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Not true at all over the past five years I whent from being a complete fuck boy to just wanting to settle down start a family and have one person for the rest of my life
You should be the ONLY one. NOT number 1. It's because if there is number 1 then there would be number 2 and so forth. One and only. NOT number 1 because he should NOT have a number 2 at all.
Hey sweetie your answer really touched my heart out of all. I truly understand!! But I know nothing about you but this one thing I do believe your husband to be is alive and well and looking for you!! My track record marriages has been horrible. I've been following his instrutions carefully with my childhood friend. We have been together 7 months now and I don't have a clue what's gonna happen. I do know these particular you tube videos have helped me soooo much. God Bless. I'll say a prayer for you and me too.lol
Date the guy that doesn't complain doesn't expect you to serve him, that has his act together! See how he treats his mother and his sisters. Don't settle for garbage! I'm happily married for seven years now, and every day my appreciation and love grow for my wife!
that is So Sweet, Thank You. I learned that lesson the Hard Way. I don't think I will ever find the Right Man, if you know what I mean, I am older now and with a daughter that has Down's Syndrome; in the U.S.A. that's worse than being a Criminal. I noticed that in Europe Men don't Care about my daughter's condition plus being in a wheelchair, especially, believe it or not, the Young Decent Guys were the first ones to Talk to me in Europe and loved talking with me. But here in America, men run from us as if we had a deadly Disease.
@@jenniferlorence1950 says alot about the state of our country in relation to others, have had a similar experience with men from say Europe, esp. Eastern European countries especially...honey, would be like, where's that passport? lol!! As a single mom, I keep my options open! Don't discriminate and move on! Don't let them play with your life and your baby, if that is what is best for you all! Be careful in that too.
I really cried after this video. Im taking my husband for granted. I just thought that hes not into me anymore after i gave birth to my 2 babies. But I was wrong. All these 4 signs..Thank you.
I've completely given up on men for now. The dating process has been extremely exhausting for me. Tons of dates, not to mention the time, money, & energy it costs me to look nice for these dates. I'm going to let go & let God in 2017! 😂😂
Reso Priazk perfect answere.suffis say that is God way of drawing you closer to Him.then after you put your Creator first God gifts you with an awesome partner.
Seriously. My mum and dad were married for 34 years until my mum passed away. They knew each other for 44 years. My dad never re-married or even had a girlfriend. When I asked him why that was, he said that even though they didn't have a perfect relationship they were best friends and that my mum was the only one. My parents told me that it's easy to fall in love ...relationship. But it takes work and commitment to stay in love...MARRIAGE. Hence all the divorce. This is too glib and simplistic to me. Just my opinion.
I think he is talking about the stage when you just met someone and not in the relationship period, no doubt it is hard work of both to keep the marriage go on
That's beautiful and sweet. You are lucky to be raised by a guy like that. And a mum too. Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. And tell your dad he gives me hope and shows how a real man should be.
These are all 100% true. I have finally found myself in a relationship where I am loved as much as I love. I have never felt such joy, such connection, such peace. Things feel so *right*. Matt described it well. I didn't know a relationship could be easy. I am having so much fun, and experiencing so much joy. We both are. And we are immensely grateful and feel so lucky. Good video and very accurate info Matt - great job! 🙂
Awesome advice! As a woman, if I wanted a relationship with a man, I do not pursue, avoid drama, be my best self and enhance my life with positive emotions and actions, show respect, listen to him and show him appreciation, don't rush to judgement, show him my sense of humor, and take the slow but steady approach towards progression...oh and feed him! ♥️😉
Yeah, I’m like, ‘’where does a man like this exist?” I seriously do not know any man which pursues a relationship. They’ll pursue sex, but never A (as in, one) woman.
Not true. I hate talking on the phone. Me and my guy text ALLLLL day. From good morning to goodnight. We are both busy and just knowing he is right there anytime I just say hi or wyd is great. We can talk in person!
when i want a relationship with a man i automatically become more flirtatious and spend more time with him.... i also find myself complementing the guy a lot as a way of expressing how i much i like him , like come on honey date me already LOL
Don't send pics. I know they've made it a thing now. Up to women to change that. Tell them real life connections or nothing. No one wants their pics saved forever for someone to do whatever they want with them.
Love these 4 “Ps”- Pursuit, Progression, Planning and Peace. Any relation needs these 4 Ps. Also, when putting your advice is put into acronym, it is easy to remember! Thank you, Mat!
This is what it felt like - all the four Ps done to perfection. I was on cloud nine until the week before the wedding and I got a glimpse of what the future held for me but was too naive to recognise the red flag for what it was - coercive control. Took 21 years to break free of the relationship.
The last message you said in the last part is truly powerful and could really boost every girl. And I also do agree with all these 4 things because my man now, shows all of that. Been into a lot of failed relationships but now, luckily I found him, he found me - the right man for me. :')
In all honesty when a guys initially sees you he puts you into three categories: Wifey, Smashable, or Issa No (Pass). If you, nor the guy are talking to are celibate or practicing abstinence you'll never quite know if a guys likes and is feeling you until AFTER sex. I'm not saying sleep around and have sex with every guy you date, but being aware of this fact will allow you to better decide if this is a guy you want to deal with and the overall reality of dating. The reality is that a guy might not be straightforward about his intentions or simply pretend he wants more than sex so that you can get comfortable enough with him. Keep in mind that guys don't necessarily need to like you to be down to have sex with you. He might like you enough to smash, but not enough to the point where he sees you as wifey and envisions himself in a relationship with you. The truth is that to really know a man is interested in you the two of you would have already gotten physical in some aspect. If he continue to hangout with you after smashing and initiates other dates and plans that are non sexual then more than likely he's really feeling you and it's only a matter of time till y'all become official. It's true that if you make guys wait they'll be less of them that are down to do that, but the other side to that is some guys will wait with you until you're comfortable enough while they continue to deal with other girls. The solution at the end of the day is to either remain celibate or straight up understand that you're choosing to smash a guy because you genuinely want to without the thinking that he'll leave you or with the thought that you're trying to keep him. Don't let a guy pressure you into sex if you're not in a space where you're bout that life. If you didn't want to, but then he leaves or changes up you may end up feeling quite.
He does these 4 things if he wants a relationship: 1. Pursuit (he pursues you) 2. Progression (we wanna see you more, wanna be more intimate..) 3. Planning (he plans to be with you) 4. Peace (the relationship just feels easy) This is just me but the first 3 of these seem like the same thing tbh... And are pretty obvious I mean...
