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  • Rejection can be tough, but it doesn't have to hold you back. In this video, we'll share 13 lessons from stoic philosophy on how to use rejection to your favor and grow from it.
    These stoic principles for personal development can help you embrace rejection and turn it into a positive force in your life. From reframing your mindset to facing your fears, these stoic rules for life will help you overcome rejection and become a stronger, more resilient person.
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    Learn how to use rejection to your advantage with these 13 lessons inspired by Stoicism. Rejection is a normal part of life, but by applying these principles, you can turn it into a powerful tool for personal growth and resilience.
    Whether you're facing rejection in your career, relationships, or personal goals, these lessons will help you navigate through it and come out stronger. Embrace the power of stoicism and use it to your favor.
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    Key Points 🎯
    00:00:00 Intro
    00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too
    00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally
    00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind
    00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value
    00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact
    00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong
    00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun
    00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status
    00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist
    00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment
    00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention
    00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant
    00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
    00:18:54 Conclusion
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 355

  • @StoicismDigestYT
    @StoicismDigestYT  3 місяці тому +81

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  • @stillme7535
    @stillme7535 3 місяці тому +383

    1. Disregard them too
    2. Don't react emotionally
    3. Remove them from your mind
    4. Demonstrate your value
    5. Cut off contact
    6. Prove them wrong
    7. Go out and have fun
    8. Build your social status
    9. Act as if they don't exist
    10. Give them the silent treatment
    11. Don't beg for attention
    12. Be kind but emotionally distant
    13. Don't reveal your struggle

    • @rosalinealoy6162
      @rosalinealoy6162 2 місяці тому +3

      What if it happens one's husband is the one rejected the wife

    • @stillme7535
      @stillme7535 2 місяці тому +3

      @@rosalinealoy6162 I don't believe I am the one to respond to this. Only posted the resume of the video

    • @shsh-lv3wh
      @shsh-lv3wh 2 місяці тому

      This days we all get negative advice there family live are gone and people staying single so ignoring and having fun while you ruin some else life is not a solution. We should learn to care about other people. I hate like this videos I don’t know why I get this

    • @ursulareeg1171
      @ursulareeg1171 2 місяці тому

      Ah, but there is more to all of the point. I love the additional comments/ insights/ explanations.

    • @ChildofGod1792
      @ChildofGod1792 2 місяці тому

      reject him as well and he will come around, act like his actions not affecting you or just find another husband ​@@rosalinealoy6162

  • @StoicWisdom135
    @StoicWisdom135 2 дні тому +2

    "Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @beautyshines2124
    @beautyshines2124 2 місяці тому +141

    people will miss you because you're unique and incomparable.

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 2 місяці тому +8

      Or maybe they won't, but does that matter?

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@charlottebruce979They dont matter

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому +2

      @beautyshines2124, your words resonate deeply, reminding us of the intrinsic value each individual holds. In a world where conformity often overshadows uniqueness, your insight shines brightly, illuminating the beauty in our differences. But behind this sentiment lies a tale of personal discovery and appreciation. What inspired you to recognize the irreplaceable essence within yourself and others? Your perspective offers a refreshing antidote to the pressures of conformity. How do you nurture and celebrate your own uniqueness amidst societal expectations?

    • @ursulaschlapbach311
      @ursulaschlapbach311 Місяць тому

      Exactly 😮😢😅

    • @bettydoughtery3920
      @bettydoughtery3920 Місяць тому +1

      YES

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 3 місяці тому +292

    Let go and let God....... you don't have to do a thing - Karma will take care of it for you.

    • @palmbaytyranthunter1913
      @palmbaytyranthunter1913 3 місяці тому +5

      Krama is not. Taught in the Bible nor in stoicism

    • @counterintelligencereports7867
      @counterintelligencereports7867 3 місяці тому +7

      Wanting karma means you are back to square one.
      The purpose of stoicism is to be totally indifferent to others and situations.

