Catholic Marriage (Our Rule Of Life)

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  • Опубліковано 18 бер 2019
  • Great Catholic marriages just don’t happen. A peaceful family life is not by chance. Looking for peace in the home? Then this UA-cam video is for you.
    Catholic Speakers Ken and Janelle Yasinski, share one step they took to and create a greater atmosphere of peace within their home. With the stresses of homeschooling, Ken traveling and speaking full-time, and Janelle running an online ministry, things at home seemed out of control. That is when a RULE OF LIFE, brought a much needed structure to the family life.
    What is a rule of life?
    Within religious communities of sisters or priests, they have a certain way of living that is set out by the religious order. The structure of living, or rule of life, gives structure to the religious life. There are certain times for prayer, work, cleaning, study and recreation. This rule of life is ordered specifically to the sanctification of the members of the religious community.
    The Catholic family can also be ordered in a similar way. This is what the Yasinski’s refer to as their “Rule of Life.” Is it a daily schedule for the whole family to follow. It clearly lays out, when is study, play, cleaning, eating, household shores, family recreation time, prayer time ect. This routine is not random. Like within a religious order, this rule is specifically order to the good of each member of the family. It is created for the sanctification of each person within the family, and ordered for the good of the marriage relationship. It has eternity as its goal, and seeks to fulfil the will of God in marriage and family life.
    Having a healthy Catholic marriage takes some hard work. Creating a rule of life for the family has been a huge benefit for the Yasinski’s. The biggest change within the home, has been a greater sense of peace. There can not be peace within the home, without order. The rule has created this order.
    If your looking for Catholic speakers, check out Ken’s website at:
    catholicspeaker.com

КОМЕНТАРІ • 60

  • @sawsanelshafey3634
    @sawsanelshafey3634 5 років тому +10

    I love you the amazing Catholic couple and so proud of you. God bless you and protects your awesome family.

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому +1

      Sawsan Elshafey thank you for kind words and prayers. We appreciate it! 😀

    • @sawsanelshafey3634
      @sawsanelshafey3634 5 років тому +1

      @@Catholicspeaker
      You are welcome! All the best for you. I am Egyptian ex-Muslim converted to Catholicism and I am happy to follow you. Pray for us espicially for our resettlement because we are refugee Catholic couple Sawsan and Hani in Hong Kong waiting for resettlement because of religious persecution in Egypt.
      Thanks a lot, our greetings to the whole awesome family.

    • @ChristineCorey
      @ChristineCorey 4 роки тому

      Must get this book!

  • @annrooney579
    @annrooney579 5 років тому +7

    Jenelle, I attended the mission given by Ken the last 2 evenings at St, Gregory's Church in Samuels, KY. It was wonderful. I want you to know what a wonderful job you are doing! You wouldn't believe how highly Ken speaks of you! Good work!

  • @MyLadyofFatima
    @MyLadyofFatima 5 років тому +5

    You and Janelle inspire by your common sense approach. Your videos are not "fluffed" with a faked and staged family life that appears perfect and out of touch. I appreciate Janelle's candor that is appealing to those mothers that are daily trying to cooperate with God's will to sanctify families - but find that some days are better than others. Wish you had been around when I was raising my own nine children but by God's grace they have survived thus far to adulthood spiritually, physically and mentally. It is pretty amazing how God provides when we think He isn't. Thank you.

  • @TheBensasa
    @TheBensasa 5 років тому +14

    Guys, this is just SOOO GOOOOD! The dynamic between you two is wonderful + you've inspired my wife and myself to reread the book and try to find some more peace in our own family with 4 kiddos. Blessings from Slovenia!

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому +2

      Benjamin Siter thank! We appreciate your encouragement. 😀

  • @Ivanfmr
    @Ivanfmr 5 років тому +4

    Hi Ken and Jannell, I really love your videos. I find them very genuine and practical! Jannell seems to have a natural gift for planning and organization. That's a great gift to have! I absolutely agree with your message that order helps to keep the peace in the home. Thank you!

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому

      Ivan Mora thanks. Yes, Janelle has a great gift of organization.

  • @patriciakuria1575
    @patriciakuria1575 4 роки тому +3

    You both are a great inspiration to all Catholic couples and families. May God continue to strengthen you for the good work He is doing through you. Love and blessings from Kenya.

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  4 роки тому +1

      Patricia Kuria Happy Easter! Thank you for watching from Kenya! God bless you.

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. The Rule of Life is very important :-)
    God bless.

  • @janetmariemccoll4098
    @janetmariemccoll4098 2 роки тому +1

    So true. God bless you and your family now and forever with His choicest blessings.👏❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊

  • @aliciadenis9606
    @aliciadenis9606 5 років тому +3

    What a fantastic summary of the Rule of Life!! Thank you for posting this. We had at one time (in desperation) put together a rule when we began homeschooling, and it really brought peace to our home. I also found we had more time! Most importantly we intentionally put prayer first. We need to re-establish the Rule in our home in it's entirety. But I have found even having a bare bones morning schedule posted for the kids was very helpful during the times when we were functioning in "survival mode".
    This encourages me to pick it up again!

