When I'm depressed and feeling like I'm not good enough, I watch Corey, and god you have no idea how much you have helped me man, sometimes I put you on just so I don't descend into a spiral of pity and self hate, thankyou! :)
My buddy is a full quadroplegic (injured in the Marine Corps) His wife left him after that, he was in a bad place for a minute. He could have stayed legally high (all the pain meds he wanted, weed etc) Instead he went to College and Law School (graduated) Met him while he was working as a Prosecutor. He has since written a book, travels the world and rolls up (yes, in his wheelchair) to any woman that strikes his fancy.
I needed to hear this. Instead of being broken by the breakup, I have been going to the gym, going out socially with co workers, casually dating (lightly hooking up) following my interests etc..feels better.
Corey, this is awesome. Some folks have a paralyzing fear of rejection, such that they will go out of their way to avoid the feeling. For them, the courage to take the first step and risk rejection is too great. Its sad that fear can be so powerful.
I just wanted to say a big THANK you because you give me strength. And you are bringing me back up every single time. I love you Corey, thank you infinitely
When I met my ex I was in a 13year relationship, when I met her I was so drawn that if I didn't make a move I would have regretted my whole life. I was attracted to her and she to me 10/10. We had an incredible 1 year of relationship. After I lost myself to the relationship been weak , needy etc I lost her 2 times. The 2nd time was for good as she lined up a loser. She couldn't feel safe with me anymore as I became unsure of myself (work stress) and turned to her for validation. This along with her been a bad communicator I lost her for good. When I look back I did almost all the mistakes of an insecure fearful guy as I always felt inside I didn't deserve her, well she agreed at the end
@@jamesbyrne9312 keep ur head up brotha. We go through difficultly and still have the discipline to push ourselves and improve everyday. We stay resilient
YOUR INFORMATION IS ALL READY CHANGING MY LIFE MAKING ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MY SELF AND NOT TACKING ANY SHIT FROM GIRLS THAT DONT DESERVE MY TIME AND ATTENTION MADE A COMPLETE 360" BLOCKED AND DELINTED ALL THOS HOES FROM MY LIFE AND STARTING FRESH GOING TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT SPECIAL GIRL TO COME IN MY LIFE AND NOT SETTLING FOR ANYTHING LESS THANKS COACH YOUR THE MAN!!
I dont know if im ready to hear you or somrthing but this video, this video is very helpful. Im in a shit phase of my life mentally and this is some really sober truth. Thank you coach.
You ever feel like you have to hold back the tears when you look in someone’s eyes when your at your most vulnerable. Because looking in their eyes makes you feel all the more alone in your ache. A feeling of knowing you can’t reach out, seeing kindness and it creating more pain because your so deeply wounded you don’t know how to trust or let people in anymore. To avoid that overwhelming feeling get you it’s all about smiling, pretending your happy, it’s not even pre meditated, it’s a survival mechanism that’s programmed.
To the first email dude. Is that your ownly problem? I'd swap with you! I have no stable income, debts mounting, no job, busted up 6 year relationship, no car, no proper home. Been through depression resulting in feeling I wanted to curl up in a field and be eaten alive by rats, or self harming. But if I swapped with you, I would be killing my Alpha Male core, and that says I man up and solve my problems, I own them and I break through to my success. I own the success. You own your success. You have no idea how lucky you are. The fear is all in your head - it is in mine even in all this. BTW I hope I might have a date coming up - because I'm talking to a girl. Small success leads to bigger success. START! You will not die, you will grow. Tony Robbins - The Keys To Massive Success
I find it really hard to sympathize with women when it comes to relationships. Even tho what the girl is going thru in her email is relateable, its usually the the other way around and i'll be surprised she hasnt treated guys how this guy treated her
I was feeling like shit for a few months after we split. She was the first woman I've ever been with that I could place in a want category. This clip helped me out more.
I think the biggest trouble you end up with... You keep acting, and keep trying... and keep getting rejected without being told why. So, you just keep making the same errors over and over because you don't know what to change. I've spent 25 years trying and failing at relationships. All failures without knowing why (except that my reasonably "successful" relationships are with women I could give two shits about because they're fugly).
no TLWiltman. ur exactly right and fuck this hater below here talking mad shit for no reason. its true its easy to get a ugly woman speaking straight forwardly and being honest and they listen and watch to be there for u, but the good looking women u gotta play these little games with to win its fucking retarded. i agree
I don't like the idea of life being a game...we are just here for the entertainment of some psychopath who makes up fukd up rules nobody knows who they are. The world is evil, ugly, selfish and un-winnable. So glad YOU have a fabulous life tho
Monica Zoe + I feel the same way, but that's how people are living life. People, overall, are selfish and deceitful. Unfortunately, it doesn't surprise me that the world is the way it is. That's why when my time comes to go...I'm ready!!!