    • @gerie7115
      @gerie7115 3 місяці тому +3

      Amen !!!

    • @gerie7115
      @gerie7115 3 місяці тому +16

      @@palmbaytyranthunter1913 It is in the Bible, it’s just referred to as something else.
      “ God will prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies”
      “You will reap what you sow”
      It’s just worded differently, but same meaning

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 місяці тому +1

      @georgiafranci...
      Good comment 👍

  • @celeste3100
    @celeste3100 3 місяці тому +192

    Rejection is protection

    • @april9037
      @april9037 3 місяці тому +4

      Absolutely ❤️

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 місяці тому +1

      @celeste3100
      Lol, like it!

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 місяці тому

      ​​@@april9037
      Positive

    • @orangetabby445
      @orangetabby445 2 місяці тому +3

      Ok but it still stings awful especially if you aren't prepared geeee

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes these people could be toxic

  • @martiemc8398
    @martiemc8398 2 місяці тому +88

    I loved him so much, but I love myself too.

    • @truthseeker5941
      @truthseeker5941 2 місяці тому +2

      @martiemc...once upon a time I had his baby and loved him deeply and profoundly BUT not more than I loved myself.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      @martiemc8398, your heartfelt words encapsulate a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. To love deeply is a profound experience, yet to also recognize and prioritize self-love amidst such emotions is a testament to your strength and resilience. Your comment hints at a transformative process, where the balance between loving another and loving oneself is delicately navigated. What insights did you gain during this journey of self-love and acceptance? Your acknowledgment of self-worth is inspiring, prompting reflection on the importance of cultivating a healthy relationship with oneself. How do you continue to nurture and prioritize your own well-being while navigating matters of the heart?

    • @truthseeker5941
      @truthseeker5941 Місяць тому +1

      @@StoicHabit101 only the worthy deserve that type of deep love and loyalty. Once they show you their not worthy you become an alchemist and transform. You shower yourself with all that love that you gave to the undeserving. You pick yourself up by the bootstraps, gather yourself, and become your own very best friend.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      @@truthseeker5941 Your comment beautifully encapsulates a profound journey of self-discovery and empowerment. It speaks to the transformative power of resilience and self-love in the face of disappointment and betrayal.
      The imagery of becoming an alchemist, transforming pain into strength and self-love, is both evocative and inspiring. It conveys a sense of agency and empowerment, suggesting that one has the power to shape their own narrative and redefine their sense of worth.
      By emphasizing the importance of recognizing when others are unworthy of deep love and loyalty, you underscore the value of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-respect. Your words resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of betrayal, offering solace and encouragement to those who may be navigating similar challenges.
      Intriguingly, your reflection prompts one to consider: How can we cultivate a deeper sense of self-love and resilience in the face of adversity? What practices or mindset shifts can empower individuals to reclaim their worth and embrace their own inner strength?

    • @lucianaschroder6127
      @lucianaschroder6127 Місяць тому

      I love him so much… and I think everything is my fault… that for 13 years I was the one who was always good for nothing. We are taking a break but it hurts.

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 3 місяці тому +109

    It their loss..... rejection is a sort of affirmation that you are on the right track for your own life. It may sting a bit at first......but......you WILL get over it in time. NEVER BEG for anyone's attention, it wreaks despiration. Stand tall and be a success in all that you do. They will notice your success and how they had nothing to do with your future.
    THIS ONE LIFE IS YOURS-----NOT THEIRS------they weren't born with you and they don't die with you, they simply came into your life somewhere along the way to either teach a lesson or learn a lesson.
    They are on their own journey in life as you are.

  • @haitiqueen0119
    @haitiqueen0119 2 місяці тому +47

    Just cut off a one sided friendship of 20 years just recently and feel a sense of happiness. As we go through our journeys, it is perfectly healthy and necessary to cut ties with meaningless toxic relationships. Part of self care.

    • @StoicismDigestYT
      @StoicismDigestYT  2 місяці тому +4

      It's important to prioritize your own well-being and mental health by letting go of toxic relationships. Good for you for taking that step!

