8 Things Resilient People Do

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  4 роки тому +123

    Hi everyone, we posted a new video on our Korean UA-cam channel.
    Be sure to check it out with the English subtitles?
    ua-cam.com/video/U6GGe9AT7R8/v-deo.html We worked hard on it for the New year!

    • @rawlelincoln3329
      @rawlelincoln3329 4 роки тому +1

      Hiiii please notice meee

    • @AimanAlnnfan
      @AimanAlnnfan 4 роки тому +3

      Wishing everyone a NICE 2021😁

    • @flockofpigeons9597
      @flockofpigeons9597 4 роки тому +1

      Happy new year everyone!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 роки тому +6

      @@rawlelincoln3329 Hey! How's your new year going?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 роки тому +7

      @SuperSassyCat THank you! Happy New Year everyone!

  • @tanveen1431
    @tanveen1431 4 роки тому +369

    Life doesn't get easier or more forgiving, we get stronger and more resilient.

    • @nancysungyun
      @nancysungyun 3 роки тому +6

      And life does get easier when you are strong and resilient... part of being resilient is learning how to move through the problems in ways that you are not affected as much as you used to.❤️❤️❤️

    • @tyrannosaurustits7083
      @tyrannosaurustits7083 2 роки тому

      said daddy noel deyzel

    • @tanveen1431
      @tanveen1431 2 роки тому

      @@tyrannosaurustits7083 said Dr. Steve Maraboli

    • @Isthatalliyah
      @Isthatalliyah Рік тому +1

      @@nancysungyun facts

    • @nancysungyun
      @nancysungyun Рік тому

      @@Isthatalliyah ❤❤❤

  • @k.t3888
    @k.t3888 4 роки тому +467

    Summary:
    1. You stay flexible and open-minded 0:49
    2. You practice patience and kindness 1:12
    3. You're generally optimistic 1:30
    4. You live in the present 1:56
    5. You value and build good relationships 2:18
    6. You know and consider your limits 2:43
    7. You know how to handle rejection 3:05
    8. You like spending time alone 3:40

  • @WisdomWealth77
    @WisdomWealth77 4 роки тому +377

    To everyone reading this, I pray that 2021 is a year where you are *resilient* and you smile at the storm. 🙏🏻🧡

  • @folliblanc2447
    @folliblanc2447 4 роки тому +234

    Thy savior summarizer is here:
    Definition of resilience:- being able to recover from difficult situations
    8 things resilient people do
    - you stay flexible and open minded
    - you practice patience and kindness
    - you are generally optimistic
    - you live in the present
    - you value and build good relationships
    - you know and consider your limits
    - you know how to handle rejection
    - you like spending time alone
    Byeeee 🏃

  • @notyetdeleted6319
    @notyetdeleted6319 4 роки тому +449

    “The art of not giving a f*ck”

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 4 роки тому +23

      A subtle one

    • @randomstuff_723
      @randomstuff_723 4 роки тому +12

      I read a bit of that book

    • @avymationz7024
      @avymationz7024 4 роки тому +5

      I liked the book

    • @emberflash1641
      @emberflash1641 4 роки тому +4

      10 out of 10 comment, my thoughts exactly upon watching this video 😂

    • @ledocteur7701
      @ledocteur7701 4 роки тому +6

      ha shit, I just broke an important tool at my work.
      "Boss ! I have a problem, the tool broke"
      *Boss come to see the damage*
      ouf yeah, hold on a second I'm gonna replace it.
      *Boss replace the tool*
      here you go.
      *continue working like nothing happened, but slightly more carefully.*
      literally what happened at my first internship (I was 16), to this day, I still work has a full time permanent contract for him.
      The level of not giving a f*ck I had this day was unbelievably high, and I haven't change that much since then, except now I don't have to call my boss if something broke, I just replace the tool myself and report it later.

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 4 роки тому +167

    Resilience is made up of five pillars: self awareness, mindfulness, self care, positive relationships & purpose. By strengthening these pillars, we in turn, become more resilient.👍

    • @nessie968
      @nessie968 3 роки тому +2

      Wow, amazing! I'll save your comment if you don't mind, it's just too good💫

    • @dailydoseofmedicinee
      @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 роки тому +2

      @@nessie968 of course

    • @EmInMI80
      @EmInMI80 3 роки тому

      Have you made a video on this? I searched your channel for "resilience" and couldn't find anything.

