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I'm thoroughly relieved I didn't have to watch you drag out a dead tree. A group I sang in was once booked to perform at a Christmas tree-burning party...horrific! Best wishes for you Nicolas! May we practice peace and good will the whole year through.
Happy New Year, Nicolas! I've gained such regard for you, from many UA-cam video views, watching how hard you work, and your sincerity when you ask for our input. I especially perk up on the home decorating front, and can attest to how great are at synthesizing the various feed backs from multiple viewers on the same video, and coming up with your own perfect solution as a result! On the ASMR site, I enjoyed the story reading, watching with dear Ellie. I would love to broaden the focus on "elegance," if it fits, to also include great evenings, people and fare in non-aristocratic pubs, restaurants and households ...in Ireland, as well as Scotland and England and wherever you travel, as your new year's resolution realizes this year!
You're finding yourself growing young man. That's beautiful. To me, every 10 years we change into someone new. You're shedding an old layer. Feels great! Good luck to you ❤
Something about physically writing in a journal, your goals, things to do, appointments etc. Then going back reading and crossing them off the list because they are completed. It's so GRATIFYING! 😊
Happy New Yea Nicolas! This was a wonderful video. I decided to go sober on my birthday this past August. I woke up that morning and made up my mind that was the day. I was taken out for my birthday and everyone was surprised when I passed on a cocktail to celebrate. Now 5 months later still no alcohol. I did it for same reason as you did. I want to concentrate on other parts of my life and it just wasn't worth it anymore to me. And I save money! 🙂 It's a win win! Also, love that you always take Sophie around with you. I am the same way with my dog Enzo. He comes to restaurants, walks, traveling, and visiting family and friends. It's a commitment but worth it to me. All your goals for 2024 sound wonderful. I think a book on your approach to the four seasons would be wonderful. Food, decor, fashion, accessories, beauty, and travel...etc. Looking forward to your wonderful videos in 2024. Thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing yourself with all of us. And by the way your teas are amazing as well as your candle. 🙂
Yes to cutting out alcohol! Aged 40, married and mothered, and have never been a drinker. Don't like the taste, don't like how it affects behavior, weight gain, expensive, etc. No doctor would ever tell you to drink more alcohol to improve your health nor would a psychologist ever tell you alcohol was key to improving your mental state or relationships. Some people think socializing isn't as fun without alcohol, but that's kind of sad to think we can't enjoy each other unless we chemically alter our consciousness. We are all little weirdos and can enjoy each other just fine, no alcohol necessary.
Yes. It only shows how addictive alcohol is. This notion that you cannot enjoy yourself unless you drink at least a bit is not true for me. I enjoy myself regardless. Dr. Daniel Amen who has scanned thousands of human brains talks about the detrimental effects of alcohol to the brain. Great decision, Nicolas. Cheers to a healthy and sober New Year! :)
Well said! As one who was always out for drinks, I had prosecco at Christmas and that was it! I have no alcohol in my house at all. I hadn't had any alcohol last year. I font miss it.
I just realized how much I was drinking during covid. I got really scared how addictive it can be. Now I'm trying to drink as little as I can. But I think soon I will cut alcohol at all.
So sorry about your dog when my sunny dog died l felt as though one of my limbs had been cut off, it took many years before l could look at a picture of him l read this message on a bench and it said don’t cry because it’s over smile because it happened that helped a lot best wishes from Lynda
Without trying to make so many goals that I quickly fail and subsequently give up - (as I usually do!) my aim is at the end of each month - do a little stock take to see whether I am - as intended - a little bit happier, wiser and healthier than I was a month earlier… or maybe take it even week by week - it’s a new technique but I hope it works
@@katepreble8574I only started it last week but I can confirm that the concept holds water! Woken up Monday morning feeling pretty chipper! (And two pounds lighter!)
@@NicolasFairford I’m calling it “Positive Living”! I now have a journal dedicated solely to jotting down the positive things I do every day to improve my own quality of life and my health and my knowledge - be it taking a walk, 10 minutes of yoga, not having any alcohol or junk food, reading a chapter of fine literature or taking ten minutes to really listen to a piece of important/new music, morning stretches, call a friend who you know might need a chat, have a fruit tea, cook something new, apply a 15 minute face mask, listening to birdsong, watch a classic film you haven’t seen etc.. These things can be small wins, but noting them down keeps you mindful of what you put into your day. I think that incrementally seeing all the positives on the page at the end of the day really help you reset how you want to approach life and to relearn how to look for the spoonful of sugar in everything. As I said my aim is to not make a million strict rules or resolutions that will ultimately fail and depress me, but to take a little stock at the end of each week (I think week chunks are easier to handle than months!) - have the things I have done made me a tiny bit happier, wiser and healthier than I was 7 days ago - if not, where can I improve? After all, if you can feel 52 times better by next New Year’s Eve than you do now - that has got to only be a good thing, right?!
I loved this video, Nicholas. I went alcohol free in November and am not looking back . I know having an older dog can be challenging but the love from Sophie is priceless. ❤️ Venture out a bit more and if it doesn’t work don’t stress about it and please don’t listen to others about your choices . I hope this is comforting to you.
I love the bagless type of vacuum, the Henry looks easy to use and portable! I stopped drinking years ago, mostly because it was hard on my body, I craved carbs and sugar when I drank. I just one day stopped and haven't needed or wanted to drink since.
Nicolas… I have been alcohol free since 11/28/22 and I don’t regret it one bit. I feel great, my thoughts are more clear than ever and my productivity is through the roof. I enjoyed 30 good years with Bacchus and drank some fine wine but one day I realised “I don’t really enjoy this anymore”. I sat the glass down and that was that. People ask me if it’s a sobriety thing and it’s not. I just chose not to drink today and don’t plan on it tomorrow. Wishing you all the best in this new pursuit… you can do this! BTW… kombucha and drinking vinegars are my new thing. ❤❤❤
Yes, Nicholas! I totally agree about a wonderful feeling of a brand new year. I've always thought of it as a fresh clean slate with almost no mistakes. So any mistakes that any of us made in the previous year cannot come into the new year with us; because those were last year's mistakes. The only time anything can follows us into the new year with us is if it's a end of the year illness or the end of a relationship and everything that goes along with that, follows. But the new year will help with new beginnings.
