Attending the Happiest Funeral in the World

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  • Опубліковано 12 лис 2022
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  • @internetexploreer
    @internetexploreer Рік тому +3912

    Tommy being vulnerable like that made me cry. He is such a sweet and kind soul and that radiates through every video that he is in.

    • @NubianEmpress777
      @NubianEmpress777 Рік тому +55

      Tommy is indeed a sweet and kind soul... I was moved by his emotions. I lost my grandma in 1999 and as he mentioned his, I too thought of mine... Forever LOVED and MISSED. Thank you YES THEORY for another beautiful video, bringing us all closer as a human family. Much LOVE from 🇹🇹.

    • @theprodigytm63
      @theprodigytm63 Рік тому +18

      Its why he is one of my favorites of the group! He seems a lot like me in many many ways. Great video.

    • @travelniz
      @travelniz Рік тому +3

      Love it!

    • @bradypease6394
      @bradypease6394 Рік тому +10

      I’m not crying my eyes are sweating omg I lost my grandma as well about a year ago and I was feeling it too then he said it and started tearing up gosh darn it dude ❤️😂😇

    • @itsjustmath
      @itsjustmath Рік тому +11

      Thank you for sharing that moment with us. Made me start crying, helped me grieve my grandmother a little. Capturing human moments like that and helping others through that is what part of the beauty of technology and the internet.

  • @mrasbon
    @mrasbon Рік тому +2347

    Yes Theory, Ghanaians are grateful for this video. And our funerals are always, always happier..
    All Ghanaians gather up here for appreciation 🇬🇭

    • @silvanuskwasi8630
      @silvanuskwasi8630 Рік тому +23

      Ghana to the world.

    • @TheCpobarnet
      @TheCpobarnet Рік тому +42

      You are an amazing people. I have such a respect for your culture and ethics. The world could use more of your kindness

    • @krispy4605
      @krispy4605 Рік тому +20

      So cool that this video was done, us westerners should really take note.

    • @samuelyankson8603
      @samuelyankson8603 Рік тому +3

      @@silvanuskwasi8630 you barb💯

    • @jesse73429
      @jesse73429 Рік тому +3

      Love you, Emmanuel!

  • @redkoifish
    @redkoifish Рік тому +531

    I swear I come back to this channel after months of not watching and I just get hit with a gust of hope and inspiration. It’s crazy.

  • @SupremeLeaderKimJong-un
    @SupremeLeaderKimJong-un Рік тому +633

    Honestly, I think it’s beautiful that Ghanaian’s view death as a celebration of life rather than something super depressing like how Western cultures view it. I’ve unfortunately lost several people very close to me, and I feel like the way Westerners go about mourning someone almost make it harder to cope with the loss. But for Ghanaians it’s appears that it’s more of a “see ya later” instead of goodbye forever, I love that
    This video honestly made me swell up with tears. Laugh with joy and just feel a sense of connection to a group of people that I don't know. I just wanted to say thank you

    • @kwahumagazine
      @kwahumagazine Рік тому +22

      Visit Ghana 🇬🇭 and experience our unique culture

    • @tommybootlegger
      @tommybootlegger Рік тому +13

      I like the way they refer to their departed in the present tense, instead of past tense, like they're still there with them.

    • @eahadzi
      @eahadzi Рік тому +21

      I am a Ghanaian ,lost my mom a year ago. Trust me, the pain never leaves you especially when they die young. After 70yrs, we acknowledge the person lived well so we celebrate their passing. The very day the body is lowered into the ground, you leave the grief right there in the cemetery. Relief I guess

    • @lydiadoumon6781
      @lydiadoumon6781 Рік тому +8

      This is how I tell my family here in the west when someone passed away. I cooked a nice meal and I serve then a good Cognac first and I deliver the news that we lost a family member back home, now anytime I said let's have a drink they go who now is gone now you can see the the tears missed with the laughter 😭😭😭 🤣🤣🤣
      Love always

    • @theazshow7327
      @theazshow7327 Рік тому +2

      -see ya on the other side

  • @NytesMusic
    @NytesMusic Рік тому +753

    My favourite part is actually that the Ghanaians speak in the present tense about their late family and friends. "My mother is" instead of "My mother was", little details like that are so beautiful to me!

    • @michellekabanga3612
      @michellekabanga3612 Рік тому +44

      African dead loved ones may be dead in physical but alive and always in spirit with their loved ones a least the bantou people

    • @Ceburekas
      @Ceburekas Рік тому +1

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Рік тому +6

      No,we don't. Maybe they didn't speak English fluently and that's why they would use is instead of was

    • @donnygout4558
      @donnygout4558 Рік тому +30

      @@purplelove3666 mah dude ghana has been an english/dutch speaking country for hundreds of years fam

    • @stephaniegyamfi3514
      @stephaniegyamfi3514 Рік тому

      That is very true 🤣🤣🤣

  • @akossarfo-kantanka7231
    @akossarfo-kantanka7231 Рік тому +1194

    I’m an American child of a Ghanaian immigrant, my grandfather was the chief of a Ashanti village. When he died at the age of 110 we when back for the funeral that last 3 days. It was the most incredible experience being apart of a “royal family”. I have never feared death, and when I do pass I want it to be a celebration of my life, not a sad and cold funeral. This video makes me so proud to be Ashanti-Ghanaian-America 🇬🇭

    • @sidilicious11
      @sidilicious11 Рік тому +26

      First, wow 110! Good for him. That experience sounded amazing.

    • @xhxhxhxchchchch6901
      @xhxhxhxchchchch6901 Рік тому +6

      Mfs definitely added afew years

    • @akossarfo-kantanka7231
      @akossarfo-kantanka7231 Рік тому +8

      @@xhxhxhxchchchch6901 what do you mean?

