Dad doesn't know how to operate dish washer while mom’s away [Part 3] | K-DOC

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  • Опубліковано 9 вер 2022
  • Elizabeth from Mexico and Gwanyoung from Korea met when they were both students in Canada. They got married, came to Korea to start a family. They moved to Mexico, but they moved back to Korea a few years later. What happened between those years? Find out now!
    All edits and translations done by Eunjae Lee.
    All rights reserved to KBS.
    이웃집 찰스 [My neighbor Charles]
    [멕시코 엘리사벳] Air Date: 2022.04.19

КОМЕНТАРІ • 109

  • @rimakazoku9243
    @rimakazoku9243 Рік тому +336

    It’s okay Gwanyoung, I don’t know how to use a dishwasher either…cause I AM the dishwasher 😭💀

    • @dadatosu4702
      @dadatosu4702 Рік тому +7

      Same

    • @greekre
      @greekre Рік тому +20

      when i was 14 my mum went to greece with my other siblings for 2 months to visit family and i stayed home with my dad because of school. my dad was a farmer and very masculine man. he cooked cleaned ironed die washing. our house was spotless. over those 2 months i learnt how to run a house. i make a bed like i did army service. yesterday i watched a Japanese man on youtube and he didn’t know how to use a potato peeler

    • @Orc-icide
      @Orc-icide Рік тому

      @@greekre shut up

    • @cindyramos5957
      @cindyramos5957 Рік тому +3

      Having a dishwasher would be a dream come true

    • @RealJudyi
      @RealJudyi Рік тому

      That's where we keep our plastic tubs

  • @lifeofvilla
    @lifeofvilla Рік тому +67

    This is a great family, wish the best for them!

  • @torpedohost
    @torpedohost Рік тому +32

    these kids are angels blessed family

  • @whatever45892
    @whatever45892 Рік тому +110

    in our family even the men do the house work ....they do laundry....cook....mob the floor,sweep,wash dishes and many more.....its my parents rule that we all learn to do things n do chores equally

    • @nataliea8194
      @nataliea8194 Рік тому +3

      Your lucky

    • @sadhamtaro4742
      @sadhamtaro4742 Рік тому +3

      Tell your parents to adopt me

    • @jessicamammoliti8894
      @jessicamammoliti8894 Рік тому +3

      That is how I will raise my son if I ever have one

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Рік тому +11

      Your parents are so great! Meanwhile I fight with my 25 year old brother every evening because he can’t put his dishes in the dishwasher and says it’s MY job as a woman and every time I tell him as an adult he should clean up after himself and I’m not his slave. I hate my misogynistic trash brother and I feel bad for his future wife

    • @sadhamtaro4742
      @sadhamtaro4742 Рік тому +2

      @@udontevenwannaknowbruv SAMEE AND THEY SAY So HE WON'T be GAY LIKE tf HOW IS THAT RELATED TO it

  • @1412Bunny
    @1412Bunny Рік тому +134

    this is too common, i think it's sad when one partner doesn't know how to work cleaning appliances.

    • @stankssmile5865
      @stankssmile5865 Рік тому +5

      Not really, it means the knowledgeable partner is keeping the house so well that the other partner misses their company when they go for a while, ONE OF THE WAYS(please let's not bring sexism patriarchy misandry misogyny in their marriage here) this wife here gets rewarded with an "I miss you" .

    • @dadatosu4702
      @dadatosu4702 Рік тому +11

      I tried to teach my partner the basic stuff, my mother in law said "I'm sorry for u, he was the prince at home" he was good cooking some time but God he left such a mess 🥲 I didn't try to change him but to apport something to help him as, we had to switch turns with our firs kid, I remember leaving him lost of post it around, mostly in our kitchen "here u find sugar, salt, glasses.." 😅😅😅 that day I found a mess everywhere 😅😅

    • @Theoneandonlybish
      @Theoneandonlybish Рік тому +28

      @@stankssmile5865 bruh what?!?!?! Rewarded with I miss you?? Nah you f up fr
      If you dont know basic human skills you arent ready for marriage

    • @1412Bunny
      @1412Bunny Рік тому +19

      @@stankssmile5865 you're the one bringing gender into this. in many relationships it's the husband that doesn't know how to work cleaning appliances, but that's not always the case so i left gender out. both partners should be able to work the cleaning appliances. even if there is one who uses it more. and it's pretty sad if the only way that the "knowledgeable" partner can get appreciation from the other is by their absence. your partner should be appreciative even when the "knowledgeable" partner is there. my husband shouldn't only miss me because he wasn't able to cook or clean up after himself and our children. :/

