NEW - Dealing with Loss and Grief - Widows Support - Mufti Menk
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- Special Program addressing issues affecting widows and the broken hearted. Healing methods and the duty of the broader family and community towards widows etc.
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I have lost my father one week ago. It’s very hard for me. I pray that Allah make it easy for everyone that have lost their loved ones. The pain is unimaginable but I have hope in my MAKER; Allah.
I have lost many people that I love so much in this world. I carried so much guilt thinking I could of done something to change the outcome until I finally submitted and realized it is Allah’s will… You will find the beauty of life through the tragedies of death. May Allah bring you peace and contentment and grant goodness to your father 🤲🏻
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Mash allah
May Allah grant him paradise
Allah yerhamo. I lost my mom 3 months ago and its hard. I know she is in a better place amen
Inna lillahi wainna ilaihi rajioun My husband passed away 52 days ago .May Allah forgive all his sins and grant him Jannatul ferdous.I wanted to be with him In Jannah.pain is unbearable and can't describe.May Allah give me and my 4 kidz strength and patience to bear this grt loss and ease in our ways.Aameen
I wanted to advice all of u kindly don't share ur happy moments with other everyone who is carrying smile on their face is not ur well wisher.evil eye is haqq.
I am 29 years old mother of 4 kids and lost my husband 7 days ago.. I had the best dad and husband ever😢😢Allah make my pain easier 😢😢😢ever morning is getting harder and worst🥺🥺
I am reading so many similar messages. I lost my beloved husband at the end of Sept 2023. He was the most kind, generous, and helpful person. May Allah have mercy on him and help us. Reunite us with him in Jannah tul Firdaus with Prophet Muhammad PBUH. Ameen
Absolutely right I’m 18 and my husband was 22 years old it’s day 16 may allah give grant me sabr aamin but don’t show ur blessings to others it will put u in grave
Assalamu aleikum. . I lost my husband, my support, my anchor, just one week ago, he died unexpectedly, I found his dead on bed. I'm stunned, I'm broken, I'm lonely. He was my family and I was his. His blood relatives were in the USA. After he passed away, everybody came and asking for everything, he was a poor man financially. No houses of valuable things. Few money in the bank which they jumped up to take over everything. Nobody think how I feel, how I cope with this terrible loss. Indeed, people are wicked. I'm a reverted to Islam and sadly I can not say that Muslims are supportive or carrying. 😢May Allah swt help us all and especially those who lost their beloved ones. Love you all for the sake of Allah swt.
Inna lillahhi wa inna ilaihi rajeoon,
for those we have lost( who are dead). May Allah grant them Jannah and gather us all in Heaven.
Amen 🙏
Ameen🤲☝️
Ameen
Ameen ❤️
Allahumma Amin ❤
My mother passed 1 June and the pain is heart wrenching May Allah swt grant her and all deceased Jannnah tul Firdose Ameen Ya Rabbal Allahamien
I am a widow for 3years now it has not been easy thanks for sharing
To the guy who was addicted to a sin.This comment was for you.
Look,Sin doesn't just happen .. shaitan doesn't come to you and says come on lets do this sin .. He will pull you slowly.
If you Sincerely wanna stop Do this : Take a pen and a paper.Write the sin you wanna get rid of and then list the things which bring you closer to it.
- Being alone
- watching Haram
- not lowering the gaze
.....
And then 1 by 1 start to avoid those things. So if you commit that sin.Only when you're alone. Stop being alone go outside go sit near your Father or you mother or your siblings.
If you commit that sin when you see something haram. Stop looking at things which can lead you to it even if shaitan tells you " this is not haram , you can watch this or listen to this "
No anything which brings you CLOSE to that sin AVOID it.
Then if you do that,You will have something called TAQWA. What is taqwa? The word Taqwa,Often, it is translated as "Fear of God", and while fearing Allah is part of Taqwa, its meaning is deeper than this.
The linguistic meaning of Taqwa is "a shield, or protective barrier".It is to protect oneself from what angers Allah.Some scholars define Taqwa as placing a protective barrier between yourself and Allah's punishment. Taqwa also means doing that which Allah has enjoined and avoiding that which He has forbidden.
When Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) asked Ubay Ibn Ka'ab (may Allah be pleased with him) about Taqwa.
Ubay said "Have you ever taken a thorny path?" Umar replied, "Yes I have." Ubay then asked, "So how did you travel along this thorny path?" Umar replied, "I rolled up my garment and was cautious as to where I would tread to avoid being pricked by the thorns." So Ubay responded and said, "This is Taqwa."
