ELIMINATE NEGATIVE THINKING & CULTIVATE A POSITIVE MINDSET | your guide to becoming an OPTIMIST

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  • Опубліковано 4 тра 2023
  • Welcome to 𝘈 𝘉𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶 podcast by lifestyle, wellness, & self help youtuber - Fernanda Ramirez. In this episode we're diving in on how we can eliminate our negative thoughts and change our mindset to a much more positive one 💖 I'll tell you about all the ways i stay optimistic, happy, and looking forwards to the future. Listen along to hear about all about cultivating this mindset and how you can maintain it too ! :)
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  • @aekorntastic
    @aekorntastic Місяць тому +35

    I'm in 5th grade and I love listening to ur podcasts

    • @xomich.
      @xomich. 26 днів тому +4

      that's so good for you! the fact that you are in fifth grade and experiencing bad things and somehow you seek for ways to put the bad things aside is very mature! your vocabulary is very impressive for your age as well, probably because you listen to constructive podcasts.i just wanted to say keep seeking for the positive side and focus on yourself God bless!

    • @aekorntastic
      @aekorntastic 26 днів тому

      @@xomich. needed this

    • @cassidee8904
      @cassidee8904 17 годин тому

      Please be strong and stay safe love, bullying is so hard to go through, just know school doesn’t last for long. It’s over in a blink of an eye. Just be patient. You won’t know them when you graduate

  • @LillaF-xo7rr
    @LillaF-xo7rr 4 місяці тому +25

    it is so true about how the body shows those negative thoughts, whenever I'm very stressed I start THROWING UP, literally trying to get rid of the negative vibes via vomiting.

  • @Intisar0
    @Intisar0 Рік тому +409

    This is my favorite podcast right now

  • @nienkevancaillie2328
    @nienkevancaillie2328 5 місяців тому +20

    I'm told a lot that im negative so I'm actively trying to be more positive

  • @soulcontact2
    @soulcontact2 11 місяців тому +16

    It's really sweet from her to take from her time to help other girls (boys) become better and happy, it shows that she's one of those super rare people who've really got sweet and clean hearts 😯🍃💖

  • @elifnazsurucu7344
    @elifnazsurucu7344 Рік тому +95

    As an architecture student, It's hard to be optimistic when professors constantly criticize the work that you spent hours and even days on. I really needed this. I have been following you for years, and I can say that you have been so helpful to me. Thank you!

    • @linde2391
      @linde2391 Рік тому +4

      As an engineering student I bear with you. It can be really tough to not take all the criticism to heart, and being an architecture student you must get criticized a lot. But seriously you guys make some very cool stuff, keep up the good work!

    • @shakoorah1
      @shakoorah1 Рік тому +2

      Ah yes this is familiar! I’ve graduated as an interior architect and the portfolio crits’ were intense at times. Fern is relatable with these wellness/positivity videos ❤she’s helped me along too xx

  • @officiallyqueenzee
    @officiallyqueenzee Рік тому +16

    I'm the luckiest person ever.
    I attract abundance.
    I attract wealth.
    I AM A DIAMOND.
    MONEY FLOWS WHEREVER I GO.
    I WAS BORN A MIRACLE.
    I AM A LEADER.
    I am luxury.
    I am beauty.
    I am wealth.

  • @indiakxoxo
    @indiakxoxo Рік тому +54

    Girl it’s so true about the body and negative thoughts. I literally made myself sick when I was dealing with some trauma bc I couldn’t let go

  • @L0v3m3.
    @L0v3m3. 3 місяці тому +1

    I was listening to this while I was getting ready for school and I have to say that ur words were super gentle and so sweet that I almost cried a bit cause people hated me for having a negative thought all the time, I want to be a better person for me and my mom and family! And i believe that ur podcast can help me to be that girl

  • @polisi13
    @polisi13 Рік тому +45

    Fernanda, It's hard to put into words how much I love your podcasts. I like it so much when you share your experience and give advice. You're so cute and smart. ILY 💗

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA Рік тому +34

    Wow these are such powerful points Fernanda! "Set aside time to worry" I absolutely agree 💖 For myself I set aside time to honour the full spectrum of my emotions so that when I am interacting with others I can fully see myself and recognise if my ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) are running into our conversation 💖

  • @dewdproduction
    @dewdproduction 18 днів тому +1

    Pro Tip: If you don't like listening to music while studying, listening to this podcast, really sets you in a motivated and productive mood! Thank you Fernanda for your A Better You !

