Devi…girl, we need to talk.| Never Have I Ever (Season 3)

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  • @TheBlushBunny
    @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +52

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  • @migaish_
    @migaish_ Рік тому +914

    Devi isn't my favourite teen MC, but I love how she acts exactly like a teenager. She's impulsive, brash, and thinks she's mature enough to handle anything. I really liked her development this season, learning to cope with grief in a healthy way, and take care of herself

    • @Lina_unchained
      @Lina_unchained Рік тому +10

      I was a teenager not that long ago and I know for a FACT that had anyone in my circle acted like that it would have been done and over with and they'd have got that idea out of their head REAL QUICK. Like, yes teenagers are impulsive and brash and think they're more mature than they are....but Devi is a particularly crappy person and that has nothing to do with her age.

    • @nmoney6655
      @nmoney6655 Рік тому +2

      As a teenager I did stupid stuff and got in trouble that my parents got me out of often

    • @dreamon8274
      @dreamon8274 6 місяців тому +1

      As a teenager i could never imagine being like that, and the "thinking im mature enough to handle anything" is like crazy because its the complete opposite for me

  • @lolaco
    @lolaco Рік тому +885

    This was def a good season. I need more of Aneesa not being played by every person she ends up having come into her life bro 😭 She deserves a good solid story. Other than that though, truly enjoyed the story this season

    • @queenv22
      @queenv22 Рік тому +74

      Honestly. Her character fell really flat so I feel like they just made her or whatever to give her something to do.

    • @vvitchuntt2983
      @vvitchuntt2983 Рік тому +31

      fr i was hoping she beat devi ass this season but she was giving side character everyone forgot about

    • @lolaco
      @lolaco Рік тому +7

      @@vvitchuntt2983 right right right!

    • @zuko_24568
      @zuko_24568 Рік тому

      @@vvitchuntt2983 why would she beat devi’s ass they’re friends now

    • @vallano8970
      @vallano8970 Рік тому +2

      facts she deserves me 😩

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Рік тому +1816

    I liked Devi's character development this season. I think that she's growing more sure of herself and what she wants out of life. I hope that she and Ben will be properly together next season!

    • @Mariamox
      @Mariamox Рік тому +32

      I love that for her. I was soo proud of her

    • @StanChunghaOrGoHome
      @StanChunghaOrGoHome Рік тому +38

      It was the exact development I wanted for her. I really disliked her in the first 2 seasons but now she’s redeemed herself

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +90

      Devi’s growth was everything this season.

    • @nvdia5559
      @nvdia5559 Рік тому +46

      Did y’all realize that she really started listening to her therapist?😆

    • @uniraffesaur
      @uniraffesaur Рік тому +17

      @@nvdia5559 it’s almost like that woman actually DOES have some good advice lmao

  • @erinsbooks
    @erinsbooks Рік тому +1397

    I would say for me, this was the best season so far. I actually liked "Vec" over Ben till his mother stepped in. Because he helped her open up and was honest with him about how she felt. I actually like El and Trent together because they balanced each other out. And Nani standing up for Devi was my favorite part.

    • @personperson6519
      @personperson6519 Рік тому +59

      I think ben and devi are cute together but he has this weird lovehate relationship with her ,but I was rooting for des till that holle thing happend with his mother and that he couldnt stand up too her

    • @ashywashy0202
      @ashywashy0202 Рік тому +24

      not to be that person but i think u mean "Vik" because its short for Vikram :) but i totally agree!

    • @personperson6519
      @personperson6519 Рік тому +1

      @@ashywashy0202 right vik

    • @fionalizbeth8626
      @fionalizbeth8626 Рік тому +4

      Who the hell is vec?

    • @personperson6519
      @personperson6519 Рік тому +1

      @@fionalizbeth8626 watch the video

  • @gethsemaneherron7837
    @gethsemaneherron7837 Рік тому +290

    Regarding Des' mom, I feel like I've seen this in Black and Brown spaces where the girl that the son is dating is always seen as a threat. That they aren't good enough or are literal dangers to these precious, Brown boy Gods if the girlfriend isn't exactly what the mother wants. It's disappointing but never surprising to see. It feels like internalized sexism, judgment and fear, wrapped up into one bow. For sons that ain't shit, let's be honest

  • @gabrielleporter553
    @gabrielleporter553 Рік тому +585

    i remember i saw a tik tok comment that was like “ Devi wasn’t as messy this season :( “ and i was like GOOD????!! that means she has character development? and she still had her fair deal of antics these season😭 it’s good she isn’t spreading rumors or cheating or anything this season

    • @JCross413
      @JCross413 Рік тому +11

      I wouldn't necessarily call that character development tho (the spreading rumors or cheating thing). That like me doing a chore and someone going: "You did so good today!" Like, that's a basic thing I should know by now how to do and am expected to do it. But I do get the field of where you're coming from with that.
      (I'm in a little Critic mood btw)

    • @gabrielleporter553
      @gabrielleporter553 Рік тому +51

      @@JCross413 Yeah but for her the basic and expected is development💀💀

    • @JCross413
      @JCross413 Рік тому +6

      @@gabrielleporter553 You know what, you're not wrong actually- 😂

    • @lizzradio893
      @lizzradio893 Рік тому +12

      Technically she didn't spread the rumor. She said it and the mean girls spread it around.... Also yeah I agree she had development she was less chaotic lol

    • @Eunjidulset
      @Eunjidulset Рік тому +2

      @@lizzradio893 yeah but the worst part was that she lied to aneesa

  • @mdrivera8481
    @mdrivera8481 Рік тому +64

    Her not commiting any crimes was a high point for sure.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Рік тому +300

    I hope that some of the other characters get celebrity narrators. For example, I think that Anna Kendrick might be perfect for Paxton's sister Rebecca. She's bold and supportive, but can bring the sass when needed, just like Rebecca!

