

      If you don't have a job at that time, what do you do in the meantime while finding one? I'm honestly curious your take. How do you pay rent without a job? I'm all for becky using the money for bills and whatnot. I just think she should have said that in the gofundme, like this is money for moving out, including getting the car repaired.

  • @AlyceEaton
    @AlyceEaton 2 роки тому +11

    I love the personal growth of Becky. I felt bad that she was constantly being overshadowed by a certain person. Now we can experience the full personality of Becky. The 180 turn around from being on her own is amazing.

  • @insertname277
    @insertname277 2 роки тому +9

    I love your room setup, especially the Shrek plushie. 😎
    Thank you for answering my question in the q&a. I am laughing so hard "saggies". Lol! 🤣

  • @Psyduck0307
    @Psyduck0307 2 роки тому +11

    Where would the first place you’d go on a plane?? I’d love to see your set up too!!
    Also also- I can totally relate to your comments about drawing. You are an artist, and it’s something that brings you joy. That’s what matters! Screw what everyone else says. You do what makes you the happiest!!!

  • @trishamingin9003
    @trishamingin9003 2 роки тому +12

    Becky you look fabulous hun!!! You are glowing! Never stop being your beautiful self! We support you!!!❤❤

  • @dovespider
    @dovespider 2 роки тому +24

    Yes!! Save a Prayer is the best DD song. That synth goes crazy in that song. I get goosebumps every time I listen to it.

  • @lucymarie885
    @lucymarie885 2 роки тому +31

    I live in Colorado our mtns are beautiful to look at. Never gets old.

    • @GypsyRock
      @GypsyRock 2 роки тому +1

      I’m jelly. Florida dweller here

  • @ainnochaim9450
    @ainnochaim9450 2 роки тому +11

    Your space looks great, Becky! I love the whole vibe!

  • @jaimereynolds258
    @jaimereynolds258 2 роки тому +124

    I don't believe in ghosts or any other paranormal things, but stories are always fun to hear. 👻

    • @bluntbanana4097
      @bluntbanana4097 2 роки тому +1

      Would you ever be down to stay in a "haunted" place just to see if they are?

    • @EnglishVirgo
      @EnglishVirgo 2 роки тому

      I bet if you stayed in my house for say, a month, you would leave a believer.

    • @jaimereynolds258
      @jaimereynolds258 2 роки тому +1

      @@bluntbanana4097 Of course

    • @OmgPandamonium
      @OmgPandamonium 2 роки тому

      @@EnglishVirgo what’s going on in your house?

    • @EnglishVirgo
      @EnglishVirgo 2 роки тому

      @@OmgPandamonium We have spirits here.

  • @LuluLinn
    @LuluLinn 2 роки тому +20

    Becky you are always so kind, I lost my brother this year in March. Your videos always make me feel like we are just vibing and grieving together. Thank you.

    • @lestatsluv317
      @lestatsluv317 2 роки тому +1

      I am very sorry for your loss. Losing your mom is probably one of the hardest losses a person can go through. Much love and healing to you. ❤️

  • @searranolan8039
    @searranolan8039 2 роки тому +13

    The hair looks great. I love it more on a messy day than any other style!

  • @CharleneOrtizTraining
    @CharleneOrtizTraining 2 роки тому +13

    Maybe you could get a job like an adult instead of depending on go fund me.

    • @trippinonlizard54
      @trippinonlizard54 2 роки тому +1

      Instead of her 'living off' the GFM, if need be she could've used small amounts at a time to use UBER to/from a job before the first paycheck. But nope, gotta do the absolute bare minimum and never grow up.

  • @stonefoxx66
    @stonefoxx66 2 роки тому +17

    Ok, so not ONE PERSON is going to comment on that god awful burp 🤮. I’m here to be supportive and all but it’s gross and rude and can easily be edited out. Nobody wants to be seeing and hearing that….I thought I was back at the Slaton Sisters channel there for a second 🥴😬🤢😵‍💫

  • @jackyhawkins1895
    @jackyhawkins1895 2 роки тому +7

    Hi, I'm a Boomer, old enough to be your mum and then some. I'm so pleased your channel is doing so well. You really deserve that. You work hard . Great job 😊

  • @PuggyBestLife
    @PuggyBestLife 2 роки тому +12

    Go fund me was a scam…I’m out can’t deal with another Amber

  • @teraphIl1000
    @teraphIl1000 2 роки тому +19

    Aw, I wish I'd seen the Q&A announcement! Still, great questions and I found the answers really interesting, especially the bird one.

  • @ellymommabear
    @ellymommabear 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for answering my question, yes being a bird would be so fantastic and freeing! Spread your wings you are such an awesome soul and the world is waiting for you to shine your brightest! Sending you all the love and healing in the world!!

