Glamour Shots and Lingerie: Was I Sexualized as a Child?

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  • Опубліковано 21 січ 2025

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  • @johnc.mitchelljr.2716
    @johnc.mitchelljr.2716 12 днів тому +1

    Hey Julie ! my brain is bouncing now , i've had similar observations and have various assumptions about things , , when i saw my son born, it was then that i knew the difference between a man and a woman and was pretty much sure it was a good thing that i wasn't a woman , , anyway , here it is 3 weeks after this upload and California is suffering from the wildfires , and the toxic smoke particulates , , back in 1966 my 10th grade science teacher made a big deal about global warming , , my buds and i were more interested in the cheerleader with the you-know-whats , , but as to that $10,000 thing with your mother , , it got me thinking about having read books and seen movies where the brides family always had to have a dowry and apparently it was a big deal , , maybe even back in the bible days , , how did that practice get started and for what reasons , , , and if it goes deep into moral type things , , maybe your mother was doing something that seemed quite natural for other cultures around the world

    • @juliegrows
      @juliegrows  11 днів тому +1

      Ha, so she was going to pay me my own dowry? Coming from my mother, I'm not sure if that's feminist or the antithesis of feminism. Honestly, it just seemed more like a mindf*ck than anything. Can't say I was raised with any kind of religion/culture/morality that would apply. (Sure I learned morality, but not much about it pertaining to sexuality besides this strange offer.) Kind of like an indecent proposal, but instead of $1 million, my body was worth $10K. Thanks, mom!

  • @R1se-Inspire
    @R1se-Inspire 25 днів тому +1

    Thanks for the video Julie

    • @juliegrows
      @juliegrows  25 днів тому +1

      @@R1se-Inspire This one felt like a bit of a dumpster fire. But hey, I used CapCut! 😁

    • @R1se-Inspire
      @R1se-Inspire 25 днів тому +1

      @@juliegrows😂 it’s all good. That’s awesome 😁👍🏻

  • @johenderson3742
    @johenderson3742 15 днів тому +1

    All I can say is, I'm 55 and still waiting for my mum to tell me where babies come from...😂

    • @juliegrows
      @juliegrows  14 днів тому +1

      Oh dang! Haha, I think I learned too much, too early. And even as I got older, she'd let loose more details about her sex life with my dad than I ever cared to hear.

    • @johenderson3742
      @johenderson3742 13 днів тому

      @@juliegrows 😱😱😱

  • @francisdashwood1760
    @francisdashwood1760 5 днів тому +1

    This is a very interesting video. I watched all of it. I really don't see your glamour shots as being ''sexual'' in any way. If I had not heard your video, but only saw your glamour shots, it would not even have entered my mind that they could be considered ''sexual''. It looks like a pretty girl playing dress up. I don't see the problem with them. I hope you're not still beating yourself up over them.

    • @juliegrows
      @juliegrows  4 дні тому +1

      Thank you for the watch and comment! No, I'm not too distressed about the Glamour Shots in particular, although they're definitely a little bizarre to look back at. I did really want to have them done at the time! But like a lot of the other things I discussed, I'm not sure there was much consideration of what kind of dress up is appropriate for a little girl vs. what might be a "not until you're older" type of thing. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!