    • @stankssmile5865
      @stankssmile5865 Рік тому +1

      @@1412Bunny if you want to make the only way a husband missed a wife because he can't do stuff around the house then that's on the wife as well, i was giving a pointer as if life and it's parameter of you value is only how to pinpoint one can't and or cannot use the dishwasher, there are other things in life as well. Other videos of 60 year old wives teaching their aged husband's how to use it exist with a reactionary "aww so cute" or you can react here with a "how can one be inept" i am pretty sure their marriage is intact and if they do have a problem you won't fly across countries to help these two

  • @maharlikaliboon2603
    @maharlikaliboon2603 Рік тому +7

    I knew it. Been there. I left my husband with the kids, they were around 5&6 years old. I came back after 3 hours and he was like holding a belt on his right arm while napping. The kids were asleep too. I wonder what happened. LOL

  • @Theyork1211
    @Theyork1211 Рік тому +3

    This is every man around the world 🌎!

  • @nurshazilarikhan6383
    @nurshazilarikhan6383 Рік тому +23

    he ain't baddd he was finee y'know at least he tried

  • @simpirilee
    @simpirilee Рік тому +3

    Beautiful Family. Love them!!

  • @c10udiii3
    @c10udiii3 Рік тому +76

    the bar for men is all the way in hell lol.

  • @Theyork1211
    @Theyork1211 Рік тому +12

    I am watching from Alberta, Canada , thanks for making me laugh !

  • @ampharos3106
    @ampharos3106 Рік тому +5

    and i am so glad i was raised right and I know how to do housework

  • @mirroruniverse9331
    @mirroruniverse9331 Рік тому +44

    Just proves how you can find cooking husband only in dramas lol
    It's kinda sad

    • @proverbs31university
      @proverbs31university Рік тому +9

      Women also are a majority of kdrama writers therefore they shouldn’t be the trusted source of how Korean man really are since it’s coming from a woman’s fantasy

    • @taelicelisminlizkookhunlic5733
      @taelicelisminlizkookhunlic5733 Рік тому +3

      Jin would say otherwise

    • @stankssmile5865
      @stankssmile5865 Рік тому +3

      K drama serve you a fantasy, no girl even the hot ones get two two guys let alone one

    • @stankssmile5865
      @stankssmile5865 Рік тому +1

      My korean guy friend says they voted an anti feminist president due to gender wars as the political agenda and they detest their own s Korean women a lot let alone marry them, their own parents discourage marriage but not due gender wars but due to work life imbalance and horrid salary perks as compared to previous economy. He says k dramas are just what tv is, fantasy money grabbing ventures.

    • @sunny-wn5do
      @sunny-wn5do Рік тому

      Your intelligence level, which you think all Korean men have the same personality, is amazing. Even Koreans have different personalities. Do you know what aliens they are?

  • @frenchgirl75000
    @frenchgirl75000 Рік тому +10

    Ça prouve que son mari ne l'aide pas du tout dans les tâches ménagères
    Ce genre d'homme non merci

  • @aladyknight1314
    @aladyknight1314 Рік тому +41

    What a joke. He got HER a dishwasher. HA! Like he has no part is taking care of the house, that it falls only on her.

    • @upahtv
      @upahtv Рік тому +17

      At least he notice what she needs at home and he admits that washing dish is hard work . I assume that he is the only one who make money to feed the family.

    • @ajdg6509
      @ajdg6509 Рік тому +8

      U people got double standards. The guy have a job to feed for them, that is his part for them, the wife do the household works, that's her part. If you complain how the guy never do household work then you should also complain how the girl doesn't work to earn money for them, so you would got equality then. They have equal parts, your criticism makes the husband a jerk. Btw I am also a wife, I don't complain my household work to my husband as much as he doesn't complain his corporate job to me.

    • @aladyknight1314
      @aladyknight1314 Рік тому +22

      @@ajdg6509 Wow. I can tell in your response that you and the other commentor has missed the point. HER job is the care taker to the children and he has his job outside. Her job is not to be the maid to the family. House work should be in your words "equal". She has her job and he has his. The home is not the "woman's" job, he reinforces this role that she is responsible for the kids and the house by buying her a dishwasher, like he didn't make 1/2 the mess. When you're a mother, you would feel very different about what is "equal".

    • @Theoneandonlybish
      @Theoneandonlybish Рік тому

      @@ajdg6509 you dumb fr
      She takes care of the kids she aint a maid
      Cleaning should be done by both

    • @stankssmile5865
      @stankssmile5865 Рік тому +5

      @@ajdg6509 i am getting so many women calling me a man coz I support your viewpoint and said that the husband is still doing his part and how tough it is to hold a job which requires minimum 12 hours to make basic salary, these feminist women are vile girl...

