This dude is straight up using God as an excuse to justify his predator behavior his wife even said well this isn't the first time you pulled this. Everything about Ben screams creepy.
How is he a predator if he's an adult and she's an adult? Am I a predator because I like brunettes? Because I like women? Because I like Rich women? Holy shit, then ur a predator as well, unless you're celibate. Its really hard to accept that a man who takes care of himself likes a younger pretty woman? Everyone has choices which they are FREE to make, and as long as it's legal and both parties are of sound mind and body, who the fuck are u to condemn shit? Get the fuck out of grown folks' lives and go to the gym.
I don't think he is a predator, but he is kind of ridiculous saying "Your 22? I thought you were 24." But f'it. Love has no age! I am 39 and my fiance is 25. And trust me, i had doubt if it was gonna work. But after time spent and alot of communication, were good to go!
I think they is a couple side crashes in the comments section with people being holier than thou, like nobody here stole candy from 7-11??!!! All these holy angels walking around here ready to cast the first sto9ne against Ben.
It's not uncommon at all for narcissistic sociopaths to use religion as a cover for who/what these men really are/do. Even just manipulative men will do the same. Don't know how serious and deep Ben's personality problems are but he obviously has problems. Skeevy older male.
It's shows how emotional irresponsible he is. Can't handle women his own age. He needs help obviously he doesn't believe as much as he tries to act like it.
He says that they are at the same level, dude you should be! You are over 50 y/o and you shouldn't be at the same maturity level as a 20-something y/o. You are totally right, a woman his age would run circles around him and make him feel like the dumb idiot he is. He says it's about the sex thing but not buying that for a second...
Yeah,. no. Dude has been HARDCORE in the church since he was a teen, yall don't think there was a little brainwashing there. he did EXACTLY as the church commands for most of his fun life. He lived seemingly meek, humble, became a pastor, and OMG his ex-wife looks more homely than a 100-year-old wool sweater. Dude was CLEARLY not living his best life, he might as well be Amish. So he chooses to live HIS life, breakaway, but he is still confined by the church's hold on his decision and consciousness. And yall think he's using the church?? How much money has he given the church? How much of his life has he given the church. Maybe if he had joined the church after his mid-twenties, MAYBE he'd be using the church, but since he was this was since has a kid, the church used him.
@@vandaangellozzi1990 TMZ reported this "Rathbun’s arrest was the result of an OUI (operating while under the influence of alcohol) charge and driving with a suspended license in his home state of Michigan. In actuality, Rathbun’s arrest came from his failure to appear at a probation hearing which was scheduled back on February 7th."
They're basically vampires trying to suck the youth out of younger women so they can feel relevant again. If a person that much older has so much in common with somone old enough to be his daughter, he's at best incredibly emotionally immature.
@@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Awesome, But I don't think failure to pay taxes or having multiple liens on your home would be a major criminal red flag. The op's question seemed to imply that TLC was letting some major crook slip through their fingers.
She's 22 dude. She can smoke, drink, vote, drive, and fuck legally wherever in the world she is, maybe even join the military and get sent off to war to die. She's an adult.
@@wwlittlejOfficial 22 is still less mature than 25 bc their brain is still not fully developed. Learn how the brain works instead of asking stvpid questions
@@isasolorzano9706 I feel like this is a bunch of old people who had a shitty life and loves the misery of condemning others so their lives don't look as shitty. She is a 22-year-old WOMAN, why is this so hard to understand?
This is the pure example of someone making excuses for every single red flag that's thrown his way I don't see how people can't identify how desperate they are and start to search out more positive things to fill up any gaps in their lives start serving in the community get out there and be outward focused and taking care of other human beings and not searching to fill up the emptiness in your soul because what you're missing is God using you To meet others needs and that in return fills up your soul
Very true I'm 35 & when I'm around my nieces and nephews (all in their 20's) they annoy me to no fault of their own & I also have hard time following some of the shit their talking about lol
Why I stopped going to church, I was raised Catholic and besides the church covering up pedophiles, our new church has a pastor has a fire and grim stone way of preaching, always yelling telling us were sinners. If we were sinners would we be going to weekly mass? I worship in my own way now, I speak and pray to God, I consider myself spiritual, it has been 8 years since I went to weekly mass
He took a guilty plea to being under the influence of DRUGS to get a lower sentence. Then broke probation leading to the bench warrant for his arrest. Anything to say on your tax evasion Ben?
So he'd be OK with his daughter dating a guy his age? From another country?... Or would he say his daughter is immature compared to Mahogany? Or is he saying he's immature and got the intellectual compatibility of a 22year old given their great compatibility and commonality? 🙄
That's a ridiculous assessment. Would any father be happy to know what their daughter does to get pregnant or keep her man happy? What she does is her business. The girl is 22, not 17. U as a parent may have the right to ask, but thats it. She's a fucking adult.
I am in my 50's and have kids in their 20's and there is no way I could date someone the ages of my kids. It just sounds creepy BUT on the other hand my parents are 20 years apart and they have an amazing marriage. Ben seems to be missing something...I can't pinpoint it...maybe it is self confidence.