    • @amaliavillarreal1311
      @amaliavillarreal1311 Рік тому +26

      I want to see more Rebecca for sure

    • @gabrielleporter553
      @gabrielleporter553 Рік тому +38

      i think it would be fun to have tim gunn from project runway💀i used to want him to narrate my life as a kid and since he’s fashion related and funny, that could be entertaining

    • @JCross413
      @JCross413 Рік тому +8

      John McEnroe had a purpose for being Devi's narrator and nothing else. Prove me wrong.

    • @alysonguidry8154
      @alysonguidry8154 Рік тому +9

      @@gabrielleporter553 ooh, Tim Gunn would be a good choice for her narrator, or maybe Christian Siriano.

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +20

      More celeb narrators would be interesting. And yes more Rebecca. We only got I think one scene with her.

  • @zoyajohn
    @zoyajohn Рік тому +639

    The thing is, Des would have been a perfect match for Devi. Their relationship was actually healthy, he challenged her, and I like to think most of her character development was because of she became happier in the relationship. But of course, Mindy Kaling had to ruin just so she could get it with the white guy 😭(don’t get me wrong, I’ve always been team Ben). Also can we PLEASE talk about the language/dialogue they used??? “Virg” “Girlf” and a whole bunch of abbreviations that absolutely NO ONE uses in real life. I got severe second hand embarrassment because of the amount of slang was definitely not “supes cool”.

    • @princessxxramo
      @princessxxramo Рік тому +88

      The way I see it is that the show explores both versions of relationships Indian-Indian and Indian-other nationality/race. Because the whole story with Kamala is how she is encouraged to stick to her culture and get an Indian husband, with Devi they are showing the opposite of that coin - that you can have a relationship with someone of a different culture/race than your own. As for Des and his mum, that plotline was showing the stigma against mental health. It just so happened to come from an Indian mother to show that anyone can have these prejudices. I don't think they did anything wrong there, sometimes they are portraying people in a bad light regardless of their race or culture and that is the reality of our world. It doesn't matter if Devi's partner is white or not, just like it doesn't matter if Kamala's partner is Indian or not, what is important is that their relationship works.

    • @cryforhelp7270
      @cryforhelp7270 Рік тому +17

      I've kinda always liked saying supes... Good luck Charlie has conditioned me in a way I don't like

    • @magobabe4297
      @magobabe4297 Рік тому +9

      some of that “slang” is used by African Americans…

    • @nasia3551
      @nasia3551 Рік тому +2

      I wanna be i star i was wanna be i i i i wanna be

    • @chaaaargh
      @chaaaargh Рік тому +1

      @@cryforhelp7270 lmaooo

  • @Flimstudios5
    @Flimstudios5 Рік тому +835

    I have to defend Des, he defended Devi when his mother talked smack about her. He even avoided Devi because she loved her and didn't want to break up. When the moment of truth came he told his mother to admit what she said. Des was just caught off guard by everything that went down. He never agreed with his mother's opinion, he simply didn't want to have to chose between this mother and his girlfriend. South Asians are super family oriented in most cases so being placed in that scenario is the worst nightmare. Des even in the end when he left said sorry and that he didn't mean for things to go the way they did.

    • @mismiserables
      @mismiserables Рік тому +140

      Thank you. I thought I was the only one who felt that way. I really liked Des and felt he just didn't know what to say in the moment of everything going down.

    • @maggiebrave9354
      @maggiebrave9354 Рік тому +43

      Agreed. I could understand him

    • @paninilist4678
      @paninilist4678 Рік тому +131

      it's sad because I found that des and devi had the most chemisty out of all of her love interests, I'm not sure why they wrote out not only a good love interest for devi but also a friend for nalini as well. Des really respected her and I agree that he didn't want to end things, he seemed to really like her, I just choose to blame the writers to actively sinking this ship

    • @lolnoob5015
      @lolnoob5015 Рік тому +7

      And I would like to defend Des’ mom, because she’s completely right in her judgement

    • @paninilist4678
      @paninilist4678 Рік тому +90

      @@lolnoob5015 I do agree that devi does have issues, but I just thing that it was a bit shady to tell her its okay that she was feeling a certain way, they turn around and tell her son that shes crazy. However, devi has her problems...

  • @astrolothot182
    @astrolothot182 Рік тому +82

    devi and nalani’s scenes make me BAWL like those mother daughter scenes really illicit such an emotional reaction from me

    • @sarahh675
      @sarahh675 Рік тому

      the scene with ben and his dad always makes me cry

  • @chaosspy6723
    @chaosspy6723 Рік тому +24

    imagine telling your kid to break up with someone because they are grieving. Everyone has to go through it sometime.

  • @mismiserables
    @mismiserables Рік тому +318

    I feel so bamboozled out of Paxton and Devi's relationship. Then we got Des (who I still like more than Ben) and his mother just messed everything up. I was not happy when Devi showed up at Ben's house.
    I love El and Trent together. Never expected these two but they are surprisingly refreshing.
    Also I never once thought Paxton would take advantage of Devi in the relationship. Why do people think so little of him?
    My favorite episode was the one with Ben and Paxton ironically. I do want Devi to end up alone at the end of season 4 too. Like you said, she really had a lot of growth when she was alone. Also I am a little biased since I don't want her with Ben lol

    • @JCross413
      @JCross413 Рік тому

      Question: Do you mean people irl or people in the show?

    • @m.josena4485
      @m.josena4485 Рік тому

      @@JCross413 I’m assuming the mean the characters in the show

    • @JCross413
      @JCross413 Рік тому +4

      @@m.josena4485 Well if so, its probably because of the fact that Devi cheated on Paxton and Paxton goes around with all of the girls in school before this season. Look at all the people who treated them like a celebrity couple because they were together for the second time!

