Old Psychiatric Interview with Hermaphrodite, Lizzie, from Mississippi

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  • The discussion is largely focused on the patient's early life and how it affected their behaviour and current feelings. To day, the term hermaphrodite is still used in biology but not in medicine - intersex is preferred. click CC if you want the transcription. Please let me know if you can make out the missing parts, as the deep southern accent is difficult to understand. (The majority of this video was translated with the help of an American southerner)

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  • @dbx1233
    @dbx1233 3 роки тому +2767

    At 9:49 "The voice spoke to me and said you got as much right to be in this world as anybody else." That is a very powerful statement.

  • @randymcadoo8977
    @randymcadoo8977 Рік тому +1635

    She was raised in a loving household, it's easy to see by her personality, good people

    • @radioog6945
      @radioog6945 Рік тому +33

      He’s clearly a guy at this point

    • @moosehead1183
      @moosehead1183 Рік тому +13

      @@radioog6945 that's what I saw in this film..a guy.

    • @ohgawd
      @ohgawd Рік тому +13

      ​@@moosehead1183 good for you.

    • @ohgawd
      @ohgawd Рік тому +10

      ​@@radioog6945 according to who??

    • @radioog6945
      @radioog6945 Рік тому +12

      @@ohgawd he said he goes by male because he looks male now

  • @nickigary665
    @nickigary665 Рік тому +623

    I'm from Louisiana, I understood "every" word, especially when Lizzy said she has every right to be here as much as anyone else. Heartfelt words from a brave person.

    • @raynepatterson5531
      @raynepatterson5531 10 місяців тому +2

      Same

    • @knowledgewisdomandgrowthch8291
      @knowledgewisdomandgrowthch8291 10 місяців тому

      Same

    • @NeonCicada
      @NeonCicada 10 місяців тому +5

      Honestly, I wasn't even certain what language they were speaking and had to put on English subtitles just to follow along _...and I still got no bloody clue as to what they've said_ 😄lol

    • @MegF142857
      @MegF142857 10 місяців тому +3

      I can understand them.

    • @Jess-ep8qd
      @Jess-ep8qd 10 місяців тому +4

      Not from Louisiana but i understood every word!!! ❤❤❤ bless the heart of this person im glad they found jesus.

  • @attheranch873
    @attheranch873 Рік тому +365

    She’s such a likable person. I was thinking the doctor was going to be terrible because of the times, but he wasn’t at all. I’m glad he was so non-judge mental.

    • @Chad-Giga.
      @Chad-Giga. 10 місяців тому +5

      Psychology is only judgemental when it comes to diagnosis

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 10 місяців тому +9

      His voice alone is judgmental
      , he def sitting there judging

    • @rabidpepe
      @rabidpepe 10 місяців тому +20

      ​@@pallana3701He is not! He never spoke down to Lizzie, he never treated Lizzie less than.

    • @gurlwhowants2dj
      @gurlwhowants2dj 9 місяців тому +7

      ​​@@rabidpepehe probably called her a savage in his writings. Doctors were still racists back then. Sure he still saw less of her. Some doctors are the same in 2023

    • @rabidpepe
      @rabidpepe 9 місяців тому +4

      @@gurlwhowants2dj He did not seem at all like that.

  • @SusanSez1
    @SusanSez1 3 роки тому +1443

    How hard it must have been for her. How lonely. Yet, still a gentle person.

    • @rafreyes1190
      @rafreyes1190 2 роки тому +22

      💯 she's adorable

    • @jomama5186
      @jomama5186 Рік тому +27

      Yes, very sweet, articulate person. It couldn't have been easy. 🧡🙏

    • @Nous520
      @Nous520 Рік тому +42

      Gentle people are mostly gentle not in spite of their hardship but because of it.

    • @vickilawrence7207
      @vickilawrence7207 Рік тому +41

      Absolutely it just goes to show u that we never know who will b born w a soulful loving spirit capable of love, compassion, & teaching the rest of us a thing or 2!

    • @Earthbound369
      @Earthbound369 Рік тому +40

      Sometimes it doesn't matter your background. A kind soul is a kind soul regardless.

  • @debbie4938
    @debbie4938 Рік тому +2118

    I had a black Hermaphrodite patient in 1984. She was suffering from cancer and dementia. She was very sweet, but it broke my heart that she spent her life as a side show in the circus life. She was in a Ward with 8 patients in a Nashville hospital as they had no insurance. We had to keep an eye on her as she would throw the sheets back exposing her genitalia when visitors would come, shouting” come on over and take a look”. Poor soul had done that her entire life to get by. She had both, but the penis was very small. She answered to she. She was a virgin and never married. She was absolutely precious. I’ll never forget her. So heartbreaking that she never received medical help for her condition.

    • @davidadams2395
      @davidadams2395 Рік тому +260

      I took care of a white hermaphrodite in '98. She lived in a state care facility, and she faced hermaphrodism, blindness, and severe elephantitis. Her many leg and foot ulcers suppurated constantly. She, too, had once been a freak show act. It was tragic.

    • @ctruthlyfe4452
      @ctruthlyfe4452 Рік тому +138

      My heart aches for her soul. May she be at peace now

    • @claudiajones356
      @claudiajones356 Рік тому +77

      That touched my heart I too have worked in state hospitals with people with many disadvantages

    • @user-um2uf9zq4c
      @user-um2uf9zq4c Рік тому +18

      @@davidadams2395 Elephantiasis. -itis is a suffix that means inflammation (of). So Elephantitis would be inflammation of the elephant.
      Amazing.
      I don't think it's that bad though.
      CSA is bad, people pointing and laughing is just education on the nature of man.

    • @idkyou370
      @idkyou370 Рік тому +60

      ​@@davidadams2395 but God don't make mistakes they say so how ? N kids born heads together body together conjoined twins it's obvious we been lied too

  • @brianmorris1410
    @brianmorris1410 11 місяців тому +218

    I’m glad Lizzy was raised with unconditional love. What a beautiful soul. The world need more people like Lizzy

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 9 місяців тому

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

    • @nuthinnobody3357
      @nuthinnobody3357 7 місяців тому

      Surely this world does.🥹

  • @ChristysChannelYall
    @ChristysChannelYall Рік тому +74

    I loved listening to Lizzie talk. I am 50 and originally from Southern Mississippi and I miss hearing people talk like this. She sounds like my grandma.

  • @musicsansnotes
    @musicsansnotes Рік тому +595

    She was a survivor. She wasn't aware of her own intelligence. She knew how to handle herself very well. Never attracting any attention or causing problems for herself. She would have been nice to know. ❤

    • @fernanditaluiz2591
      @fernanditaluiz2591 Рік тому +25

      So true, the no nonsense, no drama kind..

    • @traciejadaobrien2489
      @traciejadaobrien2489 Рік тому +16

      It was safer for US to be “ stealth “ and quiet , it was also the current practice for US to deny our past

    • @shaylabrabham1334
      @shaylabrabham1334 Рік тому +20

      It’s funny what was known as common knowledge and respect os now considered intelligent. Glad I was raised by my grandparents, people today just don’t have common sense.

    • @kafka27
      @kafka27 9 місяців тому +2

      He's a surviver indeed...

    • @starrlara2599
      @starrlara2599 9 місяців тому

      I think so too. My heart 💜 really goes out to her.