    • @Ankesadventures
      @Ankesadventures Рік тому

      ❤❤

    • @coolhunter3
      @coolhunter3 Рік тому +9

      @@akossarfo-kantanka7231 Having grown up in Ghana as a kid myself, in the Savannah region. At least when I lived there people didn't really record or keep track of their birthday and age. Asking someone for their age would always be a wild guess at best. Not saying you're wrong, but I would be really surprised if he was actually a 110 years old. Like you could ask someone who'se clearly 18-20 and they will say they're 30. It's not because they are lying, they genuinely have no idea because it's not a thing they care to track as westerners do.

  • @alvinkoeswanto8622
    @alvinkoeswanto8622 Рік тому +284

    West African countries are criminally underrated. We know so little of them while they are so friendly and kind towards others.

    • @myztroogeegibson3568
      @myztroogeegibson3568 Рік тому +13

      They're the same people who build the Egyptians and Sudanese pyramids that were displaced by the Greek, Romans and Arabs conquests...

    • @patriciahercules6852
      @patriciahercules6852 Рік тому +3

      These people cannot leave our people alone.Always monitoring our way of life

    • @velu_INC4300
      @velu_INC4300 Рік тому

      Super super

    • @mallarieluvsgirls
      @mallarieluvsgirls Рік тому

      @@myztroogeegibson3568 ok? europeans did the same shit. enslaved them. europeans killed each other en mass. since forever. european americans and canadians continue to ignore and kill the native population to this day. and white people are constantly represented and celebrated everywhere. what was the point of ur comment??? to be racist? if ur so offended by a culture finally getting recognition and love, u have some issues to work thru. gross.

    • @mallarieluvsgirls
      @mallarieluvsgirls Рік тому

      @@patriciahercules6852 ??? which people. cause white people seem to be obsessed with black always. whether it’s hating them or stealing their slang and shit.

  • @lechij33
    @lechij33 Рік тому +457

    When that one lady said: „In Ghana, we love everyone“, I couldn’t stop myself from dropping a tear. Crazy kindness and hospitality, exactly what I’m missing so often in our „perfect“ western society world… Great video, as ALWAYS. Greetings from Germany !

    • @mintjamss
      @mintjamss Рік тому +24

      crazy how rare common common hospitality is that we're surprised by people loving everyone

    • @rokpepeshogun
      @rokpepeshogun Рік тому +22

      @@mintjamss the competition for money made us this way, that's what I think

    • @terrelmensa4373
      @terrelmensa4373 Рік тому +23

      As a Ghanaian living here in America one thing I noticed is the lack of love and sense of community here. In Ghana everyone is family and most people are really nice and friendly and welcoming. I can’t wait to go back and settle in my country.

    • @kalb1ss1blak21
      @kalb1ss1blak21 Рік тому +11

      @@terrelmensa4373 many places in america lack community and hospitality. many people are very isolated and unsocialable due to this lack of a collective identity. the closest thing to culture that all american share is comodity consumption and hyper-individualism, which isn't even exclusive to america.

    • @user-bm6jn9ls4n
      @user-bm6jn9ls4n Рік тому +8

      Thats the whole of Africa, no one is a stranger... It takes the whole village to grow our children... In The whole of Africa we have what we call I hunhu/Ubuntu.. Called by different names in different parts mening the same.. which is.. I am because we are.. Or A person is a person because of other people..everything is about the collective.. We come from a culture of We not l..

  • @aquamarine13yt
    @aquamarine13yt Рік тому +1597

    I may be young now, but I would honestly love to have a funeral like this, a celebration of the life the person lived. This is amazing thank you for documenting this for us

    • @ashplayz2374
      @ashplayz2374 Рік тому +4

      I feel the exact same.

    • @user-hl9ww3ml2m
      @user-hl9ww3ml2m Рік тому +3

      Exactly what I was thinking!

    • @Mansikkacake
      @Mansikkacake Рік тому +21

      I am not a religious person and technically belong to buddhism from family, and this celebrating by dancing singing makes sense the most as a human being. Great way to connect to family, relatives and neighbors while sending the love ones for their departures. now want to do research about the world funeral cultures and history how it started.

    • @danino66
      @danino66 Рік тому +8

      If feel the same and that’s why I teach my kids that it is ok to cry the lost of someone…but that they should be happy for the great life that person lived and thankful for the memories they had together…

    • @tul5124
      @tul5124 Рік тому +7

      I've always said I want everyone to wear colors. No black. Enjoy yourselves. Now I want this. This was super emotional for me. I love this so much.

  • @Legendary33284
    @Legendary33284 Рік тому +775

    There are so few places on the internet that give a proper representation of people in the real world instead of just the 2% of people that scream the loudest. You guys show that for the most part people are welcoming, nice, caring, and are willing to connect across races/cultures/ethnicities. Keep it up these stories are so awesome and informative. Much Love

  • @jackiecasenavy
    @jackiecasenavy Рік тому +197

    Travelled to Ghana this past summer and it was one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever been with even more beautiful people. All I have to say is madaase Ghana

    • @Dapperwan
      @Dapperwan Рік тому +5

      🇬🇭Thanks but it’s *Medaase*
      We hope to see you again 💙💙🫂

    • @benandoh4774
      @benandoh4774 Рік тому

      u already learning the twi language huh 🤣

    • @elizabethmensah6517
      @elizabethmensah6517 Рік тому

      Ye daase @jackie

    • @EkowAidoo
      @EkowAidoo Рік тому +1

      Akwaaba

    • @jeremyankamah4737
      @jeremyankamah4737 Рік тому +1

      we will give you your citizenship when you are ready!

