Catholic Marriage | Why Self Denial Is Important
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- Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
- In a Catholic Marriage, why is self denial so important. In this video you will learn about the Sacrament of Matrimony and which self-sacrifice is essential to establish God’s order for the family.
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As a genuinely Catholic couple, you are a great example to many Catholics, both married and those aspiring to be . Your children are truly blessed to have you as parents.
You both are such a blessing! You make me laugh, make me cry and always make me think and point me to Jesus. Thank you!!!
Ken and Janelle, you had me laughing. Early in our marriage I would pull out the hot sauce when Emily made something I didn't like. To this day, if I use it Emily thinks she has made something I don't like (Ken, I must admit that the hot sauce did not work recently on cauliflower rice). Seriously, though, what stood out to me is dying to self. That is marriage on a daily basis. We are a sacrament and our goal is to get each other to Heaven and in order to do that, we have to give of ourselves to each other.
I love the Catholic perspective because it exposes a purpose for the suffering, hope of becoming sanctified, the possibility of suffering a little less as time goes on, and also growing closer to Jesus in the process. An example I can give, is that I used to buy for the sake of experiencing the satisfaction of ownership (pride), now I find myself going through a litany of thanksgiving when I walk through a store: thank you Lord, I don't need this, and that, and that... Being poor also helps with that, but I don't feel like I'm suffering through it. All my needs are provided for, especially the need for peace and contentment, in ways I couldn't have imagined.
This is so true and so important. I just recently confessed jealousy because I find myself as a stay at home mom, wishing I could serve God more - but the thing is, that isn't what He has called ME to do. He has called me to be a mother and wife, and live a life of hidden adoration. It is MY will to serve others in a way that is not compatible with the vocation God has given me. Most days I understand this and offer up my daily tasks and duties etc with joy, but there are times I feel as if it's not enough and the devil tempts when he sees a crack! And then how special to have The Holy Family as our model ... What did our Blessed Mother do? (That was/is enough!) What better way to die to ourselves than to raise littles?!!! We have the opportunity to not only obtain sanctity ourselves, but raise up little Saints. God is so good! 🙏
Thank you for these joyful and inspiring, thought-provoking videos!
This is another good Catholic video from you, Ken and Janelle Yasinski! Thank you, and may GOD richly bless you and your family! My fiancee is out of the hospital in her home country with her mother taking care of her at my Love's home apartment - she is getting better! Thank you for your powerful good prayers, and please pray for me that I have consistent real true good physical and physiological health so that I can pray my prayers - including my neo - non-negotiable prayers which includes the five decade Holy Rosary of the most Blessed Virgin Mother Mary, conceived without sin, daily!
Hi Paul - thanks for the update. I am glad she is out of the hospital. 🙏
Ken and Janelle THANK YOU VERY MUCH once again for an excellent video recording on CATHOLIC MARRIAGE. Self Denial this is a difficult one. To meet our needs and others needs as well. Sacrifices are what GOD and JESUS made for us. It is kind of us to try to return some things back to the Father also. Without denying our own selves either. I believe that compromise is important IN ALL OF OUR RELATIONSHIPS, for marriage, our families and friends. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH AND YOUR FAMILIES AND FRIENDS. HAPPY ADVENT AND BLESS THE HOLY TRINITY!
You guys are so cute! This Advent meditation series has been so edifying. I never knew St Alphonsus’ writing. Thank you for bringing his wisdom and spiritual insight to us. Your family is a blessing to us and is bearing much fruit :-) Peace and Joy to you all this Christmas! 🎄🙏❤️
Congratulations on your 7 th baby the baby will loved so much God bless you 🙏🏽🎄✝️📿🇺🇸🎁🙏🏽🎄✝️
Thank You Ken and Jenelle. Yes there are many sacrifices made within Marriage. When we do this for each other, that is what REAL LOVE is made of.
Unfortunately for me, my marriage did not last. There was too much unfaithfulness over the years on my then husbands part, and Trust, eventually after 20 years, could not be retrieved.
I always wanted a marriage that lasted, and was fruitful, where we all blossomed. As much as I didn't like divorce, I had to accept that we were not a good long term match. And that is that. I told myself the opposite for years, and put up with too much. This was not a good example for our girls either.
I am so much happier now, and a big weight has been lifted of my shoulders. I Pray for my Daughters Dad, and they have a good relationship with him too. And they know what is acceptable and what isn't, I have taught them this, especially when they needed to hear it. My relationship with my daughters is alot healthier too. Thank GOD.
Yes I know what You mean Jenelle, mortifying the senses can definitely be a challenge!
