Why Do Narcissists Smell So Bad?

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  • @narcabusecoach
    @narcabusecoach  3 місяці тому +40

    Betrayal Trauma After Narcissistic Abuse:
    www.emotionalabuserecovery.com/livevent

    • @kansascitian2009
      @kansascitian2009 3 місяці тому +5

      You are absolutely right on about the demonic possession.

    • @sherylnayagam7922
      @sherylnayagam7922 3 місяці тому

      Are you a Christian or do you believe in the Bible?

    • @jennyanimal9046
      @jennyanimal9046 2 місяці тому

      I think I'm an angry narcissist 🤷🏽 help

    • @caramelobear1952
      @caramelobear1952 2 місяці тому

      100% TRUE.
      DEMONIC POSESSION.

    • @caramelobear1952
      @caramelobear1952 2 місяці тому

      I have a short story to tell y'all - SHORT.
      I once attended a funeral some year's ago. I met a very haughty person who happened to have been some "spiritual" person who laid hands on others in their church. That was the "WORD"
      As I walked between the seatings, this person came in time in front of me, I heard Pastor's preach on possesion, demons and evil odors, this individual gave off an extremely strange odor I had not known before.
      At first, I tried to understand if that odour was her or was it in the air, perhaps I could have rubbed against someone.
      When they hugged me, IMMEDIATELY😳 my brain identyfied that odour as being " PRIDE".
      Folks that's EXACTLY whom that entire family was all about.
      PRIDEFILLED.
      I never smelt STINKING PRIDE, BUT THAT DAY in church, IT was identified to me from within myself.
      Moral is: Danish is 100% spot on the DEMONS part, this family was posessed years ago, they were too proud for NOTHING, they were actually P👀r, PRETENDING they were upperclass. In the end, THE TRUTH CAME OUT.

  • @angelaslaton3211
    @angelaslaton3211 2 місяці тому +23

    This proves for 150 percent that this is a legitimate channel. Only a narc abuse survivor would understand this video title!!!!

    • @angelaslaton3211
      @angelaslaton3211 Місяць тому

      Yeah, a narc smell is NOT like someone who has been camping without water for 48 hrs.... They smell like pure s*** as soon as they get out of the shower ....it's a demonic smell.

  • @Everythingismeaningless344
    @Everythingismeaningless344 3 місяці тому +529

    It's probably because they are literally rotten to the core. Decaying flesh smells horrific.

    • @brigitte9999
      @brigitte9999 3 місяці тому +37

      I have always believed this. And people rot from the inside out. They age horribly too.

    • @vickydittfield9822
      @vickydittfield9822 3 місяці тому +9

      @@Everythingismeaningless344 I Concur 👍

    • @kt45026
      @kt45026 3 місяці тому +6

      💀Facts !! 😂🧼

    • @sll110
      @sll110 3 місяці тому +3

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @angela8187
      @angela8187 3 місяці тому

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  • @bobandcarolehardy10
    @bobandcarolehardy10 3 місяці тому +265

    The malignant narcissist permeates , evil , even a phone conversation , you feel sick 🤮, your spiritual and physical self is repelled by them

    • @lozentucker1071
      @lozentucker1071 3 місяці тому +15

      My father is a malignant narcissist I know exactly what you mean. I love him but I have to stay away from him cause how he is it starts to affect me in every way possible

    • @miminini9857
      @miminini9857 3 місяці тому +17

      True about the phone call ! No contact for the whole life !

    • @carmelagermano7056
      @carmelagermano7056 3 місяці тому

      @@lozentucker1071you speak of my father too, but I don’t love him

    • @spiritwardiaries
      @spiritwardiaries 2 місяці тому

      It's like they are psychic vampires lol... vampires are smelly according to ancient legends ​@@miminini9857

    • @sylviakovessy
      @sylviakovessy 2 місяці тому +6

      When I see my covert narcissist neighbor I literally feel sick and can’t just sense the evil coming from her.

  • @parinazaz4044
    @parinazaz4044 3 місяці тому +84

    It’s not always the narcissist that smells butcan be the victim of the narcissist, due to all the stress the narcissistic person causes in their lives, the victims immune system gets weak so does their digestion track and other hormones like cortisol and estrogen go high and cause a lot of issues and symptoms including body odour, sweating, and bad breath as the body tries to detox from all the pain and stress they cause..

    • @agent_exodus
      @agent_exodus 2 місяці тому +5

      Exactly

    • @hairbeauty8083
      @hairbeauty8083 2 місяці тому +1

      I was thinking this exactly

    • @hairbeauty8083
      @hairbeauty8083 2 місяці тому +3

      After dealing with my narcissist in court I have this stench and it won't come off in the shower and it's only on one side of my body it's strange.

    • @lisaborsella5412
      @lisaborsella5412 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @lisaborsella5412
      @lisaborsella5412 2 місяці тому +1

      My narcissist chain smokes ( yes she even blames that on everyone else causing HER stress!) anyway, she already doesn’t smell good

  • @hazelmarieb9934
    @hazelmarieb9934 3 місяці тому +99

    The sense of smell is primal and picks up on more than what we consciously register. When someone smells bad to you, they may not even smell bad in general, it's your body subconsciously sensing some kind of threat from that specific person to you specifically. When in doubt it's never a bad choice to just go with your gut. Yeah you may miss out on what might have been a great relationship, but you also may have literally saved your own life.

    • @ExpectantHarvest
      @ExpectantHarvest Місяць тому

      yes, I always smelled the evil spirits on my son and in my living environments

  • @suedanim4653
    @suedanim4653 3 місяці тому +260

    My sister is a narcissist and my children said she smells like the smell of death , I’m so surprised to see this post

    • @bubbliciousp
      @bubbliciousp 3 місяці тому +12

      I’m shocked because I experienced the same this guy I know and his kids reek 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @moxie96
      @moxie96 3 місяці тому +12

      My sister smells off too, just like he describes, it cannot wash off.

    • @margaretcarr6387
      @margaretcarr6387 2 місяці тому +1

      I never noticed this.

    • @FoolintheRainSDMF
      @FoolintheRainSDMF 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Marnexyzeven if they did know they'd blame it on someone else or deny it & say you're the only one that thinks it that everyone else thinks they smell fckn amazing you're just a hater 😂😂😂

    • @caramelobear1952
      @caramelobear1952 2 місяці тому +1

      Whoa!
      😢

  • @stellaxingguang
    @stellaxingguang 3 місяці тому +48

    People can smell bad from being attacked by evil, too, and there’s plenty of narcissists who pay good attention to hygiene so that other people will think highly of them.

    • @larsonfamilyhouse
      @larsonfamilyhouse 2 місяці тому +3

      This!!

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому +1

      This means nothing. Another stupid comment as an Orthodox Christian. ☦

    • @Aquilalexie
      @Aquilalexie 9 днів тому

      I agree its high cortisol levels are prominent in both the narcissist and the victim. I experienced body odor and it’s completely different from the smell that comes from a narcissistic person it’s like pickled like, vinegary

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 5 днів тому

      @@Aquilalexie I have low cortisol but I still stink. Means nothing.

  • @handsomekingnb
    @handsomekingnb 2 місяці тому +105

    "Something or someone smells fishy" has a deeper meaning now.

    • @pauline-v3b
      @pauline-v3b 2 місяці тому +1

      No, that sounds like a bladder infection called cystitis

    • @ElizzzaB
      @ElizzzaB 2 місяці тому

      Or something is rotten in Denmark?

    • @deonaeddy7749
      @deonaeddy7749 2 місяці тому

      ​@@pauline-v3b Excuse me. Bladder infections DO NOT smell. It's a yeast infection that smells fishy.

    • @kericaswell6084
      @kericaswell6084 2 місяці тому

      It's a bacterial infection that smells fishy. You need an antibiotic for it. Yeast infections don't normally smell fishy. If someone smells fishy they either have a bacterial infection or an STD.

    • @kericaswell6084
      @kericaswell6084 2 місяці тому

      I have interstitial cystitis which is a bladder disease. It doesn't smell at all.