  • @ameymc
    @ameymc 2 роки тому +12

    Becky! Thank you for answering my question. Losing a parent is tough. I lost my dad unexpectedly in 2014, so I can relate to what you’re going through. Hang in there 🖤

  • @mizzkrizz2045
    @mizzkrizz2045 2 роки тому +4

    Becks, don't go to Sweden to look for the Swiss Alpes. Those are located in Switserland. The Alpes stretch over a big part of Europe and many countries ' but Sweden is most definitely not one of them 😉

  • @Rekowcski
    @Rekowcski 2 роки тому +29

    i think your interest in music is a great direction for you to go, just stick with it!

  • @m.g.8783
    @m.g.8783 2 роки тому +21

    The thing is... and i'm asking, when you ask for money for a specific reason like fixing the car, aren't you supposedly to use all the money for that purpose? I get you are in a difficult situation, I just think it would have been more honest if you said so, people would have helped regardless

  • @kaylakthulhu8623
    @kaylakthulhu8623 2 роки тому +27

    Why are you only living off of the gofundme?? I though Amberlynn was paying you for those livestream the last few months??
    Was she taking the money so that you can stay in her apartment?? As rent and bill payments?? Damn.

  • @oatmilkncoffee506
    @oatmilkncoffee506 2 роки тому +87

    Hi Becky, so proud of you and how far you have come. You are such an inspiration for me to keep working out and focusing on my mental and physical health. Keep it up ✨✨
    Edit: you are also so pretty, love the haircut it suits you so well 💕

    • @Cherokee51774
      @Cherokee51774 2 роки тому +2

      Isn't she just adorable!

    • @bonniehowell9206
      @bonniehowell9206 2 роки тому +6

      I love the haircut. Shorter edgier styles definitely suit her.

  • @BS-jt5us
    @BS-jt5us 2 роки тому +18

    We love you Becky, you’re awesome!

  • @clappachino9976
    @clappachino9976 2 роки тому +10

    Who doesn’t love a good Q+A!? I am happy to hear more about who you are and that life is treating you well

  • @zamoomaw
    @zamoomaw 2 роки тому +160

    Girl my heart hurt whenever you said “sorry it’s stupid” about going on an airplane, bless your heart🥺 we’re all proud of you for having these goals and aspirations, be a lil more kind to yourself Becky✌🏻🌝

    • @lisaatkins9879
      @lisaatkins9879 2 роки тому

      Make plans to travel, get your friends together & make short trips! My friends & I went up into New Mexico and visited every place we could find with supernatural vibes. We found some creepy things & ran into a mystery or two!

    • @zzzzzz-ti2rv
      @zzzzzz-ti2rv 2 роки тому

      @@lisaatkins9879 where did you go? just curious, I lived in new mexico for a while and it was a very different kind of place, I want to explore it more now that I am older

    • @visualsno
      @visualsno 2 роки тому

      As someone who’s had a panic attack on a plane it is not stupid!! It’s a worthy goal Becky 😌

  • @k.e.M_
    @k.e.M_ 2 роки тому +42

    So proud of you and can’t wait to see what the future holds for you, now that you got rid of the weight that was holding you back….

    • @lornacochran7916
      @lornacochran7916 2 роки тому +1

      Lol that is the best description of the toxic one ever! It sums up. The situation type deal perfectly.

  • @Cherokee51774
    @Cherokee51774 2 роки тому +8

    Things are looking really good in your new home!
    No pressure. Enjoy this.

  • @juliebean2806
    @juliebean2806 2 роки тому +9

    If only I could get people to pay my bills ho hum. Able bodied people should work and pay their own bills. Times are tough for everyone right now

  • @taraaa3111
    @taraaa3111 2 роки тому +17

    The go fund me scam just screams amber Lynn.

  • @quesadillababbles
    @quesadillababbles 2 роки тому +18

    So glad you’re growing into your own! You’re doing so amazing and we’re all so proud of you!!! 💜

  • @bandit5676
    @bandit5676 2 роки тому +13

    Yeah after that reply to a fan about the GFM I’m unsubbing. You didn’t use the money for the car and your reply was beyond childish.

    • @zingingcutie2364
      @zingingcutie2364 2 роки тому +10

      People will eventually realise their "love" for becky is just their hate for amber. Becky isn't an angel. And she lived with amber and defends amber. You gotta be a certain kinda person to choose amber as a partner and support her lies.

  • @seneca626
    @seneca626 2 роки тому +9

    Becky, spark plugs and coils need changed often. They are also not that expensive and fairly easy to put in (I change my own).
    I would start there. Thats more than likely what is making it act like it wants to stop running because when it gets to that point its one or more of your plugs not firing.