    • @MrJackson100587
      @MrJackson100587 Місяць тому +1

      Can we be friends

    • @AfricanWifeinPakistan
      @AfricanWifeinPakistan 28 днів тому

      Me too. I said enough is enough. Friendships, don't always have to last. Sometimes, people grow apart and mature in diff. ways. Definitely need to realize. Esp. those friendship we keep clinging into from childhood or younger years.

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 3 місяці тому +50

    "True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future." - Seneca

  • @marievandermerwe3160
    @marievandermerwe3160 Місяць тому +25

    I was married for nearly 42years. It was the most lonely journey. My husband died a year ago. We had no emotional connection. I don't want a man in my life anymore. I am too used to be lonely.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому +1

      Your resilience after such a long and lonely journey is truly admirable. What new experiences or pursuits are you exploring now that you're embracing solitude?

    • @data1656
      @data1656 Місяць тому +2

      Beautiful peaceful alone

    • @LoveFishing51
      @LoveFishing51 29 днів тому +4

      I'm sorry to hear that, my dear. But there is the possibility that your husband [did] want to communicate with you emotionally but did not know how to. Some people have a hard time with this. Lift your head up high and have positive thoughts as you move forward.

  • @nancytorres2564
    @nancytorres2564 17 днів тому +3

    Thank you for your advise. I've been in a relationship for 15yrs and I still feel lonely and rejected and verbally abused. It's hard because I still love him.😢
    7:29

  • @cherylnathanodette
    @cherylnathanodette 23 дні тому +3

    If you are rejected don't dwell on it, lifes too short. Been used to rejection and it's no biggie. I used to let it bother me but realise lifes too short to dwell on disappointments. Hope you are all well and live your best lives.

  • @galeretacco8537
    @galeretacco8537 3 місяці тому +44

    These stoic philosophies are so valuable. I send them to my grandchildren every day. They are lessons in life 100%!

  • @RWM-ReligionWisdomsMotivation0
    @RWM-ReligionWisdomsMotivation0 2 місяці тому +7

    We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse.

  • @sanetterobertson6085
    @sanetterobertson6085 21 день тому +2

    I have practiced most of these and must confess that I now have so much more peace.

  • @interfluve
    @interfluve 2 місяці тому +24

    Thank you for this, I got out of a very serious relationship and I needed to hear this. Bless you and all the stoic philosophers who have showered us with all this wisdom.

  • @goldenzoneus
    @goldenzoneus День тому

    This explanation of stoicism is spot on. It's fascinating how relevant these ancient principles are today!

  • @datgurlangel8319
    @datgurlangel8319 19 днів тому +4

    This is so refreshing! I'm so ready to love myself even more. ❤❤❤

  • @the_Success_Experiments
    @the_Success_Experiments 2 місяці тому +12

    I'm dropping more GEMS for you all!! These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results.
    1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper.
    2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life.
    3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins.
    4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room.
    5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF.
    6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post.
    7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water.
    8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain.
    9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other.
    10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma.
    It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results.
    What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too.
    Have a great day... and thanks for reading.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому +1

      Wow, what an incredibly detailed and heartfelt message! It's evident that you've put a lot of thought and effort into compiling these transformative suggestions. Your commitment to personal growth is truly inspiring.
      I'm particularly intrigued by the idea of setting an alarm to disrupt daily routines and visualize goals every three hours. It seems like a powerful way to stay focused and aligned with one's aspirations throughout the day. How do you maintain consistency and motivation while implementing these practices?

  • @achamangabat1807
    @achamangabat1807 3 місяці тому +32

    This video is very timely for me cos I'm experiencing rejection right now. I'm now in the process of healing and slowly detaching myself from my boyfriend.