I give u credit, u have a reasonable assessment of the situation. As a parent, once your kids hit 18 or so, u really have no say in what they do, as long as they are not harming themselves or others, that's it. Is it an easy pill to swallow? Hell no, but your 18-year-old daughter is out smoking and drinking, maybe doing recreational drugs, and the things shes doing with boys and girls... well. But as u note, it's not all bad. if there is true love between an older adult and a younger adult, out of all the things we deal with, that's hardly my concern.
*As long as he will take good care of her and there's Love why not? I remember when I was young I used to look forward getting married to an old man so that he will take me like his daughter because I lack the Father daughter Love as I grew up in a toxic life. I ended up marrying a 13 age gap guy. Not that bad* 😉
@@artisthusnatalal3099 In Islam that is supposed to be normal. Your Mohammed was over 50 when he married a 6-year-old. Consummated at 9 years old. We understand why you don’t mind.
Bro she literally lied to him and youre sitting here talking about how 22 is too young when she's a grown ass woman lmao. Wtf has this world come too? Lmao
@@tylerhampton2607 Even 24 is way too young for a 52 year old. Try to think with logic instead of sexism. He's a predatory, criminal, creeper. The. End. Of. It. She even told him not to come and he stalked her and showed up anyway.
@@FGC-ku4ez I am thinking logically you aren't. Yours views are weird to me lol she's a grown woman.. She told him not to come cuz she's a fuckin liar and she's playing him she literally brought this man to a house thay wasn't hers but he's the creep lmao and she said she wanted to have his kids and be a family with him but they not in a relationship gtfo all of you are delusional. If her dad didn't see anything wrong with the age difference then why do you?
A 50 year old man on probation for operating a vehicle under the influence ? Bruh. I knew something wasn’t right with this guy. I think men that go for women 30+ years younger than themselves is just strange to me. Age isn’t just a number but still.. what could you possibly find in common?
I’ve always been told if a man can’t get a woman his own age, something is VERY wrong with him. Even if you have a gap that’s 10 years apart, like for example a 20 and 30 year old, you should be skeptical because the older one can easily manipulate the younger one. I don’t really know if there’s an exception with middle aged adults with other middle aged adults with an age gap because “been there, done that, learned from it.” But either way, everyone should kind of keep their guard up on intentions in this day and age
@@monicaprzestrzelski4677 I agree I was with a man who was 9 years older than me and I was 21 at the time, he was also very manipulative I’m just happy I left that toxic relationship
@@dydascodanielle and that's it right there!!..older men want someone younger that isn't experienced enough to see through their manipulation and ultimately control and even gaslighting them depending on how sadistic they are...its a power trip & stroking that massive ego so many weak men have.
@@monicaprzestrzelski4677 you are absolutely correct, they go for barely legs because most times they want even younger (girls). I was 18 and the guy I was with was 32. WORST MISTAKE of my LIFE. It took me years to break free from the mind games, lies, manipulation, and deception.
@@PRINCESS2527 there was a couple a few seasons ago where the woman was 19 and the man was in his 50s. His kids were older than her and they were not having it.
*As long as he will take good care of her and there's Love why not? I remember when I was young I used to look forward getting married to an old man so that he will take me like his daughter because I lack the Father daughter Love as I grew up in a toxic life. I ended up marrying a 13 age gap guy. Not that bad* 😉
1. She didn't want to ever meet him in person because her pics were faked. 2. She lied about her age because she never expected him to actually show up in person. 3. She met him at a fake apartment because her parents didn't want him to know where they live. 4. She didn't tell her friends because it wasn't serious at all. 5. She's a flirt and a liar ONLY online.... so her family & friends don't find out who she really is.
To be fair number 3 isn't that bad. Like if you're meeting someone from online for the first time you wouldn't want them to know your actual address would you? So I can't fault her for that and I think that's pretty smart.
you know they only talked for 3 months online. why hes flying out and saying he is in love with a 22 year old girl when you are over 50 after 3 months?
@Diane M Are u really this clueless? U cannot say TLC only shows desperate American when half of the people are from another country!! Who is desperate? The Americans or the Russian/Philippines/South Americans ( and so on) they are dating? Are u even serious??
It's the ones who constantly rub God in everyone's faces that are the biggest hypocrites!! He needs to stop using God as an excuse for all of his selfish decisions.
When someone is "mature for their age" it just means they are a "mature 22 year old" for example, they are not mature as a 50 year old 🤦🏻♀️ The excuses these people make...
Surprised fans of the show never knew he was on probation?The power of internet,social media these days you can find out nearly everything about anybody!
@@RicardoTheAce Uh yeah I know that cause he wrote "Suprised FANS of the show..." which is why I wrote the show was over before the fans even knew of him, let alone he could have gotten his first offense after the show finished taping. It's almost irrelevant the Fans didn't know this prior because they simply didn't know who he was most likely.
Creep factor is to high on this guy. Find somebody your own age in you own country to date. I'm 58 and I have a 30 year old daughter. This guy makes me gringe. Needs to be slapped
I thought it was pretty funny when he acted all choked when he found out she was 22 not 24, because "his daughter is that age". Bro, even if she was 24, that is still his daughters age. Just like when Mahogany's friends said that Ben is her parents age, that doesn't mean that they are the exact same age, but rather in the same age group. Someone two years older than me is still "my age".