    • @dailydoseofmedicinee
      @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 роки тому

      @@EmInMI80 No, i have not

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 4 роки тому +295

    We made it thru 2020 all, let’s keep the resilience up this year 😊

    • @isaacfrey5719
      @isaacfrey5719 4 роки тому +10

      Good advice

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 роки тому +35

      Yes, we did! Let's stick together for 2021!

    • @diamondcookieoftruth898
      @diamondcookieoftruth898 4 роки тому +7

      @@Psych2go yeah. This has been a hard year for me. My mental health has been affected a lot from staying home and my parents stupid divorce during all of that. I think I am doing better though now that it's 2021 and I can let go of it all and try to make this year good and healthy❤

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 4 роки тому

      I'm off to a great start! Here's to 2021! Let's do this!

    • @gmdudafanclub5228
      @gmdudafanclub5228 4 роки тому

      @@Psych2go why did the voice change ?

  • @frostlord1246
    @frostlord1246 4 роки тому +72

    My therapist told me that I show a lot of perseverance and resilience. I saw all of these signs in myself except for the 4th and 7th. Thanks for making this video.

    • @randomstuff_723
      @randomstuff_723 4 роки тому +2

      Wait, it says this comment was made 2 months ago but I only got the notification for this video a few minutes ago?

    • @chaosdromanah8620
      @chaosdromanah8620 4 роки тому +1

      Time Traveler Spotted

    • @chandlersmonica.9287
      @chandlersmonica.9287 4 роки тому +3

      @@randomstuff_723 because some people get access to the videos before ( when private ) cuz they have membership.

    • @aryankulkarni9017
      @aryankulkarni9017 4 роки тому +1

      Congrats to you for achieving such mind. Go on!

    • @maurahennessy444
      @maurahennessy444 4 роки тому

      Same with me! Only, I have a hard time with 8 & 5.

  • @abyssal_phoenix
    @abyssal_phoenix 4 роки тому +9

    Last year i developed this. I called it the “fuck it” method.
    I needed to do that since I had to adopt to the situation of fighting anxiety and the anxiety trying to counter attack. I’m known to be adaptive and adopted a resilient live style to adapt to the situation, which really helped in the fight.
    Looking back at before I did it, I feel ashamed for me acting like that, so panicking etc. But I understand it. When you get as far as almost committing suicide “to give my head finally some rest and peace”. Then I saw how bad i was, that really saw what anxiety pushed me to. Then I started world war 1. For 3 months lots of my dreams mainly took in my head, the world I also visit when meditating since it is a planet divided by my personality. But it was not me visiting rainbowfalls or sunny Fields, no it was a literal war. Parts of my personality armed their lands, and started attacks on the enemy. Then overthinking switched sides and joined the good side. Anxiety to forced back to their respective land, the scar, a really deep and dark canyon somewhere in the thought valley (overthinking his lands). There is a massive containment facility built around it, and occasionally they drop smile nukes and firework down there. It is home to at least 5 fears

  • @feiwaan
    @feiwaan 2 роки тому +3

    I'm so proud of myself... Alhamdulillah
    I actually have been thinking I was weird and emotionally numb. So grateful I came across this

  • @Talkinglife
    @Talkinglife 4 роки тому +24

    Resilient people can see the big picture. ...
    Resilient people remain open. ...
    Resilient people know their blind spots. ...
    Resilient people seek help. ...
    Resilient people enjoy spending time alone. ...
    Resilient people value and build relationships. ...
    Resilient people develop multiple plans. ...
    Resilient people practice self-care.

  • @InspiringSuccess
    @InspiringSuccess 3 роки тому +9

    Great video. Love this Resilience quote,; "I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” - Maya Angelou

  • @aimees4990
    @aimees4990 4 роки тому +11

    Happy New Year everyone! Remember YOU are so loved and important to this world ❤

  • @judem1359
    @judem1359 4 роки тому +8

    When something difficult happens it can be good to see how you’ve become more confident in dealing with the issue compared to how you’ve done in the past. It reinforces how you have grown and learned and leads to more confidence in facing hardship and uncertainty. The story you tell yourself about what has happened is everything. If it is a story about how well you are coping, that leads to more confidence and moving forward. If it is a story of hopelessness and loss that leads down a different path to making moving forward harder and scarier....

