Not only does he take their money, they give up their only bed to him, and he is going to complain about the accommodations? The defendant is the type of person that has consistently run his life into the ground, and expects others to pick up the pieces for him, and he is going to dictate how it is done. Perfect example is the sister, standing by his side, completely snowed by his BS, he'll burn through her next. Better off with him out of their lives!
Man, if I'm out on the street and needing your couch and you lend it, I certainly am not complaining about anything short of you assaulting me. I'll save up and move out because obviously I don't want to overstay a welcome. Honestly, you'll come back and the house will be cleaned and shined without anything being moved from where it was. That's how a good couch crasher rolls, and it's a commitment. It says thank you and if someone was going to ask for more money, usually it'd stop them in their track cause free home cleaning/labor. I did my share of couch surfing as a young punk. People are grateful if you're not an entitled clown.
@@tanekrune5873 We have always had an open door policy, and have previously taken in family and friends. Through the years, my husband and I have both had younger siblings live with us for periods of time. We threw out and still do, a 'Welcome' mat for our son's friends no questions asked, if they needed a safe haven, it was our place. In fact, he lives away going to university, and they are still reminded they are welcome here any time. I truly appreciate the way you used to roll, that shows gratitude and maturity. Gratitude at a far younger age than the defendant, who should know better at his age, and maturity because you did not expect your hosts to help repair your life. Look anyone can fall on hard times at any age, but like you state, it shows commitment and it aids in not wearing out your welcome!
Maybe that's why he didn't go to the older sister first, because she's make him responsible. She'd tell him to get a job and start paying his way quicker or something. They both sound like a piece of work though.
That brother(defendant) is a piece of work. "I didn't beg he offered"...yah right. You help someone who by his own admission was in a desperate situation and he stiffs you like this. Next time, leave him in a cardboard box, brother or no brother.
@@tjneverdefeated4394 Agreed. I hate "dry beggars" who then turn it around and say, "well I didn't ask, they just offered." He reached out to his brother during a hard time with the intent of getting help without outright asking for it. No wonder he was in a bad financial disposition.
I was the executor of my Grandfathers estate. I told people the same thing when they asked how I was doing. With the way his kids, my Uncles and Aunt were acting, I didn't need enemies, I had family to drive me insane.
I have a brother like that ! I'm now handicapped and could do with all the money he owes me it just never crosses his mind .... I'm sure this guy who moved is the elder brother - Thins he has a god given right to treat his younger brother like shit. It's sick.
This defendant is a giant, elderly baby. How are you the eldest sibling and acting like the baby of the family? Your kid brother bullied you into moving across the country with your own shit that you claim you no longer wanted? Please!
Yea I had a apartment and helped my bf when he got kicked out. It didn’t take long for me to see why his mom kicked him out. He refused to get a job, I had to pay for every bill, groceries, utilities. Let’s just say he didn’t last long in my place. He was chucked out the door, I changed the locks and I sued him for his half of expenses. Especially since he was on the lease. Let’s just say he lost the case and I got the money back he owed
Right…. And HE’S the one the mother left 80K to. Didn’t leave the sister or other brother nothing. He probably conned her into changing the will or something
1st * 😅 I’m sure you know now but incase anyone else sees and doesn’t know either, it’s spelled out as 1st or First 😊 I’m not being hostile. Just giving some information.
I agree, get everything done in writing. Especially family. If it was gift I understand it but once they ask for payment set up a payment plan if necessary.
If the defendant ( whether it's family, friend, etc), doesn't feel bad for not paying it back, then the plaintiff shouldn't give a damn for suing them.
Me too! I watch peoples court on TV twice a day plus utube as much as I like. Judge Malian has the cutest tops. I tried finding her clothes but no luck. Those sheer black tops with embroidery are so cute. In my next lifetime I will be a lawyer/judge just like her. At 71 I don’t think I can squeeze in another career this lifetime. Her enthusiasm and abilities are as polished as her nails. She is so much fun. I see many of my qualities in her. She always makes me smile!
Oh my goodness 😳 I was tired of the Defendant just in the time I was listening here! 🤷♀️ Plaintiffs deserve what they are asking for and more. The Defendant is an ungrateful liar! Their sister is incredibly naive. 🤦♀️😆 Good judgment Judge M! 👏 💜✌
The defendant is so manipulative! Making himself sound like a victim of charity?? And somehow convincing the sister that he didn't tell her he moved back because the plaintiff told him not to?
My older sister is a user like that. At 40 she expected our mother to pay her for her ‘terrible childhood’. She brought our father to visit the school she was attending ‘coincidentally’ on the day tuition was due. She named her two kids after the founders of a local Christian school and pretended to be religious to manipulate them into free tuition for her kids. She conned our parents and 4 brothers out of every penny she could with various sob stories over the years using her kids as pawns. As a teenager her daughter continued the manipulation. I haven't spoken to either of them since 1999. She's 65 now and still thinks the world owes her. She will never admit or even recognize that she is the only one responsible for her own bad decisions.
Ikr … so ridiculous that brother who help you move out of his own pocket and knowing that there’s a sister sho is better off and can help him would tell him not to tell anybody he was moving and he was penniless. I’m guessing the defendant brother smooched of his brother first and did not want to let the sister know because he will soon smooch off of her next with the same sob story.
"I didn't beg him, he offered." 🙄 (Lolol.) This def is fully an adult, yet his understanding of money and others helping him is about that of a 16 year old.
