We had an argument... (weekly vlog)

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  • We had an argument... (weekly vlog)
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  • @naeoomi
    @naeoomi 3 роки тому +1348

    I love to see this version of you jess, the raw and spontaneous jess .. it makes us see another fun side of your personality that we’ve never seen before

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +146

      💛💛💛

    • @lakeshiajones5799
      @lakeshiajones5799 3 роки тому

      @@JessConte love you and you’re Fiancé Channel I’m subscribed to it love and support from me

    • @chlsea6491
      @chlsea6491 3 роки тому +2

      @@lakeshiajones5799 husband*

    • @rayyanzudki1479
      @rayyanzudki1479 3 роки тому

      me liek Monke

  • @Jessica-fy6np
    @Jessica-fy6np 3 роки тому +330

    I really appreciate how honest and real your content has gotten lately. Not that it wasn't before, but I've definitely noticed that you're starting to open up more and transition into more mature content. And there's nothing wrong with getting into disagreements sometimes. You guys don't have to be the "perfect" couple all the time or be happy all the time.

  • @RachelCatherine
    @RachelCatherine 3 роки тому +403

    Loved seeing a week in your life Jess! 🧡

  • @noellemw.
    @noellemw. 3 роки тому +597

    Jess is so so gorgeous. She is such a huge role model for me. I hope that someday I will find someone that loves me the way Gabe loves Jess. They aren’t perfect but they are real and that inspires me so much. They don’t try to hide things, instead they bring authenticity to social media. They are huge role models for me because of their natural beauty, love, and relationship with Jesus. I just want to thank you guys for inspiring this generation. For giving us a reason to live life. For making us smile on hard days. For motivating us. For being there for us when we are struggling. I love y’all 💜

    • @flowertrtrt
      @flowertrtrt 3 роки тому

      Can I ask how old are you?

    • @FatmaYousuf
      @FatmaYousuf 3 роки тому

      @@flowertrtrt Can I ask how old are you?

    • @flowertrtrt
      @flowertrtrt 3 роки тому

      @@FatmaYousuf Hm? I wasn't trying to be mean or something with my question

    • @FatmaYousuf
      @FatmaYousuf 3 роки тому

      @@flowertrtrt I wasn’t trying to be mean either lol

    • @flowertrtrt
      @flowertrtrt 3 роки тому

      @@FatmaYousuf Okay

  • @Afbfsh
    @Afbfsh 3 роки тому +484

    Everyone has disagreements with their significant other
    I’m glad Jess and Gabe don’t give unrealistic expectations to people my age about relationships

  • @HowToHustleHappier
    @HowToHustleHappier 3 роки тому +48

    I appreciate how if I see jess and gabe are in a fight I don't have to worry about any breakup drama, because they are in it for the long haul. Love you both!

  • @kassandrakrebs3760
    @kassandrakrebs3760 3 роки тому +172

    I’ve been lovinngggg your content lately, feels so real!

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +24

      That means so much 🥲💛

  • @Analise21
    @Analise21 3 роки тому +171

    I love how you guys are more open in your vlogs, it feels more personal

  • @zamarmichael4326
    @zamarmichael4326 3 роки тому +352

    Are we gonna get a house tour?! Because it looks so beautiful and aesthetically pleasing, Jess 🥰😍😍

    • @AbbyEmbro
      @AbbyEmbro 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you for using aesthetic correctly 😭🙌

  • @rose-angelapizzuto7773
    @rose-angelapizzuto7773 3 роки тому +367

    HAHAHA I LOOOOOVE me some more "adult" Jess and Gabe. When you gave him the finger 😂😂😂

    • @litmemes8560
      @litmemes8560 3 роки тому +3

      i think I missed it when did that happen?

    • @Toekneeann
      @Toekneeann 3 роки тому +1

      @@litmemes8560 2:54 :)

    • @litmemes8560
      @litmemes8560 3 роки тому +1

      @@Toekneeann thank you!

