I HATE It When She Says “I’m fine…” | Our Biggest Arguments (Ep.10)
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
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Bobby does a great job at seeing both sides of the story 👏 good on him
He’s like the therapist in the conversation 😂😅
Jess is right about the drive thru thing because being on the headset for those speaker boxes you can never hear the person in the passenger seat!! It’s so hard and we all wish for the person in the drivers seat to say the order. She can even repeat it to you in the moment and you as the driver say it louder for the speaker box
Who else miss them vlogging💕🫶✨️
I like the sfsg pod but would appreciate if they take maybe one day a month to make a really nice vlog.
@@KayliesJourneyAgreed. But love the pod for sure.
@@KayliesJourney mutual feelings !!
Yup yup
Think they're trying to keep their private life private after having a baby, which is fair! So I guess the podcast works best for them as it allows them to earn online without showing everyone their day to day! Also Jess still vlogs here and there
I live for these podcasts. It makes your relationship seem so much more realistic. Social media obviously makes people seem perfect and that’s super huge with you guys, but the podcasts are so relatable. I feel like I’m really seeing you guys as people and not “influencers”
I’m with Jess on the drive thru order though.. the driver is the designated spokesperson! Plus it’s so awkward to be screaming your order from the passenger seat
100%!!! If my husband made me shout my order out his window, I would be annoyed 😂
Same. I hate shouting in the car.
Everybody talking about missing them vlogging together but I like them in their podcast more… I like Jess in her own vlogs but for them together, I love the podcasts!!!!!
Same!
I agree!! I love these natural conversations better than any 10 min vlog
I agree
I lovvee these podcasts.. Jess has sooo much more personality here than on the vlogs.. and she’s sooo funny 💛 but then again Gabe’s homeschool so … it’s balanced .
guys this episode is what i have hoped for with the podcast. It’s super honest and let’s us see you as real ppl❤
i feel like it'd be easier for the person closest to the window make the order for everyone. even if you have to pass the order along, or just make sure you got everything written down before you get there, that way it feels much smoother and easier for the drive-thru staff to hear it
FYI Jess is 1,000,000 million percent correct on ordering in a DT... my most hated situation managing something like a dunkin... is a passenger order, they're hard to hear to begin with let alone if they're soft spoken, and even more so if it's windy or rainy. Realize you can hear us fine, it's hard to hear you.
I agree 😅
Bob was so intentional with everything he said. Loved this, and love your friendship
omg omg omgggggg at the end when you both were talking about apologizing JUST IN THAT MOMENT i was thinking about that jess has a quote that she has said on the channel in the past that "its better to lose the argument than the person" with her lil hand movement that she did once AND JUST FEW SECS LATER you both said ittttt ahhhhhh it made me so happy hahahahahahah
This was a great reminder that no couple is perfect. Even the amazing Contes have their moments. 💕 Hey, Bobby! 👋
Jess you’re SO right about the drive through, we’re a family of six, and my dad always asked 5 minutes before we arrived what do we want and he remembered everyone’s order!!
You guys need to do that dating thing with Bobby that you did with Sophie! 😊
I'd be very interested to hear both Jess' and Gabe's "pros and cons" of both America and Australia.
This last phrase from Jess reminded me of a saying here in my country, "It's better to have peace than to have reason."
I really love the podcasts. I listen to them in the morning while I travel to work, and it just makes me laugh and makes the driver better. Thanks for posting them!❤
Ok first, Bobby. I love how he’s just casually chilling lol. Secondly, my husbands family is an interrupting family and by golly it’s so hard sometimes 😅
Jess is sooooo quick witted! I love it
I'm 14 minutes in and it is so interesting to see how relatable this is in my relationship (me being Jess and my bf being Gabe). I'm watching, smiling and shaking my head at the same time hahaha. Haven't even watched till the end to say that this is such a good episode. Keep up the goodies you guys! Love ya❤
Lol I laughed at the sock folding comment. My partner told me earlier in our relationship that I wasn't folding washing correctly and I was like, "Oh really, is that so?" And he was like, "Yes, you do it the wrong way." So I said, "OK, well it looks like you've just earned yourself a lifetime gig because that's your job from now on for all our washing. That suits me just fine." Hahaha total backfire. 5 years later, the only time I fold his washing is when he's away for work but I make him do it when he's home😂 while I put everything in the washing machine to be washed and then in the dryer and he has to fold it and put it away lol.