This example explains the meaning of Taqwa. It illustrates how a person of Taqwa is cautious and careful with where they tread, not out of fear of stepping on a thorn, but out of fear of stepping into what Allah SWT has prohibited. They are aware of Allah SWT with every action and step they take.
Allah says:
"Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa. Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware."
(Quran 49:13)
Ways to work on Taqwa?
Fast outside Ramadan: when we fast, we are engaged in the very exercise that builds Taqwa. We are more conscious of what we say, see and do. Train yourself to continue this after you finish fasting.
Let go of the Haram: part of Taqwa is to avoid the Haram. By being aware of Allah SWT and knowing that He watches everything we do, we will avoid the prohibitions.
Increase your worship:
Read Quran daily
Pray at night and during your free time
Give Sadaqah (charity) more often instead of just on the day Jummah
Make more Du'a during the day, prayer and before and after prayer. Allah loves those who make Du'a. You have nothing to lose, you are asking from the Lord of the heavens and the earth, He can grant you whatever you want.
Struggle against your Nafs (self jihad): struggling against one's desires is one the greatest form of jihad we can do, as it is the hardest. Use the synergy of fasting alongside with struggling against your Nafs.
If you try this I promise you will soon leave that sin.Leave the things which bring you CLOSE to that sin.Look and hold yourself accountable for every action tell yourself that everything sin has a consequence. Ask yourself before doing something is this gonna lead me to that sin or is this gonna lead me to Allah then if you are sincere you will know.
I ask Allah to make it easy for you and everyone else Ameen.Stay strong and fight Shaitan until you die.
And if Shaitan defeats you by making you sin then defeat him by making tawbah repentance to Allah.
In Sha Allah take care Salam.
In sha allah
Thank you so so much!! May this be the reason you enter jannah. May Allah make it easy for you
Ameen Ya Rabbi ! Jazakallah KHAIR ❤️
Jazak Allah Khair 💙
Masha Allah May Allah bless yiu
Innalillahi wainna illaihi rojiun i lost my husband 1,8 years ago cause hernia, first im so sad cried everyday I’m shocked cause i love him, my first love.. i understand that Allah love him and love me. Allah want me being close to Allah and being a strong human fight this life with my 3 kids and 2 grandchilds. Allah The best for my ways
Thanks Syekh
Salam from Indonesia 🇮🇩
When Allah tests you, He loves you
As salam aleykum brothers and sisters, my father passed last week please make dua for him. May Allah bestow His mercy on all the believer who passed away. Ameen.
Since I lost my dad in September this year I lost hope but when I started watching mufti menks lectures I feel I gain hope en am strong enough inshalla may Allah grant my dad Janatul firdus en continue protecting mufti menks for us I feel I have learned alot
May we all be guided and be very patient in this trying times. Ameeeen.
Aameen
Alhumdulillah and thank you so much for a daily beautiful positive speech and that it true happening. May Allah safe you a long life and benefit to all our islamic. Ameen
May ALLAH make it easy for us.
And grant us sabar e jamil in time of difficulties.
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen 🤲😥
Allahumma amin
May Allah grant us easy and mercy to always have hope and trust in him
Innalillahi vainna ilaihi rajioon Please everyone dua for my son who passes away recently..want to meet him in jannathulfirdous...Aameen
امين يا رب العالمين
I love what he said,nothing give you true contentment than your relationship with Allah
Count your blessings,if there is something make you sad (my sunshine is away), it will wipe your sin,inshaa Allah
Lots of health and love from an Indian hindu.
Assalamu aleykum. My husband passed away last month (May allah grant him jannah). We have 5 child. I am in sorrow and hurts now, this help me a lot to heal. I am in difficult thinking of how our kids pursue their studies all were minors, allahu akbar. May allah povides us ease in heart and in everyday deailing in life.
I can feel that sheikh many times wanna cry while delivering lecture,it his love to Allah,mashaa Allah
Yes, he struggled with this one. Its a really hard topic even though we all face these things.
@@marlenehussein4530 what do you mean? Does sheikh lost s.o? May Allah gives him strength
I don't know,hope not
May be Sheikh feel the sadness of other's loss
May Allah bless all of us
Proud to be born in an era of this great follower of Rasool (saw)
Inalilahi wahina rilahi rajhoon, my husband died some years back in acar accident,am struggling to support myself and my 4 kids please ineed all your prayers. May Allah continue to strengthen us.