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому

      Alicia Denis thanks for the comment! I hope all is well. 😀

  • @nicolaj665
    @nicolaj665 5 років тому +2

    Hi, from England. I may not be able to listen to all of this unfortunately but will stay as long as possible. X

  • @nicolaj665
    @nicolaj665 5 років тому +7

    Wow, that was really good and helpful. It's really good that you plan your day. I try to plan but honestly find it really difficult to find time to sit down and plan the next day. We home school too which is brilliant but I feel like a clown juggling about 7or 8 balls al at once. May be I could try. We tend to have a routine anyway in the midst of chaos.
    Having time with my husband is difficult as at the end of the day we are both so tired that we spend the evening recovering from the day. However, we are trying to pray together more now.
    Please could you do more family videos, they are really useful. I love your message. Thank you very much. X

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому +3

      Nicola Joyce thanks for the comment. Yes, it takes time to plan. In fact it was tough for Janelle to find time for this. But after taking the time to plan, it actually created more free time for her in the day. And yes, we will be doing more videos on living the Catholic family life. 😀. Thanks for watching.

  • @mariaantonio1575
    @mariaantonio1575 5 років тому +4

    Absolutely beautiful couple! Thanks for the inspiring words..God bless your family 😘

  • @mazikode
    @mazikode 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video!! Thank you...just going back to old videos i missed before i subscribed.

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  2 роки тому

      Wonderful! There are a lot of videos that go back for awhile! Enjoy 😀

  • @gcs1432
    @gcs1432 5 років тому +1

    Great ideas to place in order for the family.👍 Thank you for sharing.💌

  • @rachelbeggs5848
    @rachelbeggs5848 Рік тому

    Yes! This is exactly what I've been looking for! Thanks :)

  • @nuembarradas4533
    @nuembarradas4533 2 роки тому +1

    Awesome.... 🙏🙏🙏God bless your precious family 👫👬👨‍👩‍👦

  • @marijomariyadas5505
    @marijomariyadas5505 5 років тому +3

    Oh my gosh, you guys! I have been waiting for this! And have tried something like this, but not quite, and it never got finished therefore did not work! But I have thinking a lot about Madonna House and my time spent there, and wish I had a structure to our life, so it was also easy for Andrew to join in when he got home... thank you for this!

  • @olololo9224
    @olololo9224 3 роки тому

    Your opening statement about no peace at home-I get it! And was thinking just about this topic...thank you so much for sharing this!!!

  • @alcidebouchard5315
    @alcidebouchard5315 5 років тому

    Hi guys, I am grateful that my Mom and Dad were shown the example, by their parents, to set a schedule and follow it as much as possible. It was very comforting , as children, because we knew what to expect and what was expected of us. I was number 8 of 11 children. There is naturally unforeseen things that happen, but order tends to prevail because faith, hope and love stabilize our interactions so that we can create order on the fly when necessary. God bless you. I often think about you and pray for you all. Alcide, Holy Cross Parish, Winnipeg

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому

      Al Bouchard thanks for the comment. It is great to hear from you. Hope all is well in Winnipeg. 😀

  • @marcdecastella3454
    @marcdecastella3454 3 роки тому

    What a great Catholic family life. May God bless your family in time and in eternity. You are a great example to many in these confused and diabolically disorientated times.

  • @luisaconti5391
    @luisaconti5391 5 років тому +1

    What a great video, you both speak to us and each other so effortlessly. Can't wait for our Parish mission in a few weeks. God bless and see you soon

  • @jonm5252
    @jonm5252 4 роки тому

    Great video guys! Ken you’re looking jaaaaaacked.

  • @barbt9318
    @barbt9318 Рік тому

    This is so important...thank you

  • @allainecalapes
    @allainecalapes Рік тому

    Your family is amazing.

  • @maryadams9492
    @maryadams9492 3 роки тому

    You two amaze me! When do you have time to read. 👏🙏💕🙏

  • @franciscakerubo3587
    @franciscakerubo3587 3 роки тому

    Praiiiiise Jesossss

  • @kleinschmitterling
    @kleinschmitterling 3 роки тому

    So, I tunes on the captions and it's all Korean. Any Korean Catholic here?

  • @the_honda_civic2516
    @the_honda_civic2516 3 роки тому

    k

  • @analarson2920
    @analarson2920 3 роки тому

    Okay I am lost, so whats the rule, having rules? Or order? or is it a bunch of rules or just a schedule for everything? It sounded like there was supposed to be one rule? Sorry, I would really like to know. I watched the video and I read the summary above and I am still lost. Blessings.

    • @jfer5622
      @jfer5622 3 роки тому

      I think you must see where you lack order. If it's in prayer time, put that at the front. It may require u 2 start ur day earlier but u will get it in. If its after a hard days work, have rules 4 who will assist u in preparation b4 u arrive. If it's time 4 urself, secure 30 min of walking time which can be prayer time as well. Basically, where do u lack order, what stresses u out. Start there first and organize/assign TASKS according to YOUR schedule :)

    • @rebn8346
      @rebn8346 Рік тому

      Make over your mornings website is awesome.

  • @bettyangwenyi1797
    @bettyangwenyi1797 3 роки тому +1

    People are smart. Or inspired by the Holy Spirit. Or both.

  • @mrPhotographer76
    @mrPhotographer76 5 років тому +1

    would you care to share your rule of life and schedual

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому

      Michael Lasko great idea. Maybe in another video.

    • @patrickparris8
      @patrickparris8 5 років тому +1

      @@Catholicspeaker I would second seeing an image uploaded somewhere of your schedule (redacted if needed). I'm curious about the layout you all described.

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  5 років тому +2

      Patrick Parris we’ve had a number of questions about this. I think we will just do another video specifically show how we schedule our day. I’m currently in CA speaking but when I return home I will suggest to Janelle we do a part to right away. Thanks for the questions. Stay tuned.

    • @patrickparris8
      @patrickparris8 5 років тому

      @@Catholicspeaker Sounds great. Thank you

  • @avemariafamily2681
    @avemariafamily2681 8 місяців тому

    How I love u