You’ve helped a lot man, appreciate it. I find it really hard not messaging the person but trying to hold off and sort myself out first ! Thank you for helping !
@@HappilyCommitted hii.. broke up with her 2 months ago, had been doing ldr since just a bit more than a year.. we've broken up earlier as well and everytime i tried to be mature and give her her own space.. she eventually did come back each time within a day or two.. but i really did a fatal mistake the last time.. like we broke up and decided on remaining friends and see where things go.. things were good for quite a while but then one day we had an argument about getting back, i was the one who pushed it and ended up saying harsh things to her.. i apologized right away.. we still continued to talk for like some more days and everything just seemed normal but then after some days i really felt that the frequency of her texts are decreasing.. i asked her about it n she said that she sort of feels awkward talking to me and that started after we had that argument.. idk what to do now.. will it work if i just stop talking to her?? she really was my bestest friend and we always cared for eachother.. even after the breakup we still loved and cared for eachother but it all just got ruied coz of just one damned argument
Well this LDR is on death row and it’s definitely next in line. She shared a post on her Facebook wall “If I meet love again, I hope it’s genuine” that hurts like hell.
I broke up with my ex and we met online, we had already made plans to meet in a few months or in a year. We broke up because he wasn’t stable, I talked to him about it but he didn’t try to put in effort into the relationship. I’m planning to meet him so we can talk about it better and hopefully start over. Because we are meant to be so I’m not giving up.
Omg, this literally about my boyfriend. He would imagine us finally meeting and living together, but now he says I deserve better and I don't deserve to go through of how unstable he is (literally his words) and he wants me to be happy.
@@R1ch4rd Sorry for the late response, every month he would at least text me once but now he hasn’t. I’m starting to think that it’s best to go our own ways because I know he wouldn’t be willing to do better for me.
3 years local, 3 years LDR. We broke up once and reconnected. This time it’s officially over. She gave me 4 days to sign a lease where she is. I didn’t find a place I like and she ended it, it’s really over now.
How did you reconnect? After how long? I feel so powerless after my bf broke up with me, still think he’s the one😢 I really wish I can go back in time and kick myself to fight for us harder
The pain of the no contact took me by surprise. So, whatever will happen after this time of insecurity, you are reassuring me here, that the no contact has a chance in it to figure things out and be helpful and even doesn't have to end in a breakup.
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My situation is different... thats all i can say its not the normal cheating scenerio. And i dont think this one was rewarded the were done being bf/gf. As its not the typical situation.
Cheating in my opinion is the only deal breaker that can never repair a relationship that ended.Anything else can be fixed with effort and patience but cheating is unfixable
I've been blocked everywhere. She also told me to move on. But I know she misses me, although she thinks that the breakup was needed for us. She's too stubborn. I believe we were really good together. What should I do? I chased her for 2 months and after that went No contact, it's been 25 days. I have lost hope but still want her to reach out.
I am in same boat except I ended things because of miscommunication and I was an idiot. Chased him for a month . Found out he started sleeping with some else about week after 2nd breakup . It killed me. Part of me wants to move on , but I know that I will end up waiting a bit to see if he returns . Did she ever return ?
I feel you man. I think the advice needed here is really useful for me she broke up with me and blocked me. But she calls me every week for the past 5 months. Last week alone she called me every day. I sent her this really long dumb text now she is just silent. I believe i should stop contacting her and just do my thing. But i feel you it burns to think about it about her nearly every day
Same here, blocked everywhere, i know she misses me and she told me to move on today after trying to reach out. She didnt even acknowledge anything i said before she blocked me again and told me to stop contacting her.
My long distance ex (Australia/USA) broke up with me around 9-10 weeks ago. Since the breakup I have sent him 3 texts. The first 2 texts he replied to but the last one which I sent 2 weeks ago he read but then didn't reply. I'm going to be in his hometown in 2 weeks time and would like to talk. Can I contact him when I'm there? If so, how do I go about it?
What if my LDR BF broke up with me and I told him I respect his decision I won't contact him again he messaged me 15 hours later and again the next day but I don't know when to respond... I love him so much. He's been contacting me!
Thank you so much. My SP broke up with me and blocked me. He unblocked me 6 weeks later and started chatting. He would flirt and send me pics of him self which made me confused. So i asked him to clarify what was going on because he was hot and cold. He told me today that we have broken up, he doesnt want a relationship so i asked him why does he flirt and give me mixed signals. Apparently its all my fault. We chatted most of the afternoon and I was really hurt as we have been together in a LDR for 4 years. He tells me he loves me but he wants to be friends. I told him that wont work for me because im not a consolation prize and if i walk away thats me gone for good. Things seemed to be going a bit better then he tells me nope he doesnt want a relationship. Do I block him or just archive him. How long should I do no contact for?