  • @oishuu6542
    @oishuu6542 2 роки тому +2

    English isn't my mother tongue. And I was also very weak in this subject at school. But I really love this language. I feel very passionate while learning it. Today was my college board English test, even after preparing my best, I couldn't make it satisfying. I felt so devastated. Earlier for a moment, I felt like, all of my efforts that I made for it went to vain.
    I know, life will keep going on. So I'll also try to continue my efforts to make my English better.

    • @sadia2395
      @sadia2395 2 роки тому +1

      Well,you dint give up on the dream to pursue learning the language,so its all good 🙂.You were able to convey what you feel and I think thats the central idea of any language,isnt it? However ,ofcourse as a college subject you will have to get the syntax, the grammar right,I agree. Keep at it.Good luck 👍🏽 .
      Since you mentioned you are still learning the language, I am pointing this out : The word you were looking for is ' vain' 🙂 .Also the word 'better' is already comparative.No need to use 'more' with it.

    • @oishuu6542
      @oishuu6542 2 роки тому

      @@sadia2395 Thanks a lot for helping me grow 🌻

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому

    People have to learn to cope with and work through very challenging life experiences. Resilience is SO important.

  • @diamondcookieoftruth898
    @diamondcookieoftruth898 4 роки тому +30

    I was like this before quarantine but now I am not very resilient and I wanna be like that more often again...

  • @BradleyObsidian
    @BradleyObsidian 3 роки тому +1

    Flexibility and open-mindedness is so important for resilience. The ability to see opportunity is a must

  • @anonymouscat02
    @anonymouscat02 4 роки тому +1

    Consider everything in this world doesn't matter. It won't cause you your life once you fail. Keep thinking about what's going on now, rather than yesterday or tomorrow. You don't need to think about who you are in the past or who you will be in the future, because it demotivates you to solve your problems or doing your tasks. When you just messed up in the past, it doesn't define you. You are what you are now. Don't consider failure is the end of the world, it is the part of growth. The more you fail, the more you learn and grow. Many people who are successful were the "fools" that people knew of, the real fool is the one who is doing what the fear told them to do, worry, run away, give up, don't believe themselves. If you don't do something that should have been done, you got nothing. But, don't think that fear is unacceptable, it is okay to be afraid. Just do what you desire, nothing will stop you, not even the possibilities of failure.

  • @virginiajjohnson6809
    @virginiajjohnson6809 4 роки тому +1

    I find that,one of the most impotant things you can do,is not lose hope,if you lose hope,in whatever, your facing,you will be defeated,dont give up,things will change,be patient.
    Things will turn about,that helps me.

  • @tigerx36
    @tigerx36 4 роки тому +1

    Flexible and open minded sounds about right. I can be patient too. I know my limits and try not to overdo it. Rejection doesn't really get to me. Time alone? I'm already introverted as is and processing and reflecting is all part of it for me.

  • @mindfulnessasia1082
    @mindfulnessasia1082 Рік тому

    Most people want to feel strong, be respected and feel safe. Some people think that in order to be resilient and confident one needs to be strong externally. Try to impress others, be arrogant, tough etc. This is why some people go to the gym, get big muscles etc. So that no one will dare to attack them or mess with them. But when someone wants to have real resilience, they also must have internal strength.
    Internal strength will give a person the ability to make it through the challenges of this human journey without being knocked out, without feeling hopeless. A person with internal strength will not lose purpose or direction in this human journey.

  • @lotussong1
    @lotussong1 4 роки тому

    Though it’s hard to forget a traumatic past, I try to live in the present and future. It’s like the saying, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”. Also, I try to learn from my mistakes.

  • @albertcapelet5145
    @albertcapelet5145 4 роки тому +6

    Tenacious altruistic perseverance honest introspective kind and empathetic are some words worth thinking about when I reflex on the topic of resilience. Have an amazing day and thanks for sharing your thoughts. Cheers

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 4 роки тому +11

    Good decisions come from experience, and experience comes from bad decisions🔥

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 4 роки тому

      Experience (aka the greatest teacher) is directly related to the amount of stuff broken, burnt, scrapped, wasted, lost, or otherwise rendered irretrievable or irredeemable. ;o)

  • @surabhisingh341
    @surabhisingh341 4 роки тому +75

    Ummm... Is it just me who is missing those cute tiny characters with most circular face ever??