The brother who moved to NY is an ungrateful mooch! He admits that his brother and girlfriend were unemployed and living in a small apartment with two dogs which means they are struggling financially....How could he expect them to pay for his move? I would never put that kind of burden on my brother and not make some kind of effort to pay them back!
Family gets hugely pissed at that, even. You are supposed to give until it bleeds. They made bad life choices, you are supposed to clean up after them. My sister is always furious that I am a rich b!tch. Turns out, we make the same money. I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs. I take my family on all expense paid vacations, drive a nice (not new) car, have a nice house. Because I worked my way up the property ladder, staying up late to scrape, paint, run plumbing, wallpaper, replacing electrical, while working full time all day, I am a snooty b!tch. She partied and I learned new skills and worked with my hands, sweating. So now, I should share my retirement funds with her?
@@BBMc107 I think that was the point of this dialogue...don't give more than you can expect to lose, when there is the condition to pay it back because they may not happen. It sounds like you have a lot of issues with your sister, but no one expects you to support her...everyone makes their own life decisions.
@@lisawentworth6831 Not everyone does. The whole family dynamic in the video was to blame baby brother. My point was that they continue to place blame, as if you are responsible for their problems because you do not have those problems. I learned long ago not to loan to relatives. I gift or not at all. While we were starting a new business, my bil needed money to pay back child support or he was going to jail. We were very cash poor at the time, but gave him several hundred $. He sniffed to his mom and sister about how badly off we were to “only” give him so little. If he was so well off, why come to us for money? He will never get another cent, no matter how bad he tries to make us look in front of the whole family. These narcissists try to make you look and feel bad. They make crappy life choices and then belittle you for making better choices as though they are special people above the rest of us. My husband and I have cocooned ourselves away from our bad family members and don’t get involved in their squabbles. They spread rumors, we go about our business. Thankfully, both hubby and myself love a life without high drama. Probably because we had too much of it in our childhoods.
Defendant seems like the type of person who always plays the victim and usually gets away with it. No one "lures" you into moving YOUR stuff. These people gave up their bed to you, let you stay in their 1 bedroom apartment for 7 months, moved all your belongings from TX. No good deed goes unpunished.
The dead beat brother said he had airline points and would fly them back.. it there wasn’t some items to be moved, why didn’t dead beat just fly himself?
Yes! Then he lies...the ingrate...and complains about their dogs..!! There's a lot to look after in a home, and on top of that if there's someone who lies around & messes the house...& is ungrateful...its hard to take. Kindness should not be abused. I've had selfish neighbors take awful advantage of me...because I'd been empathetic.
It's sad to see someone with such poor character [the defendant] allowing this to be broadcast to a television audience. It's kind of gross. And I don't buy he handed over all his checks either. How could he have found his own place? The plaintiff co-signed the checks on her bank account for him to cash them. That's what I think happened.
Perhaps he owes past child support..that's why he did not open his own checking account ..many men do that...and leave town like he did ..I'm not saying that is the case here ..but highly suspicious...
this is true, I sympathize, thats why I finally understand as an adult, "give only, if you truly expect nothing back" which is why its easy to give kids gifts, you never expect anything from them and are never dissapointed.
How would he pay for his daily needs? If they took his pay every week, how did he pay to get back and forth from work? What about T.P.? Deodorant? Everything else? Sounds like a lie
I believe he gave them some of his paycheck, which people normally do when living in others home's. I just don't believe they would leave him with nothing.
The Defendant is definitely a moocher, took his brother and his wife for granted, thought that he didn't have to pay for anything. I'll help my siblings out, but if it involves me driving to and fro, they'll pay my gas!
I completely sympathize with the plaintiff cause the defendant reminds me of my deadbeat brother. I've helped him by lending him large sums of money and he calls me delusional saying that never happened, even though I have text messages from him proving it. The best thing you can do is ignore their pleas for help and let them suffer the consequences of their own actions. There's a reason why no one else wants to help them.
I salute Judge Judy with utmost respect. She is direct and does not tolerate any type of nonsense. We would be better off with more judges like Judge Judy. Joyce in Atlanta, Ga
I know I am in the minority here, but I would have no problem suing any member of my family if they fu*ked me over. When I make a LOAN to anyone I expect to be paid back. I am not responsible for taking care of grown adults because they make bad financial decisions. If drinking, smoking, gambling, online por*, doing drugs, partying and doing other frivolous things is more important than having a roof over your head, then so be it. You make those decisions, then suffer the consequences. 🤷🏾♀️
I'm with ya, like you said, grown ass adults having the mind set that just because it's family it's okay to make these bad decisions, but that's how you burn bridges, wish more.peiple thought this way!
You are not in the minority with me, though I would have a caveat. There are some members of my family I would be hard pressed to sue, others that I would not lend money to in the first place, I am sad to say, because it would be the same as me flushing it!
I'm all for people suing anyone for what they are due. I could do it depending on the circumstances. I loaned my daughter money for a vet bill, nothing more heartbreaking to hear my daughter calling crying that her kitten was dying, so I gave her the money.. Poor kitten didn't make it. She paid me 200 of the almost 600, then I just told her don't worry about the rest. But anyone else, I would sue them.