  • @anthonycornwall7390
    @anthonycornwall7390 Рік тому +61

    You could not be so accepted like this in a European country....NEVER...

  • @AllieKitaguchi
    @AllieKitaguchi Рік тому +240

    Seeing Tommy cry made me cry. That's something I'll always love, admire, and respect about Yes Theory -- there has never been any doubt that everyone involved in this channel is compassionate, kind, generous, and curious about life and all of it's mysteries.

    • @legoqueen2445
      @legoqueen2445 Рік тому +7

      Me too! My brother went missing on April 11 2021. The police believe he has passed away but his body has not been found. Tommy crying for his grandmother made me shed some tears for my brother. I held a memorial for him this year on the anniversary of his dissapearence. I asked everyone to wear bright colours and we threw flowers into the ocean. Everyone shared a memory of my brother before we threw the flowers into the sea. It was a very special day where we celebrated who my brother was and how he impacted our lives but we also were able to grieve together over his absence. ♡

  • @ConnerSpeed6
    @ConnerSpeed6 Рік тому +233

    "When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure."
    What a beautiful video! Thank you all for this one!

    • @sarahwiseman9110
      @sarahwiseman9110 Рік тому +1

      I lost my sweet sstr inlaw in OCTOBER she was younger to me but i called her my mom #ur COMMENT IS POWERFULL.

    • @ConnerSpeed6
      @ConnerSpeed6 Рік тому

      @@sarahwiseman9110 I'm so sorry for your loss. When I lost my Aunt Gina back in 2018 unexpectedly, I received this same quote on an item that someone gave me at her funeral. It is in my bedroom to this day, and will never leave.
      Much love to you, and your sweet sister in law. Fly high ♥

  • @Abhishek-zq9wr
    @Abhishek-zq9wr Рік тому +241

    When the coffin maker told he want to burried in a hammer coffin that really gave me goosebumps. I have a fear of death but that statement made me understand that some things are inevitable. important thing is to find the hammer for yourself so when you rest forever you will be happy and satisfied that you tried and did what you enjoyed.

    • @aisthetic.art1
      @aisthetic.art1 Рік тому +9

      True, the guy loves his craft so much that he would like his coffin to represent some of his work, the use of the hammer in his woodwork....so much to learn through other people's experiences.

    • @yolandaemba919
      @yolandaemba919 Рік тому +1

      I thought he'd say he wants to be buried in a coffin since he makes them but his answer shows that he though about it deeply.

    • @rosarioalunday7608
      @rosarioalunday7608 Рік тому +2

      Hear in our place in the Philippines it's not the coffin of the dead is designed accdg to the profession , hobby, etc .but it is depicted in their tomb desig like shoes,helicopters,ambulance,bird.

    • @OC1621.
      @OC1621. Рік тому

      @@aisthetic.art1 I know a Mason whose coffin was built as an apartment building.

    • @casscass8018
      @casscass8018 Рік тому +1

      Beautifully said

  • @jangoafrica
    @jangoafrica Рік тому +105

    I love this country. It's only in Ghana that someone can be crying at a funeral and takes a sudden short break to eat or respond to greetings and then jump right back into mourning mood

  • @yinkaraphael
    @yinkaraphael Рік тому +127

    It’s amazing to see Yes Theory coming to Africa, I’m Nigerian, and I’ve been living in Ghana for 2 years now. It is a really wonderful and beautiful place here.

  • @kwakupencil6789
    @kwakupencil6789 Рік тому +168

    Am greatful my countrys culture is being showcased like never before 🎉🎉 🇬🇭 truly Ghana is the gateway to Africa

    • @asmraylin5932
      @asmraylin5932 Рік тому +1

      💖

    • @clysen8234
      @clysen8234 Рік тому +2

      I never seen this before and I think it's beautiful. I learn that smile can express grief also

    • @patriciahercules6852
      @patriciahercules6852 Рік тому +1

      Is he giving back anything to the community?

    • @RowdyElectron
      @RowdyElectron Рік тому +1

      @@patriciahercules6852attention

    • @kwakupencil6789
      @kwakupencil6789 Рік тому +2

      @@patriciahercules6852 i guess hes giving love back

  • @robertsamal
    @robertsamal Рік тому +131

    I am from Kenya and i have to say this is so different from what we have over here. It is such a good thing you are doing to showcase different people's culture. Would one day like visit Ghana. Much love from Kenya.

    • @ClickTagDigital
      @ClickTagDigital Рік тому +3

      You are always welcome 🇬🇭

    • @kwakupencil6789
      @kwakupencil6789 Рік тому +4

      You are welcome
      I visited kenya few years ago
      Kenya has such nice weather ..i love kenya 🇰🇪🇬🇭

    • @robertsamal
      @robertsamal Рік тому

      @@ClickTagDigital Thanks

    • @kenyanowtv
      @kenyanowtv Рік тому +2

      Luos and luhyas in kenya also celebrate life through playing music and dancing for atleast two weeks when the the body is in the mortuary.There are lots of food to be eaten in the funeral and different kinds of people attend.Ghanians are the best when it comes to celebrating life of the deceased.

    • @moa5351
      @moa5351 Рік тому +1

      Yes... very different. For a start, Kenyans y'all need to smile more and be more welcoming to strangers, specially other Africans. Ghanaians smile so much more and are genuinely hospitable. My experience in Nairobi was nice... but not because of being made particularly welcome. We stayed at a high end hotel and were met with professional but cold treatment.. if you know what i mean. They do their work but keep.. poker faces and give cool responses. Very different from West Africa. Btw I'm Nigerian and have traveled several times to Ghana, Benin, Togo, Gambia and definitely the warm hospitality beats what you find in Kenya hands down.

