When You're Dead, But You Still Wanna Throw A Party

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  • @aidanfarnan4683
    @aidanfarnan4683 7 місяців тому +227

    Putting wiskey in your tomb for the gravediggers, and helping out and old flame like that, is just such a class move. 10/10.

  • @banjogyro
    @banjogyro Рік тому +235

    Your channel makes me see life in a way no other channel did. Most channels are about home hobbies, while your channel makes me wanna go outside and find "real life easter eggs" as if it's a videogame.

    • @josephwalden7544
      @josephwalden7544 6 місяців тому +4

      Just found this channel a day or two ago....is it weird that I'm watching as I work out?

  • @wills.9807
    @wills.9807 Рік тому +146

    He was sort of an OG Forrest Gump to her 'Jenny'.
    I've heard people say that 'you're only truly dead when nobody living remembers your name' and I swear I could picture old Gard sitting on top of his monument, pleased that he's not been forgotten as you introduced us to him.
    Great work, man.

  • @theabsolutecat915
    @theabsolutecat915 Рік тому +292

    Holy fuck, that ending. Genuinely gasped. This man's story was cinematic. Absolute chad move from Phineas.

    • @zendyk
      @zendyk 7 місяців тому

      What on earth is a "chad" move?

    • @flatwizards
      @flatwizards 7 місяців тому +4

      @@zendyk you live under a rock.

    • @PopPopPopPop
      @PopPopPopPop 6 місяців тому +2

      @@flatwizards not everyone is terminally online like you are

    • @mmboiler10
      @mmboiler10 6 місяців тому +1

      The first simp more like I mean damn. Litterally married another man and only got back with him after being elderly and homless

    • @zendyk
      @zendyk 6 місяців тому +1

      @@flatwizards , you must be a kid. If you weren't, you wouldn't be so rude and hateful. I'm 64 and I know lots of people over 30. No one I have ever met has used that word for anything but a guy's first name. I actually have a a real life, as opposed to constantly staring at a phone. Young people today have no social skills because they don't interact in person anymore. You could have been classy about it and taught an older lady a new word. Instead, you were mean. It's so much easier to be hateful when you have a screen to hide behind.

  • @CC58
    @CC58 8 місяців тому +95

    At 5:25 Gard returns as a meteorite visible in broad daylight.

    • @aprilmae274
      @aprilmae274 8 місяців тому +6

      Nice!

    • @Mediocre00Rebel
      @Mediocre00Rebel 7 місяців тому +2

      For real!

    • @Davey-Boyd
      @Davey-Boyd 6 місяців тому +2

      Wow!

    • @KingAaron8
      @KingAaron8 6 місяців тому +6

      I was going to comment this same point!!!! Gard's energy came to do another interview

    • @musicmotor1
      @musicmotor1 Місяць тому

      When you said "He was resigned to live by himself", I think he took umbrage with that as he was reunited with his lost love for a year before she died.

  • @BennilocoLoves
    @BennilocoLoves 7 місяців тому +38

    I noticed "Gards" beard difference right away! Boy! What a character! I like to think he and I would have been friends! ☺️

  • @alaskalove1071
    @alaskalove1071 Рік тому +53

    Didn't realize I'd be crying by the end of this video but here we are. Wonderful story, thank you for sharing this.

  • @wilburross9709
    @wilburross9709 7 місяців тому +34

    Well, he had his oddities, but he sounds more like what we would call a 'righteous dude' than a 'damned dude.'

    • @zacharywolter
      @zacharywolter 6 місяців тому

      Oh, he's very popular Ed. The sportos, the motorheads, geeks, sluts, bloods, wastoids, dweebies, dickheads - they all adore him. They think he's a righteous dude.

  • @AbominableFoMan
    @AbominableFoMan Рік тому +55

    Remember friends, Dude used to be an insult. Dude was shortened from Doodle, you know a "Yankee Doodle Dandy".

    • @cardinalhamneggs5253
      @cardinalhamneggs5253 6 місяців тому +3

      But then the Twelfth Doctor got bored and introduced it several centuries early in Medieval England.

  • @crazyguy_1233
    @crazyguy_1233 7 місяців тому +19

    Phineas had one wild life. He was definitely the type of guy anybody could get along with from the story you told us.

  • @Menocchio1
    @Menocchio1 Рік тому +19

    What a wonderful story. I love hearing the strange and forgotten tales about the places where I live. Sarah Gage is buried in the cemetery where generations of my ancestors are interred.

  • @georgewendle7467
    @georgewendle7467 7 місяців тому +9

    This bloke sounded absolutely awesome. One of these people you'd have loved to have met.

