Let's Talk About Sex with my Indian Grandma!

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  • Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
  • What is sex? Sex before marriage? Consent? Pleasure? Contraception? We discuss all of this and more on afternoons with Aaji 💜💗 drop any questions below! Subscribe here: / avantimusicofficial
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  • @avantinagral
    @avantinagral  3 роки тому +869

    What’s your favorite Aaji catchphrase?

    • @user-oy2zw5gz6z
      @user-oy2zw5gz6z 3 роки тому +66

      OuTcOme iS baBy

    • @ayushjasani4176
      @ayushjasani4176 3 роки тому +41

      Avanti Nagral: Aaji tell me something about sex?
      Her Aaji: ...Telling about sex honestly
      MEANWHILE ME
      Me to Aaji: Aaji Tell me something about sex?
      My Aaji: Sharam nahi aati tujhe, aise baat karte hue(slaps.......slaps)
      😂😂😂

    • @AditiJahagirdar
      @AditiJahagirdar 3 роки тому +21

      Koi aaya paya....no!!😂🤣

    • @nehasingal4403
      @nehasingal4403 3 роки тому +21

      The two C's of Aaji about sex.. consent and consequence.

    • @ncttboo9106
      @ncttboo9106 3 роки тому +2

      @@user-oy2zw5gz6z 😭😭✋

  • @twistedtaboo8063
    @twistedtaboo8063 3 роки тому +1670

    Ajji is more progressive & open-minded than a lot of aunties (her next generation). It's clearly her education & awareness. Bless her.

  • @INFERNALCARD
    @INFERNALCARD 3 роки тому +1581

    "Mostly it's for pleasure, but outcome is baby"
    - grandma 2021

  • @s_sanjh
    @s_sanjh 3 роки тому +678

    She is so open minded because she is a doctor, because she is so highly educated.

    • @RADHRADHU
      @RADHRADHU 3 роки тому +11

      Do education has anything to do with feeling -, do you know this modern education don't teach anything about this in schools -, so what education has to do with sex - its family and purely family is responsible to teach sex to family.members without any lab facility - we have a great book called thirukural which has a sex section in its 1000 odd slokas but in schools they don't prescribe that portion of this great work which deal with sex its called kamathu pall - meaning kama essence

    • @parthjani8383
      @parthjani8383 3 роки тому

      Bgm name

    • @s_sanjh
      @s_sanjh 3 роки тому +7

      @@RADHRADHU she is not a school student that you're saying this. What you're saying suits a school student, they deffo don't teach all these in schools.
      And Education definitely has got to do with open or narrow mentality. Once you're stuck in household chores or whatever, the people will only accept the things they've known for so long and can't accept change so easily. (Say for example my grandma herself)
      On the other hand, once you go out, work somewhere you meet new and different people and definitely get a chance to expand what you knew . Just see her aaji is still accepting changes and learning new things like Instagram, social media etc because she's open to that change.
      So all I was saying was about the attitude and not the knowledge!

    • @andrewhaywood3853
      @andrewhaywood3853 2 роки тому

      She’s open minded in your opinion? Wow!

    • @zeenathkausar1610
      @zeenathkausar1610 Рік тому +1

      She was president of FPCI also

  • @rocklee900
    @rocklee900 3 роки тому +168

    I really like how ajjis Marathi comes out in between sentences, I find it really cute!

  • @khushiarora1691
    @khushiarora1691 3 роки тому +510

    She is more understandable than our parents.....we should proud on her❤️

    • @idontcarei
      @idontcarei 3 роки тому +7

      LEARN ENGLISH ..ONLY INDIANS LIKE U DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE ...ABE DHAKKAN ..EVEN AMERICAN WOMEN WONT DO THIS IN PUBLIC ...THIS IS NOT MODERNISM .....

    • @khushiarora1691
      @khushiarora1691 3 роки тому +7

      @@idontcarei go and educate yourself

    • @parthjani8383
      @parthjani8383 3 роки тому

      Bgm name?

    • @landmarkrealtors3278
      @landmarkrealtors3278 2 роки тому +2

      After all she was the President of Planning Commission of our Country🇮🇳✌! Really proud on her ❤🙏

  • @vibhamaheshwari4836
    @vibhamaheshwari4836 3 роки тому +88

    Aaji is very educated , smart and she is expressing her thoughts so well 🙏 good for parents to send this video to their daughter

  • @alcinnovations
    @alcinnovations 3 роки тому +402

    The "old lady" can very easily become a millionaire on UA-cam if she starts her own channel. She has a rare combination of wisdom, education and a captivating personality.

    • @powergirl4736
      @powergirl4736 3 роки тому +3

      I absolutely agree

    • @shilpavijay1560
      @shilpavijay1560 3 роки тому +2

      True

    • @anilpawar9666
      @anilpawar9666 3 роки тому +3

      Very lovable ,soft spoken,sofisticated,knowledgeable personality.Family Planing Association of India is lucky to have a personality at the spearhead.
      AAJJI❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @newmorning4282
      @newmorning4282 3 роки тому +1

      Agree

    • @parthjani8383
      @parthjani8383 3 роки тому

      Bgm name

  • @sandeshgarg9933
    @sandeshgarg9933 3 роки тому +176

    Last time I tried to talked to my dadi..she told me ek pari ki kahani ..Lolz🤪😝

  • @aryangarg3719
    @aryangarg3719 3 роки тому +1691

    Coming from a family of Doctor's and medical professionals , My family has never treated sex like a taboo topic and I am so happy to see your Aaji doing the same .
    Kudos to you and Aaji for this amazing video !