I just lost my mother 7 days ago I pray may Almighty Allah Grant her janat amin, and I pray to Allah swt to help me, because is not easy
All praise be to god thank you for the video ...may Allah bring ease to the broken heart
Aamiin
Alhamdulilah for knowing Islam more from my deceased spouse,He taught me what sunnah is though he's a once a Christian but as Allah mercy reached him subuanolah,he submitted totally by giving up his own will. I was shocked 2 years ago when he asked that who did I love most which my reply was him even more than anything 😥😥😥 and I asked him who he loved most too but I was firstly disappointed with his answer when he told me that I am on 5th position on the the list of those he loved so, I asked further to mention the names which goes as thus ; 1-Allah,2-Rosul lAh,3-himself 4-his parents,5- me .hnm,then He taught me that love of Allah should supercede all loves on the surface of the earth which will surely guide one to loving everyone for Allah's sake.Loving Allah made me accept my fate when he died while fending for the family in an accident last year June. It was hard for me when I heard as he was tested with a lot but at the same time,I was happy that with all the trials he never denounce Islam and didn't compromise his deen( religion)I cried but used to console myself by listening to Qur'an,fasted and do think about how he only used 8 years in practicing Islam sincerely. So,I am happy though,he didn't leave us wealth but left what super cede life and all luxuries which is Islam,may Allah continue to uphold my eeman with that of the children,his mum and bro that reverted through him and guide his dad to Islam.
Faith is keeping me moving as I would say am basking in Allah's grace as myself and the 3 kids are surrounded with good people that love me for Allah's sake. A big sis sent me this. May Allah never forsake them too. Kudos to you for sharing this lecture as a lot is surrounded in tales of widows .may Allah grant you more Idaayah sir. Jazakumullahu khairan
I am a father as will as a mother of children and Alhamdulillah by help of my Creator Ameen
My husband passed away on june 17th on Eid al Adha during sickness while back from umrah last year Aug 31st..since back from umrah his half f body cant move due to i fection on spinal that brings lots of complications which end in the Day of hajj..Whenever my heart become weaker i say myself my husband on good hand who take care f him even better our creator our sustainer …
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh...subhan Allah, innalillahi wainnailai hi rajioon may Allah grant my mother the highest honour in jannatul firouse who passed away aameen summa aameen ...wat a right timing he always post subhan Allah .may Allah grant mufti sab all with good health n all the happiness in both the worlds..aameen ...
Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters 🤗🇧🇩❤️
W/salaam ! Brother
I lost my spouse on Monday an my five months pregnant for him but I cry everyday please my Muslim brother and sister I need prayers 🙏
How are you? How's your baby?
May Allah give you ease and help you. Give you Sabar.
Allah bless you❤
After my husband left..(May Allah grant him jannatul firdaus.Ameen) Allah has open many ways for us but I feel lonely without my husband.He was very good to me,my children,his parents, siblings with everyone who came in contact with he.He treated me as a child but now there is no one who cares for me and my kids are small.Please make dua for me its really difficult for me.I know Allah has better plans for me and my children but still I miss him so much..I don't know how to overcome this.
It's tough.
I can resonate with that. My beloved husband passed away at the end of Sept 2023, and I see someone else with exactly the same name first and surname RP has written here saying it's tough.
@@robertpayne5765Your name is my husband's name. Good name.
I'm sorry for your loss sister May ALLAH make easy for us. I have also lost my beloved husband, the one who treats me like child, always support me and also was a good son, brother and father....and my only child of 9 months in car accident. I miss them both and want to be with them.... May ALLAH make easy for us in this life and hereafter and rejoin us in Jannah.Ameen
This world is nothing but pain, Ham musalmano ke liye to Asal thikana Aakhirat he jaha ham hamesha rhege is dunya me to ham Allah ko razi krne ke liye jeete he...
الحمدلله i lost my mother 60 days ago and the pain of her loss is excruciating at times but hamdullelah we believe in Allah and the strength that he gives us to make duaas for her and to meet her enshallah in Jannah Ammen a
Merci les frères, qu'Allah nous protège
Main Teri Raza mein razi hun ya rabb meaning I have accepted what you have sent for me my lord were the words my dad asked me to repeat day and night when my husband passed away 4 years ago leaving me as a young widow of 30 years with two young boys..even today when things get rough I try and say those words to bring comfort..indeed there is no one but Allah we can depend on! Beautiful mufti menk this lecture brings me so much comfort💓 I pray for you and your family
Subhan allah sister. I lost my husband three months ago leaving two boys behind. I am 35 right now and I pray day and night to heal me and make me so strong that I bring up my boys in the best possible way of deen,duniya and akhirah
When I heard this khutbah I felt it’s totally for me
You are brave My sister. Stay strong . Allah will make things easy for you.