  • @kevinfoster1138
    @kevinfoster1138 7 місяців тому +17

    Thank you for telling these stories majority of people are forgot and it's cool to hear stories before they become forgotten

  • @imnotavk
    @imnotavk Рік тому +46

    Your story telling is immaculate, great video

  • @BulbminGaming
    @BulbminGaming 5 місяців тому +3

    Phineas Is such a chad. paying for his old lover's grave, putting whisky and cigars in his tomb for the gravediggers, man, i could go on and on about this dude

  • @WingedHussar__
    @WingedHussar__ Рік тому +25

    Amazing storytelling as always, the ending made me so happy for Phineas. Thanks for keeping these stories alive.

  • @chelspyarumno9385
    @chelspyarumno9385 Рік тому +13

    I grew up in south central MA, on the MA CT line, have spent most of my life in Worcester and Windham Counties and have always been a fan of history; so seeing coverage of my stomping grounds is always a treat. I had no idea this memorial existed, much less the story behind it! Just like how I knew nothing about the Bosworth monument, Douglass monument, God's Ten Acres, or Israel Putnam. Your storytelling ability, choice of subject, and comprehensive research have me hooked every time. Living in a region so steeped in history it's always been my normal and after a while I went blind to it to an extent but every upload of yours inspires me to go out and see just what stories I can dig up if I just keep my eyes and mind open. Great work as always!

    • @Kbfan43
      @Kbfan43 6 місяців тому

      Grizzly Adam’s is buried not far from there In charlton

  • @ellejefe6380
    @ellejefe6380 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m new to your videos, but I really enjoy the way you always make your subjects human and real; not just some long-forgotten characters in folk tales. The emotion when talking to Sarah… THIS is why I love them!! I am so going to enjoy all the rest of your back catalogue. Thanks for being awesome! Sending love from the UK x

  • @randomations11
    @randomations11 Місяць тому +1

    The more I watch your vids, the more I'm captivated by your unending curiosity and propensity for respect. It makes me glad knowing there are guys like you out there, wandering around cemeteries, chatting with the dead.

  • @DrBusiness9
    @DrBusiness9 6 місяців тому +4

    The way he edits his headstones over time is crazy!! The world really has not changed that much! This is basically a super longform non digital social media scandal, I mean the way people wrote to him just because they felt they had to, to get their belief to him, is very much the same reason people comment dumb shit online to this day.

  • @hhhhhhiiiiiii13
    @hhhhhhiiiiiii13 Рік тому +7

    this is the coolest headstone ever. i started just walking around a bunch of old cemeteries because of you, there's something cool about just looking at the headstones even if I don't know anything about the people buried there. but when i watch your videos with stories about these people its 100x better. BRING BACK CEMETERY SCOUT

  • @Corey_Lee_Slater
    @Corey_Lee_Slater 7 місяців тому +6

    "I know a Guy"... -Actually, I'm an old friend of a Master Carver. Thanks for sharing, I'm gonna show him this FIRST chance I get, as it's relevant to him and his Wife. Long, cool story. Thanks again, this made my freakin' day, as 'Family Day' is tomorrow, and I have none left except the few friends I've made over the years.

  • @azuradawn5683
    @azuradawn5683 Рік тому +12

    This was so beautifully told! You seriously deserve so much more recognition - I hope your channel continues to grow!

  • @karenroot450
    @karenroot450 6 місяців тому +3

    This is a fantastic story. The love he felt for Sarah endured til the end. I love that Gard buried the liquor and cigars what a sense of humor he had. I love his headstone. He just had to set it right to get into Heaven. Great content. Thanks

  • @dustyrelic25
    @dustyrelic25 7 місяців тому +8

    Wow. Just discovered your channel. You're an amazing storyteller.

  • @kendn01
    @kendn01 7 місяців тому +8

    Beautiful story.

  • @Skorea77
    @Skorea77 6 місяців тому +3

    I am so glad I found your channel. I legit am one of those people who would go to a cemetery and look at names, dates, and think up stories when I was a child. I love seeing real stories as an adult. Thank you for sharing these!

  • @Gryphonisle
    @Gryphonisle 7 місяців тому +17

    According to the clip on the screen, Sarah and Gard lived together for 7 years. Utterly fascinating telling of this story!
    He shoulda bought Sarah a zinker!

  • @LodRunby999
    @LodRunby999 7 місяців тому +6

    I'm not crying, you're crying.
    Really good video!