    • @syedinayathterrorist1418
      @syedinayathterrorist1418 3 роки тому +24

      I come from a family of priests and nuns and we never treated sex like a taboo subject either

    • @avengersendgame2433
      @avengersendgame2433 3 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @RRWW599
      @RRWW599 3 роки тому +4

      Sex is not a Taboo subject... Rather it is a subject related to ones private parts and private feelings. Sex is an act or a process (could be explained by different point of views) which relates private parts that is why people dont want to talk about publicly. It is also similar to talk about anus, how many of you would like to talk about your own anus or the poos your anus pushed out in the morning?? None of u gonna describe the colour, type, small and frequency of stools. Do u? But, in that case we will not come to discuss about anus or stool but will feel great or modern talking about sex... Is not it? Actually, that is tagged as taboo is the SHYNESS. The more shyness will be there in the soft gender the greater will be the pleasure in sex and marrital life. If we are not able to show our private parts, or describe it publicly, even if we are educated, then those who are not much educated how can they talk about sex or sex related subjects????? It is easy criticize one sidedly, but you have to think in that manner also where you are also fail.... In USA, husband wife go open in bikinis publicly, are you able to do that publicly?? In foreign countries there goes sun bath where every man and woman of a group runs solar therapy being fully naked before themselves, are you able to do that???? In modern arts naked girl or woman stands publicly where an artist draws her with full shades of her every curves & denches, will any of so called modern men or women be able to do that???? So, when a shy men or women maintain & hide her private parts to private matters, it is many a time described critically and mocked, in the same manner I can also mocked at you (modern people) if you fail to do or discuss those points mentioned earlier.....Should Got that....

    • @parthjani8383
      @parthjani8383 3 роки тому +2

      Bgm name please

  • @chandranilchatterjee9896
    @chandranilchatterjee9896 2 роки тому +8

    Even at this age she is answering the questions that too in an expressive way. She is like a powerhouse of knowledge and wisdom.

  • @darshikaful
    @darshikaful 3 роки тому +975

    Your aaji is one of the most progressive woman I have come across of her age. And also so adorable and articulate. Great content!

    • @dinukalakmal261
      @dinukalakmal261 3 роки тому +1

      Niyama sex math hare asi oyage puke arenna

    • @manas142
      @manas142 3 роки тому +5

      I think the present gen should understand (and take it for granted to some extent) that, they may be ahead in tech/science, but the older gen was and is way ahead in human relations and way of life.

    • @hulkdhiraj
      @hulkdhiraj 3 роки тому

      Do you mean AEEJJII? 😛

    • @parthjani8383
      @parthjani8383 3 роки тому

      Bgm name

    • @udayapradhan3652
      @udayapradhan3652 3 роки тому

      Adorable & articulate is the right word for aaji

  • @nalvanasi
    @nalvanasi 3 роки тому +9

    OMG she's the most open grandma I've ever seen ngl

  • @user-oy2zw5gz6z
    @user-oy2zw5gz6z 3 роки тому +389

    Can aji adopt me Avanti ? It seems like I am exaggerating I want to grow old like her ❤️

  • @pgamer8851
    @pgamer8851 3 роки тому +20

    Her mind is more open minded and has higher IQ than 99% of our adults

    • @AminXD10
      @AminXD10 11 місяців тому

      She's spot on

  • @sejalgujrathi4200
    @sejalgujrathi4200 3 роки тому +467

    Many teenagers are committing the mistake of thinking only about SEX.
    I'm a teenager too but I don't think about it at all. You have to respect this topic and also the other gender. Guys think about it a lot which makes them stare at girl's s body which further makes girl's parents to put restrictions on them.😔

    • @Jenny-mo1be
      @Jenny-mo1be 3 роки тому +69

      Exactly ! Sex is just a part of your life not the purpose of your life.

    • @WhatsReal673
      @WhatsReal673 3 роки тому +29

      Yup...but boys dont always think about it but ya we are visual beings...
      But we don't have any wrong thinking behind it..
      We just see and forget it...

    • @WhatsReal673
      @WhatsReal673 3 роки тому +21

      @@Jenny-mo1be very true...but some people make it their priority which will further destroy their love life and career.

    • @Jenny-mo1be
      @Jenny-mo1be 3 роки тому +8

      @@WhatsReal673 Sad truth ! :/

    • @vanshbhondekar8126
      @vanshbhondekar8126 3 роки тому +2

      @@Jenny-mo1be abey toh kya world mey ghoshit karna padta kya

  • @dakshayjakhia6291
    @dakshayjakhia6291 3 роки тому +34

    One big like 👍 for आजी। she rocks.

  • @vanshikagoyal1307
    @vanshikagoyal1307 3 роки тому +170

    your aaji is just damn amazinggg...the way she talks about things shows that she knows what she is saying...She is so modern in her thoughts..❤️

    • @udayapradhan3652
      @udayapradhan3652 3 роки тому

      Unbelievable...down to earth... Respectively shows our indian culture...

  • @sundarrajan9886
    @sundarrajan9886 3 роки тому +21

    "If you do not seek pleasure, you will not even know pain."- Nisargadata Maharaj, Maharatra SAINT known all over the world.