Alihamdulillah, May Allah bless you brother Menk for the positive inspirational lectures that gives me hope and be strong enough for what I have truly undergone in my life.May Allah hold up all those that are facing challenges in their life Inshallah.
I lost my mum a few weeks ago she had cancer and I miss her soo much and I can't stop crying I feel like I have no-one without my mum may allah grant my mum the highest rank in jannah nd forgive her sins..plz remember my mum in ur dua'as ..my mum was praying her salah with actions till her last breath..
MashaAllah...I love you Allah million times...💜
Jazakallah khair
God day po kaibigan kong Multi Menk, tandaan po ninyo, ang araw na ito, hindi man ako binyagan sa inyong religion, dahil akoy binyagan sa catolico, ngunit akoy hindi nagpapaalam dahil ang kapahingahan ko ay ang aking tunay na paalam para sa lahat, salamat po sa inyong lahat, Allah God bless you all po.
Wallah ya sheikh mufti menk ,i love you for the sake of Allah subhan Allah wa taala ,Alhamdulillah
Yes brother Jazakallah khair
May ALLAH S.W.T☝️grant my grandparents jannatul firdaus🤲🤲💔💔
Masha Allah
Alhamdulillah for this educational reminder to everyone especially the men of all ages in considering the widows in marriage 💕
I lost my father 10 days ago. It's very hard to deal with. He was the most generous hard working man i had ever known. He was hafiz and thought us everything about islam May allah grant him jannah😢
JazakalALLAH ❤🌸
I am so lucky Allah ka bohot bohot shukr he usne mujhe musalman banaya agar meri zindagi me Islam na hota to I am 💯 sure me bhi ab tak bohot saari buraiyon me phas chuka hota Allah ka shukr he usne mujhe bohot acche parents diye Alhamdulillah 😇
Asalamualikum Mufti,
Bissmillah wal hamdulillah was sala tu wassalamu alar RasoolAllah.
I would like to say that I have contracted chickenpox and when I watch your videos I always feel better.
Thank you for you informative videos.
Kind regards,
Rahim
Wallahi I got covid 19i have an underlying health condition I have severe asthma Please pray for my lungs 🫁 my lungs are very badly affected by covid 19 pray for health lungs heart
Much love from Scotland UK
Masyaa Allah Tabarak Allah😭Allahumma aamiin ya Rabb🤲🤲🤲 Jazakumullah khayran kathira Mufti Menk & team💗🇸🇬
My hubby passed away Feb 18 2024 from a car accident. He was 4 days away from his 32nd birthday. And we have a 5 year old son. It's been so hard and I don't know how I'm getting through it but by Allahs mercy alhamdulillah I am somehow managing. Ya Allah forgive my husband for his sins and reunite us in Jannanatul firdous. Ya Allah make it easy for me to get through this life without him 💔
May Allah reunite you and your husband in jannah.inshaaAllah ameen. I lost my husband on May 15 2024 we have a 4months old baby boy and it is so hard im just 32yrs old. May Allah make it easy for us.
Did you ever visit Guyana 🇬🇾 I'm a widow for over 2 years now thank Allah for his guidance and protection also provided for me and my family next month I am going to be married to a good Muslim gentle man and will become a rebirth Muslim all my life I was a Christian I thank all for showing me the light all my life I was in a dark world today I am so happy I know Allah please 🤲 for me ameen I need help in prayer 🤲❤🇬🇾
Mashallah May Allah bless us all ameen
My beloved husband passed away suddenly at the end of Sept 2023. It's tough and hard, but Allah knows best. His plan is the best, he is in the best place with Allah, I will be reunited with him and my kids with us after a long time, Insha Allah. I could only see this through Mufti Menk as I didn't know otherwise. I listen to him again and again and again. Ya Allah, all living and alert, I desperately seek your mercy for my husband, kids and I. Make good for us in all our affairs and don't leave us alone even for the blink of our eyes. Ya Allah pls help us. Ameen
Assalamualikum Hajrat what ever you said it is so much important
Alhandulillah there is one woman wont stand fir her life w/out reciting her daily Qur-an and uodated her salah Alhamdulillah
Mash Allah mufti minke 😇😇😇🥰
Alhamdulillah for everything forgiveness
May Allah bless you
Please read the Holy Quran 🤲
Our beloved Mufti Ismail Menk is always a great inspiration in Islam and great Idol, beside our beloved Prophet Muhammad ( s.a.s.) and his companions and all the prophets ( peace be upon them ). May Allah subhanahu t ala always bless & protect Mufti Menk , grant him goodness and protect him and his family , Amin. I am german Muslim always thankful for Mufti Ismail Menks lectures and advices in Islam, a great guide in Islam, Allahu Akbar, Mashaallah, may Allah subhanahu t ala grant our Mufti having healthy and long life, also granted place in Jannah between the Companions of Prophet Muhammad s.a.s. , Amin.