    • @airmaxy7377
      @airmaxy7377 4 роки тому

      Hi the video I linked is my teams performance at BUTBT if you don’t mind tell us your thoughts negative or positive.
      ua-cam.com/video/D60rGrZWUYA/v-deo.html

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 4 роки тому +50

    So many different art styles, I love it!

  • @tommygunn6901
    @tommygunn6901 4 роки тому

    Resilience is one I practiced heavily on in 2020. Now that were in 2021, time to apply all I've learned

  • @Moon525
    @Moon525 3 роки тому +2

    I really enjoyed this video and took some personal notes for myself! I just found out about mental and emotional resilience, but many resources I looked up made it really seem unobtainable. This video really managed to break down resilience in a simpler and easy to understand way, to the point where it actually does feel possible.

  • @Finalizor
    @Finalizor 4 роки тому +7

    this video is almost the opposite of me
    i am full of anxiety, stress and have low self-esteem and insult myself when i mess up, like being alone to avoid annoying anyone and i do not really have friends irl and pretty sure i might be a little depressed and do not have motivation most of the time
    however when playing games i kind of have motivation most of the time but ..... not always

  • @ParentingPlanet
    @ParentingPlanet Рік тому

    The real fact of resilience in children is that it is the ability to bounce back from adversity, adapt to change, and effectively cope with challenges by developing emotional, cognitive, and behavioral skills, often fostered through supportive relationships and a nurturing environment. Resilience enables children to maintain positive well-being and thrive despite difficult circumstances.

  • @arplays9682
    @arplays9682 2 роки тому +3

    Being Resilient not only helps you build your ENTHUSIASM and your CONFIDENCE but it will also help strengthen relationship but also affluent your life as well

  • @ernawatiernawati4184
    @ernawatiernawati4184 Рік тому

    The most important point in resilience is : break the problem down, focus on the positives, build your support network, look after yourself, know your limits.

  • @SuperBlessedKing
    @SuperBlessedKing 4 роки тому +4

    Happy New Year!!
    🦅🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸♥️♥️💙💙🤍🤍✨✨
    We are going to make our 2021 year very positive and successful, currently and beyond.
    Peace and Love!!
    ♥️♥️♥️♥️✨✨✨✨

  • @neenavibes5649
    @neenavibes5649 4 роки тому +2

    Resilience is very crucial for your mental health! Great video👏🏾

  • @desyrebuhat3949
    @desyrebuhat3949 4 роки тому +4

    Happy New Year Miss!💜

  • @ValentinaLimited
    @ValentinaLimited 4 роки тому

    (not stealing comment, just reposting so people don't waste time scrolling/searching)
    Definition of resilience:- being able to recover from difficult situations
    8 things resilient people do
    - you stay flexible and open minded
    - you practice patience and kindness
    - you are generally optimistic
    - you live in the present
    - you value and build good relationships
    - you know and consider your limits
    - you know how to handle rejection
    - you like spending time alone

  • @krankerspast769
    @krankerspast769 4 роки тому +1

    2020 wasn't good. A lot of bad things happened. Even without corona it was the nastiest year in my life. Now I feel like I can stand up against everything

  • @whydoesitmatterhonestly
    @whydoesitmatterhonestly 4 роки тому +3

    Happy to know that i am resilient

  • @k.t3888
    @k.t3888 4 роки тому +8

    I expect this video will be published next to the one titled “4 Unexpected Signs You Are Still Grieving"

    • @shruti8333
      @shruti8333 4 роки тому

      Time traveler

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 роки тому +1

      Hopefully, it's still helpful! We published it now :)

  • @ovariecito
    @ovariecito 4 роки тому +2

    Yaay, I'm early ! What a good way to start the year :) 💕

  • @deborahannbell7027
    @deborahannbell7027 4 роки тому +1

    I always need to remind myself that it's ok to take some time out to take care of myself. Xxx

  • @trinityrichards8729
    @trinityrichards8729 4 роки тому +37

    Dear anyone who is going to dislike this video,
    Why?
    Sincerely,
    Me

  • @바꾸다제이
    @바꾸다제이 4 роки тому +3

    Happy new year to everyone! Happy new year Psych2go fam!!

