@@MrBejkovec Its so unfortunate that people who move to Japan don't bother with learning the language beforehand. I feel like a decision like moving to japan is a well thought out one and in light of preparation i feel like its important to know the language of the country you are moving to, or at least the basics.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16
@@MrBejkovec I can understand taking a vacation in a country where you don't speak the language, but if you are going to be there for a while, its kind of incumbent on you to start learning the language.
Ignore this Daenack Dranils guy...He scours the Internet for Japan content to insult the Japanese and gets ruffled when he gets called out on his bigotry...Just type in his name in Google and see his history of comments. Cheers!
Dating is straightforward in Japan. No friendzone or let’s get to know each kind of thing. Yes or No. And you’ll know right away. They either show good emotion/compliance (green light) or ghost out (red light). No waste of time. I like it
korea too 😭😭😭 I’m in england rn and cannot get used to this dating culture why don’t they officially see each other even they both have good feelings and attachment?
Dude, first you say in Japan is either "yes or no", then you say you either get a good feedback or they ghost you out, ghosting isn't a "no", ghosting is ghosting. I'd rather get a "no" than being ghosted.
Made me laugh to see everyone mentioning bumble. I met my husband off the app my 2nd year living in Japan, and somehow here we are. For me, I'd say the hardest thing we struggle with from time to time is actually cultural differences and family values. Our listening comprehension of each other's language is fairly high, so rarely do we not understand one another when talking. It's mainly been me getting used to the more closed off dynamic of his family compared to my overly connected and over sharing family, and him learning to be more active and less passive during discussions, or when informing me if I've hurt his feelings. My family loves him, and his family truly cares about and loves me, and I feel lucky that we managed to meet and continue to work together to overcome our international differences to be where we are today.
For me, I had a lot of good and bad experiences. My advice for women especially is to be careful about guys that are only interested in you because you're foreign. They'll always mention you're foreign to their friends and take pictures and it just feels like they're only dating you for that purpose. Most of my relationships that ended badly were due to that or cultural differences that we couldn't get past. But I had some good experiences too. I learned to speak Japanese through dating. When I dated people that couldn't speak English, it forced me to learn and speak Japanese more quickly. The guy I'm dating now can only speak Japanese. And it's crazy to see how far my language ability has come from it. 😸 And I agree that bumble is a bit better than tinder in terms of dating. For tinder, the majority of people want hookups. If you're using Tinder, I'd always ask the person directly what their purpose is. Usually they'll tell you directly. And you can just unmatch with people who don't have the same purpose. ☠️
@Daenack Dranils You’re replying to channels that treat Japan like some sort of fascination zoo and the Japanese like some curious animals. You’re especially guilty of this
You’re so close to 100k CONGRATS! I’ve learned so much about Japanese from your videos which has allowed me to keep trying to learn the language so thank you ❤
I met my Japanese husband at a Denny's in Japan. I tried following the Japanese rules while dating, but we ended up doing our own thing 😂. Been married for 5 years ❤
Have you ever had a date in Hungary where you shared the price of the food? Especially in the first couple of times? Maybe only in my bubble... but I was surprised that the girl was surprised. I think hungarian guys at least try to pay for the whole.
@@zoli400 Yeah indeed. In my opinion, whoever invited the other person on the date, pays for the whole, which is usually (especially, in the first couple dates) is the guy.
@@zoli400 She is in her own bubble not you. In Hungary and generally in Europe and the USA is expected from the guy to pay. She is on tinder trying to match only with the top 5% of men who has 500 other options for that day so they either split the bill or dont pay anything at all because the girl is desperate to try to keep that 10/10 guy around :D Many woman has crazy high standards nowadays but they willing to break them for the guy they want :D
For an easier East Asian experience, foreigners should go to Korea instead. Seoul is like Tokyo without the language barrier or social awkwardness. Most of the people I met in Seoul spoke English an are easily approachable. Comparing my visits to both Seoul and Tokyo, I'd give Seoul the advantage, by far.
4:30 So true. Also want to state that even you could speak fluent Japanese doesn’t mean the barrier disappears, SERIOUSLY. I’ve been in Japan for 8 years since 17 years old, despite of my Japanese speaking sounds just like natives, some of them still gonna look down to me when they found out I’m actually a foreigner, which is pretty obvious 上から目線.