    • @rajulmehta1917
      @rajulmehta1917 3 роки тому +1

      Why the finger for bird ? Can someone plz explain

    • @rose-angelapizzuto7773
      @rose-angelapizzuto7773 3 роки тому +4

      @@rajulmehta1917 when someone gives the middle finger, some people use the term "flipped the bird"

  • @haleyrose9526
    @haleyrose9526 3 роки тому +180

    This is so great. I have got upset before at my fiancé haha and I hung up because we are stationed on different side of the US and I waited for him to come to me but I watched youre videos in the mean time. Calms me down and makes me happy. So you’re not wrong🤣🤍🤍🤍🤍

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +34

      😂💛🙌🏼

    • @haleyrose9526
      @haleyrose9526 3 роки тому +7

      @@JessConte now I am crying because you replied 🥺😄 thank you jessss!!!!

  • @itsmikki44
    @itsmikki44 3 роки тому +7

    haven't watched your videos in a while. i forgot how calm they make me feel, i'll have to start watching again

  • @Afbfsh
    @Afbfsh 3 роки тому +182

    Jess and Gabe are the only youtubers I’ve been watching recently😭
    God bless you both and everyone else reading this❤️❤️

    • @devanshipandya6068
      @devanshipandya6068 3 роки тому +2

      Same!!! I am binge watching their videos and vlogs!!!

    • @shadeen680
      @shadeen680 3 роки тому +2

      Me too. ❤️

    • @kalyn-raefritch9778
      @kalyn-raefritch9778 3 роки тому +1

      Love the pfp

    • @aireobuchi
      @aireobuchi 3 роки тому +1

      omg bestie! love it pfp! go tommo! go tommo!

    • @Afbfsh
      @Afbfsh 3 роки тому

      @@kalyn-raefritch9778 thank you!!

  • @danufes
    @danufes 3 роки тому +27

    How funny is it that my boyfriend's nickname is actually Johnny and I'm in my room watching a Jess Conte video? haha
    That is such an important piece of advice tho! I always sit in silence and wait for him to apologize when sometimes he doesn't even get that I'm pissed off haha but I'm trying to change that! Communication is key guys 🙏🏼

  • @michaelmal5982
    @michaelmal5982 3 роки тому +79

    Aww I love that you do meetings together like this! :)

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +19

      It’s so helpful for us!!

  • @smmms
    @smmms 3 роки тому +96

    I hope this doesn’t sound weird (or intrusive), but I would actually like to see more of the “post argument” thing from you guys bc 1. It shows that it’s normal to bicker & 2. It was cool hearing that you were waiting for Gabe, while he thought he was doing you a favor by giving you space. Idk, it just showed how little misunderstandings happen & kind of a healthy way to make up :) but I love your vlogs so much the past several months... it feels so personal & genuine & relaxed, like we’re just friends hanging out :))

  • @kelsiehorton1233
    @kelsiehorton1233 3 роки тому +268

    “what bird? this bird?” 😂

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +106

      And then he didn’t get it 😂😂😂

    • @princecharmingthemerman
      @princecharmingthemerman 3 роки тому +7

      “You mean this big bird” (Gabe points to self) 🤪

    • @haylieanne4448
      @haylieanne4448 3 роки тому +2

      @@JessConte but we all got it 🤣

    • @Nobcfr..
      @Nobcfr.. 3 роки тому +3

      Did she put the middle finger up?

    • @sierahduffey
      @sierahduffey 3 роки тому

      @@Nobcfr.. yeah

  • @laneydawe5902
    @laneydawe5902 3 роки тому +1

    I've been here since 2016, and its so amazing to see how much you two have grown and matured! Your content has been such a breath of fresh air recently