  • @ncttboo9106
    @ncttboo9106 3 роки тому +256

    "anything excess is bad" thank you avanti for the queen sticker on aaji when she said that😌

  • @gurumurthykrishnan
    @gurumurthykrishnan 3 роки тому +7

    एक एक शब्द इतने मूल्यवान है की इनको क्या बोले। समाज में कितना कुछ हो रहा है फिर भी समाज में कैसे रहे ये सुनकर बोहोत अच्छा लगा। जय महादेवा।

  • @anushkabhoi
    @anushkabhoi 3 роки тому +115

    yess we want a video on women's health and periods and all. With aaji it is all fun to learn ♥

    • @vanshbhondekar8126
      @vanshbhondekar8126 3 роки тому +1

      Boldena womens safety pe self defense video banale😂😂😂😂😂😂....it would be helpful

    • @rabisaha3778
      @rabisaha3778 2 роки тому

      Hiii mam I'm open minded

  • @thelegendarygamer3804
    @thelegendarygamer3804 3 роки тому +10

    Hats off To ajji she's such a progressive and broad minded woman

  • @samriddhigupta100
    @samriddhigupta100 3 роки тому +39

    I want to be friends with Avanti so badly she is such a humble person 😭😭😭❤️

  • @ashishchandanshiv190
    @ashishchandanshiv190 3 роки тому +23

    She has a lovely smile and laugh..😍
    Being open-minded, thoughtful and everything once again saving the need of education is must in our nation.

  • @chiraggosswami
    @chiraggosswami 3 роки тому +120

    Please Avanti di make a video on periods because being a boy, it is not a topic with which we are being familiar cause no one basically feels the need to tell it to us. But Gen Z boys definitely thinks that it is a topic to be known to us, cause we should know about the process with which our sister, mothers, girlfriends, grandmothers, and society women go through!
    It's a topic we the boys need to understand!
    It's a topic that also should be discussed openly with us, that's what I feel!
    Men should be aware of what a girl really goes through in order to help him, or I would say to be in her service whenever she needs!
    And I really would like to Thank you and our most favourite Aaji! The bonding between you two is magical and it's a epitome of the relationship Gen Z should have with their Grandparents, you have been setting the goals high di!
    And Thank you for raising every social topic that should have been discussed from back then, but atleast you started acting towards that Di!
    We all are ever grateful to you and your family 💞 for providing us with a Di like you!!
    Thank you so so so so much ❤️❤️❤️💝

    • @fatmapathan8695
      @fatmapathan8695 3 роки тому +4

      I am impressed bc you are not a quintessential fella to despise that topic

    • @PullthaleverKronk
      @PullthaleverKronk 3 роки тому +2

      You’re a sweet boy Chirag

    • @chiraggosswami
      @chiraggosswami 3 роки тому +3

      @@PullthaleverKronk thank you mam and I respect this compliment a lot ❤️

    • @akankshatiwari7600
      @akankshatiwari7600 3 роки тому +5

      I'm reluctant to find a boy saying this ur parents raised u right ✅

    • @ranvijayprasad1392
      @ranvijayprasad1392 3 роки тому +2

      agree with you this topic must be discussed because majority of boys don't know xyz about menstruation cycle and i also want to in inform you that mensuration cycle stops completely in female when they cross 50 years of their age

  • @fitpulsenetwork
    @fitpulsenetwork 3 роки тому +9

    Wow, I'm really impressed to see someone that old is more open-minded than this new generation of people 👏👏

  • @ishitabindlish1950
    @ishitabindlish1950 3 роки тому +34

    tht whole thing in the starting abt humans having this thing called emotions involved while its seasonal in other animals was so well put

  • @AgnesMann
    @AgnesMann 3 роки тому +15

    Grandma has so much of wise advise- consent and consequences- so so true. Love it

  • @eshaalakshmids
    @eshaalakshmids 3 роки тому +127

    Only if everyone was as aware, open minded and thoughtful as her...Great concept and great video di!!

  • @nawangtam3634
    @nawangtam3634 3 роки тому +11

    I come across your reels and slowly and steadily I fell in love with your creativity, voice and then collecting wisdom from your own grand parents, parent, loved it. Definitely am seeing my own future to be like Ajji.... kudos to you both.... More power to her❤️

  • @anuradhaagharkar
    @anuradhaagharkar 3 роки тому +11

    Such a wonderful cross generational conversation!! God bless always!!♥️♥️

  • @THE_BFF_CHANNEL
    @THE_BFF_CHANNEL 3 роки тому +128

    Please do a video with Aaji discussing different sexualities and the lgbtqia+ community. Would love to know her view ❤️

    • @WhatsReal673
      @WhatsReal673 3 роки тому

      What is lgbtqia...🤔

    • @beactivebehappy9894
      @beactivebehappy9894 3 роки тому +14

      @@WhatsReal673 *lesbian* - female to female attraction
      *Gay* - male to male attraction
      *Transgender* - your gender is different from your birth sex i.e. you feel like another gender stuck inside the body of another sex...
      *Intersex* - you are born either with the body parts of both man and woman or none of them
      *Asexual* - you are not sexually attracted to someone but only emotionally and maybe for most of the time only emotionally
      The *'+'* is for pansexual, etc. you can search about it on Google but these were the most basic terms...

    • @Aditya-te7oo
      @Aditya-te7oo 3 роки тому +2

      @Minor Turbulence Ohhh man. 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @squirrelcovers6340
      @squirrelcovers6340 3 роки тому

      She already equated sexual attraction to the OPPOSITE sex.....So I would love to hear her view also.

