@@WikingNordlan honestly i understand you. it had been a month and there was some other guy that she had sex with. its been about 4 months and I have healed but I feel this resentment that I cant take off. the only thing I can try is to hook up with other people just so it doesn't feel unfair I guess.
Man I swear to GOD you hit the nail so square on the freaking head when you said it feels like you have been punched in the stomach....thats EXACTLY how I feel...it hurts I cant lie, but no matter how bad it hurts im not calling her...
Dude.... move the fu** on!!! You dont need that crap in your life. If she was to come back, you would be dealing with a toxic relationship!!! You will be bitter and resent her for what she did. Wheres your self respect? 😮
Bro... listen to me. She didn't just break with this guy. She was already seeing someone for a LONG time. They're never single. They are either in a relationship or they are seeing other people and often they are both. They always have someone on the side in case they need to bounce. They are only as loyal as the options they have available. This is precisely why 8s, 9s & 10s are for the streets.
Just move on stop overthinking it. If she's not into you whatever, just like you might not be into a certain woman. Don't waste time analyzing it just leave it behind it's up to them to come to you. Focus on yourself worth don't let someone be The judge of whether you're worthy or not.
Start focusing on the negative things on both sides of the relationship. It makes it easier to leave once in motion.. Dont dwell on the few things that are awesome, etc etc.
@@ClayAndrews honestly, it was very inspirational too! The one thing that really stood out to me was when you were talking about if you don’t follow your heart, that you will end up regretting it. That’s something I can really relate to right now because so many people have told me to move on and let go from my ex, but my heart is telling me that I should go for one more shot (even though my ex is in a rebound). I just need to be a better man than the one she broke up with and once I’m there, I will be trying my best to improve the connection between her and I (I’m currently doing active no contact right now) and hopefully it all works out 🙏🏽 And just to add on to this: the past 3-4 days, I’ve actually been able to live my own life and do things I enjoy without obsessing over her so I’m pretty proud of that. And other things in my personal life are picking up so hopefully this is the start of bettering myself and becoming an even better version of the person my ex fell in love with in the first place 😊
I have learned one thing- You can be at your best and still be replaceable coz people choose people who are available to them as per their current life status. If you are wiser, cry your heart out, pray for healing, let go. Life is beautiful with you in it.celebrate it !!! I have been left out in cold by guys I waited for. I always told them how I felt honestly and got told - Hey,I have moved on and so should you! It’s embarrassing to be honest in that moment but you will have zero regrets later in life. Give it your all and then trust-You would not want/love them as we as humans do not want people who made us feel bad about our best self.Period! PS They come around always coz it’s rare to find honest people! It’s so so rare that you may not even know one honest person in your entire lifetime. Sending you all joy !
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Hello Clay, could you make a video only about why not to care if they are in a rebound or not. Because that could be a relief video and could help give us motivation to keep going and why if they are dating someone or not dating someone is not gonna effect getting them back. So a full video on only talking about reasons why you shouldnt focus on a rebound. Could be a good idea maybe?
We had 2 months and a half no contact and then I could not resist anymore and I reached out to him. Well I discovered he is now in another relationship and he doesn’t even want to see me anymore. And he blocked me from every channel possible 💔
my long distance ex of 6 years break up with me around 3 months ago and she called and told me week ago that she dating someone else (someone she's know for long time and closer to her). It's just feel like i got breakup again. It's really suck. I still have some hope, but first I will try to improve myself first.
Another thing to consider is that the "someone else" may be someone you know, maybe even a friend. You have to prepare yourself for the sinking feeling of her moving on and the other one where you realize ym you've lost a friend or they were never really the friend you thought they were.
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That's exactly who my ex moved on to today. And he's got anger issues so I don't see the point of it. When I found out it was him, at tht point I just assumed she was running out of options of who to like in tht damn class.
Another example of old values being obsolete in the future. loyalty has no value nowadays and men should be taught this early on in life so that they have options. Abundance mindset all the way.
