I find myself doing it on myself daily. No one taught me. Well maybe Earl Nightingale. It's basically putting a positive spin on every little thought, feeling and action. And then while you were talking about the word subject. And how we had subjects in school. Now I think of them as inJECTions into our SUBconscious.
NLP is about much more than just putting a positive spin on things. In one sense, yes, we all do NLP. We're all engaging in unconscious processes. NLP codes those unconscious processes so we can make them conscious. When they're conscious, we can change them.
@@DamonCart , I said basically because for me when you break it down it comes down to being intentional with monitoring and modifying every single thought and behavior of mine. It's how I cracked the code to perpetual joy.
😌 My Master, Sifu Cart I find myself using allot of the meta model lately I guess I'm practicing & I kinda notice its a useful tool when chatting with women 😂 bypassing objections using the modal operators is kinda interesting & asking questions is the best way to argue 🤣 I was inspired by the Socratic questioning 😭 My Milton model needs allot of improvement too 😂 inspired by the laws of power 'keep your words vague' 😭 I'm writing this comment before watching the video though.
Great question. Start with Transforming Your Self. Read it three times and do all of the exercises all three times. Then move on to 6 Blind Elephants Volumes 1 and 2.
Can you please say the date of your free training Eastern time or when? Reason: we don’t know when the date of your video so saying weekend -we don’t know which weekend you are referring to. Thank you so much for sharing!
When you click the link in the description, it will show you everything you need to know. Since the training was this past weekend, you can get on the waitlist for the next time we do it.
After paying a lot for therapy, I have decided that almost all therapist have no idea how to help anyone outside of just listening. NLP seems like it might actually help.
Depends on the therapist and the therapeutic models they use. There are great therapists out there. There are great coaches too. They're not always easy to find.
What is the best single book that summarizes the core principles of NLP and how to get started using it on yourself and others in practical areas of life
Can't think of a single book that summarizes NLP. It's really difficult to learn NLP from books. Anything by Steve and Connirae Andreas is going to be the most accurate. I recommend my training, which is the same cost as a few NLP books. You can find it at ultimatenlppractitioner.com
@@billusher2265 because NLP is experiential. You learn it through experience. You start by watching someone, who knows what they're doing, demonstrate it. Then you practice. You won't completely get it the first, second, or even third time. It helps to have a community to learn with so you can ask questions and compare notes with others. You can't do this with a book. You can't see a demonstration in a book nor can you ask for help.
Hey Damon , really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with more Quality Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail and also help you with the overall youtube strategy and growth ! Pls let me know what do you think ?
Hahahaha...im there so I have done 3 x NLP and life coaching course and I know Im really good at this somewhere inside I know I'm meant to do this .....BUT HOW??? fear of failure is a thing....or what if I dont help anyone...and where do I find people to help?
@@DamonCart which video should I be directed to as a beginner? I just want to learn basic practice for improving my goal settings such wanting to start a youtube channel etc. Thanks again
@@maxisvloggin I've done videos on achieving goals and well formed outcomes. You can search those. I've also been creating a UA-cam program that will be released soon.
That's a big question that I've answered in many videos. It's the study of the structure of experience. You can study it at ultimatenlppractitioner.com/
I love the concept of NLP. You say beliefs are not real, totally agreed there are so many unconscious beliefs that screw us up, but where does Jesus fit in this situation? That isn't subjective. Just the same as NLP.
I didn't know that Jesus was essential for understanding NLP. You might have a belief that Jesus is a messiah, but that belief is not a fact. It's just what you believe. Belief and fact or not the same. If it were a fact that Jesus is the messiah, you wouldn't need faith and faith is essentially what Christianity is.
@@DamonCart Your first sentence, fair point but I was just asking. The rest of your response shows a bit of insecurity. I like watching your videos and thank you for the NLP training. PS, Jesus and Christianity are two very different things. Much love.
@@JamielovesJesus insecurity? You're also psychic? What was insecure about my answer? Obviously Jesus and Christianity are two different things. Trump and MAGA are not the same entity but they are related. Since there is no proof that Jesus existed, believing he existed is a belief, faith.
@@DamonCart What I felt was insecure may or may not be true. We don't know each other, yet I respect you and love your work. I was simply wondering where the concept of Jesus fits within NLP or if it is completely different - your decision to target that as a religious debate instead changed the subject, from a slightly defensive tone. It's totally ok if it was or wasn't. I honestly don't have the will to have those conversations, you believe what you believe. I believe in NLP too, almost like a lifestyle; And as mentioned, respect you and your work because it has helped me and still does, even now. Keep up the good work, you're helping a lot of people.