Guy I'm seeing is doing all of these also. Thank God. Cause my Ex didn't do any of them.. And thought he was gonna put me 2nd. Nope don't think so. It was byenboy
Great Matt! I had a pursuer. And all I done was ignored him a little. Not much but enough that he would text and call me. Just kinda kept myself a little mystery. It works. Thanks for the video. Your topics are wonderful.
I just know that if a men really shows interest I can feel that energy so I’m not insecure anymore. Sometimes I just hate men. I feel terrible all the time because of the wrong men
Dung Luu you will know.ive met a guy.we both agreed the time together is electric.n im not speaking about sex.we both agreed we werent looking ..but have agreed.that for sure we are going to fall deeply in love.BUT ..weve both agreed to go with it...Im really pleasantly schocked and surprised that this has happened to me..😆
Thank you Mathew! I always knew men really did this for the women they really liked. I have yet to meet a man who is truly willing to chase after me. No worries even though I am an older lady who has not been caught yet I am still keeping the faith. I'm getting out there pursuing my own interest and meeting new men. And I'm online dating too. I am keeping hope alive that one lucky man will finally catch me and call me his one and only. For now I am fully taking advantage of being a free and single lady. And adoring every minute of it. And I also have my Lord and savior by my side helping me out too :)
I have a lot of friends who met husbands on online dating sites. There are obviously man who are lying and looking for "free sex" but most of them are easy to spot. Vegan VintageGeek take some time to work on yourself. We attract from the inside out and you are the common dominator. Read self-help books like growing yourself back up by John Lee and The Journey From Abandonment by Susan Anderson as well as anything by Pia Melody or Brene Brown or Henry Cloud and your life will transform if you allow yourself to.
In all honesty when a guys initially sees you he puts you into three categories: Wifey, Smashable, or Issa No (Pass). If you, nor the guy are talking to are celibate or practicing abstinence you'll never quite know if a guys likes and is feeling you until AFTER sex. I'm not saying sleep around and have sex with every guy you date, but being aware of this fact will allow you to better decide if this is a guy you want to deal with and the overall reality of dating. The reality is that a guy might not be straightforward about his intentions or simply pretend he wants more than sex so that you can get comfortable enough with him. Keep in mind that guys don't necessarily need to like you to be down to have sex with you. He might like you enough to smash, but not enough to the point where he sees you as wifey and envisions himself in a relationship with you. The truth is that to really know a man is interested in you the two of you would have already gotten physical in some aspect. If he continue to hangout with you after smashing and initiates other dates and plans that are non sexual then more than likely he's really feeling you and it's only a matter of time till y'all become official. It's true that if you make guys wait they'll be less of them that are down to do that, but the other side to that is some guys will wait with you until you're comfortable enough while they continue to deal with other girls. The solution at the end of the day is to either remain celibate or straight up understand that you're choosing to smash a guy because you genuinely want to without the thinking that he'll leave you or with the thought that you're trying to keep him. Don't let a guy pressure you into sex if you're not in a space where you're bout that life. If you didn't want to, but then he leaves or changes up you may end up feeling quite.
I’m a 49 year old woman! I’m a student of yours. I wish you would have made these videos when I was in my 20’s. Your videos are so helpful. The gentleman that I’m dating is doing all the steps and more. Thank you!
This really explains exactly what I'm going through. I started talking with this guy and I've never felt so at ease. Conversation flows easy and we never run out of things to say. I can be myself. He has made plans for us to have dinner once he gets back. I never experienced anything like this before. Definitely hope this is the right thing!!!!!!
@@christinavogel84neu Definitely was not. But I found my current husband after things ended. So while the relationship was bad I'm thankful it happened.
When I'm interested in a man, I ask God his will. I may look and smell my best, plant myself to be noticed, and invite friends over and include him, to get to know him.
I gave up actively seeking a partner 3 years ago. I am so tired of men who are only interested in getting me into bed with them. I have so much more value than just that.
This really hit home. I'm glad I'm in a phase of my life where I'm ready to let it go and stop pursuing a man that clearly doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. I'm a good observer and I know that men,when interested,do anything and everything to be involved in that woman's life, I've seen it happen with most of my best friends (One of them being a guy that really outdid himself and now is married to the love of his life). When I really like someone the way I show it is by trying to serve and help him in some way, I open myself more and let him know more about me (maybe share 1 or 2 key moments of my life and how they helped me to become the person I am today) and I look for ways to uplift him and encourage him to be the best man he can be. Thank you for your help Matt and Merry Christmas 🎄
Wow.. I was waiting to hear this. I am going through a confusing phase in my love life where the guy is an actual Jackass. You made it so easy for me. Thanks ☺️☺️
Had all these things with a guy that I met in a city that I was traveling in. Amazing chemistry, everything just felt so natural and peaceful, while I still had butterflies every time I was around him! "Why don't we hang out more, since we enjoy each other's company so much," I asked him when I went off to travel to another city that was still kind of close to his. "My heart hurts," he replied. "The more time we spend together, the more we like each other. It's going to hurt more, the more time we spend together. I've done long distance before, and swore to never do it again. I'm sorry," he said. So, we stopped talking after a couple of weeks that I left his city. I've never stopped thinking about him, and I sometimes wonder if he thinks of me the way I think of him.
There is such a clear and true message in your video Matt. I love this. Thank you for your encouragement and support. The 4 clear things are speaking to me. When I'm interested in a man I let him pursue me, I'm open and vulnerable with him, I'm not afraid to build him up and encourage him. I go about enjoying my life. I create the life I enjoy regardless of him. If he's interested, then he'll join me. If not, it's ok
laughnowcrylater there's no need to tell a guy you "like" him...if he was pursuing you and everything...im sure he knows:) let the guy have his balls by not pressuring him, guys hate emotional talk when unexpected lol.
Thank you so much for your words. Women need this kind of help and guidance. We all need to open our eyes. You're great, blessings to you. As a woman that never had a father figure only bad experiences with the male figure, I find it pretty hard to get a good grasp of how to even treat a man and it's sad because most men like the wild girls that show off their bodies. When I want a relationship I am attentive to the guy and am kind and caring. I communicate well. I do worry a lot in general when the person doesn't respond in a while. I talk very literal for the most part and don't know if that scares them off because I am specific when I text or message someone. I don't know how to be in relationships because my parents didn't bond with me once I was born and there after. I'm just saying but maybe you can make a video dedicated to women that haven't had father figures and need some kind of guide that will help nurture the steps we take to finding someone who will truly love you. Women that haven't had their father present have a set of different challenges to face when it comes to men and certain situations. -Kay
I have had the same problem. I think those who go after the wild girls are not the kind you want. They're users, who don't want a long term relationship.. Also, see Matt's video about Spotting a Narcissist...you don't want them either.