  • @Oakcitymedia
    @Oakcitymedia Рік тому +8

    Positive mindset, giving my life to Jesus Christ and being around uplifting people changed my life

  • @victoriaaragon9294
    @victoriaaragon9294 Рік тому +8

    I love how you brought up hobbies!!! I've been thinking of starting a hobby or two! My husband loves to garden so I think for one of them I want to help him, so it can be something we do together and spend some quality time. I did already ask him to make sure I won't be intruding on his time/hobbie, and he was so excited that I asked! I love your podcast, I found you while scrolling on YT looking for positive uplifting content and I do my best to catch every new episode!!!

  • @cjray04
    @cjray04 Рік тому +13

    I loved and totally relate to the topic rn. I’m at a point in my life where I should feel so accomplished because I finished my first year of college which was not easy, but because of my shitty part time job that was overworking me and abusing me, I felt a downward spiral of negative thoughts which even made me start to almost relapse in old patterns I used to do like smoking and binge eating. So I said fuck this and for my own mental health I quit the job which was scary tbh. I’m at a way better point and I this episode made me realize that I made the right choice and I feel so much happier and free.

  • @NadMartineau
    @NadMartineau Рік тому +6

    Changing my mindset is something I continuously need to work on. It doesn’t come easy for me but helps me so much. Thank you for these videos ❤

  • @user-cr4pd6bc2y
    @user-cr4pd6bc2y Рік тому +6

    I needed this so much, I have been going through normal teenage girl drama and I just needed to hear this ❤ you are so wise and easy to listen too.

  • @salimouche3945
    @salimouche3945 Рік тому

    it's been 1 month since this video has been up but i wanted to say that you are definitely a positive person and that your podcats lift me up so much after i've been having harsh thoughts about myself recently. now i realise that the situation i'm in is temporary, life is really not that deep and i have so many things to be proud and happy about. thank you !!

  • @jasmijnamzirolo6773
    @jasmijnamzirolo6773 Рік тому +3

    This podcast really makes me feel alive again! My mood this year was like, really sad.. but this is something I enjoy every moment❤ thank you so so so much! Your a strong girl Fernanda, your words are positive power for everyone that struggles with something.

  • @avocadok4789
    @avocadok4789 Рік тому

    It’s amazing! Fernanda, your podcast is what makes me understand that there are a lot of improvements which can change my life and because of your advice it can be real. You are an optimistic person and I really appreciate you being such a positive person. Thank you for your work✨🤍

  • @uncoolnevaeh2684
    @uncoolnevaeh2684 Рік тому +1

    I don’t know if you’ll see this but the one thing you said which stuck with me was not to make bad jokes about yourself or be around people who bad jokes about themselves, and since I heard you say that I’ve been so much happier by not saying negative things about myself, thank you so so much I love you

  • @makenzivehas8176
    @makenzivehas8176 Рік тому +2

    In this video I learned
    : in every embarrassing moment in my life I had a good outcome .
    Practicing self awareness is better that trying to not think about a problem that I'm thinking off. Ask people for advice..you can't control everything. Thank you fernanda ❤

  • @elianamolina4339
    @elianamolina4339 Рік тому +3

    I absolutely love your podcast Fernanda! Theres just some type of energy and vibe u give off! 💗🎀 I love the change of setup, so cute at night 🌙✨ manifesting good vibes for your podcast! Love uuuu queen!

  • @soniamaldonado6275
    @soniamaldonado6275 Рік тому +1

    This podcast has just helped me out tremendously, I am a negative thinker also an over thinker & listening to this really made a change for me ❤️ I thank you and appreciate you so much 🙏🏽❤️ God bless ❤️

  • @user-xw1xk5rr9h
    @user-xw1xk5rr9h Рік тому +2

    I've never given optimism a try until I listened to this podcast. For years, I believed the popular misconception that optimism was always seeing the bright side of everything, which made me think it was toxic. Thank you Fernanda for clearing up toxic positivity and providing us with the true definition! I've been enjoying these podcasts, implementing some of your suggestions, and have started to see a change in myself. My skin is glowing, I'm feeling great, and I'm more at peace. Looking forward to catching up on the rest of the episodes and the future ones to come! ♥

  • @thegirlwiththekabukimask2895
    @thegirlwiththekabukimask2895 5 місяців тому

    ilysm girl like, It's not that I stopped manifesting but, I've learned to focus more on the "change" than just blindly asking the universe. You help me jump-start xoxo