  • @sebanema
    @sebanema Рік тому +37

    Memento Mori. The way Ghanaians celebrate one's death seems way more complete than funerals of the West. There is space to cry, mourn and grieve and then circles to dancing, joy and celebration. Wholesome!

    • @philipamankwa579
      @philipamankwa579 Рік тому +6

      Most of the crying is done right after the person dies. Most Ghanaians are kept in the morgue for weeks (as the family prepares and children in the diaspora are waited for to arrive). So after weeks or a fee months and some even a year or two, the funeral then kicks off. By then the grief has subsided that's why it is so easy to move from grief to happiness. Like the guy said (but was overuled by his dad), it depends. It's easier and more celebratory when the person is older and quite more sober when the person died young.
      Yes Theory, great to see you were in Ghana a few weeks ago. Next time visit the Ashanti kingdom, they have a great cultural heritage.

    • @moonkraab
      @moonkraab Рік тому

      Memento mori. xo

  • @parthdubey5494
    @parthdubey5494 Рік тому +25

    Culture and hospitability at par. love from India to all Ghanaians

  • @adamfattal468
    @adamfattal468 Рік тому +132

    I was raised in Ghana and I’m glad an extensive video is being made about this great tradition!!

  • @buhbwoylimpo7287
    @buhbwoylimpo7287 Рік тому +110

    Such a beautiful country, people and life style.. God bless Ghana! much love from the Philippines..

  • @lennyross2813
    @lennyross2813 Рік тому +84

    I find it comforting that the people across the globe can be so welcoming to complete strangers.🙂

  • @DrewCNewOrleans
    @DrewCNewOrleans Рік тому +93

    Being born and raised as a New Orleanian, this feels like home to me. We dance and celebrate the lives of our loved ones in something similar to this video called a second line.

    • @MrTheelicitor
      @MrTheelicitor Рік тому +3

      @carflip...Yes, it is home where most of ur ancestors came from. Glad u can draw some pallarels

    • @VicinityTM
      @VicinityTM Рік тому +4

      Visit your motherland as it calls you

    • @kenyamccrary2355
      @kenyamccrary2355 Рік тому

      Yes, I had the exact thought that this is probably the origin of the New Orleans second line. Especially because if the Slave trade history between that part of USA and also Ghana.
      There is definitely a linked history.
      I hear always that most African slaves in North America, came from Ghana.

  • @drakebabcock5940
    @drakebabcock5940 Рік тому +96

    i didn't know I wanted to go to Africa until I watched this series, amazing

  • @robertempere6545
    @robertempere6545 Рік тому +20

    Ghanaians are very very warm people. I'm Nigerian by the way. 😊

  • @victoriau6703
    @victoriau6703 Рік тому +12

    It's beautiful to see how welcoming and hospitable Ghanaians are. When you look at history it's more clear why those taken captive for slavery were naive to evil intentions. Yet love and grace is still ruling there.

  • @DaisyGalvanlikes
    @DaisyGalvanlikes Рік тому +359

    Im so excited for the adventures in Africa we’ll be able to experience through you guys. This celebration made me tear up. It was beautiful to see people come together to be in morning while also appreciating life. An amazing perspective I wouldn’t have known otherwise without this channel. I don’t know much about this side of the world, can’t wait to see more :)))

  • @steelersobx24
    @steelersobx24 Рік тому +24

    Ghanaians are so kind 🥹 what a beautiful snippet of their culture

  • @ghananiabrante3563
    @ghananiabrante3563 Рік тому +8

    A beautiful country is not only about infrastructure, it is also about the people and the expressions of their hearts.
    Poverty may be seen all around Ghana but the inner joy and show of love in unparalleled.
    Kudos my beloved Ghana.

  • @yener4018
    @yener4018 Рік тому +4

    I like how the man was making sure they understand that this is not like this everywhere in Africa, it is Ghanaian and Africa is not a monolith.

  • @luigipalazzini5109
    @luigipalazzini5109 Рік тому +59

    I spent a month in the early 90's at the port of Tema representing the Canadian government as a marine surveyor with their shipment of wheat. Although I had a cabin on the ship, I got to know one of the locals who brought me around the city. Unfortunately it was a military state at that time with armed troops throughout. But that did not diminish the great hospitality afforded to me. The local took no compensation or expected any. Beautiful people and I got to taste BBQ'd ram meat a local speciality. This video brought back great memories.

    • @terrelmensa4373
      @terrelmensa4373 Рік тому +1

      You should revisit again Luigi you will love it. Are you Italian descent?

    • @Brajona_
      @Brajona_ Рік тому +1

      Yea
      Visit us again
      We’d love that. I’m sure you would too

    • @kwamek9
      @kwamek9 Рік тому

      That's a long time, come visit one of these days

  • @smk5122
    @smk5122 Рік тому +24

    I was in Ghana two months ago and visited one of the coffin shops. Love the outlook of celebrating life. Amazing country

  • @thechorister
    @thechorister Рік тому +23

    Great video, God bless Africa, God bless Ghana🇬🇭 . 💟Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬.

  • @kipchumbabrian2002
    @kipchumbabrian2002 Рік тому +39

    Social live in Africa is on another level. Yes theory continues sharing our culture all over the world. MUCH LOVE

  • @CapitalNULLNull
    @CapitalNULLNull Рік тому +192

    Looking forward to the Africa series. The level of hospitality in Africa is.. special, so many kind and wonderful people. This video was awesome.

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK Рік тому +1

      When you have cameras people tend to be hospitable.

    • @ItsConnor
      @ItsConnor Рік тому +9

      @@PROVOCATEURSK As someone who stayed in Tanzania for a month I can assure you the locals are just a lovely and welcoming off camera!