  • @SimpleLifeSG
    @SimpleLifeSG 4 роки тому +1

    Stay strong and open minded. Find your passion in 2021 and work on it. Happy New Year everyone. 😘

  • @pyschologygeek
    @pyschologygeek 4 роки тому

    8 Traits That All Emotionally Resilient People Share
    Emotional awareness. If you're aware of how you're feeling and why, then you are emotionally aware. ...
    Perseverance. Perseverance is never giving up in pursuit of your goals. ...
    Independence. ...
    Optimism. ...
    Support. ...
    Sense of humour. ...
    Perspective. ...
    Initiative.

  • @SnoTheSkeleton
    @SnoTheSkeleton 4 роки тому +3

    i loved this video ! i used it in a presentation for my leadership class and it was well liked :)

  • @madeleynecarat7420
    @madeleynecarat7420 4 роки тому +2

    2:27 that should be changed to friends and\OR family given that many times families are impossible to get along with, bc they are toxic

  • @michaeljohnson9817
    @michaeljohnson9817 4 роки тому +15

    “When you get rejected at a job do you think you’re not good enough or do you consider other factors”
    Also this channel” like other more qualified applicants”.

    • @yanaa.musicc
      @yanaa.musicc 4 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂 I see how that sounds but they’re right though

  • @eddiestilll
    @eddiestilll 2 роки тому

    thank u for ur tips :D i always admire resilient ppl n am trying hard to gradually build towards becoming one!!

  • @Name-nx6ef
    @Name-nx6ef 4 роки тому

    Resilience is all about positive thoughts😊

  • @allinakhan6134
    @allinakhan6134 3 роки тому

    I came here to learn how to be more resilient and learned I already was for most of the time

  • @EbonySerpent999
    @EbonySerpent999 4 роки тому +1

    8 is the most relatable.

  • @kotysuefawcett6538
    @kotysuefawcett6538 4 роки тому +1

    Dang... after all I have been thru'... thank you for acknowledging..ME! Yes!!✌️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 роки тому

      How many points did you relate to?

  • @rekhagusain9916
    @rekhagusain9916 2 роки тому

    I love this feeling feeling of being alive

  • @noblethenewt
    @noblethenewt 4 роки тому +7

    Hi everyone! I’m actually early for once! Have a nice 2021 ❤️

  • @enriquetouron2805
    @enriquetouron2805 4 роки тому

    I actually read an book named "un merveilleux malheur/ a wonderful misfortune" who talk about resilient peoples and"survivors" a cathegory of people more impressive and important who are amazing

  • @russianamerican7397
    @russianamerican7397 Рік тому

    What is interesting, if whether we born with high level of resilience or not, or we all differ. Many say ability to be resilient lowers with age, according to some supposed professionals in the field of psychology. Later in life, I could relay your resilience level to something you have built up. Using experience and knowledge, mixed with general positive outlook on things despite how they have turned out. But if life throws serious curve balls at you from younger years, and some fail to recover while others recover and become stronger building up knowledge then experience, to rely on later. Are we genetically coded to fail or succeed, if life puts different people through per say same challenges. In my life, I had to bounce over some serious challenges, and I did it without thought about resilience, strength, will or other things. Thoughts on those came much later to me in my life, it's when I looked back at my life and realize I had ferocious level of resilience without even initially ever thinking on the subject. If you read this, REMEMBER God put you on this earth for a reason, do all you can to stick around, you won a one in the billions lottery ticket to enjoy and suffer beauties and pains life has been giving us. And it's alright to come out little fucking crazy out of the other end. Stay cool.

  • @whydoesitmatterhonestly
    @whydoesitmatterhonestly 4 роки тому +5

    Their Animation has improved . Keep it up dear pysch2go

  • @justrelaxtv3900
    @justrelaxtv3900 4 роки тому

    Practice kindness until it becomes you ❤

  • @nikki.9700
    @nikki.9700 4 роки тому +1

    Okay but this narrorator's voice is adorable.