I dealt with that pretty often I still do it I feel all of that been going on for a while he ghosted me one time on email chat he used to like me so much I felt they put their favoritism ahead of me so now I have lost my passion with them I feel unappreciated worthless failure and invisible and left out they email chat me 2015 till I first met in 2016 then late that year they stopped responding then they started liking my stepmom then they come back we wrote every now and then on Facebook then they stopped responding to me since Saturday I was a sweet girl I like them to death it’s like them saying like me for something I had commitment to them they that guy gave me a side hug the lady said happy to see you he asked for a hug before I hugged him
What about someone who was positive about everything and always looking for the good in everything and everyone. Yet ends up still poor dispite spending 20 years learning and working very little or free, to get work experience...and nobody now will hire this person. Time to die...right???
No is the short answer. If you're alive you still have time to make something happen. We all go through drudgery but if what you're doing isn't working for you then maybe it would be good to explore something else. You might find something exciting as you explore new territory.
This is great stuff ! ha advice to you have for someone dealing wiih with grief of loss of her two children , at ages 6 and 9 tragicly this happened 10 years ago. she says the grief is pain thats worse as time passes , what do you say to them
Corey I'm in a relationshipn the guy says he's Gina end his life if I leave him .hes been flagged n won't let me hardlywalk with out a leash.hes a shadow.everywhereI go it jus don't stopneverhas. I resentleystarted working n he dont wanta work he claims he can't do this or he can'tdo that.I'm so sick of it I've played in bed depressed for last coupledaysI've had off .we don't have sex I jus can'ttouch him nomore.I've been outtalove with him for 2yrs.he brings up my flaws n says .guys jus r dirty n want one thing .n don't respect women no moreI so want ta leave him but I feel hes going to act upon way he says n ice feel bad n half ta livewith that plz help me Corey do I belive him or not
9:27 obviously you would have written to me if things were going really great why people don't come to me because things are going awesome people come to me because s*** is going sideways in their life or They've gotten to a place in their life where they are absolutely sick and tired of the way things are They have just basically got to a point where they're like enough of this s***. I am f****** tired of suffering, I am tired of not getting what I want, I am tired of not going for the things that I want in life And they're willing to try anything and you have to be at that point 9:35 Life is a gift, why sit on the sidelines and let it pass you by, feeling sorry for yourself. At least if you go out there and try and you fail, at least you made an effort, at least you get some feedback, at least you get some experience and from that experience you can notice what's working and not working and you can refine your approach
Looooool I listened to this because I just knew Corey would be the guy that say's just f**king get over it looool No sympathy here if that's what your looking for loool
When I'm depressed and feeling like I'm not good enough, I watch Corey, and god you have no idea how much you have helped me man, sometimes I put you on just so I don't descend into a spiral of pity and self hate, thankyou! :)
My buddy is a full quadroplegic (injured in the Marine Corps) His wife left him after that, he was in a bad place for a minute. He could have stayed legally high (all the pain meds he wanted, weed etc) Instead he went to College and Law School (graduated) Met him while he was working as a Prosecutor. He has since written a book, travels the world and rolls up (yes, in his wheelchair) to any woman that strikes his fancy.
Bet he has "conventionally" good looking face ...
Bet he has "conventionally" good looking face.. .But still props to him
And gets rejected every time
Even if he does get rejected he has more balls than you guys who won’t even approach the women you want
I needed to hear this. Instead of being broken by the breakup, I have been going to the gym, going out socially with co workers, casually dating (lightly hooking up) following my interests etc..feels better.
Thanks!
Corey, this is awesome. Some folks have a paralyzing fear of rejection, such that they will go out of their way to avoid the feeling. For them, the courage to take the first step and risk rejection is too great. Its sad that fear can be so powerful.