  • @PranavShastryOnline
    @PranavShastryOnline 3 роки тому +21

    I just found this video on your channel and I must say that your grand mom truly surprised me and I am so happy listening to her and her opinions on the subject. I just spent the golden 11 minutes of my life seeing such thoughts come out from an elderly person! She's just awesome! She is a gem!

  • @vishalrode2472
    @vishalrode2472 3 роки тому +51

    She is so educated....thank you sis for bringing here... marathi mulgi😊

  • @shumailazuber38
    @shumailazuber38 Рік тому +5

    It's all abt education.. Education can change every person 😍😍😍and her grandma is great omg

  • @kasturisaha3468
    @kasturisaha3468 3 роки тому +26

    Yes we need a video about women's health and periods. It is really an honour to listen to aaji speak, she is so knowledgeable and also soo adorable

  • @nikhilmishra5383
    @nikhilmishra5383 3 роки тому +3

    I appreciate aji's thought on sex before marriage .....and it shouldn't be applied on girls only ....but the saddest thing is that we are losing this ideology in search of modernisation....

  • @jiyapathak8470
    @jiyapathak8470 3 роки тому +26

    I wish every grandmother to be this cool and open

  • @sanatansinha4314
    @sanatansinha4314 2 роки тому +5

    Lovely, lively and frank discussion on sex by a veteran female doctor, in an atmosphere of healthy situation covering all aspects of sexology. Also thank the lady interviewer !

  • @donbosco822
    @donbosco822 3 роки тому +36

    You know Avanti ji, as a guy from a nuclear family I lacked the company of grandparents so never got the opportunity to learn these valuable elderly teachings . Watching your videos especially with Aaji is so enlightening and educating. Words of wisdom from her gets etched in minds directly.
    You all are blessed to have such grandparents and that's why the niceness and purity which is so evident in you comes from them.
    Cheers. And thanks 🌹

  • @Al88633
    @Al88633 3 роки тому +1

    I would like to make a few points on this matter.
    1. Sex before marriage is a NO NO. Any couple having sex before marriage will find their relationship/marriage breaking up before long. Any NGO or government body can conduct a study on this matter and publish the findings. (They can survey the couples who have broken marriages or who are divorced) The consequences of marriage breakup is disastrous not only for the couple and their children, it impacts subsequent generations. (It is too lengthy to write here)
    2. Men have the prostate gland which produces the prostate fluid which carries the sperm. This is what comes out of men during intercourse. If women deny sex to men, the health of men will be affected, mentally, physically and emotionally if the person does not have seminal discharge.
    If a person wants to defecate or urinate, one can control to a certain extent. After that there will be an "explosion". This is precisely what happens when sex is denied. This is the róot cause of violence, display of anger, yelling and shouting, withdrawal etc. in men i.e. denial of sex. A lot of women do this to control their men. For this very reason men will have a higher libido than women i. e. Prostate gland.
    3. A very wise old man once told me that the sex organs of both men and women have a multitude of nerve endings that are stimulated during intercourse, which has a tremendous positive impact on both men and women physically, mentally and emotionally. Additionally body fluids that are produced during intercourse gets mixed up and this mixed up "cocktail" is absorbed by the sex organs of both men and women which relaxes the central nervous system inducing be a deep sleep which invigorates the couple when they wake up next morning. As a result they be are charged up and ready to face the problems of the next day/life. Use of condom prevents this. This is the reason why many men don't like to use condoms or get tired of it after some time.
    4. Copper-T, pills, Norplant, skin patches, injections, herbal extracts including those that are rubbed on a pregnant woman's stomach in rural areas are classified as ABORTIFACIENTS. A contraceptive is something that "prevents conception". An abortifacient terminates the pregnancy, usually within the first 14 days of conception.
    Human Life International (HLI) a pro-life group headquartered in the USA in their research has found out that any couple terminating a pregnancy either clinically or with the use of abortifacients will break up their marriage and get divorced in three years time especially if they have children. (Too lengthy matter to explain in detail here)
    I would like to suggest that FPAI or any other government agency or NGO conduct studies into the above mentioned matters and when found true, impart the findings to the public at large and bring about changes in the existing laws.

  • @Artwitholiv
    @Artwitholiv 3 роки тому +235

    Honestly speaking...you are the best influncer I have ever seen in 15 yrs of my life!!Love ya Avanti di♡.TPWK. -O

    • @brightlight3552
      @brightlight3552 3 роки тому +7

      Ayyeee!!! directioner or harrie?👀

    • @Artwitholiv
      @Artwitholiv 3 роки тому +8

      @@brightlight3552 Directioner mainly...bias is harry....♡♡. Are you a directioner too????!!!!!!

    • @brightlight3552
      @brightlight3552 3 роки тому +8

      @@Artwitholiv yesssssss I am... from the core of my heart💖

    • @Artwitholiv
      @Artwitholiv 3 роки тому +5

      @@brightlight3552 wow!!!!!!!directioners are everywhete+I love it and am so proud to be a part of this amazing family

    • @brightlight3552
      @brightlight3552 3 роки тому +5

      @@Artwitholiv yeah whenever i spot a directioner I feel so proud that i'm in this amazayn fandom, it's like my second family💖

  • @Ofcourse6868
    @Ofcourse6868 2 роки тому +8

    Knowledge and education is power. It is one's wisdom. Today ajji proved it 🙌🏽

  • @Understorm69
    @Understorm69 3 роки тому +13

    I like the fact that aunty is not being a Maverick and opposing every statement made just for the sake of the video, but she is also affirmating to those which resonate with her👍

