Going to the army isn’t worth living with mental issues. A lot of ppl I know who went to the army, always come home with some type of mental issue, to where they need prescribed medication. That illness really ruins relationships with friends, siblings, family, and children 😣
It's different for everyone. Mental issues are not limited to service members. How many people that have mental issues have never served a second in their life. As for "I know a lot of people" your social media friends don't count. I'm sure your social circle is limited to a few dozen at most, most of which didn't serve.
@@rdj0981 Thank you for addressing this issue analytically. I was thinking many Americans have mental illnesses that aren't addressed. For most of America's history, mental illness was stigmatized. Many times you see several family members who are mentally ill. Currently, we are seeing people admit their symptoms and diagnosis. It's far healthier. Hopefully, as healthcare disparities are addressed the VA will do a better job of health care for their patients.
@@kayshawnsimmons5585that's a lie alot actually do take care of or even stayed married to a woman that had a child with another man that's how they get called simps.
It’s is very important, when you get married to never let a friend and or some family members move it. Three is a crowded. It destroys a marriage quickly. Leave the middle man out.
@@MeaganThorpeactually yes it does especially if a man wants a divorce and the woman doesn't if she cheated they must attend marriage classes and than he wants to still pursue a divorce than their grant.
If you're gonna serve in any military branch, always serve first ,get it out of your system then when you done, that's when you settle down, saves a lot of problems!🤗🤗
Getting married while in the military is the absolute worst thing anyone can do. You are never home and the horror stories of wives cheating on their husbands is insane.
@@3menlittlelady116 dad did 23 years in the military so nothing you can really tell me there. It’s still a male dominated force and these women are at home all alone and have way more of an opportunity to cheat.
Mathis needs educated on domestic abuse. Him saying that It's unreasonable for her not to tell him she was pregnant through fear is completely incorrect. Men, when they are abusive, will use a child as a weapon against the mother. They know they can hold the child over the mothers head, that they can control the mother more because there's another child involved. Some woman choose not to tell their partners their pregnant because they don't want their partner to have that hold over them. They want a clean break or they don't want the emotional abuse that comes with it - the constant threats of "I'll get your kids taken off you and given to me" or "you'll be a horrible mother" there's more to abusive relationships that just physical abuse.
Abusive men will definitely use the children as pawns against the mom. There is a sweet lady in North Alabama that had her ex kill her 10 year old and himself because of divorce/custody. He was also ex military
The same goes for women who use the kids against their fathers who truly want to help and raise their children but the mother is bitter because the relationship didn’t work out.
How in the world would he manage that when she had two restraining orders on him already she could just call the police your assessment on this case is incorrect she had all the leverage
👀 judge Mathis was wrong for that he was clearly abusive and she deserves an apology from him 💁🏽♀️ now if I was being abused and the man already thinks I’m cheating and he’s on drugs why would I tell him and potentially cause harm to the baby?? Makes no sense
i’m sorry but there’s no way judge mathis just told her being scared of that man isn’t reasonable- she alr said he was physically abusive and was taking meds?
I’m thinking maybe she didn’t tell him right away about being pregnant because she was considering an abortion. My cousin discovered she was pregnant a few months after a break up with her ex. She knew it was his because of how far along she was and she had not been with anyone else since him. Most people aren’t going to be happy about having a baby with an ex. As I recall Tom Baby Daddy Brady has a similar situation. Break up then find out a kid is on the way.
Shame on Judge Gregory Mathis for downplaying her abuse allegation AND prescription abuse! At the end I felt that when she said I just want to be done with him 😐
My mama would try to keep us away, my dad never accepted it Hell or high water he was coming wherever with the police until she surrendered and I am glad for that 🤞🤞... He May not have been a good husband but he was an amazing father 😊..
Cheating causes the most severe mental depression and the only reason people can't sue is because the men making the laws want to cover their own behinds.
She was cheating just so happened the baby is his. We salute ppl in the service while there spouse swear there love but cheat daily this is very common both ways.
Why in the world do these people come on JM,and begin to speak the most extreme and poor behavior of one another, do they know how immature this looks on both people, or is it they just don’t give a care. Only on JM, the other Judges, don’t go or allow such idle testimonies to be given.🤷🏼♀️
I fully agree, we have 40% of our ex soldiers living on the streets, no back up, many turning to hard drugs and alcohol just to get by I carry the shame of this beautiful country every day in MANY way's...