Well he might be prohibited from flying now since he violated probation failure to appear. He might get slapped with an ankle bracelet for this especially since he's known to travel
When they set the bond that high, it’s because they expect he’s a runner and they don’t want anyone to be able to pay it. That way they can keep him in jail to ensure he doesn’t travel. I’m not sure how much one missed court date raises a bond, but If he was serving 18 month probation and stopped showing, makes me wonder if he did actually go to another country while on probation. You usually cant even leave the county I think? Not sure how different parole and probation are.
@@mandlas.4305 why is that sad I was happy til he died. I'm still happy we were together that long and I have a huge extended family because of our relationship
True Christianity is following the ways of Jesus. If you don't follow Christ, you are just a person who goes to the church building on a Sunday or Saturday.
Well, although nobody is perfect. It is obvious that he needs to press his faith in God to fill the void in his life. Dating younger women, blaming 🙄 your ex, the church, your childhood is a deflection.
Absolutely. Both are bizarre people. Everybody is talking about skeevy Ben but Mahogany is a real piece of work. Obvious scamming Ben with very edited, photoshopped pics to get him hooked and plenty of intimate promises and claims then appears almost 180' in reality. What was her game???
Just so everyone knows- The chance of getting a DUI is 1 in 250. Meaning he is most likely drunk driving pretty often. Not to mention a total creep. Somehow this guy makes Big Ed likable.
although it looks like he was originally charged with OWPD which is operating with the presence of drugs and driving with a suspended licence but plead gulity to lesser charge of Operating while ability impaired. gods plan im sure
I think this guy is a douche & what's up with that right eye??.. The charge isn't a DUI at all.. It's "operating ability impaired" that could mean many things/recklessly riding his bike🤔.. His lawn mower🤔 A golf cart 😂...Not to big of a deal... Yet, not appearing for a court date is a big deal (as he found out)... Guy is "off"
It's EXACTLY what all predators say to their victims! Pedophiles are infamous for saying this same thing to get their prey comfortable with them. No joke.
He's almost scarier than Big Pred with his penchant for young girls....he's just more articulate which is why the thought of him being a pastor creeps me tf out....
"Religious" people are just the biggest hypocrites you could ever meet. It allows manipulative liars to do just that while claiming what they are doing is somewhere in the bible!
Who gives a shit about an appearance difference? This man is the worst. They’re talking about him being predatory towards young women and excusing it with the old “age is just a number” argument and you’re going to stay focused on insulting his looks? I’d say that’s an irrelevant factor. Let’s shit on him for the actual bad stuff he does, not for what he looks like. Because only one of those things are under his control.
It's called ptosis, which is a drooping of the eyelid. I think he said he's always had it and some children are born with it. I have it due to a rare eye disease I have that can cause blindness. In my case, I got it as an adult and it's caused by the drug therapy I'm on, which has saved my vision, but weakened the eye tendon. Lazy eye(amblyopia) is something usually diagnosed in young children. The brain and eye don't work together properly, and the brain starts ignoring that eye and strengthening the vision in the dominant eye. Children with that condition don't have ptosis. Often it's picked up in an eye exam--parents don't see a physical sign of a problem. In any case, when you're facing blindness or partial loss of vision, how you look to others becomes much less important. You're just so grateful to be able to see. I'm guessing you are young and must not have much experience with people who have any kind of non-normal physical issue if you are this freaked out by his appearance. All sorts of things happen to our bodies that are beyond our control. I think you are putting your negative focus on his eye because in a strange way, its uncommon appearance is like a mirror for what seems to be truly "off" or even ugly about him--that creep factor that many viewers are getting from this guy. Like, the problematic part of him is inside, not on his eyelid. If he were a great, kind-hearted, sweet, and caring person, you'd barely notice the ptosis in his eyelid. It's because he doesn't seem to be a nice guy that makes his eye seem malevolent. By the way, there is surgery, but he has made it clear he is fine with his eye as is.
90 day fiancé? All I see is 2 people meeting for the first time. This show has watered down The McDonald’s from the 1990s was way better than McDonald’s from 2020 and up
Lots of creepy, predatory old men in the comment’s justifying dating women half their age. Age is just a number after 30, not at 22 when she has her whole youth ahead of her! And any woman dating a guy double your age or old than like 4ish years(if you’re younger than 25) ask yourself this: what is the reason that this man has NOT found someone on his age group/experience group? Ive dated older men before and every time I have, I noticed that not only did I continue to grow and emotionally mature whilst they stayed stagnant, but I noticed they were horrible partner material for any woman who is in their age range and looking for something serious. Dont waste your youth on these creeps! Have fun, go wild, settle down when you’re like 28+! Dont let society or men pressure you into getting with these old azz bums!
This dude is straight up using God as an excuse to justify his predator behavior his wife even said well this isn't the first time you pulled this. Everything about Ben screams creepy.
How is he a predator if he's an adult and she's an adult? Am I a predator because I like brunettes? Because I like women? Because I like Rich women? Holy shit, then ur a predator as well, unless you're celibate. Its really hard to accept that a man who takes care of himself likes a younger pretty woman? Everyone has choices which they are FREE to make, and as long as it's legal and both parties are of sound mind and body, who the fuck are u to condemn shit? Get the fuck out of grown folks' lives and go to the gym.