  • @angelfrankenfine
    @angelfrankenfine Рік тому +9

    haha. I have to remind my husband that we do indeed have a machine that can wash the dishes, he just has to put it in it instead of the sink. dude can't even find a laundry basket to put his dirty clothes in. even after moving the baskets to where he throws his clothes on the floor. so frustrating!!

  • @dshinc
    @dshinc Рік тому +4

    Dangg I wish my uncle's are like this... I understand my other uncle cause he has work at night meanwhile my other uncle just play with his ipad all day long, then eat and sleep💀 even tho he's older than my uncle who works...

  • @sylvieschmitt-morel864
    @sylvieschmitt-morel864 Рік тому +4

    This family is cute but the husband is acting like my grand father in 1940….my husband and me each have a professional career, one daughter, and we share household chores…( we are French )

  • @Keeks492
    @Keeks492 Рік тому +30

    I can’t believe there are men like this in 2022 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @mercy9458
    @mercy9458 Рік тому

    Daniel is so much like Avatar Aang's grandson Milo 🤣

  • @101life9
    @101life9 Рік тому +52

    Why he does not know how to run a home? Simply because his mother spoiled him rotten. Raising a man does not know how to share the burden in his own family. Whose fault? Woman. Wife now has to train him. Keep up the good work, wife. Make him do often.

    • @jiggzstarr
      @jiggzstarr Рік тому +38

      Don't just blame women for his inability to do housework. Fathers need to educate as well. The problem is that in Korean culture, men are viewed as the breadwinner and woman are expected to support the man in every way. The wife also shouldn't be expected to train him how to be a good dad. He has the ability to learn so he should also teach himself. There are many Korean families that are dealing with this problem, but I believe it's mostly because Korean society is still conservative and hasn't progressed enough yet.

    • @andresmattos7541
      @andresmattos7541 Рік тому

      Feminist b detected here

    • @jiggzstarr
      @jiggzstarr Рік тому +3

      @@andresmattos7541 Misogynistic b detected here

    • @mikuforlife1929
      @mikuforlife1929 Рік тому +8

      You do realize that we live in a patriarchal society. You can be the most feminist mom you can be and do everything right as a mother but you can’t shield your son from all of those influences. And this very mentality is very toxic to have if every problem an adult man has is bc of his mom then when does he take accountability?

    • @user-tl9ji5pd7t
      @user-tl9ji5pd7t Рік тому

      ​@@andresmattos7541 misogynist b detected

  • @lindaknaras8828
    @lindaknaras8828 Рік тому +3

    My gosh it's so funny

  • @ghkdwls
    @ghkdwls 5 місяців тому

    i feel so bad for the mom. there's no reason for one person to do all the work parenting when there's two parents. the standard is clearly very low for men.

  • @raquelmacdonald8572
    @raquelmacdonald8572 Рік тому +23

    This is really embarrassing. 🥴

  • @gordi02
    @gordi02 Рік тому +1

    🤣🤣🤭👍🏼

  • @ArnoldPalmerMaster
    @ArnoldPalmerMaster Рік тому +32

    This guy is the best he actually bought his wife a full sized dishwasher. This guy is a freaking saint. Not only that but he made dinner and did the dishes. GET THIS GUY A THRONE.

    • @celiasantamaria2870
      @celiasantamaria2870 Рік тому +20

      irony?😅

    • @ArnoldPalmerMaster
      @ArnoldPalmerMaster Рік тому +7

      @@h2345f_ yes that they’ve been spoiled by their mother like the majority of men are. He is one of the rare few that try and is a stable father to his children.

    • @franklantic
      @franklantic Рік тому +3

      @@ArnoldPalmerMaster That’s because it’s his obligation to be a good father. Helping his wife from time to time won’t hurt though, will it? I just know moms are the best because they never need to be called a saint for doing their responsibilities and so much more.

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Рік тому +2

      @@h2345f_In their society men aren’t expected to share the housework and I’m glad to see that he didn’t neglect those duties, chose to do it even if he maybe wasn’t taught that way by his parents. There are many lazy fathers who will literally act like a baby and cry that ‘it’s not their job to clean’. And if they do make an effort they will nag ‘how do I do this again?’ To their wife even if she has explained it 10 times before and then the wife becomes irritated and does it herself because the husband does his chore very poorly on purpose so he won’t ever be asked to do it again. Yeah there are plenty of these petty men unfortunately

  • @inezamy9523
    @inezamy9523 Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
    @user-ly8vw3ej3v Рік тому

    Интересно,почему столько инфантилов? Позорник. Такие пусть дальше живут с мамой. Мы,женщины,таких мужчин не достойны😅😅😅. Много лет назад я шла с фитнеса. Иду, думаю-дома еще окна мыть, а я еле живая. Прихожу домой, сын и муж окна помыли,шторы постирали, убрались. Это был отличный подарок.