  • @MaryQueenOfDots
    @MaryQueenOfDots 2 роки тому +1800

    I absolutely love Lizzy and her wonderful father. He called her love because for him, that’s all she represented. Love. ❤️

    • @radioog6945
      @radioog6945 Рік тому +11

      Omg

    • @moppy6
      @moppy6 Рік тому +16

      Lizzy is adorable

    • @ohgawd
      @ohgawd Рік тому +52

      So intense. I spent my childhood thinking I was a boy in a girl's body. I was better at sports than the boys who won all the state championships in every sport. Growing up in the 60's, there was nobody to talk to about these things. We just kept it to ourselves - wondering what the hell went wrong that god made me wrong. This poor dear soul. My heart goes out to beloved Lizzie. ❤

    • @finallythere100
      @finallythere100 Рік тому +32

      Nice doc too, nice dialogue.

    • @eveali3177
      @eveali3177 Рік тому

      You’re still a woman just because you like something other genders like doesn’t mean you’re in the wrong body

  • @josieclaridge4798
    @josieclaridge4798 Рік тому +462

    I am so impressed by the psychiatrists manner. Not patronising just so even and just lovely to listen to. She/he obviously feels at ease with him

    • @44LillPuffin
      @44LillPuffin Рік тому +23

      He probably had met and spoken to a lot of intersex people and wasn't fazed at all. Apparently, it's not as rare as we would think

    • @ellorainward6545
      @ellorainward6545 Рік тому

      @@44LillPuffin very true. Intersex people make up 2% of the world’s population. It’s the same as red heads

    • @esotericenigmamelaninshe1253
      @esotericenigmamelaninshe1253 11 місяців тому +1

      They have low vibrating energy

    • @sararivz668
      @sararivz668 11 місяців тому +21

      Professionals being polite and respectful shouldn’t be an anomaly tbh

    • @ericrivera8410
      @ericrivera8410 11 місяців тому +4

      @@44LillPuffin one percent of the population

  • @reneegosda6851
    @reneegosda6851 11 місяців тому +116

    My Grandmother had a Hermaphrodite friend when I was growing up. While she presented herself as a woman she was masculine in many ways. She always seemed so sad with her life. As a child I easily accepted her because she was a genuinely sweet person.

    • @tiffanyshanley1419
      @tiffanyshanley1419 9 місяців тому +6

      It's too bad more people aren't like you. My mom always said "treat people the way you want to be treated" and that stuck with me my whole life and I'm almost 50.

    • @exposeevil5492
      @exposeevil5492 9 місяців тому

      Hermaphrodites come from incest

    • @onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044
      @onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 9 місяців тому +2

      Your grandma’s friend was going to be a fraternal twin but they became stuck someway

    • @onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044
      @onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 9 місяців тому +3

      My maternal grandma was a fraternal twin with a male

    • @exposeevil5492
      @exposeevil5492 9 місяців тому +2

      @@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 no incest is cause

  • @StrawberryFields4ever65
    @StrawberryFields4ever65 3 роки тому +2478

    When Lizzie said God told them, "You got as much right to be here as the next", my heart melted. So precious ❤️

    • @YAHsWay
      @YAHsWay Рік тому +17

      The eunuch of the womb.

    • @grahamscott1547
      @grahamscott1547 Рік тому +9

    • @tkraftable
      @tkraftable Рік тому +29

      It was their mind telling her that. Their brain wanted to stay alive. I'm glad they found comfort in thinking there was a magical being walking through life with them considering how alone they were.

    • @geofractal
      @geofractal Рік тому +77

      ​@@tkraftablewow, you must know everything about everything.

    • @vickilawrence7207
      @vickilawrence7207 Рік тому +12

      Ikr?😢

  • @Emsie76
    @Emsie76 Рік тому +1996

    “Religion and joining a church are completely different “ Lizzie is spitting truths there. God bless you Lizzie. 🙏🏼

    • @breestackss
      @breestackss Рік тому +47

      That's a very sweet and caring person right there. Doesn't even matter whether they're a boy, girl or both.

    • @johnlennox-pe2nq
      @johnlennox-pe2nq Рік тому

      you dont have to attend a church to be 'born again' [or be religious] Some folks are bed-bound; John t/Baptist lived in the wilderness/desert

    • @williammartinez840
      @williammartinez840 Рік тому +32

      Lizzie is telling the truth.

    • @jf8138
      @jf8138 Рік тому

      no they aren't. This is ignorant bull shit made up by somebody looking for a justification for their psychotic religious thinking. ANY religion is just as trash as any church. Saying your own spirituality is different than a garbage church developed personality (which IS what you are saying) makes you ridiculous.

    • @thisisme3238
      @thisisme3238 Рік тому +19

      Glad Lizzie found God. 🙏

  • @LocksTalksCookingWithDG
    @LocksTalksCookingWithDG Рік тому +142

    Wow, can’t read or write but can carry a conversation beautifully, & even if you could not understand everything Lizzie said you sure felt it…. May Lizzie rest peacefully ❤

    • @weebunny
      @weebunny Рік тому +18

      A lot of people couldn't read or write in those days. It had nothing at all to do with intelligence, but rather a lack of opportunity to get an education.

    • @Ari-jm6xx
      @Ari-jm6xx 7 місяців тому

      I understood everything

  • @Netbe277
    @Netbe277 Рік тому +129

    Just came across this. Shout out the interviewer. He’s really good at letting Lizzie speak and very sympathetic. Lot of talk show Hostesses can learn a lot from this man. Rest well Lizzie 🙏🏾

    • @artsygirlify
      @artsygirlify Рік тому

      This was during the time of Jim Crow and blatant racism . Lizzie was nothing but a case study and nothing more.

    • @kmsleyang8972
      @kmsleyang8972 Рік тому +5

      Well he was a psychiatrist so…

    • @Lorianne5190
      @Lorianne5190 Рік тому

      ​@@kmsleyang8972 ...so it's especially surprising.

    • @nikitawashington9328
      @nikitawashington9328 11 місяців тому +2

      He is an excellent interviewer. God bless him. He is kind and comforting.

  • @amybugg001
    @amybugg001 Рік тому +718

    Lizzy's family was very loving and accepting, the Father promised to care for her as long as he was alive. Beautiful story ❤️

    • @annehersey9895
      @annehersey9895 Рік тому +37

      I also liked when the Dr. asked if she was teased and stuff when she was little and she said no. That's wonderful. Either she didn't realize she was being teased or since it was such a small country schoolhouse, they were just too tight knit. But how sad that she's illiterate and didn't at least get an education.

    • @MrMenefrego1
      @MrMenefrego1 Рік тому +14

      Her father was a much better man than mine; he threw me out when I was just a boy.

    • @margueritendi7033
      @margueritendi7033 Рік тому +9

      ​@@MrMenefrego1 ❤❤❤😢🙏

    • @b.j.7837
      @b.j.7837 11 місяців тому +7

      @Mr Menefrego1
      I’m so sorry you had to go through that. 😢 I can’t imagine how painful that must’ve been.

    • @foxylee58
      @foxylee58 10 місяців тому

      @@annehersey9895, she dressed and looked like a girl. No one knew her secret!

  • @mindyutz1176
    @mindyutz1176 Рік тому +1645

    My oldest was born intersex. It says male on his birth certificate. That is how he identifies. He is now 30 years old. I am extremely proud of him.

    • @thornyturtleranch6152
      @thornyturtleranch6152 Рік тому +44

      How Is it for him? Has he found a love relationship or does he tend to be alone like lizzy here in the interview. Is it hard for your son? Or does he just accept life as far as you know?

    • @mindyutz1176
      @mindyutz1176 Рік тому +194

      @@thornyturtleranch6152 He has no interest in sexual/romantic relationships, but he also has autism...so that is more likely why. He prefers to have friends, but has expressed finding both sexes as beautiful and handsome.

    • @stephaniemarie4303
      @stephaniemarie4303 Рік тому +108

      @@mindyutz1176 My husband is autistic and asexual. There seems to be a connection there.