    • @beajohnson2668
      @beajohnson2668 2 місяці тому +2

      Me too😢

    • @user-om9hh5ig4k
      @user-om9hh5ig4k 2 місяці тому

      Good For You ! 🎉

    • @user-om9hh5ig4k
      @user-om9hh5ig4k 2 місяці тому

      @@beajohnson2668
      Don’t Ever Look Back.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      Your resilience in the face of rejection is commendable. What strategies have you found most effective in the healing process and detaching yourself from past relationships?

    • @VictoriousVirgo3845
      @VictoriousVirgo3845 Місяць тому

      Good on you. Heal, love yourself more, and put yourself first. ❤

  • @knowledgejourney2888
    @knowledgejourney2888 2 місяці тому +8

    Stoicism offers a profound philosophy of resilience and inner strength that resonates deeply with me.

  • @AmeliaAILookbook
    @AmeliaAILookbook 3 місяці тому +15

    These 13 lessons on using rejection as a tool for growth are invaluable. Stoicism offers such a unique and empowering perspective. Grateful for the shift in mindset this has sparked in me. Thank you!

  • @StoicZone101
    @StoicZone101 2 місяці тому +6

    " A person's worth is measured by the worth of what he values." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @marianicolepappadakis8880
    @marianicolepappadakis8880 5 днів тому

    I have never been so disrespected and degraded and treated so badly in my entire life.

  • @IamGODchild
    @IamGODchild Місяць тому +9

    Father GOD remove them all from my life - they don't deserve my love, time, patience & blessings I used to share with them! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I really really really love myself too 💚💜🩷❤️💙😇 thank you, LORD for my strength, power & decisive attitude 🙏🏻 I bless them all but I let go of all negative snakey people.
    I am sol happy & grateful that I always can count on GOD - HE is the one who comforts me in the last years, gives me peace.. I am enjoying my own company & with my Baby boy, dearest Fam & some few friends 🎉🥰🍀👍
    Thank you, GOD for my peace, time & financially freedom 🌺

  • @fivedotsixfourthreetimes
    @fivedotsixfourthreetimes 2 місяці тому +9

    love these!
    rejection has been coined as too negative,
    now Im seeing rejection and molding it to a positive power, it is tough to do but worth it.❤

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      These insights are truly empowering! 🌟 How do you approach turning rejection into a positive force in your life?

  • @yadip65
    @yadip65 3 місяці тому +17

    Thank you Lord ! I have been doing this fir years and didnt even know this lesson. Thats just how God created me , thank you Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 місяці тому +1

      @yadip65:
      Great

  • @shirleykamm7819
    @shirleykamm7819 2 місяці тому +19

    I was in deep need of your wisdom many moons ago. How unfortunate for me to discover you late. My marriage has dissolved. The love of my life of many years has ended. However, I love that your videos have come to me now in my life as I move forward. It gives me hope to move on with better choices. The proverbial lightning strike hit me too late to save a marriage, but since it was toxic, I feel more equipped to engage in new relationships. Thank you!!

    • @rogue_spirit
      @rogue_spirit 2 місяці тому +1

      Stay strong! ❤️🌹

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      Your journey toward healing and growth is truly inspiring. How do you plan to apply the lessons you've learned to cultivate healthier relationships moving forward?

  • @franciaperiabras1037
    @franciaperiabras1037 2 місяці тому +13

    I'm so thankful that i found this channel ❤

  • @timmyfosho
    @timmyfosho 2 місяці тому +23

    Practicing my resolve to not react emotionally to the horrific ai reading of this 🧘

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo 3 місяці тому +16

    It's amazing how a smile and a helping hand will make one popular and respected... 🙄🤔🤣

  • @thelmabayot360
    @thelmabayot360 27 днів тому +1

    A philosophy that will help us survive in this somewhat cruel world.

  • @valencia9992
    @valencia9992 Місяць тому +2

    I don’t believe it was a coincidence your page came across my feed. Your messages are profound. I’m taking things day by day. The pain is no joke. I’m trusting GOD to show me the way. Just pouring goodness into me is helping me become stronger.