They have comfy little backpacks for dogs. The added benefit with these is adding a little weight bearing exercise to your walk. Sophie is so sweet, and I understand how you’ve adjusted your life for her
In my culture, 🇪🇸 we observe the 12 days of Christmas which begins on 12/25 and concludes on the Feast of the Epiphany, 1/6. So the tree stays up until the festivities conclude.
I have a family member & a friend who have a severe allergy to alcohol ! I quit drinking 14 years ago & do not miss it ! I still have it in my home for guests who enjoy it as my husband loves great wine etc in moderation! Whatever works for you os what i believe !
Agree 100%! Affirmations, plans/goals are far more powerful & resonate more by hand & pen on paper. Love buying new diary & look to start a fresh year, don't do resolutions, I plan & set goals. Metaphysically it connects what you write by hand to your heart. My son 30 & I are going alcohol free '24. Wine's change over time. Agree winter is for restoration, I sort & clear ready.
In this video I think u mentioned something about angel Sofi that in 12 years u didn’t go to cinemas or here or There but I feel it was ur choice or gods Choice to give u an angel ( Sofi) so u could have her and so would know the real meaning of being happy! As in my opinion u have been constantly going here and there and vacations etc Leaving her behind… which I’m sure she HATED because she is your Responsibility and family and like your Child …. So no one Should have regret having and spending time With such a cute puppy ( I call them puppies at all ages they’re so small n tiny n give unconditional love) i genuinely feel this and was taken very aback when I was listening to your video- pls love her and always cherish her no one else can give u unconditional love for life
Nicolas, I am surprised with you. Traditionally, and I know you love tradition, one shouldn't remove the Christmas tree until after the Nativity on the 6th of January. Also known as Orthodox Christmas or in Ireland as "Little Christmas" or "Woman's Christmas" the 6th is a day to celebrate and the tree shouldn't be removed until then. My tradition is to hold my annual Christmas party on the Friday before the 6th. I call it "The Last of the Christmas Sparkle" and everyone loves it as it leaves something to look forward to after all the fuss. This year, as the 6th was a Saturday, I had it then. An idea for a new tradition for you perhaps? Have a wonderful New Year and continued success for 2024. Oh, and my new motto for this year - More is more in 24. db
I so enjoyed and appreciated your last UA-cam!! Good for you regarding the choice of going sober. I have a son who has struggled with alcohol for years and it’s very sad to see. Making this decision will be such a positive for you for future years! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being vulnerable. I think your New Year’s goals sound excellent. And your love of Sophie and all that you do for her is just so charming and heartwarming! I look forward to this year’s videos! Be strong as you move forward, and be true to yourself always! God bless you and Sophie! ❣️❣️
Happy new year Nicolas. It’s funny how you made all these plans for 2024 and I haven’t made even one new year resolution. I find I simply don’t stick with the plan for long enough ,so I disappoint myself. Your idea of writing in a diary is a good idea. Then you can see how much progress you have made. Like you say,winter is a time for a hibernation of sorts. We have very cold weather here in Canada which forces you to stay indoors in the coldest months. Then there’s nothing like a good book and a warm blanket to wrap yourself in during this time. I think everyone needs time to wind down from the holidays.
Write my book, my word(s) for 2024 is “Let Them” some friendships 2 to be exact I have had to let go. Be mindful,speak sparingly and let them means let them do whatever and not concern myself. Other goals less youtube, entertain every 3 months the first is Galentine party for friends. Spiritual goal to pray more, last year I read the whole bible. A low buy, spend but more thoughtfully and spread joy and happiness.
Nicolas, you mentioned stretching. Here in the Chicago area, there are now "assisted stretching " places. Basically stretching to the max. I think one of the places is called "Stretch Lab"? I am, too, getting a bit stiff even though I am really active. Getting going after sitting in a chair or car for a long time is sometimes challenging, and I don't want to medicate all the time. So, as a result, I have been very intrigued by this new "assisted stretching " phenomenon.
Was a heavy drinker for most of my 20s and 30s, at 40 decided to stop drinking so much, if at all. For the first year I drank a handful of times and last year I drank about once a month. Overall I feel so much better. I also lost a LOT of weight.
Hello Nicolas! Happy New Year (and Happy Early Birthday) 2024!! I’m a new subscriber and I adore your channel and everything you stand for. Thumbs up to all your goals…you can do it, 100%!! I quit alcohol several years ago for the same reasons as you and I love it!! No more next days of feeling not so good. I have friends that drink but I’m able to continue to go out with them and still have a good time. Btw, don’t forget, you can put mocktails in lovely glasses and enjoy them as well. The goals I’m working on this year are getting a second citizenship, and, like you, getting into Pilates again…also, traveling to Central Asia, and starting some new, part time job working for myself, that I can take with me anywhere in the world. Wishing you the best of everything…May all your dreams come true!! 💕
My new year résolution is to have fun more often .. Your goals are reachable I am sûre... Traveling to the Highlands iswalso one of my project....I live in France and went for à Highland tour in Summer 22 ...I will do it again...with other stops. I loved the charm of Pitlochry ❤ Good Lucky and happy new year Nicholas
Nicolas, just a suggestion, move that plant you have on that bench to your back book shelf. You dont want that plant to put a indent on your apholstered furnature..Just a thought..
I enjoyed your vlog about the plans and goals you set yourself for 2024. I too am refraining from drinking alcohol. Also the idea of self improvement is always my yearly goal and a work in progress. Wishing you good luck and a successful new year. 👍🙏😎
Very interesting film. I was born on 23 of January, I don't drink, walk one hour a Day and I altered my life for my cats. I even go vacation with them. Never leave them with anyone.