I don't think ur wrong for that, I don't understand how family would dare feel salty when they did u wrong or u wouldn't b able to sue. Blood means nothing if u don't act loyal to me
@@ButtonsCasey my mom helped me w a vet bill for my baby that didn't make it and she never asked me to repay her, that meant the world to me that cat was everything to me. My mom has always showed unconditional love and she will die on my couch I will take care of her the Same way when she needs it. She's the only one I have that loyalty to in my family ...she's the only one who deserves it for so many more reasons then a vet bill, mothers love is unmatched
@@jasmineelise424 I have misophonia too and I had to put subtitles on and mute him!! He wound me up so much with his bad attitude plus the way he smacked his lips
I was looking for this comment. I have misophonia as well and particularly on this show it seems the microphones tend to pick up every little lip smack and mouth noise. It drives me crazy!
What an entitled piece of crap! One should never accept money without the intention of paying it back regardless if that was communicated or not. Just expect to pay back what you take.
The eldest sister is still being bamboozled by the defendant. Her rose colored glasses won't come off until he ungratefully leeches off her. If the defendant really wasn't asking to bring his belongings, the plaintiffs could have sent him a train ticket and saved themselves the 4 day round trip and expenses from the moving truck. The plaintiff probably was a loud, frustrating woman but they helped him when no one else did and tried their best to accommodate him, even allowing him to sleep in their bed. This is sad. Sounds like the defendant has a track record for being somewhat of a deadbeat. Hopefully he grows up, everyone involved accepts their accountability in this mess, and they reconcile the family.
The brother in financial distress did him dirty. Real dirty. He is also a liar. He said he paid 7 weeks worth of paychecks and it turned out to be only two paychecks. Real dirty. I'd never speak to him again.
But the sister who was financially doing ok. He didn't want to bother asking her to help him out. That brother would be dead to me after this. I bet he did keep most of the money he got for the house as well from his brother. I'd never speak to him again.
All I can say is ungrateful. This is why I moved from my family. If they call I have no obligation to answer. When I lived near family I couldn’t do that.
Never lend money to anyone unless you do not expect to get it back, specially not family cause you will never get it back and it's not worth the troubles that come with it.
I know what you mean bc of that hair and if she wasn’t married to that man I would think she was a lesbian but either way it’s very very immature for a woman of her age. JS
This is exactly why you don't let family or so called friends move in. If they're homeless let them go to a shelter it never ends good there's alot of ungrateful people that want to live off people. The judge really needs to stop trying to get families together not everyone can do it some families are very toxic and need to stay away from each other. The judge needs to get to the point of the case and worry about her own
Yeah agreed we learned the hard way too we had a so called friend that had to leave her house cause she was under investigation with cos cause she threatened and draw a picture of her house burning with her kids in it when we took her in for one night we couldn't get her to leave and she never helped us out with anything at all she ate all our food I was pregnant and hight risk and she was stressing me out so one day my mom came over and took all of her stuff and throw it outside and told her to leave she did but she threatened us saying she will come back bust our our window call cps on us that didn't work cause we called the cops on her we will never ever help any friends out again we cut ties with her
@@krististoudt8649 💜 I'M SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO YOU. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU WERE PREGNANT 😟 IT'S SAD THAT SOMEONE LIKE THAT RUINED HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HELPING SOMEONE ELSE. BUT THAT'S ALL IT TAKES, I KNOW. PEOPLE LIKE HER ARE DANGEROUS TO ALLOW INTO YOUR HOME. I'M GLAD THAT YOUR MOM CAME TO HELP YOU REMOVE HER. BEST WISHES WITH YOUR BABY, PLEASE BE SAFE, STAY BLESSED 😊🙏✝️💜💜💜
Geez. What a horrible bunch of people you all must surround yourselves with! Character matters. Integrity matters. Don't swim in the gutter and you won't get caught up in the current that's heading for the sewer.
People should not be encouraged to put up with an abusive relationship. It's impossible to have rational discussions with an abuser. Whatever agreement you come to will just be broken by the abuser. The judge needs to stop with that stupid advice. She's NOT a professional counsellor. But this is a tv show so the judge may just be trying to look like a caring person to her viewing audience.
As someone who worked 12hr nights for over a year, and had roommates with pets during this time, let me tell ya, it SUCKS! While you don't want others to stop living because you work nights, you also just want some sleep after 12 hrs of being up. I remember being so moody and irritated at the slightest noise that kept me up and hated everyone. 😂 I'm never having roommates, ever again!
That’s last part where the bailiff was waiting for the second couple to come out as soon as she said they were getting married he started laughing had me cracking up lol
He is lying. He first said he was going to leave all of his stuff, then he said he was going to fly his brother down and rent a truck. Contradictory stories.
I believe that the Plaintiff's phone calls are easy to explain. I think the he was only asking the Defendant for the phone number of a good Dentist. 😆👍
Wow this younger brother is sweet and giving and loved his big brother his big brother took advantage of the little brother what a dork loser my big brother was bad to
Long Unpopular opinion here - I feel bad for the "Defendant"...truly think he has and is at risk of another "breakdown" ....he's so emotionaless. Hes been through a lot...he said he went through bankruptcy and was just going to leave it all...he didnt care....and I think when he called his brother...his brother (like most brothers do) was like I'll help you...I got you. His brother recognized the depression. His brother's girlfriend sued him not his brother. Sometimes people end up in a bad way....especially in the past yrs due to Covid. I wouldn't necessarily label him a moocher. And the sister was sitting on his side
"9 months ago could'a had a baby in that time...", best line!! Love the woman in the episode. Very down to earth and truly trying to help. Yes, money before family. ;)
It's not always about money. It's also about respect, trust, personal responsibility, consideration... No way was the brother coerced into moving! And who can blame the sister-in-law for struggling with long-term company in a small space. She was very generous to let him stay, and if he didn't like her, or the accommodation, he should have left. It was plain that they are not affluent, and the moving brother had to have known that 'helping him out' was the loan for the expenses, physical assistance with the move, finding him a job, and giving him a temporary place to stay. Of course the money should be repaid!