I don't think he is a predator, but he is kind of ridiculous saying "Your 22? I thought you were 24." But f'it. Love has no age! I am 39 and my fiance is 25. And trust me, i had doubt if it was gonna work. But after time spent and alot of communication, were good to go!
@@brandonvillanueva6931 that’s not that big of an age difference 14 years vs. his 30 year difference 😭
@@Genesisramseyy I guess I just wanted to share lol
Exactly!
90 fiancé is like a car crash you hate to see but can’t help but watch 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
💯😆
Nailed it!
I think they is a couple side crashes in the comments section with people being holier than thou, like nobody here stole candy from 7-11??!!!
All these holy angels walking around here ready to cast the first sto9ne against Ben.
Ain't that the truth! Lol
Omg yes perfectttttt.
Just because he is a pastor doesnt mean he is holy
Well we all know what pastors are famous for.
True..no one is holy except God
Due pastors are some of the most predatory people ever . People on higher ups are some of the most predatory people ever and so are religious people.
Honestly, the most 'holier-than-thou', "spiritual", Bible thumping people I've ever met are the most hypocritical, ill hearted people I know.
It's not uncommon at all for narcissistic sociopaths to use religion as a cover for who/what these men really are/do.
Even just manipulative men will do the same. Don't know how serious and deep Ben's personality problems are but he obviously has problems. Skeevy older male.
So damn sick of people like him using God as an excuse or cover up to convince people he’s a “good” person.
True
I love God but I also use God.
Not just cover up but also to shut down any speculation at least to his circle.
Absolutely! God isn’t tuning into 90 day fiancé & setting up relationships! It’s ludicrous!
For God's sake TLC get the cast some background checks man
I have a strong feeling that TLC knows and didn't care
@@chibuzor5148 obviously they didn't care because this was second time 90 day cast were arrested (the first one was geoffrey)
Hes an actor playing a role.
This guy couldn’t even make $10,000 bond to get his ass out of jail! Looser!!!!!!!!!
They do NOT care. This makes good television for them which means TONS of revenue and media attention!
It's shows how emotional irresponsible he is. Can't handle women his own age. He needs help obviously he doesn't believe as much as he tries to act like it.
He says that they are at the same level, dude you should be! You are over 50 y/o and you shouldn't be at the same maturity level as a 20-something y/o. You are totally right, a woman his age would run circles around him and make him feel like the dumb idiot he is. He says it's about the sex thing but not buying that for a second...
Hahaha lol
Can they arrest him for using the church to prey on young women? And set the bond higher?
Exactly...lol
Right honestly
Yeah,. no. Dude has been HARDCORE in the church since he was a teen, yall don't think there was a little brainwashing there. he did EXACTLY as the church commands for most of his fun life. He lived seemingly meek, humble, became a pastor, and OMG his ex-wife looks more homely than a 100-year-old wool sweater. Dude was CLEARLY not living his best life, he might as well be Amish. So he chooses to live HIS life, breakaway, but he is still confined by the church's hold on his decision and consciousness. And yall think he's using the church?? How much money has he given the church? How much of his life has he given the church. Maybe if he had joined the church after his mid-twenties, MAYBE he'd be using the church, but since he was this was since has a kid, the church used him.
Lol
100%
I feel so sorry for his ex wife ,and his children! His ex wife is lucky to be rid of him!
Technically with children, one is never rid of the ex. When you celebrate the children’s mile stones, there the ex is. Unless he is in jail.
I can't imagine having a father embarrassing his kids like this. He is extremely immature.
@@KathyLent Why was he arrested? Thank you
@@vandaangellozzi1990 TMZ reported this "Rathbun’s arrest was the result of an OUI (operating while under the influence of alcohol) charge and driving with a suspended license in his home state of Michigan. In actuality, Rathbun’s arrest came from his failure to appear at a probation hearing which was scheduled back on February 7th."
I got second hand embarrassment for his wife. Imagine people close to her recognised him when they watched this show
I just turned 21 and I genuinely cannot fathom being with a man the same age as my dad 😐
Right? Even Mahogany doesn’t want to be romantically involved
I'll be 22 this year and the thought of dating a 50 year old disgusts me
They're basically vampires trying to suck the youth out of younger women so they can feel relevant again. If a person that much older has so much in common with somone old enough to be his daughter, he's at best incredibly emotionally immature.
🤢 yeah...hell no.
I feel like that and I'm 37. You go girl
He is such a creep honestly.
He and Gino!
How is Ben a creep? Lol
@@Kamone111 at least Gino is not dating a 22 year old
Bens excuse for everything : "Gods Plans"
Everyone else: *Rolls eyes*
Ben..."Oh 22 not 24"..
Also Ben two seconds later so,... Breakfast at 8am.
Bens excuse for everything : "Gods Plans"
God: Keep my name out of your damn mouth!
He's not a Christian. SMH. 😈
@@shelley4746 you have more
@@shannonglass2057 He is, thats how they all roll!
Wow TLC do some criminal checks on these people !!!!
I'm quite sure they did, dude only had a drug offense. Also, u do realize the show was filmed like months ago?
