I BOUGHT A HOUSE + 5 ACRES IN JOSHUA TREE | Life Update Vlog Episode 1
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
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This is so very different but I am so very excited. Cheers to a new chapter my beautiful UA-cam family - it is all possible ONLY because of your support. Love you guys more than you know! Thank you Hello Fresh for sponsoring the first of these monthly recaps xx.
00:00-01:58 Simple Explanation of Where I've Been
01:59-03:26 Owning Up
03:32-06:20 Talking About The Break Up
06:23-07:25 How I Moved Forward
07:26-09:42 How I Got On Track To Buy a House
09:50-10:44 Finding THE House
10:45-12:56 Hello Fresh Break
12:58-14:30 Putting in an Offer
14:33-15:36 Reaction to Putting in the Offer
16:01-16:42 Reaction to Getting the House
16:48-18:38 My Time So Far in Joshua Tree
19:09-19:39 Snow in the Desert
19:47-22:15 Sneak Peek w/ Wood Brain
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This is the type of video you can simply listen to if you need something mellow! It's way different than what I typically do but this has been LONG overdue. I'm excited to end the craziest month of my life by starting a new chapter because of all your support. I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH! What was your favorite sneak peek in the video?
I needed a video to help me sleep thanks girllll good vibes before bed!
Cali 😍 still in shock to see snow in the desert. 😳😳😳
Loved all of the intriguing sneaky peeks! So much to look forward to- WELL DONE MISSUS! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
I cried together throughout the video! Im so happy for you and im really sorry that you went through so much on top of everything bad of a year that was mostly garbage. You are awesome, congratulations for all you conquered!!!
Loved this. And you. Excited for this new chapter 🙌🌈🌻
I really dislike when ppl say “there are bigger/more important things” there’s nothing more important than one’s mental and physical wellbeing. We should never put anything or anyone before our own wellbeing, if we are not well within ourselves we are no help to anyone or anything else. Always put yourself first, always!! I’m so happy that you took the time you needed and that you’re continuing to heal and grow. Congratulations on all of it including your new home!! I’m excited for your future and what you’re willing to share. Can’t wait to see the transformation your home is about to take😀👏🏽👏🏽 Best wishes always❤️
I agree saying “there’s more important things” is disregarding your reality. We do not live each others life so we should be honoring our own. We are allow to hurt and it’s okay to feel pain. It needs to be processed so we can move forward.
Don’t diminish your personal challenges because “others have it worse”. Your stress is relative and valid. Good luck with everything you’re working on
Yes, her stress and challenges are real but I like her even better for realizing how many people right now are suffering so much.
It’s good to have perspective - first because you see that your problems, even though tough, are manageable but also because those of us who have resources, have enough to live decently should never forget the many others who don’t (and we should do what we can to help). Rachel is aware, one of many reasons I’m subscribed.
yes rach!!!! The “class for ‘ADULTING’” should exist lmaooo seriously. I’m just 22 and I have had so many mental breakdowns in the last 4 years, that I’m sure I should be in a mental hospital (but uses UA-cam for ✨therapy✨). Honestly you’re the most relatable person ever in like the world hun 🥺😂 we all know there are problems above our own, but sometimes you just need someone to show you compassion, understanding, and just some time! ✨✨✨ always here for you Metz
Thank you for this xx.
You are NOT the worlds ugliest crier. Or an ugly crier in general. Crying is a physical expression of your emotion and emotion is beautiful.
I’m so happy for you(:
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From the perspective of a newer subscriber: I can't fathom why you'd feel compelled to apologize for recent content as I've been enjoying it. That said, CONGRATULATIONS! Can't wait to see what's next.
Rachel is saying her content had started to flop lately and meanwhile I'm like wondering "when did that happen?" So happy for you and I can't wait to see future episodes of your house makeover !
RIGHT???? If the last few months have been poor content I'm literally afraid we won't be able to keep up when she's back on top of her game!
Congrats Rachel! We're so happy for you! BTW Liking all the little animations at the intro!
Thank you!
Yes! The animations were adorable
The literal physical difference between December Rachel and January Rachel is incredible. Security and safety and purpose and happiness and independence really is life changing
I’ve been with you for years and can honestly tell you that I have NOT been disappointed in your content over the last year! Don’t be that hard on yourself. We all love you and I’m so excited about monthly vlogs, it’s nice to get to know you better ❤️ Congratulations on your achievement - I’m proud of you for what it’s worth!
Congrats Rachel. That's really good news. I can understand how you must feel
Thank you! So much relief.