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He/She might be keeping you as a backup option. They might already be talking with another. That being said it's been 6 months, I wonder what is your status now 😇
Im so confused when he go to another country .Everything change!he treat me so differently.he dont even communicate with me like before i try to understand him because of many factors of his new environment.but suddenly he tell me that he dont me anymore.he want to be single!i cry every single sleeps less night!!i asked him if he still love me !he told me he love me but he dont have assurance about us.everyday he telling that i need to move on and find some better man.but everytime i dont contact him and starting forget about him he always find ways to call me and again my feelings back again and i forget again what he doing and what he told me.Stupid love always wins
What do you do in a situation where you have been dating for 9 months, you talked about your future of living together, wanting to marry one another, wanting to have a family, and that’s just us being far away, but in person they say “I think we need to break up because I just am not into you physically” like I’m at a loss here and it’s been really hard to move on from it
Thank you for sharing. Your partner clearly cares deeply about you but may have a fear of commitment, perhaps because they are afraid to hurt you or they don't feel worthy or good enough. If you need support, don't hesitate to reach out to me so that we can work together to help you guys take the next step! Sincerely, Coach Adrian
How would you approach this if you have a young child together? We do video calls each night to talk to the kid and each other - can you do no contact regarding taking about your personal relationship but still focus on the kid? I'm trying for the relationship back and he told me he would like to try to get his family back but needs space and no hard conversations about us. I'm frustrated because he was a bad communicator 5 years- 3 years -9 months I've given him all of this time and yet he still needs time?
You’ve helped a lot man, appreciate it. I find it really hard not messaging the person but trying to hold off and sort myself out first ! Thank you for helping !
Glad I could help!
@@HappilyCommitted hii.. broke up with her 2 months ago, had been doing ldr since just a bit more than a year.. we've broken up earlier as well and everytime i tried to be mature and give her her own space.. she eventually did come back each time within a day or two.. but i really did a fatal mistake the last time.. like we broke up and decided on remaining friends and see where things go.. things were good for quite a while but then one day we had an argument about getting back, i was the one who pushed it and ended up saying harsh things to her.. i apologized right away.. we still continued to talk for like some more days and everything just seemed normal but then after some days i really felt that the frequency of her texts are decreasing.. i asked her about it n she said that she sort of feels awkward talking to me and that started after we had that argument.. idk what to do now.. will it work if i just stop talking to her?? she really was my bestest friend and we always cared for eachother.. even after the breakup we still loved and cared for eachother but it all just got ruied coz of just one damned argument
What u was late to a video like this could u pull away do the no contact thing after you were raw in the messages kmao and letting it all out?
I kept messaging them the first week of our break up. I won’t anymore cause I want us to work again. Thanks so much for the video
and how did it turned out?
Well this LDR is on death row and it’s definitely next in line. She shared a post on her Facebook wall “If I meet love again, I hope it’s genuine” that hurts like hell.
I hope you're in a better place now 🤗! my 1 year ldr just yeah... Ended...
I broke up with my ex and we met online, we had already made plans to meet in a few months or in a year. We broke up because he wasn’t stable, I talked to him about it but he didn’t try to put in effort into the relationship. I’m planning to meet him so we can talk about it better and hopefully start over. Because we are meant to be so I’m not giving up.
Omg, this literally about my boyfriend. He would imagine us finally meeting and living together, but now he says I deserve better and I don't deserve to go through of how unstable he is (literally his words) and he wants me to be happy.
How things are going so far ?
@@R1ch4rd Sorry for the late response, every month he would at least text me once but now he hasn’t. I’m starting to think that it’s best to go our own ways because I know he wouldn’t be willing to do better for me.
Omg same situation. You gave me hope!
What if the only reason they broke up is the distance is it still possible?
3 years local, 3 years LDR. We broke up once and reconnected. This time it’s officially over. She gave me 4 days to sign a lease where she is. I didn’t find a place I like and she ended it, it’s really over now.
How did you reconnect? After how long? I feel so powerless after my bf broke up with me, still think he’s the one😢 I really wish I can go back in time and kick myself to fight for us harder
Nah.
Fresh from the call about breaking up & as a Man - I’m gon take this with stride and dignity.
We broke up, but I’m still in love. Should I go visit him or not?
The pain of the no contact took me by surprise. So, whatever will happen after this time of insecurity, you are reassuring me here, that the no contact has a chance in it to figure things out and be helpful and even doesn't have to end in a breakup.
And when he is cheating and you know about it then there is no going back
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He will help you fix all kinds of relationship problems. And manifest love
My situation is different... thats all i can say its not the normal cheating scenerio. And i dont think this one was rewarded the were done being bf/gf. As its not the typical situation.