I just wanted to say a big THANK you because you give me strength. And you are bringing me back up every single time. I love you Corey, thank you infinitely
I am grateful to you Corey you are like a father teaching me the right way and the right things in life that my own father never taught me thank you
When I met my ex I was in a 13year relationship, when I met her I was so drawn that if I didn't make a move I would have regretted my whole life. I was attracted to her and she to me 10/10. We had an incredible 1 year of relationship. After I lost myself to the relationship been weak , needy etc I lost her 2 times. The 2nd time was for good as she lined up a loser. She couldn't feel safe with me anymore as I became unsure of myself (work stress) and turned to her for validation. This along with her been a bad communicator I lost her for good. When I look back I did almost all the mistakes of an insecure fearful guy as I always felt inside I didn't deserve her, well she agreed at the end
nah man she sucked too. she aint all that.
There's also the assumption that the pain of getting rejected/things not working out perfectly will be greater than the pain of not taking action.
Your right Coach Wayne. Life is a gift and I have had a good life and I have had awesome people come and go through it.
Keep getting rejected and it bothers me very much. Thank you for the wisdom
Rejected my entire life
@@jamesbyrne9312 keep ur head up brotha. We go through difficultly and still have the discipline to push ourselves and improve everyday. We stay resilient
@@Flips44 Thanks, maybe things are changing for me, I can't keep feeling this bad.
YOUR INFORMATION IS ALL READY CHANGING MY LIFE MAKING ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MY SELF AND NOT TACKING ANY SHIT FROM GIRLS THAT DONT DESERVE MY TIME AND ATTENTION MADE A COMPLETE 360" BLOCKED AND DELINTED ALL THOS HOES FROM MY LIFE AND STARTING FRESH GOING TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT SPECIAL GIRL TO COME IN MY LIFE AND NOT SETTLING FOR ANYTHING LESS THANKS COACH YOUR THE MAN!!
Good job!
I dont know if im ready to hear you or somrthing but this video, this video is very helpful. Im in a shit phase of my life mentally and this is some really sober truth. Thank you coach.
You ever feel like you have to hold back the tears when you look in someone’s eyes when your at your most vulnerable. Because looking in their eyes makes you feel all the more alone in your ache. A feeling of knowing you can’t reach out, seeing kindness and it creating more pain because your so deeply wounded you don’t know how to trust or let people in anymore. To avoid that overwhelming feeling get you it’s all about smiling, pretending your happy, it’s not even pre meditated, it’s a survival mechanism that’s programmed.
To the first email dude. Is that your ownly problem? I'd swap with you! I have no stable income, debts mounting, no job, busted up 6 year relationship, no car, no proper home. Been through depression resulting in feeling I wanted to curl up in a field and be eaten alive by rats, or self harming. But if I swapped with you, I would be killing my Alpha Male core, and that says I man up and solve my problems, I own them and I break through to my success. I own the success. You own your success. You have no idea how lucky you are. The fear is all in your head - it is in mine even in all this. BTW I hope I might have a date coming up - because I'm talking to a girl. Small success leads to bigger success. START! You will not die, you will grow.
Tony Robbins - The Keys To Massive Success
I find it really hard to sympathize with women when it comes to relationships. Even tho what the girl is going thru in her email is relateable, its usually the the other way around and i'll be surprised she hasnt treated guys how this guy treated her
I was feeling like shit for a few months after we split.
She was the first woman I've ever been with that I could place in a want category.
This clip helped me out more.
Great Video Corey. Get on living or get on dying. No bullshit, no hand holding. Get off your ass and live life!!
Rejection is an is the worst experience
I am 34 I have had 1 girlfriend. I am worried that I am going to die alone.
We are all going to die alone.
I don't know about fear always being greater in the mind than in reality. Sometimes the reality is much worse than what you imagined.
Great video, that was deep.
press2shoot + Yes it does, finding love shouldn't be this damn hard.
I’m at the hopeless part .
I think the biggest trouble you end up with... You keep acting, and keep trying... and keep getting rejected without being told why. So, you just keep making the same errors over and over because you don't know what to change. I've spent 25 years trying and failing at relationships. All failures without knowing why (except that my reasonably "successful" relationships are with women I could give two shits about because they're fugly).
no TLWiltman. ur exactly right and fuck this hater below here talking mad shit for no reason. its true its easy to get a ugly woman speaking straight forwardly and being honest and they listen and watch to be there for u, but the good looking women u gotta play these little games with to win its fucking retarded. i agree
Great video.thanks for posting.