  • @Noah-pc6wq
    @Noah-pc6wq Рік тому +6

    Your channel deserves all the subscribers. Consistent quality

  • @amilan409
    @amilan409 6 місяців тому +1

    Aww, I'm moved to tears ... I'm so happy for the second stone and end story. God bless them both !

  • @Carrie-eh1xn
    @Carrie-eh1xn 7 днів тому +1

    I love this channel! You are truly amazing!! You make these people and places come alive with your humor and heart and it really shows. I'm not great with words but I wanted to let you know that you are appreciated.

  • @aprilmae274
    @aprilmae274 8 місяців тому +4

    This is one of the best stories I have ever had the pleasure of enjoying. Thank you.

  • @jon8193
    @jon8193 7 місяців тому +3

    What’s funny is I was just watching a doc on a monument to some old dead mean ruler. His name was something or another, “Buttholierthanthou The Great”! At least that’s what he most likely should have been named. Then I stumble on the monument of Garb. He sounded like the coolest guy that actually lived by keeping it real… As is a term used to loosely but not here! This is the most beautiful story. Thank you so much for sharing this. It really made my day.

  • @JohnDoeno.12
    @JohnDoeno.12 4 місяці тому +1

    Truly love your storytelling abilities. I became so invested in this guys story. Great job!

  • @nicolebacon8155
    @nicolebacon8155 Рік тому +4

    oh my gosh what a guy! i love the way you tell these stories and the respect you have for the people in them!

  • @travelmatte
    @travelmatte Рік тому +6

    Another masterfully told and uplifting story. This is just such a great channel.

  • @fazzinaw11
    @fazzinaw11 9 місяців тому +5

    I grew up in this part of CT, so its so nice to see people telling these stories

  • @RheaStorm
    @RheaStorm Рік тому +7

    Another wonderful video with a touching end, thanks for all you do!

  • @abandoninplace2751
    @abandoninplace2751 Рік тому +7

    Thanks for another fantastic story, told only as you can, in your inimitable style.

  • @jsrsd
    @jsrsd 8 місяців тому +7

    literally the crying i did at the end dude holy shit

  • @monkcheetah8203
    @monkcheetah8203 Рік тому +8

    True love never dies only grows stronger great story my friend! 🐆🐆🐆🐆🐆🐆🐆🐆

  • @CeruleanTalon1
    @CeruleanTalon1 3 місяці тому

    You are an amazing storyteller. You bring what would be forgotten back to life and make it fascinating. Thank you!

  • @Dwumper
    @Dwumper Рік тому +6

    How on earth do you find these amazing stories? So many of these start out interesting or funny, but then have a great twist somewhere. How many dead ends do you start researching? Must be half a dozen at least for every one of these amazing ones.

  • @garm352
    @garm352 8 місяців тому +11

    I vibe with this man on an intense and deep spiritual level.

    • @User0000000000000004
      @User0000000000000004 7 місяців тому +1

      You what? Like with a dildo? That's not something you share with the public!

  • @kay-vo6cs
    @kay-vo6cs 8 місяців тому +4

    This is such a precious story. I lived every bit of it! ❤

  • @DANIELYATESY8ZY
    @DANIELYATESY8ZY 5 місяців тому

    What a great story of a great man.
    You deserve high praise too, I highly appreciate the way your conduct yourself both physically and verbally on your videos. The way you relayed the story gave it the respect it deserved.
    Too many channels nowadays throw in unnecessary details as though they are recalling events first hand. I don't know if it's to add to the word count or drama or maybe it's just a sign of me getting older lol but I'm not a fan.

  • @Goparis1
    @Goparis1 2 місяці тому +1

    You're a wonderful storyteller! Thank you for sharing your findings with us. :-)

  • @saltee7
    @saltee7 5 місяців тому

    This is such a beautiful story. I live nearby and I think I will come visit their resting places one day to pay homage to their wonderful stories. Thank you for sharing the stories of these people.❤

  • @markpinther9296
    @markpinther9296 6 місяців тому +1

    Wow, what a great story! Thank you so much for telling the stories of people who have long been forgotten.

  • @cejones1701
    @cejones1701 7 місяців тому +3

    love this story! Recently found your channel and it's very interesting. thanks!

  • @colt2356
    @colt2356 Рік тому +4

    Great video, there's something about small town histories, days past, that really gives a feeling that can probably only be described by a niche german word

  • @stapleboss
    @stapleboss Рік тому +4

    You should have 10-100X the subscribers you do. Stick with it, you are really good at this.

  • @SearTrip
    @SearTrip 7 місяців тому +6

    “Tryin’ to convince him of their way of thinkin’ “. The definition of religion. All about trying to control others.