  • @NG-dt1gf
    @NG-dt1gf 3 роки тому +18

    Being Medical person and Experienced...that was very nice🙏🙏🙏🙏
    Consent and Consequences =consideration
    Sex pleasure =result is baby
    Feeling of pleasure=outcome of pleasure
    Anything untimely is bad.
    Everything in excess is bad.
    Thank uuu ..this ife lesson is very nice🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @InsaneStudyLive
    @InsaneStudyLive 3 роки тому +80

    I'm thinking..
    I'll be this grandma in front of my grandson or granddaughter..😂
    Because I can talk this much English with my grand babies 😂

  • @rithisrik4082
    @rithisrik4082 3 роки тому +18

    Favorite catchphrase: consent, consequences, consideration👏🏻👏🏻

  • @soumya_who
    @soumya_who 3 роки тому +23

    Irrespective of anything Aaji talks about , I just love to listen to her . She's a perfect blend of all possible life experiences ...
    RESPECT 🙏🏼

  • @arrjunramesh
    @arrjunramesh 3 роки тому +4

    I love the bond you share with your granny. Cherish every moment with her. I wish my granny was here.
    This video actually put a smile on my face, thank you. :")

  • @aintatheist5787
    @aintatheist5787 3 роки тому +45

    Aaji is so adorable!!!❤️

  • @avinashpawar51
    @avinashpawar51 3 роки тому +2

    She reminds me of my grandma. Caring, careful, open minded, educated, understanding, aware and lovely ❤️

  • @aaryadeshpande5612
    @aaryadeshpande5612 3 роки тому +15

    I looovee how you are such a nice listener. I love how Aaji is such a nice talker and her marathi accent makes her much more relatable and cute

  • @paridhialhate3091
    @paridhialhate3091 3 роки тому +6

    Grandma can speak english more fluently than me

  • @angshulimaraychowdhury4868
    @angshulimaraychowdhury4868 3 роки тому +13

    being a teenager i must say most of d teens even today are said dont talk about puberty ....dont discuss dis at home nd all...but becos of dis many r doing things which is landing them in rpoblems...especially after puberty when body changes nd dat phase comes when u had to let go ur previous body many has problems cos de r not confident or de r unsure of what de r upto...d best thing what aji said is (cos its universal truth) anything in excess is worst ..anything untimely is worst....

  • @saradindudey5011
    @saradindudey5011 3 роки тому +2

    I have seen many of your videos, I liked them but this video made me subscribe your channel,, and much respect for aaji ,, she is so poised , open, practical and equally compassionate.. really love her.. best video so far

  • @Vismaya-xf5pm
    @Vismaya-xf5pm 3 роки тому +10

    Omg.... I don't think that even modern parents can speak up like our dadi ❤

  • @rameshlama
    @rameshlama 3 роки тому +1

    grand ma is absolutely correct about sex after marriage that's why she said sex is about love and restrain.relation almost discontinue if you sex before marriage.

  • @addievlogs4827
    @addievlogs4827 3 роки тому +74

    Aaji is now my role model yall, she is so open minded and a great speaker! I want to be like her!!

  • @oyshorjooyshee6507
    @oyshorjooyshee6507 3 роки тому +3

    Omg she is sooo smart, open-minded and adorable. I just loved how she explained everything.😍
    Love from Bangladesh ❤️❤️

  • @sakshipatil3474
    @sakshipatil3474 3 роки тому +18

    @netflixindia should probably make videos with you😭❤️

  • @ninadnagpure880
    @ninadnagpure880 3 роки тому +3

    The sheer wisdom dude..!!🙌🙌🙌🙌💝
    Need more of such parents in our Indian Society..!

  • @teehe7745
    @teehe7745 3 роки тому +112

    it kinda disheartened me to hear her say "to the opposite sex" :(

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral  3 роки тому +129

      It’s unfortunate that it is still the medical definition that generation is used to 🥺 we’ve been having more and more conversations though and she’s super open to understanding!

    • @youtubebklhai6726
      @youtubebklhai6726 3 роки тому +8

      That's how it is - And probably the only natural way. So in a way she is 100% right.
      But of course, with all due respect there may be some exceptions to that. Respecting them equally is one thing - But that shouldn't come at the cost of saying things as they naturally and most of the times are.

    • @craerae
      @craerae 3 роки тому +21

      Don't forget she's still from last generation. This whole lgbtq thing started with this new generation. Our future will not have this problem. As you will the parent.

    • @maitreepandey8791
      @maitreepandey8791 3 роки тому +24

      @@craerae Hi Rahul, People have been a part of the LGBTQ community for a long long time, They've always been there it's just that people are actually more informed about and open to them now and uss wajah se more and more of our LGBTQ friends have found the courage to come out but they still face a lot of backlash on a daily basis so saying that the LGBTQ community is something which has come up in this generation is a bit disrespectful but as you said, Our kids will have a better experience because we're all making a conscious effort to be more inclusive :)

    • @pizzagraphy2396
      @pizzagraphy2396 3 роки тому +4

      I don’t see why you are disheartened!? You can only be disheartened if you are of her age! Otherwise you should only be amazed!!

  • @sudhirrajkumar2432
    @sudhirrajkumar2432 2 роки тому +1

    She is highly knowledgeable and open minded! 👌👌👌🙏🙏 We respects and salutes her ..grandmaa.