    • @mismiserables
      @mismiserables Рік тому +5

      @@JCross413 Mostly in the show, but in response to the comment that blushbunny made about Paxton's reputation and not thinking he'd do right by Devi

    • @Cliohna
      @Cliohna Рік тому +14

      Well, funny enough I too expect that Devi will end up with neither Ben nor Paxton. I mean it's just realistic.
      And I don't really have anything against Ben, I get his character and what he's supposed to represent. My favorite episode in S3 was also the Ben episode. But I kinda agree with the unhappy feeling...Devi is about to give her V-card to the one person who coined the term unfuckable nerds and bullied her with that. Just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

  • @mbanerjee5889
    @mbanerjee5889 Рік тому +54

    This was the best season so far. I think the Ben centric episodes are always really well written.

  • @lilxamryn
    @lilxamryn Рік тому +44

    I loved her and Paxton sm I was so devastated when they broke up. Like I actually dropped a tear 😭💀

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +3

      😩😂

    • @estherbalogun8092
      @estherbalogun8092 Рік тому +1

      Ikr 😩

    • @GlitchyHalo
      @GlitchyHalo Рік тому +1

      I have a feeling he wanted to get back with her but had to put college first
      hopefully it pulls a mean girls where they still hang out and hopefully get together while he is in college
      he said he needed her to work on herself and I think she did just that
      sure there will be girls in college he maybe will like but I think his mistake in highschool and was about to fail because of it was he got in too many relationships if you saw how many girls he had to apologize for for ghosting and stuff

  • @aduraedosa
    @aduraedosa Рік тому +516

    For me I find it so disappointing how they handled Des’ character cos he really challenged Devi’s misconceptions about being smart and Indian. He called her out about her casual racism or how he sees her as cool, fun, smart and Indian. I think that, it was really important for her to realise that those things aren’t mutually exclusive. And his mum was so lovely and friendly on the surface. Also their relationship was so healthy, they were always so honest with each other about how they feeling or how the other person’s action made then feel. And they were so hot and their chemistry was incredible. So it was so disappointing how he just ended being a stereotype of being a brown mummy’s boy, like they were doing so well. Also it’s so predictable, that Mindy just ruined it for a white guy 💀. Like CMON

    • @nightsaver6535
      @nightsaver6535 Рік тому +16

      FOREAL ONG

    • @lolnoob5015
      @lolnoob5015 Рік тому +6

      Now does not disobeying your parents when they make a correct judgement lead to you being a mommy’s boy?

    • @maryamm.9
      @maryamm.9 Рік тому +89

      a lot of (south) Asians are family oriented people, he wasn't even a mommy's boy. he just didn't want to pick between his mom and a high school girlfriend? he stood up for Devi when his mom was confronted and everything, he also started distancing himself because he didn't want to hurt her. logically if you had to pick between your caregiver/parent who you love or your partner as a teenager, chances are you're going to pick your caregiver? i liked them too, but it's unfair to call him a stereotype like that.

    • @moveslikeninja1
      @moveslikeninja1 Рік тому +79

      but like des's actions are very understandable from a cultural viewpoint... it's realistic idk
      like yeah des can be cool and smart as an indian boy. but he can also value his mom's word over everything too, people are just multifaceted like that. some stereotypes ring true and others dont.

    • @JanWest24
      @JanWest24 Рік тому +54

      I see your point but I think we weren't meant to perceive him as a bad person but to be disappointed because he could have been a good fit but ultimately it's the stigma around mental health in South Asian communities that broke them up. Rhya is just a mouthpiece but I'm Middleeastern and I've seen family members having this exact mentality, in fact even using the same words. Ben and Paxton aren't better than Des either, but we've had 3 seasons to see them progress and slowly make strives to become better. We weren't going to get that with Des who was only in the show for a few episodes. His character could come off as stereotypical but I think they've added enough layers not to come off that way, not to mention how many South Asian women have commented that this is actually a pretty accurate depiction. You can love your culture and still be critical of it's worst aspects.

  • @amaliavillarreal1311
    @amaliavillarreal1311 Рік тому +111

    For me it was the best season so far. I love this show and I’m gonna miss the characters when it ends because I feel something toward them, even secundaria characters. I saw a big development in the main characters and I got pretty satisfied with this season.

    • @alexare6655
      @alexare6655 Рік тому +2

      Worst season for me. Second season was the best.

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +4

      This season has definitely been a treat with all of the character growth.

  • @muzziemulti
    @muzziemulti Рік тому +41

    As a brown girl Des really triggered me like when Devi tossed that coffee in his face i was so fckn happy

  • @StylusShade
    @StylusShade Рік тому +58

    I am supremely worried about that art girl Ben was talking to. I hope it doesn't turn into some big drama between them and Devi, and I don't want to stop liking Ben.

  • @StanChunghaOrGoHome
    @StanChunghaOrGoHome Рік тому +34

    This season was the best for me. It actually felt like the writers listened to the audience’s criticisms.

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +3

      Right?! I swear they’ve watched my videos lol

  • @personperson6519
    @personperson6519 Рік тому +73

    I think that ben asking out that art girl was really out of nowhere because first he made fun of her for liking art than he needed tutoring and she showed him how art works so he is suddenley became a new person and likes her even tho they have no chemistry

    • @mistress.villaina7591
      @mistress.villaina7591 Рік тому +7

      the angle there was that she challenged his misconceptions and opened his mind to something new

    • @personperson6519
      @personperson6519 Рік тому +2

      @@mistress.villaina7591 yeah but it happend Like in 4 seconds if it was his story ark it would be better

    • @mistress.villaina7591
      @mistress.villaina7591 Рік тому

      @@personperson6519 I agree there could have been more time spent on that

    • @magma4168
      @magma4168 Рік тому

      It was her asking him out, so it makes more sense that he was flattered and "yeah, why not". But yeah, here comes a new forced rival for Devi *eyeroll*

  • @ascha730
    @ascha730 Рік тому +23

    She's finally no longer unlikeable

  • @pablochico3507
    @pablochico3507 Рік тому +25

    Usually I can’t stand Devi, I was barley able to stand her in seasons 1 and 2. But she had so much character development this season, becoming a better person, focusing more on herself and healing, Des was also my favorite of the 3 boys for Devi (I’m rlly sad his mom had to ruin everything tho) she was finally able to move on and have somewhat true closure with the grief of losing her father. No longer being stuck in 1 place after her father died, being able to be truly happy for once.