    • @terri5624
      @terri5624 Місяць тому

      No such thing as coincidence. I love it !! 😊❤🙏

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo 3 місяці тому +39

    Don't let idiots rent space in your head... 🤔🤠🎶

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 місяці тому

      That's a good one Daniel

    • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
      @DanielWalker-ci7fo 2 місяці тому +1

      @@spmoran4703 Well thank you... it just makes sense if one can hold their tongue 😛🤣

  • @noreenryan7487
    @noreenryan7487 3 місяці тому +10

    True words of wisdom. Thank you.

  • @sgg3103
    @sgg3103 2 місяці тому +5

    Greatest source and lesson of knowledge and greater wisdom. Blessings in disguise and it’s always greater in the end for my narrative. Looking forward to expressing myself in my public speaking and sharing some of these lessons. Freedom is ringing, so let it ring.

  • @traceyross8528
    @traceyross8528 22 дні тому +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed this powerful message. Given me strength to keep battling on with dignity and poise.

  • @jegsthewegs
    @jegsthewegs Місяць тому +5

    After years of being "black sheeped" by my family, then dumped by partner of 7yrs, losing my home. I had an emotional breakdown. My family "helped by not talking about it" my isolation was unbearable. I moved 70miles away. Then followed many years of my very existence being ignored.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      @jegsthewegs, your resilience in the face of adversity is truly remarkable. It's heart-wrenching to hear about the challenges you've endured, from feeling marginalized within your own family to experiencing the devastating loss of a long-term relationship and home. The emotional toll of these experiences, compounded by the lack of support from your family, must have been incredibly difficult to bear.
      Your decision to move away in search of a fresh start speaks volumes about your strength and determination to reclaim your life. Despite the isolation and years of feeling overlooked, you refused to let despair define you. Instead, you embarked on a journey of self-discovery and healing, bravely carving out a new path for yourself.
      I can't imagine how daunting it must have been to rebuild your life from the ground up, but your resilience shines through in every word you share. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the indomitable human spirit.
      I'm left wondering about the moments of hope and resilience that sustained you during your darkest days. What kept you going during those challenging times, and what advice would you offer to others who may be facing similar struggles? Your journey is a testament to the fact that even in our darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light to guide us forward.

  • @ChangeYourLife-bl3gj
    @ChangeYourLife-bl3gj Місяць тому +3

    Intro
    00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too
    00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally
    00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind
    00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value
    00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact
    00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong
    00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun
    00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status
    00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist
    00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment
    00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention
    00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant
    00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
    00:18:54 Conclusion

  • @girlynyachiya246
    @girlynyachiya246 18 днів тому +1

    Powerful, I really needed this.

  • @winstoic_offical
    @winstoic_offical 18 днів тому +1

    Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @sharlar3300
    @sharlar3300 10 днів тому +1

    Amen ❤

  • @odile772
    @odile772 2 місяці тому +5

    Brilliant.

  • @brandonmohammed3738
    @brandonmohammed3738 2 місяці тому +2

    All powerful advises, Thanks for those benifits , advises!! This will help many!💯

  • @kionvaliant6286
    @kionvaliant6286 2 місяці тому +4

    Solid video, thank you for the new perceptive. o7

  • @praisedouglas-wr9sr
    @praisedouglas-wr9sr 16 днів тому +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @nimranazir7360
    @nimranazir7360 Місяць тому +4

    Gosh one of my friend start to ignore me without any reason nd subconsciously i did the same things as described in the video 😂😂 so proud of myself after her i started interacting with others nd find so many beautiful souls worthy of my time and love so guys
    Never giveup for one person♥️

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      @nimranazir7360, your journey of self-discovery and resilience shines through your heartfelt words. It's truly empowering to witness how you've navigated the complexities of human relationships with grace and determination. Despite the pain of being ignored by a friend, you didn't succumb to despair or bitterness. Instead, you found strength within yourself to prioritize your own well-being and seek out connections with others who appreciate and value you.
      Your ability to adapt and grow from challenging experiences is commendable. By embracing the wisdom shared in the video and applying it to your life, you've transformed moments of uncertainty into opportunities for personal growth and renewal. Your resilience serves as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles in their relationships.
      Your story leaves me curious about the beautiful souls you've encountered on your journey. How have these new connections enriched your life, and what valuable lessons have you learned from them? Additionally, what advice would you offer to those who may be struggling to overcome similar challenges in their interpersonal relationships?