    • @mindyutz1176
      @mindyutz1176 Рік тому +139

      I will never know why he was born intersex, but I did once read a study about how it was more prevalent among nurses, pharmacists, etc. due to handling many meds. I worked in a pharmacy. I handled lots of meds during the first half of my pregnancy. I will always wonder if that is why.

    • @littleredwitch
      @littleredwitch Рік тому +126

      @@mindyutz1176 Someone told me one day that the large amount of intersex children these days in comparison to when we were young (1940s to 1950s) was due to all the hormones that were injected to the animals in those days. In turn we consumed the meat.
      I don’t know if this argument has any value but it is worth considering.

  • @jeanieirwin4747
    @jeanieirwin4747 11 місяців тому +47

    50 years ago this condition often went untreated. This was especially so when patients lived in rural areas where there were few doctors and home births were attended by midwives only. It's amazing how well Lizzy developed coping skills and survived.

    • @_Ridethemaverick
      @_Ridethemaverick 10 місяців тому +8

      What exactly is the proposed treatment? It is not our job to choose for a person that may have been born with both genitals.

    • @porshialyde
      @porshialyde 10 місяців тому +1

      @@_Ridethemaverickfacts

    • @ellanina801
      @ellanina801 10 місяців тому

      @@_Ridethemaverickthank you!

    • @MissSpaz
      @MissSpaz 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@_Ridethemaverick precisely

    • @MissSpaz
      @MissSpaz 10 місяців тому +3

      Love, there is no treatment. This is how they were born, this is how they were meant to be.

  • @11Christys11
    @11Christys11 11 місяців тому +24

    “I spent most of my life alone. If I went somewhere I was alone” That broke my heart

  • @chasjetty8729
    @chasjetty8729 Рік тому +283

    Lizzie plowing a round for her Dad when he went up to the house is one of the sweetest things. God bless.

  • @anlazary6280
    @anlazary6280 Рік тому +546

    How can’t you not feel love when you hear this beautiful human being tells the life story? Being called Love defined this person very well. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @TheOhMyGoddess
    @TheOhMyGoddess Рік тому +361

    As an intersex person myself, Lizzy story is very touching. ♥

    • @USATheFallen
      @USATheFallen Рік тому +4

      Lol lol

    • @USATheFallen
      @USATheFallen 11 місяців тому +1

      @@TheOhMyGoddess i see here we are lol makes sense.

    • @kelak316
      @kelak316 11 місяців тому +37

      My heart goes out to you so many times biologically intersex people voices are not heard enough. I pray for any biologically intersex person to get all the love and understanding from those around them. ❤

    • @TheOhMyGoddess
      @TheOhMyGoddess 11 місяців тому +8

      @@kelak316 ❤️

    • @JHL751
      @JHL751 11 місяців тому +1

      Intersex is a genetic abnormality, you can still only fit in the category of male or female

  • @jantutor8881
    @jantutor8881 Рік тому +74

    Lizzie's father's love is everything!

  • @lindaw9389
    @lindaw9389 Рік тому +348

    It's nice to see the friendly attitude and understanding of the interviewer. He treated Lizzy with respect.

    • @karenk2409
      @karenk2409 Рік тому +23

      They're talking "Old School Southern." Personal, personable, and polite.

    • @8rr725
      @8rr725 Рік тому +5

      He's a doctor

    • @Abril-1234
      @Abril-1234 9 місяців тому

      @@8rr725if you think being a doctor makes someone automatically respectful and understanding I’m sorry but you’re sadly mistaken

    • @nikkijack911
      @nikkijack911 8 місяців тому

      ​@@8rr725lol, even nowadays being a dr definitely does not mean speaking to everyone with respect. Granted it'd be professional, but definitely isn't a prerequisite to be a Dr.

    • @lessconfused5179
      @lessconfused5179 6 місяців тому

      I suspect he’s a Racist White Supremacist. They can be nice when it calls for it.

  • @doodlenoodle8670
    @doodlenoodle8670 3 роки тому +476

    I wanna go back in time to hug and help these people

    • @TuberoseKisser
      @TuberoseKisser 3 роки тому +58

      you could hug those going through the same thing today.

    • @esther7325
      @esther7325 3 роки тому +5

      @@TuberoseKisser factsss

    • @clarelwc2849
      @clarelwc2849 3 роки тому +2

      My heart breaks for him

    • @oscarmeneurubio3330
      @oscarmeneurubio3330 3 роки тому +6

      @@TuberoseKisser exactly.... in 2100 we will see videos about transgender coming back to their original sex

    • @lilcay4016
      @lilcay4016 3 роки тому +10

      @@oscarmeneurubio3330 they already have those videos.

  • @Beloved2404
    @Beloved2404 Рік тому +68

    I really enjoyed watching this interview, which appeared more like a friendly conversation. It appears she was raised in a loving household that was filled with acceptance. Her daddy telling her he would take care of her as long as he lived 🥺💕

  • @homoerotic85
    @homoerotic85 Рік тому +63

    You can just tell she has lived a hard life. She deserved much more, especially considering what a kind person she is.

  • @missesvee8760
    @missesvee8760 Рік тому +625

    My heart goes out to her. What an amazing person. If we could turn back time...rest in peace Lizzy. ❤

    • @beed5923
      @beed5923 Рік тому +15

      A beautiful soul❤ Amen.

    • @ninagall7500
      @ninagall7500 Рік тому +17

      When Lizzy mentioned when they were young and Dad would have to leave the field to run back to the house, she would take over the plow to make a few passes before Dad returned, I felt my tear ducts moisten up. We all have the capacity to to good and bad things, yet she just wanted to take some of the strain off her beloved pops.
      My heart breaks for the things Lizzy DIDNT talk about. I cant imagine what dark times she may have gone thru. Alone.
      When doc asked if she could read or write, and she answered "no," I sure wish doc would have followed up with "Lizzy, would you like help to learn?"

  • @beccadis2823
    @beccadis2823 Рік тому +356

    This is a person who was born different from the norm and accepted life and went on with it props to her.

    • @Itsjustmyopinionduh
      @Itsjustmyopinionduh Рік тому +3

      Excellent synopsis

    • @melissawilliams6324
      @melissawilliams6324 11 місяців тому +10

      And never tried to push false narratives to try and convince anyone to do anything they are not comfortable with

    • @h.r613
      @h.r613 11 місяців тому +5

      @@melissawilliams6324what do you mean by that? what false narratives do you think someone like lizzie would push?

    • @tammyshaftner
      @tammyshaftner 9 місяців тому

      ​@h.r613 all predators push the gay agenda...only 2 genders...

    • @brankobelfranin8815
      @brankobelfranin8815 9 місяців тому +1

      @@h.r613 Melissa is a religious far right supporter

  • @jonathankemp6135
    @jonathankemp6135 Рік тому +153

    I am a native Mississippian living in Arizona now. I can help translate most of the missing parts.
    3:15 - The last town she refers to is “West Carrollton”
    4:35 - She began the sentence by saying “Well there was another one…”
    4:53 - She was just stuttering through her words. Didn’t really say anything until she gathered the thought.
    4:59 - She said “That’s when I come in there fooling with another one.”
    5:10 - “…while she come to be here, head on. Think good.”
    6:15 - I couldn’t quite catch that one.
    6:30 - “Well that why the call me ‘Love’”
    8:36 - “And that’s for me to make you an answer…”
    11:00 - “I’ll tell you, what woke up things…”
    11:07 - “…so many more…they told me to come back…and you know,so many make…” (she’s basically just stuttering again trying to get the thought out)
    11:45 - “Tung Oil Truck”. Tung trees used to be a popular thing to grow in early 20th century Mississippi. The oil is used for coating/protecting wood. Also used in some electronics. Hasn’t been a big crop in Mississippi since probably the 60s or so.
    12:00 - “I know that…I say that wouldn’t do…”
    12:00 - “cutting paper wood”
    12:35 - “I could look and tell a difference, but I didn’t make no difference out of it.” (The word “difference” is used in two different contexts within the same sentence here. “I didn’t make a difference” in that area is a saying something akin to “I didn’t care” or “It wasn’t a big deal to me”).
    Some of the grammar and words she is using is very regional and it still may not make sense to you. You have to grow up hearing a lot of the way she uses words being used in other conversations by other people before it will make sense. It may sound like nonsense to people who didn’t grow up hearing it.
    Hope this helped some people get a little more context.