For me Charity Shops are the best, they are like a Treasure Troves....
So many great bargains at a fraction of the price. I have always got things for myself and my 4 Girls, from being Young, in different Charity shops. Not sure how good they are in Canada. I can pick up clothes & toys for £1 and £2....and they are in pretty good condition. Thank GOD. It has been a life saver, when money has been scarce.
Anyway, I've written my mini block buster. GOD Bless You Both and Your Precious Family. And Everyone. 🙏❤️🙏💕💕💕🌟✨✨✨
I have found myself in the comparing trap and have had to step back and say I have been so blessed by what I have I don’t need more than what I I need. I am thankful for Gods blessing in my life and never want to have an ungrateful heart
Thank you both so much - you are so funny, endearing and contagious with your faith & love for Our Dear Lord and for each other. I feel all my life I’ve been very restricted having mental/physical disabilities/health issues and have been denied many things in life however this has also made me stronger and more aware so therefore I am grateful to OurLord for this. My husband is a chef of which I am also very blessed! Love from UK x 🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻 x
Thank you for being"true" parents! You help me by knowing there are other parents out there, like my husband and I, who are actually trying to teach our children the Catholic faith and true sound morals.
Janelle, i am happy my husband cooks too! I am no cook, although i try.
Ken, i love my silence too! As parents we don't always get that, but it is so nice when we do!
If you guys lived closer to us (Paris, Ky USA), I can envision us being great friends!
Thank you for all you do and May God Bless You. 🎄👼🥰🙏
Never understood "joyful suffering " until I became a parent.
You make me grow closer to the saint and mostly , I get to learn how God centered marriage is 🙏💖💖
Great video and very funny. Share the cooking and enjoy cauliflower rice. Always look forward to these videos. Great work.
Thanks for the wisdom Phil 😀
That's a sensitive topic 😂😂😂😂😂 love the way you represent reality of life. It feels relatable. Thank you Ken and Janelle for touching different aspects of our life and linking it to our spiritual journey 🙏❤️ Congratulations for your new baby on the way 😍
Thank you 😀
Hi, like always you are the best. Jannelle, I'm recognizing my self about cook, what kind of meal (men they love meat, poultry, sausage, junk food 😜). Also, my oldest daughter ( unfortunately left from catholic church little before confirmation) choose live in the middle of nowhere , simple, just enough (not Minimalist) with my granddaughter. They are happy almost 2years.🙏 God is always providing in His time, in His way
You are a remarkable couple! You remind me what a joy it is to be from a big family, and I agree with you about noise. It is important to learn how to tune into our soul silence. This happens for me when I’m doing watercolor, or anything creative. Jesus is our source. I had an opportunity to relearn this yesterday while searching through a big store. I had a gift card and I could find nothing I wanted. I thanked God for that experience, and thank Him every day for wanting and needing less in my old age. Good bless you both and your beautiful family. Merry Christmas.
Blessings from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 I share tour videos with my friends
Thank you for reminding me of God's sanctification process.
Such a joy listening to both of you! Thanks so much for this reflection!
Count your blessings....you have each other and may that last for years and years. Even the blessings of not having everything or liking everything that you have. You are extremely blessed. I miss the days of raising my children, which I would do again and hopefully better in a heartbeat. You two are so cute, so real. 🙏🏼❤🥰
Thank you for the kind words. 😀
Today is my 19th wedding anniversary and we are staying in a bed and breakfast in Michigan right off the lake. We have 7 kids too. This is our very first time ever going on a vacation without our kids! And guess what!! We have the whole entire bed and breakfast house to ourselves. It’s so quiet. I told my husband I miss my kids. I’m so used to all the chaos that this seems weird. I keep telling myself to enjoy it bc it will be a long time before this happens again. I always feel like I need to be doing more and I’m realizing that I’m trying really hard and God does see my sacrifice. I am very guilty of eating too much. That is something I really want to work on is fasting for self obedience. Thank you 🙏
Happy 19th Wedding Anniversary. With prayers from Indonesia. Ours will the 20th on Januari 19th 2022.
@@concilianusmbato9329 thank you! Happy upcoming anniversary to you as well. I hope you have a Blessed Christmas ❤️
I also related very strongly to your comparison of parenthood with today's refection. Thank you for sharing, it is always refreshing to hear that embracing the daily inconveniences of life are tangible ways to grow on sanctification (it gives me hope).
Beautiful. Just beautiful.
You guys are just such a sweet couple. Enjoyed your banter but got the point. Good bless you both.
Wonderful to hear a couple share their heart.
You are such a beautiful and blessed family; keeping forging ahead. Thank you for sharing.