@@wwlittlejOfficial yes but ben’s record goes back to 2010 for failure to pay taxes and has multiple liens on his home as well😳😳😳😳😳😳
@@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Awesome, But I don't think failure to pay taxes or having multiple liens on your home would be a major criminal red flag. The op's question seemed to imply that TLC was letting some major crook slip through their fingers.
Mawhogany??? What'd she say????😆 Ben's rationale for dating a child( compared to him) is troublesome...
She's 22 dude. She can smoke, drink, vote, drive, and fuck legally wherever in the world she is, maybe even join the military and get sent off to war to die. She's an adult.
Damn, so at what point does one stop being a child, then?
At age 30? 40?
What is it with you people? 🙄
@@isasolorzano9706 when your frontal cortex is developed at 25. That’s when. Imagine not knowing basic biology
@@wwlittlejOfficial 22 is still less mature than 25 bc their brain is still not fully developed. Learn how the brain works instead of asking stvpid questions
@@isasolorzano9706 I feel like this is a bunch of old people who had a shitty life and loves the misery of condemning others so their lives don't look as shitty. She is a 22-year-old WOMAN, why is this so hard to understand?
This is the pure example of someone making excuses for every single red flag that's thrown his way I don't see how people can't identify how desperate they are and start to search out more positive things to fill up any gaps in their lives start serving in the community get out there and be outward focused and taking care of other human beings and not searching to fill up the emptiness in your soul because what you're missing is God using you To meet others needs and that in return fills up your soul
Amen to that! 🙏🏻 🙌 👏
Use a fucking period.
@@wwlittlejOfficial rude!
@@VeronicaReveles408 How? she should thank me for pointing out her grammatical faux-pas!
Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Why is no one commenting about how the narrator pronounced Mahogany’s name? 💀
That’s more like the girl herself would pronounce it. The H is silent in Spanish.
🤣 right
Seriously
thats how she told ben it was pronounced but he continued to pronounce it wrong
I was confused by this too. I wrote a comment showing all 3 pronunciations I saw in the video.
From when I became an adult and attended college....younger people would annoy me. For him to want to deal with a 22 y.o is beyond my comprehension.
I think its bc he is so immature. I think he feels more secure with someone younger.
I’m 32 and don’t wanna deal with a 22 year old
@@LivingForTMH nah he’s a predator
Very true I'm 35 & when I'm around my nieces and nephews (all in their 20's) they annoy me to no fault of their own & I also have hard time following some of the shit their talking about lol
That is NOT how you pronounce “Mahogany” 🤣🤣🤣
This is why pastors creep me out and I never leave them alone with my kids.
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Was it confirmed he was really a pastor? I don't think anyone should leave their kids to strangers even if they're church goers.
This is why the church creeps me out.
Why I stopped going to church, I was raised Catholic and besides the church covering up pedophiles, our new church has a pastor has a fire and grim stone way of preaching, always yelling telling us were sinners. If we were sinners would we be going to weekly mass? I worship in my own way now, I speak and pray to God, I consider myself spiritual, it has been 8 years since I went to weekly mass
He’s not a pastor
He took a guilty plea to being under the influence of DRUGS to get a lower sentence. Then broke probation leading to the bench warrant for his arrest. Anything to say on your tax evasion Ben?
Oh, dayumn...lmao 😆
Yes @Tabitha I'm here for it!
Explains the wonky eye
Right ✅ hypocrite! that he is!
Oh 🤭🤭🤭
I’m sorry but the way they said her name. 💀
MaOGny
That's how it's it in Spanish.
He's probably thinking "I broke my probation for you MaHoGaNy"
😂🤣
That is the most wierd ass pronunciation of Mahogany that I have ever heard!
@@sylviaosgood9298 That is how you pronounce it in Spanish
Deserving Listener, thanks I didn't realize that!
It's not how she pronounces it!
TLC definitely knows how to pick them.
That’s like the show how to catch a predator where Chris says “she said she’s 13” they respond “they told me she was 15” 😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂yep
Yep
So he'd be OK with his daughter dating a guy his age? From another country?... Or would he say his daughter is immature compared to Mahogany? Or is he saying he's immature and got the intellectual compatibility of a 22year old given their great compatibility and commonality? 🙄
He's disgusting. Worse than Big Ed!
Yes but Green card
Mahogany can do better, especially if she's just playing for a card.
That's a ridiculous assessment. Would any father be happy to know what their daughter does to get pregnant or keep her man happy? What she does is her business. The girl is 22, not 17. U as a parent may have the right to ask, but thats it. She's a fucking adult.
@@wwlittlejOfficial Exactly.
I am in my 50's and have kids in their 20's and there is no way I could date someone the ages of my kids. It just sounds creepy BUT on the other hand my parents are 20 years apart and they have an amazing marriage. Ben seems to be missing something...I can't pinpoint it...maybe it is self confidence.
IQ
He’s missing a conscience
I give u credit, u have a reasonable assessment of the situation. As a parent, once your kids hit 18 or so, u really have no say in what they do, as long as they are not harming themselves or others, that's it. Is it an easy pill to swallow? Hell no, but your 18-year-old daughter is out smoking and drinking, maybe doing recreational drugs, and the things shes doing with boys and girls... well. But as u note, it's not all bad. if there is true love between an older adult and a younger adult, out of all the things we deal with, that's hardly my concern.