  • @willwinl
    @willwinl 3 місяці тому +187

    You just answered yet another long pondered question I had about my ex narc husband. He had a bad smell to him. When he was younger it was milder but he was also still chasing me to get me so he worked harder on his hygiene and health, he even went to the gym.
    We married and things went downhill fast. He stopped going to the gym, put on weight, ate utter garbage foods when not at home and turned into a sloppy kind of a guy. His breath became repulsive, even after he brushed, flossed, cleaned his tongue, used mouthwash. The smell was always there and it came off of him everywhere. Freshly showered he still had the smell.
    The smell was disgusting to me, a kind of like musty, old, decaying type of a smell, not your usual bad breath smell. I wondered if he had a serious disease and the smell was a symptom. Maybe something like tonsil stones, except he no longer had tonsils. Physicals found nothing, dentists found nothing, he just smelled bad.
    It got worse as he aged too.
    He cheated on me (more than once and in numerous ways) plus he was a compulsive liar. I divorced him after we went through several years in marriage counseling and it went nowhere because he didn't participate and amused himself by trying to play and manipulate the psychiatrist.
    He is now on wife number 3 and I wonder 1) How can she stand that smell?! And 2) How long will she stay with him or is this his final marriage?
    Thank you for answering another one of my unanswered questions about him. The bad smell issue was huge and now I think it's finally resolved in my head, he was just a rotten human being. Thank you Danish!

    • @mia_1969
      @mia_1969 3 місяці тому +18

      Agreed! I went thru almost the exact same thing. He's now on wife #3....I feel sorry for her. 😢

    • @stellap7624
      @stellap7624 3 місяці тому +19

      I thought that smell was peculiar to my former Husband. I didn't realize it was connected to him being a Narcissist until seeing this video today. I thank Danish for tackling this issue. It's solved a 24 year puzzle. He too got worse as he got older.

    • @Sandi-w6v
      @Sandi-w6v 3 місяці тому +4

      @@mia_1969 me too!

    • @stephaniepiazzese2602
      @stephaniepiazzese2602 3 місяці тому +8

      I went thru extensive counseling WITH, the narc that I was trying to break free of. He insisted on more and more “ counseling” just to drag out the breakup. Behind the scenes, I later learned that he was trying to date the female therapists. lol. He is dead now,,, but it was just KILLING ME, to stay,,, 😮

    • @dr.a2160
      @dr.a2160 2 місяці тому +3

      You just described my father 😮

  • @girlphoenix334
    @girlphoenix334 3 місяці тому +39

    There is a very negative energy, too. It's heavy. When I came home from the hospital - yes, he made me that sick! He and his family had been in our home, moving him and my son out, without my knowledge. I came home to empty closets, no son and a 'note' telling me to feel better soon. The energy was horrible. I had to clean the home from top to bottom. My neighbor came over and she had experienced this before with her friend. It's like you have to clear away that energy and then, once it is gone, it just feels so much better! As for smell, it wasn't too bad in the early years, but later on, towards the end of the marriage, it was bad. I could hardly stand it, but fortunately, there was no intimacy, so that was good. His sister's house also smelled, but I chalked that up to her inability to do housework. When my son would come home after being with any of them, he'd be a mess, dirty and smelly. It was awful. Thank you for sharing this. I never even considered it. And, no, they weren't really dirty people, but it was just something, it came out of the pores.

    • @ExpectantHarvest
      @ExpectantHarvest Місяць тому

      Yes, a lady I used to sponsor came to my egg donor's when no one was home to get something with me. She was not a believer at all. But the second she walked into the house, she screamed, "It is evil here. Let's leave. Please!"

  • @onyxvault
    @onyxvault 3 місяці тому +157

    One day, I found a note on my door and remember noting how the hallway smelled like a dead animal before I found the note. The note was from the narcissist.😂

  • @Chichimee
    @Chichimee 3 місяці тому +348

    They say real-life demons smell like sulfur, so……

    • @helenmcclay2622
      @helenmcclay2622 3 місяці тому +24

      I met someone who had metalsmell 😅

    • @tjitjo
      @tjitjo 3 місяці тому +27

      @@helenmcclay2622 Me too! Like really sharp, almost acidic smell!

    • @hardwiredtoself-destructio7614
      @hardwiredtoself-destructio7614 3 місяці тому +10

      That foul acidic spoiled chittering smell UHH🤮🤢

    • @charlotterockel-kennedy8913
      @charlotterockel-kennedy8913 3 місяці тому +17

      ​@reneejkdI always say my husband smells sour 😂 it's actually not funny. I never wash my clothes with his because they take on the smell from his clothes. His fresh washed clothes smell like they've been laying in stagnating water 🤮

    • @beastman.330
      @beastman.330 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@reneejkd what does sulfur smell like ?

  • @gazeup5655
    @gazeup5655 3 місяці тому +38

    Thank you for posting this, it needs to be discussed. God knows the narc loves to call other people dirty laundry. Its only fair ❤

  • @lizedion1393
    @lizedion1393 3 місяці тому +320

    The smell does not go away. If they sit on a fabric chair, the smell will continue to be there for years. The smell is so annoying.

    • @stellap7624
      @stellap7624 3 місяці тому +46

      Until today, I thought that
      death-like stench just belonged to my former Husband John. I've had problems with where he's sat. After covering up where he sat and then washing the small blanket for next time, I eventually gave him a dining room chair to sit on. His horrible stench lingers. At the moment he's been sectioned, so I'm enjoying the break from him. I'm praying for God to take him out of my life completely.

    • @AbbyJimmySwitzer
      @AbbyJimmySwitzer 3 місяці тому +22

      Sounds like my ex and all of his family

    • @AbbyJimmySwitzer
      @AbbyJimmySwitzer 3 місяці тому +7

      Oh I totally agree

    • @1FantasticDreamBird
      @1FantasticDreamBird 3 місяці тому +26

      Totally! I noticed that on Saturday. He sat on the sofa. After he left, I went back and sat on the sofa. I jumped up immediately- "yuck, this stinks bad. I better spray a disinfectant." It was like a thick black fog of stench enveloping the area he sat.

    • @Isabela2024-yr
      @Isabela2024-yr 3 місяці тому +30

      I used to spray the couch alcohol and spray fabreeze. At least the smell disappears temporarily. After I discarded the guy, I discarded the couch as well. The smell is unbearable. I can't explain it. It's like something is rotting inside his body.

  • @MagdalyAmbroise-b2g
    @MagdalyAmbroise-b2g 3 місяці тому +87

    After my ex-husband narc left; I had to throw out his pillows. Stink 😩😩😩

    • @rad-guidance7
      @rad-guidance7 2 місяці тому +5

      Yes, mine too, in fact there was an aureole of dark brown impregnated into the mattress. Very concerning. His whole family have a history of narcissism and certain members smelled more or less as bad in a similar way. I wondered why I didn't notice it before, but I always attributed it to the smoking. But in the end it wasn't just that

    • @SurnaturalM
      @SurnaturalM 2 місяці тому +2

      I change mine each month. How can people use them for years is a mystery to me.

    • @rad-guidance7
      @rad-guidance7 2 місяці тому +3

      @@SurnaturalM you change your MATTRESS every month ??

    • @MagdalyAmbroise-b2g
      @MagdalyAmbroise-b2g 2 місяці тому +1

      @@SurnaturalM My ex was only sleeping on the pillows for about three months, in between these three months; he was outta the house for over a month and he came back and left again for another month. When you don't have all the details don't just assume things. I think 🤔 this here is a good example.

    • @Ca301c
      @Ca301c 2 місяці тому

      “Stink” LMAOO!

  • @renemeadows
    @renemeadows 3 місяці тому +33

    Danish, now I understand why my narcissistic husband has this foul smell about him! Wow! You have got it 100% correct. When my narc stands up he leaves a smell that is so bad like rotting flesh. I can't describe it. I keep a bottle of linen mist next to me because the.smell is so bad that I want to get sick.
    Now it makes sense.. Thank you. He ticks every block that you have discussed a narcissist to be.
    You have no idea just how much your talks have helped me. Thank you for that. You are giving me the strength that I need to make my next moves with the objective of leaving him for good to emigrate to the UK to be close to my daughter. 👌

    • @julianskinner3697
      @julianskinner3697 3 місяці тому +6

      Just go

    • @Miaow610
      @Miaow610 3 місяці тому +2

      Sounds like it'll be so worth it to leave him and make a fresh (non-stinky) start. Just remember not to let him know your plans!