  • @jeeva1996
    @jeeva1996 3 роки тому +4

    4 things to say:
    1) I've been wearing glasses since I was around 13ish and literally I'm blind as a bat without them now (I'm 23 rn) and I know people that have been told by the optometrist they need glasses but they didn't wear it and when they went for another appointment some time after, the doctor was like like you've improved (like wut?)...... so if they told you it's not exactly necessary to wear the glasses don't and try to look at screens and books etc at an arms length away so as to not strain the eyes as much. Just a tip.
    2) Little Hezekiah is identical to Claudio, like twins. It's blowing my mind (I don't see Maddie at all)🤯🤯
    3) Milo is the best doggie, OMG adorable. The way he was about to take another step but stopped and followed your instructions 😭😭😭😭😍
    4) Gabe's chest looked huge in the smoothie making clip + Jenny's little cameo at the end was a nice surprise😄

  • @tana8786
    @tana8786 3 роки тому +74

    The way in the last video they said they'd show us if they have a fight lol. Love you

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +21

      Hahahahahah I couldn’t believe it

  • @annagalvezzz
    @annagalvezzz 3 роки тому +54

    day immediately made

  • @sallypena6917
    @sallypena6917 3 роки тому +80

    milo is literally the cutest thing ever!! i literally teared up in that clip of him ahahaha

  • @motivation___jojo3361
    @motivation___jojo3361 3 роки тому +107

    Dear whoever is reading this please smile life is too short to be unhappy

  • @nehan5013
    @nehan5013 3 роки тому +2

    Dear Jess,
    You are such and inspiring, kind and one of the most genuine and nicest people out there on the internet❤ I just wanna say I love you and Gabe so so so much and I admire how you both deal with stuff and how open you hav e become to your audience. You are like an older sister to me whom I have never met but still someone who teaches me so much about life and love!❤ I love you both and May God bless you both Abundantly!❤

  • @deepalisabat
    @deepalisabat 3 роки тому +2

    Whenever I see your vlogs I feel an amazing transition... I feel like I'm with you guys...
    And you guys + Hezekiah together is the cutest thing ever...😍😍😍😍❤❤❤ love you sooo much

  • @GrinseKatze29
    @GrinseKatze29 3 роки тому

    loving the more real content lately! It's so important for your viewers to see the real stuff too, so they don't have a false expectation of relationships.

  • @DanielaOvares
    @DanielaOvares 3 роки тому

    Jess i wish I knew someone like you in my day to day life you are genuinely such a good person the world needs more people like you in it! Loved the honesty and realness in this video much love to you both! ♥️

  • @LaurenTaylorCarrillo
    @LaurenTaylorCarrillo 3 роки тому +16

    I loved how you filmed this vlog! You showed a little more of your personality and I loved it! You are such an amazing human being

  • @ryannecarter4105
    @ryannecarter4105 3 роки тому

    I love the cheeky side of you Jess it makes you feel more relatable💕

  • @duckys_diary
    @duckys_diary 3 роки тому +20

    the 'family team meeting' is such a good thing to do every week, having this organized moment to talk everything through is a super healthy way to make sure that you're on the same page and that you're always communicating! props for setting the example of how to have a health relationship guys

  • @jemima2905
    @jemima2905 3 роки тому

    already feeling so much better after watching this!! :) and I didn't even feel bad before but you just brighten my mood so much.

  • @caitlinmchenry804
    @caitlinmchenry804 3 роки тому

    I just cleaned my white tennis shoes and I sprayed “shout triple action stain remover” allllll over them, let it sit for 12 hours, then washed with detergent and they seriously look brand new!! Loved this vlog!

  • @annaeliseu
    @annaeliseu 3 роки тому

    thank you for being so real with your audience!! you are both changing lives!!💛

  • @zamarmichael4326
    @zamarmichael4326 3 роки тому +73

    Wait.. so Gabe didn't actually hurt his head (thanks to the lovely pillow). Was kinda worried... 😂

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +19

      😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @hilalal-ghabshi8171
      @hilalal-ghabshi8171 3 роки тому

      @@JessConte same jess i thought he got hurt but now no worry's lol 😂😂

  • @minjinkim8318
    @minjinkim8318 3 роки тому

    Like everyone in the comments, I’m loving the new style. I would love to see the business side of your work like the family meeting that you guys do on Sunday. It’s so fascinating 💕

  • @sammyjane8854
    @sammyjane8854 3 роки тому +1

    Gabe quoting Ketut honestly made me so happy, you’ve influenced him with Aussie culture well Jess hahaha

  • @memyselfmartini2328
    @memyselfmartini2328 3 роки тому

    Loved this vlog as always, the family meeting and emotional check in was👍🏼 the honesty too was so lovely to see 🤓 also, I would love to jump in that pool!