My sister once asked to borrow money from our dad. My dad said "No, I'll give you the money" I asked him why. "A loan means she'll pay it back and I don't want any hard feelings when she doesn't"
The defendant is a complete POS. He was so freaking lucky to have family to help him out when he was in his "financial crisis". How about an apology and set up a payment plan to pay it all back and a thank you for the helping hand. Some people are so ungrateful!
Who else loves the peoples court as much as I do!? I’m always watching for my lunch break at work lol.
Same here lol my lunch time go to
Currently watching on my lunch break! Hahahaha
I hate it but love when the litigants have bongos
Y’all!
THUMBS UP for Judge Marilyn Milian! I love this woman!
Same. But I feel guilty having peoples troubles as entertainment.
It’s such a shame when you help someone and they end up being angry at you because they don’t want to acknowledge that you helped them smh
That is narcissism, for ya. They are embarrassed and so it must be your fault that they were not treated as they expect to be accustomed.
No good deed goes unpunished. Who is he blaming for his bankruptcy? Sounds like he's a mess & blames everyone but himself. 😊
@@BBMc107 I was thinking the same thing
That is definitely the truth! NO good deed goes unpunished!
Made an enemy. Do a friend a favor.
Never bite the hand that feeds you ... words to live by
Even dogs don't betray you like this should make a special saying for people really
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Don't shit where you eat 😏
@@joeyashley497 quit 💩 ING on the table. Do not feed biter. TakeCare gooddays 🦃 Zip per
Not only does he take their money, they give up their only bed to him, and he is going to complain about the accommodations?
The defendant is the type of person that has consistently run his life into the ground, and expects others to pick up the pieces for him, and he is going to dictate how it is done. Perfect example is the sister, standing by his side, completely snowed by his BS, he'll burn through her next.
Better off with him out of their lives!
💯 exactly what I was thinking
Sounds like a narcissist to me
Man, if I'm out on the street and needing your couch and you lend it, I certainly am not complaining about anything short of you assaulting me. I'll save up and move out because obviously I don't want to overstay a welcome. Honestly, you'll come back and the house will be cleaned and shined without anything being moved from where it was. That's how a good couch crasher rolls, and it's a commitment. It says thank you and if someone was going to ask for more money, usually it'd stop them in their track cause free home cleaning/labor. I did my share of couch surfing as a young punk. People are grateful if you're not an entitled clown.
He's coming for her 👍🏿
@@tanekrune5873 We have always had an open door policy, and have previously taken in family and friends. Through the years, my husband and I have both had younger siblings live with us for periods of time. We threw out and still do, a 'Welcome' mat for our son's friends no questions asked, if they needed a safe haven, it was our place. In fact, he lives away going to university, and they are still reminded they are welcome here any time.
I truly appreciate the way you used to roll, that shows gratitude and maturity. Gratitude at a far younger age than the defendant, who should know better at his age, and maturity because you did not expect your hosts to help repair your life. Look anyone can fall on hard times at any age, but like you state, it shows commitment and it aids in not wearing out your welcome!
They never asked? Well they're asking now. So PAY UP! He felt entitled to free help because it's his brother.
Maybe that's why he didn't go to the older sister first, because she's make him responsible. She'd tell him to get a job and start paying his way quicker or something. They both sound like a piece of work though.
That brother(defendant) is a piece of work. "I didn't beg he offered"...yah right. You help someone who by his own admission was in a desperate situation and he stiffs you like this. Next time, leave him in a cardboard box, brother or no brother.
Ms Sparkles takes a beautiful photo 😁☮️🌈🥊
Dry begging is what he did. Taking so much about his problems that they felt compelled to help. He’s a mess.
That Part ☝️
He's disgusting
@@tjneverdefeated4394 Agreed. I hate "dry beggars" who then turn it around and say, "well I didn't ask, they just offered." He reached out to his brother during a hard time with the intent of getting help without outright asking for it. No wonder he was in a bad financial disposition.
With a brother like that, who needs enemies.
😂😂😂
I was the executor of my Grandfathers estate. I told people the same thing when they asked how I was doing. With the way his kids, my Uncles and Aunt were acting, I didn't need enemies, I had family to drive me insane.
Family members are the worst 😢
I have a brother like that ! I'm now handicapped and could do with all the money he owes me it just never crosses his mind ....
I'm sure this guy who moved is the elder brother - Thins he has a god given right to treat his younger brother like shit. It's sick.
If the plan was to leave all his stuff he could've just flown himself to New York with the same ticket he was going to offer his brother.
Excellent question!
exacttlyyyy
This!
Exactly, and if the sister was well off and he shoulda come to her, why doesn’t she just pay the other brother.
This is gold. What a huge point. I'd like to see him answer this one. 😊
He’s the only sibling the mom left 80K to and he’s the one BROKE….. other kids didn’t even get an inheritance!
My uncle inherited 130k or more over the course of his life & he has absolutely nothing to show for it. Hes constantly broke & lives in squalor.
Gets mad allot sometimes , “that’s gonna be on my tombstone “ lol 😂 True
"Women, your honor!"
This defendant is a giant, elderly baby. How are you the eldest sibling and acting like the baby of the family? Your kid brother bullied you into moving across the country with your own shit that you claim you no longer wanted? Please!