Its the absolute worst thing that can happen to a man. It can affect you for years. In fact it will never be forgotten. But. There is good news. Use it as an opportunity. To get in SHAPE. to get FIT. make her regret her foolish decision. If you treated her like a lady she will regret it one day. I guarantee it.
He did me a favor I went thru such a betrayal. I still unless it’s my kids feel nothing inside I don’t feel shit man. So when I saw her rebound I just smirk. Because deep down I shut down emotional I have a really hard time. Feeling anything. I’m not kidding
This vidz is just made for me specifically; after 5-6 months of NC; I initiated contact; she was receptive and did see her at a point in time. She was very opened and chat well; I wanted to revive the relationship but she told me she is seeing someone and she want to give this new relationship a chance like she gave us…. My stomach and heart💔😭. She still watched my status but I had to block her as it’s over. She did not even try to make it work just moved on 😢
My ex and I are almost finalized but her new BF and her connected due to being friends in middle school and both getting divorced at same time bonded them is what she told me.
I don’t love some of this advice. If the ex is in a new relationship you should be respectful of that if you care about them. As the person who was in a relationship with someone whose ex would not let them go it was extremely painful for me and has left me with possible permanent trust and faith issues in relationships. It is incredibly disrespectful To the new girlfriend to continue to bombard your ex with messages and requests to see them. It was the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced in my life because my boyfriend felt like he couldn’t say no to her because she didn’t have anyone and he’s very passive. When he tried to do the same with me after he moved on from Me I said a firm no. He made a commitment to the new girl so it’s not my place to insert myself into that relationship. I would not cause pain to his new girlfriend the way his ex and he caused me pain.
My ex just blew up at me after i told her i had a date and wanted to take them to a place her and i went to and we argued and she said she feels like she cant trust me because i hurt her too much
Why would any ex tell you they are seeing someone else? Because they want to hurt you. And you don't want to be with someone who is intentionally hurting you
thats exactly what happened with me, he just told me that he think he find someone, still hurt but, i just told him go and try , he was so insensitive that even end up telling me maybe one day i could met the girl and give some advise 🤦🏽♀️, how narcissistic and act like normal.. i know he planned to hurt me and make me jealous but i was just praying that i could get over this pain🙏🏻
Imagine an ex texting out of nowhere that they seeing someone else so you shouldn't text them. 😮okay thanks for the information congratulations, rules must be obeyed. Dem.
Hi Clay! So I have been dealing with a weird thing going on. My ex has been in a new (pretry sure its a rebound) relationship the past couple of weeks and before I found out they were together actually, he told me he wouldnt replace me because thats something he couldnt do and he wouldnt let someone come in between us. We havent talked for teo weeks and if we did at all, it was a sentence or two in text. Tonight he called me to check up on me and I told him that I was upset because he did completely what he said he wouldnt do which was replace me and stop talking to me. He ended up crying and being upset that he hurt me and he said he didn’t understand why I still love him. I’m just so confused at this whole situation. They had only talked for a total of two weeks before becoming official and she lives two hours away from him. He’s coming back into town for thanksgiving with his family and I feel like he is going to ask to see me but I don’t know what I will even say.
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She didn't even tell me, a week before she broke it off with me, she was in a relationship with the other guy, I found out about a month later, but not by her. The lack of maturity or communication is ridiculous
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@@WikingNordlan honestly i understand you. it had been a month and there was some other guy that she had sex with. its been about 4 months and I have healed but I feel this resentment that I cant take off. the only thing I can try is to hook up with other people just so it doesn't feel unfair I guess.
Inside her for 3 seconds ha
@@crangado You have not healed if you still feel resentment..
@@dnpaker84 that is true, i have healed for the most part, it is just the fact she went into rebound relationships that hurt still.
Man I swear to GOD you hit the nail so square on the freaking head when you said it feels like you have been punched in the stomach....thats EXACTLY how I feel...it hurts I cant lie, but no matter how bad it hurts im not calling her...