  • @jaecrawford7442
    @jaecrawford7442 3 роки тому

    10:48 sign taken. I legitimately got chills. God is so good

  • @naedowning4582
    @naedowning4582 3 роки тому +17

    I’m to the point where I’m longing to be like to Jess so much that I wish I could restart my life and be a different person.

    • @reirarose6537
      @reirarose6537 3 роки тому +3

      she’s such a wonderful person, i understand that feeling! i have had that thought, myself, but i’m sure you are wonderful too, just the way you are! 🧡

  • @J2DuoMusic
    @J2DuoMusic 3 роки тому +17

    I really love seeing your daily/weekly life!! You’re so calming to watch! ❤️

  • @rebecca2476
    @rebecca2476 3 роки тому +27

    have you tried the mosquito repellent candles or those like fire poles" to keep bugs away, I find them super helpful in summer

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  3 роки тому +9

      Yesss we have the candles!! I just need to be better about putting repellent on any time I go outside 😭😂

    • @elba1251
      @elba1251 3 роки тому

      @@JessConte I feel that. In ohio we get quite a few mosquitos and my legs get demolished😂

  • @RC_17
    @RC_17 3 роки тому +12

    Who is their assistant? Would love to see a day in their assistants life working for Jess & Gabe, that would be so cool & interesting!❤️🤗

  • @joanjm3342
    @joanjm3342 3 роки тому +76

    Repeat after me: Authentic people are the best❤️✨

  • @Alemarie2023
    @Alemarie2023 3 роки тому

    *Y'all are such a beautiful couple.*

  • @eshakotalgi
    @eshakotalgi 3 роки тому +13

    I absolutely love how candid they've become in their vlogs🥺💖

  • @ninamoyaa
    @ninamoyaa 3 роки тому +8

    It means so much that you guys talked a bit about the disagreement here. I'm in my first serious relationship and I'm so scared of fighting or getting angry, i feel like I would just cry lol

  • @alessiavillata
    @alessiavillata 3 роки тому

    felt so much part of your week sis!💕 loved this video so much🥰

  • @darkbyteproductions952
    @darkbyteproductions952 3 роки тому +14

    I got deja vu for the first 5 minutes of the vlog and then I realized that I'm on Jess's channel 😂

  • @bpdiaryy
    @bpdiaryy 3 роки тому

    ok but actually when the music at 3:11 started I was like wait.. this kind of feels like a thriller now because I don't know when the argument is coming hahaha

  • @bonitasblues
    @bonitasblues 3 роки тому +2

    you're such a beautiful couple!

  • @hannahreyes2767
    @hannahreyes2767 3 роки тому +1

    yall are such a beautiful couple 💞 God bless!

  • @tiaelisha2366
    @tiaelisha2366 3 роки тому +5

    11:05 no way such a coincidence 😂💗 my boyfriend is called Johnny and we are in the middle of a disagreement and I did come in this room to watch the video💗
    Also Jess you look gorgeous 😊💗

  • @christinamarie5804
    @christinamarie5804 3 роки тому +5

    Hi Jess 💛 I would love it if you could make a video chatting about setting and enforcing boundaries in your relationships (not just with Gabe, but any relationships in your life). I struggle with this so much and I really admire the way that you and Gabe can just talk to each other whenever there’s an argument or disagreement. I guess it’s hard for me to find the words to say without feeling like I’m coming across too defensively or too sensitive. Hearing about how you guys can so easily resolve things has made me so much more aware of how much I need to work on voicing my feelings when something upsets me.