    • @The.Sicilian.Realtor
      @The.Sicilian.Realtor 2 місяці тому +5

      Please leave him. I wish I left sooner. I’m in 15 years and it has almost killed me. Don’t waste any more time 😢

    • @hello_0768
      @hello_0768 2 місяці тому

      ​@@The.Sicilian.Realtorso sorry❤❤❤❤

  • @kimdurant2217
    @kimdurant2217 3 місяці тому +207

    Negative emotions open doors to demons. Demons DO smell!

    • @bewinged1
      @bewinged1 3 місяці тому +12

      Usually that demon odor is like sulfur though, or rotten egg like.

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 2 місяці тому +6

      oh good lord. welcome back to the 12th century.

    • @bewinged1
      @bewinged1 2 місяці тому

      Negative emotions, such as fear or sadness make one easier to be attacked by those beings. What I have found is narcissists and their families are targeted before birth by demonics, who are trying to create narcissists. Spiritual warfare.
      Often they then possess them, sometimes partially but at other times completely. Usually, the narcissist is okay with it.
      Yes both demons and narcissists stink. Some smell like sulphur. Others stink like narcissists do.

    • @Barbara_Banks_1
      @Barbara_Banks_1 2 місяці тому

      @@reneelibby4885I understand. If your diet is poor, and/or you don’t take very good care of your body- disease (and, oder) can/will result.
      Example: One if the symptoms of liver disease, is extreme halitosis. Liver disease sufferers can brush their teeth and within one hour the very bad breath is unmistakable.
      And I agree, this type of demonization/judgements of any individual, lacks understanding and compassion for those who may have symptoms of a serious illness.
      And yes, I do believe in God. God bless you, my level headed friend.

    • @rheinhartsilvento2576
      @rheinhartsilvento2576 2 місяці тому +8

      ​@@reneelibby4885 The century is of no import.
      We live in a multi-dimensional universe, where various types of consciousness (physically rmbodied or not) manifest in a variety of ways - including sensory.

  • @Arya-cf7vu
    @Arya-cf7vu 3 місяці тому +73

    Danish, both my father and ex husband are narcs and they both smelt. My dad had chronic bad breath when I was a child, I mean you could smell it across a room. Because he was an angry narc no one could tell him his breath stank and he should go to the dentist. Also he had chronic fungal nail infections from sweaty mouldy shoes. And his farts would stink out his whole shop, my mum would spray air freshener all over but it could never mask the death like stench. My ex husband always outwardly prided himself on hygiene, but the truth was he stank from mouldy bath towels. He couldn't smell the dank mouldy smell on them, so he'd have a daily shower, with stinky coal tar soap, then wipe himself all over with the mouldy towel. His pillow and bed area where he slept stank too. And he would go out running and come back smelling like an old ditch. Not sweat but a real dank, damp fetid smell would stink up the house. So yes, your video is kooky maybe, but true!

  • @ktruth4real
    @ktruth4real 3 місяці тому +33

    I have told my covert narcissist husband that he smells horrible. His funk never goes away, it’s all over the pillows, the bedding, his clothes, his car. I have a fit when he sits on the coach because wherever he sits, his odor sinks in. It is so gross. He thinks I’m being mean, but I’m not. I think is a combination of the demonic attachments to him and the chemicals that are released due to his narcissism.

  • @B52Page
    @B52Page 3 місяці тому +100

    My 10 month old grandson had a very unusual response to my narcissistic brother the first time he met him. A normally very happy and content child, the first time he looked at my brother began crying and was visibly upset, as if being in the presence of a demon.

    • @klejjxd
      @klejjxd 3 місяці тому +16

      I dont remember a lot from when i was a kid, but i remember that i used to cry or be reaaaaally shy around my grandma like i didnt like her or even i was kinda afraid of her even that she didnt really do anything bad to me. Nothing happenned and i still didnt like visiting her. For 20 years i didnt know why and now i know. Thank you. My aunt (her daughter) is a psychologist and we talk a lot about everything that's happening in our family and now that i know a lot about narcissism (because my ex of almost 10yrs is a covert narc) we both agree that my grandma is also a narc but i think that she is rather a grandiose type. This make so much sense now. I'm really empathetic and i can feel lots of energies around and i believe that i have had this gift since childhood.

    • @GoWithDaFlowMo
      @GoWithDaFlowMo 3 місяці тому +15

      Had a similar experience with my son... Always a happy baby smiling at everyone, but when we ran into our neighbor he got real quiet with big eyes and if she got to close he started to cry..... 😮

    • @bewinged1
      @bewinged1 3 місяці тому +8

      He may have been. I have found many narcissists are possessed. The worse part of this is they are usually ok with that.

    • @bewinged1
      @bewinged1 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@klejjxdyoure an Empath, which is not the same as empathy.

    • @spiritwardiaries
      @spiritwardiaries 2 місяці тому

      ​@sg573 yes, that's called "perfect possession ", it's also the condition Luciferians live under. Willingness to be a vessel for evil.

  • @BrothaJay7
    @BrothaJay7 3 місяці тому +41

    Brushing, mouthwash, mints, chewing gum...I will NEVER forget that breath.

  • @susantolle7599
    @susantolle7599 3 місяці тому +90

    I met some of them with really bad breath.
    It is decayed and awful even if they are handsome .

    • @sll110
      @sll110 3 місяці тому +5

      exactly

    • @stigludwigsen
      @stigludwigsen 2 місяці тому +1

      I remember a girl in my class. Most definitily a narcissist. She was incredibly beautiful. I was shocked when I noticed her breath. It smelled like the breath of those old teachers you never asked for help because his or her breath stank. Old feces and smoke. She was only 15.
      I looked her up on instagram recently and she looked TERRIBLE. Like a recently dead corpse. It's like her physical appearance has slowly decayed over the last 20 years. Her eyes, once almost identical to Greta Garbos, looked super creepy and dead. She had hundreds of face photos where she posed like a classic moviestar, obviously unaware or ignorant to the fact that her beauty is completely gone.

  • @AC-ew2xr
    @AC-ew2xr 3 місяці тому +56

    The last one i had the misfortune of dating was a total shapeshifter and while he didn't smell himself - his home had this toxic death smell to it that was very pungent. i could barely stand it when i walked in. i somehow knew it was evil spirits.

    • @mistiquefire3462
      @mistiquefire3462 2 місяці тому +3

      He may hv had dead people in there

    • @carolynforge8586
      @carolynforge8586 2 місяці тому

      ​@mistiquefire3462 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BNyaB
      @BNyaB 2 місяці тому

      😳😳​@@mistiquefire3462

  • @DarwinLeacock-f8b
    @DarwinLeacock-f8b 3 місяці тому +6

    Wow, you have hit the nail on the head with the foul breath! I often wondered why is she not taking care of her breath? We're not together anymore, but you have been a blessing for me in the past also.(2022).. She's been a very attractive lady, I have to admit that! Videos like these have saved me from becoming bewitched. Thanks for your help!!

  • @hildadowner670
    @hildadowner670 3 місяці тому +59

    This post is ground breaking (forgive the pun) as this may be the first time anyone has explored the death smell of a narcissist. Halitosis seems to be a common denominator. There is much to explore. Great observation, Danish!

    • @Blissblizzard
      @Blissblizzard 2 місяці тому +2

      Comes out of the pores. Extremely tense musculature. Skin is sallow.

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      You mean musk smell? That is from race. You must be a narcissitic person yourself. Oh, the irony... ☦

  • @shaneclinger5888
    @shaneclinger5888 3 місяці тому +235

    I've noticed this too and it's my opinion in some cases it comes off of their spirit and you need a spiritual nose to smell it

    • @bewinged1
      @bewinged1 3 місяці тому +8

      Yes spiritual nose, or clairalience.

    • @SounduSleep
      @SounduSleep 3 місяці тому +5

      Spoken like a true narcissist

    • @emilyashley4820
      @emilyashley4820 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@SounduSleep Yah, so if you don't smell this certain scent, you're less worthy, and don't have a spiritual nose. This reminds me of the story, "The Emperor's New Clothes"; only the wisest were able to see the cloth( that wasn't there).

    • @bewinged1
      @bewinged1 2 місяці тому +7

      @@emilyashley4820 Maybe not being able to smell narcissists is a good thing. Sometimes, it makes me almost throw up when I smell them.