    • @esthervanda7401
      @esthervanda7401 Рік тому

      @@PROVOCATEURSK you sound foolish

    • @dedominionmarymusic
      @dedominionmarymusic Рік тому +3

      @@PROVOCATEURSK only in your country bro Ghana is a very nice country I will testify to that 🇬🇭🔥

  • @JoJoMaMa_
    @JoJoMaMa_ Рік тому +26

    Wow. "In Ghana we love everyone".. Had me shedding tears. So beautiful.

  • @breezieb3297
    @breezieb3297 Рік тому +47

    I love their dancing so much. I've never seen such widespread joy in a society, civilized without people arguing over benign familial issues, enjoying each others' company and actually, truly celebrating their loved ones. I wish I could dance with them! According to my friends, I can't dance, but I dance a lot like them! 🤣

  • @aur-raw
    @aur-raw Рік тому +17

    They are seriously the sweetest people in the world!

  • @CamD9203
    @CamD9203 Рік тому +10

    I got to go to Ghana a couple years ago, they are incredible. Ghanaians and Indians are definitely the most welcoming people I've ever met.

  • @inacachou4016
    @inacachou4016 Рік тому +55

    As an African woman it makes me extremely happy to see my favorite channel do a series in African countries!! Please visit mali or Guinea next! ❤❤ all love , thanks for spreading your good energy worldwide 🎉😊

  • @lilianetv1482
    @lilianetv1482 Рік тому +8

    I m African but Ghana is place I want to visit. Love Ghana and its beautiful people and culture

  • @nanakwameeyiah3050
    @nanakwameeyiah3050 Рік тому +10

    I'm Ghanaian....been watching you guys for the past 4 years....next time you're in Ghana come to Agona Swedru let's explore

  • @cng9207
    @cng9207 Рік тому +102

    As a Ghanaian, I guess it’s true that sometimes it’s an outsider who’ll help you appreciate what you have. Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @swaggst
      @swaggst 8 місяців тому

      Truly. The moment on the map arrow moved from paris to Ghana i started having goosebumbs.. I love my country 🇬🇭

    • @notashroom
      @notashroom 6 місяців тому

      It's a beautiful tradition, truly honoring the life and helping the people left behind to move on together. In America, the people of New Orleans have similar funerals with music and many people in the streets. That probably comes from Mother Africa. 💕

    • @mclesenn
      @mclesenn 5 місяців тому +1

      @@notashroom Yes you are right, I seen program on television here in USA about Louisiana funeral and as Ghanaian I was like what, is Louisiana part of Ghana. Because there were too much similarity how the funeral was conducted

    • @notashroom
      @notashroom 5 місяців тому +1

      @@mclesenn I hope it was a comfort to you to see that bit of home here in the States.

  • @benjaminkonicki7717
    @benjaminkonicki7717 Рік тому +48

    The part where Tommy talks about his loss: it's easy to relate to but so hard to keep it present in my mind. I lost my grandma junior year of high school, but it is so hard to stop and process and allow myself to grieve because life just moves so fast. Prayers out to all who have experienced loss and especially to those who have not had the time to grieve properly

  • @Aprilaprilapril82
    @Aprilaprilapril82 Рік тому +16

    Thank you for this! My father wanted only a party not a sad funeral, being from the USA not every body understood. This helped me to know that I did him proud!

  • @anjiee
    @anjiee Рік тому +22

    I absolutely love this….I love Ghana so much! I’m Nigerian and I could relate in the way they bury people. It’s a time to celebrate a life well lived!! great video guys
    Be sure to visit Nigeria for our wedding celebrations!!!

  • @pastaconketchups
    @pastaconketchups Рік тому +403

    After all these years Yes Theory it's just one of the few channels that has kept their content, I love how they seek discomfort in every video, love it guys🦋
    EDIT. Thanks for the like, Today it's my birthday🥺💘

  • @LizzyGiggles
    @LizzyGiggles Рік тому +41

    I would have loved something like this when I was in greif. I felt embarrassed to show any emotion and having so many people around you allowing you to feel sad and actively trying to cheer you up with song and dance, whilst truly celebrating your loved one and holding onto the happiest memories. I just think they're doing this the right way and we need to take note, so we don't end up feeling so alone and consumed with grief.

    • @jody2873
      @jody2873 Рік тому

      Unfortunately, as much as I like the idea of partying and "celebrating the life of" within a funeral, grief is a part of having to live in a fallen world. Grief from the deep reality of loss and death ( "decay") tends to get past our editing instinct and tells us, "this isn't natural and should not be", and grief isn't bad in itself, but it sure as hell doesn't feel good, and I sure as hell feel this is an "unnatural" thing, no matter how I try to convince myself or how much others try to convince me of the contrary. It is however necessary so as to be human, contrite and humbled by one of the two things we can never escape from... Otherwise, we'd be like the celebrities in a western society that has no bearings or real concern about the realities of life and death in a corrupted, decadent world, -which is a good thing to avoid.
      The scar from that deep loss of a loved one never goes away,- the 'infection' can take a number of years to heal, but the scar it makes on our soul is always a remembrance of the person and how unnatural that whole thing is.
      That scar on my soul is my celebration and remembrance of their life, and how grateful I am that God created them, and chose to grant me temporary fellowship with them on this earth.
      ...at least that's what I tell myself😉

    • @Jessicahurst1
      @Jessicahurst1 Рік тому +3

      The celebration of life is not to the exclusion of the grief. It’s being embraced by a community. Western countries have a phobia of death. Sharing grief is taboo and makes many viscerally uncomfortable.
      That can intensify grief with the accompanying loneliness and isolation.
      I wish we celebrated the end of a life the way we celebrate the beginning. They are both sacred events.
      This is beautiful ❤

  • @emilyappiah1505
    @emilyappiah1505 Рік тому +5

    That's Ghana 🇬🇭 🇬🇭 🇬🇭 . Beautiful and the Most HOSPITABLE Place on Earth 🌍.Friendly and Respectful People. Blessings.