  • @HomemakingwithPaola
    @HomemakingwithPaola 3 роки тому

    OxiClean will bring back your shoes back to white, and a white magic eraser will bring the rubber part back to brand new too! Wanted to share the tip since I constantly have to clean my white shoes!😊

  • @sophiasamai5099
    @sophiasamai5099 3 роки тому +1

    Anyone else thought that the background guitar song had a vibe of tension? I don't know if it was the video title "we had an argument" or what, but I was kinda on edge lol 😄
    Anyway, love Jess's vlogs as always, they inspire me do be productive

  • @nourata.5893
    @nourata.5893 3 роки тому

    I absolutely loved this vlog Jess! Amazing content

  • @morkmeinyourheart
    @morkmeinyourheart 3 роки тому

    your house looks so gorgeous

  • @madisonmcclure1439
    @madisonmcclure1439 3 роки тому

    love you guys so so much!!!

  • @triciamariestelleatay4456
    @triciamariestelleatay4456 3 роки тому

    I love how gab tells milo thats his cousin ❤️

  • @angyyyskyyy
    @angyyyskyyy 3 роки тому +12

    love the time-lapse when y’all were in the beach aww the sunset colors!

  • @akshikasaxena249
    @akshikasaxena249 3 роки тому +1

    gabe saying "that's lit" just made me so nostalgic

  • @morkmeinyourheart
    @morkmeinyourheart 3 роки тому

    WE LOVE JESS VLOGS

  • @celena7564
    @celena7564 3 роки тому

    We need a hair tutorial I love your hair color

  • @DeerghKataria
    @DeerghKataria 3 роки тому +7

    I have no idea why people even dislike your videos. You're one of the most amazing creators on UA-cam that I still watch even after all these years 🥰

    • @monicarebelo1680
      @monicarebelo1680 3 роки тому

      I agree 100% i always think that too🤷‍♀️

  • @Ions.Belles
    @Ions.Belles 3 роки тому +4

    Don’t know who needs to hear this, but God loves you. Jesus died for you on the cross. He loves you and I love you too

  • @sarahvanos6179
    @sarahvanos6179 3 роки тому

    When Jess gave Gabe the middle finger😂😂😂

  • @LinaDesireeDiaz
    @LinaDesireeDiaz 3 роки тому +22

    almond butter gang wya?

  • @meirich8028
    @meirich8028 3 роки тому +4

    This made me feel a lot better, my husband and I have silly arguments every once in awhile so when you guys videos pop up I'd feel bad about our relationship because y'all seemed to just mesh in anything and I couldn't watch it lol.

  • @ludmiantunez82
    @ludmiantunez82 3 роки тому +5

    i love these types of vlogs, my favorites!! also the disposable pictures are so cute 🥺.
    p.s.: i prefer peanut butter :)

  • @darlingcallejas1719
    @darlingcallejas1719 3 роки тому

    Thank you for making my day better 💛

  • @KristinFred2014
    @KristinFred2014 3 роки тому +1

    The bird joke got me 😂😂 good one Jess

  • @ayacht2154
    @ayacht2154 3 роки тому +1

    So cute together god bless y’all ❤️

  • @kylamangaser5667
    @kylamangaser5667 3 роки тому +55

    Jess and gabe with the baby is so adorable! Imagine with their own baby, i think we all would die from happiness🥺

    • @tlcasey
      @tlcasey Рік тому

      You predicted it haha 🥰

  • @BeccaFilipski
    @BeccaFilipski 3 роки тому +8

    A Jess Conte video on a Tuesday. Love it!!!!❤️

  • @Lele-vm8et
    @Lele-vm8et 3 роки тому

    i am in love with this vlog

  • @nomi.
    @nomi. 3 роки тому

    ur joking..... i am literally locked in my room because I'm mad at my husband and decided to watch youtube videos and i am thinking "why doesn't he just come apologize" and he is likely thinking "i should give her space" UGH!