    • @emilyashley4820
      @emilyashley4820 2 місяці тому +4

      @sg573 What do they smell like? The narcs I knew wore lots of perfume and cologne. Once, I was watching a program on TV, and a man was swimming under water, and I said, "It looks like he stinks." And I wasn't sure why. And the narc said to me, "How can he stink? He's under the water,"

  • @Jelineli
    @Jelineli 3 місяці тому +85

    Thanks a lot. Another thing explained - I'm not crazy. Thank you.

    • @yogakrishnakumar5431
      @yogakrishnakumar5431 3 місяці тому +3

      We aren't crazy. They are!

    • @yogakrishnakumar5431
      @yogakrishnakumar5431 2 місяці тому

      @@0therM0ther.01 similar?! No brother. They smell weird.

    • @yogakrishnakumar5431
      @yogakrishnakumar5431 2 місяці тому

      @@0therM0ther.01 I understand! God bless us ✝️🥺✝️

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      Nope narcissist. Orthodox Christian here. Please seek Jesus Christ. ☦

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      @@0therM0ther.01 It means nothing. I'm Orthodox Christian. ☦
      This video is liable. I do have a lawyer.

  • @sukhadaadasi9552
    @sukhadaadasi9552 3 місяці тому +88

    Bad Breath

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      You do know that many saints had bad breath too... ☦

  • @stellap7624
    @stellap7624 3 місяці тому +75

    My former Husband has that exact smell. I'm his primary carer as a volunteer. He's on the mental ward currently. I'd shower him and dress him in clean clothes, and yet he stank. I'd clean all his Flat but it sill had a lingering stench. His Flat (Apartment) was high up two flights of stairs and the smell met you in the hallway, and got stronger as you climbed the stairs. In his Flat it made you feel physically sick. When he got evicted from his Flat, the Landlord had to strip it completely bare, including the carpets because the stench had permeated everything. Wherever he'd been, even for a short while, his death-like stench lingered. People would say; "John's been, hasn't he?" I didn't realize until today it was associated with him being a Narcissist . So finally I have the answer to that awful smell. I thought it was peculiar to John.

    • @pamelacave5515
      @pamelacave5515 3 місяці тому

      They really are demon possessed

    • @rajnibhatia6581
      @rajnibhatia6581 3 місяці тому +6

      You r so so much true Danish
      Thanks again 🙏🙏

    • @sll110
      @sll110 3 місяці тому +6

      🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @pheart2381
    @pheart2381 3 місяці тому +69

    My dad stank physically and spiritually. Even my mum who was his main victim told him he stank. I didnt even attempt to bring friends home from school.

    • @RonSafreed
      @RonSafreed 3 місяці тому +5

      My narc. father, my mother complained always on how he stank so bad & even when he used the bathroom it stank sooo bad!!!

  • @123Alycia
    @123Alycia 3 місяці тому +127

    You see the opposite in saintly people, they smell like flowers

    • @puffchickpam1
      @puffchickpam1 2 місяці тому +3

      Padre pio

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 2 місяці тому +4

      no- all BS. in your head.

    • @rheinhartsilvento2576
      @rheinhartsilvento2576 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@reneelibby4885 No - it isn't.
      There's endless reports of this phenomenon. Reflected in the literal exoression "the odor of sanctity".
      Try to open to information other than what you're used to.

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 2 місяці тому +2

      @@rheinhartsilvento2576 yes it's in people's minds because they expect it.

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 2 місяці тому

      @@rheinhartsilvento2576 oh I was open to places like the Catholic Church for a loooong time. Never experienced it even when other s claimed they did. Kind of like speaking in tongues. People are very suggestible - esp in groups. So it doesn't;t reflected a closed mind - but after years - pretty much made up my mind on that, Saw way too much woo woo in RC Churches AND evangelical Churches and people being pressured to see things, hear things, fall down. Glad you believe it - I don't. And I gave it a chance so don't assume.

  • @anneofgreengables1619
    @anneofgreengables1619 3 місяці тому +48

    Sulphuric from their demonic self.

    • @arsenelupiniii8040
      @arsenelupiniii8040 3 місяці тому +6

      Could be, A lot of comments here are talking about a spiritual rotting occuring in them, I think you may be more on point. I have always thought Manipulative people were possessed.

    • @anneofgreengables1619
      @anneofgreengables1619 3 місяці тому +5

      @@arsenelupiniii8040 You must tune into how you feel around them. I always felt anxious & fearful.

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому +1

      You mean musk, ignorant narcissitic person. The irony. You do know that criminals also can smell really good or nothing at all. ☦

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      @@arsenelupiniii8040 You need Jesus. The irony. ☦

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray1848 3 місяці тому +5

    I have learned and healed so much Danish because of you. I can’t thank you enough.

  • @utebretthauer4264
    @utebretthauer4264 3 місяці тому +63

    Mine hated water, he said it would" hurt" him. He also claimed" the world stinks,not me". He hated deo, good smelling soaps and got angry about me showering. He saw it as an insult!

    • @spiritwardiaries
      @spiritwardiaries 2 місяці тому +4

      That sounds preternatural in a way, doesn't it?!😮

    • @Vashti0825
      @Vashti0825 2 місяці тому +6

      Bingo...

    • @LisaWeakley-mz6hi
      @LisaWeakley-mz6hi 2 місяці тому +2

      I can relate.

    • @nathanmartin1850
      @nathanmartin1850 2 місяці тому +3

      My nex accused me of being a narcissist for having the audacity to bathe, shave, and get regular haircuts.

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever 2 місяці тому +2

      My ex fiancé also became filthy.

  • @rickg882
    @rickg882 3 місяці тому +57

    Trimethylaminuria is a disorder in which the body is unable to break down trimethylamine, a chemical compound that has a pungent odor. Trimethylamine has been described as smelling like rotten or decaying fish. I have this condition and I am not a narc, I shower 2 -3 times a day, yet some people can smell it more.

    • @allison471
      @allison471 3 місяці тому +11

      Have you tried a Chiropractor, nutritionist or functional medicine Dr. for help? They are very knowledgeable and think outside the box unlike conventional Medical Drs

    • @rickg882
      @rickg882 3 місяці тому +10

      @@allison471 No cure, but you can minimize the condition by eating plant/greens foods, little meats, water and colon cleanse.

    • @cletiawilliams1436
      @cletiawilliams1436 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm not trying to be mean....is there a skunk smell too?

    • @jamesfyffe2610
      @jamesfyffe2610 3 місяці тому

      Research Dr. Berg on utube. Punch in his name and then acute body odor. He is a wealth of information and believes that most ailments are vitamin or mineral deficiencies.

    • @fairyprincess911
      @fairyprincess911 3 місяці тому

      @@cletiawilliams1436🫵🏽🦨

  • @The.Sicilian.Realtor
    @The.Sicilian.Realtor 2 місяці тому +62

    MY JAW IS ON THE FLOOR AT READING THIS TITLE !!!!! Omggggggg. My ex narc of 15 years always grossed me out because of his smell!!!! Omgggggg

    • @hairbeauty8083
      @hairbeauty8083 2 місяці тому

      I use to say Benny you smell like balls!!!! But I had a really poor sense of smell

  • @carolynclay-ml7qq
    @carolynclay-ml7qq 3 місяці тому +50

    Ty Danish ❤As a child I always winced at my mothers touch, but longed for my father’s hug. I thought I was a terrible person to imagine she wasn’t clean somehow, and wanted to wash whatever she touched on my body. But those feelings continued up until the reverse discard in middle age. She really wasn’t a clean person. About the odor, It was more than being kind of unclean, she was unwholesome and cruel. I wish I could have helped, but she always hated me. I had a bad reaction to her. It’s the way it was. For instance, I had my hair done for my wedding, and she ran her fingers through the style before the wedding took place. (To try and destroy what the stylist had done, yet on the pretense of just making a loving gesture of running her hands through her daughter’s hair) It made me so sick I had to fight every ounce in my body not to go rewash my hair before the wedding just to get the feeling of her hand off of me. So I know I was just kind of flipped out and allergic to her in particular :/

    • @cymbolichuman433
      @cymbolichuman433 2 місяці тому +1

      I cannot imagine how tough you had to get
      to go through things and come out on top.