Yeah I have heard about that. I also know some military people who paid people to marry them so they could live offbase. In one case if was supposed to be just a business relationship and then when the woman wanted more he divorced her. 😂
if you’re in the military this scenario makes a lot of sense… married at 19, dependent cheating while you TDY &/or deploy, mental illness, him shooting himself 😭 i’ve heard people joke about it but never heard of a service member actually doing it
White women are absolutely excellent in the beginning of the relationship but I say anywhere between 3 to 6 months in for my experience it always goes to hell... For one they can be extremely secretive and manipulative... Most have severe depression that comes and goes and when that depression kick in you can forget about all that freaky sex y'all been having... And usually she's somewhere doing it with someone else...
@@CeaSeMusic1 nowadays I aim to date non American women... I'm open to any women but it's all about how they was raised and their value... I'm not doing ghetto ratchet at all... For me to date a black American chick she got to be kind of nerdy she got to have no clue what Love and hip Hop is she got to have went to a white college... But my favorite is Asian and Hispanic woman.. they usually have traditional values
Hopefully men take care of yourselves. Don't allow women to control your life regardless of if you have a child/children with them or not. You're more important than that. Tired of men taking the fall out here. Wish I could change it all.
I beg to differ, Your Honor! Cheating DOES cause severe stress….. and Severe Major Depressive Disorder!
Sounds like you been through that...
@@theodorecoleman2063 most people have. I’m sorry I meant women lol
No you were right the first time @@AP-xw5px
@@theodorecoleman2063I have. Was already dealing with postpartum depression and the cheating and emotional unavailability influenced me to spiral
Going to the army isn’t worth living with mental issues. A lot of ppl I know who went to the army, always come home with some type of mental issue, to where they need prescribed medication. That illness really ruins relationships with friends, siblings, family, and children 😣
True words spoken.#OBP Bluesman
Yes and the VA doesn’t help much either
It's different for everyone. Mental issues are not limited to service members. How many people that have mental issues have never served a second in their life. As for "I know a lot of people" your social media friends don't count. I'm sure your social circle is limited to a few dozen at most, most of which didn't serve.
@@rdj0981 you absolutely right
@@rdj0981
Thank you for addressing this issue analytically. I was thinking many Americans have mental illnesses that aren't addressed. For most of America's history, mental illness was stigmatized. Many times you see several family members who are mentally ill. Currently, we are seeing people admit their symptoms and diagnosis. It's far healthier. Hopefully, as healthcare disparities are addressed the VA will do a better job of health care for their patients.
"I would still take care of him even if the child wasn't mine." .... it's a lot easier to say that AFTER you find the results lol.
Right! These men be capping
They never Do
Gtfoh with that goofy shj
@@kayshawnsimmons5585that's a lie alot actually do take care of or even stayed married to a woman that had a child with another man that's how they get called simps.
Suing his wife for emotional distress claim dismissed LOL
Exactly!!!!!!! My sentiments exactly.
It’s is very important, when you get married to never let a friend and or some family members move it. Three is a crowded. It destroys a marriage quickly. Leave the middle man out.
She ain’t walking no damn 2 hours to work.
Thank you
Did judge say cheating doesn’t cause extreme stress…yes it does tf
Not legally
@@MeaganThorpeactually yes it does especially if a man wants a divorce and the woman doesn't if she cheated they must attend marriage classes and than he wants to still pursue a divorce than their grant.
If you're gonna serve in any military branch, always serve first ,get it out of your system then when you done, that's when you settle down, saves a lot of problems!🤗🤗
A lot of people marry and stay in for the benefits their family have 😊
I know people who get married just to move out of the barracks.
@@anndeecosita3586 Yeah, that was a thing with some of the younger airmen lol
@@anndeecosita3586 boy!!! you aint ever lied 🤣🤣🤣🤣the barracks was NEVER that bad
Getting married while in the military is the absolute worst thing anyone can do.
You are never home and the horror stories of wives cheating on their husbands is insane.
and husbands cheating on wives lol
@@3menlittlelady116 no it’s usually wife cheating on husband. I grew up a military kid and I only
Know of one case where the man was cheating.
@@jamescash887 then you were under exposed. I’m a military spouse. 26 years total. Been in this life since 18.
@@jamescash887 Naw…I grew up on base..most of my family is Army & Navy ..I saw a LOT of men cheating with their battles ..smh
@@3menlittlelady116 dad did 23 years in the military so nothing you can really tell me there. It’s still a male dominated force and these women are at home all alone and have way more of an opportunity to cheat.