  • @albanyfernandes4114
    @albanyfernandes4114 3 роки тому +6

    just clicked on the video, but i know watching this
    will make my day better

  • @jaidencressman5008
    @jaidencressman5008 3 роки тому +2

    What the heck I love you guys💗💗

  • @johanasava4502
    @johanasava4502 3 роки тому

    What’s your smoothie recipe? Looks so yummy!

  • @uchiha-lulu9757
    @uchiha-lulu9757 3 роки тому

    Paul Rudd. That’s my favorite hot ones episode.

  • @aasthaaggarwal1504
    @aasthaaggarwal1504 3 роки тому +3

    Such a relaxed and asthetic vlog.
    Love your vlogs, they are super soothing and relaxing ❤️
    All the love and good wishes for you🙏🏻

  • @ジュリアン95
    @ジュリアン95 3 роки тому

    Use biteaway for mosquito bites, it’s life saving

  • @sierrakallgren9989
    @sierrakallgren9989 3 роки тому

    I can’t wait for the “ we’re pregnant “ video 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @teresebergeron6017
    @teresebergeron6017 3 роки тому

    I promise your get used to the mesquites don’t worry!!

  • @ashleya9181
    @ashleya9181 3 роки тому

    I love y’all so much!!

  • @celestebirkin4956
    @celestebirkin4956 3 роки тому

    I need the receipt for that smoothie pls

  • @Erika-ye4tf
    @Erika-ye4tf 3 роки тому +4

    Loved being part of the meeting!!! I felt included lol🤍🤍

  • @ellevisionn
    @ellevisionn 3 роки тому

    so i have to wear glasses and some of my fav places to get prescription glasses/sunglasses is eyebuydirect, zenni, and zeelool! great prices for super cute frames incase you were needing some ideas 😂
    edited: also loved everything about this vlog 💖

  • @lindsaycox9508
    @lindsaycox9508 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing the real aspect of arguing within a relationship. My boyfriend and I are currently in a small disagreement and I related so much to that clip! As always love you both! Stay safe and hope you’re well :)

  • @meganottavio3499
    @meganottavio3499 3 роки тому

    I recommend getting Ebkicks shoe cleaner, but don’t get it from the actual website because they do charge for shipping so get it from footaction and sign up for it then you’ll get free shipping. I’ve cleaned my hightop converse with it and it took out stains that I had on them and it came out so good.

  • @kaesebrot0072
    @kaesebrot0072 3 роки тому +1

    I wonder what you eye test results where? ( im learning to be an optician)
    love your videos ❤️❤️

  • @shrutipradhan2892
    @shrutipradhan2892 3 роки тому +4

    Jess, A house tour Pleasee!!! It would be super fun to see how to decorate places based on your aesthetics!!

  • @missr7839
    @missr7839 3 роки тому +8

    I LOVE HOW U OPEN UP TO US LIKE WE R A FAM!! L9VE U JESS!! THE HOUSE LOOKS SO GOOD BTW & THE POOL❤️😘

  • @theheartytalkpodcast
    @theheartytalkpodcast 3 роки тому +2

    I love this kind of weekly vlogg

  • @haileep299
    @haileep299 3 роки тому

    I love your videos Jess are amazing thanks a huge kiss!!!!

  • @samfiore1568
    @samfiore1568 3 роки тому

    This was such a great video

  • @lindsayecc
    @lindsayecc 3 роки тому

    I like this blog, I got to see a little of everything. I feel like you are hardly without Gabriel. Do you ever just hang out with your sister in laws?

  • @ellysehawthorne4568
    @ellysehawthorne4568 3 роки тому +1

    Wow ive never been this earlyyy. Hi jess!!

    • @ellysehawthorne4568
      @ellysehawthorne4568 3 роки тому

      Awww my comment got a ❤️ from Jess huhu I hope i could text you with your number but I'm from the Philippines 😢 ilyyy God bless

  • @meganlyrene
    @meganlyrene 3 роки тому +7

    i’m at school but i clicked the notification like right away 😂

  • @ayenbueno
    @ayenbueno 3 роки тому +3

    that was such good advice with the argument. thank you!