    • @karriesaunders8597
      @karriesaunders8597 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm allergic to narcissists

    • @ExpectantHarvest
      @ExpectantHarvest Місяць тому

      I did too!!!!!!!!! OMG! And she knew how uncomfortable it made me so she loved it and would hold me tight, digging her nails into my skin until she drew blood, and she would breath her nasty, stinky, hot breath in my ear.

    • @Isabela2024-yr
      @Isabela2024-yr 7 днів тому

      ​@@karriesaunders8597: Me too.

  • @gwenking7700
    @gwenking7700 3 місяці тому +20

    My brother is a narcissist and after watching this video i realize why his odor offends me. I just cannot stand it. He claims he cannot smell anything but he stinks to me. It is disgusting...he is repulsive

    • @corinnaw3420
      @corinnaw3420 3 місяці тому +1

      My brother is the same

    • @shairaptor1865
      @shairaptor1865 2 місяці тому +1

      My brothers room stinks! And when he washes his cloths it stinks as well!

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      Gee, I didn't know you are a racists until I saw this comment. Please seek Jesus. ☦

  • @souspierres4630
    @souspierres4630 3 місяці тому +25

    Yep, this is a real thing.

  • @nabihahabibullah1577
    @nabihahabibullah1577 3 місяці тому +39

    💐✋💐
    It is God's Punishment to them for being evil which tells us who they really are.

    • @olomoucbrighton
      @olomoucbrighton 3 місяці тому +3

      The exorcists say the devil smells really bad

    • @snowwpea
      @snowwpea 2 місяці тому +3

      Yes! This is mentioned in the movie “the conjuring” they say that demonic spirits smell like rotting meat.

  • @clestemanning6357
    @clestemanning6357 3 місяці тому +53

    (ALL CAPS AS IAM LEGALLY BLIND) WOW I JUST CAME ACROSS YOUR CHANNEL AND I WAS ABUSED BY MY FATHER'S WIFE FROM BIRTH UNTIL MY EARLY 30'S AND I NEVER MENTIONED IT TO ANYBODY ABOUT HER SMELL BC I THOUGHT IT WOULD SOUND CRAZY, BUT SHE HAD A VERY DISTINCT ODOR & I WENT NO CONTACT MANY YRS AGO & JUST THINKING ABOUT HER I CAN IMMEDIATELY REMEMBER THAT SMELL. THANK YOU. NEW SUBSCRIBER. MUCH LOVE FROM VERMONT STATE U.S

  • @mistydillingham7627
    @mistydillingham7627 3 місяці тому +40

    Death breath.

  • @mjkay8660
    @mjkay8660 3 місяці тому +175

    Demons stink.

    • @mariaxs777
      @mariaxs777 3 місяці тому +3

      Indeed.

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 місяці тому +1

      He sure does 😂😂😂

    • @BrianWynne-g2m
      @BrianWynne-g2m 2 місяці тому +1

      I suppose if they deal with many ppl in those ways especially then that can also make u smell.

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 2 місяці тому

      @@BrianWynne-g2m 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @brendatourville8425
      @brendatourville8425 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes they do

  • @deedeegiggles
    @deedeegiggles 3 місяці тому +68

    I know exactly what you're talking about. My demonic birth giver has the worst breath, like all my life it's been very stank. Recently, she was asked why she flipped out and got violent on a relative at a doctor appointment for the demon's mother. You'd think if you're at the doctor with your mom for a very serious medical condition, you'd be full of worry and concern. No, demon says she was full of rage and just wanted to fight. She has said that many times over my life, especially at times when a mother should be full of joy, or concerned, or empathetic. No, that loon is always in rage mode.

    • @sll110
      @sll110 3 місяці тому +2

      🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @bonniedeaves422
      @bonniedeaves422 3 місяці тому +7

      'Demonic birth giver' is a phrase I shall now adopt into my vocabulary. Thanks! 😅❤

    • @spiritwardiaries
      @spiritwardiaries 2 місяці тому +4

      "Momster" 👹 is a nickname I've given to one that I deal with through extended family.

    • @dr.a2160
      @dr.a2160 2 місяці тому +4

      Your words are very colorful ❤😂

    • @caramelobear1952
      @caramelobear1952 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂 "..
      for the demons mother"

  • @fatimaahmed445
    @fatimaahmed445 3 місяці тому +15

    Thank you for answering my unspeakable question❤

  • @AwesomeKeris_Mom
    @AwesomeKeris_Mom 2 місяці тому +31

    My ex was a narcissistic abuser and had the smell but it only began several years after we were married. Originally, I had a high paying career and due to layoffs, he became the main breadwinner. After that, he became abusive, smelly, his teeth rotted out and had to be removed, and now he has cancer and is rotting away from the inside. It was difficult to get away without getting myself and the children murdered but we did it. Since then, he has done everything he could to turn the children against me and convince them I am crazy but I graduated sums cum laude, went to graduate school and had a very successful career without him. That was the best revenge.

    • @hello_0768
      @hello_0768 2 місяці тому +2

      🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @yvettejones6196
      @yvettejones6196 2 місяці тому +3

      Same here. I’ve been divorced for many years. My ex husband smells good. However when he would get angry with me his hazel eyes kept changing colors and the sclera of his eyes were red not white. 😮 he has managed to turn most people against me including the adult children. Lord please protect us all from the demons and evil spirits behind narcissists who are trying to destroy us. Please stop this madness and fight for us and our children in the name of Jesus! The Lord reigns supreme over all! Amen 🙏🏾

  • @krismorgan6123
    @krismorgan6123 3 місяці тому +66

    Yes. He smelled like death and it permeated everything around him. He wanted to touch me and I would be nauseous and couldn’t stand it. It wasn’t like that at first.

    • @mia_1969
      @mia_1969 3 місяці тому +8

      They hide it in the beginning. I went thru this too.

    • @b8akaratn
      @b8akaratn 3 місяці тому +6

      "Do I have to keep brushing my teeth?" he asked me in the love-bombing stage, and eventually just kept his Fahrenheit bottle in the glove box. I wish I'd taken them for the red flags they were, back then!!

    • @arsenelupiniii8040
      @arsenelupiniii8040 3 місяці тому +8

      The ones I am familiar with, smell like old people, they cant smell it at all. The most selfish people I have ever known.

    • @kathybrem880
      @kathybrem880 3 місяці тому +5

      My husband did as well, I never understood it

  • @ybasbeats
    @ybasbeats 3 місяці тому +40

    I can't believe this video exists, it's underrated 💛

  • @mmcmiddlechild
    @mmcmiddlechild 3 місяці тому +57

    I think it may have a spiritual aspect because its so strong that everyone should be able to smell it, but that isn't the case.

  • @angeldoll7702
    @angeldoll7702 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for posting the video. I’m not alone in my observation.

  • @Zarasha1
    @Zarasha1 3 місяці тому +16

    There are some narcissist that have very bad hygiene, and eating habits. Some also sleep around with multiple sex partners with no protection. They don't go for physical check up unless they are really sick. This is probably some of the reasons for the smell. The other kind of narcissist do not joke with their hygiene. They work out, eat very healthy, go for check-ups, always smell so good, etc. The ones that smell are the low grade narcissist that do not properly care for themselves. They also the type that will take their dogs on a walk and don't clean after them, they will destroy nice homes snd apartments.

    • @AndreasKGB
      @AndreasKGB 2 місяці тому

      Die Erklärung: Weil Narzissten SEHR aggressive "Menschen" sind, essen sie meist extrem scharfe und gewürzte Mahlzeiten. Zwiebeln und Knoblauch stehen bei ihnen an erster Stelle. Logisch, daß sie dann auch stinken. Die Männer, die nett sind, aber stinken, ist ihre Hygiene einfach egal.
      Frauen können schlimmere Narzissten sein als Männer und die stinken NIE!

  • @sallyjordan7278
    @sallyjordan7278 3 місяці тому +38

    Their Soul is Rotting

    • @sumone124
      @sumone124 2 місяці тому +10

      They have no soul to rot!