    • @ChaosCuriosity
      @ChaosCuriosity 2 роки тому

      Exactly! Should have been done as normal upkeep

  • @smuttybooksarelife
    @smuttybooksarelife 2 роки тому +9

    Super awesome to watch you grow Becky! Love from Australia ❤️

  • @superjob6938
    @superjob6938 2 роки тому +16

    You look so cute! I have commented this before, but your skin is amazing. I love the way your hair is growing out too!

  • @crazycanuckmick
    @crazycanuckmick 2 роки тому +80

    Let me get this straight...
    After Destiny cheated and broke up with AL, Amber kept paying all of Destiny's bills...even when she was already living with Dana...
    But now she can't help Becky out? And she's making her pay for Netflix??
    Wow.....

    • @kezzz1137
      @kezzz1137 2 роки тому +26

      That’s because she actually loved Dusty.. a lot.

    • @Terri_MacKay
      @Terri_MacKay 2 роки тому +8

      I believe you've got it absolutely correct. 😠

    • @rebella8898
      @rebella8898 2 роки тому +16

      I didn’t realize that she paid all of Destiny’s bills. Dear gosh. She is so damn petty.

    • @Capricornn97
      @Capricornn97 2 роки тому +9

      She truly doesn’t like becky

    • @angelicbunny553
      @angelicbunny553 2 роки тому +10

      It should be wipey paying part the bills and not Becky

  • @hitmonree9316
    @hitmonree9316 2 роки тому +6

    When becky talked about the last thing she could say to her mom, that honestly made me cry. My mom is still here with me and she's like my best friend; I couldn't even imagine life without her, but seeing Becky be so vulnerable and so strong just made my heart explode. Becky, you're doing so well and I'm so proud of you!
    Edit: Also, this video was awesome to listen to while I was drawing, thank you so much for your kindness!!! I LOVE YOU BECKY!!!

  • @StraightZzzStudent
    @StraightZzzStudent 2 роки тому +47

    This is not hate at all and I’m so glad that you were honest in this video but I think it would have helped, especially people like me who donated, to know where the money was going before we donated. You said it would cost x amount so we got you to that point but then you used it for Netflix and bills. I get that things are tough, and with transparency, it wouldn’t be an issue it’s just that now you need more money for your car and we thought we raised money for that already.
    I think moving forward, if you do this again, you should just say it’s for living expenses and then list (if you want) some things it’ll go towards.

    • @young321bookie
      @young321bookie 2 роки тому +9

      She scammed you bigtime mate.
      The car never needed any significant work to be carried out, it was a disgusting lie just to con people out of their money. BECKY is not a good person at all. She's a liar at heart.

    • @StraightZzzStudent
      @StraightZzzStudent 2 роки тому +3

      @@young321bookie yeah I’m not donating again.

    • @czechowa
      @czechowa 2 роки тому +1

      @@young321bookie she did fix her car, its on her instagram. But dunno if it was from gofund money or not.

  • @krustykrab3112
    @krustykrab3112 2 роки тому +22

    So happy you’re uploading more!

  • @annakev8088
    @annakev8088 2 роки тому +46

    Mkay but let’s talk about the GFM situation because what made you think people wouldn’t be upset about it?

  • @96Vonna
    @96Vonna 2 роки тому +5

    Becky you are so jazzy! I love the room, very vibrant. I noticed a change in your appearance, I hope you’re doing well. Take your time with change and get in tune with yourself. You are glowing! 💛

  • @Origamiswan-jw6vx
    @Origamiswan-jw6vx 2 роки тому +97

    Wait, you are owing money for Netflix to Amberlynn. Considering you are struggling financially could she not let that slide? You also still drive her around wherever she wants to go so I hope you are charging her for gas money.

    • @mcescher1957
      @mcescher1957 2 роки тому +12

      Absolutely!! I was wondering the same thing!!! And why...if ALR "gifted" her the car, does she have a car payment? Sounds like living with Amber was more than financially taxing. I just want to see Becky stand up to her and some of the unbelievably nasty things she's said about her in the live streams. Totally uncalled form mean and just downright cruel.

    • @accioanna
      @accioanna 2 роки тому +2

      @@mcescher1957 right? They literally have like a Kia sedan (no shade) but if amber made almost a million dollars on UA-cam they could have paid that off years ago

    • @erin9868
      @erin9868 2 роки тому +3

      @@accioanna theyre both completely awful with money.

    • @legendaryfails7529
      @legendaryfails7529 2 роки тому +2

      Continue to haul an extra 600lbs in that little car? That's a death trap.

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 2 роки тому

      If you got to split the Netflix cost , I hope you are charging Uber prices to drive her around