*As long as he will take good care of her and there's Love why not? I remember when I was young I used to look forward getting married to an old man so that he will take me like his daughter because I lack the Father daughter Love as I grew up in a toxic life. I ended up marrying a 13 age gap guy. Not that bad* 😉
@@artisthusnatalal3099 In Islam that is supposed to be normal. Your Mohammed was over 50 when he married a 6-year-old. Consummated at 9 years old. We understand why you don’t mind.
Ben is making a big deal about 22 or 24 years but what’s important is that both ages are way too young for him
Bro she literally lied to him and youre sitting here talking about how 22 is too young when she's a grown ass woman lmao. Wtf has this world come too? Lmao
@@tylerhampton2607 Even 24 is way too young for a 52 year old. Try to think with logic instead of sexism. He's a predatory, criminal, creeper. The. End. Of. It. She even told him not to come and he stalked her and showed up anyway.
@@FGC-ku4ez I am thinking logically you aren't. Yours views are weird to me lol she's a grown woman.. She told him not to come cuz she's a fuckin liar and she's playing him she literally brought this man to a house thay wasn't hers but he's the creep lmao and she said she wanted to have his kids and be a family with him but they not in a relationship gtfo all of you are delusional. If her dad didn't see anything wrong with the age difference then why do you?
I knew there was something weird about this man!! You can tell he was hiding something. He just seems like a creep.
He behaves more and more like a "pastor" everyday. Drinking and driving, going to jail and dating young women. 🤦🏻♀️🤔
A 50 year old man on probation for operating a vehicle under the influence ? Bruh. I knew something wasn’t right with this guy. I think men that go for women 30+ years younger than themselves is just strange to me. Age isn’t just a number but still.. what could you possibly find in common?
I’ve always been told if a man can’t get a woman his own age, something is VERY wrong with him. Even if you have a gap that’s 10 years apart, like for example a 20 and 30 year old, you should be skeptical because the older one can easily manipulate the younger one. I don’t really know if there’s an exception with middle aged adults with other middle aged adults with an age gap because “been there, done that, learned from it.” But either way, everyone should kind of keep their guard up on intentions in this day and age
@@monicaprzestrzelski4677 I agree I was with a man who was 9 years older than me and I was 21 at the time, he was also very manipulative I’m just happy I left that toxic relationship
@@dydascodanielle and that's it right there!!..older men want someone younger that isn't experienced enough to see through their manipulation and ultimately control and even gaslighting them depending on how sadistic they are...its a power trip & stroking that massive ego so many weak men have.
@@monicaprzestrzelski4677 you are absolutely correct, they go for barely legs because most times they want even younger (girls). I was 18 and the guy I was with was 32. WORST MISTAKE of my LIFE. It took me years to break free from the mind games, lies, manipulation, and deception.
Under the influence of drugs. I wonder what drugs?
I still can't get it out of my head of how tf TLC let a 19 year old be the fiance to a 58 year old.
Bc tlc just wants views and has no moral obligation to get in between adults.
She's legally an adult they have no jurisdiction to tell adults who they can date
Who’s a 19 year old?
@@PRINCESS2527 there was a couple a few seasons ago where the woman was 19 and the man was in his 50s. His kids were older than her and they were not having it.
*As long as he will take good care of her and there's Love why not? I remember when I was young I used to look forward getting married to an old man so that he will take me like his daughter because I lack the Father daughter Love as I grew up in a toxic life. I ended up marrying a 13 age gap guy. Not that bad* 😉
1. She didn't want to ever meet him in person because her pics were faked.
2. She lied about her age because she never expected him to actually show up in person.
3. She met him at a fake apartment because her parents didn't want him to know where they live.
4. She didn't tell her friends because it wasn't serious at all.
5. She's a flirt and a liar ONLY online.... so her family & friends don't find out who she really is.
To be fair number 3 isn't that bad. Like if you're meeting someone from online for the first time you wouldn't want them to know your actual address would you? So I can't fault her for that and I think that's pretty smart.
Yet he still tried to meet her, because he was desperate to creep on a way younger woman than him 🤢🤮
He was desperate to be on a show , he thinks he is Gods gift to women!!
you know they only talked for 3 months online.
why hes flying out and saying he is in love with a 22 year old girl when you are over 50 after 3 months?
6. How does that have to do with his drunk driving and reckless behavior? 😐
This is the most problematic cast of any season! Racists and jailbait everywhere ya look
22 is jailbait? Hyperbole much?
Cry a little more
Meant jailbird, but you get the point!
@Diane M U say that.. as if Russian dating or Asian dating, or south American dating sites that cater exclusively to Americans don't exist.
@Diane M Are u really this clueless? U cannot say TLC only shows desperate American when half of the people are from another country!! Who is desperate? The Americans or the Russian/Philippines/South Americans ( and so on) they are dating?
Are u even serious??
It's the ones who constantly rub God in everyone's faces that are the biggest hypocrites!! He needs to stop using God as an excuse for all of his selfish decisions.
Facts!
Bingo!!!!
When someone is "mature for their age" it just means they are a "mature 22 year old" for example, they are not mature as a 50 year old 🤦🏻♀️
The excuses these people make...