You're always an inspiration to people...God bless you always ❤ Vancouver
Sared music in the background very quiet bring great peace to a home.
Thank you for all you do. God bless you abundantly.
Cauliflower Rice == “A diabolical lie” I thank you both for ALL YOU DO- AND THE LAUGHS AND HUMAN-NESS❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love your honesty ,so truthful and so funny . Merry Christmas and thank you both .hope the cards are posted at this stage !! Best wishes from Ireland
I love you two. You are so special. I feel like part of your family.
Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year
You both are a Blessing though this Advent😇😇❤❤
You two were joyful today☺️. Thanks for the wise words and may God bless and prosper you. Thanks!
I loved your emotion when speaking today, Janelle. This has been a holy Advent for me also for very different reasons.
You two are an amazing couple. Merry Christmas to your family.
You are so cute sharing your family experiences and pray to God to have more blessed families as your. May God continue pouring His blessings on you and your family. You are very special and precious in God’s eyes and may He bless your ministry. Keep you in my prayers 🌲😘🙏🙏🙏
Thank you guys for the belly full of laughs this morning! What a great way to start my day!
You both stand out as a genuine and good! When Janelle geared up so did I. This has also been a great advent for me as well. Thank you 🙏
Our pleasure!
Thank you guys. So encouraging for us parents. God bless. 💖
I loOoOove this hahaha I laughed at your talking about food, and also marriage is so sanctifying. I really believe, especially with how much it's attacked nowadays, that married men and women will be the next wave of saints!! 💪💪☺️💗
Thanks for sharing!!
You two are so sweet! Such joy! Merry Christmas!
Thank you for your work! Congratulations on baby! Wonderful work! God bless!
Thank you! Very helpful reminder.👍🙏
Lovely, inspiring 🤗🤗
May our Lord bless you abundantly.
Love all your reflections. The sin of comparison is a hard one. I am with you Janelle cauliflower rice is delicious. One of my favorite dishes.
Thank you 🙏 God bless your marriage and family ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you so much for this video and sharing your struggles! I'm glad I found this now but could have used this long ago. Thanks again!
You are so welcome!
Lolol i have seen cauliflower rice in the store and have been wanting to get it but keep thinking it might not be delicious buts such a healthy idea. Good forJanelle for taking healthy steps. I am going to try it now that you mentioned it.
May God Bless You 🙏 Both
Love this!
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love your sharing DEAR JnK
resonates so much esp wrt food. we wld hv been saints over food itself long ago ....😑love yr humour n contagious laughs. Ken My husband Will agree wirh you re food in our early married life.* yr children r sooo blessed with u as parents
May Franco in Dubai married for almost 30 years n loving yr sharing. why did I not find. Alphonsus earlier??
* thankfully hv improved in my cooking now
You are so blessed to have each other.
I love to hear you all laugh and share the love of your family ❤️🤗
Love you both so much and your beautiful family Merry Christmas 🎄🎁🎅✝️🤶🙏🏽📿🙏🏽🎄✝️📿🎅
I'm still struggling to find love after a divorce I never wanted. It didn't help when a Catholic Deacon said divorce was no big deal and it was a good thing. Another deacon disagreed and had me file a complaint with the vicar of priest and religious.
I love this couple because they are showing how to address issues properly.
I loved this video & message!! You two are SO precious and cute together. I love your laughter & honesty! I can personally identify with much of what you share! My husband LOVES to cook and does regularly. He also loves pork & to use pork for seasoning, which isn't the healthiest, but is delicious! 😂. God bless you both on your marriage & parenting journey. 🙏. It's not always easy but well worth the struggles and sacrifices. Marriage takes three. ♥️. God bless you.
Both of you are wonderful! Your face also similar each other :)
This is the reality of marriage☺️✝️
Thanks for watching.
I make zucchini boats, and my husband is not a fan but I am all about it being as close to nature as possible!! Basically it is hallowed out zucchini; on the inside it has cooked ground turkey with blended tomatoes + blended zucchini that I carved out for the boats, this makes the sauce, toss in some added seasoning.. baked with a bit of shredded mozzarella. MMMMM SO GOOD, Husband and son would disagree lol.
Lol ! I make spinish rice and my kids and husband joke of it . I can relate .
I am single. Live alone. I tried cauliflower rice. Took one taste and threw it out! Put it on my grateful list that I never have to eat it again.
Amen
Our appetites need to be curbed. Example I would love to get a nice warm robe, slippers and a watch for Christmas. I am making a decision to be grateful for what I have and what I am given. I also recognize that I am blessed and need to help others.
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It's impossible not to like you :)
I feel the exact same way!!