  • @suecleveland3226
    @suecleveland3226 3 місяці тому +15

    Yes! My husband smelled so bad that I had to air the house out and riding in the car with him was awful😫

  • @josiek5989
    @josiek5989 3 місяці тому +38

    I agree. And my Nmom also was so concerned about her appearance, that she didn't wash her clothes or send them to the dry cleaner unless there was an obvious stain. She was under the delusion that if she hung her dirty clothes back up in the closet, and they didn't appear in the rotation for weeks or months (she had so many clothes) that they would magically be clean again. It was absolutely disgusting. And of course she doused herself and her clothes with some ridiculously powerful perfume that didn't get rid of the underlying horrific smell, it just meant there were two horrible smells for the price of one. Lastly, because I think she is actually a psychopath, her own sense of smell is significantly impaired- she literally doesn't think her own shit stinks.

    • @jamesfyffe2610
      @jamesfyffe2610 3 місяці тому +4

      Remember the old tv add… now you smell like fish and roses 😀

    • @effthamatrix
      @effthamatrix 3 місяці тому +2

      @@jamesfyffe2610great name for a band 😂

    • @ReliefbyRachel
      @ReliefbyRachel 3 місяці тому +1

      Wow, my ex smelled like something dead. He had poor hygiene too. I tried hard to influence his hygiene to no avail.

    • @caramelobear1952
      @caramelobear1952 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

  • @suzystone244
    @suzystone244 3 місяці тому +7

    My ex husband would go two to three daus without showering...my stomach is rurning now.
    Married 9.5 years to a covert narcissist.
    Now divorced since April. Away from him a year ago.
    Healing and finding me again.

    • @MHLivestreams
      @MHLivestreams 3 місяці тому +3

      Funny thing is, I have gone a few days camping without showering and don't really smell that bad. Narcs must have some real weirdness going on.

  • @thatchzembo1001
    @thatchzembo1001 3 місяці тому +2

    This is an amazing topic thanks for bringing this up! I understand this is not 100% of all cases but I believe your spiritual and physical points are valid. While visual & audible cues can help you avoid these toxic people, olfactory indicators can be just as important. Also vibes and energy being another. I 100% identify with what you call a drainy smell. When both my narcs were at their worst (my mother & best friend) they gave off this musty, rotting veg/ dairy., cool/vata like aroma. Almost like sour cream but also curiously sweet. Off putting but not entirely repulsive with a sense that somethings wrong here!

  • @a.katherinesuetterlin3028
    @a.katherinesuetterlin3028 2 місяці тому +3

    I had a coworker like this. Her hatred, jealousy, etc was off the charts to where she did stink...what she did to me to make me step down from my job is beyond what I can put into words. Except that she projected this odor onto me, as if I was the one that smelled. It is very much a spirit/energy-level smell, as Danish describes. I will not go more into things, just because so many people are skeptical of what goes on in the Spirit realm. But let's just say it's been a battle royale with her.

  • @Mrs.Cherall
    @Mrs.Cherall 3 місяці тому +9

    Yes you are telling the truth, my Mother and ex- Husband got a rotten egg smell like burning sulfer or dead flesh.

  • @Locdoggggggggg
    @Locdoggggggggg 3 місяці тому +10

    I thought it was a pheromone thing, I can smell a loser/scammer a mile away in outside air.

  • @alanahenderson6030
    @alanahenderson6030 3 місяці тому +28

    Trust me you are finally giving me the clarity on this. The odor would not wash out of the sheets even using Tide with Bleach. Even his undershirts he wore under his $300 Armani dress shirts would have this odor I could not get rid of. He would wear tons of deodorant and go through an entire stick in less then a month. Also layers of Tom Ford $500 cologne and still smell at the end of the day. I feel bad airing this on the internet but holly cow for years I knew this was nothing like i had ever smelt on someone. He never would eat onions or certain foods. However, when he drank hard alcohol like his Scotch that cost an arm and leg for that smokey barrel taste and two shots of he really would have a strong odor. The odor filled the bedroom while he slept. He was a very clean person hygiene wise and never made messes for me. He used to mentally torch-er me for more then 8 hrs at a time like an interrogation for nothing. Honestly I lived in hell for 7 years and finally when I escaped it has taken years to unravel the mental abuse. Now i will never remarry and i will never to be honest date. :) I am perfectly fine with this and I love my freedom too much to ever be controlled like that. What I find to be the strangest thing is as I say all this i remember that person in him that he rarely showed me that I loved so much. I hope he never sees this because it is kind of personal what i am saying here. I know who ever he is with now is living under the cloud of abuse and probably wondering about this odor. I forgot to say the pillows had the odor also and had to be thrown away yearly.

    • @MCM214
      @MCM214 3 місяці тому +7

      Same thanks for sharing I feel less alone. Just to let you know someone out there appreciates the share and gets it. I may have to delete my comments too because even though no names I know the wrath that could await if found.

    • @sll110
      @sll110 3 місяці тому +4

      you just found secrets, you definitely not alone, many people found that

  • @brigitte9999
    @brigitte9999 3 місяці тому +45

    This is true. My narcissistic mother had an unpleasant odor.

  • @TheNastasia18
    @TheNastasia18 3 місяці тому +36

    If théy dont smell themself they house smell bad

    • @delaynejacobstribeporter4245
      @delaynejacobstribeporter4245 3 місяці тому +6

      Absolutely the truth! Wow!

    • @dakoderii4221
      @dakoderii4221 3 місяці тому +5

      How does a man who showers everyday smell worse than a dog who's been out in the rain and no bath for 2 weeks? That's quite the "achievement".

    • @delaynejacobstribeporter4245
      @delaynejacobstribeporter4245 3 місяці тому

      @@dakoderii4221 what’s crazy with the X narc I was with, no matter where we lived sooner or later we would have 🪳. For the life of me I never understood this, it baffled me. I didn’t want to admit that he had a very foul spirit 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @arsenelupiniii8040
      @arsenelupiniii8040 3 місяці тому

      I truly think it is lack of cleaning them selves and the house. Check out their bathroom sometimes. They tend to lose motivation easily. So being lazy is par for the course.

  • @Katheryninc2
    @Katheryninc2 3 місяці тому +23

    I've heard others speak about this smell, but I always had allergies and a stopped up nose. However, after I cut out dairy, I started smelling rotting food, and shit everywhere!!!!!! The narc is a slob and I can't clean fast enough before the whole house is trashed again!!!!!

  • @almaalma2876
    @almaalma2876 3 місяці тому +2

    This explains some of the people i grew up with. Thank you for explaining this issue.

  • @HildaBotello-s4d
    @HildaBotello-s4d 3 місяці тому +14

    Married for 36 years he had a distinct smell I even asked him several times, why you have this smell. You could also perceive it in his car.

  • @wthompson0948
    @wthompson0948 3 місяці тому +21

    i thought this sounded crazy at first but yeah my parents do both have horrible smells that never go away.

  • @laurolima152
    @laurolima152 3 місяці тому +17

    my ex wife was narcissist and her clothes and her towel had an awful smell, like rotten onions. Even after washing.

    • @nussknacker9827
      @nussknacker9827 14 днів тому

      Yes I've smelled the rotten onion on many bad people, mosty bad women.
      Bad Men usually smelled more like fecal matter and rotten corpse

  • @adriennedouke1880
    @adriennedouke1880 3 місяці тому +28

    My narcissistic ex smelled, and knew he smelled, and it didn't bother him, he also doesn't like bathing, so there's that. I think he liked it in fact, having a pungent smell made him stand out in the crowd, ( made him special?) in his mind. Nope, can't make this stuff up. Ugh.

    • @campbell1446
      @campbell1446 3 місяці тому +1

      I asked my ex-husband why he allowed himself to smell like that. He told me he liked it. I'm wondering again if it's schizophrenia. There was a study that showed they could not recognize certain smells, so they may not know they smell as awful as they do. Other studies link the odor to trans-3-methyl-2-hexenoic acid.

    • @dorothyfoxx1096
      @dorothyfoxx1096 2 місяці тому +2

      Yep!!! Makes every head in the room turn. LMAO.

    • @caramelobear1952
      @caramelobear1952 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂.
      Just curious, how do couples have intimacy with them?
      Tnx.

  • @favyanastory134
    @favyanastory134 Місяць тому

    No, but the fact that I googled this very question and found this video right away… oh my GOODNESS. ❤️

  • @Peter-ne2tw
    @Peter-ne2tw 3 місяці тому +6

    They smell? Really? :) I`m not sure this can be taken seriously.. All the narcissists I have known smelt very nice. And they made sure they looked and smelt really good. The problem was their behaviour and not appearance or odour.