People can change
Cheating in my opinion is the only deal breaker that can never repair a relationship that ended.Anything else can be fixed with effort and patience but cheating is unfixable
He reaches out if I do not ...but he does not answere.if I reach out first ,😔
Same for me 😂
I've been blocked everywhere. She also told me to move on. But I know she misses me, although she thinks that the breakup was needed for us. She's too stubborn. I believe we were really good together. What should I do? I chased her for 2 months and after that went No contact, it's been 25 days. I have lost hope but still want her to reach out.
She told you to move on yet you still thinks she wants you. Stop being delusional fam
how did it go?
I am in same boat except I ended things because of miscommunication and I was an idiot. Chased him for a month . Found out he started sleeping with some else about week after 2nd breakup . It killed me. Part of me wants to move on , but I know that I will end up waiting a bit to see if he returns .
Did she ever return ?
I feel you man. I think the advice needed here is really useful for me she broke up with me and blocked me. But she calls me every week for the past 5 months. Last week alone she called me every day. I sent her this really long dumb text now she is just silent. I believe i should stop contacting her and just do my thing. But i feel you it burns to think about it about her nearly every day
Same here, blocked everywhere, i know she misses me and she told me to move on today after trying to reach out. She didnt even acknowledge anything i said before she blocked me again and told me to stop contacting her.
What if they've already started seeing someone else and started having feelings for the other person, but you know you can make it work. Then what?
My long distance ex (Australia/USA) broke up with me around 9-10 weeks ago. Since the breakup I have sent him 3 texts. The first 2 texts he replied to but the last one which I sent 2 weeks ago he read but then didn't reply. I'm going to be in his hometown in 2 weeks time and would like to talk. Can I contact him when I'm there? If so, how do I go about it?
What if my LDR BF broke up with me and I told him I respect his decision I won't contact him again he messaged me 15 hours later and again the next day but I don't know when to respond... I love him so much. He's been contacting me!
Then please reach out to him, and assure him that you still love him. He’s afraid, confuse and frustrated and needs your comfort and assurance.
Thank you so much. My SP broke up with me and blocked me. He unblocked me 6 weeks later and started chatting. He would flirt and send me pics of him self which made me confused. So i asked him to clarify what was going on because he was hot and cold. He told me today that we have broken up, he doesnt want a relationship so i asked him why does he flirt and give me mixed signals. Apparently its all my fault. We chatted most of the afternoon and I was really hurt as we have been together in a LDR for 4 years. He tells me he loves me but he wants to be friends. I told him that wont work for me because im not a consolation prize and if i walk away thats me gone for good. Things seemed to be going a bit better then he tells me nope he doesnt want a relationship. Do I block him or just archive him. How long should I do no contact for?
Hi there! Thank you so much for reaching out to us about this! I know our coaches would love to help you with this but they would need to know a little more about what you're going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with a coach on our team using this link:
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-HC Team
If they tell me they will reach out if they want, do I just leave them alone until they are back? It's been over 2 months now of NC 🤔
He/She might be keeping you as a backup option. They might already be talking with another.
That being said it's been 6 months, I wonder what is your status now 😇
And if she threatened to block me just the moment when she told me she wanted to break up? What then?
So what exactly is the one thing we have to do? Just give them space?
Exactly!
Im so confused when he go to another country .Everything change!he treat me so differently.he dont even communicate with me like before i try to understand him because of many factors of his new environment.but suddenly he tell me that he dont me anymore.he want to be single!i cry every single sleeps less night!!i asked him if he still love me !he told me he love me but he dont have assurance about us.everyday he telling that i need to move on and find some better man.but everytime i dont contact him and starting forget about him he always find ways to call me and again my feelings back again and i forget again what he doing and what he told me.Stupid love always wins
What if they say they need space and he ditches me and he found a new girl in 3 days?
Does this work if you broke up with them?
What do you do in a situation where you have been dating for 9 months, you talked about your future of living together, wanting to marry one another, wanting to have a family, and that’s just us being far away, but in person they say “I think we need to break up because I just am not into you physically” like I’m at a loss here and it’s been really hard to move on from it
Thank you for sharing. Your partner clearly cares deeply about you but may have a fear of commitment, perhaps because they are afraid to hurt you or they don't feel worthy or good enough. If you need support, don't hesitate to reach out to me so that we can work together to help you guys take the next step!
Sincerely,
Coach Adrian
How would you approach this if you have a young child together? We do video calls each night to talk to the kid and each other - can you do no contact regarding taking about your personal relationship but still focus on the kid?
I'm trying for the relationship back and he told me he would like to try to get his family back but needs space and no hard conversations about us. I'm frustrated because he was a bad communicator 5 years- 3 years -9 months I've given him all of this time and yet he still needs time?
5 months of no contact😊
That one is completely over.
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