33:50 OMG I would just tell the driving person my order too 😂I can't scream I'm soft-spoken
“Only cause you asked so nicely” I would lose it if my husband did that! 😂
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I never miss a podcast episode. Love these so much 💗 You both always have me laughing. Bobby is such a good mediator here!
I always feel like listening Jess forever ❤
looool we are getting TEA
Silent viewer here 👋 I am a 'wait for dessert & never complain about an order gone wrong' person too Jess! How funny 😄
Good strategy to settle their differences by having Bob as referee.😂😂😂
I am a desert after dinner person like Gabe, but side with Jess about not wanting to inconvenience others and correcting orders. My husband is the opposite of me on both of those things.
Definitely want Bobby on the podcast again!
Dr Phil says “would you rather be right or would you rather be married?”
Aah, I just love listening to you guys☺️ what a cozy little podcast🥰
The interrupting point was crazy, sent it to my boyfriend! I am Gabe and he is Jess in this situation, I didn't even think of our families being the cause but it makes so much sense😅
i thought i was the only one that gets a little sad when my fiance mentions something about the house being dirty😭😭😭🤣
Love your counselor couple thanks conte
Jess, with drivethru ordering, get your list down on your phone and hand it over to Gabe. Do the same thing when ordering in larger family situations, if Gabe's family doesn't have a problem shouting their orders than fine. It just makes the whole experience for you stress free. I do it for my family. I'll make a list and hand it over to the driver. None one is left sweating under their collar 😅
i’ve watched you guy’s content since i was 12. and im truly disappointed in you guys and hurt.
Why?
I'm the same as Gabriel, dessert right after dinner and I'll make sure they will give me what I order 😂😂
This was so insightful and interesting, also super relatable and that made me think maybe the way we argue or things that irk us could be a personality thing but also women men thing??? Haha because i could relate to jess 😂😂😂 and yeah like Bobby said it was nice to hear stuff being already implemented to get things resolved good things to take from this podcast and Bobby did so good because he really was there for both sides, appreciate that 💛💛
On the drive through subject - whoever is driving is meant to say if it’s just me and my partner BUT if I say an order to him that’s too complicated he’ll say “I’m not going to remember that” and then I’ll just say my own
I think it’s already being at the box that’s extra awkward
Belatedly weighing in on an unimportant debate haha. I really liked what one guy from Europe said, like "best country" is far too vague. America is the most important country in the world. Americans follow American politics. People from other countries follow their national politics, AND American politics, because it's that important. America has the largest economy, by a landslide. The largest military, by a landslide. The most advanced country technologically. And Australia I have a ton of respect for, it's a burgeoning country, rising economically and militarily. Still, your everyday life in Australia, like in Europe, is going to be affected in ways by politics in the US in a way that it simply won't be the other way around.
Can someone explain me who is buying their expensive t shirts with the huge writings on them????! Like why do you have to get so much money from your teenage subscribers who will buy just because they think you're cute? Hoodie for you song as well? Lol
Noooooo my musical brain so wanted Jess to resolve down at the end- it wouldve sounded so nice 😭
did Gabe ever thought he probably has ADHD? I dunno, I'm an ADHD person, and sometimes I see a lot of it in gabes personality. love u guys, been watching your videos since before u get married. 🇧🇷
Yea I also have adhd & I agree with you 🙂
I'm with Gabe with the donut sharing lol 😅
In Aus, it's totally normal for the driver to pass on everyone's orders haha
I miss the vlogs🥺🤍
22:56 I’m wheezing that hilarious
we need Jess singing her national anthem!
Lol I’m definitely a “dessert right after dinner” person and I’ll definitely get people to fix my order if it’s wrong too😂
I, f22, am definitely a dessert right after dinner AND a go fix your order person
I am a dessert right after person but definitely am on Jess' side with people getting my order wrong lol I will just suck it up and not say anything
I think this was the best episode so far ❤
Miss the vlogs
I will say the whole drive thru thing, from customer service perspective it’s really hard to hear when the passenger orders from across the driver 🥲 props to Jess lol
My father in law, he is Cuban and he loves to argue about everything and anything! But glad he never argues with me tho 😂 cuz I’m like your friend Warren
Where Jess says sometimes you want to show you are right but its not worth it. I agree. But I see that in a point of view like sometimes when we argue or have certain opinion on something comes from a beilief which lot of the times we dont want to CHANGE as its a firm one. Its nice to be open to understand what other person has to say but when you cant find common ground. Its better to walk away. Understand the differences and not cross the boundries till you ready to understand or make a peace with saying okay thats their belief i dont have to agree neither them but understand where are we both coming from having this belief. Cause we as a Human BELIEVE in something and HOPE for better future or anything to SURVIVE.