Alcohol can cause depressive symptoms to be worse and to hang around longer so quitting it was a no brainer for me. I totally relate to the wasted recovery time and consequences. I do not miss it and it was an easy transition because of the positive outcomes to my physical and emotional well being. I will say it did bother some of my friends but they understood. They do not want me doing something that makes me unwell. My alcohol use was not heavy or frequent but I drank to be social but I think I am low level allergic to it. Two drinks would cause me to feel terrible the next day and perhaps for a couple of days and trigger migraines, erratic sleep cycles, gastro upset etc. Best thing I ever did. 😊
Taking down the tree is the worst part of the holiday. I haven't set one up for awhile. My partner was the Christmas fanatic. Since he passed away awhile back I just haven't felt like setting one up. I plan to hit the gym more regularly and get rid of the dad bod this year. Lol
Interesting how many people I am aware of going alcohol free. I have never been a person who drinks....but I have had many friends who have....but about 1/2 are trying alcohol free. Good luck hope it works for you. You will feel better is my understanding. All the best in 2024
WOW you are so motivated- I like the ideas of the goals!. I always make a "To Do" list and try to stick to it. Great start to the new Year. Thank you for your videos - very informational. Good luck in 2024!. Keep up the good work!!
I love doing an audit for every new year. I reflect on the previous year (good, bad, accomplishments, general thoughts) and then a make a new plan for the new year. I find it really helpful 😊 Cheers to a wonderful 2024! 🎉
I too was ready to pack up Christmas on Jan 1 but decided to take it easy. Then I got the flu, then back to work. Here we are Jan 12 and the damn thing is still up 😂! Just seeing on my morning program that the tree in Rockefeller Ctr NY is also still up, so I guess I’m not that far behind 🤷♀️. This weekend though is it! 🎄
Happy New year Nicolas. I am going out for afternoon tea for my birthday this year. All the best with your 2024 goals. Look forward to hearing more. I have planned mine and some are large so hoping I'll achieve them.
Hi Nicholas, Happy New Year! I understand as a cat mom myself, it's hard to leave your pet. I adopted my LIly a month before lockdown. Who knew at the time that she was going to be not only a blessing, but an extra blessing. My New Year is starting out wonderfully! After 6 years in my current apartment, I am moving to a larger place with a deck and in unit laundry facilities. This will happen in 3 weeks. I have been busy packing and changing my address for the people and organizations that need to know. I am very excited. I love my current place, but it's time to move on. I hope that you and Sophie will be able to travel to amazing places. Take care, Nicholas from Tacoma, Washington.
@@Katie-vy5rd Hi Katie, That's awesome! I've never had anyone reply that lives so close. I really like the Lacey area. I'm familiar with Lacey, Olympia & Tumwater. I like shopping in downtown Olympia. The are some shops that I like, Compass Rose and Psychic Sister being a couple of them. Have a fab New Year, Katie!
So sweet Nicolas how you have changed your life and routine to suit your little Sophie in.... It's very endearing.... Kind.... And shows your character ❤... You are beautiful inside and out ❤ I'm also an animal lover 😍 Wishing you a fantastic New Year Nicolas 🎉 May all your goals materialize as you wish 🤞 🤞 🙏🏻
Loved hearing your goals❤ I have been sober several years and it has been so healthy and empowering! Welcome to the wonderful world of the sober! So looking forward to regular weekly videos! And, by the way, your complexion is glowing and radiant.
happy new year! I've also stopped drinking, and have been impressed with the availability of non-alcoholic beers and wines. And, so many delicious mocktails! Your idea to join a running club sounds like a lot of fun, too ☺️
The older you get - the more alcohol interferes with your health -whether that is due to medications, diet restrictions, etc. Yet, we all love cocktails & fun with friends. They are making SO many good mocktails & faux wines now. You should do mocktails on your UA-cams!
It would be nice if you could find a wonderful dog sitter for those occasional times when you'd like to go to cinema. Sophie could stay home, warm and comfortable, and you could feel secure in the knowledge that she's not alone and being cared for by someone who is a professional.
Nick, you got a Henry hoover... yay!! I have Henry too, I would not swap Henry for the world... they are the best hoovers in my opinion"!! hehe enjoy henry... :) Happy New Year, hope this year brings you many happy things and long may you prosper, stay blessed and smile all the way through!! :) xxx
Nicolas, This was a wonderful video, thank you! I am particularly excited to learn of your new ASMR channel, as ASMR videos help quiet my mind on nights that I am wakeful. Admittedly I have occasionally tuned in to your regular videos and used them to lull me to sleep, not because they are boring (they are not!), but because of your soothing voice. I will happily subscribe, and wish you well with your new project, and all of your goals for the year.