Very well done. You managed to talk about it at length without explaining what it is. I think the term "master class" should be switched out for "infomercial".
Infomercials sell things. What did I sell in this video? I explained exactly the mind frames needed to master NLP. You seemed to have missed it. Pay more attention.
We can't literally change the past. What has happened has happened. We can change the way we feel about the past. We can make it serve us rather than allow it to bring us down.
I thought the same thing then I realized it was just as much my unwillingness to be patient. He teaches a fully functional NLP so he first may pull you back from myths you may have about it. In other words, grow up.
@@DamonCart OMG sometimes I'm like damnit dude are you doing a dopamine detox on me? It does feel like a lot of dry preamble but yeah. Also note that you can change the video speed or do velocitation. As in, time distortion.
The one issue I have is the idea that there is no self worth. That I know is wrong. There is no self respect without self worth. He needs to use another definition.
Yeaah u can just skip what he says on self worth, he doesnt know what it is. For selfworth he does a reframe thats not helpful for most people, a more helpful definition is what you believe you are worth, and you can alter that belief to absolutely anything.
@user-kv9dl6tp3m okay, prove that self-worth exists. Worth implies a measurement of value. We can measure energy in food, calories. We can measure distance in miles or kilometers. We can measure weight. We can measure value on a house based on what someone is willing to pay for it. How do you measure your worth? The problem with self-respect is the distortion in your mind that led you to want a dualistic thing like self-respect. How do you respect yourself? Self-respect implies that you have divided yourself into two parts, one that does the respecting and one that receives the respect. This creates a lot of problems. If you have to focus on respecting yourself, rewind and find the source of the problem because needing to respect yourself implies a deeper problem.
@nils4415 tell me what self-worth is then. Worth implies a measurement of value. We can measure energy in food, calories. We can measure distance in miles or kilometers. We can measure weight. We can measure value on a house based on what someone is willing to pay for it. How do you measure your worth? If you play this game with self-worth you will always end up losing. There's no such thing as self-worth so when you try to measure it, you will either inflate your ego or you will feel terrible about yourself. Either one will harm you. It's unstable. Seeing through the illusion of self-worth will free you to access and fulfill your potential.
Personally I haven't had the time to make enough mind space to objectively process Damon's reply, but it's obvious that he's not just speaking to hear himself talk. He's obviously put himself and his experiences through the wringer while also finding a way to explain those processes to the rest of us, his audiences, which deserves a fair amount of credit. 💪
@@DamonCartit really is not for me to say anything more than what I said. If a person has no worth, meaning no real value, even to themselves, there is no good opinion for them to have of themselves. If you think there is no self worth objectively ok, but subjectively, self value and hence self worth must be present in a well balanced person.
How did you come to that realization? I do train coaches but the majority of people I teach are people wanting to use NLP for themselves and for the purpose of eliminating blocks.
@@DamonCart We had talked in the comment section of your videos in the past and I had said I wanted to work with you. I tried reaching you on Facebook. Everything I found seemed geared toward improving the skills of facilitators including this one. I have a horrible problem with putting projects I'm involved in into action. This weekend I Googled it and it suggested considering emotional neglect and I was stunned to discovered I exhibited all 9 traits according to one psychologist yet I don't feel I was emotionally neglected in any significant way. I'm actually temporarily homeless at the moment as a result of not acting on things. My personal circumstances are pretty unique I just can't figure out where this came from and how it's got this hold over me. Let me know what program to purchase.
@@DamonCart I'm interested in not self sabotaging any longer. Becoming a practitioner would be a great goal but I need how to figure out how to just say f*ck it and just go for it
@@DamonCart I was thinking about this. One of my problems is having a problem making decisions so after thinking about it it makes sense to use the self concept model program first.
Boooom! i think this is the saying....at the heart of every well-formed (well-founded) belief is an unfounded faith in your belief.
It is an honor to listen to your level of genuinely presenting an honest process of becoming real and authentic and striving for ever to goodness
Thank you.
So clear that I decided to learn from you.
Welcome!
Holy crap. This is so much better than therapy.
I find myself doing it on myself daily. No one taught me. Well maybe Earl Nightingale. It's basically putting a positive spin on every little thought, feeling and action.
And then while you were talking about the word subject. And how we had subjects in school. Now I think of them as inJECTions into our SUBconscious.
NLP is about much more than just putting a positive spin on things. In one sense, yes, we all do NLP. We're all engaging in unconscious processes. NLP codes those unconscious processes so we can make them conscious. When they're conscious, we can change them.
@@DamonCart , I said basically because for me when you break it down it comes down to being intentional with monitoring and modifying every single thought and behavior of mine. It's how I cracked the code to perpetual joy.