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Im the least emotional person EVER, but I can tell you that I cried when u heard that u got the house, I’m am SOO happy for u!! Congratulations! God, u deserve it so much ❤️
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I really loved how you say “it almost takes falling completely apart to come back together stronger”. And it’s true to any transition in life and it goes with what you do for a living. You need to demo first, have a process that is messy and chaotic to have a beautiful, new renovated space. I hope you take time to enjoy the process of renovating your new space, your way, rather than stressing about creating content.
Rachel, I’m sad that you don’t know that this is the type of stuff that we want more than anything, more than your technical videos. I know that’s how your channel grew (which led to your amazing house) but we are here for *YOU* !!!!!!!
Also don't minimize your breakup saying there are " larger and more pressing things" your breakup is large and pressing, and was a huge life changing milestone. Your feelings are so valid, you had one hell of a year and you should take as much time as you need!
almost a whole decade you lived with someone and shared your life with. i can’t even image how devastating of a feeling when it would be when it falls apart. the fact that your content was still amazing afterwards is a great accomplishment. i mean i probably wouldn’t have been able to do anything after that let alone make content for other people. i am wishing you the best on your new journey
😁🎉Congratulations Rachel. I’m very happy for you and I can’t wait to see all the amazing things that you are going to do to the property. Hugs from Canada 🤗😘
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Everyone’s level of “hard time” or “bad day” is so different. We’re allowed to have bad days even if it’s as simple as stubbing your toe. ❤️ congrats! So excited to see future projects!
it’s crazy it happened after 30, i’ve been reflecting on my saturn return and it always happens between 28-30 years and how life changes so drastically after. congrats on your home and your healing journey!
Thank you Marissa!
What is a Saturn return?
It’s when Saturn returns to its position when you were born.
@@uncorked2913 it wouldn't be every year like a birthday right?
@@hdmm9136 no, because time on Saturn is different than earth
Congrats, well deserved! Also, it’s not *us* that got you there, it’s you! Your insane DIY capabilities and makeovers are what keep us all coming back for more. Enjoy this moment!💛
Congratulations on your first house-land purchase! Whoo-hoo.
Thank you!
I totally felt your pain. I too went through a breakup, divorce. It’s been a long healing journey for me, but finally found a way to love myself. I have a lot of other things going on in my life that made it harder for me to move forward, but I have. It’s been a few years and I’m finally at a good place. I realized that it’s ok to have faults, learn from mistakes, and move forward. Always try to be the best person you can be. 💕 You are one bad ass with those power tools and always give so much of yourself to your audience. Thank you! Everything is going to be alright and you are going to be extremely successful! Best wishes and looking forward to new content.
Thank you for sharing this!
“Falling completely apart, then to come back together, STRONGER.”
I love this Rachel. Thanks for sharing this, it has helped me. 💕
I found your channel recently, I’m in the middle of a divorce from a 10 year relationship, bought a house on my own and immediately subscribed when I saw all your diy reno projects because I want to be able to do that!! And then I’ve heard your story of your breakup and can’t help think I was lead to this channel for a reason 💕 thank you for your raw openness and internal reflection. It’s really helped me a lot.
rachel: i’ve been watching your videos for the longest time - and have been on the same boat that you were in. moved out of ex’s house, moved in with friends then moved out and then bought my house at 21, sold it for profit and then moved into my 2nd house at 22. and i cant tell you how EMOTIONAL this made me for you. it’s like dejavú. it reminds me of myself and what i was feeling during what seemed to be the most emotional and eye opening time in my life. you mentioned so many things in this video that i was thinking but felt so scared or weird to say out loud..
the city here in phoenix, az made me feel suffocated. and i moved out when everything around us in the world made it feel impossible with 100 other major problems in 2020.
the city life just wasn’t it.
and creating your own reality and being you for YOURSELF is the most amazing thing i feel like ive witnessed on your channel. you keep it real. and you keep rolling with the punches and bust your butt off to being this amazing person it so enlightening to witness, and your power circle is thriving.
this makes me so motivated to believe in so much.
the intense validation of owning a house on 5 acres you must feel and creating your slice of heaven is such a privilege to watch on your channel and I AM so HAPPY for you for letting us all see this growth and be a part of your life in some way. CONGRATULATIONS ON THIS BRAND NEW CHAPTER OF YOUR LIFE!! you deserve all the great things life has to offer!!