Happy new year Nicholas 🎉 cheers to a new one filled with abundance and blessings. Always look forward to your content, remember quality over quantity ❤
Oh Nicolas... you're a STAR! I don't like alcohol and have never needed it to have fun nor to enjoy myself socially or otherwise. It is totally unnecessary and I absolutely salute you for this decision... I raise my crystal goblet of filtered, alkaline iced water to you dear boy! XXX
Hi Nicolas- happy new year! I always enjoy your videos. I remember a video from a year to two ago where you recommended some high quality bedsheets. I haven’t been able to find the video- could you remind me what they were? I’m in the process of setting up my new apartment in Chicago.😊
Okay here I am again commenting about your idea of writing a book. I think it's totally awesome! In fact I think I mentioned you should write a book - a fictional book - a mystery. Maybe your lead character could be a interior designer by trade but ends up being a sleuth when he keeps going to places and trips over bodies and stolen gems and things like. Lol that would be very fun to read. You enjoy Elegance in luxury so that would be a unique backdrop you could use. 😊
My Dear Nicolas, I am 78 years old and I just adore everything you do. I was thinking regarding your creation of your books to start by writing exactly what you write in your diary. I think it will be so fascinating to be able to read your writing from what exactly that you do. Preparing yourself to go out, how you really feel without a drink, just like you have it in your diary. Sometimes I want to go back to some of your episodes of something I am looking for that you shared with us but I don't remember which one is it. So one of my goal for 2024 God Willing is to write myself on a book that will be titled "Nicolas Fairford" every single episode. I will like to start with the highlights of the episode and that will click my mind to remember what that special episode of yours contained. You have so much love to share with us that I really can't wait for your first "Diary of 2024" to be printed. Just like it is written by you. It will mean Nicolas that you are giving us part of you. When you do go on trips don't forget to take photos and implement them in your "Diary Book 2024" I just started looking at your new chanel "ELEGANT ASMR with Nicolas Fairford" and I just love it. ❤ Be safe 🙏
Good idea stay off the alcohol Nicolas. Your body will thank you for it. If you don’t mind me making a suggestion. I notice you still have the drinks tray on the top of the cabinet with all the bottles staring you in the face. Why don’t you put it away inside the cabinet and decorate the cabinet with something else that brings you joy. ❤❤
Hi Nic, Happy New Year ! It’s been awhile since I’ve commented . I’m also looking forward to 2024- I unexpectedly lost my fiancé , Michael to cancer in 2023 . My fiancé enjoyed your videos and you both messaged each other on Instagram last year. Looking forward to your content in 2024😊
Oh it is so lovely to see you, Nicolas. I hope your Christmas was wonderful. I never make New Year's Resolutions, but I do like to make some loose "suggestions" to myself? lol. I shall try to exercise this year, get my second and hopefully LAST knee replacement surgery, read more and bake more. Once I get my knee working, I hope to walk and bike some. Sadly, I just lost my darling dog recently, and I am going to look at shih tzu in a few days. A wee lad. I also adapt my life to living around my dog, but I have never minded. I have started listening to audio books and find that I adore it. I listen while driving to and from work, so I hope my driving doesn't suffer. lol. It would be lovely to see some videos of traveling with Sophie. Thank you for all that you give us. We appreciate you. 😘
Hello Nicolas from Queensland - love your open heart - you reveal so much of your beautiful soul - you are honest & have integrity which I admire greatly - love all the plans you have for 2024 - but most of all I was so happy when you revealed you had given up alcohol - my family don't drink - we learned many years ago that it does many bad things to the body & ages the body prematurely - you have amazing skin & are very handsome - one does not need alcohol to ruin those qualities - as a family - we go out to dinner occasionally & have so much fun without alcohol - I am so proud of you for the commitment you have made - well done Nicolas!! - lovely to see you back - much love & best wishes for 2024.
Hi Nicolas! I have been following you since you started and I love your videos! It's good to have goals in life. About traveling or going out more, but you can´t because of Sophie - ask any of your elderly neighbours. Maybe one of them enjoy having Sophie while you travel or go out? I have a senior dog and an elderly retired neighbor has her during the days when I work. Sometimes even when I am travelling out of country. He cannot afford to own a dog of his own. My Juline loves him and he loves her. So it is a win win.
Hey everyone! I really hope you enjoy this first episode of 2024! If you enjoy ASMR, please subscribe to my new ASMR channel here: ua-cam.com/video/Xfde8PStCA4/v-deo.html
I'm thoroughly relieved I didn't have to watch you drag out a dead tree. A group I sang in was once booked to perform at a Christmas tree-burning party...horrific!
Best wishes for you Nicolas! May we practice peace and good will the whole year through.
Happy New Year, Nicolas! I've gained such regard for you, from many UA-cam video views, watching how hard you work, and your sincerity when you ask for our input. I especially perk up on the home decorating front, and can attest to how great are at synthesizing the various feed backs from multiple viewers on the same video, and coming up with your own perfect solution as a result! On the ASMR site, I enjoyed the story reading, watching with dear Ellie. I would love to broaden the focus on "elegance," if it fits, to also include great evenings, people and fare in non-aristocratic pubs, restaurants and households ...in Ireland, as well as Scotland and England and wherever you travel, as your new year's resolution realizes this year!
Meet and greet in NYC ❤❤
You're finding yourself growing young man. That's beautiful. To me, every 10 years we change into someone new. You're shedding an old layer. Feels great! Good luck to you ❤
I'm so happy for Sophie's carriage I know she appreciated. "Dogs are not our whole lives, but they make our lives whole." 🐕
They’re angels disguised as puppies
Something about physically writing in a journal, your goals, things to do, appointments etc. Then going back reading and crossing them off the list because they are completed. It's so GRATIFYING! 😊
Absolutely!
Happy New Yea Nicolas! This was a wonderful video. I decided to go sober on my birthday this past August. I woke up that morning and made up my mind that was the day. I was taken out for my birthday and everyone was surprised when I passed on a cocktail to celebrate. Now 5 months later still no alcohol. I did it for same reason as you did. I want to concentrate on other parts of my life and it just wasn't worth it anymore to me. And I save money! 🙂 It's a win win! Also, love that you always take Sophie around with you. I am the same way with my dog Enzo. He comes to restaurants, walks, traveling, and visiting family and friends. It's a commitment but worth it to me. All your goals for 2024 sound wonderful. I think a book on your approach to the four seasons would be wonderful. Food, decor, fashion, accessories, beauty, and travel...etc. Looking forward to your wonderful videos in 2024. Thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing yourself with all of us. And by the way your teas are amazing as well as your candle. 🙂
Well done on your achievement! That's amazing! Thanks for your kind words
Yes to cutting out alcohol! Aged 40, married and mothered, and have never been a drinker. Don't like the taste, don't like how it affects behavior, weight gain, expensive, etc. No doctor would ever tell you to drink more alcohol to improve your health nor would a psychologist ever tell you alcohol was key to improving your mental state or relationships. Some people think socializing isn't as fun without alcohol, but that's kind of sad to think we can't enjoy each other unless we chemically alter our consciousness. We are all little weirdos and can enjoy each other just fine, no alcohol necessary.
Yes. It only shows how addictive alcohol is. This notion that you cannot enjoy yourself unless you drink at least a bit is not true for me. I enjoy myself regardless. Dr. Daniel Amen who has scanned thousands of human brains talks about the detrimental effects of alcohol to the brain.