Kay Lemus I had Parents since I'm 10 but I got married at age 20 my sister was 18 that's what you did in the 60s. I was married for 48 years period but a lot of it was very trying and sometimes I wonder if I even knew how to love a man because my whole life was just like a rollercoaster. I have my faith but I still have trouble relating two men
If I'm intersted, I subtly let a man know what I like to do and gently imply that I'd like to do it with him. Recently I told a guy I have an interest in that I'd like to plan some fall bike rides. We both cycle, so that leaves the door open for him to suggest one. I have a hard and fast rule that I will not pursue a guy nor ask him out, but I can leave some open doors so he feels safe doing that.
i had been single for 8 years.. after a bad divorce. took time to find myself, concentrate on my kids. Now ive finally found the perfect guy.. everything i ever wanted in a man and he never shows up without roses, goes above and beyond to make me happy and i do the same for him. Hes my Prince and i his princess. He is the world to me and my kids really like him. Thing is i had given up, wasnt even looking!' He just showed up in my life and im so glad he did! We love one another and the chemistry is unbelievable. One drawback. He deploys in a month... going to be really hard. Stop looking and let life happen!
Wendylyn-TAPS well, no, first of all you do need to go out at least occasionally to meet new people. You can’t just ‘let things happen’, lol. You don’t get a job by letting things happen, you have to work for it, unless it’s by inheritance or something like that. You don’t get your dream life by just waiting to be charmed by it, you have to do many things to make that dream come true.
When I'm interested in a man, if he goes to an effort with his presentation on our date I'll tell him he looks amazing AND MEAN IT. I'll also try to get him to open up and tell me things about himself and when he displays admirable personality traits I'll be sure to let him know he is "interesting / inspiring / thoughtful / considerate / intelligent / funny / hard-working / drive / ambitious / whatever". He will know I'm interested because I will have gone to a big effort with my presentation (clothing, hair, grooming, etc), and I'll make sure to touch him in a soft gentle way without intruding on his personal space / respecting boundaries - if he reciprocates then I'll do more of that :)
MsGlamourcat god, if I could have that in a date! I've not been on a proper date since my ex and our first date was after we were already together, I had to make our day together into one. It's been a year since u posted so hopefully it worked for you :)
I went on lots and lots of dates before I met a man who did all four of these things you just talked about and you are so right. Our relationship is so so easy and so lovely and I am forever grateful that we met.
In all honesty when a guys initially sees you he puts you into three categories: Wifey, Smashable, or Issa No (Pass). If you, nor the guy are talking to are celibate or practicing abstinence you'll never quite know if a guys likes and is feeling you until AFTER sex. I'm not saying sleep around and have sex with every guy you date, but being aware of this fact will allow you to better decide if this is a guy you want to deal with and the overall reality of dating. The reality is that a guy might not be straightforward about his intentions or simply pretend he wants more than sex so that you can get comfortable enough with him. Keep in mind that guys don't necessarily need to like you to be down to have sex with you. He might like you enough to smash, but not enough to the point where he sees you as wifey and envisions himself in a relationship with you. The truth is that to really know a man is interested in you the two of you would have already gotten physical in some aspect. If he continue to hangout with you after smashing and initiates other dates and plans that are non sexual then more than likely he's really feeling you and it's only a matter of time till y'all become official. It's true that if you make guys wait they'll be less of them that are down to do that, but the other side to that is some guys will wait with you until you're comfortable enough while they continue to deal with other girls. The solution at the end of the day is to either remain celibate or straight up understand that you're choosing to smash a guy because you genuinely want to without the thinking that he'll leave you or with the thought that you're trying to keep him. Don't let a guy pressure you into sex if you're not in a space where you're bout that life. If you didn't want to, but then he leaves or changes up you may end up feeling quite.
I always knew this. Four years met him only twice. He still to this day, contacts me on occasion. I follow this one rule. Nope not meeting you. Four years... Back and forth. I still text however this last time, I totally ignored him. He didn't text back. And that's OK. I have an amazing life. Care for him but I'll NEVER risk my happiness for any man. I am way to important to myself. God will send me someone in his time. 😁
When I want a relationship with a man, I take interest in the things they like to do. I may ask them to teach me something or focus on a shared interest. I try to get them to open up more about their own lives and develop the emotional connection and I start to involve them more in my life and get a little more creative about when I spend time with them so it goes beyond just date night but increasingly more intimate time including bringing them around friends and family.
They love that because to a lost man, you have a purpose. I've noticed many men love women who are mother's because they want you to be like that with them, caring and loving and they often think single women want to be single and are going out because they don't take life seriously. Women are always trying to figure out men, men are lazy and rarely pursue women, they go hook up on tinder, believe BS stories that women post and boast about themselves on social media, it's all become a train wreck for women in the western world. I wish things were like Matt was saying. It is true with quality guys but there aren't as many, they're in constant pursuit of the next person, constantly looking over your shoulder for a super model doctor and most believe they deserve one. It would be nice to see more of the kind of guy like Matt is describing but way too many guys who think they're great are on Tinder, "hooking up" while the women on there are mostly looking for a relationship. If I didn't have guy friends who confessed this to me telling me all of their woes etc, I don't think I'd know but I'm like the dear Abby for some of my male friends. In essence of that, I learn a lot about what's going on out there without having to go out into that awful "Tinder" world. Also I wish they'd quit using the term Cinderella because if you've had a loving mother, sisters who are decent then that's a nasty analogy, it's like putting them down. Trust me, my mother was horrible, incredibly mean when I was young, had break down and threw me out at 15 because I couldn't find the lid to a pot when she was cooking; homeless. She gave my younger sister a car, painted my older sister a painting for Christmas and I got a book in a topic that isn't even of interest to me, so to all of you "Tinderellas", get a life because you're being used. So Miss SashkiaTV, there are many guys who want to be mothered, see you being that way with your children and will want to have a purpose in his world and relive his youth, get to be special to someone other than being like a boyfriend, tons of those guys exists and I see a few women I know with kids getting guys like that flocking to them. These same kind of men think single women are trampy and single because they want to be out there, like they were but men and women think differently, we don't want that and pretty much most women know this.
well these men have no chivalry nowadays they expect you to travel and when you do its not reciprocated you constantly worry if they are interested in you.