I didn’t notice how early I was till I saw the like button lol but I’m so proud for you and can’t wait for the up coming videos
Thank you for being early! And showing love.
It’s so crazy to me where Joshua Tree is at now. When we lived there over 10 years ago it wasn’t the hip, trendy place it is now. It was full of gang activity, bare, and didn’t have much to offer in terms of real estate. It’s incredible how it has turned into a place of peace and tranquility for so many people. Wishing you the absolute best in all your endeavors and settlement 💕
I'm so happy that you found a place that makes you happy. It's been quite the year for you. I love how you edited the video so that it was almost as if each room represented a different phase of this whole journey for you (idk if that made sense lol). Can't wait to see what you bring!
That's why I did it! So excited someone caught that 🥺.
From the bottom of my heart: thank you for this. I found your channel last year around the time of your breakup and you've been such an inspiration to me. I just turned 26 and finding someone whose humor, style, and life stages I can relate to has been such an amazing treat. I've felt this un-seen pressure to find someone, settle down and buy a place together and I felt like I was falling behind compared to my peers, especially as a young woman. Seeing you achieve this stunning milestone on your own all while being a bad-ass single woman is the relatable and raw content I need. You've inspired me this past year to become more financially independent and stable so I can become my own homeowner in this next chapter of my own life. I can't wait to see what you do with the place! Much love to you.
I just cried watching this, I relate to you on an extreme level. I'm trying to immigrate to Canada, because I wanna change my life completely and be happy. Hoping for the best. Watching this feels like I know you personally and my friend is finally bringing her life on track. Congratulations Rachel on the House!! ❤️
Thank you! We got this - we are stronger than we know!
The term “boyfriend conditions” just made me so so sad. Sending love and good vibes for this new, personalized chapter in your life ❤️❤️
I‘m so excited for you. And I‘m excited to see your new content all around the new property ☺️
It’s just amazing how the most heartbreaking things, can make you reflect on yourself and push you in the right direction. So ultimately you and up where your supposed to be.
It's so crazy! I couldn't be happier 🥰.
Congrats! It's been so nice to see your journey! I went through a breakup before yours. We were together 10 years and I had to move and get my first place on my own. I was without furniture for so long. That feeling of "damn I did this on my own" is one of the best highs you can feel in life! Rediscovering yourself after a long relationship is one of the weirdest feelings
How long it felt and how quick it happened. That is 2020 in a nutshell.
Thank you for your content, even when you didn’t think it was at its best. It really helped me get through the past year and gave me the drive to finish redecorating my apartment (and start woodworking).
Congratulations on your new home and can’t wait to see what you do with it! :)
Thank you for this xx.
You’re loved and supported, Rachel! When I left what I thought was “the one,” I took an entire year and half to just do me. You were a big part of that journey because I learned how healing creating can be. It’s now two years later, I bought my first house, and watch DIY and woodworking videos to learn how to make this house my home. You’re going to blossom even more, honey. Every breakthrough starts with a breakdown first. Much love to you. Can’t wait to see how 2021 will be for you. ❤️✌🏼
Love, you NEVER have to explain yourself or try to excuse your absence and issues. It doesn't matter what's going on with everyone else or even the world. We appreciate you understanding that everyone is going through a hard time, but that doesn't make your struggles any lesser. You're allowed to have off-days and take breaks, even if unannounced. We still love you. We're still here for you. And we still appreciate WHATEVER you put out content-wise, no matter how long it takes. Focus on your needs first, then us. You've always got so much going on and you deserve the time to process it.
I literally so emotional during this entire video. You are such an inspiration. The way you are so open and vulnerable then bad ass and a doer! I’ve got to get on your level. Thanks for the fire to get me moving!
Congratulations on all your success. Also good luck to Wood Brain on her home purchase as well.
Gosh thank you!!!!!
Rachel! I'm so happy for you! I teared up a lil when I saw this video pop up in my notifications. Im very excited to see what you do with your new home. Its so surreal how watching you from a distance on UA-cam has me so invested. I wish you all the best
🥺 this means so much.
Words cannot express how much I love this strong woman! I don't *actually* know her, but I feel like she represents everything I want to be! Rachel, you are brave, confident, strong, vulnerable, and a role model.
Can’t wait to see your new chapter! Watching your videos are everything - sometimes I relate a lot with your journey, and it really is a fresh of breath air to see how raw and transparent you’ve been with all your followers.
Wow sitting here sobbing watching you get the call that you got the house 😭❤️🙌🏻 I hope you know how insanely proud we all are of you! Your strength, resilience, love for your chosen fam, and outright vulnerability have all been so inspiring. You’re incredible.
