It’s Never Too Late to Bring Your Gifts and Experiences to Foster Care with Larry and Tammie May

In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, Brian Mavis and Courtney Williams interview Larry and Tammie May, a couple who adopted a child after their biological children had grown up. The conversation explores their decision to adopt, the challenges they faced, and the importance of being brave and stepping out of the norm. They discuss the partnership between them and how they supported each other throughout the adoption process. The Mays also share their experiences of raising a child from a hard place and how it differed from raising their biological children.
Overall, the episode highlights the importance of considering adoption at any stage of life and the rewards it can bring. Larry and Tammie May share their experience of becoming empty nesters and deciding to open their home to a child in need. They adopted internationally from El Salvador and were unaware of the crisis in the foster care system until they saw the staggering number of children in need. This realization led them to become CASA volunteers, advocating for children in the court system. They encourage others in the retirement stage of life to find ways to make a difference, emphasizing that retirement doesn't mean ceasing to work but rather finding the next adventure. They also highlight the importance of compassion and understanding for both the children and their biological parents in the foster care system. Through their work with Indiana Kids Belong, they raise awareness and engage businesses and faith communities to support children in foster care.
Takeaways
Adoption is a viable option for couples at any stage of life, including empty nesters.
Being brave and stepping out of the norm can lead to fulfilling experiences and making a difference in the lives of children.
Having a strong partnership and supporting each other is crucial when considering adoption.
Raising a child from a hard place can be challenging but also rewarding, and previous parenting experience can provide valuable insights.
Adoption is a journey that requires thought, prayer, and openness to God's guidance. Becoming empty nesters can be an opportunity to open your home to a child in need and make a difference in their life.
Retirement doesn't mean ceasing to work, but rather finding the next adventure and making a meaningful impact.
Compassion and understanding are essential when working with children in the foster care system and their biological parents.
There are various ways to support children in foster care, such as becoming a CASA volunteer or engaging businesses and faith communities to raise awareness and provide resources.
Sound Bites
"Not an empty nester, but an open nester."
"Ask Jesus what he wants, and then be brave."
"That no turns out being just a not yet."
"We were enjoying our comfortable suburban life, happy marriage, rewarding career, three children, and absolutely no idea how many children were living in out-of-home foster care."
"I think the word 'wrecked' is pretty good."
"There is something for everybody, something each person can do in this realm of foster care to really support the system, support the kids, support the families."
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