Thank you, Matt. Excellent video. Here's something a man who's genuinely interested WON'T do: He won't pressure the woman for sex ever, and especially right after they start dating. I got so sick of that one that I stopped online dating.
I am finally being pursued! And he is the man of my dreams. Great video! Thanks for showing me the signs that that's what he's doing.lol At first I thought, why is he being all contact mode semi-bogarting my time all of a sudden. Now I understand.
I love your videos. I'd rather get dating advice from men dating coaches than female dating coaches. Ya'll know how men feel, think, and why men act a certain way because you are men too. Women can't begin to comprehend how a man feels, thinks, or why men act a certain way. Thank you for helping all us women across the world. 😍😚
When I was looking the first thing I did as a Christian woman was to talk to my Heavenly Father and asked him to guide me to the right man the first requirement was that he must be a Jehovah’s Witness like myself because the Bible tells us as Christians to marry only in the lord. I will tell you now he answered my prayers I have the most amazing and loving man in my life and I’m so thankful to Jehovah God
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So basically it's the old saying again, if he likes you, you never have to wonder.
Wow im done. He's just not that into me....hard truth for me. Thanks. Moving on.
Thank u, next
Same here
Yes. I know that guy.
The same thing
Sherry Ann lol woah I respect you
The only time you can change a man, is when he's in diapers
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😆😆😆 best.comment.ever.
Wow !!😁😅
Teresa Bisaillon good one! 😂
Not true at all over the past five years I whent from being a complete fuck boy to just wanting to settle down start a family and have one person for the rest of my life
“Those men aren’t jackpots; they’re jackasses.” Best relationship quote thus far.
Love that!
I laughed so hard
“Screw that. You are not Option Number 2. You are not the second best option. You are that first option.”
Thank you.
I sorely needed to hear that.
You should be the ONLY one. NOT number 1. It's because if there is number 1 then there would be number 2 and so forth. One and only. NOT number 1 because he should NOT have a number 2 at all.
Loved that
I get the feeling many guys or even girls don't have an option number 1 mode these days. Swipe dating has corrupted that setting big time.
Then when he comes groveling back, eh...you’re too busy.
No options.A priority.thats the word..
1. He pursues you
2. Progression of time with you
3. Planning in advance
4. Peace...will flow easily
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My husband died at birth. I will see him in heaven.
gurl. Daing!
Lol
LENA PATEL ???
DONNA PITTS-WILSON In other words, my mate is not on this planet.
Hey sweetie your answer really touched my heart out of all. I truly understand!! But I know nothing about you but this one thing I do believe your husband to be is alive and well and looking for you!! My track record marriages has been horrible. I've been following his instrutions carefully with my childhood friend. We have been together 7 months now and I don't have a clue what's gonna happen. I do know these particular you tube videos have helped me soooo much. God Bless. I'll say a prayer for you and me too.lol
Date the guy that doesn't complain doesn't expect you to serve him, that has his act together! See how he treats his mother and his sisters. Don't settle for garbage! I'm happily married for seven years now, and every day my appreciation and love grow for my wife!
Shlomo Jesmer: I am So Happy for YOU both. Thanks for the Great Advice you give us as women.
that is So Sweet, Thank You. I learned that lesson the Hard Way. I don't think I will ever find the Right Man, if you know what I mean, I am older now and with a daughter that has Down's Syndrome; in the U.S.A. that's worse than being a Criminal. I noticed that in Europe Men don't Care about my daughter's condition plus being in a wheelchair, especially, believe it or not, the Young Decent Guys were the first ones to Talk to me in Europe and loved talking with me. But here in America, men run from us as if we had a deadly Disease.
@@jenniferlorence1950 says alot about the state of our country in relation to others, have had a similar experience with men from say Europe, esp. Eastern European countries especially...honey, would be like, where's that passport? lol!! As a single mom, I keep my options open! Don't discriminate and move on! Don't let them play with your life and your baby, if that is what is best for you all! Be careful in that too.
thank you for being a King! Helping us sistas out! Wishing you the very best, ✌🏽☯️!
@@Freespiritedqueen Thank You.
I really cried after this video. Im taking my husband for granted. I just thought that hes not into me anymore after i gave birth to my 2 babies. But I was wrong. All these 4 signs..Thank you.
I completely understand. He had been through a lot before he met me. It was work on us both. I love him and always will.
But you know now ,so you can work on it. Good luck
My parents have been together over 40years and I remember my mom said when she was being held in my dads arms it felt right.
I've completely given up on men for now. The dating process has been extremely exhausting for me. Tons of dates, not to mention the time, money, & energy it costs me to look nice for these dates. I'm going to let go & let God in 2017! 😂😂
Reso Priazk lmao
Sane here and I totally understand! This yr I've decided is all about improving my health and work skills and travel
Reso Priazk perfect answere.suffis say that is God way of drawing you closer to Him.then after you put your Creator first God gifts you with an awesome partner.
I agree
Reso Priazk I'm with you on that ONE🤣 waste of money girlfriend just to look good💋
Seriously. My mum and dad were married for 34 years until my mum passed away. They knew each other for 44 years. My dad never re-married or even had a girlfriend. When I asked him why that was, he said that even though they didn't have a perfect relationship they were best friends and that my mum was the only one. My parents told me that it's easy to fall in love ...relationship. But it takes work and commitment to stay in love...MARRIAGE. Hence all the divorce. This is too glib and simplistic to me. Just my opinion.
Awwwr
God bless
I think he is talking about the stage when you just met someone and not in the relationship period, no doubt it is hard work of both to keep the marriage go on
That's beautiful and sweet. You are lucky to be raised by a guy like that. And a mum too. Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. And tell your dad he gives me hope and shows how a real man should be.
Thank You for sharing 💝
I only have one question “does that type of man exist?”
Good question.
Ribka Eliezer yes they do
No
Absolutely not
Same question!!! Lol
1. pursue you
2. progression. increasing time and intimacy with you
3. planning
4. peace. you will feel easy.
@Sophia William sorry dear, it's scam
This made me cry, I've been through so much hurt in relationships but i believe in my heart God has someone just for me 🤗❤
Tom Reedy Thats such a nihilistic, depressing way to think. Don’t be so down! Chin up! 💕
Yes. You are right. God has someone for you. Just have faith in Him. God’s thought towards you is to give a peaceful
Life. Cheer up.
@Tom Reedy ...you're choosing the wrong ppl. It's not meant for you to be alone
after many heart breaks and pains,I can proudly say I'm with the right man.
Safrat Anuhi 👏👏👏
Great news!