Great decision, Nicolas. Cheers to a healthy and sober New Year! :)
Well said! As one who was always out for drinks, I had prosecco at Christmas and that was it! I have no alcohol in my house at all. I hadn't had any alcohol last year. I font miss it.
I just realized how much I was drinking during covid. I got really scared how addictive it can be. Now I'm trying to drink as little as I can. But I think soon I will cut alcohol at all.
I totally agree with you 100% xxx
So true
I did the same with my litte dog Buster he lived to 16 and I pushed him everywhere..just lost him in December.....your a wonderful dog owner .....
So sorry about your dog when my sunny dog died l felt as though one of my limbs had been cut off, it took many years before l could look at a picture of him l read this message on a bench and it said don’t cry because it’s over smile because it happened that helped a lot best wishes from Lynda
May the new year bring you much joy & happiness, including Nicholas & all the members & readers of this channel.
Very kind! Thank you!
Without trying to make so many goals that I quickly fail and subsequently give up - (as I usually do!) my aim is at the end of each month - do a little stock take to see whether I am - as intended - a little bit happier, wiser and healthier than I was a month earlier… or maybe take it even week by week - it’s a new technique but I hope it works
Brilliant. Never thought of it that way, I may try it! 🙏🏼✨
I love this!
@@katepreble8574I only started it last week but I can confirm that the concept holds water! Woken up Monday morning feeling pretty chipper! (And two pounds lighter!)
@@NicolasFairford I’m calling it “Positive Living”! I now have a journal dedicated solely to jotting down the positive things I do every day to improve my own quality of life and my health and my knowledge - be it taking a walk, 10 minutes of yoga, not having any alcohol or junk food, reading a chapter of fine literature or taking ten minutes to really listen to a piece of important/new music, morning stretches, call a friend who you know might need a chat, have a fruit tea, cook something new, apply a 15 minute face mask, listening to birdsong, watch a classic film you haven’t seen etc..
These things can be small wins, but noting them down keeps you mindful of what you put into your day. I think that incrementally seeing all the positives on the page at the end of the day really help you reset how you want to approach life and to relearn how to look for the spoonful of sugar in everything.
As I said my aim is to not make a million strict rules or resolutions that will ultimately fail and depress me, but to take a little stock at the end of each week (I think week chunks are easier to handle than months!) - have the things I have done made me a tiny bit happier, wiser and healthier than I was 7 days ago - if not, where can I improve?
After all, if you can feel 52 times better by next New Year’s Eve than you do now - that has got to only be a good thing, right?!
I’ve been sober for 3 years come April and I’ve never felt better. The clear head is the best.
👍🏼sober 19 months myself and feel great. Don’t even miss the booze.
I loved this video, Nicholas. I went alcohol free in November and am not looking back . I know having an older dog can be challenging but the love from Sophie is priceless. ❤️ Venture out a bit more and if it doesn’t work don’t stress about it and please don’t listen to others about your choices . I hope this is comforting to you.
You're right! Thank you!
I love the bagless type of vacuum, the Henry looks easy to use and portable! I stopped drinking years ago, mostly because it was hard on my body, I craved carbs and sugar when I drank. I just one day stopped and haven't needed or wanted to drink since.
That is amazing! Well done you!
I loved your observation of craving sugar when you drank , As I have got older have not, found the need to drink .
Nicolas… I have been alcohol free since 11/28/22 and I don’t regret it one bit. I feel great, my thoughts are more clear than ever and my productivity is through the roof. I enjoyed 30 good years with Bacchus and drank some fine wine but one day I realised “I don’t really enjoy this anymore”. I sat the glass down and that was that. People ask me if it’s a sobriety thing and it’s not. I just chose not to drink today and don’t plan on it tomorrow. Wishing you all the best in this new pursuit… you can do this! BTW… kombucha and drinking vinegars are my new thing. ❤❤❤
So happy to hear your positive story! Thank you so much
Your Henry Hoover vacuum cleaner....I got the kids version for my granddaughter a few years ago. She uses it to help my son clean the cars 😊
Yes, Nicholas! I totally agree about a wonderful feeling of a brand new year. I've always thought of it as a fresh clean slate with almost no mistakes. So any mistakes that any of us made in the previous year cannot come into the new year with us; because those were last year's mistakes. The only time anything can follows us into the new year with us is if it's a end of the year illness or the end of a relationship and everything that goes along with that, follows. But the new year will help with new beginnings.
They have comfy little backpacks for dogs. The added benefit with these is adding a little weight bearing exercise to your walk. Sophie is so sweet, and I understand how you’ve adjusted your life for her
In my culture, 🇪🇸 we observe the 12 days of Christmas which begins on 12/25 and concludes on the Feast of the Epiphany, 1/6. So the tree stays up until the festivities conclude.
Happy new year 🎉..it is good idea to start the new year thinking about the priorities..health , work ,....
A course of baking would be great, but I don't think you give yourself enough credit. Some of the baking you do looks absolutely wonderful. Take Care!
That is kind! Thank you!
I have a family member & a friend who have a severe allergy to alcohol ! I quit drinking 14 years ago & do not miss it ! I still have it in my home for guests who enjoy it as my husband loves great wine etc in moderation! Whatever works for you os what i believe !
Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines use the Henry brand hoover. Hope you enjoy it.
Agree 100%! Affirmations, plans/goals are far more powerful & resonate more by hand & pen on paper. Love buying new diary & look to start a fresh year, don't do resolutions, I plan & set goals. Metaphysically it connects what you write by hand to your heart. My son 30 & I are going alcohol free '24. Wine's change over time. Agree winter is for restoration, I sort & clear ready.
That is amazing! Thanks for sharing!
You are an On Going Joy in Life !❤
Thank you so much!
Seven years is not a long time for a Sebo, they’re made to last a very long time. We love ours.
I think he meant he was just upgrading because he said it was so big and heavy.