    • @littlecatfeet9064
      @littlecatfeet9064 Рік тому +2

      Thank you 🙏🏼 from Australia.

    • @chandlee3968
      @chandlee3968 Рік тому +11

      12:23 “cutting paper wood”. In Mississippi there are two types of harvested trees, pine for construction and what she calls “paper wood” or otherwise called pulp wood. Pulp wood is used in the manufacture of paper products and was hauled on smaller trucks and is/was an industry of poor people. Pulp wood haulers we’re renown for their strength and calling someone a “pulpwood hauler” usually meant a brawny muscled person in southern speak. In pine forest harvesting they use mainly machinery while there is a lot of manual labor with block and tackle and brute strength in pulpwood hauling.

    • @maryjflanagan1922
      @maryjflanagan1922 Рік тому +2

      Thanks very much!!

    • @vivvpprof
      @vivvpprof Рік тому +5

      ↑ protect this person at all costs

    • @boggy7665
      @boggy7665 Рік тому +4

      3:15 She starts by reciting the smaller, nearer places & ends in bigger, far away places; I think it's "Wisconsin", not West Carrollton. I'm a Wisconsinite & have had exposure to folks who've grown up down south; that's about how they say 'Wisconsin'. Recall 'The Great Migration' was still a current phenomenon at the time.

  • @loriannbendit6296
    @loriannbendit6296 Рік тому +312

    I grew up with a person who was both . Like Lizzy, a girl when young but when puberty hit she became he . Chris was his name . Thank God they let him go thru what his body would go through before doing anything. They moved to a neighboring town when he went from she to he and only those friends like us knew . This type of person are the only ones who legit have a trans issue. He was a great friend . He has passed away from cancer . I miss him ,😪

    • @hitirussantosa7116
      @hitirussantosa7116 Рік тому +29

      how do you measure what is legit?

    • @loriannbendit6296
      @loriannbendit6296 Рік тому +70

      @@hitirussantosa7116 legit not made up in his head but from his body .

    • @mtmc823
      @mtmc823 Рік тому +3

      @@hitirussantosa7116 Sane or Sanctimonious

    • @edwinamendelssohn5129
      @edwinamendelssohn5129 Рік тому +8

      They aren't both. They are still male of female they just have ambiguous phenotype.

    • @aaliyahshadai
      @aaliyahshadai Рік тому +1

      Did he have a uterus

  • @sunmist22
    @sunmist22 3 роки тому +558

    This is the second time I have watched this video and when I think of the courage it must have taken to live like this and not understand your own body or why you were made this way? When she said she almost took her own life, thank GOD for the voice of Christ telling her, she had as much right to live as everyone else! She had a respect for people, life and family. Stating, when girls spent the night, and they slept in her room and bed with her, she always turned over or avoided anything that would cause trouble or confusion. Bless

    • @StrawberryFields4ever65
      @StrawberryFields4ever65 3 роки тому +42

      Such a sweet soul. Lizzie seems so gentle and precious. The world could use more people with these qualities today.

    • @lindabishop7656
      @lindabishop7656 Рік тому +49

      50 yrs ago, I worked at Eastern State Psychiatric Hospital. In Knoxville Tennessee. For several years I worked on a ward that had a person who had both sexual organs (male and female).She was raised female and that's how she presented herself. The God that I know does not make mistakes. During the last 15 years, I had a beautiful white kitty ,with ice blue eyes. He/she had testicals and a vagina. Renee was the sweetest and most gentle loving soul. I miss him/her so much. God does NOT make mistakes.

    • @Earthbound369
      @Earthbound369 Рік тому +34

      There are some beautiful souls born "special" like this.
      Maybe they're here to teach us how to open our hearts to the God
      in everyone.

    • @lindabishop7656
      @lindabishop7656 Рік тому +20

      @Ship‘s Kat 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 God doesn't make mistakes. These ppl have always been among us. Even animals. Modern science has been able to help with hormone therapy. I feel that the individual need to become an adult then decide for themselves if they want to choose one gender over the other. You would be surprised at the huge number of such folks who live amongst us..even family members. Many don't know that they are, female but have testicles that have not decended..for example..Please go and research the subject to get more information...Another thing is we all start out female and when males start to develop is when things can go a different way. Retardation, deformities, etc. usually happen during this time.

    • @SunshinesART
      @SunshinesART Рік тому +39

      @@ShipsKat They live until they know who they are. I taught a child who had both sexual genitalia and the parents chose the surgery for to be a girl. She gets to me in 3rd and it was so obvious that she should have been a male. She cried at recess every day bc the older teachers would not let her play ball. Her mom made her wear all pink every day, w bows, and she still had boy features. It hurt my heart.

  • @stevesorensen1063
    @stevesorensen1063 Рік тому +207

    What a beautiful human being. Her father must of been a wonderful man. I hope Lizzie found peace. ❤

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 9 місяців тому

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @nataliebierman3067
    @nataliebierman3067 Рік тому +19

    She’s a beautiful, precious person. How hard it must hv been growing up w/ no medical , psychological care, yet at least was brought up in a loving, & caring home.

  • @caramelcosmo71147
    @caramelcosmo71147 Рік тому +27

    The LOVE that his father had for him was pure and unconditional 🥹 what a great man he was ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jehouse61
    @jehouse61 Рік тому +443

    Oh my God, their accents, especially Lizzie's, take me right back to my Georgia childhood in the early 60s. They are just lovely.

    • @keithdenton1043
      @keithdenton1043 Рік тому +13

      My great grandparents and grandparents were farming for their keep ! You know what that means ?

    • @DonnaChelle1
      @DonnaChelle1 Рік тому +34

      It says in the description that the deep southern accent is hard to understand and that an American Southerner was used to help translate this video. I understood it just fine, of course I live in Mississippi, born and raised, maybe I could get a job as a translator. 😊

    • @jehouse61
      @jehouse61 Рік тому +2

      @@keithdenton1043 Yes.

    • @laurielovett8849
      @laurielovett8849 Рік тому +22

      @@DonnaChelle1 I too understand every word. I'm from Dublin Ireland and the only accent I can't decipher at all is the Dublin accent strange. I feel so sorry for people who have problems with sexual identity,like Lizzie nobody asks for it, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy,people should try to be more understanding. We are what we are, can't help it

    • @marlak4203
      @marlak4203 Рік тому +6

      wish you were next to me to translate what Lizzie is saying. I am picking up pieces but those southern way of saying some things (i.e. "i take the notion") i am getting lost. Lol.

  • @lindaj171
    @lindaj171 Рік тому +265

    What a lonely life Lizzy must have had. I have also heard mysterious messages like Lizzy did that were very timely and important in my life. "You got as much right in this world as anybody else" is so true and so beautiful. We are all being watched over.

