I understand his point. 70% of the time I’m happy I had struggles to get through to make me resilient and strong willed, the other 30% I wish I had a parent to lean on and teach me about life growing up so I didn’t have to learn by taking those hits from life in the first place.
Yeah I'm so glad my wonderful mom who died of awful Osteo-cancer and the abusive step mom my dad remarried later on really challenged me to be a better person. Sure stress and challenges may make you a man, but fuck, it sure makes you one broken one, and not all of us can get back up or care to. Compassion for your brothers (and sisters) is what makes you man, not the challenges alone. This guys just a masochist, be emotional, be vulnerable, be the man you are. Not whatever this guys telling you what a man is. Love you all.
@@gayestpeoplesuckx how about none of your fucking business my point isn't to explain simple shit to you but to inform you that what this guy is spouting complete abd utter bullshit
All these comments on stress are taking extreme examples because they put a negative ideology on the word 'stress'. There are healthy amounts of stress that should be introduced to kids when they are physically and mentally able to be taught stress. Stress is actually a very good thing that children should go through so they can handle stressful situations in a healthy manner, unlike some adults who unfortunately can't handle any amounts of stress and just completely breakdown which is extremely sad.
Disclaimer: I don't believe a child should quote 'Go through hell', only that they should be introduced stress in healthy environments and in a healthy manner.
I was abused badly as a child, put in foster care at 10, behaved so badly no foster carers wanted me. So I was put in resi's or residentials (Australian group homes). The age to put kids in these is a minimum of 13. Anyway I was tortured by older kids who did shit like light their parents on fire. I never had any love, never had anyone to lean on. I felt truly alone. While I do feel like this made me stronger than most people I also would trade all that instantly for a family that loved me and a somewhat normal childhood. I had to take it upon myself as an adult to do schooling since I was a rebellious little shit and never went to school. Now I am 21, and about to go into university. I don't know where this is going exactly. I just thought people should know my experience having one of the worst possible childhoods. It's not worth it. I would trade it all immediately. Don't believe this crap.
Not really much bs, people handle it different ways that could lead them down a bad or good path depending on how they look at the trauma, such as me where my parents beat me severely and now are locked up for life. I’m surprisingly mentally stronger from it as stupid as it sounds but you have to suffer to succeed in life because I’m making 97k a year
Yet you are a homophobe!! Two possibilities: You were molested by unless Joe as a kid You are still in the closet and hate yourself 97k a year is not something to brag about 🤣🤣
Keep telling yourself this bullshit!!
I understand his point. 70% of the time I’m happy I had struggles to get through to make me resilient and strong willed, the other 30% I wish I had a parent to lean on and teach me about life growing up so I didn’t have to learn by taking those hits from life in the first place.
Yeah I'm so glad my wonderful mom who died of awful Osteo-cancer and the abusive step mom my dad remarried later on really challenged me to be a better person. Sure stress and challenges may make you a man, but fuck, it sure makes you one broken one, and not all of us can get back up or care to. Compassion for your brothers (and sisters) is what makes you man, not the challenges alone. This guys just a masochist, be emotional, be vulnerable, be the man you are. Not whatever this guys telling you what a man is. Love you all.
This is 100% right because if a child has no stress the child grows up weak later, becomes stressed. They break easily.
Bruh... This is the most bs bro talk.
As somebody with a fuck ton of trauma and stress tgis is literal bullshit i wouod be 100% hapoy to not have any of it
Same cråp. This mfs probably got zero ideas what they're talking about.
What kind of trauma 😂
@@gayestpeoplesuckx how about none of your fucking business my point isn't to explain simple shit to you but to inform you that what this guy is spouting complete abd utter bullshit
All these comments on stress are taking extreme examples because they put a negative ideology on the word 'stress'. There are healthy amounts of stress that should be introduced to kids when they are physically and mentally able to be taught stress. Stress is actually a very good thing that children should go through so they can handle stressful situations in a healthy manner, unlike some adults who unfortunately can't handle any amounts of stress and just completely breakdown which is extremely sad.
Disclaimer: I don't believe a child should quote 'Go through hell', only that they should be introduced stress in healthy environments and in a healthy manner.
Don’t let this man cook
I am currently not killing it as you’ve said
I was abused badly as a child, put in foster care at 10, behaved so badly no foster carers wanted me. So I was put in resi's or residentials (Australian group homes). The age to put kids in these is a minimum of 13. Anyway I was tortured by older kids who did shit like light their parents on fire. I never had any love, never had anyone to lean on. I felt truly alone. While I do feel like this made me stronger than most people I also would trade all that instantly for a family that loved me and a somewhat normal childhood. I had to take it upon myself as an adult to do schooling since I was a rebellious little shit and never went to school. Now I am 21, and about to go into university. I don't know where this is going exactly. I just thought people should know my experience having one of the worst possible childhoods. It's not worth it. I would trade it all immediately. Don't believe this crap.
MEN NEED EMOTIONAL SUPPORT TOO ITS NOT WEAK
No that's weakness. If you need help to handle life you can't handle life.
@@fuzbeatboxern5714bro ur not even 18 why are you talking like you've even reached adulthood yet lmfaooo
What is CPTSD?
My dad shot himself I know what suffering is.
Not really, some people break under stress at young ages
Most bs I've ever heard
Remember, guys trauma is good for you😅😅😅
It will strenthen you (defently not a shit ton of mental illness)
Is this satire?
So… dont have a good childhood?
Wrong abuse breaks people
Brah
So he’s praising bad parenting
True shit
Not really much bs, people handle it different ways that could lead them down a bad or good path depending on how they look at the trauma, such as me where my parents beat me severely and now are locked up for life. I’m surprisingly mentally stronger from it as stupid as it sounds but you have to suffer to succeed in life because I’m making 97k a year
They were also alcoholics, junkies, and sex workers from the age of 10-17
Yet you are a homophobe!!
Two possibilities:
You were molested by unless Joe as a kid
You are still in the closet and hate yourself
97k a year is not something to brag about 🤣🤣
Bud you could have made 97k with out being abused and traumatized as a child
"I'm mentally stronger" says the guy with the name gay people suck be so fr