  • @marvellpovs83
    @marvellpovs83 4 роки тому +2

    So u told a few people that this year iim going to take care of my mental health more and this and that and by taking care of my mental health I watch this channel it calms me down and helps make me aware of life. And I'm glad I started watching them daily a while ago so I don't just do it all at once so now it's a digestible amount daily

  • @sayin234
    @sayin234 4 роки тому +1

    The new style is cute!

  • @innolobaton
    @innolobaton 4 роки тому +2

    8 things resilient people do
    What is resilience?
    You're able to withstand or recover from difficult situation
    1. You stay flexible and open-minded
    2. You practice patience and kindness
    3. You're generally optimistic
    4. You live in the present
    5. You value and build good relationships
    6. You know and consider your limits
    7. You know how to handle rejection
    8. You like spending time to alone

  • @MinhLionaire
    @MinhLionaire 15 днів тому

    thanks for all of that! wondersful video

  • @aspenhart_
    @aspenhart_ 4 роки тому +10

    It's 7AM. I can't sleep. Good time to watch some psychology.

    • @aspenhart_
      @aspenhart_ 4 роки тому

      @Mr. Ping Thanks for a fact.

  • @SaraH-xc1df
    @SaraH-xc1df 4 роки тому +1

    Psalms16:7
    I will praise Jehovah, who has given me advice.Even during the night, my innermost thoughts correct me.

  • @Naturenerd1000
    @Naturenerd1000 4 роки тому +8

    People are resilient because they have to be not because they want to.

    • @chandlersmonica.9287
      @chandlersmonica.9287 4 роки тому +3

      True, I had to become resilient when I figured out no one will understand me and will tag me as negative..

  • @soul_ErrOr
    @soul_ErrOr Рік тому

    Ok gotta get friends cause family is out of the questions

  • @aileen1885
    @aileen1885 4 роки тому +3

    This channel is very helpful
    Tysm for the info!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 роки тому

      Thank you! Glad this helped you

  • @graceevelyn2114
    @graceevelyn2114 3 роки тому +1

    Pov this video was in your assembly

  • @OASILO
    @OASILO 4 роки тому

    Honestly i feel like people who are trying to be resilient struggle with taking their own advice and trying to overly support and put other people first.

  • @joselitoenglatera8591
    @joselitoenglatera8591 2 роки тому

    Very informative .video Thank you so much . Looking for more video .

  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 3 роки тому

    I'm emotionally resilient.

  • @nicolas28500
    @nicolas28500 Рік тому

    Those animations are really cute!

  • @voidsthread
    @voidsthread 4 роки тому +1

    i needed to see this 💕

  • @MidnightMoonProductions
    @MidnightMoonProductions 4 роки тому +2

    2021 - BECOME MY BEST SELF IN CHRIST💚

  • @DragonGirlMaria
    @DragonGirlMaria 4 роки тому

    Yup, That's me. I show all of those signs

  • @maryelizabethmccartney5425
    @maryelizabethmccartney5425 4 роки тому

    I am a constant worrier. I worry about my life 24/7/365.

  • @laurensmith7612
    @laurensmith7612 3 місяці тому

    wow! love it!

  • @rutujakulkarni6934
    @rutujakulkarni6934 4 роки тому

    This just came on time!! Thank you 😊

  • @reynaldovetuz1177
    @reynaldovetuz1177 3 роки тому

    Good source...thanks

  • @me-zs7tr
    @me-zs7tr 4 роки тому

    I looove spending time alone

  • @inkorporeal204
    @inkorporeal204 3 роки тому

    If you're watching this, you're more resilient than you give yourself credit for

  • @grandmastermario3695
    @grandmastermario3695 4 роки тому

    Aces and resilience considering how many aces I have which is basically all 10 I'm very resilient but then again I don't really think I'm resilient at all my severe depression and suicidal and self harm thoughts come and go all the time it's a never ending cycle and a never ending battle with issues health problems and life😔

  • @howcanibeofficial
    @howcanibeofficial 3 місяці тому

    Great and sweet video😊👏

  • @melodythemassagetherapist6957
    @melodythemassagetherapist6957 4 роки тому

    Great job, Lily!!! Love your voice and the content!!! A few videos ago, I thought you were new to the channel!! But you’ve been around longer than Amanda!! Haven’t yet, but will look for your earlier works! I think I have a few of these qualities and need to work on some of them!! I LOVE living in the present!! I joke that God gave me forgetfulness so that I don’t dwell on the past!! I do have a hard time with rejection. So hard not to want everybody to like me. Hmmm there was one or three more that I really liked!!! Now I need to go back and rewatch! :)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 роки тому