    • @adolphcarter283
      @adolphcarter283 Рік тому +2

      That was a heartbreaking

    • @riana1568
      @riana1568 Рік тому +4

      Her message wasn’t quite mysterious- she seemed to know it was Jesus❤

    • @nmjt86
      @nmjt86 11 місяців тому +1

      The mysterious voice was The Holy Spirit aka Jesus Christ The Living God aka God Almighty 😊
      I too have heard His voice. When you repent and turn your life to Jesus you get to experience a lot more than his voice 😊

  • @amisstew3
    @amisstew3 Рік тому +24

    This is so heartwarming…she found her peace and love in her way. The doc is very kind and asks good questions.

  • @pebblesthecat3625
    @pebblesthecat3625 Рік тому +14

    It was so sad to hear Lizzy say that she spent her life alone. Everyone deserves someone to love them.

  • @katella
    @katella Рік тому +480

    I spent 20 years in the American South. Her gentle way of speaking was so pleasant to hear again. I'd have liked to hear more.

    • @chemagic01
      @chemagic01 Рік тому +33

      I felt the same way. I found the rhythm and cadence of her voice soothing. Reminds me of spending time with my grandparents in the 60’s

    • @katella
      @katella Рік тому

      @NEKOLE’S PERSPECTIVE I have many fond memories of black people in the South. Warmth and humour and a shared humanity. The white people struck me as rigid, with phoney friendliness, and racism was always just under the surface when not right smack in your face. I hope the imbalance is not so great now.

    • @fiona4228
      @fiona4228 Рік тому +10

      So touching. Bless your soul, Lizzie. ❤

    • @VelveteenRabbit77
      @VelveteenRabbit77 Рік тому +19

      So nice to say that! Greetings from The South.

    • @renataostertag6051
      @renataostertag6051 Рік тому +15

      @NekoleSaidSo I love the southern accent very much.

  • @ollvebranch
    @ollvebranch Рік тому +282

    How can you not love Lizzy? She doesn’t see herself as a victim. She sees herself as, Loved❤ So do I.

    • @chilltarts
      @chilltarts Рік тому +19

      Exactly :) she wasn’t a victim at all, she was a loving, intersex human being who grew up in a confusing situation, but still chose to spread kindness, love, and thoughtfulness every where she went. What more could we ever aspire to ‘be’ or do?

    • @So_Cato
      @So_Cato Рік тому +3

      Not sure why you all keep calling Lizzy a she...Lizzy had not chosen a gender. And clearly appears male.

    • @graceg4996
      @graceg4996 Рік тому +1

      @@So_Cato she has breasts she presents as female hence why everyone called her she and lizzy. She grew up wearing dresses as well.

    • @earthwormjxm
      @earthwormjxm Рік тому +3

      But she is though whether she sees herself like that or not

    • @vmat6684
      @vmat6684 Рік тому +2

      @Anthill2308
      How have you come to calling her a she when the person had both male and female genitalia and said they didn't know if they were she or he.

  • @paisleyprincess7996
    @paisleyprincess7996 Рік тому +13

    Lizzy was a very intelligent person. People will judge someone on how they talk, but how one speaks means little to their intelligence..The Dr. Was so respectful to Lizzy, and shows her the respect as one deserves

  • @teressacooks7928
    @teressacooks7928 Рік тому +15

    So heartbreaking😢 I'm glad our Father talked to her. He doesn't say much to his children but when he does... TRUST ME it's loud and clear!! And we believe him🥰

  • @RosieWilliamOlivia
    @RosieWilliamOlivia Рік тому +591

    The Dr made this like a casual conversation. I really enjoyed the way they both interacted. I would like to see more of them both. This is a good lesson on how to listen and how to talk.

    • @campbell1446
      @campbell1446 Рік тому +61

      Yes. He's so respectful of her situation. Love the deep Southern accents they both have as well.

    • @ourblazingworld
      @ourblazingworld Рік тому +50

      I was shocked he knew what the mourning bench was, that spoke volumes about him taking time to understand our culture. Doctors today should take a lesson from him. I left a therapist because she didn't understand anything about my culture, and I could tell she wasn't interested in learning. How you going to treat all people if you're not willing to learn how they live, their traditions and practices. He seems like one of the good ones on this interview.

    • @Rayofsun69
      @Rayofsun69 Рік тому +13

      If only people today would just do the same thing with transgender people too. Just sit and talk to them…get to know them before passing judgement ya know? It’s sad to me that some people out there just don’t want to take the time out of their lives to educate themselves a little bit more. People are so confused about this topic or scared of it. Just ask questions then. Open up a dialogue. Allow learning and teaching to happen. I feel it would help so much more and stop some of the hate that’s going around. When this happens the other person becomes more HUMAN to the other than anything else. Idk maybe I’m just a dreamer. 🤷❤

    • @wubuck79
      @wubuck79 Рік тому +16

      @@ourblazingworld I won’t presume to know where you’re from, but as a white man from Mississippi I’m not surprised he knew such things. Even during the worst times of bad race relations, the races interacted a great deal with each other if for no other reason than they didn’t have any choice because there are so many of both races living here. Even during segregation they were around each other almost every day.

    • @ruthsherman2507
      @ruthsherman2507 Рік тому +19

      I was surprised by the flawless communication. And the doctor behaved like a man as opposed to a professional.

  • @carlydubbya7620
    @carlydubbya7620 Рік тому +61

    I'm so glad Lizzie heard God whisper that they have as much right as anybody else, and it gave them comfort

  • @tylynn256
    @tylynn256 9 місяців тому +7

    What I love about this interview was that there was nothing off limits for the doctor to ask or say. She answered all his questions matter of fact. She wasn't offended by anything and that's the wonderful thing.

  • @msmiraclesmom
    @msmiraclesmom Рік тому +22

    I’m in Mississippi and this was so interesting. I remember my late grandmother talking about hermaphroditism about someone she grew up with. I was so fascinated by it.

  • @jaiyabyrd4177
    @jaiyabyrd4177 Рік тому +494

    Thank you for posting this phenomenal medical session.
    May Lizzie Rest in Eternal Peace 🕊️🙏🏾🕊️🙏🏾

    • @nancysilverman495
      @nancysilverman495 Рік тому +10

      Yes. Amen.

    • @neorevenge2720
      @neorevenge2720 Рік тому +7

      Amen❤

    • @conniejohnson3029
      @conniejohnson3029 Рік тому +8

      Me too! Thank you for posting this. It reflects on you too. Thank you for caring to share with us. Amen and see you there.🙏💌

    • @denellebarbaro8117
      @denellebarbaro8117 Рік тому +5

      😊

    • @ErikP-ch4yz
      @ErikP-ch4yz Рік тому +3

      I wonder if anyone know around what year was this taken and what year did she die

  • @2packs4sure
    @2packs4sure Рік тому +144

    Back in the day before the Internet out in the country if someone didn't want you to know ANYTHING it was so easy..
    Total innocence

    • @freddytw206
      @freddytw206 Рік тому +7

      No, not total innocence. But privacy, yes. Lots of privacy if you wanted it. Today, monitoring our every move has become a near reality. Jesus is coming!! Look Up and get yourself ready.

    • @mojoman2001
      @mojoman2001 Рік тому +5

      ​@Freddy TW -- People have said that for 2,000 years. Was supposed to happen 2,000 years ago, and many, many times since then, and still hasn't.

    • @jimbayler4277
      @jimbayler4277 Рік тому +4

      @@martinfieldhouse5220 : Looking backwards solves nothing. But you can use yesterday to guide you in fixing today.

    • @carolinem1800
      @carolinem1800 Рік тому

      Very true, there are things that shock me everyday on internet and i go offline like as if it would help. And you can't unsee those things. It messes with my mind.