In this video I think u mentioned something about angel Sofi that in 12 years u didn’t go to cinemas or here or
There but I feel it was ur choice or gods
Choice to give u an angel ( Sofi) so u could have her and so would know the real meaning of being happy! As in my opinion u have been constantly going here and there and vacations etc
Leaving her behind… which I’m sure she HATED because she is your
Responsibility and family and like your
Child …. So no one
Should have regret having and spending time
With such a cute puppy ( I call them puppies at all ages they’re so small n tiny n give unconditional love) i genuinely feel this and was taken very aback when I was listening to your video- pls love her and always cherish her no one else can give u unconditional love for life
Oh dear Nicholas.. what will you do with your newly designed bar??
Right! 😂
Nicolas, I am surprised with you. Traditionally, and I know you love tradition, one shouldn't remove the Christmas tree until after the Nativity on the 6th of January. Also known as Orthodox Christmas or in Ireland as "Little Christmas" or "Woman's Christmas" the 6th is a day to celebrate and the tree shouldn't be removed until then. My tradition is to hold my annual Christmas party on the Friday before the 6th. I call it "The Last of the Christmas Sparkle" and everyone loves it as it leaves something to look forward to after all the fuss. This year, as the 6th was a Saturday, I had it then. An idea for a new tradition for you perhaps? Have a wonderful New Year and continued success for 2024. Oh, and my new motto for this year - More is more in 24. db
I so enjoyed and appreciated your last UA-cam!! Good for you regarding the choice of going sober. I have a son who has struggled with alcohol for years and it’s very sad to see. Making this decision will be such a positive for you for future years! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being vulnerable. I think your New Year’s goals sound excellent. And your love of Sophie and all that you do for her is just so charming and heartwarming! I look forward to this year’s videos! Be strong as you move forward, and be true to yourself always! God bless you and Sophie! ❣️❣️
Happy new year Nicolas. It’s funny how you made all these plans for 2024 and I haven’t made even one new year resolution. I find I simply don’t stick with the plan for long enough ,so I disappoint myself. Your idea of writing in a diary is a good idea. Then you can see how much progress you have made. Like you say,winter is a time for a hibernation of sorts. We have very cold weather here in Canada which forces you to stay indoors in the coldest months. Then there’s nothing like a good book and a warm blanket to wrap yourself in during this time. I think everyone needs time to wind down from the holidays.
Write my book, my word(s) for 2024 is “Let Them” some friendships 2 to be exact I have had to let go. Be mindful,speak sparingly and let them means let them do whatever and not concern myself. Other goals less youtube, entertain every 3 months the first is Galentine party for friends. Spiritual goal to pray more, last year I read the whole bible. A low buy, spend but more thoughtfully and spread joy and happiness.
Nicolas, you mentioned stretching. Here in the Chicago area, there are now "assisted stretching " places. Basically stretching to the max. I think one of the places is called "Stretch Lab"? I am, too, getting a bit stiff even though I am really active. Getting going after sitting in a chair or car for a long time is sometimes challenging, and I don't want to medicate all the time. So, as a result, I have been very intrigued by this new "assisted stretching " phenomenon.
Was a heavy drinker for most of my 20s and 30s, at 40 decided to stop drinking so much, if at all. For the first year I drank a handful of times and last year I drank about once a month. Overall I feel so much better. I also lost a LOT of weight.
I'm saving up for a hanry iv been with out mine for 4yrs now you will love the hanry hover
Hello Nicolas! Happy New Year (and Happy Early Birthday) 2024!! I’m a new subscriber and I adore your channel and everything you stand for. Thumbs up to all your goals…you can do it, 100%!! I quit alcohol several years ago for the same reasons as you and I love it!! No more next days of feeling not so good. I have friends that drink but I’m able to continue to go out with them and still have a good time. Btw, don’t forget, you can put mocktails in lovely glasses and enjoy them as well. The goals I’m working on this year are getting a second citizenship, and, like you, getting into Pilates again…also, traveling to Central Asia, and starting some new, part time job working for myself, that I can take with me anywhere in the world. Wishing you the best of everything…May all your dreams come true!! 💕
Thwacks for your kind wishes and sharing your thoughts and ideas!
Having a dog is the most rewarding thing...They get you up and out and you do make like minded friends...no regrets..❤
You're right about that!
My new year résolution is to have fun more often ..
Your goals are reachable I am sûre...
Traveling to the Highlands iswalso one of my project....I live in France and went for à Highland tour in Summer 22 ...I will do it again...with other stops. I loved the charm of Pitlochry ❤ Good Lucky and happy new year Nicholas
Blessings to you Nicolas for 2024.
Blessings for 2024.🤩
Thank you! To you also!
Had a Henry! Hated it have a sebo !! Love it henry has been dispatched happy new year
Nicolas, just a suggestion, move that plant you have on that bench to your back book shelf. You dont want that plant to put a indent on your apholstered furnature..Just a thought..
I enjoyed your vlog about the plans and goals you set yourself for 2024. I too am refraining from drinking alcohol. Also the idea of self improvement is always my yearly goal and a work in progress. Wishing you good luck and a successful new year. 👍🙏😎
May you be blessed this new year 😊
Wishing you every success this coming 2024🙏🏽
Very interesting film. I was born on 23 of January, I don't drink, walk one hour a Day and I altered my life for my cats. I even go vacation with them. Never leave them with anyone.
Alcohol can cause depressive symptoms to be worse and to hang around longer so quitting it was a no brainer for me. I totally relate to the wasted recovery time and consequences. I do not miss it and it was an easy transition because of the positive outcomes to my physical and emotional well being. I will say it did bother some of my friends but they understood. They do not want me doing something that makes me unwell. My alcohol use was not heavy or frequent but I drank to be social but I think I am low level allergic to it. Two drinks would cause me to feel terrible the next day and perhaps for a couple of days and trigger migraines, erratic sleep cycles, gastro upset etc. Best thing I ever did. 😊
Thanks for sharing your goals. I love your plans to travel more within Scotland. I look forward to seeing more of the place where you live.❤
Taking down the tree is the worst part of the holiday. I haven't set one up for awhile. My partner was the Christmas fanatic. Since he passed away awhile back I just haven't felt like setting one up. I plan to hit the gym more regularly and get rid of the dad bod this year. Lol
I’m sorry to hear that! Sending very best wishes
@@NicolasFairford Thank you so much Nicolas. Have a great 2024!