  • @lizzie404
    @lizzie404 Рік тому

    Wash my name is also Elisabeth!

  • @celianeher7637
    @celianeher7637 Рік тому +17

    What I find most surprising in Koreans household is they seemingly don't all have dishwasher. Such a technology oriented country and a dishwasher does save one energy consumption as well as water. The average dishwasher in Germany with the type AAA+ use at least 7 litres of water and the dishes are clean. I am always screaming silently when I watch videos in which water is being wasted by how instead of having a double sink one with detergent, the other with clear water method is not used to do the dishes 😳. Water is a precious commodity and without it we will die.

    • @salleh5131
      @salleh5131 Рік тому +11

      Most people there live in tiny apartments so there's no space for dishwashers. And in Asia, labor is relatively Cheap, even in Korea, so it's cheaper to pay someone to do it than to buy machines. Educate yourself before trying to make such a condescending statement.

    • @cee_el
      @cee_el Рік тому +10

      Most Asians don’t use one even if it’s there 🤣
      We use it to put dishes in only AFTER they’re clean. It’s a rack for us haha

    • @celianeher7637
      @celianeher7637 Рік тому +2

      @@salleh5131 My statement was not meant to be offensive. It's was not also meant to implied that people are poor and that underdeveloped but that water is being wasted unintentionally. In truth I had not considered the lack of space. And yes I haved been to Asia but not in the continent as a whole and only for holidays. I use to think a dishwasher was a ' surplus ' appliance but after the rising cost of energy and water I know a dishwasher is more efficient. Yes there are homes here that doesn't have any and there are some who have and still do dishes by the hand ( also use as a storage space ). And the word ' seemingly ' has the implications of a question and not a statement. With that said I thank you for your answer and insight. Don't be quick to judge.

    • @celianeher7637
      @celianeher7637 Рік тому +1

      @@cee_el Oh so that was the fancy cabinet with the buttons 😉 . My mother in law does the same. I keep telling her it's cheaper and more environmentally friendly than let liters of water to do dishes.

    • @melzer1377
      @melzer1377 Рік тому +3

      Not just in Korea. This ia common in almost all asian countries. Those things are not cheap and people just find it cleaner to wash by hand.

  • @proverbs31university
    @proverbs31university Рік тому +40

    Before anyone says anything. Korea is still very conservative. Most Korean moms raise their sons to focus on provision and not domestics. It’s not bad that a man may not know his way around a kitchen. Does his wife know how to do this job at work? No, this is because they both have roles that they have AGREED to and it works for them! If you as a woman want a man that not only works but also takes care of the domestics at home that’s you but don’t be upset with this couple for the way they choose to live.

    • @greekre
      @greekre Рік тому +36

      well then they fail their sons

    • @lglglg
      @lglglg Рік тому +25

      @@greekre Indeed they've totally failed most Korean husbands on this show because the majority is completely useless to their wives and kids! They always show these segments of "oh my god dad is babysitting his own kids, will he survive??"...

    • @jellybellyfun3288
      @jellybellyfun3288 Рік тому +1

      Mexico is 1000% worse.

    • @proverbs31university
      @proverbs31university Рік тому +2

      @@greekre I disagree. Their traditional values have worked and because of the men focusing on work and the women staying home the country has made leaps and bounds compared to what it was I’m just 50 years ago. Things are slowly changing but I wouldn’t say that because a man isn’t used to housework he is a failure he is contributing in other ways such as working hard hours to make sure his family has a nice place to live.

    • @stankssmile5865
      @stankssmile5865 Рік тому +3

      Do you know how much money ppl in general make after 12 hour shifts? Not enough to run one household in this economy, please donot disrespect men, they are out in the office fighting their colleagues back stabbing their boss's disinterest in giving them the next promotion, i am a woman in with a full time job and i get how hard it its, housewives think they have to do house chores alone they don't get their husbands are always alone in office with people ready to stamp you to get the next appraisal. If both partners are working then both can try to do chores together but they will always be at a disadvantage of their kids being raised in day care whatever

  • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
    @user-ly8vw3ej3v Рік тому

    Только рукожоп не сможет в Корее приготовить. Там готовые наборы полуфабрикатов есть. Не хочешь их-ютуб в помощь.

  • @CookieEspresso
    @CookieEspresso Рік тому +19

    How is this funny? This is sad, a man- child himself with kids 🙄. Can't even work a dishwasher.... Google it, Jesus...such a turnoff. Your wife is not a house keeper or a mom to you, do your fair share.