  • @ShayMuzikk
    @ShayMuzikk Місяць тому

    I have the same feeling, but I never showed my weakness. Unfortunately I’m quite experienced in this thing, but you never get used to feeling this way. The Stoic philosophy helps me as I have enough going on in my life and I’m steady on never showing weakness. Ofcourse I want to call her, ask her why, get her back, scream my lungs out, but in the end they don’t posess you. You were, are and always be assigned to direct you life by God. Respect that life was given to you, not to be dependent on someone else. You can become better out of all of this, do it. Trust Gods plan, trust the process, time will show you.

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo 3 місяці тому +7

    If it doesn't feel right to you then forget about it! ✌️

  • @VictoriousVirgo3845
    @VictoriousVirgo3845 Місяць тому +1

    I have been practicing this for a long time. I’m a sigma female. I don’t care about anyone’s opinion and focus on myself and the things I need to do for my life. I march to the beat of my own drum and don’t seek validation from others. I’m important and so are you.

  • @Christiankrez
    @Christiankrez 3 місяці тому +9

    ❤ I really needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @FluencyAccentCoach
    @FluencyAccentCoach Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for your advice.

  • @evypettersson6513
    @evypettersson6513 Місяць тому

    Saying No sometimes saves yourselves.
    Don't always say Yes to everything.
    There is a limit for all of us.
    Love and best wishes .
    ❤️😊🙏

  • @revathimkulkarni
    @revathimkulkarni 3 місяці тому +4

    Grateful for this. Thank you!

  • @asherafmm734
    @asherafmm734 26 днів тому +1

    Superb...

  • @tayrene8688
    @tayrene8688 2 місяці тому +2

    Some good books you could read to lean into these ideas:
    You Are A Bad As - Jen Sincero
    No Excuses - Brian Tracy
    The Power of Now - Eckhart Toole
    and if always suggest Marcus Arelious' - meditations

  • @AYUSHKUMAR-xj4wc
    @AYUSHKUMAR-xj4wc 3 місяці тому +3

    A video I needed so much❤❤❤

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw 2 місяці тому +4

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him , but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him...

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw 2 місяці тому

      Amazing how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impresive

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 2 місяці тому

      I didn't see my life with anyone else, I thought I couldn't love like that again, but you know what? I did, and it's even better than before!! Go fearlessly out there again and love ❤

    • @CITYBEACHTV
      @CITYBEACHTV 2 місяці тому

      You’re Addicted - thats not love. If you truly love them let them go and find their happiness.

  • @user-zj1kz6mh6g
    @user-zj1kz6mh6g Місяць тому +2

    I never want to be in the minds of those toxic people. Let them wonder why their life is downturning, as there is a transmutation of their poised success to my greatness

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      @user-zj1kz6mh6g, your words resonate with a powerful sense of self-preservation and determination. In recognizing the toxicity of certain individuals, you've made a conscious decision to safeguard your well-being and distance yourself from their negative influence. This act of self-preservation is not only commendable but essential for nurturing your own growth and prosperity.
      Your mindset embodies resilience and an unwavering belief in your own potential. By refusing to be entangled in the webs of toxicity, you pave the way for your own ascent to greatness. Your comment sparks curiosity about the transformative journey you're undertaking. How do you envision your path to greatness unfolding amidst the challenges posed by these toxic influences? And what strategies do you employ to maintain your focus and resilience in the face of adversity? Your story serves as a beacon of hope and empowerment for others navigating similar terrain, inspiring them to reclaim control over their lives and pursue their own paths to greatness.