You're a life-saver, coach... ☺
Anyone who feels worthless should know that even Nick Vujicic, a man without limbs can get a wife. He's an inspiration, Go for it!
Excellent stuff, CCW!...5 years...10 years...Gotta try...Sitting there doing zip...That's a waste of time!
"I've been trying to change"... Bullshit. That had me crying it was so good
I'm taking this video and applying it to finding a job. I have 2 degrees and I'm unemployed!!
Stay busy stay productive and focus on self than worrying about female rejection
Preach it Bother!
Rip Tanner, pending divorce.
I don't like the idea of life being a game...we are just here for the entertainment of some psychopath who makes up fukd up rules nobody knows who they are. The world is evil, ugly, selfish and un-winnable. So glad YOU have a fabulous life tho
Monica Zoe + I feel the same way, but that's how people are living life. People, overall, are selfish and deceitful. Unfortunately, it doesn't surprise me that the world is the way it is. That's why when my time comes to go...I'm ready!!!
What if you were the person who made the game? Just some food for thought.
nobody gives a toss , if u lucky to find somebody that genuinely cares keep that person tight
I dealt with that pretty often I still do it I feel all of that been going on for a while he ghosted me one time on email chat he used to like me so much I felt they put their favoritism ahead of me so now I have lost my passion with them I feel unappreciated worthless failure and invisible and left out they email chat me 2015 till I first met in 2016 then late that year they stopped responding then they started liking my stepmom then they come back we wrote every now and then on Facebook then they stopped responding to me since Saturday I was a sweet girl I like them to death it’s like them saying like me for something I had commitment to them they that guy gave me a side hug the lady said happy to see you he asked for a hug before I hugged him
What about someone who was positive about everything and always looking for the good in everything and everyone. Yet ends up still poor dispite spending 20 years learning and working very little or free, to get work experience...and nobody now will hire this person. Time to die...right???
No is the short answer. If you're alive you still have time to make something happen. We all go through drudgery but if what you're doing isn't working for you then maybe it would be good to explore something else. You might find something exciting as you explore new territory.
you say it you have great experinces in you past, but when you only have shit whats the point?
This is great stuff ! ha advice to you have for someone dealing wiih with grief of loss of her two children , at ages 6 and 9 tragicly this happened 10 years ago. she says the grief is pain thats worse as time passes , what do you say to them
fuck suicidal thoughts, but shit. I like watchin this dood's videos, makes alot of sence, he knows what it's all about.
Corey I'm in a relationshipn the guy says he's Gina end his life if I leave him .hes been flagged n won't let me hardlywalk with out a leash.hes a shadow.everywhereI go it jus don't stopneverhas. I resentleystarted working n he dont wanta work he claims he can't do this or he can'tdo that.I'm so sick of it I've played in bed depressed for last coupledaysI've had off .we don't have sex I jus can'ttouch him nomore.I've been outtalove with him for 2yrs.he brings up my flaws n says .guys jus r dirty n want one thing .n don't respect women no moreI so want ta leave him but I feel hes going to act upon way he says n ice feel bad n half ta livewith that plz help me Corey do I belive him or not
Hi Corey, should you be nice to a girl that lead you on and then resist when you try to be her ?
Not that easy when you've had trauma or CPTSD...yes sometimes rejection feels like death..and some can't get to the other side ...
What is CPTSD?
Read the myth of Sisyphus and other essays.
Outstanding!!!
9:27 obviously you would have written to me if things were going really great why people don't come to me because things are going awesome people come to me because s*** is going sideways in their life or
They've gotten to a place in their life where they are absolutely sick and tired of the way things are
They have just basically got to a point where they're like enough of this s***. I am f****** tired of suffering, I am tired of not getting what I want, I am tired of not going for the things that I want in life
And they're willing to try anything and you have to be at that point
9:35
Life is a gift, why sit on the sidelines and let it pass you by, feeling sorry for yourself.
At least if you go out there and try and you fail, at least you made an effort, at least you get some feedback, at least you get some experience and from that experience you can notice what's working and not working and you can refine your approach
"Yeah, fuck him" lol
Progressive Desensitization
Looooool I listened to this because I just knew Corey would be the guy that say's just f**king get over it looool
No sympathy here if that's what your looking for loool
120 years old? Damn lol
Do you care about others at all
Really comforting, listening to a guy read from a teleprompter.