  • @cobbycollins3
    @cobbycollins3 Рік тому +17

    As a Ghanaian I am really happy this part of our culture is shown to the world, funerals are meant to be a celebration of life 🥰 no matter how sad it is, embrace the pain and move on.

    • @notashroom
      @notashroom 6 місяців тому

      It was beautiful, makes me wish I could have one like it. 💕

  • @rukayahhabiba5426
    @rukayahhabiba5426 Рік тому +43

    As a ghanaian myself i am so happy to see that you guys are sharing this beautiful part of the world as well. Thank you so much Yes Theory for always showing the the truth and beauty of cultures all around the world! 🇬🇭♥

  • @megm2824
    @megm2824 Рік тому +101

    I always loved learning about different cultures, their traditions, their history, etc. Thank you for bringing this content to us. It is very much appreciated.

  • @maryopot4253
    @maryopot4253 Рік тому +8

    Am from Kenya and absolutely blown away with Ghana culture.. 🇬🇭 August we are coming 💪

  • @kelvinkotei-kotei2000
    @kelvinkotei-kotei2000 Рік тому +5

    Ghana Is a lovely place and we are always eager to welcome more visitors and tourists. Our hospitality is amazing

  • @AverytheCubanAmerican
    @AverytheCubanAmerican Рік тому +72

    They seem like the nicest people in the world! I’m blown away. The way they handle grief, how the community came together, to the hospitality. It’s simply amazing! Love that coffin maker's attitude! He truly has the spirit to provide those with a fitting coffin depicting what and how they live their lives! Truly a celebration of life lived and a what is to come. To embrace and be embraced like this is what life is all about, every culture, every country, every person has a story worth telling and you guys do this beautifully.

  • @suzaxne
    @suzaxne Рік тому +20

    I was shielded from both of my Grandmothers funerals and in a sense I am grateful that I was blissfully unaware of it. When it came to my Grandfathers funeral I think I mourned them all at once.

  • @salmarufaidimmua6023
    @salmarufaidimmua6023 Рік тому +10

    There is a saying that Ghana is the Gate way to Africa... Ghanaians are the most hospitable pople in Africa.. you will always be welcome with Big Smiles even when they don't know who you are...❤️💚💙💜

  • @whensunkissedf
    @whensunkissedf Рік тому +37

    I wish my funeral will be celebrated like this. Ghanaian really knows how to celebrate life and death. Welcoming, fun, open and hospitable .Love the positivity!

    • @SeroneyMatoke
      @SeroneyMatoke Рік тому +2

      It's actually an african thing. I think the only burials that aren't celebrated are of young people

    • @ghanacommercialbank6390
      @ghanacommercialbank6390 Рік тому

      Don't worry you will be celebrated just like that

  • @Gh_ba_finest
    @Gh_ba_finest Рік тому +20

    I love it when others get to experience a piece of my motherland Ghana!! There's so much rich culture to explore and experience, and on behalf of all my Ghanaian brothers and sisters, I want to say thank you @YesTheory for showcasing a part of it to the world! Ghana to the whole Wiase!!!

  • @hannah1052
    @hannah1052 Рік тому +65

    My dad deeply loved and respected music, he was alway jamming out and getting others to dance too, he even specified certain songs he would like played at his celebration of life. When he passed a couple months ago, we of course honored his wishes and one of those songs was September by Earth Wind and Fire. We all stood up and danced like he would have & I can confirm, it absolutely helped the grief process. What a gorgeous tradition these people have!

    • @nanakwadwo8355
      @nanakwadwo8355 Рік тому +4

      Thank you for your sweet words😊
      Proud to be a Ghanaian🇬🇭
      Indeed every culture is beautiful.

    • @AlejandroMartinez-cl4kk
      @AlejandroMartinez-cl4kk 11 місяців тому +1

      Excellent choice of a song! Impossible not to dance to that one. E, W & F are the best! Sorry for your loss

  • @randumbnass
    @randumbnass Рік тому +10

    I never thought I'd be smiling ear to ear while watching a funeral. Absolutely beautiful

  • @Dawn4j
    @Dawn4j Рік тому +24

    FINALLY THEY ARE REALLY DOING A "WORLD TOUR". COULDN'T WAIT FOR THEM TO FINALLY GO TO AFRICA. STARTED FEELING SOME TYPE OF WAY.

  • @leob1835
    @leob1835 Рік тому +16

    Oh my gosh, Tommy! I cried with you for my grandma too … love you all, much love from South Africa 🇿🇦

    • @thatGirl359
      @thatGirl359 Рік тому

      Really hope they come here🤗

  • @NASAFanboy
    @NASAFanboy Рік тому +4

    Such a beautiful country full of beautiful people, Ghana is now added to the list of places I must visit!

  • @joostfloot5279
    @joostfloot5279 Рік тому +63

    It was pretty confronting to see how open these people were to not only their community but also to you strangers. Here in the Western world we're really getting individualistic, mainly focusing on ourselves. The Ghanians are inspiring really, I'll try to corporate their hospitality in my daily life.

    • @mubarak_NFT
      @mubarak_NFT Рік тому +1

      great

    • @steve3288
      @steve3288 Рік тому +3

      You are really welcome to Ghana because we don't discriminate 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

  • @jonesnin
    @jonesnin Рік тому +8

    I've never traveled much, only to New York City for a school trip when I was 16. I am unable to travel now due to my health. Your channel lets me travel the world and experience the wonder and feel like I've been there.