  • @juhimalviya8070
    @juhimalviya8070 3 роки тому +12

    aww.. aaji is so cute! want more videos like this with aaji! lots of love to you!

  • @weebarchit
    @weebarchit 2 роки тому +3

    Meri dadi ko bhi English aati h..... But she isn't like your ajji. I have never talked her about all of that and I'll never will...!✨

  • @nehasingal4403
    @nehasingal4403 3 роки тому +14

    Finally Aaji is back..
    But it was so so much inspiring today..Also I felt so good that you guys talked about sex!!.. I am gonna share it as much as I can !!....Also we want Aaji's video on Women health and all!!!.....

  • @anilthapa5631
    @anilthapa5631 3 роки тому +2

    She is so cool.. india is moving forward. Jai Hind Jai Bharat.

  • @aryasaurkar2614
    @aryasaurkar2614 3 роки тому +17

    Omg she is so fluent in English ❤️

    • @soumyanayak7493
      @soumyanayak7493 3 роки тому +1

      She's in Harvard lol

    • @LetsFight07
      @LetsFight07 3 роки тому

      @@soumyanayak7493 Bhai mujhe laga she trying to bring a fake English accent. Am I wrong? Is she brought up In foreign?

  • @sayalib6526
    @sayalib6526 2 роки тому +9

    This Aaji is the epitome of being mordern in thoughts and being progressive in the real sense!! She is superb👏👏
    Very nicely done Avanti❤

  • @shivraj3770
    @shivraj3770 3 роки тому +17

    Grandma is so futuristic & open to any talks.

  • @satishgrover9137
    @satishgrover9137 2 роки тому +2

    हमें सामने वाले का आदर करना चाहिए।
    Consent is the most important-🙏

  • @shreyaambade6688
    @shreyaambade6688 3 роки тому +7

    Such a wonderful concept I loved this❤️ Love aaji so much✨

  • @SachinWakpaijan
    @SachinWakpaijan 3 роки тому +7

    thanks for such awareness video, now I feel like in 2050 :)

  • @yashkirtikar2466
    @yashkirtikar2466 3 роки тому +14

    Ok everything aside Ajji has a god damn good vocabulary and clearity in speech man sending alot of health , Power and happiness to her. Infact I am too small in front of her to say this😂.💜💗
    Make this read out to her if possible ❤️.

  • @exincident
    @exincident 3 роки тому +2

    You've to handle it consciously ! Its divine emotion and there is divine purpose attached to it . and Divinity even made it pleasurable for us . That's the crux of Grandma's talk in my humble opinion . Its power to create a life out of it so use it sensibly othewise one's to pay its price .

  • @samiksha930
    @samiksha930 3 роки тому +4

    Kiti bhari aaji ahet yaar❤️❤️❤️❤️i love that grandma she speaks English very nice ❤️and tya modern vicharyacha ahet ❤️🥺🥰 te best vattl

  • @udayamirapu5021
    @udayamirapu5021 2 роки тому +1

    Anything in excess is not good - Aaji. She made so much sense. God bless her.

  • @entertainment-sq8ww
    @entertainment-sq8ww 3 роки тому +4

    Aaji is a great inspiration.... Thank you Avanti for introducing her😊

  • @prcinecorp
    @prcinecorp 2 роки тому +1

    Good initiative! Instead on any गुप्त रोग type baba a well educated Aajji is far more excited to listen and learn.
    "अति तिथे माती" is completely correct and valuable lesson which we must understand being young generation.
    Happy to see Aajji Naat conversation. 😊

  • @Riyaaaaa21
    @Riyaaaaa21 3 роки тому +7

    This is so sweet and insightful!!!
    Love the energy Avanti🥰
    You are so sweet❤️

  • @KhushiSingh-xx8zr
    @KhushiSingh-xx8zr Рік тому +2

    I would really like to see aaji talk more about women's health and her thoughts on ayurveda...can you please make one more video about that please

  • @Nishamalviya00
    @Nishamalviya00 3 роки тому +8

    I like the way she gives disclaimer after evry statement "according to me" 😂❤

  • @AkshayPatidar
    @AkshayPatidar 3 роки тому +2

    Yaha mai English sahi ni bol pata hu or ye dadiji bol rahi hai😂😂😂love it❤️❤️

  • @kajalkulkarni09
    @kajalkulkarni09 3 роки тому +25

    Aaji is THE BEST! ❤ Lots of love to her! ❤❤❤

  • @shubhampatil3920
    @shubhampatil3920 3 роки тому +5

    Avanti you are so mature, sensitive, intelligent ,beautiful (by soul I mean) and courageous at the same time....it feels so good to see that there are girls like you too exist on social media platforms like UA-cam and getting attention also.....would like to meet you one day......all the best for your future!

  • @preetkaur2912
    @preetkaur2912 3 роки тому +7

    0:43 that echo effect😂😂😂

  • @Er.Praveenraj
    @Er.Praveenraj 3 роки тому +2

    Suddenly out of where UA-cam recommended but informative 👌👌

  • @jiyaduseja2499
    @jiyaduseja2499 3 роки тому +31

    your Aji is an older version of the millennials

  • @star999ize
    @star999ize 3 роки тому

    WoW! She is open-minded about "the subject" and feels free to discuss it with her granddaughter. Most people in her generation would not be even they are doctors. She articulates it well too. I like her attitude!