      Thank you for your comment!! Yes, Lily is with us longer than Amanda. Glad you enjoyed the content too

    • @melodythemassagetherapist6957
      @melodythemassagetherapist6957 4 роки тому

      Hi @@Psych2go!! Just speaking the truth!!! Have an amazing day and weekend!!!! Hugs!!! 🙂

  • @resiebean
    @resiebean 4 роки тому +3

    just a time traveler passing through

  • @Aron-hh4xx
    @Aron-hh4xx 4 роки тому +8

    I haven’t watched from this channel for a bit

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 4 роки тому +1

    It’s hard to be resilient when you have a black and white mentality. I struggle with being in the grey area and not trying to control everything. I’m coooonstantly spiraling

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 4 роки тому

      It's never easy...I relate to this quite a bit. Not everything is always black and white and trying to control everything is more so mentally exhausting. What helped me let go of things was not only journaling, therapy, and confiding to those trustworthy, but also take into consideration of what's the bigger picture and the things I can control in the here and now!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 4 роки тому

      @@tommygunn6901 yess totaaally agree. I do find my mind slipping back into the black and white mentality more so when I’m stressed!

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 4 роки тому

      @@SamElle and how do you bounce back from that, if you do?

  • @taylorspastpresent1014
    @taylorspastpresent1014 4 роки тому +1

    1. Stay flexible and open-minded
    2. Practice Patience and Kindness
    3. Optimistic
    4. Live in the present
    5. Value and build good relationships
    6. Know and consider limits
    7. Know how to handle rejection
    8. Enjoy spending time alone to self reflect
    Psych2Go is where it’s at!

  • @mr.aquarius
    @mr.aquarius 4 роки тому

    I definitely relate to #8.

  • @НиколаПетровић-ф9ж

    8 ствари које карактеристишу отпорне људе:
    Шта значи бити отпоран?
    Отпорност се односи на способност и начин на који се човек односи према лошим и непријатним ситуацијама/приликама/људима у свом животу.
    1. Бити отворен
    2. Бити стрпљив, пријатан и саосећати се са другима
    3. Бити присутан
    4. Бити захвалан и градити квалитетне односе
    5. Познавати сопствене границе
    6. Бити оптимистичан
    7. Знати како се опходити ако нас неко одбије
    8. Проводити време сам
    Човек треба остати отворен према новим идејама и мишљењу других људи. Треба бити стрпљив и пријатан према другима како не би доспео у непријатну ситуацију. Треба бити присутан како би био свестан себе, свог понашања, као и особе са којом комуницира. Човек може да буде захвалан и срећан због онога што има, или да буде незахвалан и да очајава због онога што нема. Избор је наш. Треба ценити и градити квалитетне односе са квалитетним људима. Треба познавати себе како би човек био свестан сопствених граница, и самим тим би у некој ближој будућности, омогућио себи да их превазиђе. Треба сагледати и добро и лоше у свакој ситуацији, свесни оног што је лоше, ми га избегавамо, и пажњу усмеравамо на оно што је добро. Када нас неко одбије у било чему, треба схватити да је то саставни део живота, и да нам то пружа прилику да будемо бољи и да радимо на себи. Човек треба проводити неко време сам са собом како би спознао себе, и како би себе боље разумео. Не само себе већ и све остало.

  • @tailsph
    @tailsph 4 роки тому +1

    💕 Remember: the one who has to be better is you, not the year :)

  • @HeoresUnited
    @HeoresUnited 4 роки тому

    Wow! This is me!

  • @DavidCastro-ln6ty
    @DavidCastro-ln6ty 2 роки тому

    THANK YOU I BECAME STRONG BODY, MINE,SOLE

  • @Jinsqx
    @Jinsqx 4 роки тому +3

    I just learned something new

  • @ElonSlojderdok
    @ElonSlojderdok 4 місяці тому

    self-validate❤

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 роки тому

    You right✌🌹🕊