Living within means I was told is there a need that you want or is there A want that you need more so I need like the essentials
Just learning that God brought himself to be beyond the lowly of lowly is truly amazing and eye opener I'm not one for lavish I'm very frugal and I'm thankful for my home my stability I give God the glory for my virtuous upstanding woman as a widow and it's work in progress it's just so amazing God is so amazing I mean can you imagine going from riches to rags to riches again and wow honestly feel I'm very rich in the spirit and not because well yes my home I'm very thankful to God because this is my very first home I've had stability and unfortunate my husband's not here but then I have God my Holy Family I have my amazing media family and my family that are with me listening to the Advent retreats and such and the list is endless I could go on and on I can only say God is amazing thank you God
Janelle and Ken you are a great loving couple of God and you bring up your children and such incredible Faith to God and the key to silence is sometimes we need a me time and I find that 3:00 in the morning hopefully the children don't wake up try to be really quiet and tiptoe if you have to and just take a me time with God and introducing chores to children is challenging my children are now grown but I've noticed that my sons are very humbling in spite of the difficulties in their life they're very brought up with incredible manners respect for others and I know your children are going to become great growing adults in the face because they have two amazing parents that devote their life to God in Christ in the Holy Spirit with the help of the Holy Family to be with you both and your family and that's all baby
And a girl they're going to grow up and be great adults in their faith
I meant to say
And also I meant to say baby Jesus please pray for us amen
Oh may I add a Janelle you are very worthy of buying an outfit now and then for yourself you deal with children 24/7 you ought to having me date go to a spa and relax have dad watch the kids and just by nice outfit treat yourself to a nice lunch because one day you're going to be my age and you're going to be oh gosh only I did that only I did this so that's mother's advice to you all right love you dear Ken behave yourself you don't like the wife's cooking then you need to cook okay bye-bye
Being polite and respectful about that in a loving way peace🙏
be with you lovelies👩❤️💋👩 💞🌹🎄👶👶👶👶👶👶👶
Mother of five here, and my spouse is not Jesus, 😁 needless to say I am overwhelmed. Just heard the poco a poco podcast and the bros said sometimes we don't understand the mystery in front of us, just as the blessed Mother must have, and ultimately we just have to say yes, over and over again just as she did. Just as long as we are with Jesus, and say yes to the Father we will be okay.
Actually cauliflower rice can end up being very expensive to eat especially when you are feeding 7 mouths. Plain rice is much more cost effective & in this day & age a more simple food compared to the "very trendy" "cauliflower rice".
In our house, there are not too many mouths that like or will eat cauliflower rice!
@@Catholicspeaker - it could have been worse; it could lhave been a cauliflower pizza.
Lol. Your children are blessed.
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Wait! What! Did I miss a video? A 7? Congratulations guys!
Yes, baby 7 is coming in June! 😀
@@Catholicspeaker I have to look for the announcement video. Oh my gosh I thought I never missed a video, well I guess I am wrong.
@@xeniadv we first mentioned it here: ua-cam.com/video/vBAy7dq4SwY/v-deo.html
I had to stop the video and laugh cauliflower rice is actually quite good with lots of butter my husband was the chef in the family and I work cuz he was disabled and my husband passed and I made a meal for my son's
looked at the Food I prepared looked at me and walked away and I'm like okay LOL😆
lol!!!
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Cauliflower…rice…?
I think it's ok that your husband doesn't always love the food you cook. There is no such thing as perfection when it comes to human action/behavior, only God does things to perfection. Plus u really should not resent your husband if at times the food you cooked was not his liking. As long as he does not critize you for it & can just appreciate that you cooked for the family. God Bless :) God also doesn't expect every child of his to be poor or to live in poverty. God always provides for all things we need & at times he provides above & beyond our expectations. GOD IS A GENEROUS & LOVING FATHER. HE KNOWS WHAT WE NEED & WE NEED TO TRUST IN THAT. :)
Cauliflower rice == “diabolical
This is legit.
Add sour cream and bacon bits to cauliflower rice and pretend it’s a baked potato. Yum
They to nicely nicely sickly sweet. If it works for us it works for all. Many kids and poverty increases in poor countries.
Divorce is permitted do not be unequally yoked. Jesus said regards to the Pharisees view of divorce. They divorced for the least thing, only for adultery its permitted
Gee, barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and debating the taste benefits of cauliflower rice
Supported by hubby
God help that family as it implodes
How do you afford seven kids? You must have a good job? Considering the average individual salary in the United States is a little more than $40,000 a year and I don't think going on social services to raise them isn't Christ-like?