“giant, elderly baby“ 😂😂😂
@@Richie8a8y Perfectly said!
Right?? And he “no longer wanted it” but then was upset that he lost all of it because he didn’t pay the storage unit rental. Absolutely idiot man 🙄
Yea I had a apartment and helped my bf when he got kicked out. It didn’t take long for me to see why his mom kicked him out. He refused to get a job, I had to pay for every bill, groceries, utilities. Let’s just say he didn’t last long in my place. He was chucked out the door, I changed the locks and I sued him for his half of expenses. Especially since he was on the lease. Let’s just say he lost the case and I got the money back he owed
Let’s just say
😏 GOOD FOR YOU GETTING YOUR MONEY BACK! ALSO THAT YOU GOT RID OF HIM QUICKLY!
SMART WOMAN ☺️
Good for you! You can't help everybody.
I made the mistake of letting a 'friend' stay with me after his family kicked him out. Found out why they kicked him out: he wouldn't get a job!
Whew you got lucky! My stepdaughter marked hers!
Never loan any money to ANYONE that you need back. I.e. if you can't afford to live without it, then don't loan it. That's the best way to live.
If you can't give it away.... it's not yours.
another rule i live by: if you give money to family, don’t expect it back. it’s not a loan, it’s a gift.
Truer words have new been said and or written. 👍
I agree, but, people should account for their debt one way or another
Totally agree! Give without any expectations! Not even gratitude with some family members!
The moocher brother thinks everyone owes him, he's pathetic and I'm sorry they helped him. Let him couch surf with his friends in Texas.🤐🤯
Right…. And HE’S the one the mother left 80K to. Didn’t leave the sister or other brother nothing. He probably conned her into changing the will or something
He'll burn every last bridge. Always the victim.
If he gave all of his paychecks to the defendant, how did he have the money to get an apartment? 1th, last, security in New York with no money🙄
Yeah, right!
Asked his sister who believes his every word whether it makes sense or not.
“1th” 😂😂😂
1st * 😅
I’m sure you know now but incase anyone else sees and doesn’t know either, it’s spelled out as 1st or First 😊 I’m not being hostile. Just giving some information.
I love this Judge, she's the coolest.
Excellent example of why you get EVERYTHING in writing, down to a molecular level, especially when "family" is involved.
Yes, I got screwed out of $10,000. Relative insisted I had given the money outright, instead of a loan.
I agree, get everything done in writing. Especially family.
If it was gift I understand it but once they ask for payment set up a payment plan if necessary.
Defendant is so ungrateful
@@numberone5680 me too :/
If the defendant ( whether it's family, friend, etc), doesn't feel bad for not paying it back, then the plaintiff shouldn't give a damn for suing them.
I needed to hear this. Thank you
And that's exactly the problem; bad people take advantage of good people, and good people feel bad for not wanting to be taken advantage of.
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Me too! I watch peoples court on TV twice a day plus utube as much as I like. Judge Malian has the cutest tops. I tried finding her clothes but no luck. Those sheer black tops with embroidery are so cute. In my next lifetime I will be a lawyer/judge just like her. At 71 I don’t think I can squeeze in another career this lifetime. Her enthusiasm and abilities are as polished as her nails. She is so much fun. I see many of my qualities in her. She always makes me smile!
Oh my goodness 😳 I was tired of the Defendant just in the time I was listening here! 🤷♀️
Plaintiffs deserve what they are asking for and more. The Defendant is an ungrateful liar! Their sister is incredibly naive. 🤦♀️😆
Good judgment Judge M! 👏 💜✌
😒 YES, SUCH A LIAR! I CAN'T STAND PEOPLE LIKE HIM AT ALL.
SHAME ON THE OLDER SISTER, SHE'S PATHETIC JUST LIKE HIM 😑
The defendant is so manipulative! Making himself sound like a victim of charity?? And somehow convincing the sister that he didn't tell her he moved back because the plaintiff told him not to?
My older sister is a user like that. At 40 she expected our mother to pay her for her ‘terrible childhood’. She brought our father to visit the school she was attending ‘coincidentally’ on the day tuition was due. She named her two kids after the founders of a local Christian school and pretended to be religious to manipulate them into free tuition for her kids. She conned our parents and 4 brothers out of every penny she could with various sob stories over the years using her kids as pawns. As a teenager her daughter continued the manipulation. I haven't spoken to either of them since 1999. She's 65 now and still thinks the world owes her. She will never admit or even recognize that she is the only one responsible for her own bad decisions.
Victim of charity. I like that.
Victim of charity; I know, unfortunately, people that your term describes.
You should copyright!
Ikr … so ridiculous that brother who help you move out of his own pocket and knowing that there’s a sister sho is better off and can help him would tell him not to tell anybody he was moving and he was penniless.
I’m guessing the defendant brother smooched of his brother first and did not want to let the sister know because he will soon smooch off of her next with the same sob story.
"I didn't beg him, he offered."
🙄 (Lolol.)
This def is fully an adult, yet his understanding of money and others helping him is about that of a 16 year old.
Less than a 16 year old
The brother who moved to NY is an ungrateful mooch! He admits that his brother and girlfriend were unemployed and living in a small apartment with two dogs which means they are struggling financially....How could he expect them to pay for his move? I would never put that kind of burden on my brother and not make some kind of effort to pay them back!
He was lucky rent in NY is expensive
Defendant is such a deadbeat. That sister is in for a shock
Thanks for download.