  • @aniemadic-themedic9576
    @aniemadic-themedic9576 3 роки тому +13

    I don't think....if anyone use to dislike this video...'cause first of all....we all know how talented and sweet miss avanti is.....and how in this age...aaji understand everything which comes in mind of every young adult humans..... it's really important to have this kind information from our adults and respect them......thank you aaji❤️❤️and thank you miss avanti....you also talk about this❤️❤️❤️love you soo much❤️🐒

    • @IshaSharma11
      @IshaSharma11 3 роки тому

      True ❤

    • @easypeasylemonsqueezy530
      @easypeasylemonsqueezy530 3 роки тому

      Idk I see some dislikes tbh the video was nice but there were a few words or line which if not explained properly could trigger someone...like when she said sex is attraction towards the opposite sex..well ppl from the lgbtq community might get triggered by it I don't think it was her intention maybe just wrong selection of words but she's a really knowledged women

    • @ranvijayprasad1392
      @ranvijayprasad1392 3 роки тому

      @@easypeasylemonsqueezy530 she is right in her way because every living creatures (animas and humas) attract towards apposite gender but LGBT community has different issues they attract or act differently so it's difficult so explain in in this ongoing video so it needs a whole video to explain about LGBT community sexual attraction and how they act

  • @KiranTamang
    @KiranTamang 2 роки тому +1

    05:09: Someone asked to Buddha - "what is poison", Buddha replied - "Anything which is excess is poison". Your sweet Aaji is absolutely correct. Amazing video, good content. By the way, I have came across your name from Harnoor(Singh in USA).

  • @adityakuppa694
    @adityakuppa694 3 роки тому +6

    Am I the only person in love with avanti’s personality😂

  • @NareshDhokia
    @NareshDhokia 3 роки тому +4

    It is basically, all about, mutual feelings, mutual respect, of each other's, feelings and emotions.
    Mutual consent.
    No room for, selfish desires at all.

  • @shruteedate2397
    @shruteedate2397 3 роки тому +5

    The long awaited afternoon with Aaji is back people! I love Aaji, 💗great respect towards her.😁