The best way to begin 2024 is with you! 🥰👍Happy New Year, dear Nicolas! 😘
what a lovely thing to say! Thank you!
I am supporting your sobriety--life is better without the extra chemicals...enjoy your life in a natural state...dts/usa
Your ASMR channel is so good. Cannot wait to experience your excellent asmr there as well.
Interesting how many people I am aware of going alcohol free. I have never been a person who drinks....but I have had many friends who have....but about 1/2 are trying alcohol free. Good luck hope it works for you. You will feel better is my understanding. All the best in 2024
WOW you are so motivated- I like the ideas of the goals!. I always make a "To Do" list and try to stick to it. Great start to the new Year. Thank you for your videos - very informational. Good luck in 2024!. Keep up the good work!!
Thank you for your kind words of encouragement and support!
I love doing an audit for every new year. I reflect on the previous year (good, bad, accomplishments, general thoughts) and then a make a new plan for the new year. I find it really helpful 😊 Cheers to a wonderful 2024! 🎉
That sounds so good! Well done you! X
I too was ready to pack up Christmas on Jan 1 but decided to take it easy. Then I got the flu, then back to work. Here we are Jan 12 and the damn thing is still up 😂! Just seeing on my morning program that the tree in Rockefeller Ctr NY is also still up, so I guess I’m not that far behind 🤷♀️. This weekend though is it! 🎄
Happy New year Nicolas. I am going out for afternoon tea for my birthday this year. All the best with your 2024 goals. Look forward to hearing more. I have planned mine and some are large so hoping I'll achieve them.
Enjoy your afternoon tea! Thank you! X
Fri/twice/wk are great, your goals are very sensible, fair, considered, Wish you well for 2024
Hi Nicholas, Happy New Year! I understand as a cat mom myself, it's hard to leave your pet. I adopted my LIly a month before lockdown. Who knew at the time that she was going to be not only a blessing, but an extra blessing. My New Year is starting out wonderfully! After 6 years in my current apartment, I am moving to a larger place with a deck and in unit laundry facilities. This will happen in 3 weeks. I have been busy packing and changing my address for the people and organizations that need to know. I am very excited. I love my current place, but it's time to move on. I hope that you and Sophie will be able to travel to amazing places. Take care, Nicholas from Tacoma, Washington.
Hi from your next door neighbor in Lacey😊.
@@Katie-vy5rd Hi Katie, That's awesome! I've never had anyone reply that lives so close. I really like the Lacey area. I'm familiar with Lacey, Olympia & Tumwater. I like shopping in downtown Olympia. The are some shops that I like, Compass Rose and Psychic Sister being a couple of them. Have a fab New Year, Katie!
Greetings from England 🏴
Happy New year Nicholas, I always look forward to each time I see you've put a new post up, thankyou for sharing, your goals and dreams , for 2024.
So sweet Nicolas how you have changed your life and routine to suit your little Sophie in....
It's very endearing....
Kind....
And shows your character ❤...
You are beautiful inside and out ❤
I'm also an animal lover 😍
Wishing you a fantastic New Year Nicolas 🎉
May all your goals materialize as you wish 🤞 🤞 🙏🏻
I am sure you will do and enjoy everything you have planned to the best of your ability. Continued good luck!
Loved hearing your goals❤ I have been sober several years and it has been so healthy and empowering! Welcome to the wonderful world of the sober! So looking forward to regular weekly videos! And, by the way, your complexion is glowing and radiant.
Inspiring! Thank you!
Health is number one priority 😊
I have the same vacuum cleaner issues ! I will look if we can get the Henry here in the US, not sure….
happy new year! I've also stopped drinking, and have been impressed with the availability of non-alcoholic beers and wines. And, so many delicious mocktails! Your idea to join a running club sounds like a lot of fun, too ☺️
I really enjoyed this video. I am excited for more! I think your goaks are very inspirational.
The older you get - the more alcohol interferes with your health -whether that is due to medications, diet restrictions, etc. Yet, we all love cocktails & fun with friends. They are making SO many good mocktails & faux wines now. You should do mocktails on your UA-cams!
Love the no-alcohol goal, it's mine too. There's new research out that alcohol is carcinogenic which really surprised me.
It would be nice if you could find a wonderful dog sitter for those occasional times when you'd like to go to cinema. Sophie could stay home, warm and comfortable, and you could feel secure in the knowledge that she's not alone and being cared for by someone who is a professional.
Happy New Year Nicolas this video was great telling us all your goals for 2024 take care
So glad you enjoyed it!
Nicolas, Grand Duchess of Edinburgh and Christmas Fairy, is excited about 2024.
You’re so funny, love your comments!
Nick, you got a Henry hoover... yay!! I have Henry too, I would not swap Henry for the world... they are the best hoovers in my opinion"!! hehe enjoy henry... :) Happy New Year, hope this year brings you many happy things and long may you prosper, stay blessed and smile all the way through!! :) xxx
Same here, I've had mine for years, it's the best.
I hope your goals and inspirations come true Nicholas. I wish you all the best the new year and I share the same birthday month as you crazy yeah . ❤
Thank you! Have a great Birthday X
Nicolas, This was a wonderful video, thank you! I am particularly excited to learn of your new ASMR channel, as ASMR videos help quiet my mind on nights that I am wakeful. Admittedly I have occasionally tuned in to your regular videos and used them to lull me to sleep, not because they are boring (they are not!), but because of your soothing voice. I will happily subscribe, and wish you well with your new project, and all of your goals for the year.
Thank you so much!
I have a Henry hoover as well and I never had such a good hoover before. ❤
Happy new year Nicholas 🎉 cheers to a new one filled with abundance and blessings. Always look forward to your content, remember quality over quantity ❤
I appreciate that! Thank you!