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому

      I loved this season for Devi. Really coming into her own.

  • @AlaCooper
    @AlaCooper Рік тому +59

    Apparently showrunners said we'll be getting Paxton as much as we always have and that the love triangle will continue. I'm interested to see why he'll still be around when we all expect him to be in AZ

    • @Cliohna
      @Cliohna Рік тому +14

      Well there are possibilities.
      1) we get another Paxton episode (I mean S1E6 and S3E6 were Ben's)
      2) he will be visiting home in at least one episode (like he said to Trent that he will come back to visit a lot)
      3) as suggested by him Devi visits him in Phoenix (probably with the gang) in one episode
      4) in the last episode probably everyone will be there, he is maybe on semester break
      5) the rest of the episodes he could face-time a shit ton with everyone like Prashant face-timed with Kamala in S2.
      6) or John McEnroe could 'check in on him' like he did with other characters (like with Fabiola and her family)
      But who knows.

    • @AlaCooper
      @AlaCooper Рік тому +9

      @@Cliohna There's a popular theory going around that he'll get rejected when they see the college admission video he made where he drank beer. I hope they don't screw him over like that and we get another Paxton POV episode but with Bella Hadid as his narrator

    • @askamanda6133
      @askamanda6133 Рік тому +3

      @@AlaCooper Why don’t I remember this happening? Was it a throw away line at some point? And if he’s already been accepted, they would have seen the video.

    • @askamanda6133
      @askamanda6133 Рік тому +4

      @@Cliohna I think a lot of these will happen because they’d honestly be dumb to not have him in the show a decent amount. He’s a huge draw, and how can you continue a love triangle if he’s not present? It’s like 5.5 hours drive so realistically he could technically visit home on some weekends regularly. Especially if he doesn’t have Friday classes, which happens sometimes. I hate how much I’ve thought about this. 😂

    • @AlaCooper
      @AlaCooper Рік тому +2

      @@askamanda6133 at one point while they were looking at the acceptance emails, before he opens the one from AZ University, Trent chucks him a beer and he drinks it

  • @Cliohna
    @Cliohna Рік тому +81

    Not so serious guess for season 4:
    So the actress of Margot, the art tutor, is a latina. Her character in the last episode suspiciously or not so suspiciously was mentioning her dad who was waiting for her in the car.
    There is definitely a new character in S4, played by an actor named Ivan Hernandez, which is supposedly Nalini's new love interest.
    What if that character is also Margot's dad?
    Fun times. 😝

    • @surabhideshpande5907
      @surabhideshpande5907 Рік тому +4

      You are right!!

    • @Cliohna
      @Cliohna Рік тому +2

      @@surabhideshpande5907
      I know, I was so happy when I watched it. :D

    • @Bubbles_Art
      @Bubbles_Art 7 місяців тому +1

      Wow this is an amazing guess

  • @nmoney6655
    @nmoney6655 10 місяців тому +2

    I think the baking cookies analogy is really cool to help explain to kids how babies are made

  • @vvitchuntt2983
    @vvitchuntt2983 Рік тому +87

    I’m sorry they did Aneesa dirty!! She felt more like a side character this season. I’m mad they rushed her and Fabs “relationship” but it makes sense since they were both broken. But then Fabs offscreen losing of her virginity and when Devi said “I’m gonna be the only virgin” UH GORL u forgot about Aneesa cuz her and Ben haven’t did the diddly yet so?? the show blatantly disrespected her also no one talking about how Devi boutta end up with her friends ex?? they they dating each other BECAUSE of Devi. Post ur opinions pls i wanna hear what y’all think

    • @Jessica.Shawnte
      @Jessica.Shawnte Рік тому +9

      She always been a side character

    • @Jessica.Shawnte
      @Jessica.Shawnte Рік тому

      @Gloriellee X she was they’re all side characters Devi is the only main character

    • @Jessica.Shawnte
      @Jessica.Shawnte Рік тому

      @Gloriellee X the impact was for Devis character development but I still think she deserved more

    • @astridthepastrid
      @astridthepastrid Рік тому +3

      aneesa dated ben when he was devi's ex, so you can't realyl use that argument as a reason for why devi can't date him now that he's also become aneesa's ex. esp since aneesa broke up with him.

    • @linni9807
      @linni9807 Рік тому

      @@astridthepastrid I agree 100%

  • @astrolothot182
    @astrolothot182 Рік тому +17

    also devi and des’ scenes were the only ones that felt natural idk i think the actors have more chemistry than the main boys

  • @als8892
    @als8892 Рік тому +47

    They got the oldest looking people playing high schoolers

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 Рік тому +13

      Paxton literally looks 30🤢🤮

    • @semiology.
      @semiology. Рік тому +38

      @@littleleah310 i mean his actor is 31 so yeah...

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 Рік тому

      @@semiology. ik

    • @lina-mb3ft
      @lina-mb3ft Рік тому +5

      @@littleleah310 how tf does he look 30 😭 he really doesn’t

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 Рік тому +9

      @@lina-mb3ft he does but his just handsome

  • @daaiyahgreen
    @daaiyahgreen Рік тому +10

    I was ANNOYED the girl was like "oh sure I will come with you and YOUR GF on your date" like what the hell😡