  • @CrazyBoy-up2cu
    @CrazyBoy-up2cu 3 роки тому +1

    மறக்கக்‌ கூடாத விதிகள்‌.
    1) மூளை தான்‌ உண்மையான பாலுறுப்பு.
    2) மூளையை மயக்காத வரை பெண்ணின்‌ உடலில்‌ இன்பம்‌ நிகழாது.
    3) மனைவிக்கு எது பிடித்திருக்கிறது என்பதைக்‌ கேட்டுத்‌ தெரிந்து கொண்டு செயலாற்றவும்‌.
    4) மனைவிக்குப்‌ பிடிக்காத எந்த வழி முறையிலும்‌, உச்ச கட்ட இன்பத்தை நிகழ்த்த முடியாது.
    5) கணவனின்‌ செயல்‌ மனைவிக்குப்‌ பிடிக்கவில்லையென்றால்‌, முன்‌ விளையாட்டுக்கள்‌ போதவில்லை என்று பொருள்‌.
    6) இங்கே சொல்லியுள்ள படி, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச்‌ செய்தால்‌ எப்படிப்‌ பட்ட பெண்ணின்‌ மனமும்‌ இக்கணத்திற்கு வந்து விடும்‌.
    7) ஆகவே, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச்‌ செய்ய சிக்கனம்‌ கூடாது.
    8) மனைவியின்‌ உடல்‌ எவ்வாறு எதிர்வினை ஆற்றுகிறது என்பதை விழிப்புடன்‌ கவனித்த படியே செயலாற்றவும்‌.
    9) குறிப்பாக மனைவியின்‌ சுவாசத்தைக்‌ கவனித்த படியே செயல்‌ படவும்‌.
    10) செயல்படும்‌ விதத்தை மாற்றிக்‌ கொண்டேயிருக்கக்‌ கூடாது.
    11) வேகம்‌ என்பது வியாதி. எனினும்‌, உச்ச கட்ட இன்பம்‌ நெருங்கும்‌ வேளையில்‌ வேகத்தைச்‌ சற்றே அதிகரிக்கலாம்‌.
    12) வேக மாற்றத்தை மனைவியின்‌ மூளை அறிந்து விடக்‌ கூடாது.
    13) மனைவிக்குரிய இன்பம்‌ நிகழும்‌ முன்பாக கணவன்‌ தன்னுடைய இன்பத்தைப்‌ பற்றி எண்ணிக்‌ கூடப்‌ பார்க்கக்‌ கூடாது.
    14) பகலிலேயே ஒரு குறிப்புச்‌ செயலின்‌ மூலம்‌ தெரிவித்து, மனைவியின்‌ மூளையில்‌ ஒரு எதிர்பார்ப்பை உருவாக்கி விட வேண்டும்‌.
    15) இன்பத்துய்ப்பு ஒரு தவம்‌. ஆகவே, நேர அளவுகளை நிர்ணயித்துச்‌ செயல்‌ படக்‌ கூடாது.
    16) எடுத்தவுடன்‌ முக்கிய பகுதிகளைத்‌ தொடக்‌ கூடாது. அதே போல, எடுத்தவுடன்‌ லிங்கத்தைப்‌ பயன்படுத்தக்‌ கூடாது. தனியொரு லிங்கத்தால்‌, மனைவிக்குரிய எந்த இன்பத்தையும்‌ வழங்க முடியாது.
    17) மனைவியை வற்புறுத்தி இன்பம்‌ துய்க்கக்‌ கூடாது.
    18) நாவையும்‌, விரலையும்‌ பயன்படுத்த ஒரு போதும்‌ தயங்கக்‌ கூடாது.
    19) இன்பத்‌ துய்ப்பின்‌ போது, ஆணாதிக்கவாதியாகச்‌ செயல்‌ படக்‌ கூடாது.
    20) துய்ப்பு முடிந்தவுடனே கழிவறை நோக்கி ஒட்டம்‌ பிடிக்கக்‌ கூடாது.
    21) மாதாமாதம்‌ ஈடுபடும்‌ முறைகளை மாற்றிக்‌ கொண்டே இருக்கவும்‌.
    22) படுக்கையறையில்‌ ஐந்து வயதிற்கு மேலான குழந்தை இருக்கக்‌ கூடாது.
    23) அரவம்‌ கேட்டால்‌ ஆணுக்கு இன்பம்‌ நிகழ்ந்து விடும்‌. மனைவியின்‌ இன்பம்‌ நழுவிப்‌ போய்‌ விடும்‌.
    24) நல்லுறவு இல்லாத போது தான்‌, பாலுறவு முக்கியம்‌.
    25) உச்ச கட்டப்‌ பாலின்பம்‌ உருவாக்கும்‌ அன்பையும்‌, அதிசயத்தையும்‌ வேறெந்த மந்திரத்தாலும்‌ இல்லற வாழ்வில்‌ ஏற்படுத்த முடியாது.
    26) அன்பை உருவாக்குவதில்‌ இன்பத்‌ துய்ப்பிற்கு இணை எதுவுமே இல்லை.
    27) வறண்ட பாலுறவு பகையை உருவாக்கும்‌, உயவுப்‌ பசையோடு நடை பெறும்‌ பாலுறவே அன்பை உருவாக்கும்‌.
    வாய்‌ துர்நாற்றம்‌ ஆகவே ஆகாது.
    29) படுக்கையறை பூஜையறையைப்‌ போலச்‌ சுத்தமாக இருக்க வேண்டும்‌.
    30) முன்‌ தூங்கிப்‌ பின்னெழுவதை வழக்கமாக்கிக்‌ கொள்ளக்‌ கூடாது.
    31) எண்பது வயதிலும்‌ பெண்ணுக்குரிய மதனபீட இன்பம்‌ நிகழும்‌.
    32) கணவனால்‌ எந்த வயதிலும்‌ தன்‌ மனைவியைப்‌ பால்‌ ரீதியாகத்‌ திருப்திப்‌ படுத்த முடியும்‌.
    33) தன்னம்பிக்கை உள்ள வரை லிங்கம்‌ சாயாது. லிங்கம்‌ சாயாத வரை ஆண்‌ எடுத்த காரியத்தில்‌ தோற்க மாட்டான்‌.
    34) காதற்‌ தசை நார்ப்‌ பயிற்சியை இருவரும்‌ தினம்‌ தவறாமல்‌ செய்யவும்‌.
    35) ஆழமான, நீண்ட, ஆசுவாசமான சுவாசம்‌ மிகவும்‌ முக்கியம்‌.
    36) துரித ஸ்கலிதம்‌, விந்து முந்துதல்‌ ஆகிய இரண்டின்‌ விரோதி ஆழ்ந்த சுவாசம்‌.
    36) மந்திரச்‌ சொல்லைப்‌ பயன்படுத்திய படியே இயங்கப்‌ பழகவும்‌.
    37) ஒன்றுக்கு இரண்டு முறை நுணுக்கங்களைப்‌ படித்துக்‌ கொள்ளவும்‌.
    38) பெண்ணின்‌ பால்‌ மண்டல படங்களை மனதில்‌ பதித்துக்‌ கொள்ளவும்‌.
    மது, புகையிலை போன்ற போதைப்‌ பழக்கங்களை விட்டு விட வேண்டும்‌.
    40) அதற்குச்‌ செலவளிக்கும்‌ பணத்தை, ஊட்டச்சத்து மிக்க உணவை உட்கொள்ளப்‌ பயன்‌ படுத்த வேண்டும்‌. அதன்‌ மூலம்‌ பாலாற்றலை வளர்த்துக்‌ கொள்வதோடு, கொலைகார நோய்களிருந்தும்‌ தப்பிக்கலாம்‌. ஆயுளையும்‌ அதிகரித்துக்‌ கொள்ளலாம்‌.
    41) இன்பத்‌ துய்ப்பு என்பதை ஒரு மணி நேரத்திற்கும்‌ குறைவாக முடித்துக்‌ கொள்ளக்‌ கூடாது.
    42) பாலுறவைப்‌ பற்றிக்‌ கீழ்த்தரமாகக்‌ கருதக்‌ கூடாது.
    43) பூஜைகளின்‌ போது, வாக்குவாதங்களுக்கு இடமளிக்கக்‌ கூடாது.
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  • @sarmi0021
    @sarmi0021 3 роки тому +7

    I wish Aaji can adopt me♥️♥️ But I consider her my Aaji already 😘 I love her 💝 How well educated thoughtful she is🤗

  • @sushmabrahmachary6027
    @sushmabrahmachary6027 3 роки тому +2

    She is so active and smart in this age also!

  • @hridaykumar4584
    @hridaykumar4584 3 роки тому +6

    I just loved Avanti didn't say AyurvedAA🙏

  • @prabhurao9032
    @prabhurao9032 3 роки тому +1

    Sex itself is not a life, but it's a part of life, husband and wife should respect each other.