  • @bytethought
    @bytethought 2 місяці тому +1

    our consciousness is the ultimate reality, the very foundation of everything we experience. Think of it like a stream, with the conscious and subconscious as its two parts. Understanding how these parts work together is key to harnessing the power of our minds. The conscious is like our personal filter, while the subconscious takes in everything. And while the conscious shows us the effects, it's the subconscious where the real causes lie. It's a bit like the conscious being active and assertive, while the subconscious is passive and receptive - like two complementary halves of the same whole

  • @carlosalugo1648
    @carlosalugo1648 3 місяці тому +6

    This is the truth , being explained in many words what to do if anyone rejects you is helpful specifically to those that don't understand y others do this thing, IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD I SUGGEST YOU READ THE BIBLE, BECAUSE WHAT THIS VIDEO IS TELLING YOU, GOD SAS IT IN THE BIBLE LET GO OF FAMILY, FRIENDS, THAT BRING YOU DOWN AND DON'T SUPPORT YOU and all they do is bring you bad negativete, God says CAST THEM OUT IM WATCHING OVER YOU , I'M SAYING THIS BECAUSE I HAD WHENT TRUE THIS 2 YEARS AGO I EVERYONE EVEN MY BROTHERS REJECTED ME EN EVERY WAY, I WAS LOOKING FOR ANSWERS THE BIBLE READING IT ONE DAY I RAN INTO THAT VERSE THAT GOD GAVE US THE POWER TO , BOUNSE ON PEOPLE THAT DIDN'T HELP US FOR GOOD ONLY TO DO US HARM, GOD SAID HE WILL NOT PUNISH YOU FOR DOING THIS , MY ADVICE TO ANYONE THAT READS THIS COMMENT, BECAUSE I WHENT TRUE THIS REJECTION THING AND IT HURTS UNTIL YOU DO WHAT I DID. GOD BLESS 🙏

    • @sheilanewcombe
      @sheilanewcombe 3 місяці тому

      God is good. A lot in this video is scriptural. Good tools for changing negative mindsets. Holy Spirit brings us into all truth, that leads us to salvation....from death to life!

  • @LoveBlairLight
    @LoveBlairLight Місяць тому

    When my classmates diss me I love it ❤ it makes me stronger and wiser. My own company is the best anyhow.

  • @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
    @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 Місяць тому

    Powerful material, I have been practicing some of these techniques but didn’t know they are before my time.
    One thing I do know is that self growth is inevitable and will come to you as a gift to self.
    Stoicism works for me and broaden my knowledge of the why behind my actions to be a better version of myself daily ❤

  • @DjBonds-ex3iv
    @DjBonds-ex3iv Місяць тому

    ❤ LET'S RISE ⬆️ ABOVE THOSE WHO REJECT US

  • @mirkogiljaca1051
    @mirkogiljaca1051 3 місяці тому +7

    Thank You.

  • @user-cz3xn1wm7s
    @user-cz3xn1wm7s 2 місяці тому +1

    The answer is YES thank you for this

  • @debo1301
    @debo1301 2 місяці тому +1

    So powerful

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 3 місяці тому +4

    A blessing in disguise

  • @ramaaboge5354
    @ramaaboge5354 21 день тому

    Powerful and credible message

  • @mariab4905
    @mariab4905 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you

  • @Life_Student2
    @Life_Student2 Місяць тому

    Strength and Adversay❤

  • @user-ye1kc2ff2b
    @user-ye1kc2ff2b 3 місяці тому +1

    Amen❤😊

  • @EkspressNovosti
    @EkspressNovosti 3 місяці тому +2

    Good luck 👍 💓 ✨️ 💗 💖 💜 👍 💓 ✨️ 💗 💖

  • @patriciaoreilly8907
    @patriciaoreilly8907 3 місяці тому +1

    Really appreciate 😊

  • @hindwidad2723
    @hindwidad2723 3 місяці тому +2

    This is some good stuff! You deserve more followers ❤

  • @alasanbah9509
    @alasanbah9509 3 місяці тому +5

    Wonderful

  • @nanetteking12
    @nanetteking12 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent message, hinky AI. Thanks