  • @mayaramires5660
    @mayaramires5660 Рік тому +2

    Fernanda your a natural I love your podcast your awesome . You really helped me whit a bunch of struggles and you are just amazing basically, I’m very happy for you that your new podcast channel is blowing up your awesome and you always have the positive energie that makes you shine i have so many ways to explain how much you’ve helped me and how much joy you gave me keep it up girl! we love you❤❤❤

  • @josephkustra1644
    @josephkustra1644 Рік тому +4

    awww yay i’m so happy u uploaded it!!! fern you already have the best tips and make my day when you upload ❤

  • @authenticallytrish
    @authenticallytrish Рік тому +15

    Listening to this podcast is now part of my morning routine 😊 such an uplifting way to start my day

  • @thehighalix
    @thehighalix Рік тому +1

    I struggle with depression since many years on and off and I really agree with you about hobbies, personally whenever I sew or knit I have to be so focused on what I do that it helps me to get out of my head. I am lucky tho for having a hobby because I know some people don't really have one or they don't yet know what they like to do... Anyway, I really enjoy listening to your podcast while I am sewing, please continue doing what you do! love from Paris

  • @bolaabuah3798
    @bolaabuah3798 Рік тому +1

    girl, i just found u and this , is the best thing i have listened to , btw thx for this podcast it acc really hepled me feel really positive and grateful.

  • @esavv_
    @esavv_ 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this podcast! It's very insightful and helpful to me and many people. I've been struggling with negativity for a while, and a big factor is the way I think whenever I don't want to get my hopes up, as you mentioned. I feel like it's really taken a toll on me mentally, but I don't know what to do to not get my hopes up because I also don't want to face that disappointment. Sorry for the long comment, much love 🩷

  • @xobrook
    @xobrook Рік тому +1

    I was in a mood and I already feel SO much better after watching this video. Tysm ❤

  • @Unathi.visualdiary
    @Unathi.visualdiary 3 місяці тому

    Omg i wish i started watching this podcast long ago so helpful i have it and i give it a 10/10 the way i was feeling negative about..... But now i feel so positive

  • @alien1971
    @alien1971 Рік тому +2

    I was abused my two of my cousins because of your these podcast I overcome thinking constantly that shitty past and accept that I'm the most luckiest girl in this world. THANKS A LOT GURRLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @velmavanbeulen1025
    @velmavanbeulen1025 8 місяців тому +1

    I've been in this dump for months after my aunt and grandma passed away in the beginning of the year , i started being hard towards myself and still am . Hearing this podcast just makes me feel good and makes me feel happy ❤ .
    If possible can you make a video about how you stay motivated to keep going in life and to follow your schedule
    ❤❤

  • @rosietorres
    @rosietorres 11 місяців тому

    Fernanda! I'm so happy I stumbled upon your "YOUR GUIDE TO SOCIAL CONFIDENCE & CHARISMA" video and I was like "holy shit I should start doing that." Thank you for being the sister figure I've always wanted to have. Your insights are so helpful and I'm excited to learn more!!

  • @amazzfoods
    @amazzfoods 6 місяців тому

    I just found your channel and I love listening to you and about your experiences. I feel like I relate to you in so many ways. When I need a refresher and motivation I always come to your channel to keep myself back on my feet and it has helped me to be more productive and positive, thank you :)

  • @lauracaldwell5640
    @lauracaldwell5640 10 місяців тому +1

    You are such best friend material! I needed to hear this today.

  • @hashihashi11.11
    @hashihashi11.11 Місяць тому

    I dont know why but you are the person who can calm me.I must say this. Thank you very much.Hash loves you.
    Im grateful that i met you.❤

  • @kariiglv
    @kariiglv Рік тому +1

    your topics lately have been so valuable to me I've been needing all this

  • @rouuulin
    @rouuulin 15 днів тому

    YOU make me be more positive!
    Your videos always bring me so much joy🥺love you!!!

  • @ddee_6234
    @ddee_6234 8 місяців тому +2

    as someone who is nearly the same age with you, and trying to be consistent creating contents in youtube( although i am full time student ) , you are so relatable, honest and all of your contents are quality contents. I feel like I am talking with my bestie when I listen to your podcasts. Just wanna say keep the good work up and thank you dear.

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 Рік тому +3

    Your podcast is helping me so much in my healing journey Fernanda I love you so much 🤍

  • @archxnaa
    @archxnaa Рік тому

    i just wanted to improve my english skills when i 1st click on your videos, but now i'm learning life as well. Thank you so much.