I'm so happy for you 💕
Same here and i'm really happy with him.i prayed for him.😊
Me too. Thank you Lord!!!!
"It is really hard to screw up the right thing" ~ this is what I needed to hear 👌
These are all 100% true.
I have finally found myself in a relationship where I am loved as much as I love. I have never felt such joy, such connection, such peace. Things feel so *right*.
Matt described it well.
I didn't know a relationship could be easy. I am having so much fun, and experiencing so much joy. We both are. And we are immensely grateful and feel so lucky.
Good video and very accurate info Matt - great job! 🙂
Hi
How is your relationship going these days?
Awesome advice! As a woman, if I wanted a relationship with a man, I do not pursue, avoid drama, be my best self and enhance my life with positive emotions and actions, show respect, listen to him and show him appreciation, don't rush to judgement, show him my sense of humor, and take the slow but steady approach towards progression...oh and feed him! ♥️😉
This is perfect! 🎯
Thank you for sharing. 😊❤
@@curious_wanderer87 👍💕
"You are NOT option number two!" -- love it!
Such a gentleman. Wish more men were like you in the way they view valuing a woman.
Agreed
i 2nd that! 😩
Yeah, I’m like, ‘’where does a man like this exist?” I seriously do not know any man which pursues a relationship. They’ll pursue sex, but never A (as in, one) woman.
Don't fall for no texting if he can't talk on the phone.Forget him don't waste your time.
True
I think it depends on the person. I absolutely hate talking on phone period. But I will meet up for to face and text alot. I just don't like.phones
You beta bitch
Not true. I hate talking on the phone. Me and my guy text ALLLLL day. From good morning to goodnight. We are both busy and just knowing he is right there anytime I just say hi or wyd is great. We can talk in person!
I'm a introvert though and im shy when it comes to talking on the phone
when i want a relationship with a man i automatically become more flirtatious and spend more time with him.... i also find myself complementing the guy a lot as a way of expressing how i much i like him , like come on honey date me already LOL
Haha the struggle lol.
Sometimes the guys just chase you until they get your naked pictures and then act like they've never known you😁
Don't send pics. I know they've made it a thing now. Up to women to change that. Tell them real life connections or nothing. No one wants their pics saved forever for someone to do whatever they want with them.
Never ever send your naked pictures to a man ,whether it’s your boyfriend or a husband, ladies !!!
Love these 4 “Ps”- Pursuit, Progression, Planning and Peace. Any relation needs these 4 Ps. Also, when putting your advice is put into acronym, it is easy to remember! Thank you, Mat!
This is what it felt like - all the four Ps done to perfection. I was on cloud nine until the week before the wedding and I got a glimpse of what the future held for me but was too naive to recognise the red flag for what it was - coercive control. Took 21 years to break free of the relationship.
The last message you said in the last part is truly powerful and could really boost every girl. And I also do agree with all these 4 things because my man now, shows all of that. Been into a lot of failed relationships but now, luckily I found him, he found me - the right man for me. :')
A True Love Official Me too!!! And I'm sooooooo happy.
I can across your video on Scorpio Insiders Guide - there are plenty more useful videos there that may help out
In all honesty when a guys initially sees you he puts you into three categories: Wifey, Smashable, or Issa No (Pass). If you, nor the guy are talking to are celibate or practicing abstinence you'll never quite know if a guys likes and is feeling you until AFTER sex. I'm not saying sleep around and have sex with every guy you date, but being aware of this fact will allow you to better decide if this is a guy you want to deal with and the overall reality of dating.
The reality is that a guy might not be straightforward about his intentions or simply pretend he wants more than sex so that you can get comfortable enough with him. Keep in mind that guys don't necessarily need to like you to be down to have sex with you. He might like you enough to smash, but not enough to the point where he sees you as wifey and envisions himself in a relationship with you.
The truth is that to really know a man is interested in you the two of you would have already gotten physical in some aspect. If he continue to hangout with you after smashing and initiates other dates and plans that are non sexual then more than likely he's really feeling you and it's only a matter of time till y'all become official. It's true that if you make guys wait they'll be less of them that are down to do that, but the other side to that is some guys will wait with you until you're comfortable enough while they continue to deal with other girls. The solution at the end of the day is to either remain celibate or straight up understand that you're choosing to smash a guy because you genuinely want to without the thinking that he'll leave you or with the thought that you're trying to keep him. Don't let a guy pressure you into sex if you're not in a space where you're bout that life. If you didn't want to, but then he leaves or changes up you may end up feeling quite.
A True Love Official really happy for sadly I‘m just a back up plan for him
Great video Matt..i DON'T want a relationship ANYMORE. Too much lies and secrets.
This made me realise he played me 😔
same here...
Why am I watching this? I'm not even dating 🤣
Hey u still can learn so when your time comes along.
What? A beautiful women like you isn’t dating?
So men have feelings too?
LoL..
😂😂😂
No they don’t. How else can you explain ghosting?
Araceli Espinoza
More feelings then women, lmao.
@@80mphisntfastenuff EXACTLY.
The internet made having a relationship TOUGH 💔
Be More Careful true..online dating = hookups
Be More Careful social media*
No. It's easy sex. Since sex is so easy to get love is harder to find, and keep.
Soooo true!!!!
You know, the also said this about the invention of the telephone.
He does these 4 things if he wants a relationship:
1. Pursuit (he pursues you)
2. Progression (we wanna see you more, wanna be more intimate..)
3. Planning (he plans to be with you)
4. Peace (the relationship just feels easy)
This is just me but the first 3 of these seem like the same thing tbh... And are pretty obvious I mean...
@Another Day In Space why are you scared?
Hmm I’ve got 1 2 and 4 but i don’t wanna make things more serious if it’s gonna ends bad
This sounds good but you might scare her away. Its happened as in too much too soon.
🎉thx
The guy I'm talking to is doing all 4 of these things.
Vivian Nguyen me too
How is it now? We need updates hahaha
Guy I'm seeing is doing all of these also. Thank God. Cause my Ex didn't do any of them.. And thought he was gonna put me 2nd. Nope don't think so. It was byenboy
@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz lolll
mine is too☺️
When I want a relationship with someone, I spend the whole day grooming for him :-D
Forget that lol
Hahahahaha
@@sansadrake4133 haha, I subbed you gurl, lol! See you everywhere! We know what's up with these busters!
@@Freespiritedqueen 😂😂😂 how funny!
@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz no one cares mate
The man I love so much does none of the points mentioned..he doesn't love me. I wish I could let go
I feel ya.