Who else watching this with their socks 🧦 OFF 🙌🏾 🔥
I always watch nekkid
Everything’s off cuz it’s hot.
I’m taking a shit and hitting a blunt
Corn Chips smelling socks
Just got out of the shower! 😀
Mathis needs educated on domestic abuse. Him saying that It's unreasonable for her not to tell him she was pregnant through fear is completely incorrect. Men, when they are abusive, will use a child as a weapon against the mother. They know they can hold the child over the mothers head, that they can control the mother more because there's another child involved. Some woman choose not to tell their partners their pregnant because they don't want their partner to have that hold over them. They want a clean break or they don't want the emotional abuse that comes with it - the constant threats of "I'll get your kids taken off you and given to me" or "you'll be a horrible mother" there's more to abusive relationships that just physical abuse.
💯
Abusive men will definitely use the children as pawns against the mom. There is a sweet lady in North Alabama that had her ex kill her 10 year old and himself because of divorce/custody. He was also ex military
You talk too much
The same goes for women who use the kids against their fathers who truly want to help and raise their children but the mother is bitter because the relationship didn’t work out.
How in the world would he manage that when she had two restraining orders on him already she could just call the police your assessment on this case is incorrect she had all the leverage
Why wouldn’t she be scared to tell him she’s pregnant if he’s beating her??
Former military man and got his wife walking to work oh hell no
Terrible.
walking does a body good... it'll keep her in shape
@@mybexchange6330 It still should not be the case.
Wonder how many times has the judge been in a abused , how he going to tell her how she felt
You just want to be done with him? Girl you got 18 years to deal with him.
This time Judge Mathis was wrong by the way he was talking to her
Wayyyy Wrong
@@o.g.j.t.5922 In all y'all opinion he not wrong in my opinion
How is getting cheated on not stressful
Exactly
I would like to know that too.
@@NICCAGE26 of course it not no one died no one is sick I agree with judge Mathis just hold head high walk away
Because you can walk away and move on. But y’all don’t. You stay and either cheat back or traumatize yourselves.
@@brandonbest8910 lmao people who leave are also very hurt and stressed about being cheated on. Get a grip. This isn’t a man vs women complex
👀 judge Mathis was wrong for that he was clearly abusive and she deserves an apology from him 💁🏽♀️ now if I was being abused and the man already thinks I’m cheating and he’s on drugs why would I tell him and potentially cause harm to the baby?? Makes no sense
Right , & it would jus make him want to be around her more
But she did cheat
@@Thequeenbee707 buzz buzz
@@jenniferhiggins227 buzz buzz 👑🐝
@@Thequeenbee707 hi queen bee you buzzing 🤣
i’m sorry but there’s no way judge mathis just told her being scared of that man isn’t reasonable- she alr said he was physically abusive and was taking meds?
Love watching JM. Judge you funny and you do care about making a difference God bless you 🙏🏻 😊
You saw mathis court yet ?
Why did Dole run off like that in the back🤣🏃♀️🏃♀️
Lol I never understand why they just don't have the DNA test with judge Mathis instead of having Doyle run to the back
Dramatic Flair☺️🤑
It is a TV show
😄 You mean DNA?
Presentation
He gotta earn that money lol
I think Mathis kinda tripping calling her reasoning unreasonable I’ve heard females say the same thing before in my experience
A woman cheated 9x, I’m doing a DNA test on all my kids.
Mathis gang roll call 🤙
I’m thinking maybe she didn’t tell him right away about being pregnant because she was considering an abortion. My cousin discovered she was pregnant a few months after a break up with her ex. She knew it was his because of how far along she was and she had not been with anyone else since him. Most people aren’t going to be happy about having a baby with an ex. As I recall Tom Baby Daddy Brady has a similar situation. Break up then find out a kid is on the way.
Plaintiff you are the father 😁😁😁😁
Shame on Judge Gregory Mathis for downplaying her abuse allegation AND prescription abuse! At the end I felt that when she said I just want to be done with him 😐
I ran to the comments because I know I wasn’t the only one that thought this way
Very Pretty Wife
I haven't listened to the case, but I am so shocked that that defendant is that young of a woman.. she looks to be at least 35!
Soldiers marry these pretty young girls then are deployed you’re asking for heartache
Ugly soldiers only
My mama would try to keep us away, my dad never accepted it Hell or high water he was coming wherever with the police until she surrendered and I am glad for that 🤞🤞... He May not have been a good husband but he was an amazing father 😊..