The family stories are sad because it's family
involved.
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I love this judge she is tough no nonsense and at the same time compassionate
Its best to never expect family to pay you back , so don't give more than you can afford to lose.
That applies even pp outside ya family
that's a good rule...
Family gets hugely pissed at that, even. You are supposed to give until it bleeds. They made bad life choices, you are supposed to clean up after them. My sister is always furious that I am a rich b!tch. Turns out, we make the same money. I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs. I take my family on all expense paid vacations, drive a nice (not new) car, have a nice house. Because I worked my way up the property ladder, staying up late to scrape, paint, run plumbing, wallpaper, replacing electrical, while working full time all day, I am a snooty b!tch. She partied and I learned new skills and worked with my hands, sweating. So now, I should share my retirement funds with her?
@@BBMc107 I think that was the point of this dialogue...don't give more than you can expect to lose, when there is the condition to pay it back because they may not happen. It sounds like you have a lot of issues with your sister, but no one expects you to support her...everyone makes their own life decisions.
@@lisawentworth6831 Not everyone does. The whole family dynamic in the video was to blame baby brother. My point was that they continue to place blame, as if you are responsible for their problems because you do not have those problems. I learned long ago not to loan to relatives. I gift or not at all. While we were starting a new business, my bil needed money to pay back child support or he was going to jail. We were very cash poor at the time, but gave him several hundred $. He sniffed to his mom and sister about how badly off we were to “only” give him so little. If he was so well off, why come to us for money? He will never get another cent, no matter how bad he tries to make us look in front of the whole family. These narcissists try to make you look and feel bad. They make crappy life choices and then belittle you for making better choices as though they are special people above the rest of us. My husband and I have cocooned ourselves away from our bad family members and don’t get involved in their squabbles. They spread rumors, we go about our business. Thankfully, both hubby and myself love a life without high drama. Probably because we had too much of it in our childhoods.
Defendant seems like the type of person who always plays the victim and usually gets away with it. No one "lures" you into moving YOUR stuff. These people gave up their bed to you, let you stay in their 1 bedroom apartment for 7 months, moved all your belongings from TX. No good deed goes unpunished.
The dead beat brother said he had airline points and would fly them back.. it there wasn’t some items to be moved, why didn’t dead beat just fly himself?
Yes! Then he lies...the ingrate...and complains about their dogs..!! There's a lot to look after in a home, and on top of that if there's someone who lies around & messes the house...& is ungrateful...its hard to take. Kindness should not be abused. I've had selfish neighbors take awful advantage of me...because I'd been empathetic.
@@sudhakhristmukti1930 same. But don’t stop being you because of someone else. Stay true to you.
It's sad to see someone with such poor character [the defendant] allowing this to be broadcast to a television audience. It's kind of gross. And I don't buy he handed over all his checks either. How could he have found his own place? The plaintiff co-signed the checks on her bank account for him to cash them. That's what I think happened.
Perhaps he owes past child support..that's why he did not open his own checking account ..many men do that...and leave town like he did ..I'm not saying that is the case here ..but highly suspicious...
And his sister just believes his every word
The defendant is a perfect example of. "No Good Deed, Goes Unpunished". That's why I don't do nothing, for nobody.
this is true, I sympathize, thats why I finally understand as an adult, "give only, if you truly expect nothing back" which is why its easy to give kids gifts, you never expect anything from them and are never dissapointed.
Lol nothing at all for nobody damn 😂🤣
There's times you expect to be paid back and times you know it's not going to happen or if to do so would cause undue hardship.
Or Anything for Anybody! 😅
Brother/Defendant is a sorry excuse for a brother - so ungrateful for all they did to help him!
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I feel like he’ll get his older sister to pay his bill
Or the People's Court. LOL
The program pays the judgment.
why he didn't stay with her in the first place?
The ONLY court tv i watch. Milian is probably the Most intelligent/impartial judge i have ever come across! Wish all judges were like her!
He is a deadbeat. Pay your bills. He called his brother for help, and he came. He was not lured to come to NY. He had no choice, he was destitute.
Give some people an inch and they expect a yard!
How would he pay for his daily needs? If they took his pay every week, how did he pay to get back and forth from work? What about T.P.? Deodorant? Everything else? Sounds like a lie
I believe he gave them some of his paycheck, which people normally do when living in others home's. I just don't believe they would leave him with nothing.
😒 HE'S VERY GOOD AT LYING!
HE ALSO EXPECTED THEM TO PAY FOR HIS MOVE & TAKE CARE OF HIM. GUY HAS NO SHAME 😑
My parents always told us, if you lend family money be sure you have it to give and never expect it back. You're family.
The Defendant is definitely a moocher, took his brother and his wife for granted, thought that he didn't have to pay for anything. I'll help my siblings out, but if it involves me driving to and fro, they'll pay my gas!
I have watched this show on tv for years, and just discovered the youtube videos. I'm hooked!
I completely sympathize with the plaintiff cause the defendant reminds me of my deadbeat brother. I've helped him by lending him large sums of money and he calls me delusional saying that never happened, even though I have text messages from him proving it. The best thing you can do is ignore their pleas for help and let them suffer the consequences of their own actions. There's a reason why no one else wants to help them.