  • @ChokyoDK
    @ChokyoDK Рік тому +19

    Videos like these are so important.
    It not only shows the amazing people in other countries but it also exposes people to other cultures and gets them interested in learning and accepting other people.

  • @kwahumagazine
    @kwahumagazine Рік тому +11

    Feel so bad for not meeting you guys
    but also glad for coming to my country Ghana 🇬🇭 YES THEORY✌️

  • @jeremychoong5792
    @jeremychoong5792 Рік тому +3

    🇬🇭 one the most friendly country. Respect all the people. Salute

  • @RattledAwakeBooks
    @RattledAwakeBooks Рік тому +37

    Imagine if we celebrated the transition our loved one has made even 1/2 this much! Now that would be a proper send-off! Thank you for bringing to world to us, Kwesi, Kwami & the Yes Theory crew...for the efforts you made personally to make it happen and the impact doc's like this will have on the entire world. Good vibes, guys!

  • @AjSchmitty
    @AjSchmitty Рік тому +40

    So bizarrely wild that this is the first video I watch on UA-cam after finding out my grandmother’s funeral will be this coming Tuesday. I definitely agree that a funeral should be based around the celebration of someone’s life ❤

  • @TaraGriffith97
    @TaraGriffith97 Рік тому +25

    i’m forever thankful for yes theory on opening my eyes to so many cultures they visit. this world is beautiful and unfortunately the unknown of other cultures is shown as evil and scary when it’s not.

  • @erickirimi5257
    @erickirimi5257 Рік тому +10

    Am from 🇰🇪 but this is far from the way we do it here. Lots of love for 🇬🇭.

  • @eugeniaasamoa-mensah2465
    @eugeniaasamoa-mensah2465 Рік тому +13

    Great Documentary. I’m from Ghana and we are grateful you showcased this part of our culture. I discovered your channel two days ago, whereby I ended up watching the worst country in Europe. I really fell in love with that video . I would love to meet you guys one day. Watching your videos , gives me hope in life.

  • @nouz7503
    @nouz7503 Рік тому +16

    The same day this came out my grandpa died so this really hit me in the feels, he was an incredible man and would deserve something as amazing as this! Thank you yes theory ❤

  • @ferwallace1903
    @ferwallace1903 Рік тому +59

    Ghanaians are the most humble people I've seen in Africa. They are probably the happiest people in the whole africa. I would probably feel very safe in Ghana if I ever visit. I now have a very different view of death. While we mourn we should celebrate life. Our beloveds have just slipped into another room. These Ghanaians speak of their deceased relatives as though they're still alive. Thank you Ghanaians. I have more respect for you and interest in your country now.

    • @mickeyackah
      @mickeyackah Рік тому +7

      I kid you not you can’t be sad for long here😂😂😂😂🇬🇭❤️

    • @frans_bauer
      @frans_bauer Рік тому +4

      @@mickeyackah i recently lost my last grandparent. Around the time this vid came out and i watch death in a different perspective now. Im a late born so everyone in my family is already a bit older, so i sadly have been to many funerals, but its always sad and dark, thanks for your loving country, i wish you the best. Ghana is definitely on my list when i go to africa. Its a big wish for me since the continent is so watched over but the most lovely❤️

    • @mickeyackah
      @mickeyackah Рік тому +1

      @@frans_bauer 🥺🥺🥺 you’re most welcome with open arms

    • @frans_bauer
      @frans_bauer Рік тому +1

      @@mickeyackah thank you mate, your always welcome in the Netherlands either❤️💪🏻

    • @parrotsitter7916
      @parrotsitter7916 Рік тому

      Most Africans are accepting and kind to strangers, nothing compared to what TV and movies make u believe. Yet Europeans are so hostile to Africans because they believe they the indoctrination of black people are bad

  • @mamacalabash8590
    @mamacalabash8590 Рік тому +7

    Am kenya but I soo much love Ghanians...I love their warmth and beauty...popped eyes and built bodies

  • @lifeofrayan
    @lifeofrayan Рік тому +12

    I love that you guys are doing this series, as a Jamaican with roots in the continent of Africa, I appreciate the eagerness to learn and immerse that you guys are taking on, wish Thomas and Ammar was there

  • @anumatis
    @anumatis Рік тому +6

    Interesting how they talk about passed away person in present time... he is very humble, he is very friendly

  • @isaacduko2346
    @isaacduko2346 Рік тому +8

    Wow am from Kenya but i must say that Ghanian people are so sweet.

  • @anitagu21
    @anitagu21 Рік тому +8

    I was born in 🇬🇭 but left to 🇬🇧 age 11 I'm in my 30s now and I've never missed or thought about traditions I grew up on, this video literally just opened up something in me right now( I can't find the words to describe it) 😭❤🙏🏿💃🏿😂❤ even certain memories I didn't even know I had.

  • @SUPREETH.
    @SUPREETH. Рік тому +135

    Yes Theory is one of the few channels who's spirit and energy is same throughout the years but yet the best ♥️
    Love from India 🇮🇳 guys.

    • @carlosbravo1234
      @carlosbravo1234 Рік тому +8

      I’d have to disagree. I think yes theory is one of the few accounts who’s videos have changed throughout the years, but nonetheless, the content has continued to get better and better. Few channels can say that they’ve changed their content, but continued to deliver great videos.

    • @SUPREETH.
      @SUPREETH. Рік тому +1

      @@carlosbravo1234 I ment the style is same

    • @carlosbravo1234
      @carlosbravo1234 Рік тому +5

      @@SUPREETH. in what way? The overall theme of seeking discomfort is the same, but before they were similar to the buried life in the sense of doing with seemed to be improbable tasks like sneaking into exclusive events where as now they are seeking discomfort while showing the world to its viewers.