Also, I don’t know if you’ve ever read it, but Daring Greatly by Brené Brown sounds like it would REALLY resonate with where you are in life and in your personal journey right now.
Can’t wait to see where 2021 takes you!
Love this. Also been going through it this past 6 months. Something I keep reminding myself is to not compare my problems to those of others because they are valid no matter how big or small they seem compared to others.
So excited for you and to hear the updated!! Can’t wait to see your badass home come to life!✨
I am so happy for you Rachel! I cant wait to see everything unfold for you! The best is yet to come!
So so happy and excited for this new adventure I’m your life !!! You deserve it all 🙌🏼🥰🥰
I can't wait to share.
So happy for you and Callie, you so deserve this! Also, love this vlog, looking forward to more.
Thank you Nicole!
1. CONGRATS
2. Cali's little paw prints in the snow
3. CALI IS GETTING A BROTHER???
sooo excited about all of this for you! and so happy you are feeling more like yourself
It’s so crazy to see how you’ve evolved over the past few years since I started watching your channel. Your strength and passion is amazing to witness. We are all happy and excited for you! ❤️🥳
Ayyyooo im so proud of you!!!! Know that your hard work shows‼️
Thank you!
Can’t wait too see all the renovations you do to you’re new home ❤️ I’m so ready for it. Plus you look genuinely happy 😃
Thank you!
I'm so excited! Excited for you and excited for the content that's coming! Congratulations 🎉
Rachel I am so unbelievably happy for you and so proud of you! So so excited to come along on your new journey ❤️💕
Enjoy every bit of it. Such a beautiful place to fill with your style. You deserve it
Thank you so so so much xx.
Congrats! I fought through a “situation” buying my first home... and while it took 5 years off my life in stress, it’s been worth the reward. I’m so excited to see where this all goes for you!
super excited for you and Callie. glad you took time to process. absolutely cannot wait to see future videos of your home and projects you are teaming up with Lindsay.
Blessings to you Rachel!!! Thanks for sharing this journey with us! I love your spirit and it's very motivational for both young and old! Congrats, on your new home!
This is so vulnerable and so amazing. Thank you for your honesty.
Thanks for watching xx.
“Sorry I’m like the world’s ugliest crier”
While literally radiating gorgeousness (is that a word??? Lol)
How exciting! So happy for you! Can’t wait to see all the things you’re going to do to your home!
I can't even express how happy I am for you. This will be an amazing new chapter that im so excited to see where it goes!❤
“Someone else's vision will never be as good as your own vision of your self. Live and die with it 'cause in the end it’s all you have. Lose it and you lose yourself and everything else.”
― Georgia O'Keeffe (who also saw the desert as a place to heal and create).
So happy for you! 😍 Congrats!
Thank you!
Congrats! Super excited for you and Callie! ❤️
I've been patiently waiting for a video and I'm so glad you have somewhere you can call home! Excited for all the content you're about to share. Congratulations!
Thank you for your honesty & for being true to you. I'm proud of you & purchasing a home at 30 is fantastic. Congratulations to you & your accomplishments!
Thank you!
Awww, you deserve all this. I know 2020 was a bit rough. Congratulations mama 🎈🎊🥂
Thank you lady!
So happy you're taking the time to find yourself and your space ✨ and excited to see the journey as it goes!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! So happy for you! ♥
I'm so excited to see you transform your new house! It's going to be awesome to see you show us your true style! I already know it's going to be amazing! Legit can't wait to see it all come together and the end result! 😁👌❤
Thank you Stephanie!
Bawled my eyes out during this because I want something similar so bad ❤ it is one of my biggest dreams. I'm so glad you got it and I'm so happy we get to watch this journey you go on. It's inspiring. Congrats!
Thank you for watching and your love!
SOOO SOOO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!! THANK YOU for ALWAYS showing us you living your dreams and still making time to share ll your talents with others. I"M NOT CRYING
I love that you are sharing this with us!! You feel like the older sister I never had and you’re just sharing your thoughts with the girls and it’s just so refreshing and wholesome. Thank you so much I learned a lot from you!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Wow girl, you bought a house with land! That is great news. You deserve it! You’ve worked really hard to accomplish such awesome adventures in your life. I can’t wait to watch you go through your home journey. Thanks for letting us be a part of it. Once again... CONGRATULATIONS!!!🎉🥳
I appreciate that xx.