Hi Nicolas,i was waiting for your video,it' nice to see you again! I Hope you achieve all your goals and i Wish you a Happy 2024!👍🏻🎉🎉🎉🙋🏼♀️
Oh Nicolas... you're a STAR! I don't like alcohol and have never needed it to have fun nor to enjoy myself socially or otherwise. It is totally unnecessary and I absolutely salute you for this decision... I raise my crystal goblet of filtered, alkaline iced water to you dear boy! XXX
I would like to quit drinking wine this year also . Have you ever considered doing a video on what you eat in a day ?
Hi Nicolas- happy new year! I always enjoy your videos. I remember a video from a year to two ago where you recommended some high quality bedsheets. I haven’t been able to find the video- could you remind me what they were? I’m in the process of setting up my new apartment in Chicago.😊
The only thing I love more than my Xmas decor, is putting it all away.
Haha! Same!
Happy new year Nicholas and wishing you all the best for 2024 .❤🎉❤🎉
Okay here I am again commenting about your idea of writing a book. I think it's totally awesome! In fact I think I mentioned you should write a book - a fictional book - a mystery. Maybe your lead character could be a interior designer by trade but ends up being a sleuth when he keeps going to places and trips over bodies and stolen gems and things like. Lol that would be very fun to read. You enjoy Elegance in luxury so that would be a unique backdrop you could use. 😊
Greetings from California. Great video from Edinburgh , Scotland, Mr. Nicolas Fairford. Happy New Year from our channel: Australian Parakeets Stars
I like reading so would really like to read a book written by you n Happy New Year Nicolas ♡
I am liking the natural darker hair color this year--looks so natural and freeing...dts/usa
My Dear Nicolas,
I am 78 years old and I just adore everything you do.
I was thinking regarding your creation of your books to start by writing exactly what you write in your diary.
I think it will be so fascinating to be able to read your writing from what exactly that you do.
Preparing yourself to go out, how you really feel without a drink, just like you have it in your diary.
Sometimes I want to go back to some of your episodes of something I am looking for that you shared with us but I don't remember which one is it.
So one of my goal for 2024 God Willing is to write myself on a book that will be titled "Nicolas Fairford" every single episode.
I will like to start with the highlights of the episode and that will click my mind to remember what that special episode of yours contained.
You have so much love to share with us that I really can't wait for your first "Diary of 2024" to be printed.
Just like it is written by you.
It will mean Nicolas that you are giving us part of you.
When you do go on trips don't forget to take photos and implement them in your "Diary Book 2024"
I just started looking at your new chanel "ELEGANT ASMR with Nicolas Fairford" and I just love it.
❤ Be safe 🙏
nice idea! Thanks for your very kind words
Good idea stay off the alcohol Nicolas. Your body will thank you for it. If you don’t mind me making a suggestion. I notice you still have the drinks tray on the top of the cabinet with all the bottles staring you in the face. Why don’t you put it away inside the cabinet and decorate the cabinet with something else that brings you joy. ❤❤
Feliz año nuevo.
Hi Nic, Happy New Year ! It’s been awhile since I’ve commented . I’m also looking forward to 2024- I unexpectedly lost my fiancé , Michael to cancer in 2023 . My fiancé enjoyed your videos and you both messaged each other on Instagram last year. Looking forward to your content in 2024😊
I am so so sorry to hear about your fiancé - what sad news! Wishing you love and best wishes!
Oh it is so lovely to see you, Nicolas. I hope your Christmas was wonderful. I never make New Year's Resolutions, but I do like to make some loose "suggestions" to myself? lol. I shall try to exercise this year, get my second and hopefully LAST knee replacement surgery, read more and bake more. Once I get my knee working, I hope to walk and bike some. Sadly, I just lost my darling dog recently, and I am going to look at shih tzu in a few days. A wee lad. I also adapt my life to living around my dog, but I have never minded. I have started listening to audio books and find that I adore it. I listen while driving to and from work, so I hope my driving doesn't suffer. lol. It would be lovely to see some videos of traveling with Sophie. Thank you for all that you give us. We appreciate you. 😘
TODAY IS THE TOMORROW YOU WORRIED ABOUT YESTERDAY!
YOU ARE A FINE GENTLEMAN,
KEEP ON KEEPING ON.♧
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR.~~~☆~~~♡
I’m visiting Edinburgh in April. Where is the best place for afternoon tea?
Hello Nicolas from Queensland - love your open heart - you reveal so much of your beautiful soul - you are honest & have integrity which I admire greatly - love all the plans you have for 2024 - but most of all I was so happy when you revealed you had given up alcohol - my family don't drink - we learned many years ago that it does many bad things to the body & ages the body prematurely - you have amazing skin & are very handsome - one does not need alcohol to ruin those qualities - as a family - we go out to dinner occasionally & have so much fun without alcohol - I am so proud of you for the commitment you have made - well done Nicolas!! - lovely to see you back - much love & best wishes for 2024.
Thanks for your kind words!
Happy New Year Nicolas ! Thanks for sharing !
Hi Nicolas! I have been following you since you started and I love your videos! It's good to have goals in life. About traveling or going out more, but you can´t because of Sophie - ask any of your elderly neighbours. Maybe one of them enjoy having Sophie while you travel or go out? I have a senior dog and an elderly retired neighbor has her during the days when I work. Sometimes even when I am travelling out of country. He cannot afford to own a dog of his own. My Juline loves him and he loves her. So it is a win win.
Loved this I'm paying more attention to my artwork ie. Going to Etsy Shop ❤ Happy New Year Nicolas and can't wait for future vids suscribed to ASMR ❤❤
Thank you so much !
Your channel is so relaxing and beautiful. I always look forward to your videos.
So happy to hear that! Thank you!
Your alcohol story is very inspiring! I don't even drink but motivating for any goal! Also, love the idea of asmr channel! Happy new year!
I hope you can meet up with raja you guys would be good and come to the usa.