Dude.... move the fu** on!!! You dont need that crap in your life. If she was to come back, you would be dealing with a toxic relationship!!! You will be bitter and resent her for what she did. Wheres your self respect? 😮
Bro... listen to me. She didn't just break with this guy. She was already seeing someone for a LONG time. They're never single. They are either in a relationship or they are seeing other people and often they are both. They always have someone on the side in case they need to bounce. They are only as loyal as the options they have available. This is precisely why 8s, 9s & 10s are for the streets.
That punch is a punch to your 3rd chakra.
Just move on stop overthinking it. If she's not into you whatever, just like you might not be into a certain woman. Don't waste time analyzing it just leave it behind it's up to them to come to you. Focus on yourself worth don't let someone be The judge of whether you're worthy or not.
Start focusing on the negative things on both sides of the relationship. It makes it easier to leave once in motion.. Dont dwell on the few things that are awesome, etc etc.
I gotta say, this video is definitely up there on one of my favourite videos you’ve posted! Thank you! 😁
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@@ClayAndrews honestly, it was very inspirational too! The one thing that really stood out to me was when you were talking about if you don’t follow your heart, that you will end up regretting it. That’s something I can really relate to right now because so many people have told me to move on and let go from my ex, but my heart is telling me that I should go for one more shot (even though my ex is in a rebound). I just need to be a better man than the one she broke up with and once I’m there, I will be trying my best to improve the connection between her and I (I’m currently doing active no contact right now) and hopefully it all works out 🙏🏽
And just to add on to this: the past 3-4 days, I’ve actually been able to live my own life and do things I enjoy without obsessing over her so I’m pretty proud of that. And other things in my personal life are picking up so hopefully this is the start of bettering myself and becoming an even better version of the person my ex fell in love with in the first place 😊
I have learned one thing- You can be at your best and still be replaceable coz people choose people who are available to them as per their current life status. If you are wiser, cry your heart out, pray for healing, let go. Life is beautiful with you in it.celebrate it !!! I have been left out in cold by guys I waited for. I always told them how I felt honestly and got told - Hey,I have moved on and so should you! It’s embarrassing to be honest in that moment but you will have zero regrets later in life. Give it your all and then trust-You would not want/love them as we as humans do not want people who made us feel bad about our best self.Period!
PS They come around always coz it’s rare to find honest people! It’s so so rare that you may not even know one honest person in your entire lifetime. Sending you all joy !
Coincidentally my ex told me it today 🤣. Luckily I have your marvelous book "5 phases". She's totally opened up to me now
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The old someone else card. Good luck and have a good life. We all move on at some stage. Some people can't face the mirror alone....
Clay, this is probably my favorite video of yours. Not just for it's timely yet on-point content (as usual) but I think this is your best effort to date in editing.💯💯
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Hello Clay, could you make a video only about why not to care if they are in a rebound or not. Because that could be a relief video and could help give us motivation to keep going and why if they are dating someone or not dating someone is not gonna effect getting them back. So a full video on only talking about reasons why you shouldnt focus on a rebound. Could be a good idea maybe?
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We had 2 months and a half no contact and then I could not resist anymore and I reached out to him. Well I discovered he is now in another relationship and he doesn’t even want to see me anymore. And he blocked me from every channel possible 💔
Going through this right now. So much pain.
The show up portion was so motivational.
my long distance ex of 6 years break up with me around 3 months ago and she called and told me week ago that she dating someone else (someone she's know for long time and closer to her).
It's just feel like i got breakup again. It's really suck.
I still have some hope, but first I will try to improve myself first.
Another thing to consider is that the "someone else" may be someone you know, maybe even a friend.
You have to prepare yourself for the sinking feeling of her moving on and the other one where you realize ym you've lost a friend or they were never really the friend you thought they were.
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That's exactly who my ex moved on to today. And he's got anger issues so I don't see the point of it. When I found out it was him, at tht point I just assumed she was running out of options of who to like in tht damn class.