Kiki Jeeves I know, if only I could change things
Katherine Kat yes. l understand.
Same here
Same here too often.
Great Matt! I had a pursuer. And all I done was ignored him a little. Not much but enough that he would text and call me. Just kinda kept myself a little mystery. It works. Thanks for the video. Your topics are wonderful.
I'm glad to hear this video!!! Makes me know that I did the right thing!!! Thanks Matt...
I just know that if a men really shows interest I can feel that energy so I’m not insecure anymore. Sometimes I just hate men. I feel terrible all the time because of the wrong men
4 Signs He Wants A Relationship:
1. They pursue you
2. Progression
3. Planning
4. Peace
Timing has a lot to do with it!!
dude, timing is jackshit lol what matters the most is if the person is RIGHT and READY, pretty much everything else is BS :)
sb yoga mix and
i feel like its very hard for me to feel at ease when im around other people. cant wait to meet someone who can make me feel that way...
Dung Luu you will know.ive met a guy.we both agreed the time together is electric.n im not speaking about sex.we both agreed we werent looking ..but have agreed.that for sure we are going to fall deeply in love.BUT ..weve both agreed to go with it...Im really pleasantly schocked and surprised that this has happened to me..😆
Jade Luu I like your comment solely because your profile pic is TOP 😂
Thank you Mathew! I always knew men really did this for the women they really liked. I have yet to meet a man who is truly willing to chase after me.
No worries even though I am an older lady who has not been caught yet I am still keeping the faith. I'm getting out there pursuing my own interest and meeting new men. And I'm online dating too. I am keeping hope alive that one lucky man will finally catch me and call me his one and only.
For now I am fully taking advantage of being a free and single lady. And adoring every minute of it.
And I also have my Lord and savior by my side helping me out too :)
VeganVintageGeek online dating is for desperate people..men lie.look just for free sex..nothing more..be wary
I have a lot of friends who met husbands on online dating sites. There are obviously man who are lying and looking for "free sex" but most of them are easy to spot. Vegan VintageGeek take some time to work on yourself. We attract from the inside out and you are the common dominator. Read self-help books like growing yourself back up by John Lee and The Journey From Abandonment by Susan Anderson as well as anything by Pia Melody or Brene Brown or Henry Cloud and your life will transform if you allow yourself to.
In all honesty when a guys initially sees you he puts you into three categories: Wifey, Smashable, or Issa No (Pass). If you, nor the guy are talking to are celibate or practicing abstinence you'll never quite know if a guys likes and is feeling you until AFTER sex. I'm not saying sleep around and have sex with every guy you date, but being aware of this fact will allow you to better decide if this is a guy you want to deal with and the overall reality of dating.
The reality is that a guy might not be straightforward about his intentions or simply pretend he wants more than sex so that you can get comfortable enough with him. Keep in mind that guys don't necessarily need to like you to be down to have sex with you. He might like you enough to smash, but not enough to the point where he sees you as wifey and envisions himself in a relationship with you.
The truth is that to really know a man is interested in you the two of you would have already gotten physical in some aspect. If he continue to hangout with you after smashing and initiates other dates and plans that are non sexual then more than likely he's really feeling you and it's only a matter of time till y'all become official. It's true that if you make guys wait they'll be less of them that are down to do that, but the other side to that is some guys will wait with you until you're comfortable enough while they continue to deal with other girls. The solution at the end of the day is to either remain celibate or straight up understand that you're choosing to smash a guy because you genuinely want to without the thinking that he'll leave you or with the thought that you're trying to keep him. Don't let a guy pressure you into sex if you're not in a space where you're bout that life. If you didn't want to, but then he leaves or changes up you may end up feeling quite.
I don't think I have ever been really pursued in my life and I'm over 40
Me too.
I’m 50 years old and I just met a man a month ago. He goes by what Matthew said about how men pursue women. Be patience, your time will come.
Matt's advice along with author dr John gray phd (mars/venus) recently changed my life...at 50 yrs old, I'm finally getting it
It's not too late. But on the other hand I'm 61. It never happened for me.
Hes coming honey💞🌸 I am glad you're not jumping into anything...
I was lucky enough to reconnect with my ex from 30 yrs ago. We're back together now
Wow
Waoo
Please tell me how is it going?
Aww
Me Too!!
Scary because I am having to RE-learn to trust again.
Aww. Love the video 100% on point
Eve Heart , have you heard this song before?
Eve Heart the right one will accept them adore em include "em, n treasure em. i found a man that treated em better than thier fauidhjwer[.¬¬°°`§μ·{
I’m a 49 year old woman! I’m a student of yours. I wish you would have made these videos when I was in my 20’s. Your videos are so helpful. The gentleman that I’m dating is doing all the steps and more. Thank you!
Yea✌🏽🎊!
Right! I should it have seen this videos 30 years ago lol
This really explains exactly what I'm going through. I started talking with this guy and I've never felt so at ease. Conversation flows easy and we never run out of things to say. I can be myself. He has made plans for us to have dinner once he gets back. I never experienced anything like this before. Definitely hope this is the right thing!!!!!!
Now Mary, after four years, I am wondering: was it the right thing?
@@christinavogel84neu Definitely was not. But I found my current husband after things ended. So while the relationship was bad I'm thankful it happened.
The number one thing I do when I want a relationship with a man is to show interest in him, be consistent and care about his feelings
When I'm interested in a man, I ask God his will. I may look and smell my best, plant myself to be noticed, and invite friends over and include him, to get to know him.
I gave up actively seeking a partner 3 years ago. I am so tired of men who are only interested in getting me into bed with them. I have so much more value than just that.
Matt where are these kind of men?😒
i'm one of them. ;)
@@bebdaumon3948 sure? :)
In your backyard
These replies are so creepy lol
Righhhhhhht
This really hit home. I'm glad I'm in a phase of my life where I'm ready to let it go and stop pursuing a man that clearly doesn't want to be in a relationship with me.
I'm a good observer and I know that men,when interested,do anything and everything to be involved in that woman's life, I've seen it happen with most of my best friends (One of them being a guy that really outdid himself and now is married to the love of his life).
When I really like someone the way I show it is by trying to serve and help him in some way, I open myself more and let him know more about me (maybe share 1 or 2 key moments of my life and how they helped me to become the person I am today) and I look for ways to uplift him and encourage him to be the best man he can be.
Thank you for your help Matt and Merry Christmas 🎄
Wow.. I was waiting to hear this. I am going through a confusing phase in my love life where the guy is an actual Jackass. You made it so easy for me. Thanks ☺️☺️
I'm happy my man is really into me. I think we're destined to be found each other. Everything feels so right.