Jess is soooo sassy here i LOVE!!!😍 so attractive
Love you guys. I am more like jess with the cookie situation and the drive through. ❤
It's not even about "she's dinner and then wait for dessert" or "dinner than eat dessert right after." It's respecting boundaries which my husband doesn't do either and I have to specifically say "this is my boundary" now switched it for public settings and I say " this is my story and I'm sticking to it" it helps at church and public when the husband is very oblivious... What's the time? I think it's kind of pride or selfish or not dying to self in that moment and thinking. I feel like men don't think and woman think too much. I think we both need to come together and die to herself and be more thoughtful for each other's feelings. It's hard but I'm working on not worrying too much. But now my husband needs to think about worrying and caring little more especially in public settings.
Love y’all
I like to wait alittle after dinner also before eating dessert! I need to wait and take my time like Jess lol
I just loveeee this idea of a weekly meeting. I’m not even dating anyone but I’m definitely gonna do this with my husband if I ever get married 😭
Sorry but I agree with Jess on the drive through thing
It does not line up, I’m a dessert right after dinner but if they get my dinner wrong I’m eating it and not saying anything 😂
It’s extremely sad to see how some of the people you look up to decide to support oppression, Gabe saying Jews are God’s chosen people as if the other lives that were lost who were not Jews did not matter. Absolutely disgusting, such a disappointment. I pray for the innocent civilians of Israel and Palestine 🇵🇸 I’ll never see y’all the same
That was a great episode 🎉
But your dream goes on? Yeah every woman is like this 😂😂😂
i dont understand nothing in this podcast ep but I love you guys hey bob
I’m finally early 🎉 love yall
I don't like yelling my order from the passenger seat, so I agree the driver should be the orderer. It's also very hard to hear the passenger most of the time so I prefer not risking my order being wrong because of my soft spoken nature. 😅
I’m a dessert right after, you got my order wrong person lol
I need to wait a little before a dessert 😊
Ok I am exactly like gabe re desert straight away & telling someone an orders wrong… & my partners exactly like Jess re waiting for desert & not saying anything 😂😂
Superrrr 💯% relate on the brownies and food sharing for me and my bub 😂🤦🏻♀️ i am very jess and he's very gabe. I think this might be common? 😆🤷🏻♀️
If my relationship is not like theirs then I don’t want it
I am so team Jess sometimes I like saving things for last!! and I do end up eating it if I love it sm😂 but I am also team gabe because if I don’t love it too much It will end up becoming a non eaten leftover
I’m a dessert right after dinner person and I also let people know if my order’s wrong haha 😂
I'm a dessert right after dinner person, but then I also prefer not to cause inconveniences when my order is wrong 😅 So there's no trend line apparently hahah
I’m willing to mention the “wrong” thing more so then my hubby and I encourage him to also speak up about it. It’s just really all in the way you say it…kindly 😅
Hey Jess and Gabe ❤
Maybe it’s because I’m 31 now, but I really don’t understand the whole new lingo of todays world 😂 like “ick’s” are so stupid? They’re just normal everyday things and they bother people so much?
More of vlogs and less of podcasts please ...btb LY both ❤
I wanna join the members club but I can't find the link😢
Most related part the brownie one ☝️
I’m Jess when it comes to food and ordering unless that onion I don’t do onion
The drive thru thing is a guy thing, I swear... my brother and my dad do this too!
Where is Kaia when you guys are filming? 🥹
If remembering correctly they said they usually have someone there to watch her. I think they talked about it in their episode on why they don't show her on the Internet
Freeeee Palestine 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸
from hamas
He's gonna be good for our map 😂🗾🗺️
My husband does the same thing in the shower. 😅
I really don't mean to say this I'm a bad way at all but I feel like Jess is glowing if you know what I mean 😉
I am like Gabe :D eat the dessert and if my order is wrong i go tell them
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I'll think about it by themselves really podcasts are videos
I was looking forward to this episode, then watching I noticed Bobby doesn't speak at all. He does try to see both sides of the story which I love, but he doesn't speak much in this episode, I feel like it could've been done even if you weren't here...
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from hamas
Never watching you ever again