@@TDrippyyyyare they still dating? Just found out my ex is talking to my friend lol. We dated 11 years im so confused like wth….told me herself.
If a stranger breaks into my house and sleeps on my bed, theres no way in hell Im sleeping on it again, im changing it
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Its the absolute worst thing that can happen to a man. It can affect you for years. In fact it will never be forgotten. But. There is good news. Use it as an opportunity. To get in SHAPE. to get FIT. make her regret her foolish decision. If you treated her like a lady she will regret it one day.
I guarantee it.
He did me a favor I went thru such a betrayal. I still unless it’s my kids feel nothing inside I don’t feel shit man. So when I saw her rebound I just smirk. Because deep down I shut down emotional I have a really hard time. Feeling anything. I’m not kidding
This vidz is just made for me specifically; after 5-6 months of NC; I initiated contact; she was receptive and did see her at a point in time. She was very opened and chat well; I wanted to revive the relationship but she told me she is seeing someone and she want to give this new relationship a chance like she gave us…. My stomach and heart💔😭. She still watched my status but I had to block her as it’s over. She did not even try to make it work just moved on 😢
What happened 😭? How are you?
Damn I'm not ready to hear that
Nobody is ready. It’s better to know the truth.
My ex and I are almost finalized but her new BF and her connected due to being friends in middle school and both getting divorced at same time bonded them is what she told me.
I don’t love some of this advice. If the ex is in a new relationship you should be respectful of that if you care about them. As the person who was in a relationship with someone whose ex would not let them go it was extremely painful for me and has left me with possible permanent trust and faith issues in relationships. It is incredibly disrespectful
To the new girlfriend to continue to bombard your ex with messages and requests to see them. It was the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced in my life because my boyfriend felt like he couldn’t say no to her because she didn’t have anyone and he’s very passive. When he tried to do the same with me after he moved on from Me I said a firm no. He made a commitment to the new girl so it’s not my place to insert myself into that relationship. I would not cause pain to his new girlfriend the way his ex and he caused me pain.
My ex just blew up at me after i told her i had a date and wanted to take them to a place her and i went to and we argued and she said she feels like she cant trust me because i hurt her too much
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Why would any ex tell you they are seeing someone else? Because they want to hurt you. And you don't want to be with someone who is intentionally hurting you
thats exactly what happened with me, he just told me that he think he find someone, still hurt but, i just told him go and try , he was so insensitive that even end up telling me maybe one day i could met the girl and give some advise 🤦🏽♀️, how narcissistic and act like normal.. i know he planned to hurt me and make me jealous but i was just praying that i could get over this pain🙏🏻
Yup that’s what they do. Trying to hurt you or make you jealous
Exactly I find it so petty . Why should they inform one just go mute or block someone.
Imagine an ex texting out of nowhere that they seeing someone else so you shouldn't text them. 😮okay thanks for the information congratulations, rules must be obeyed. Dem.
Hi Clay! So I have been dealing with a weird thing going on. My ex has been in a new (pretry sure its a rebound) relationship the past couple of weeks and before I found out they were together actually, he told me he wouldnt replace me because thats something he couldnt do and he wouldnt let someone come in between us. We havent talked for teo weeks and if we did at all, it was a sentence or two in text. Tonight he called me to check up on me and I told him that I was upset because he did completely what he said he wouldnt do which was replace me and stop talking to me. He ended up crying and being upset that he hurt me and he said he didn’t understand why I still love him. I’m just so confused at this whole situation. They had only talked for a total of two weeks before becoming official and she lives two hours away from him. He’s coming back into town for thanksgiving with his family and I feel like he is going to ask to see me but I don’t know what I will even say.
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Me n my ex broke up not long ago thn she goes sending me a pic of her n somone eles to hurt me even more
N then that person starts calling me shit
She didn't even tell me, a week before she broke it off with me, she was in a relationship with the other guy, I found out about a month later, but not by her. The lack of maturity or communication is ridiculous
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