  • @user-oh5dd5cv4t
    @user-oh5dd5cv4t Рік тому

    This has genuinely inspired and helped me a lot thank you so much fernanda❤️

  • @AraVahanian
    @AraVahanian Рік тому

    Hello Fernanda how are you? Thank you so much for this! I would just like to add that it is also important to look for the silver lining in situations as this makes you a stronger and more well rounded person. I subscribed to your main UA-cam channel because I really enjoy the content and presentation. One of the things that I've done recently that's really made a huge difference in my life is that I've basically cut out watching the news here in the USA because all of these media companies broadcast too much negative news and I just didn't want to be exposed to that information. There's a lot of good things happening in the world that the news doesn't tell or show you. Thank you so much for starting a podcast like this! And by the way, you are absolutely gorgeous and vibrant as usual!

  • @aishawhite7862
    @aishawhite7862 Рік тому +2

    I love this episode!!! Love you Fernanda💗🫶🏼 Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💭💗💗

  • @user-sg2ps3sb3f
    @user-sg2ps3sb3f 9 місяців тому

    Can we agree that she is actually positive and the greatest podcast girl rn!!❤😊

  • @moomoo4695
    @moomoo4695 Рік тому

    The setup is a vibe like you Fernanda love your videos🌸🌸🌸

  • @abigayleflynn911
    @abigayleflynn911 7 місяців тому

    Now this was probably the most helpful podcast I have heard about negative thinking and positive optimism.

  • @davidbruce2083
    @davidbruce2083 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for the advice you have, gave me the opportunity to help myself to know more about my self. ❤❤

  • @cirinechennafi
    @cirinechennafi Рік тому

    Your podcasts are just incredibly amazing ♡

  • @Ellie_clarke
    @Ellie_clarke Рік тому +7

    This is my favourite podcast you have helped me so much I just want to say your an amazing person and I hope when I’m older I will be like you ❤love you Fernanda

    • @lexy1151
      @lexy1151 Рік тому +2

      Same sis it has really helped

  • @Mimi-xq8wm
    @Mimi-xq8wm 29 днів тому

    I needed this . I was going through it but you helped me find a different view of life

  • @gaurikunjuzz
    @gaurikunjuzz Рік тому +4

    I love your podcast so much... I don't know why it is so relatable.Every episode of your podcast so enjoyable. Your advices and experiences makes it more beautiful❤️

  • @jamierosalez5912
    @jamierosalez5912 10 місяців тому

    your podcast has helped me in so many different perspectives, i’m honestly so greatful you are a creator, i feel like i’ve been needing to hear everything you’ve spoke of in all of your videos , i’m definitely headed down the right path with the help of your podcast,thank you Fernanda 💛

  • @ThanhTran-kd5pv
    @ThanhTran-kd5pv 13 днів тому

    how can love yourself right way!
    - love unconditional yourself without judge
    - self- responsibility things around you
    -look at loop that you catch up to expand comprehension!
    Before we want to attract good things into your life. we ought to accept darkness part inner and release it. A real love without suffers ! ❤
    I’m from Vietnam

  • @Abirosaaa
    @Abirosaaa 6 місяців тому

    I cannot tell you how much the topics you focus on in your podcast help me. I listen to your episodes while I workout and it pours such good energy into my mind and spirit. Thank you thank you thank youuuuuu💞💞💞

  • @shyloweperez7038
    @shyloweperez7038 Рік тому

    This is exxxxxxactly what I needed girl! Verbatim!! Thank you!!!

  • @user-me4lc8bw7q
    @user-me4lc8bw7q 8 місяців тому

    I love you sis right you speak so fast but understantable.i am english learner and I am doing shadowing with your podcast❤️

  • @bubblelayna
    @bubblelayna Рік тому +2

    So grateful to have u fernanda 💗

  • @solfinest5442
    @solfinest5442 Рік тому

    I loved this! I knew some of these but having it repeated again & w/ so much honesty, good example and just understanding helps a lot!