  • @Webanglikethat
    @Webanglikethat Рік тому +42

    about des: okay I have very conflicting thoughts on one side he looked like the perfect guy. he was a literal mix of ben and paxton AND he was indian which was the perfect mix yk? also I trusted his mom wtf :( it made me so sad actually. and when she was being all "she was being hysterical blah blah" he didn't stand up for her HE DID NOT STAND UP FOR HER ??? LIKE BRUH SHE IS YOUR GF WTF ARE YOU DOING. and saying devi is not worth pissing his mom?? HE DESERVED THE ICED COFFEE SPILLED OVER HIM. also I think his mom didn't like devi dating him since the beginning because she was like "I don't want to force you to accept their relationship blah blah" it was a good representation of a family that's like modern on the surface but close-minded in the inside 🗡 like yk Indian people ☹ mental health problems are still kind of a taboo for desi families and is often categorised as just crazy or fake and yk :( so it was kinda realistic. also desi guys are momma's boy cause yk 🙄🙄
    but.... I also can understand because I wouldn't want to disappoint my mom and go against her (something devi is used to)
    he basically thought devi wasn't worth it which means his feelings for her weren't as strong as he or they both thoughtI'm so sad because I hoped devi's mom would find a nice friend :(
    also about dev's mom like sure she had a point when she said he shouldn't have to carry all devi's problem but she kept calling her crazy and constantly bragged about how easy his son was (desi son moment🙄) like bitch ??

    • @serena1951
      @serena1951 Рік тому

      THIS!! South asian sons are all mama's boys.

  • @Timothyrpiano
    @Timothyrpiano Рік тому +5

    I would like to see more of Dr. Ryan in season 4. I hope we get to see more of her life outside of just being Devi’s therapist cause I feel she’s one of the most interesting characters on the show

  • @paninilist4678
    @paninilist4678 Рік тому +104

    1. I personally think that fabiola and aneesa getting together was super random? like even in the episode previously they could have at least shown them being close, maybe have them say that they were hanging out over the time since the dance, IDK something. Even after they got together we barely saw them and they were acting awkward, I personally really like aneesa and I think she is one of the few characters that I like as a person, and shes been left in the dust for no reason
    2. I also am more inclined to like paxton more than ben, tbh this show hasn't really given a love interest that I really want to root for, I knew from the beginning that it wasn't going to work with des, so I ignored it, but I really don't like ben, he reminds me so much of the guys I went to school with, she just seems so unlikeable, and even though there was character development towards the end, I don't feel like it's genuine nor do I really buy that this change will leave a lasting impact on him.

    • @flyfantasy6565
      @flyfantasy6565 Рік тому +14

      Fab and Aneesa pairing reminded me how showrunners of Glee kept pairing random people just because they have nothing to do with the characters😐

    • @chaosspy6723
      @chaosspy6723 Рік тому +1

      rebounds

  • @felienmusic
    @felienmusic Рік тому +6

    I CANNOT GET OVER THE ENDING OF THIS SEASON
    I FEEL LIKE A 16 YEAR OLD FANGIRL WRITING FANFICTION AND CRYING OVER HER OTP

  • @personperson6519
    @personperson6519 Рік тому +14

    I think the next season they should really develope fabiola and el becaus their main personality trait was that they were in relationships

    • @zuko_24568
      @zuko_24568 Рік тому +5

      Eleanor had a whole story about her stepmom and becoming an actress but yeah Fabiola needs more then just relationship storylines

    • @personperson6519
      @personperson6519 Рік тому +3

      @@zuko_24568 I know that both of them had storylines but I still feel like they deserved more

    • @zuko_24568
      @zuko_24568 Рік тому +3

      @@personperson6519 agreed! hopefully next season their characters have more to do

  • @a_viewer5386
    @a_viewer5386 Рік тому +7

    "Speaking of ending- Ben got dumped." Just the string of laughter after that kills me- just "ben got dumped lol"

  • @johannadarlenerosa
    @johannadarlenerosa Рік тому +11

    What a great analysis, I always love your videos!
    I also thought that the relationship between Devi and Paxton was a bit rushed. And you could really tell from the way Ben kept pining after her that she wasn’t going to “end up” (if you can even say that when speaking about teenagers) with Paxton. Regardless of this I loved this season, I had so much fun watching it!
    And re the whole Nalini allowing Devi to have a boyfriend story line: obviously I don’t have south-Asian immigrant parents and I hear all of you who say this was totally unrealistic, but I think on a narrative level she agreed to this because of the way Rhyah acted towards her. First there was the scene in which Nalini confided in Rhyah and Rhyah responded by essentially saying “sucks to be you, my son is great.” Later on when Rhyah said “you can’t be together because Nalini wouldn’t be comfortable with it,” it felt like Rhyah was opening up some kind of mum competitiveness by saying that it’s Nalini’s fault for being so uncool. She sort of put Nalini down, implying that she was less open-minded and more strict than Rhyah. In response to that, Nalini decided to allow the relationship. That’s my interpretation, but I might be completely wrong! :)

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +1

      Great take. I definitely think in addition to Nalini wanting to be closer/more open-minded to Devi in general, everything you said plays a huge part as well.
      Rhyah was doing the most and Nalini wasn’t having it.lol

  • @Valentine-pm3kb
    @Valentine-pm3kb Рік тому +3

    Devi/the plot in general(the constant love triangle every season) pissed me off so much this season I stopped watching the show but what i missed sounds actually refreshing for the show so all these months later this video has convinced me to pick it up again

  • @ephemeraIl
    @ephemeraIl Рік тому +4

    best season by far. i loved the ending, you really got to see her character development there. also we got our answer on who she ended up with (I was team ben so I was happy about it, although I loved her relationship with paxton. des, wasn't the best but it was alright) i loved the way she described mazes and labyrinths and how it connected to real life. and the ending with her mother, i loved seeing them grow a better bond with each other, the ending was very refreshing to see.