Omg thissssss
He's an actor and sports model trying desperately trying to hold on to his youth.
How can he leave the country on probation
30 years older? He's not rich enough. He's delusional.
Surprised fans of the show never knew he was on probation?The power of internet,social media these days you can find out nearly everything about anybody!
because when the show was filmed, he likely didn't have the offense. They stopped filming months before the show aired
@@wwlittlejOfficial He's talking about the fans, not the producers. Just goes to show how little fans cared about his fake storyline
@@RicardoTheAce Uh yeah I know that cause he wrote "Suprised FANS of the show..." which is why I wrote the show was over before the fans even knew of him, let alone he could have gotten his first offense after the show finished taping. It's almost irrelevant the Fans didn't know this prior because they simply didn't know who he was most likely.
IMO I watch just for the train wreck. Cause you know there's one coming
Her parents we're right about him.
"She doesn't post for fun, she posts for art".....😑😑
He claims to be a pastor. What a fail he is seriously.
why are they making it seem like we all don't know that mahogany and their relationship is fake LOL
TLC are wildin out with the lack of background checks
Ma O geny 😂
😭😭😭
Wtf. 😂😂😂😂
Creep factor is to high on this guy. Find somebody your own age in you own country to date. I'm 58 and I have a 30 year old daughter. This guy makes me gringe. Needs to be slapped
How about a knee reaction to the groin????
I thought it was pretty funny when he acted all choked when he found out she was 22 not 24, because "his daughter is that age". Bro, even if she was 24, that is still his daughters age.
Just like when Mahogany's friends said that Ben is her parents age, that doesn't mean that they are the exact same age, but rather in the same age group. Someone two years older than me is still "my age".
Technically this girl could even be his granddaughter. ^^
Love has no age !!!!!
Well he might be prohibited from flying now since he violated probation failure to appear. He might get slapped with an ankle bracelet for this especially since he's known to travel
Lo, this show was filmed literally like months ago, he's very likely to not be involved with Mahogany drama long since.
When they set the bond that high, it’s because they expect he’s a runner and they don’t want anyone to be able to pay it. That way they can keep him in jail to ensure he doesn’t travel. I’m not sure how much one missed court date raises a bond, but If he was serving 18 month probation and stopped showing, makes me wonder if he did actually go to another country while on probation. You usually cant even leave the county I think? Not sure how different parole and probation are.
@@wwlittlejOfficial her contract expired…
A 30 year age gap is insane. It is way more than double her age. I can understand 10 or 13 or 15 year age gap. Anyways.
My ex of 14 yrs was 30.5 yrs older than me
@@samanthashaw7100 that’s sad
@@mandlas.4305 why is that sad I was happy til he died. I'm still happy we were together that long and I have a huge extended family because of our relationship
Such a religious men, driving intoxicated? Wtf???
He’s such a gaslighter! He’ll find a way to blame this on Mahogany, I’m sure…he tries to twist anything he does wrong 😑
He is a Christian they’re usually like this; preach one thing but live another
True Christianity is following the ways of Jesus. If you don't follow Christ, you are just a person who goes to the church building on a Sunday or Saturday.
MahOhgani cmon now. Lol
That name Is fake, I have Heard that name in South América and I am one of them
He was probably at the eye doctor lol 😂
Some real winners on this show!! 😂
Everything in the Dark Always comes to Light
1:07...she seemed so fake when she first saw him. Her reaction was just plain weird
The narrator acts like she's never heard the word Mahogany before... "Mah-Ohgany" 😭
Well, although nobody is perfect. It is obvious that he needs to press his faith in God to fill the void in his life. Dating younger women, blaming 🙄 your ex, the church, your childhood is a deflection.
This is sickening
I think they were both being dishonest with each other.
Absolutely. Both are bizarre people. Everybody is talking about skeevy Ben but Mahogany is a real piece of work. Obvious scamming Ben with very edited, photoshopped pics to get him hooked and plenty of intimate promises and claims then appears almost 180' in reality. What was her game???
Omg he’s so pathetic I love it
He looked pretty inebriated when they arrested him again... oh the irony if he missed his court appearance because he was trashed
Its the lazy eye 😂
Apparently it was drugs he got nicked for driving under the influence of.
Just so everyone knows- The chance of getting a DUI is 1 in 250. Meaning he is most likely drunk driving pretty often. Not to mention a total creep. Somehow this guy makes Big Ed likable.
He wasn't driving a car or it would be a DUI, so he most likely was riding a bike drunk to get a OWAI. Lol
@@KateKosmo they both mean driving under the influence, DUI is usually used when drunk driving, his was probably driving while impaired with drug.
although it looks like he was originally charged with OWPD which is operating with the presence of drugs and driving with a suspended licence but plead gulity to lesser charge of Operating while ability impaired.
gods plan im sure
I think this guy is a douche & what's up with that right eye??..
The charge isn't a DUI at all.. It's "operating ability impaired" that could mean many things/recklessly riding his bike🤔.. His lawn mower🤔 A golf cart 😂...Not to big of a deal... Yet, not appearing for a court date is a big deal (as he found out)... Guy is "off"
@@stephfoxeh Cool story. Not a DUI. It's operating ability impaired.