    • @SUPREETH.
      @SUPREETH. Рік тому +1

      @@carlosbravo1234 ahh leave man

    • @lucbloom
      @lucbloom Рік тому +3

      @@SUPREETH.
      I agree with Carlo. I can see where you’re coming from. Maybe we can call it their spirit, or their energy, that remained the same.
      But above all, I think it’s important to keep a civil discussion and not disregard people for simply sharing their view.

  • @giuliatrombettoni9288
    @giuliatrombettoni9288 Рік тому +21

    this channel makes me understand how important it is to travel, and makes me understand the value of every person, every country and every story. thanks to all of the people of the yes theory community!

  • @goldfinger4967
    @goldfinger4967 Рік тому +14

    Both beautiful and sad at the same time. I salute the people of Ghana for their openness and hospitality to strangers. I've experienced it myself. To the film makers, you have shown respect to the people and their culture. You have shown gratitude. I'm proud of you!

  • @Randomnesssss
    @Randomnesssss Рік тому +13

    What a beautiful spirit these people carry around with them. So warm and welcoming! And these guys are just some of the sweet dudes on youtube.

  • @starkerrobert
    @starkerrobert Рік тому +6

    singing together in a group is the most beautiful thing on earth

  • @afiathedede
    @afiathedede Рік тому +32

    Thank you yes teory for showcasing my country!!❤ it fills me with so much happiness that y’all had a blessed time in beautiful Ghana and I am so incredibly excited to see the rest of this series!!! Stay blessed everyone 💜💜

  • @doreendadagodzo4291
    @doreendadagodzo4291 Рік тому +17

    Wow, I do sometimes watch your videos and I am happy to know that you visited Ghana my country. Indeed in Ghana funerals are like celebrations and I have always wondered why but it's a culture that we grew in and had to embrace.

  • @harrietquaye3727
    @harrietquaye3727 Рік тому +4

    What you also didn't get to know is that, in every family (Ghana), when one passes away, the cost etc is not left on just a few people, the entire extended family comes together to contribute to the burial and funeral cost. So anytime one dies from the family, it is mandatory most of the time to contribute to ease the financial burden on the direct family

  • @raccoonthatneedssleep
    @raccoonthatneedssleep Рік тому +7

    My mother passed over 10 years ago now, and I honestly wish there had been more celebration of her life after seeing this. While everyone needs time to grieve with the passing of a loved one, I think this is a much healthier way of seeing and doing things. It is so beautiful. Good for you Ghana on doing this so right.

  • @deikaferron5063
    @deikaferron5063 Рік тому +14

    It's so interesting to see how some of these practices have been passed down and still practiced here in Jamaica! Thank you for this series @YesTheory

  • @davidsackey1448
    @davidsackey1448 Рік тому +6

    This is great, I was at the queen mothers funeral in Accra ghana. It was soo colourful and amazing 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

  • @glorialatriceguy
    @glorialatriceguy Рік тому +17

    man the one thing i can count on is yes theory putting out videos with amazing stories. I've been watching their videos for years and my favorite thing about each member of yes theory is their complete willingness and openness to always empathize and embrace strangers and new cultures just to learn and love... ugh its truly beautiful.

  • @alphacause
    @alphacause Рік тому +16

    Thank you guys for filming Ghanaian funerary traditions. It has given me a new insight and deeper respect for them. So many religious traditions speak of the afterlife as a place of pure happiness, and yet when you see most religious people at funerals, you see them tearfully lament. Their behavior seems to reveal that they don't really believe what they say they believe about the happiness that awaits their loved ones after they leave this earthly realm. The Ghanaian's emphasis on celebrating the life of a person seems to illustrate that they have faith that what comes after is something better, and they are happy for their loved ones.

  • @soniahquish4158
    @soniahquish4158 Рік тому +6

    Now I want to go to Ghana more than ever before. 🇰🇪

    • @kojoodoom3739
      @kojoodoom3739 6 місяців тому

      Akwaaba. December is always better in Ghana 🇬🇭 🎉

  • @johnkimber2509
    @johnkimber2509 Рік тому +24

    Wow...this is absolutely amazing! I am Black American or African American. We have been here for hundreds of years and the majority of our African culture & identity was stripped from our ancestors during slavery. But remnants remain in our music, dance, food, & many other ways.. We call our funerals homegoing services or celebration of life. The ushers dance in the aisles of the church and after crying and mourning, the music becomes upbeat and we become happier. We know that we will be reunited with our love ones once again in the afterlife. After the burial, we come back to the church and have a large meal. We laugh and greet our loved ones. It it so very nice to see this part of our heritage has survived the horrors of the past.

    • @ncubesays
      @ncubesays Рік тому

      This is so beautiful. This comment made me shed a tear just thinking how some core aspects of African culture are still practiced to this day. I'm from Zimbabwe and while our funerals are slightly different to the one in this video, there's a lot of dancing, singing and copious amounts of traditional sorghum beer to honour joining the ancestors.

    • @moa5351
      @moa5351 Рік тому

      I'm Nigerian and yes I see so much of us in your traditions. Much love, healing and restoration from generational trauma to all our brothers and sisters in the US, the Caribbean, South America and every place our ancestors were forcibly taken to

    • @agnesnalikksa6342
      @agnesnalikksa6342 Рік тому

      We love you our African American family . Hope you come visit home in the future.

    • @jockin
      @jockin Рік тому

      Have you ever experienced this culture or are you just pretending to be something ur not

  • @doubtingthomas9612
    @doubtingthomas9612 Рік тому +16

    The fact that we get free videos on UA-cam by Yes Theory is truly a gift. 👏👏👏