  • @maryhartley512
    @maryhartley512 3 місяці тому +8

    But its so painful i love him 😢

  • @WisdomWords-sf2if
    @WisdomWords-sf2if Місяць тому

    lots of lessons for me, thank you

  • @josephpalumbo1811
    @josephpalumbo1811 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent

  • @user-fo1sw6ie3t
    @user-fo1sw6ie3t 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏 Thank you

  • @sorahbrowne1534
    @sorahbrowne1534 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you so much. I do have some of those good qualities. I sen

  • @Motivation8888-hq6fz
    @Motivation8888-hq6fz 2 місяці тому +1

    thanks you

  • @lisaammons4655
    @lisaammons4655 Місяць тому +1

    my children wanted me to think my birthday was really special until i watched the video and listen to the bday song my daughter jumped in and said think as i was rejected

  • @MarlonMobley-ki1uh
    @MarlonMobley-ki1uh 24 дні тому

    Thanks

  • @ladidi4955
    @ladidi4955 3 місяці тому +3

    It highlights the like button😮when the a.i mentioned it

  • @Jazz-pg9xb
    @Jazz-pg9xb 3 місяці тому +1

    Very good 👍🏼😊

  • @StoicValuesyt1
    @StoicValuesyt1 2 місяці тому +1

    good to use

  • @ursulareeg1171
    @ursulareeg1171 2 місяці тому +2

    When relationships become a painful experience there comes a time to delete or block such contacts. I have and I felt better for doing do.

  • @marko-pz4kg
    @marko-pz4kg Місяць тому +2

    I dont want anyone to miss me, i want to be left alone and forgotten by everyone

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 Місяць тому

      @marko-pz4kg, your comment resonates with a deep sense of solitude and perhaps a desire for detachment from social bonds. It's evident that you're navigating through a complex emotional landscape, seeking solace in solitude. However, your expression prompts curiosity about the experiences or thoughts driving this sentiment. Is there a specific reason behind your desire to be left alone and forgotten? Understanding the deeper motivations behind such feelings can often illuminate paths towards personal growth and fulfillment. If you're comfortable sharing, what led you to this perspective, and what do you hope to achieve by embracing solitude? Your insights could offer valuable reflections for others navigating similar emotions.

    • @DivaDavida6969
      @DivaDavida6969 Місяць тому

      🥹 poor baby 😘😘😘

  • @ursulaschlapbach311
    @ursulaschlapbach311 Місяць тому

    This is very important and helpful 🎉❤🎉

  • @user-kz1zx6eh6s
    @user-kz1zx6eh6s 3 місяці тому

    Awesome very interesting

  • @washinfdc
    @washinfdc 2 місяці тому +1

    This be very well fine and well. Some you can use, some you can not. Money, if you're being denied illegally is no different than political homicide.

  • @StoicVirtuesyt1
    @StoicVirtuesyt1 2 місяці тому +1

    great 😁

  • @doctorkrf
    @doctorkrf 3 місяці тому +13

    The AI Voice over on this one mispronounces so many words.

  • @FlRElTUP
    @FlRElTUP 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm sorry but I couldn't help but laugh, that stroke came on strong (3:10)

  • @shanchaii7976
    @shanchaii7976 3 місяці тому +5

    12 years of relationship and its hurt that he Reject me without any valid reason😭😭

    • @taymicastro2749
      @taymicastro2749 2 місяці тому +2

      There’s a reason for everything,u can’t see it now ,but later you will and it is always for good 👍.You have to make the call

    • @antoniagiffard7596
      @antoniagiffard7596 2 місяці тому +4

      I just broke up a 12 years relationship also, which was long distance, i just found out that the bastards was living a double life. I was always the one doing all the travelling.

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 Місяць тому

    Greater

  • @modern_stoicism783
    @modern_stoicism783 2 місяці тому +1

    wow cool cool videos