Its easy to say but its difficult to let go when you have feelings for him already, love sucks!
I wonder where's my man!!😢 Every man I talk is a jackass , they seem interested and boom stop talking..😢
I like your guidance videos, they're very informative and on point.
Had all these things with a guy that I met in a city that I was traveling in. Amazing chemistry, everything just felt so natural and peaceful, while I still had butterflies every time I was around him! "Why don't we hang out more, since we enjoy each other's company so much," I asked him when I went off to travel to another city that was still kind of close to his. "My heart hurts," he replied. "The more time we spend together, the more we like each other. It's going to hurt more, the more time we spend together. I've done long distance before, and swore to never do it again. I'm sorry," he said. So, we stopped talking after a couple of weeks that I left his city.
I've never stopped thinking about him, and I sometimes wonder if he thinks of me the way I think of him.
One way to find out.... do you have his contact information? Reach out. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose!
".....Those guys don't think you as jackpot ,they are jack asses "😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hi
when I want a relationship with a man, I praise his physical features and his personality traits, Matthew....
Sara A 😅😅
When I really like a guy, I get very smiley 😂😂😂
Yh. Lol. We end up looking like loons and the guys do too!
Right! Lmfao
Soooo true. 😄😄😄🤣
There is such a clear and true message in your video Matt. I love this. Thank you for your encouragement and support. The 4 clear things are speaking to me. When I'm interested in a man I let him pursue me, I'm open and vulnerable with him, I'm not afraid to build him up and encourage him. I go about enjoying my life. I create the life I enjoy regardless of him. If he's interested, then he'll join me. If not, it's ok
He says he WANTS a Relationship. When he says he doesn't want one...Believe him.
I needed this .. I’m breaking up with him 🙄and Thankyou 💗
and what if all of this happend and when you tell the guy you like him he suddenly backs away?
laughnowcrylater there's no need to tell a guy you "like" him...if he was pursuing you and everything...im sure he knows:) let the guy have his balls by not pressuring him, guys hate emotional talk when unexpected lol.
Summer K - I agree, he'd rather tell u first most times..
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then he was just playing mind games.
Then he's not ready.
Thank you so much for your words. Women need this kind of help and guidance. We all need to open our eyes. You're great, blessings to you.
As a woman that never had a father figure only bad experiences with the male figure, I find it pretty hard to get a good grasp of how to even treat a man and it's sad because most men like the wild girls that show off their bodies. When I want a relationship I am attentive to the guy and am kind and caring. I communicate well. I do worry a lot in general when the person doesn't respond in a while. I talk very literal for the most part and don't know if that scares them off because I am specific when I text or message someone. I don't know how to be in relationships because my parents didn't bond with me once I was born and there after. I'm just saying but maybe you can make a video dedicated to women that haven't had father figures and need some kind of guide that will help nurture the steps we take to finding someone who will truly love you. Women that haven't had their father present have a set of different challenges to face when it comes to men and certain situations.
-Kay
great idea , i feel this too , plz make this video
I have had the same problem. I think those who go after the wild girls are not the kind you want. They're users, who don't want a long term relationship.. Also, see Matt's video about Spotting a Narcissist...you don't want them either.
Kay Lemus I had Parents since I'm 10 but I got married at age 20 my sister was 18 that's what you did in the 60s. I was married for 48 years period but a lot of it was very trying and sometimes I wonder if I even knew how to love a man because my whole life was just like a rollercoaster. I have my faith but I still have trouble relating two men
where i can find this man ?
Lillu Blue he’ll find you
Ikr
We are here. But you don't want us. You reject us for the guy who don't call you.
@@beatweezl I'll love to agree with you
it takes time, growth in yourself, and being ready to accept this man in your life
This makes me think my bf isn’t even that into me....
CeCe O'Neill my ex
Same to me now
Just hope to find my soulmate someday. Nothing like True Love.😕
I totally agree with you!! True love must be so amazing!
Thank you!!! Such an eye opener 😂😂😂✌️️
This was so on point! Great wisdom Matthew. Thank you for all your work and effort to help people. You truly have a gift!
God bless you
LOVE how you just got *straight to the point!* others need to follow suit!
If I'm intersted, I subtly let a man know what I like to do and gently imply that I'd like to do it with him. Recently I told a guy I have an interest in that I'd like to plan some fall bike rides. We both cycle, so that leaves the door open for him to suggest one. I have a hard and fast rule that I will not pursue a guy nor ask him out, but I can leave some open doors so he feels safe doing that.
i had been single for 8 years.. after a bad divorce. took time to find myself, concentrate on my kids. Now ive finally found the perfect guy.. everything i ever wanted in a man and he never shows up without roses, goes above and beyond to make me happy and i do the same for him. Hes my Prince and i his princess. He is the world to me and my kids really like him. Thing is i had given up, wasnt even looking!' He just showed up in my life and im so glad he did! We love one another and the chemistry is unbelievable. One drawback. He deploys in a month... going to be really hard. Stop looking and let life happen!
Wendylyn-TAPS well, no, first of all you do need to go out at least occasionally to meet new people. You can’t just ‘let things happen’, lol.
You don’t get a job by letting things happen, you have to work for it, unless it’s by inheritance or something like that. You don’t get your dream life by just waiting to be charmed by it, you have to do many things to make that dream come true.
The right man usually DOES show up when you're not even looking.
When I'm interested in a man, if he goes to an effort with his presentation on our date I'll tell him he looks amazing AND MEAN IT. I'll also try to get him to open up and tell me things about himself and when he displays admirable personality traits I'll be sure to let him know he is "interesting / inspiring / thoughtful / considerate / intelligent / funny / hard-working / drive / ambitious / whatever". He will know I'm interested because I will have gone to a big effort with my presentation (clothing, hair, grooming, etc), and I'll make sure to touch him in a soft gentle way without intruding on his personal space / respecting boundaries - if he reciprocates then I'll do more of that :)
MsGlamourcat god, if I could have that in a date! I've not been on a proper date since my ex and our first date was after we were already together, I had to make our day together into one. It's been a year since u posted so hopefully it worked for you :)
You didn't finish... Then you sink the fangs in and suck the life, money out of him.
I went on lots and lots of dates before I met a man who did all four of these things you just talked about and you are so right. Our relationship is so so easy and so lovely and I am forever grateful that we met.