I salute Judge Judy with utmost respect. She is direct and does not tolerate any type of nonsense. We would be better off with more judges like Judge Judy. Joyce in Atlanta, Ga
I know I am in the minority here, but I would have no problem suing any member of my family if they fu*ked me over. When I make a LOAN to anyone I expect to be paid back. I am not responsible for taking care of grown adults because they make bad financial decisions. If drinking, smoking, gambling, online por*, doing drugs, partying and doing other frivolous things is more important than having a roof over your head, then so be it. You make those decisions, then suffer the consequences. 🤷🏾♀️
I'm with ya, like you said, grown ass adults having the mind set that just because it's family it's okay to make these bad decisions, but that's how you burn bridges, wish more.peiple thought this way!
You are not in the minority with me, though I would have a caveat.
There are some members of my family I would be hard pressed to sue, others that I would not lend money to in the first place, I am sad to say, because it would be the same as me flushing it!
I'm all for people suing anyone for what they are due. I could do it depending on the circumstances. I loaned my daughter money for a vet bill, nothing more heartbreaking to hear my daughter calling crying that her kitten was dying, so I gave her the money.. Poor kitten didn't make it. She paid me 200 of the almost 600, then I just told her don't worry about the rest. But anyone else, I would sue them.
I don't think ur wrong for that, I don't understand how family would dare feel salty when they did u wrong or u wouldn't b able to sue. Blood means nothing if u don't act loyal to me
@@ButtonsCasey my mom helped me w a vet bill for my baby that didn't make it and she never asked me to repay her, that meant the world to me that cat was everything to me. My mom has always showed unconditional love and she will die on my couch I will take care of her the Same way when she needs it. She's the only one I have that loyalty to in my family ...she's the only one who deserves it for so many more reasons then a vet bill, mothers love is unmatched
Siblings always think they don't have to pay you back because they're "family." 🤦🏽♀️😂
It was so hard to watch because the defendant smacked his lips every single time he spoke!😡
it triggers my misophonia so bad. aaaaaand it looked like his mouth was barely moving, so i just didn’t get it!!
I had to check and yes he does and it is horribly annoying
@@jasmineelise424 I have misophonia too and I had to put subtitles on and mute him!! He wound me up so much with his bad attitude plus the way he smacked his lips
I was looking for this comment. I have misophonia as well and particularly on this show it seems the microphones tend to pick up every little lip smack and mouth noise. It drives me crazy!
What an entitled piece of crap! One should never accept money without the intention of paying it back regardless if that was communicated or not. Just expect to pay back what you take.
The eldest sister is still being bamboozled by the defendant. Her rose colored glasses won't come off until he ungratefully leeches off her. If the defendant really wasn't asking to bring his belongings, the plaintiffs could have sent him a train ticket and saved themselves the 4 day round trip and expenses from the moving truck. The plaintiff probably was a loud, frustrating woman but they helped him when no one else did and tried their best to accommodate him, even allowing him to sleep in their bed. This is sad. Sounds like the defendant has a track record for being somewhat of a deadbeat. Hopefully he grows up, everyone involved accepts their accountability in this mess, and they reconcile the family.
That's highly unlikely to happen.
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He is a disgusting moocher, taking advantage of his good bother and sister in law.
The brother in financial distress did him dirty. Real dirty. He is also a liar. He said he paid 7 weeks worth of paychecks and it turned out to be only two paychecks. Real dirty. I'd never speak to him again.
But the sister who was financially doing ok. He didn't want to bother asking her to help him out. That brother would be dead to me after this. I bet he did keep most of the money he got for the house as well from his brother. I'd never speak to him again.
I'm so early. Good afternoon everyone.
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A shameless ungrateful brother distorting facts to get off his obligations.
I believe that woman cusses that man out and bosses him around 🤔 how did she pull him 😂
Wondering the same. Looks like a lesbian.
The judge asks why they paid for the storage unit...well...I know for my sister it would because that's my flipping sister.
The way the announcer says he's a Moocher
"She gets mad a lot, sometimes"...😄 hilarious
Currently watching on my lunch break 😂
Love watching these on my breaks/lunches
I think the title of this case nailed it!
Love Judge Miriam. Not only beautiful but a great judge. She is fair and an approachable lady
6:53 Some Lady on The Right Diggin for Gold.. Lmmfao on National TV That's Just Not a Good Idea..
Eww I seen that.
@@marisolmartinez8390 Yup she was all up in that nose. i mean really on National Tv ? Can't wait till you get home ?
All I can say is ungrateful. This is why I moved from my family. If they call I have no obligation to answer. When I lived near family I couldn’t do that.
Never lend money to anyone unless you do not expect to get it back, specially not family cause you will never get it back and it's not worth the troubles that come with it.
no ones gonna talk about how the lady was digging for gold in the audience😂 6:40
This is why the sister didn’t help him…he probably burned her too! The defendant really needs to get it together!! Sad
The brother is just a moocher who is taking advantage of his siblings.
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the magnifying glass LOL I'M DEAD
when an elderly woman walks in with silly hair, i can"t believe anything she says.
what I don't understand is why not get healthy and spend money for your health vs flamboyant hair🤣
I know what you mean bc of that hair and if she wasn’t married to that man I would think she was a lesbian but either way it’s very very immature for a woman of her age. JS
Lol hey I'm falling asleep to it like it's ocean waves and rainfalls!!