I've seen quite a few of your videos and found this the most useful. Love the first principle-ish level of the 5. Thank you.
You're welcome.
😌 My Master, Sifu Cart
I find myself using allot of the meta model lately I guess I'm practicing & I kinda notice its a useful tool when chatting with women 😂 bypassing objections using the modal operators is kinda interesting & asking questions is the best way to argue 🤣 I was inspired by the Socratic questioning 😭 My Milton model needs allot of improvement too 😂 inspired by the laws of power 'keep your words vague' 😭 I'm writing this comment before watching the video though.
Well Done!!!
Thank you.
If I were to read your three favorite Steve Andreas books what order should I read them?
Great question. Start with Transforming Your Self. Read it three times and do all of the exercises all three times. Then move on to 6 Blind Elephants Volumes 1 and 2.
@@DamonCart Thank You Sir I look forward to working with you 1 on 1
@@DamonCartdidn’t know about the books! Ordering now!
@@DamonCart Ah yes I did miss a lot the first time I read Transforming the Self and am on number two.
Can you please say the date of your free training Eastern time or when? Reason: we don’t know when the date of your video so saying weekend -we don’t know which weekend you are referring to. Thank you so much for sharing!
When you click the link in the description, it will show you everything you need to know. Since the training was this past weekend, you can get on the waitlist for the next time we do it.
After paying a lot for therapy, I have decided that almost all therapist have no idea how to help anyone outside of just listening. NLP seems like it might actually help.
Depends on the therapist and the therapeutic models they use. There are great therapists out there. There are great coaches too. They're not always easy to find.
What is the best single book that summarizes the core principles of NLP and how to get started using it on yourself and others in practical areas of life
Can't think of a single book that summarizes NLP. It's really difficult to learn NLP from books. Anything by Steve and Connirae Andreas is going to be the most accurate. I recommend my training, which is the same cost as a few NLP books. You can find it at ultimatenlppractitioner.com
@@DamonCart why is it hard to learn from a book
@@billusher2265 because NLP is experiential. You learn it through experience. You start by watching someone, who knows what they're doing, demonstrate it. Then you practice. You won't completely get it the first, second, or even third time. It helps to have a community to learn with so you can ask questions and compare notes with others. You can't do this with a book. You can't see a demonstration in a book nor can you ask for help.
Hey Damon , really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with more Quality Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail and also help you with the overall youtube strategy and growth ! Pls let me know what do you think ?
I already have people who handle all of that, but if you think you can do better, you can email me samples to damon@selfconcept.com
Hahahaha...im there so I have done 3 x NLP and life coaching course and I know Im really good at this somewhere inside I know I'm meant to do this .....BUT HOW??? fear of failure is a thing....or what if I dont help anyone...and where do I find people to help?
Come train with us.
Can you make a video to be more specific of what to pracrice and how to? This still is confusing me
I've made videos about that, among the thousand plus NLP videos I've made. I also provide training in NLP.
@@DamonCart which video should I be directed to as a beginner? I just want to learn basic practice for improving my goal settings such wanting to start a youtube channel etc. Thanks again
@@maxisvloggin I've done videos on achieving goals and well formed outcomes. You can search those. I've also been creating a UA-cam program that will be released soon.
What is nlp? Where can I styudy how it works Please give me an answer
That's a big question that I've answered in many videos. It's the study of the structure of experience. You can study it at ultimatenlppractitioner.com/
I love the concept of NLP. You say beliefs are not real, totally agreed there are so many unconscious beliefs that screw us up, but where does Jesus fit in this situation? That isn't subjective. Just the same as NLP.
I didn't know that Jesus was essential for understanding NLP. You might have a belief that Jesus is a messiah, but that belief is not a fact. It's just what you believe. Belief and fact or not the same. If it were a fact that Jesus is the messiah, you wouldn't need faith and faith is essentially what Christianity is.
@@DamonCart Your first sentence, fair point but I was just asking. The rest of your response shows a bit of insecurity. I like watching your videos and thank you for the NLP training. PS, Jesus and Christianity are two very different things. Much love.
@@JamielovesJesus insecurity? You're also psychic? What was insecure about my answer?
Obviously Jesus and Christianity are two different things. Trump and MAGA are not the same entity but they are related. Since there is no proof that Jesus existed, believing he existed is a belief, faith.
@@DamonCart What I felt was insecure may or may not be true. We don't know each other, yet I respect you and love your work. I was simply wondering where the concept of Jesus fits within NLP or if it is completely different - your decision to target that as a religious debate instead changed the subject, from a slightly defensive tone. It's totally ok if it was or wasn't. I honestly don't have the will to have those conversations, you believe what you believe. I believe in NLP too, almost like a lifestyle; And as mentioned, respect you and your work because it has helped me and still does, even now. Keep up the good work, you're helping a lot of people.