Please dua for my forgivness 😥😥🤲🤲
I am a Christian but I love this mufti minks preaching
May Allah subuhana wataala grant them janah and He forgive us the our shortcoming😢
Maasha Allaah nice
Masha ALLAH bro may ALLAH bless you
Slm mufti. Walaahi I needed to hear this. Jazakallah for this talk. I'm widowed for the second time. Currently observing my iddat. I was offered help & I accepted as I'm disabled & unable to wrk. I was asked for details of where I live & my ID which I supplied but blurred out my ID Pic as I felt it's not Islamic. I was denied help I was refused the brother insisted he needed my Pic. Astagfirullah. Thought I would make everyone aware of what we are subjected to. May Allah guide us ameen
May Allah make it easy for you
Shukran our beloved mift👌👌💟💟
Alhamdulilah thanks to Allah for the life.
...... Alhamdulillahi Robb al alamiyn
AsSalamu'alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Jazak Allah khair
La ilaha illallah muhammadur rasulullah
Question: when he said "start your day with the recitation of the Quran"
Does the recitation during the morning prayer count?"
Salaam from Nottingham Uk
Assalamualaikum...❤️ Take my utmost respect. I am confused how to address you 😅 I have a request. Plz make a detailed video on halal entertainment according to Islam. Because many scholars say even normal games aren't allowed to play. Dr. Zakir Naik spoke about traveling and some sorts of entertainment but we as a student can't afford or do these because of monetary issue or time management of our parents. So how can we enjoy recreation but staying in halal path?
One of the logics many scholars give against watching drama is that there are women without hijab, so we shouldn't be watching it as it doesn't bring us close to Allah. But we are watching people around us live without proper covering!! And if a person performing 5 salats just sits before a tv at the end of the day and watches it how is it still haram I want to know plz.. Entertainment is a very important part of our life so plz do answer ASAP. THANK YOU 💙
We like your speach. God bless you
May almighty make Muslim life easy for us ,bless us and protect us from Satan. 🙏🕋🙏
Ameen
May allah grant jannatul firdous to my husband and may allah gv me strength to raise my children in correct way. Aameen. Alhumdulullah..all sisters who lost husband and have responsibilities say alhumdulullah as at least u r there for children😢 may allah gv peace and happiness to all of us... the dead ones and also the alive ones...aameen
Ameen. My husband passed away to a car accident 5 weeks ago. We have a 5 year old son and it’s been so hard, he was 4 days away from his 32nd birthday. Ya Allah make it easy on us all.
May Allah make it easy for you
Walang batas na naguutos kung saan ako nararapat at sinong magbibigay ng kahit konting halaga para sa akin kundi ang Dios na aking sinasamba, at pinabayaan ako ng sarili kong bayan, kaya salamat po sa lahat dahil kahit anong pangyayari masaya ako para sa inyong lahat.
Salamat po.
Waalaikumu Salam Warrahmatillahi Taalah wabarrakatuhu.
Walaikum As’salam warahtullahi wabaraktuhu
Inna lillahi wa Inna ilayahi rajaoun
SubhanAllah
Masha Allah
May Allah grant you the best in this world and the next
Ya Allah grant us contentment in this world
Ya Allah forgive all our sins
Ya Allah strengthen our faith
Ya Allah bless us with baraka and rahma
It not easy for me 😭😭 an also need pray for him please 🙏
Walaikum assalam wa ramtullahi Wabarakatuhu
وعلیکم السلام ورحمۃ اللہ وبرکاتہ
Powerful
Sub Han Allah
Ahumdulilah bro .
Wa'alaikumussalam Warohmatullahi Wabarokahtuh Sir,...
mufti menk۔۔I am widow۔۔I need guidance for my matters۔۔how can I talk to you۔۔I am passing through very hard time۔۔my parents passed away in same month my husband passed away۔
Salaamuaalaikum! How can I find the help of the Muslim ummah? I am alone and have had a very difficult life. I need friends and kindness and goodness. How do I find that?
God bless you
Subhan Allah
Masha Allah
We falter we humans may allahtalla forgive our shortcomings
جزاكم الله خيرا واكثر من امثالكم
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Alhamdulillah
" السلام عليكم و رمتلlah !
Mashaallah
Allaaaaaaho akbar Allaaaaaaho Akbar Allaaaaaaho Akbar