He’s such a creep
Every old man chasing a young woman all say the same thing. It’s simply a justification.
It's EXACTLY what all predators say to their victims! Pedophiles are infamous for saying this same thing to get their prey comfortable with them. No joke.
Mahogany told Ben to pronounce her name like the reporter just did but ben doesnt listen lol
I wondered where that came from. Never heard it said that way but I'm a firm believer in pronouncing people's names the way they want to be called.
He is 52!
He should not be with anyone under age 45!
Let alone 22 or 24!
Compared to him she is on an other maturity level then him!
He's almost scarier than Big Pred with his penchant for young girls....he's just more articulate which is why the thought of him being a pastor creeps me tf out....
Pastor Ben smh makes me sick
Fake holy roller geting a dui 🤣
Shame on both of them for using God into their creepy relationship. I dont know how Ben would feels if another man of his age married his daughter?
"Religious" people are just the biggest hypocrites you could ever meet. It allows manipulative liars to do just that while claiming what they are doing is somewhere in the bible!
I honestly use to love this show, but as the years have gone on it’s seriously has gone down hill!!
Who is Ma “OH”gany? 😂
How do they let these ppl on the show?? Its like TLC wants something to happen to someone on this show.
"Ma'Ogany" 💀
00:57 wth Mah-Ow-Gany 😂
Not surprising lol he's so weird and creepy I feel bad for his daughter
What is wrong with his eye??? OMG I can't hear a thing - to busy looking at the lazy eye.
My husband has joked before that he's quite old, marching on his sixties. So he's probably had a mild stroke due to alcoholism.
Who gives a shit about an appearance difference? This man is the worst. They’re talking about him being predatory towards young women and excusing it with the old “age is just a number” argument and you’re going to stay focused on insulting his looks? I’d say that’s an irrelevant factor. Let’s shit on him for the actual bad stuff he does, not for what he looks like. Because only one of those things are under his control.
It's called ptosis, which is a drooping of the eyelid. I think he said he's always had it and some children are born with it. I have it due to a rare eye disease I have that can cause blindness. In my case, I got it as an adult and it's caused by the drug therapy I'm on, which has saved my vision, but weakened the eye tendon. Lazy eye(amblyopia) is something usually diagnosed in young children. The brain and eye don't work together properly, and the brain starts ignoring that eye and strengthening the vision in the dominant eye. Children with that condition don't have ptosis. Often it's picked up in an eye exam--parents don't see a physical sign of a problem. In any case, when you're facing blindness or partial loss of vision, how you look to others becomes much less important. You're just so grateful to be able to see. I'm guessing you are young and must not have much experience with people who have any kind of non-normal physical issue if you are this freaked out by his appearance. All sorts of things happen to our bodies that are beyond our control. I think you are putting your negative focus on his eye because in a strange way, its uncommon appearance is like a mirror for what seems to be truly "off" or even ugly about him--that creep factor that many viewers are getting from this guy. Like, the problematic part of him is inside, not on his eyelid. If he were a great, kind-hearted, sweet, and caring person, you'd barely notice the ptosis in his eyelid. It's because he doesn't seem to be a nice guy that makes his eye seem malevolent. By the way, there is surgery, but he has made it clear he is fine with his eye as is.
Again? Wow, TLC!! You sure know how to pick them!
I hate this guy 100% . Please send another man towards Mahogany!!!!
How many people from this show going too jail now 😒😒
Ma..og...any ummm...what?
Wow when I saw the thumbnail I thought they were going to say he whooped Mahogany's backside😆😂😂😂😆
The term reality “star” is really being so overused lately. He’s anything but a star.
Where do you get these people,god damn
I thought he was a holy man😂😂💀
Plenty of people out there calling themselves 'holy'..doesn't mean they are..
Today is March 21, need the update!
Nothing creepier than a pastor standing behind the word of god to excuse them of their actions. Yuck.
gross .. was he checking her out when he was dropping his kids to school maybe checking out the classmates
90 day fiancé? All I see is 2 people meeting for the first time. This show has watered down
The McDonald’s from the 1990s was way better than McDonald’s from 2020 and up
I can't believe he's a pastor!
Lots of creepy, predatory old men in the comment’s justifying dating women half their age. Age is just a number after 30, not at 22 when she has her whole youth ahead of her! And any woman dating a guy double your age or old than like 4ish years(if you’re younger than 25) ask yourself this: what is the reason that this man has NOT found someone on his age group/experience group?
Ive dated older men before and every time I have, I noticed that not only did I continue to grow and emotionally mature whilst they stayed stagnant, but I noticed they were horrible partner material for any woman who is in their age range and looking for something serious. Dont waste your youth on these creeps! Have fun, go wild, settle down when you’re like 28+! Dont let society or men pressure you into getting with these old azz bums!
Every predator ever...."age is just a number and shes mature"
This has to be the messiest cast lol
Was he using prescription meds while driving? Why didn’t he just show up to court?
Probation violation!
Their relationship is sooo fake
Does this surprise anyone? No! The guy has a few screws loose. Mahogany is just a misdirected 20 something.
Im curious as to why he stopped being a pastor....
😳🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Another day, Another TLC convict! 😂
He's a weirdo. Thats for sure.
TLC is not screening that well