Ah, your Saturn Return... mmm, it’s a tough one, 28-30 years old. Life changes beyond belief. Your house looks beautiful and what a great adventure you have before you. Best wishes from England X
So Excited and Happy for you! 🙌🙌🎉🎉🎉
Rachel I'm so excited for you and Cali and this new journey! I'm truly proud, sending lots of love!!!!
I see Rachel, I click.
Thank you for this.
@@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz wow! I am so excited for what is to come for you. I’m glad that you took your moment to have a pause and dig deep. I know I certainly don’t like that discomfort but by you sharing in ways I can’t explain, it helps. Can’t wait to see what’s to come and if it’s another month before we see you then I’ll know there’s a tornado of vids coming soon haha! So much love!
So funny to see JT as “trendy” I grew up there and we thought it was sort of a shit hole back then. Lol
So unbelievably happy for you! Can’t wait to see the progress
You have the kind of presence that quietly tugs at some of the threads of my depression. I felt it, truly, before even realizing the gravitational sway...a sense of comfort and creative escape simply bc of aesthetic, the way you speak, and the (seemingly)casual, organized way you present tasks and projects at hand. I just... appreciate that shit ♡
Can’t wait to see what you’ll do with your space! Really excited for you! 😁
You’re amazing! I can’t wait to see what your bringing to us!! Congratulations not just on your new house but on your new beginning!! Go get life by the horns girl! YOU GOT THIS!
Congratulations Rachel!!! Can't wait to see the transformation. Be Happy and Enjoy LIFE!!!!
Congratulations!!! you made me cry. I am so happy for you. I have to say, for me, there was no better feeling than stepping into my home after I closed escrow. My husband of 30 years died, I lost my cars, my house and filed bankruptcy all in a couple of years. I pulled myself together, reestablished my credit and purchased my own home by myself. I sometimes just sit and marvel at what I accomplished. I can't wait to see what you do with the place!!
I’m so excited for all the upcoming content!! Yasss!! You legit seem to be flourishing 🌸 grow Bebe, grow! ❤️
Congratulations to you both. You should be extremely proud. Can't wait for the walk through, plans and before and afters. GIRL, YOU ROCK!
I literally could not be more excited for you. This is amazing. Congratulations! I hope you are able to take a moment to breath and find some inner peace. 🙏❤
I love just how raw and genuine your content is. I've seen so few creators be so raw with themselves and their healing. I'm so happy to be a viewer and a part of your journey
Congratulations!! How exciting, I can’t wait to see what you do! This gave me lots of hope for my own future, so happy for you! Wishing you tons of love and light ❤️
I love that Lindsay is already looking at close by properties! Can’t wait to see how she revitalizes the pond and what you do with your new home! Huge congratulations!!
So excited for you! Can’t wait to see all your upcoming projects on the new place! ❤️ keep moving forward girl!
So excited to see what awesome adventures and creations are to come. Congratulations Rachel !!!
I love that you have your own space and so excited for you!!!! And girlie break ups are hard and glad you processed however you needed to process... i love you and your life journey!!! Cheering you on the whole time!!
Thank you for being so raw. You help us see we can still get up even when things aren't right in our life. Your such a strong and amazing person.
I’m sitting here watching you and listening to your story and crying right along with you. Congratulations lady thank you for sharing your journey! You so deserve this and have earned it! 💖💖💖 I can’t wait to see what you do to put your stamp on this home!
Congratulations it’s so nice to see you excited again and taking care of yourself! Plus finally focusing on you!!
Honestly this video gave me so much hope. I've been going through some unpleasant shit the past few months, and it feels like my life isn't going in the direction I want / need, and it was really uplifting to see you taking tangible steps to get out of that emotional place, and it made it feel like I can do that too. Thank you
Congrats on the new house and new journey, thank you for sharing the real stuff and being so inspiring. All the best as you plan, reno, process, discuss, and heal. What you said about falling apart and coming back even stronger resonated so much with me because I'm still in the getting up phase and really hoping for the coming back even stronger part.
While I know there are big issues in the world, your story is your story and your pain is your pain, I for one never felt like you made it seem like your pain was bigger, thank you for saying that though and for how you have shared your heart here, it helps, it matters. I love the realness of it.
Congrats Rachel! I always love your honesty and your truth. Happy journeying - just remember one step at a time. Rooting for all good things for you !!
Hugs, Rachel! I really felt that. But I am more excited and proud of your journey! Congratulations on the new house! Can't wait to see how you will transform it. You are loved. You are blessed! 😊