@@JamielovesJesus what am I insecure about?
Very well done. You managed to talk about it at length without explaining what it is. I think the term "master class" should be switched out for "infomercial".
Infomercials sell things. What did I sell in this video?
I explained exactly the mind frames needed to master NLP. You seemed to have missed it. Pay more attention.
🙏
Great information, up your presentation skills to be effective. Tks
You're welcome.
Lol@@DamonCart
43:30 - I mean can't we really change the past? Like going through the same number of events but from a different perspective
We can't literally change the past. What has happened has happened. We can change the way we feel about the past. We can make it serve us rather than allow it to bring us down.
I am not dead. Yes. True dat, and that made me laugh.
Will you please get to the point my God you're going in circles
I thought the same thing then I realized it was just as much my unwillingness to be patient. He teaches a fully functional NLP so he first may pull you back from myths you may have about it. In other words, grow up.
@brianchrist7674 use NLP to work on your patience. UnTikTok your mind. You'll be happy you did.
@@DamonCart OMG sometimes I'm like damnit dude are you doing a dopamine detox on me?
It does feel like a lot of dry preamble but yeah. Also note that you can change the video speed or do velocitation. As in, time distortion.
The one issue I have is the idea that there is no self worth. That I know is wrong. There is no self respect without self worth. He needs to use another definition.
Yeaah u can just skip what he says on self worth, he doesnt know what it is. For selfworth he does a reframe thats not helpful for most people, a more helpful definition is what you believe you are worth, and you can alter that belief to absolutely anything.
@user-kv9dl6tp3m okay, prove that self-worth exists. Worth implies a measurement of value. We can measure energy in food, calories. We can measure distance in miles or kilometers. We can measure weight. We can measure value on a house based on what someone is willing to pay for it. How do you measure your worth?
The problem with self-respect is the distortion in your mind that led you to want a dualistic thing like self-respect. How do you respect yourself? Self-respect implies that you have divided yourself into two parts, one that does the respecting and one that receives the respect. This creates a lot of problems. If you have to focus on respecting yourself, rewind and find the source of the problem because needing to respect yourself implies a deeper problem.
@nils4415 tell me what self-worth is then. Worth implies a measurement of value. We can measure energy in food, calories. We can measure distance in miles or kilometers. We can measure weight. We can measure value on a house based on what someone is willing to pay for it. How do you measure your worth?
If you play this game with self-worth you will always end up losing. There's no such thing as self-worth so when you try to measure it, you will either inflate your ego or you will feel terrible about yourself. Either one will harm you. It's unstable. Seeing through the illusion of self-worth will free you to access and fulfill your potential.
Personally I haven't had the time to make enough mind space to objectively process Damon's reply, but it's obvious that he's not just speaking to hear himself talk. He's obviously put himself and his experiences through the wringer while also finding a way to explain those processes to the rest of us, his audiences, which deserves a fair amount of credit. 💪
@@DamonCartit really is not for me to say anything more than what I said. If a person has no worth, meaning no real value, even to themselves, there is no good opinion for them to have of themselves. If you think there is no self worth objectively ok, but subjectively, self value and hence self worth must be present in a well balanced person.
I just realized you train NLP facilitators. Your program has nothing to do with helping clients eliminate blocks
How did you come to that realization? I do train coaches but the majority of people I teach are people wanting to use NLP for themselves and for the purpose of eliminating blocks.
@@DamonCart We had talked in the comment section of your videos in the past and I had said I wanted to work with you. I tried reaching you on Facebook. Everything I found seemed geared toward improving the skills of facilitators including this one. I have a horrible problem with putting projects I'm involved in into action. This weekend I Googled it and it suggested considering emotional neglect and I was stunned to discovered I exhibited all 9 traits according to one psychologist yet I don't feel I was emotionally neglected in any significant way. I'm actually temporarily homeless at the moment as a result of not acting on things. My personal circumstances are pretty unique I just can't figure out where this came from and how it's got this hold over me. Let me know what program to purchase.
@@Earth_to_Kensho...ComeInKensho I have a NLP practitioner training and a training for learning The Self-Concept Model. What are you looking to learn?
@@DamonCart I'm interested in not self sabotaging any longer. Becoming a practitioner would be a great goal but I need how to figure out how to just say f*ck it and just go for it
@@DamonCart I was thinking about this. One of my problems is having a problem making decisions so after thinking about it it makes sense to use the self concept model program first.