JM so ridiculous
Is there a prize for being 1$t🙈🤣
No! Lmaooo
😂😂🤣🤣
Ask Greg
@@Proverbspsalms 😂🤣🙈
@@jessij6641 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
JM thought that baby wasn't his..lol 🤣 I think the defendent has problems
Just because the baby is his doesn't mean she wasn't cheating.😂
Lol...she said huh
Cheating causes the most severe mental depression and the only reason people can't sue is because the men making the laws want to cover their own behinds.
Hope they establish child support and visitation 🥲
Should have waited until she had the kid to get out. Free medical is great
Crazy case
She was cheating just so happened the baby is his. We salute ppl in the service while there spouse swear there love but cheat daily this is very common both ways.
Mental abuse could be even more damaging than physical! Just my opinion.
I definitely wouldn't trust her.
WHY DOES SHE WALK 2 HOURS TO & FROM WORK. I THOUGHT SHE HAD A 🚗.
Why in the world do these people come on JM,and begin to speak the most extreme and poor behavior of one another, do they know how immature this looks on both people, or is it they just don’t give a care.
Only on JM, the other Judges, don’t go or allow such idle testimonies to be given.🤷🏼♀️
He looks like he's tweaking
I don't get why people marry while enlistig. Last thing I would want to be bothered with while doing a dangerous job.
Judge trippin
They are both so annoying
“ Even if the child wasn’t mine, I’d still take care of him” why do men say stupid things. If you find out it’s not yours, you disappear.
I fully agree, we have 40% of our ex soldiers living on the streets, no back up, many turning to hard drugs and alcohol just to get by
I carry the shame of this beautiful country every day in MANY way's...
I never understood why there isn't more help for veterans. It makes me sick!
Are you in this uncaring, united kingdom?
Your thoughts another voice my friend
IS THAT MCLOVIN???
I had 3 Women ask me to Marry them while I was in the Army #VeteranGang #Brooklyn
I had one ask me to marry her when i was in the Navy. She was a single mom, 29yrs old and i was 19 and single. Hell no!!
Unfortunately, they most likely wanted the benefits.
Yeah I have heard about that. I also know some military people who paid people to marry them so they could live offbase. In one case if was supposed to be just a business relationship and then when the woman wanted more he divorced her. 😂
They just wanted the financial benefits.
Hmm they were unpretty that's why you said no 😂😂😂😂😂
Had to put the video on pause to say that the defendant is triflin'!!! 🙄🤮
if you’re in the military this scenario makes a lot of sense… married at 19, dependent cheating while you TDY &/or deploy, mental illness, him shooting himself 😭 i’ve heard people joke about it but never heard of a service member actually doing it
mayb he shot himself to get out of the military?
It’s wild how men are allowed to be abused Mathis makes it out to be a joke
She looks so sad
Military marry women r something else
She's lying
hes aging a lot better than her sheesh
I agree😳🧐
She was cheating fasho
White women are absolutely excellent in the beginning of the relationship but I say anywhere between 3 to 6 months in for my experience it always goes to hell... For one they can be extremely secretive and manipulative... Most have severe depression that comes and goes and when that depression kick in you can forget about all that freaky sex y'all been having... And usually she's somewhere doing it with someone else...
Wait whaaaat? 😧
@@mzfancy4767 I've been dating white women since kindergarten and I'm 40 years old now and I said what I said
Lol I've always suspected this myself?
Have u stopped dating them now lol?
@@NICCAGE26 Curb ur attitude cuz u said it with a tremendous amount of estrogen. Ur preference is ur preference. Enjoy ur Saturday.
@@CeaSeMusic1 nowadays I aim to date non American women... I'm open to any women but it's all about how they was raised and their value... I'm not doing ghetto ratchet at all... For me to date a black American chick she got to be kind of nerdy she got to have no clue what Love and hip Hop is she got to have went to a white college... But my favorite is Asian and Hispanic woman.. they usually have traditional values
Hopefully men take care of yourselves. Don't allow women to control your life regardless of if you have a child/children with them or not. You're more important than that. Tired of men taking the fall out here. Wish I could change it all.
Why don’t you comment under the countless videos of bw losing their lives at the hands of bm?
5th comment stay blessed 🤣👍🤣
She’s going under the hell
She cheated if he was in the army an was gone like he said, yea she cheated
Its crazy AF how people can't wait 6 months or a year. For a working Partner🤡🤛🏿
She looks at least 40 years old
I knew she was lying devil
Damn, Now He's Stucc wit Her 4 Life!!
He was stuck anyway they already had one child.
What?! They already had a child.
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