  • @lizzradio893
    @lizzradio893 Рік тому +13

    Great season! Best one yet! Imo I liked des at first but then idk his and his mom's true colors came out. The fact his mom made it seem like he didn't have friends was a red flag. And his mom was always too nice to devis mom. In reality this guy had tons of friends almost like his mom was dumbing down his friend situation to make devi feel more comfortable smh.
    Imo devis mom was right des mom never was her friend she used devis mom as an experiment only bcuz she felt pitty for devi and them for all that they went thru and devis mom read her "if what happened to us happened to you it would break your happy little fairly privileged world compared to devis and the moms but we are doing just fine still greiving" ... And yeah devi def is a lot but it was super messed up especially this ex his mom was using... since when does devi grieving over her now passed away dad and her first concert or whatever since his passing since when does her freaking out seeing him like that since then since when does that mean she has MANY PROBLRMS. Plus that dude didn't even have the courage to be honest with her.
    Ppl will say what they want but des was what 16 or 17? Gonna graduate soon. Yes he is a mamas boy and he shoulda stood up for her more. Yeah ppl are family oriented or whatever. But it's another to let your mom treat you like your a child and as if your not gonna graduate in a yr or less then go off to college etc.... And to talk about someone that way when devi lost her dad. He shoulda spoke up then . Also the fact des cared more about his friend when his friend was hitting things in devis house. Yeah we all go thru stuff but if your gonna do that and hit property that's not yours .. you can just go back to your house. I do give props tho for him caring about his friends too but idk it's just the fact he was willing to drop devi in a instant all for his friends or mom. Not saying he should choose it's just common if your dating someone the least you could do is at least make sure they matter too. Yeah it's his mom ofc but let's be real he shoulda had a chat with his mom that he's growing up and in less than a year he'll be off to college after graduating and that she can't control who he dates and that she's being selective and she's being hypocritical cuz had devi not had the issues she had like loosing a parent/still greiving/seeing her passed away dad I bet his mom would let them date. It just put a bad taste in my mouth when his mom wea*onizedd devi greiving her dad. Doesn't make someone crazyzy for greiving. Next!

  • @celeste9949
    @celeste9949 Рік тому +1

    I was waiting for you to do commentary on this!! AHH thank you for this, your videos are so entertaining. 🐇

  • @Lena-bu6zn
    @Lena-bu6zn Рік тому +8

    i think devi and ben are by far a better pair than devi and paxton, i think ben is better for devi. when devi is with paxton she’s insecure, jealous, and flies off the rails often. however, when she’s with ben she seems more comfortable and secure. when devi describes why she wants to be with paxton on screen she normally just talks about his body and features but she talks about ben’s personality and what he’s done for her.

  • @pennyobailey
    @pennyobailey Рік тому +1

    Ever since I finished season 3 I’ve been waiting for your video on it

  • @katelync7178
    @katelync7178 Рік тому +2

    you are so freaking underrated??? i look forward to your videos and im so excited to see you grow!!

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому

      Thanks love. I really appreciate that 💕

  • @Iheartdeft0nes
    @Iheartdeft0nes Рік тому +2

    I just finished this today- perfect timing wow

  • @iwatchytwhenimbored1636
    @iwatchytwhenimbored1636 5 місяців тому

    i love your videos sm. i like how you respectfully share your views and let your personality shine through. i could binge watch all of them and not get bored

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much!!! I’m glad you’re enjoying the channel 💕🐇

  • @alexajenkins45
    @alexajenkins45 Рік тому

    Your videos are honestly more entertaining than the movie/show!!!! Ive loved this channel since the first video you posted. Keep going!!!💗

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому

      Thanks love 💕 and thanks for the continued support.

  • @SharkWitchMeruna
    @SharkWitchMeruna Рік тому +1

    I watched this show directly after a breakup and it was just what the doctor ordered. I liked it!

  • @lyelyn9314
    @lyelyn9314 Рік тому +31

    Still mad about them giving paxton and devi’s relationship 2 seconds

    • @askamanda6133
      @askamanda6133 Рік тому +10

      I legit feel robbed, unless they end up together at the end of Season 4. (Almost) all will be forgiven.

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +6

      Yes they played us on that one. Lol

  • @alina-nd9qj
    @alina-nd9qj Рік тому +5

    i really liked nalani this season, great character development

  • @netflixreviews5422
    @netflixreviews5422 Рік тому +2

    I love Paxton for keeping it real w Devi she really needed to hear it

  • @bentleylye8557
    @bentleylye8557 Рік тому +31

    i will never forgive the fact that devi and des didn’t end up together in the end. i really don’t think he did anything wrong and it’s such a boring stereotype of “brown boy being a momma’s boy” all that to go back to a white boy. i wish at the end of this season, she learnt to just be by herself and find a new appreciation for her culture.
    let me PLEASE have devi make up with des and somehow wins rhyah’s approval by just opening up her eyes about it. maybe by having des giving his mom a wake up call because i really really did like des and devi’s chemistry and relationship.

    • @user-gu3bd8mg1w
      @user-gu3bd8mg1w Рік тому

      Why does she have to "win" ryah's approval
      What's wrong with a white guy
      U guys are all racists
      It's not about race it's about who is better for Devi

    • @user-gu3bd8mg1w
      @user-gu3bd8mg1w Рік тому +15

      Most brown/asian guys are momma's boys and it's realistic not a stereotype
      He is a 17yo kid
      Do u expect him to choose a girl he knows from 5months or his primary care giver

    • @bentleylye8557
      @bentleylye8557 Рік тому

      @@user-gu3bd8mg1w ik. i’m asian HAHAHAH but i feel like as a 17y.o you’d see your relationship as the love of your life. especially because their chemistry in the show was so good

    • @bentleylye8557
      @bentleylye8557 Рік тому

      @@user-gu3bd8mg1w girl calm it. it’s not that deep and you SAW ben and devi’s relationship tgt and it was boring. des showed devi that being brown isn’t just about being a nerd and actually opened her eyes to her internalized racism. i also said she could win rhyah’s approval OR des could make rhyah realize how rude she was and apologize to nalini and devi

    • @bentleylye8557
      @bentleylye8557 Рік тому +2

      @@user-gu3bd8mg1w and also have you not realized that EVERY teen show atm always ends up with a white love interest. it’s always the “almost POC love interest” trope. i’m just tired of seeing that to be in a happy relationship, you have to end up with a white person.