    • @2packs4sure
      @2packs4sure Рік тому

      @@carolinem1800 Yeah,, it's not a healthy place

  • @terreshaanthony4537
    @terreshaanthony4537 Рік тому +30

    This video gives me insight into some of the reasons people may be older and isolated without partners or children. As a social worker that has worked with many older women this knowledge could be helpful in being supportive.

  • @SriKeshava
    @SriKeshava 11 місяців тому +11

    What a sweet humble kind soul Lizzy is, and their Dad too for understanding to whatever degree. That’s love.

  • @bellagrace9812
    @bellagrace9812 Рік тому +140

    Had I met Lizzy and after knowing her a while she told me her circumstances I would still think she is a wonderfully pleasant person and a joy to be around. Such a sweet natural spirit.

    • @tomaram6938
      @tomaram6938 11 місяців тому +1

      How lucky you were to have met her! Do you know where Lizet is buried?

  • @CcsquirrleyCcsquirrley
    @CcsquirrleyCcsquirrley Рік тому +268

    the beautiful message is that lizzie knew the lord made her just the way she is ❤️

    • @lyndseyfifield
      @lyndseyfifield Рік тому +20

      I wish that was the message we still gave children

    • @CcsquirrleyCcsquirrley
      @CcsquirrleyCcsquirrley Рік тому +8

      @@lyndseyfifield me too. praying for it everyday

    • @GooglePlusPages
      @GooglePlusPages Рік тому +8

      The good Lord made gay people and trans people that way too...no mistakes there. No more different than being born right or left handed.
      We're the ones to screw it up.

    • @mtmc823
      @mtmc823 Рік тому +18

      @@GooglePlusPages Gay or Trans is not a Birth Anomalie, it is a mental thought or preference not a physical issue. Please don't confuse the two, ITS COMPARING APPLES AND ORANGES

    • @victorianmelody46
      @victorianmelody46 Рік тому

      @@mtmc823 We know people who view sexual orientation as a product of biological factors (such as hormones or genetics) are more likely to support sexual minorities and their civil rights, compared to those who view it as a product of social factors or individual choice.
      There is substantial evidence of the "The fraternal birth order effect." Results show clear evidence of a fraternal birth order effect on homosexuality. Specifically, men with one older brother are 12% more likely to enter a same-sex union than men with one older sister, and 21% more likely than men with just one younger brother or sister. The birth order and total number of siblings matter too.
      This effect has been attributed to a mother’s immune reaction to proteins produced by a male fetus. The proteins enter the mother’s bloodstream and trigger the production of antibodies that influence the sexual development of subsequent children.

  • @Noname-qr1it
    @Noname-qr1it Рік тому +14

    You’re so right Lizzie… YOU DO HAVE JUST AS MUCH RIGHT TO BE IN THIS WORLD‼️❤️✋🏾🙏🏽👏🏾
    Beautiful soul you are

  • @ourblazingworld
    @ourblazingworld Рік тому +35

    The missing word is learn, "the rest of them didn't want to learn" when Lizzie is talking about plowing. I'm glad Lizzie's family had love for them, especially their father. I think Lizzie had a hard life, but it was better than it would have been if they weren't surrounded by so much love from their family. That is a lesson for some folks today.

  • @daphnethurlow5388
    @daphnethurlow5388 Рік тому +64

    She was a Human Being..enough said..God rest your soul Lizzie

  • @maloriewhitworth8102
    @maloriewhitworth8102 2 роки тому +106

    I'm from Mississippi, still live here, this is such a normal way to talk/hear others talk.

    • @Tena714
      @Tena714 Рік тому +4

      Yep

    • @alciao3441
      @alciao3441 Рік тому +3

      Nyaleans

    • @theonlyladybella44480
      @theonlyladybella44480 Рік тому +3

      I grew up in Mississippi. I live in Georgia now. I get so happy when I find someone from Mississippi. Hey girl hey 👋

    • @Khaleesi_Jack
      @Khaleesi_Jack Рік тому +3

      I live in Florida, and even tho there’s a few words here and there I don’t pick up on, but this sounds comforting. We don’t talk with much an accent here, apart from the handful of definitive words, but the accents here are so comforting.

    • @saral.zavala4634
      @saral.zavala4634 Рік тому +2

      Born and raised... love how they put question marks on some of Lizzie's part of the dialogue, like it's completely unintelligible, but we understand every word 😂

  • @irock101402
    @irock101402 Рік тому +50

    I love listening to Lizzy talk. The accent, the tone, the rhythm and inflection are so comforting and pleasant to listen to. I want to listen to Lizzy read stories, specifically older southern stories. They are such a pleasant person personality wise as well. Very calm and relaxing. I know it's been mentioned multiple times already but Lizzy stating that God told them they had as much right to live as anyone else is such a beautiful statement and so incredibly true. It makes me a little sad that they are under psychiatric care since it seems the only reason is their physical genetics and not any issue with their mind. Actually Lizzy seems quite confident and comfortable and accepting of themself. There doesn't seem to be any mental health issue, although one interview really isn't enough to make a definite judgment call on their mental state. Based on their statements though, they seem pretty grounded and stable. I understand that this time period, being a hermaphrodite might be tied in with mental health issues, and I'm glad we have a better understanding now of those born intersex. I hope Lizzy got the best that life had to offer them and I hope Lizzy found peace no matter where they ended up.

    • @evierice2230
      @evierice2230 Рік тому

      1 Corinthians 15:1-4! Salvation is as easy as Believing!!! Jesus came, died, was buried and rose again on the 3rd day for you!!!! He loved you so much that He died for you!!

    • @cedricwade926
      @cedricwade926 Рік тому

      Jus needs bounce ball captioning

    • @shenanigans3710
      @shenanigans3710 6 місяців тому

      I'm not American so I find the way they speak hard to understand but so beautiful. Very soft and musical.

  • @chrisdooley1184
    @chrisdooley1184 Рік тому +18

    I really enjoy this doctor. He always treats those he interviews with dignity and kindness. It’s just like they are having a casual conversation. She’s so gentle and matter of fact. A very intelligent interview this was I’m lucky to have seen it

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 9 місяців тому

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @alicialyons3356
    @alicialyons3356 Рік тому +94

    I adore Lizzy,she is truly genuine. I am so happy she heard the voice of our Lord tell her that she has just as much right as anyone else to be living on earth.He loves all his children,Lizzy included.

  • @MaiaPalazzo
    @MaiaPalazzo 3 роки тому +128

    "You got as much right in this world as anybody else".

    • @StrawberryFields4ever65
      @StrawberryFields4ever65 3 роки тому +9

      Beautiful...and OH SO TRUE!

    • @MaiaPalazzo
      @MaiaPalazzo 3 роки тому +4

      @@StrawberryFields4ever65 Definitely! It really resonated with me, and I'm sure with a lot of people here...
      A good wknd to you!

    • @omalone1169
      @omalone1169 2 роки тому

      @@StrawberryFields4ever65 the world owes you a living

  • @freenchrist2935
    @freenchrist2935 11 місяців тому +11

    This video had to have been filmed sometime in the late 1950's or 1960's; as color television was prominent in the late 60's and 70's. Lizzie looks to be in her 50's; meaning she had to have been born around 1920 something or even earlier depending on her age in this video. It was very hard times during the 1930's as most likely she lived out the great depression years. Since she greatly helped her family in the field; I doubt very seriously if her being inter sex was ever an issue. The fact is; she helped her family during hard, gruesome times; and when everyone else left home, she remained. Her dad really appreciated her presence and her help throughout the years.