  • @kaitlincox9714
    @kaitlincox9714 3 місяці тому +9

    It's not a constant smell but sometimes it's as though he has vomited and never brushed his teeth. Once I asked him if he threw up today. His face also has another rotting smell. Not always but sometimes. I don't get it. So strange how others smell as well. What in the world.

  • @justmyopinion2205
    @justmyopinion2205 3 місяці тому +20

    Danish, you are so right yet again! Thank you for bringing this scary narcissistic fact up. I thought it was only my ex narcissist that had this horrid breath until now.
    My ex-narcissist developed the absolutely worst possible breath I’ve ever smelled, after I was trapped by marriage, to him.
    His breath literally smelled like something had crawled up inside of him and died. I am NOT exaggerating in the least bit!
    His breath would go from the putrid smell of rotting flesh to the same exact smell as that of a living pig sty.
    He never could smell his own horrid breath. I finally told him, very gently, that he had bad breath for a while now and needed to figure out what was causing it. He asked how bad it was and, being a very honest person, I told him as bad as the smell of a dead and decaying animal.
    It was absolutely unbearable and intolerable. Well after divorcing the parasite I was watching a documentary on evil and demonic entities when I just froze upon hearing that the sign a human has a demonic entity inside them is their breath becomes rancid and intolerable by others but goes absolutely undetectable by the person. And their breath is so rancid that people can smell it without having to be next to the person.
    Freaked me out so bad know I was even more blessed than I knew I was, that I escaped with my life.

  • @marniegrohs1553
    @marniegrohs1553 3 місяці тому +27

    I have met many narcissist and worse over my lifetime and never noticed a smell but what I have noticed is most of the ones I knew have got cancer in their 40’s/50’s. So I agree their constant negativity rots them from the inside.

    • @Eagle-eagle1
      @Eagle-eagle1 2 місяці тому

      They are cancer !

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      Um, as an Orthodox Christian. That means nothing. ☦

    • @marniegrohs1553
      @marniegrohs1553 2 місяці тому

      @@Featheryfaith7 God tends to give people what they wish for other people. A malignant narcissist sets people up into accidents that could cause physical harm, sexual assault even death. COVID misinformation to get people to not listen to the CDC is a great example of narcissists setting up people to their death. You’ll noticed that a lot of the influencers that did that got COVID and died.

  • @janicejackson5760
    @janicejackson5760 3 місяці тому +80

    My ex-husband is a narcissist abuser. The first time he abused me he produced a foul putrid smell and his eyes turned as red as coal. The final time he abused me he produced that same foul putrid smell. When my mother came to speak to him about what he was doing he was producing that scent. When he left the room my mother asked me, “Why is he stinking so bad?” This video was mind blowing and mind opening.

    • @Blissblizzard
      @Blissblizzard 2 місяці тому +1

      Red eyes was also a trance😢 state, bad smell, l used to put his PJ's outside the bedroom, more on them than on his body

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому +1

      Because genetics. That is so racist. Please don't be a narsisist. The irony. Please seek Jesus. ☦

  • @teripleydell5452
    @teripleydell5452 3 місяці тому +8

    I have experienced this only once, the first time we had sex, it was pungent and repulsive. At the time I vowed never to see him again but he kept visiting. Didn’t smell it again after that. Definitely a red flag.

  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 3 місяці тому +37

    This is not just a ordinary smell. It’s a type of rotten flesh or meat smell . I definitely used to get it off the narcissist when he was in bed . It’s a foul sickly like a rotten corpse. .

    • @kt45026
      @kt45026 3 місяці тому +3

      💯😩

  • @thedeergarden3964
    @thedeergarden3964 3 місяці тому +3

    Yep totally agree. I just had a roommate who thankfully left recently. I think he is a narcissist albeit fairly benign one. His room stank so bad though I don’t think he bathed much probably because as a narcissist he didn’t believe he needed to. I’m cleaning his room today and it still smells like him so I’ll have to wash every surface plus sage burning. I’m just thankful he’s gone. They are such toxic people.

  • @aliaqua9957
    @aliaqua9957 3 місяці тому +13

    My son-in-law is also alcoholic. He smells of old beer and booze seeping out of his pores! My brother has animals and smells like he lives with them in a barn, he also had very sour sweat smell before. Sad

  • @wendybarton5565
    @wendybarton5565 3 місяці тому +6

    My exnarc husband had a bad smell - thought it was his stinky feet. As the years went on it got worse. I did not want him to get near me towards the end. This is the first time I hadd heard of this. He used to hurt me and say I had bad breath but it was really him. No on else ever told me that.

  • @Sunnyinnorcal86
    @Sunnyinnorcal86 3 місяці тому +10

    Well this answers my 20 y o question. The smell permeates everything and you can't wash it out.

  • @charlie-girl72
    @charlie-girl72 3 місяці тому +3

    Exactly, this is so hard for me it makes me scared. It's not they don't wash good enough. It's around them. We had pets so the children smelled these bad smells, one day we looked around if it was one of the pets maybe did something somewhere, we couldn't find anything. sewer air? none of the pets did it. It's the spirtual smell of demons so I call it. It's a scary thing though. 😟🥺

  • @calight1111
    @calight1111 3 місяці тому +10

    Omg! My father in law! He leaves the room and leaves remnants of the smell of death!!!! ☠️

  • @moxie96
    @moxie96 3 місяці тому +3

    My worst teacher (3rd grade) tried to cover it up with a coconut fragrance but it didn’t work enough.
    It’s a good thing the smell of coconut in general doesn’t make me feel adverse to it despite her abusing. Just the idea she chosen a sweet smell to fake away her foul everything of her whole being.

  • @stevenperry4466
    @stevenperry4466 3 місяці тому +39

    I'll bet many of the victims of narc abuse end up with these symptoms due to high stress leading to I.B.S. etc.

    • @mia_1969
      @mia_1969 3 місяці тому +1

      No not really. This is a stink that isn't normal. They can't wash it away. They can't brush it away. They can temporarily mask it.
      But if u haven't been exposed to it you will not understand. And as Danish said, not ALL narcissists have this. You're lucky you haven't been exposed to their stench.

    • @yuu_miran
      @yuu_miran 3 місяці тому +9

      Indeed. Ive been tolerating various narcs for decades now and since teenage years i always sweat more that an average person. My hair also gets greasy faster and when i go out it soaks in all the bad smell of the public transport/peopke’s odors/alcohol and tabacco smells around the first day i washed my hair. I used to add strong natural essential oils to shampoos etc but that doesnt last long too. Its as if all the dirt of the world gets sticked to me easily. And i do suffer from ibs and gas issues, the smell often rotten and disgusting even though i eat very plain and healthy foods no fast food greasy or spiced etc as if their evil possessed me and cant seem to go away.

    • @lindac6919
      @lindac6919 3 місяці тому +4

      I had painful digestion and gas for a while after I got out of my Narky situtaions. One thing I had to do was had to go on a strict diet of fresh organic foods as much as possible, and reduce my acid levels as much as possible.
      Maybe that's it...maybe Narkys are full of acid.

    • @lindac6919
      @lindac6919 3 місяці тому

      @@yuu_miran Have you heard of Food Combining, or tried broad spectrum digestive enzymes? Do you suffer from digestive pain? Are meals NO pleasure for you? I used Food Combining for YEARS to control pain and ibs and gas issues.
      Food Combining isn't easy, but it really does work.
      Now I take digestive enzymes, and I had NAET done for some stubborn food issues that wouldn't go away. So mostly I eat everything, but there are a few Food Combining rules I stick to. It took me decades to make friends with my gut - maybe some of my history can help you!

    • @stevenperry4466
      @stevenperry4466 3 місяці тому

      There is no doubt that these narcs are meat bags without a soul but somehow they can transfer that rotten smell to their victims.
      Just as they attempt a personality transfer. This evil is definitely on a spiritual level. Since infancy, I've been plagued with constant abuse that resulted in serious health issues and bad odors that are not corrected by brushing your teeth, showering and clean clothes." It really makes life a drag". I'll bet I'm not the only one!

  • @a.williams9
    @a.williams9 3 місяці тому +11

    So true. Makes perfect sense. Their evil nature manifests in different ways.