  • @yesha3306
    @yesha3306 Рік тому +11

    That could have seriously upgraded her character

  • @nmoney6655
    @nmoney6655 7 місяців тому +1

    TBH: I half expected Devi to be in her room playing Good 4 you on blast

  • @morganf1968
    @morganf1968 Рік тому +2

    Cant wait for your video on s4🤪

  • @netflixreviews5422
    @netflixreviews5422 Рік тому

    I love this review so much !!🤎

  • @fridaweasly8965
    @fridaweasly8965 Рік тому +42

    I acknowledge the dislike of Ben Gross, but I thanks to Andy Samberg being his narrator I like him. I'm sorry 🥺

  • @lovergurl2179
    @lovergurl2179 Рік тому +1

    never been this early :0 also i gotta give it to devi she barely messed up this season

  • @NWxoxo
    @NWxoxo Рік тому

    A week left till s4 and I can't waitttt

  • @bluegamerboy6898
    @bluegamerboy6898 11 місяців тому +1

    the break up scene is so moving for me. seeing devi cry and eventually become happy again was a perfect depiction. really loved this scene 12:14

  • @goalsstudios2757
    @goalsstudios2757 Рік тому +3

    at the end of the highway paxton used to be devi's high school dream and at some point Devi started to be Ben's last year dream

  • @lanternamusic
    @lanternamusic 11 місяців тому

    When you gonna do season 4????!!!! Love you, love this!!

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  11 місяців тому +1

      Love you back! 💕… posted season 4 yesterday!

  • @nightsaver6535
    @nightsaver6535 Рік тому +6

    I was on the edge of my seat watching the ending scene..if u don't get it than just think bro but....I hope Ben isn't gonna turn into a player and tell the art girl the truth instead of leading her on and telling her later on..but I heard that they already filmed season 4 it just has to be released I'm so excited to watch the last and final season in some months

  • @pewqn9489
    @pewqn9489 Рік тому

    The scene where des walked in bro I always rewatch that scene and AHHHHH

  • @VenusianLissette
    @VenusianLissette Рік тому +4

    I love to see the paid promotion!!! It’s what you deserve🔥🔥🔥

  • @Esmeyippie
    @Esmeyippie Рік тому +1

    Man, was this season SUCH a breather. Finally, do we not need to deal with 80% of the problems in a season being caused by Devil-Devi because she actually takes the time to think for herself,a MONUMENTAL moment in her development for real.

  • @livewithmanon6443
    @livewithmanon6443 Рік тому +40

    I think/hope Devi and Paxton are endgame, she challenges him (like he said in his speech) and I think he can teach her how to handle her emotions and also to love herself.
    I think Ben and Devi aren't that great only like frenemies (all tough I do think the free boink pass is cute and I love that) but I think that art girl can make sure Ben won't get filled up with 💩 again.

  • @cloudchamois7004
    @cloudchamois7004 Рік тому

    the blush bunny just works

  • @chuuyaism1653
    @chuuyaism1653 Рік тому +1

    honestly my favourite season so far and I'd been on the Bevi (i think that's the ship name for Ben and Devi) train since the first season so the ending was the cherry on top of a great season.
    We still had some trademark Crazy Devi moments but it was more so her being a teenager than a big problem in everyone she interacts with's life and Paxton's development was great (also his and Ben's blooming bromance is fantastic).
    I liked that Aneesa finally stood up for herself. I like Aneesa and while I'll always ship Devi and Ben, Aneesa deserved better and I'm happy that she realised Fab wasn't the one for her either and encouraged her to go for Addison WHICH, might i add, was a nice storyline for Fab.
    Now the main topic: Des. He was nice and i loved him and Devi as a couple but he was honestly too much of a mama's boy. As a comment stated, South Asian families ARE very family oriented (i would know i am also indian) most kids end up dating behind their parents' backs (again, i would know im literally doing it rn) so if Des really did like Devi in my opinion he would have gone the extra mile and continued a secret relationship with her so. yeah.

  • @Merwasgherazweenabzaaf1366
    @Merwasgherazweenabzaaf1366 Рік тому +4

    Can you do a netflix tv shows /movies recommendations video pleasseee💗
    Ps i really love your reviews keep it up

  • @plursocks
    @plursocks Рік тому +3

    It's interesting hearing about this after watching Velma and seeing that we have the similar trends of:
    -ptsd caused by dead/absent parent
    -second female lead is asian, queer, and adopted, her birth parent abandons her a second time after seeking them out, and she ends up kind of hooking up with a female Indian character, who it ultimately doesn't really work out with
    -every character wants to date the Indian female lead
    -indian female lead is unpopular but also kind of unlikeable so we don't really have a whole lot of sympathy for her with that

  • @irene6187
    @irene6187 Рік тому +2

    This is some real mc plot armour for all these guys to be into her despite her being a walking red flag.

  • @Jessica.Shawnte
    @Jessica.Shawnte Рік тому +21

    I like Paxton but Devi is the most comfortable with Ben

  • @sarahrosemg
    @sarahrosemg Рік тому

    Hey Blush!! ❤️

  • @breeb2638
    @breeb2638 Рік тому +4

    My prediction is they will write off Aneesa. She wasnt in the last two episodes and not in the finale at all. Girl was just a plot device. But I would like to see more of Addison next season for some NB representation

  • @netflixreviews5422
    @netflixreviews5422 Рік тому

    You so funny, you was saying everything I was thinking 🤣

  • @princessmanitari4993
    @princessmanitari4993 Рік тому +5

    Soo i genuinely thought season 3 was the last one!! So i'm just gonna give my idea of what could happen after the finale; what if that ben thing was a one-timer? Let's be honest, devi was really building towards that moment, she had been wanting to do it for 3 seasons now. So to me, it feels like she got that checked off, and is now on her way to more healing.