    • @eekee6034
      @eekee6034 5 місяців тому

      Also the definition of a whole lot of people who claim to be scientists. I've given up watching science videos because you can't have a rational discussion about the very clear and real problems in the world without being drowned out by people who say those problems aren't real because they've heard explanations which claimed to be scientific.

  • @jacobclemons8859
    @jacobclemons8859 6 місяців тому +1

    the part about Sarah makes me think back to my own greatgrand mother who got to, just months before they both passed get to reconnect with her old flame from her youth, her boyfriend of 5 years and love of her life before he chose to try for the grand old opry over staying at the mill in Shelby NC and keeping a real job as she stated, Earl Scruggs.

  • @humanbeing-_-_-
    @humanbeing-_-_- Рік тому +6

    Gosh I love your stories!!!

  • @paulinelarson465
    @paulinelarson465 7 місяців тому +4

    No living person KNOWS where they are going ! They haven't been "judged" yet ! !

  • @robertbowers9856
    @robertbowers9856 7 місяців тому +2

    I would like to be able to read those newspaper articles you found in their complete form.

  • @josephcronin2965
    @josephcronin2965 6 місяців тому +2

    Its kind of weird that Phinneas Wright bought the headstone for Sarah Gage, knowing about that story from the same era, about Phinneas Gage, the man who got a rod blasted through his head after an explosion (he was a mine surveyer) and lived.

  • @thomaswakula8092
    @thomaswakula8092 7 місяців тому +1

    I have always been interested in why someone had a large headstone. So, like you, I would try to find a story. In many cases I was successful. One in particular was the owner of the Ithaca Gun Company in Ithaca, NY, buried in a cemetery where I once was a board member. I just happened to be there one day when family members came to pay respects so we talked for quite a while. Later on, they sent me family photos and stories about this man.

  • @teresanovotny2876
    @teresanovotny2876 2 місяці тому

    I think the crazy cemetery ones are my favorite. I love exploring a good cemetery. Great story

  • @quirkygreece
    @quirkygreece 7 місяців тому +2

    Nice story - warmed my heart this chilly morning.

  • @hollyklink1534
    @hollyklink1534 Рік тому +3

    this is such a great story thank you for making these !!

  • @Davey-Boyd
    @Davey-Boyd 6 місяців тому +1

    What a beautiful story. Thank you.

  • @hephaestus1708
    @hephaestus1708 7 місяців тому +1

    So after more than 100 years we know where Phineas went... straight into our hearts!

  • @anthonyhayes1267
    @anthonyhayes1267 4 місяці тому

    That symbol on Sarah's headstone is on another one I know well. It's a grave I kind of "adopted" and bring flowers to. For me, that makes the story just that bit more of a heartstring tugger.

  • @Kyle_Spivis
    @Kyle_Spivis Рік тому +6

    Another great and entertaining video Spivis!

  • @BriSouth
    @BriSouth 7 місяців тому +1

    You tell a great story, always very captivating! I appreciate all the time you must spend on the research. I also really like your video format. Thank you and keep it up!

  • @swoosh4644
    @swoosh4644 7 місяців тому +2

    Just came across your channel and really enjoyed it. Great story. Also what happened to journalism?! Not only are they liars now and horrible at writing. The journalists back then really knew how to tell a true entertaining story

  • @survivingthetimes
    @survivingthetimes 7 місяців тому +4

    The prettiest girl in town somehow ended up on the streets while going through the gates of her golden years. Never say "never".

  • @Winston_Y
    @Winston_Y 3 місяці тому

    That's touching. Thanks for the good narrating.

  • @garryferrington811
    @garryferrington811 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm late to the party, but just couldn't resist saying that Mr. Wright must have had a good heart.

  • @kenbrown5449
    @kenbrown5449 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow. Such a great story. Thank you for sharing it.

  • @deliberateguywithahouse3351
    @deliberateguywithahouse3351 6 місяців тому

    Holy shit I've never seen someone's life just get so interesting 😭 they gotta make a movie out of this

  • @HoraceTheCat
    @HoraceTheCat 6 місяців тому

    I'm not crying about Sarah and Phineas' story! My allergies are bad and it's dusty here! 😢

  • @breakingmichigan
    @breakingmichigan 6 місяців тому

    i love old stories like this. in a time where "fame" only came from the paper and people just did things because they felt it was right

  • @chiaracelli
    @chiaracelli 7 місяців тому +2

    He wasn’t alone. He is a distant relative of mine and there were a lot of Wrights.. I have a huge family tree and records to prove everyone and their spots in the tree.