  • @feliciajenkins5041
    @feliciajenkins5041 3 місяці тому +12

    A former manager who should've never been put in a authoritative position always wore this cologne that nauseated me. The fact that he was escorted out by police for stealing and unauthorized company credit card purchases and can never come back on the premises makes up for being wrongfully terminated.

  • @DushkaNoordhof
    @DushkaNoordhof 3 місяці тому +3

    Wow! This explains why my narc husband had the most foul breath ever!!! I wondered if he had a mouth disease? Even after brushing his teeth it was still so strong this disgusting smell. Not normal bad breath smell.

  • @20WUTEVER
    @20WUTEVER 3 місяці тому +13

    Yup I knew it was gonna be a bad day when her breath was off.

  • @ladyv5655
    @ladyv5655 3 місяці тому +12

    I always thought it was me when I noticed my mother's smell. I knew it wasn't me when my eight year old nephew complained to me that "Grandma smells bad." As she got older her hygiene suffered, but this makes a lot of sense.

  • @1FantasticDreamBird
    @1FantasticDreamBird 3 місяці тому +4

    Even my dogs turn their nose away from him when he gets close to them. He thinks it's funny. I noticed the bad smell the first night we were married when he was in bed. I went to get in and said, "it smells like farts in the sheets." He didn't say anything. There's a putrid smell is in his luxury car. I covered my nose with my scarf the entire way riding in his car. I can see the cologne dripping down his neck but, after a few minutes, gross smell. He asked my daughter to help him find a cologne that smells good. She said every single one he tried on smelled like feces within a minute. I had to put an open bag of coffee on a shelf in the closet by his clothes. After he leaves, I spray and open windows. I turn on aromatherapy next to me when he comes into the room. I spray the bed sheets on his side of the bed and my pillow as I sleep with it over my face when he turns toward me.

  • @toniwhiteman5791
    @toniwhiteman5791 3 місяці тому +10

    The day he moved out I took the bed the lounge and all pillows sheets and blankets to the tip... Good riddance

  • @chrishenniker5944
    @chrishenniker5944 3 місяці тому +24

    I wonder if psychopaths actually have a smell that makes them easy to detect. If narcissistic bastards have a smell that makes them easier to detect, why don’t we have sniffer dogs trained to detect them? You’re at an airport and you see a cute German shepherd going down the line at passport control, or in the arrivals lounge, you’re about to get the tube home . The cute dog sniffs the man in front of you, he flinches as the big ball of fluff nuzzles his armpit. The dog signals to his friend that he’s found his target, a narcissist. The plainclothes detective pulls the man aside for further investigation. “Thank Freya, that kid helped me dodge a bullet.”

    • @AphroditeThePriestess
      @AphroditeThePriestess 3 місяці тому +2

      They have a dirty oily shine - not a healthy glow, but a sweaty unclean shine… Think of homeless person shine… Same, but psychopath might be dressed well…
      As well, one thing would be out of order in a very exaggerated way - could be dirty shoes or car for a man, ugly messy nails for a women, while other things would be top notch.. Something would be grossly out of picture, they would be trying to present…

    • @snowwpea
      @snowwpea 2 місяці тому +2

      I wonder if dogs can smells narcissists/sociopaths, which is why some dogs growl at certain people.

    • @hello_0768
      @hello_0768 2 місяці тому

      good one

  • @b8akaratn
    @b8akaratn 3 місяці тому +19

    Neglect of their bodies, which already hold chronic irritation and inflammation, seemed to make Narcspouse's natural body oils into an infectious unguent. A yellowing of pillowcases, armpit stains that are like burnt cooking grease... Because of nicotine use, I thought it was just that... But he suffered repeat abscesses in his gums and skin, his body was a crooked, ill-postured one, which included pilonidal cysts, gum decay, and toe fungus that ripped through rotted socks // Kiddo and i try only to refer to him as Moldemort, now

    • @theripper1705
      @theripper1705 3 місяці тому +1

      Also he had no sense of smell, do he didn't comprehend his B.O.

    • @campbell1446
      @campbell1446 3 місяці тому +2

      That was my ex-husband! Yellow greasy stains on the pillowcase and sheets. I had to throw them out. No detergent could get it clean. And a body odor so awful I didn't want to be anywhere near him. I had thought this was rare -- so glad to find other people who have experienced this.

    • @Jessica-iq6kj
      @Jessica-iq6kj 3 місяці тому +3

      I literally laughed out loud when I read Moldemort."

    • @shellieperreault6262
      @shellieperreault6262 3 місяці тому

      🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @caramelobear1952
      @caramelobear1952 2 місяці тому +1

      YIKES! 😮
      How does one have intimacy with such people??? Anybody???

  • @brokenbuthealed5652
    @brokenbuthealed5652 3 місяці тому +51

    My ex started smelling like sewage or something months before I went no contact. It got worse. I bought deodorant pills, changed his soap, mouthwash, even Smart mouth and Therabreath didn't work, changed his toothpaste, washed his clothes, scrubbed his body, NOTHING took it away. His breath was horrendous!! After he was gone, it took about 2 months for his smell to finally leave my home. And I treated my couch in the spot that he Sat and it went away. That spot smelled so horrible. I also had to clean the inside of my washing machine and wash curtains, wash the walls. And I even started exhibiting minor body odor issues which are completely gone ever since he been gone. A lot of things stopped in its tracks once we parted. Thank God he is gone and it's over!!!!

    • @Scott-n2x1j
      @Scott-n2x1j 3 місяці тому +4

      Good work and blessings to you

    • @RonSafreed
      @RonSafreed 3 місяці тому +3

      Hmmm, interesting & yes that oder will go to the mate or friends & family of narcissist. My father was a narc. & my mother had bad breath!! However she left him & the bad breath also stopped!! Also my narc.younger brother was always showering umteen times a day & now I know why!!

    • @brokenbuthealed5652
      @brokenbuthealed5652 3 місяці тому

      @@Scott-n2x1j 💜

    • @brokenbuthealed5652
      @brokenbuthealed5652 3 місяці тому

      @iamuniquelyme

    • @staceface88
      @staceface88 3 місяці тому +1

      Stress and cortisol can increase body odor. When I’m around the narc I have the worst bo. When I’m not around him. I don’t.

  • @sakamakisinners4698
    @sakamakisinners4698 3 місяці тому +8

    Weird I was thinking about this the other day. I’m interested to know if anyone else would have an allergic reaction to their narcs sweat? I would come out in a nasty rash whenever it touched my skin, I would be laughed at for it, and thus purposely wiped on my skin.

    • @shellieperreault6262
      @shellieperreault6262 3 місяці тому +3

      😮

    • @hello_0768
      @hello_0768 2 місяці тому

      that's so mean to do that to you

    • @Angela-382
      @Angela-382 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes, my skin would burn and tighten from the sweat; the semen was agonising. And no, for a long time i didn't have a choice about that. (Sorry this is tmi, but he had an icy cold p...s. so creepy.)

  • @smokefilledroom
    @smokefilledroom 3 місяці тому +13

    dude... I had no idea that was real. My husband 's smells so effing bad and so does his clothes in his room and he showers. And he brushes his teeth. but he's got a horrible odor coming off of him all the time. this is true. he's a violent, abusive narcissist. wow

    • @karriesaunders8597
      @karriesaunders8597 2 місяці тому

      I think the covid jabs are making some people smell.

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 місяці тому

      Nah, it is called race. Some people like the musk smell. I do. I have perfume musk. My bird has musk. This video makes no sense...

  • @AlexandraWroblewski
    @AlexandraWroblewski 3 місяці тому +3

    WOW!!!!! My sister has always smelled like a mix of moth balls, bad perfume and something unidentifiable. The smell is always with her and it's not pleasant. This video explains a lot. Thank you.

  • @musicianwren9248
    @musicianwren9248 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video. That disgusting, pungent smell is something I've noticed from several narcs I've known. I just knew it had to do with their disorder.

  • @marci.abraham
    @marci.abraham 3 місяці тому +8

    So funny! Just a few hours ago I was hit with this weird memory of how my narc smelled. No body odor, weirdly. But his breath and his excrement smelled exceptionally horrid. My mother is npd/bpd and she too has developed an unusually off-putting smell. So funny that I thought of all of this earlier today and then I find that Danish put out a video....