  • @polevaultgirl33
    @polevaultgirl33 7 місяців тому +1

    The problem with Netflix shows is they’re only 10 episodes long. It leaves very little room for development- characters get together and break up in the span of a 30 min episode

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  7 місяців тому

      Very true. 20+ episode seasons are such a thing of the past but allowed time for development.

  • @rekikdemesewtadese6459
    @rekikdemesewtadese6459 Рік тому

    You can watch Friends on the German Netflix. I don‘t know for how much longer ,but you still can (if it helps)😊

  • @flyfantasy6565
    @flyfantasy6565 Рік тому +5

    I wouldn't call Ben Jacob and Paxton Edward. For me it's the opposite. Paxton is the kinda character to whom MC has instant crushes on based off of hotness. Usually these tropes be like 'well, they get to know each other, he seem to finally like her back, bbbbut she's now into this nerd, whom she never expected to like'. This happened in While you were sleeping, with Sandra Bullock, new Nina Dobrev's Christmas romcom(ironically Darren Barnet played that guy too). I honestly wished they'd reverse this trope and she'd choose hot guy/real Jacob, and showed he actually HAS layers to him. They did it, sorta. But not really 😂

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +2

      Lol I see what you mean. But I labeled it that way because Edward is the guy that Bella longed for as Devi longed for Paxton.

    • @flyfantasy6565
      @flyfantasy6565 Рік тому

      @@TheBlushBunny yeah makes sense )

  • @rebekahramos4497
    @rebekahramos4497 Рік тому +1

    Finally a black girl commentary channel I enjoy🥹

  • @saffyesperas2278
    @saffyesperas2278 Рік тому +2

    They say Velma is worse than this, but I have not seen any of these shows.

  • @Jessica.Shawnte
    @Jessica.Shawnte Рік тому +5

    Even tho what Paxton said was true but that was some manipulative shit he literally gave her a reason to be insecure all she said was apologize cuz what he did was trash she never said become bestie with the girl again

  • @bowserjr.7220
    @bowserjr.7220 Рік тому +4

    You should review the show Grown-ish

  • @BILLIEisnotreal
    @BILLIEisnotreal Рік тому

    they’re coming out with a season 4 (final season) June 8th!!!

  • @jinx724
    @jinx724 Рік тому +2

    I think Devi needed to stay single BUT I think the relationship she had with Nirdesh as well as the rejection from the mother was needed. Life isn't fair and I KNEW his mom wasn't gonna go for it. You can't deny in real life if you had a kid and the kid had so much going on you would want your child to bring them home. I'm sorry but I wouldn't, I think that's an important lesson, you have to heal fully, love yourself before trying to love someone else. You can't drag ppl into your drama, it will not work. I think the mom was harsh, I think she would have talked to dev then talked to everyone else about it.

  • @martinaberingar7045
    @martinaberingar7045 Рік тому

    What you said at the end how you wanted to see an episode where Devi’s Dad was alive I do agree but, I want it to be something positive that comes out of it like maybe instead of her wishing her dad was alive at the end of season 4 it’s like her finally like genuinely having self-growth.

  • @nastepnastacjapolemokotows7786

    not rel, i love trent, hes exactly like all stoned friends of my brother and the vibe hits hard

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 Рік тому

    7:46 I knew that was born from true events. 😭🤗

  • @limnaee1812
    @limnaee1812 Рік тому

    This season was way better. Finally character developments

  • @BILLIEisnotreal
    @BILLIEisnotreal Рік тому +2

    SEASON FOUR IS OUT NOW

  • @itsmefm
    @itsmefm Рік тому +7

    I felt you when you said your bank account has been going through a hard time 😭😭
    I hate how there are just so many places to stream and all those subscriptions add up smhh
    Also, I am currently subscribed to Surfshark until the end of September, how long does your deal last??? I hope i can use your link

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +1

      It is a struggle out here ok! Lol we all going through it. But I do believe it will still be active. Definitely check back.

    • @itsmefm
      @itsmefm Рік тому +1

      @@TheBlushBunny alright, thank you so much!!

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  Рік тому +1

      Hey! So I actually reached out to the atlas representative to make sure. She said this deal ends august 31st. I’m not sure if that means my link will expire all together or what. But she suggested just to sign up now and 1 of your 3 free months would just overlap with your current subscription.

    • @itsmefm
      @itsmefm Рік тому

      @@TheBlushBunny oh okay! Thank you for clarifying, it will only overlap for a day so that's not too bad lol

  • @GabyFRAsmr
    @GabyFRAsmr Рік тому +1

    20:38 Update She Picked Ben in season 4

  • @thatsplatcat861
    @thatsplatcat861 Рік тому

    Season 4 is outttt

  • @romaanaali3775
    @romaanaali3775 Рік тому

    The x-men school for the gifted 😂

  • @paccinocappaccino
    @paccinocappaccino Рік тому

    Has my Netflix been taken away from me by my sister because of Netflix new updates so I can't see this show 🙃 ?
    Yes !!!!!! 😢 😭 😿 😢 😭
    Am I watching this entire video and laughing at your FABULOUS comedic timing. YES YES I AM ALSO YOU BETTER PUT THE GLEE VIDEO OUT.

  • @msjigglypuff91
    @msjigglypuff91 Рік тому +11

    Devi annoyed me to no end. I liked Paxton a lot and liked the angle they took of the nerd, Devi being the one to cheat on him and do him wrong when he genuinely liked her.
    I liked Des’ mom and was so upset when she did what he did, buuuut I totally saw it coming. Devi IS a lot (and kind of a bad person sometimes) and since they are Indian, I completely expected Des mom to not approve.

  • @GabyFRAsmr
    @GabyFRAsmr Рік тому +1

    Season 4 is out can you please give us a honest opinion?

  • @user-mm3cq9wg2q
    @user-mm3cq9wg2q 7 місяців тому

    7:45 gurl... so sorry! sam thing happened w/ me 2! ❤ u!!

    • @TheBlushBunny
      @TheBlushBunny  7 місяців тому

      It’s a shame smh. Sending you love 💗