    • @chiaracelli
      @chiaracelli 7 місяців тому +1

      My 5th great grandfather (Ebenezer Wright) and his father Phineas were brothers.

  • @wabash1581
    @wabash1581 6 місяців тому

    Just found your videos. Great job making these! Also having fun annoying my friends with all the new Americana information I am getting.

  • @theantichrist4267
    @theantichrist4267 7 місяців тому +2

    At 5 minutes 30 seconds a white object flew over the head of the stone . I re-watched the video a couple times the wind wasn’t blowing the grass never moved nor did the leaves on the trees move . Yet something that looked like a large white birds feather flew over the head and didn’t emerge on the other side of the monument

    • @Davey-Boyd
      @Davey-Boyd 6 місяців тому +1

      Looked like a meteorite

  • @lawrenceflynn2447
    @lawrenceflynn2447 7 місяців тому +1

    Awesome channel…..your an excellent narrator with detailed research that makes each episode captivating ❤

  • @MandieKearns-Moore
    @MandieKearns-Moore 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm donating my body to science because my husband won't let me donate it to art but if I were to ever be buried I would definitely want the most hysterically memorable ever. Not historically mine you.

    • @ayylien3070
      @ayylien3070 2 місяці тому

      What kind of horrific "art" can they make from human remains?

  • @GTLakeMate
    @GTLakeMate 6 місяців тому

    I just stumbled into your channel, and I can’t get enough of it.
    You do an awesome job presenting the subject matter, which makes it very enjoyable and entertaining.
    Keep up with the awesome videos

  • @caseyzahn3226
    @caseyzahn3226 7 місяців тому +2

    What a beautiful story! 💕

  • @natediesel9201
    @natediesel9201 7 місяців тому +1

    Yeah ok, now I’m a UA-cam cemetery guy. Always been a cemetery guy but now I’m a gosh darn rootin’ tootin’ UA-cam cemetery guy

  • @elegantlightstudio2223
    @elegantlightstudio2223 7 місяців тому +2

    What a beautiful and yet sad story. They may have had a wonderful life together if “life” hadn’t gotten in the way.

  • @zacharycrosswait1704
    @zacharycrosswait1704 16 днів тому

    As a New England kid who loves weird history I’m so happy I came across this channel , you’re giving me ideas of things to do when I’m bored with a day off !!! Thank you mfr!

  • @justingroff4586
    @justingroff4586 Рік тому +5

    Dude, your videos rock. Flat out.

  • @Wickedsalem7
    @Wickedsalem7 5 місяців тому +1

    Ummm I’m watching this from Fitzwilliam NH the town Phineas was born in. Also my family is from the Putnam CT area, my great grandma was even born there 🤯😳 when I clicked this video I had no idea either town was involved in this video.

  • @Wapitimodels
    @Wapitimodels 7 місяців тому +2

    At time stamp 5:29 you caught a UFO on video! Flies over the headstone while your saying heartbroken.... check it out. 😮

  • @noahpaulette1490
    @noahpaulette1490 7 місяців тому +5

    Honestly as weird as he was he seems like a plesent individual.

  • @hereticpariah6_66
    @hereticpariah6_66 7 місяців тому +1

    The word is: *_poignant._* Sad and Beautiful at the same time.

  • @SearTrip
    @SearTrip 7 місяців тому +3

    Well, I hope the people at his funeral enjoyed themselves, but I also hope they left Gard a cigar and a bottle for the long trip.

  • @josephwalden7544
    @josephwalden7544 6 місяців тому

    Just found this channel a day or two ago....is it weird that I'm watching as I work out?

  • @iebarnett51
    @iebarnett51 Рік тому +4

    You made me feel :-(
    Another great vid man!

  • @beaudryc123
    @beaudryc123 6 місяців тому +1

    Man I legit cried at the end 🥲

  • @Azeria
    @Azeria 7 місяців тому +1

    I love this channel.

  • @williambabbitt7602
    @williambabbitt7602 7 місяців тому

    The very sweet, ending to a wonderful story.

  • @cheshiremadness868
    @cheshiremadness868 6 місяців тому

    5:23 Play a little forward from here. I can’t tell if that was edited out or edited in, but I swear there was a ball of light.

  • @monsieur3523
    @monsieur3523 6 місяців тому +1

    That ending made me instantly cry, it’s such a happy ending

  • @cassandra5752
    @cassandra5752 4 місяці тому +1

    The algorithum knew what it was doing when it suggested your videos