In all honesty when a guys initially sees you he puts you into three categories: Wifey, Smashable, or Issa No (Pass). If you, nor the guy are talking to are celibate or practicing abstinence you'll never quite know if a guys likes and is feeling you until AFTER sex. I'm not saying sleep around and have sex with every guy you date, but being aware of this fact will allow you to better decide if this is a guy you want to deal with and the overall reality of dating.
The reality is that a guy might not be straightforward about his intentions or simply pretend he wants more than sex so that you can get comfortable enough with him. Keep in mind that guys don't necessarily need to like you to be down to have sex with you. He might like you enough to smash, but not enough to the point where he sees you as wifey and envisions himself in a relationship with you.
The truth is that to really know a man is interested in you the two of you would have already gotten physical in some aspect. If he continue to hangout with you after smashing and initiates other dates and plans that are non sexual then more than likely he's really feeling you and it's only a matter of time till y'all become official. It's true that if you make guys wait they'll be less of them that are down to do that, but the other side to that is some guys will wait with you until you're comfortable enough while they continue to deal with other girls. The solution at the end of the day is to either remain celibate or straight up understand that you're choosing to smash a guy because you genuinely want to without the thinking that he'll leave you or with the thought that you're trying to keep him. Don't let a guy pressure you into sex if you're not in a space where you're bout that life. If you didn't want to, but then he leaves or changes up you may end up feeling quite.
I always knew this. Four years met him only twice. He still to this day, contacts me on occasion. I follow this one rule.
Nope not meeting you.
Four years... Back and forth. I still text however this last time, I totally ignored him.
He didn't text back. And that's OK. I have an amazing life. Care for him but I'll NEVER risk my happiness for any man. I am way to important to myself.
God will send me someone in his time. 😁
Because its cuffing season
Brittania ÿg
Just asked myself when he wants to finally ask me if we want to be in relationship... Then your video popped up... Men you can read my mind...
When I want a relationship with a man, I take interest in the things they like to do. I may ask them to teach me something or focus on a shared interest. I try to get them to open up more about their own lives and develop the emotional connection and I start to involve them more in my life and get a little more creative about when I spend time with them so it goes beyond just date night but increasingly more intimate time including bringing them around friends and family.
Thank you for these beautiful words!! God bless you a thousand times for the positive energy you spread in the word. Love your positive energy 😄🙏
So I thought I was a girl but I do all this.... So I wonder am I broken?
Hi Matt, can you please talk about how men feel about dating women with kids.
They love that because to a lost man, you have a purpose. I've noticed many men love women who are mother's because they want you to be like that with them, caring and loving and they often think single women want to be single and are going out because they don't take life seriously. Women are always trying to figure out men, men are lazy and rarely pursue women, they go hook up on tinder, believe BS stories that women post and boast about themselves on social media, it's all become a train wreck for women in the western world. I wish things were like Matt was saying. It is true with quality guys but there aren't as many, they're in constant pursuit of the next person, constantly looking over your shoulder for a super model doctor and most believe they deserve one. It would be nice to see more of the kind of guy like Matt is describing but way too many guys who think they're great are on Tinder, "hooking up" while the women on there are mostly looking for a relationship. If I didn't have guy friends who confessed this to me telling me all of their woes etc, I don't think I'd know but I'm like the dear Abby for some of my male friends. In essence of that, I learn a lot about what's going on out there without having to go out into that awful "Tinder" world. Also I wish they'd quit using the term Cinderella because if you've had a loving mother, sisters who are decent then that's a nasty analogy, it's like putting them down. Trust me, my mother was horrible, incredibly mean when I was young, had break down and threw me out at 15 because I couldn't find the lid to a pot when she was cooking; homeless. She gave my younger sister a car, painted my older sister a painting for Christmas and I got a book in a topic that isn't even of interest to me, so to all of you "Tinderellas", get a life because you're being used. So Miss SashkiaTV, there are many guys who want to be mothered, see you being that way with your children and will want to have a purpose in his world and relive his youth, get to be special to someone other than being like a boyfriend, tons of those guys exists and I see a few women I know with kids getting guys like that flocking to them. These same kind of men think single women are trampy and single because they want to be out there, like they were but men and women think differently, we don't want that and pretty much most women know this.
Caroline Lala too long
but that's a simp! And that's the biggest no no to a woman's self esteem in the long run
It's a case-by-case thing..
Miss Sashkia TV I'm not a man but if I was I'd be thinking you should be focusing on your kids, not dating. I'd lose all respect for you otherwise.
well these men have no chivalry nowadays
they expect you to travel
and when you do its not reciprocated you constantly worry if they are interested in you.
I was blessed to have had this experience with a man I felt special about. It was beautiful.
Yes. It’s truly a very beautiful thing but rare. You are blessed! 😊🙏🏻
Wow I just started dating this guy a month ago and he’s doing all of those things , so I guess he’s the one.
I met a guy who makes those things ! ♥️♥️
Wow...definitely needed to hear this video, thanks!
You mentioned eye contact if he likes you ..but you have to look into his eyes😔doesn't mean he likes you
where does he mention eye contact?
Thank you, Matt. Excellent video. Here's something a man who's genuinely interested WON'T do: He won't pressure the woman for sex ever, and especially right after they start dating. I got so sick of that one that I stopped online dating.
Very very true....
When I want a relationship with someone, I have playful and flirty energy. I like to spend some time to get too know them.
I am finally being pursued! And he is the man of my dreams. Great video! Thanks for showing me the signs that that's what he's doing.lol At first I thought, why is he being all contact mode semi-bogarting my time all of a sudden. Now I understand.
yes! i keep saying love shouldn't be complicated, sure it wont be easy but it shouldnt be complicated! ❤❤❤
God bless you
I love your videos. I'd rather get dating advice from men dating coaches than female dating coaches. Ya'll know how men feel, think, and why men act a certain way because you are men too. Women can't begin to comprehend how a man feels, thinks, or why men act a certain way. Thank you for helping all us women across the world. 😍😚
I completely agree!
What I do when I want a man:
1) Compliment
2) Schedule a hang out
3) Advertise my interests and passions
4) Remain myself no matter what
When I was looking the first thing I did as a Christian woman was to talk to my Heavenly Father and asked him to guide me to the right man the first requirement was that he must be a Jehovah’s Witness like myself because the Bible tells us as Christians to marry only in the lord. I will tell you now he answered my prayers I have the most amazing and loving man in my life and I’m so thankful to Jehovah God
Watching this when I don't even have any guys around me in my life besides my dad and brother lmao
The painful truth you can see it in a confident man who is rare these days, most of men are insecure
Only because women made them that way