This is exactly why you don't let family or so called friends move in. If they're homeless let them go to a shelter it never ends good there's alot of ungrateful people that want to live off people. The judge really needs to stop trying to get families together not everyone can do it some families are very toxic and need to stay away from each other. The judge needs to get to the point of the case and worry about her own
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Yeah agreed we learned the hard way too we had a so called friend that had to leave her house cause she was under investigation with cos cause she threatened and draw a picture of her house burning with her kids in it when we took her in for one night we couldn't get her to leave and she never helped us out with anything at all she ate all our food I was pregnant and hight risk and she was stressing me out so one day my mom came over and took all of her stuff and throw it outside and told her to leave she did but she threatened us saying she will come back bust our our window call cps on us that didn't work cause we called the cops on her we will never ever help any friends out again we cut ties with her
@@krististoudt8649 💜 I'M SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO YOU. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU WERE PREGNANT 😟 IT'S SAD THAT SOMEONE LIKE THAT RUINED HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HELPING SOMEONE ELSE. BUT THAT'S ALL IT TAKES, I KNOW. PEOPLE LIKE HER ARE DANGEROUS TO ALLOW INTO YOUR HOME. I'M GLAD THAT YOUR MOM CAME TO HELP YOU REMOVE HER. BEST WISHES WITH YOUR BABY, PLEASE BE SAFE, STAY BLESSED 😊🙏✝️💜💜💜
Geez. What a horrible bunch of people you all must surround yourselves with! Character matters. Integrity matters. Don't swim in the gutter and you won't get caught up in the current that's heading for the sewer.
People should not be encouraged to put up with an abusive relationship. It's impossible to have rational discussions with an abuser. Whatever agreement you come to will just be broken by the abuser. The judge needs to stop with that stupid advice. She's NOT a professional counsellor. But this is a tv show so the judge may just be trying to look like a caring person to her viewing audience.
Crazy I can't work without finding the right video to listen to
As someone who worked 12hr nights for over a year, and had roommates with pets during this time, let me tell ya, it SUCKS! While you don't want others to stop living because you work nights, you also just want some sleep after 12 hrs of being up. I remember being so moody and irritated at the slightest noise that kept me up and hated everyone. 😂 I'm never having roommates, ever again!
That’s last part where the bailiff was waiting for the second couple to come out as soon as she said they were getting married he started laughing had me cracking up lol
A bum who takes advantage and then act like it's their fault for being taking advantage of.
It’s so sad that families are destroyed over money. What is more important then family.
money
I can answer that.. Money is more important.
“She gets mad a lot, sometimes. That’s going on my tombstone.” Got a big laugh.
Smack👄smack👄 smack👄smack👄smack
Vacation? No person from NY goes to Texas for vacation.
He is lying. He first said he was going to leave all of his stuff, then he said he was going to fly his brother down and rent a truck. Contradictory stories.
I believe that the Plaintiff's phone calls are easy to explain. I think the he was only asking the Defendant for the phone number of a good Dentist. 😆👍
The defendants moist lip smacking made this awful to watch tbh
Wow this younger brother is sweet and giving and loved his big brother his big brother took advantage of the little brother what a dork loser my big brother was bad to
Long Unpopular opinion here - I feel bad for the "Defendant"...truly think he has and is at risk of another "breakdown" ....he's so emotionaless. Hes been through a lot...he said he went through bankruptcy and was just going to leave it all...he didnt care....and I think when he called his brother...his brother (like most brothers do) was like I'll help you...I got you. His brother recognized the depression. His brother's girlfriend sued him not his brother. Sometimes people end up in a bad way....especially in the past yrs due to Covid. I wouldn't necessarily label him a moocher. And the sister was sitting on his side
Hes a loser. Admit it.
The defendant is an ungrateful freeloader. All the excuses in the book to not pay back the people who helped him out
6:45 lady seriously sitting on tv picking her nose
🤣🤣🤣Up to the third knuckle, hahaha
$80,000????!!! And you've got nothing left?? Indeed, you're a deadbeat. SMH
The defendant is such a manipulative individual
Love The People’s Court. Judge Marilyn is the best.
These people put the "A" in dysfunctional family. 👪
"9 months ago could'a had a baby in that time...", best line!! Love the woman in the episode. Very down to earth and truly trying to help. Yes, money before family. ;)
Money before family?
For me it's family first
Could tell she knew the defendant was handing her a load of crock and she wanted to see how far he’d go.
It's not always about money. It's also about respect, trust, personal responsibility, consideration... No way was the brother coerced into moving! And who can blame the sister-in-law for struggling with long-term company in a small space. She was very generous to let him stay, and if he didn't like her, or the accommodation, he should have left. It was plain that they are not affluent, and the moving brother had to have known that 'helping him out' was the loan for the expenses, physical assistance with the move, finding him a job, and giving him a temporary place to stay. Of course the money should be repaid!
What a disgusting person. No shame at all for being someone who uses people.
Absolute truth beautiful woman 🌞😁
The defendant is an irresponsible ingrate. 😡🤬
The defendant kinda looks like a older Drew Carry
My sister once asked to borrow money from our dad. My dad said "No, I'll give you the money" I asked him why. "A loan means she'll pay it back and I don't want any hard feelings when she doesn't"
He has money to eat. Lots of eating
The defendant is a complete POS. He was so freaking lucky to have family to help him out when he was in his "financial crisis". How about an apology and set up a payment plan to pay it all back and a thank you for the helping hand. Some people are so ungrateful!
This guy is a mooch and now he involved one of the sisters with his lies.
😒 SHAME ON HER FOR BELIEVING HIM TOO! WHAT A SCHMUCK! THEY WERE GOOD ENOUGH TO HELP HIM, BUT THE LOW LIFE THOUGHT HE COULD USE THEM. SUCH A CREEP! 😑