    • @freenchrist2935
      @freenchrist2935 11 місяців тому +1

      I also feel had she been in today's society, she would live as a man.

    • @jackierowe9195
      @jackierowe9195 11 місяців тому

      Poor lizzy .

  • @CarleneIsAnOvercomer
    @CarleneIsAnOvercomer 11 місяців тому +11

    This is so touching. Melts my heart. What a beautiful soul. Hope her descendants know what a special person she was.

  • @tanyastamant
    @tanyastamant Рік тому +138

    I really appreciate the way this doctor treated Lizzy. He was kind and she needed that. I can't imagine how hard life must have been for Lizzie and those like Lizzy. I pray for them all. So glad she got to know Jesus. I hope she lived a long happy, healthy life after this. Sounds like she had a wonderful father. My father wouldn't have known how to treat me if that had happened to me.

    • @rosegoodling33
      @rosegoodling33 Рік тому +1

      😅

    • @Jacqueline_Thijsen
      @Jacqueline_Thijsen Рік тому +13

      That doctor was awesome. If every doctor in any field could treat their patients with the same level of empathy, the recovery rate for any affliction would be so much higher and even those patients that couldn't be cured would feel supported.

    • @TexasNinjaReturns
      @TexasNinjaReturns Рік тому +7

      ​@@rosegoodling33 Why the hell are you laughing?

    • @artsygirlify
      @artsygirlify Рік тому +5

      Kind??? He sounds very aggressive and degrading. That was during the time of intense racism and Jim Crow

    • @artsygirlify
      @artsygirlify Рік тому

      @@TexasNinjaReturns becuz any black person today can see he is racist. Lizzie is a case study to him nothing more. This was during the time of jim crow and blatant racism against blacks.

  • @maryelizabethstanley6122
    @maryelizabethstanley6122 Рік тому +57

    I wish people had this much understanding in their hearts and minds these days that these two had way back then.....I haven't heard two educated people have such a meaningful conversation as this in years.

    • @victorianmelody46
      @victorianmelody46 Рік тому +8

      It's because politics has wormed it's way into every nook and cranny of culture. People can no longer agree to disagree without hostility.😥

    • @EagleArrow
      @EagleArrow 11 місяців тому +1

      They seem to both be baptists.

  • @jamesstroud1302
    @jamesstroud1302 Рік тому +12

    I usually don't comment much, but I have to say that Lizzy sure seemed to be a very kind hearted precious soul. I could honestly say that I could sit and listen to her talk for hours and hours on end if i had the chance. Rest in peace Lizzy.

  • @Natureboy207
    @Natureboy207 Рік тому +30

    Lizzie is an easy person to talk to, with amazing captivating stories. I could listen to more interviews with her.
    RIP!

  • @PYC000
    @PYC000 Рік тому +24

    This is sad to hear her and yet she was accepting of how God made her. Bless her and may she forever rest in the loving arms of our Lord. 🙏

  • @tyshred9251
    @tyshred9251 3 роки тому +108

    This is extremely sad. I hope this person found some sort of peace. What a hard life to live, and I only heard the tiniest part.

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 2 роки тому +7

      How can you say sad? The person clearly stated that they did have peace.

    • @tyshred9251
      @tyshred9251 2 роки тому +5

      @@ASmith-jn7kf you should listen again maybe lol

    • @kf1000
      @kf1000 Рік тому +1

      The story seems very happy to me.

    • @nancysilverman495
      @nancysilverman495 Рік тому +3

      Had you listened to the whole video you would have seen the Beauty and Grace in Lizzy. She IS Love.

  • @Dolly_junkie
    @Dolly_junkie 11 місяців тому +13

    Lizzie is an amazing, inspirational human. And the interviewer is caring and attentive in his questions as well. Very respective of the story being told.

  • @carolynmerritt7100
    @carolynmerritt7100 Рік тому +1

    Seems to be a very kind person. That's the kind of people I want in my life, kind- hearted

  • @authorlydiagreen1862
    @authorlydiagreen1862 Рік тому +72

    Such a kind hearted human being. I am glad the Dr was nice to Lizzie.

    • @mariannemarek6683
      @mariannemarek6683 Рік тому +10

      This is the way all people should be.treated with respect and understanding.

    • @authorlydiagreen1862
      @authorlydiagreen1862 11 місяців тому +3

      @@mariannemarek6683 🙌 yes

  • @kiciacoldspring1621
    @kiciacoldspring1621 Рік тому +17

    Her father 💓💓💓 what compassion in a time of much ignorance @13:33

  • @ericwieboldt7042
    @ericwieboldt7042 Рік тому +11

    So glad to see lizzie treated with respect and compassion by the dr. They are usually so cold in these old interviews.

  • @deborahvanwijk1052
    @deborahvanwijk1052 Рік тому +7

    Such a challenging life, but such a beautiful soul!!! Lessons to be learnt here. Just want to give this dear person a huge hug.

  • @deneeburnshobbs
    @deneeburnshobbs 2 роки тому +34

    Such a sweet sweet human... Wish things had been easier back then.... Bless Lizzy

    • @MsMollah
      @MsMollah Рік тому +7

      She seems to have just felt awkward and alone, but not persecuted or bullied.

    • @Deploracle
      @Deploracle Рік тому +1

      @@MsMollah Oohh ... that won't be a popular comment these days. I agree but the masses will not.

  • @darcyrosewilson
    @darcyrosewilson Рік тому +77

    Thank you to whomever posted this absolutely amazing medical session. May Lizzy be with their family resting in peace 🕊️❤

  • @ursulatee
    @ursulatee 11 місяців тому +4

    Wish this could be brought into the media and educate our generation.

  • @rolandahines
    @rolandahines 11 місяців тому +6

    What an incredible human being! Rest in Peace, Lizzy!

  • @cindyspikes8670
    @cindyspikes8670 Рік тому +62

    So many wise words coming from Lizzie. This has really touched me.

  • @clarelwc2849
    @clarelwc2849 3 роки тому +49

    What a beautiful eloquent soul

  • @mizzury54
    @mizzury54 10 місяців тому +5

    I wish more people would watch interviews like this and try to have compassion instead of hate for these folks. It was heartbreaking to hear of the loneliness and isolation along with never learning to read or write with only a grade or two of school .

    • @stefansoder6903
      @stefansoder6903 2 місяці тому

      Who has hate for "these folks"? You are imagining things.

  • @lanasachie8505
    @lanasachie8505 10 місяців тому +3

    What a sweet, gentle soul! Nature is not perfect! May God bless her.

  • @jennifs6868
    @jennifs6868 Рік тому +66

    What a sweet person. This interview made my day.

  • @code-52
    @code-52 Рік тому +49

    In 1973 I was 11. Lizzie was working with a traveling carnival.
    By that time she was quite thin.
    They let me in to see her. (Yep, I was an 11 year old girl).
    Lizzie told me her life story and offer to pull back her scarf, (over her genitalia) if I wanted to see. I declined, and she didn't push. I asked her a lot of questions about herself and her feelings.
    When I left, I felt so sad. Lizzie was indeed a woman. And she had the sweetest most comforting voice and spirit. I never forgot meeting her.

    • @lonnieburkes8166
      @lonnieburkes8166 Рік тому +3

      Wow she seems like a gift to all beings ❤

    • @nicolelillis2077
      @nicolelillis2077 Рік тому +7

      You as an 11 year old, showed Lizzie more civility, kindness and respect that day, than a lot of adults did. It would've been an honor to meet Lizzie. Yet, she was worthy of so much more, than having to work as a side-show curiosity in a traveling carnival. ❤️

    • @indiosveritas
      @indiosveritas Рік тому +6

      Your story doesn't make any sense.
      Pull back her scarf ? On her face ?
      What carnival? What city ?
      Show us proof or stop exaggerating.