  • @Aisha-zy3ks
    @Aisha-zy3ks Місяць тому

    I really do love your podcast your tips are the most accurate way to eliminate negativity

  • @violamugisha3843
    @violamugisha3843 18 днів тому

    I feel so much positive, feel what was bothering me wasnt worth it, i will always put reminders/sticker notes to kip the positive. Thanks

  • @user-mk1ro7lv1p
    @user-mk1ro7lv1p 8 місяців тому

    thank u so much. this is what i needed. love ur podcasts❤

  • @shafiya369
    @shafiya369 Рік тому +1

    Wow I love this podcast thankyou so much &we need podcast about hobbies ❤

  • @aye7770
    @aye7770 9 місяців тому +1

    Best podcast everrrrrrrrr I love you 😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @selestineshiro3918
    @selestineshiro3918 Рік тому +1

    Hi gal, this talk is very informative and relatable. Loving your energy.

  • @hannahvanoverbeek4682
    @hannahvanoverbeek4682 9 місяців тому +3

    I really love this podcast! Your energy is just awesome and I always feel better after watching your episodes :)

  • @_xxdisgraceyxx_
    @_xxdisgraceyxx_ Рік тому +2

    And here she comes saving my day.

  • @ammarahnaeem5028
    @ammarahnaeem5028 5 місяців тому +1

    She has such beautiful energy!!

  • @who_is_TA_
    @who_is_TA_ Рік тому

    EVERY EPISODE IS JUST SO AMAZING

  • @juandm09
    @juandm09 3 місяці тому

    This podcast help me to práctice my listening English, is so good and I love it

  • @shakoorah1
    @shakoorah1 Рік тому

    Great advice Fernanda ❤ nice reminders … thank you 😁🌻💛

  • @iamchofy8056
    @iamchofy8056 Рік тому +1

    I needed to listen this❤ helps me a lot ty

  • @Yevstifieievakarina
    @Yevstifieievakarina Рік тому

    loveee listening to this while at the gym 🤍

  • @romanovadasha
    @romanovadasha Рік тому

    This is my favorite podcast of all the time 💌💌💌

  • @YuKi-mq8sw
    @YuKi-mq8sw 6 місяців тому

    I really love this episode thank you so much ❤

  • @medeeaandrus2866
    @medeeaandrus2866 5 місяців тому

    Girl i just listen to 3 Podcast from you in a ROW . Love what you’re doing 🫶🏻

  • @nivekaperera
    @nivekaperera Рік тому

    I'm learning so much from this😩❤️

  • @deathlysl444
    @deathlysl444 Рік тому +1

    I feel like the last episode was yesterday, time does fly really fast!! take care of youu Fernanda

  • @Mochiplaysxx
    @Mochiplaysxx 9 місяців тому

    Girlie I have been listening to your podcasts when I’m on a run/walk and on my bus!❤️😚☺️

  • @_alex.nooram_
    @_alex.nooram_ 7 місяців тому

    I love your podcasts so so much! Thank you, keep going ❤

  • @ellacreatesart
    @ellacreatesart Рік тому +1

    I love this episode, thank you❤❤❤

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 Рік тому +1

    Love this set up so much 😍♥️

  • @jessicathomas5
    @jessicathomas5 Рік тому +2

    LOVE your videos! Such a breath of fresh air 💛

  • @AngelFelix111
    @AngelFelix111 Рік тому +2

    The best advice ever. I take notes. Literally.

  • @yezstra
    @yezstra Рік тому +1

    Thank you for todays episode!

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 Рік тому +1

    A topic I definitely needed!

  • @Zainab-sx3yd
    @Zainab-sx3yd 11 місяців тому

    I really needed this rn, thank you love♡

  • @divinechinye1513
    @divinechinye1513 Рік тому +1

    This is so helpful,thanks😊❤

  • @nasimasultana
    @nasimasultana Рік тому

    I needed this so bad!

  • @Horrorzeit
    @Horrorzeit Рік тому +1

    Just love your podcast 🎉

  • @Ms.A_O
    @Ms.A_O 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, Fernanda; I literally had to log-in, subscribe and say that I am "grateful for you" =).

    • @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA
      @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA  9 місяців тому

      aw i love you!!

    • @Ms.A_O
      @Ms.A_O 8 місяців тому

      @@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA 🥲🥹so sweet of you, thank you love.

  • @nawdianadoo4571
    @nawdianadoo4571 10 місяців тому

    Recently , i keep listening her podcast

  • @giadacordara8455
    @giadacordara8455 Рік тому

    you are an inspiration!

  • @dorixyz
    @dorixyz Місяць тому

    Love this 💗💗

  • @leslielopez4205
    @leslielopez4205 Місяць тому

    I love this podcast ❤ you are so relatable and !!

  • @natasacetkovic5579
    @natasacetkovic5579 Рік тому +1

    I Loveee thisssss❤❤❤