    • @code-52
      @code-52 Рік тому +3

      @@nicolelillis2077 absolutely. She deserved all the respect and kindness I could give her.

    • @cristyluv1205
      @cristyluv1205 Рік тому +5

      “They” let you in to see her? See what? People wear scarfs on their heads. The person in this video never spoke anything about being in a carnival.
      I don’t understand your comment

  • @EPBF1
    @EPBF1 Рік тому +4

    Love the calling it courting, and the level of respect, and kindness in the way of there tone of voice. Today we lost this level of respect when talking. This person was raised very respectful
    My heart goes out to this person situation

  • @Phawks-Phire
    @Phawks-Phire 8 місяців тому +1

    I love how the doctor made Lizzie feel so comfortable to open up to him.

  • @KathrynLiz1
    @KathrynLiz1 Рік тому +35

    There are people like this still around, and some that think they are and are not..... There are many ways that some of us are sort of a bit of both, stuck in the middle. It's not an easy way to be... Makes a big difference to accept it deep down and live with it.

  • @marilynaderson6568
    @marilynaderson6568 Рік тому +28

    What an incredible person - Lizzie overcame so much.

  • @autumnstoptwo
    @autumnstoptwo 9 місяців тому +1

    they said "i have every right to be here as any other person". WHEW. thank you lizzy for sharing your story and for those words, they'll carry many of us on our own journeys in this world.

  • @laurapaterson9247
    @laurapaterson9247 Рік тому +21

    Thank goodness people today can be themselves. We all have known people like Lizzie along the way. Her honestly and strength really shine through. Back then, these people were teased and set aside. Lizzie is wise, very wise. I am unmarried live alone most of my life...its no big deal. Look at all the marriages that fail. It's just life.

  • @judemorales4U
    @judemorales4U 3 роки тому +38

    God bless Lizzy. What a difficult life.

  • @poppyfield1619
    @poppyfield1619 8 місяців тому +2

    She was accepted for who she was and that is precious especially back in those days when people were more ignorant of such matters. It sounds like Lizzie was surrounded by love - such a shame that she has experienced so much loneliness😢she kept to herself which was a way of self protection bless her.❤

  • @shannenheyman4634
    @shannenheyman4634 Рік тому +8

    What a kind spirited soul 😊 The doctor treated them with such respect

  • @janetspell1396
    @janetspell1396 Рік тому +118

    I was so glad to come across this medical video. I’m elderly now,..but when I was in middle school, there was an intersex person who I became friends with. I was her only friend in fact. I didn’t know about this kind of thing back until my friend told me. His/her name was Nelody. The parents were advised by doctors to wait and see how or which way the child’s hormones would lead to as far as sexual preference as an adult. Nelody was definitely already leaning towards the male preference and was binding his/her growing breasts, plus dressed in male style clothes. We parted after middle school, but I wish I could have stayed a friend for life. Education is key to understanding this particular medical situation. Back in my youth, you didn’t hear any talk about this,..not in school nor in most families,..at least not in my family. I never told my parents or siblings because they probably would have laughed at me for saying such a thing. I became a nurse as an adult and wanted to be as educated as possible about the human body, so that I could explain and talk to my own children about this particular situation plus a lot of other things in life. Do you know that there are still people who don’t believe this is real? Some still believe that sexual preference is a choice, but that’s not true. It’s our hormonal system as we form in our mother’s womb that dictates this. Some (mostly religious people) still believe that this is a sin and anyone who is born gay or lesbian are going to hell. It’s so unbelievable in these days and times that this is still not understood. Education and Communication about this and all subjects about life are very important and I truly believe is the key to a better future for all in this world. God Bless. “Acceptance and Love” is what we all long for and need.❤️

    • @keariewashburn4680
      @keariewashburn4680 Рік тому +15

      Totally agree. I'm a retired nurse and it's sad when you try to talk to people about these kinds of issues thar happen with people, and they still have a Totally distorted understanding or heart to understand or relate to.

    • @LunaSea-000
      @LunaSea-000 Рік тому +16

      I am a retired (after working 50 years) RN also. I’m concerned about all the apparent hatred for people with gender or sexual differences. Transgendered people are a current targeted group. It must be so hard to know you are a male but your body is female. Let these people do what they need to in order to make their life livable. Let’s be supportive and accepting…put away your hate and educate yourself. Better yet, get to know someone…you’ll see they are people too. 🤝

    • @cyn4476
      @cyn4476 Рік тому +10

      I am amazed that they were allowed to choose for themselves. Even when I was young, it was most common that the child would be forced into one role or the other, usually the parents were told to choose, like the child would never know the difference and fit into the mold of the chosen gender. They were given surgery to match what the parents chose. I hope that Nelody was happy in their life.

    • @judyshepard1425
      @judyshepard1425 Рік тому +14

      I have never known anyone like this however I know it happens. As a young woman I attended the fair and there was an exhibit like that. The person was dressed as a female and showed us her gentalis. The penis seemed to be small and although I did not see it up close it looked mostly like just a deformed part. They certainly have my sympathy but I believe that most of these transgenders now that are causing such a turmoil have mental issues that could be resolved with time and especially young children. This is an antrosity to our medical profession and often a crime committed on a young body.

    • @marvellaclay9289
      @marvellaclay9289 Рік тому +5

      To Janet Spell: Read my post. Religious people are just religious and know nothing of the Word of God. However, I consider myself "Born Again" and a Christian. The Holy Spirit guides my life and I am to judge sin and not the person. If one does not believe in God, that is there is their right.

  • @memorymalunga670
    @memorymalunga670 Рік тому +9

    The doctor is very compassionate.

  • @flyinglittlecessie
    @flyinglittlecessie Рік тому +3

    This is rich historic beautiful human connection. However whoever please keep these old videos circulating. Ty 🙏❤️

  • @schmittyconstanz
    @schmittyconstanz Рік тому +8

    The interviewer asked probing questions with respect.Lizzie seems to be an extremely grounded person .Growing up with love and respect from his parents played an enormous role in his life's journey to self knowledge.Lizzie seems humble and sweet.

  • @jjbud3124
    @jjbud3124 Рік тому +128

    This condition is not as rare as you might think. I once worked for the Children's Hospital in Philadelphia and remember many cases like this. That was in the late 50's, early 60's. At that time they were trying to decide for the child which sex predominated and doing surgery to make them that sex. That was not a good idea and wrong choices were made. I'm sure there are just as many or more cases today. You just might know someone like this.

    • @valiakloeppel7252
      @valiakloeppel7252 Рік тому +7

      I do know someone with this condition. He was chosen to be a man and has no regrets.

    • @jjbud3124
      @jjbud3124 Рік тому +20

      @@valiakloeppel7252 That's great. When the decision is made in a child, sometimes it's wrong. Sometimes is right. Your friend is lucky.

    • @Jacqueline_Thijsen
      @Jacqueline_Thijsen Рік тому +25

      It's gender reassignment surgery on a baby. If that were done to a baby who wasn't intersex absolutely noone would think that that was even remotely ok.

    • @keariewashburn4680
      @keariewashburn4680 Рік тому +1

      Very true.

    • @kimberlydeeney5652
      @kimberlydeeney5652 Рік тому +21

      @@jjbud3124 Children's Hospital in Philly now known for years as CHOP is one of the hospitals doing gender reassignment surgery on young people today. You go way back J JBud. I remember getting the polio vaccine in a sugar cube form. Bless Lizzie. Never learned to read or write, but laying down more knowledge than most people on this planet. Human kindness wins every time.