I'm from Poland. Lived in UK for 10 years and honestly like the guy said he met with this girl and after meeting after 2nd, 3rd date you're boyfriend and girlfriend. No games, no messing about, just straight up I like you I want to be with you. I'm the same, I met my boyfriend and tbh after 1 date I was already into him, I was like yup this is it, we together now ahah but this definitely stems from Poland, not UK
can you interview Asians that moved to Japan but that aren't Japanese, like how is it like for them since they can easily blend in and it's not obvious that they're foreigners too.
In my experience it’s really hard. There are factors like income, what family you come from, and being Japanese. Of course there are Japanese girls that marry sailors and foreigners yes, but in my experience, dating in Japan isn’t really welcoming. It’s really difficult, I’d rather go casual dating in the US than in Japan.
Im living in Tokyo and it's been 2 month I'm dating a japanese. I kinda disagree with the person saying that the japanese speaking only japanese are close minded. Quite the opposite ! They feel frustrated not being able to speak any foregin language so they do want to learn. Im french and I'm learning japanese thanks to my girlfriend and she's learning english (and a little bit of french) thanks to me. It's true that it is difficult to cummunicate sometimes but you dont learn anything from someone speaking the same language than you...
@@SonicSega0964 Obviously you can learn in many others ways. It's so obvious that I wasn't expecting this kind of answer. Your teacher ain't h24 with you and it's easier to learn a language when your family or GF use it every time. That's my point. Why should have even explained that isn't it obvious ? 😅
Met my GF in University. lots of cultural differences but thankfully I speak some Japanese so we were able to talk about it. the hardest concept for me to get is 気をつかう where you have to consider other people's feelings. Great content Jesse! ALMOST 100K!!!!!
Asian mentality is that, if you wanna try out if this works out, you stay as a friend first. Dating is a stage where both already confessed their feelings to each other, hence is official.
I saw this phrase "confess one's feelings" in Terrace House a lot and to me it's so odd. First off, if you're asking someone to go out, your feelings should be fairly obvious. Second, there's the word "confess", making it sound like telling someone you're attracted to them is some terrible secret that you're revealing. Puts way too much pressure on the whole thing. Maybe I'm reading too much into the wording but this is the sense I got watching stuff like TH.
@@woutertron Back then, dating means leading to marriage. If they don't have this understanding, they should not date or even face backlash from the community. These days, dating can be casual but many people still see confession as part of the beginning phase.
I love love your channel.. as a Nigerian girl in Japan, I would like to know what it’s like for girls of African descent (both African American) in the dating pool in Japan
Ever since I read somewhere that when Americans introduce themselves they usually never just say "I'm from the US" or something they say "I'm from (insert US state)". I find that interesting.
Yes, we tend to identify with our state first, country second. If you look at the geographical size, American states are about the same size as European countries. Wouldn't someone say "I'm from Switzerland" rather than "I'm from Europe"?
@@earlysda On the other hand, I'm from Canada, but I just usually say that. I don't tell them my province or hometown. Maybe that's because I doubt they would recognize the names anyway...
@@kobecanuck78 That's cool, Peter. Most people don't know my state either, but once in a while I'll meet somebody who has been there and their face will really light up!
@@earlysda Europe is not a country, but the US is. To me, telling me your state first feels like there's a subtext of "you should know all the states of my country, because it is the cultural default".
I would say Language is Nr. 1. If you're both from non English speaking country there are gonna be lots of misunderstandings. If at least 1 is speaking in their mother tongue it's starting of easier if there is a base level. But once you get close to that you just reached the first Plateau and notice that the culture difference is the real challange.
I lived in Korea, China and now in Japan due to my job, in my very personal opinion asian girls ask too much compared to what they give. As I said is my personal opinion after living more than 20 years in asia.
Yeah but the passport bros dont know that. In east asia they want a provider, a supportive husband that help them do the housework and hand them all the paycheck
I had a wonderful experience little bit over four years ago. Japanese ladies seemed to be far more open-minded and kind than in my country (Finland). After that experience dating in Finland hadn't felt anything. I am very happy that in this world there is a country where women appreciate kind and polite gentlemen.
@@WassupWassup123 Tai vaan työnhakuun Japanin päässä? Sulla on vielä kolme kuukautta aikaa löytää töitä! Japanissa on tällä hetkellä kauhee työvoimapula kaikenlisäksi! Missä päin Japania muuten asustelet?
If it is so difficult to get a bf in Japan that even that Belarusian woman has to use dating apps, it must be hopelessly difficult for other foreign women...
I’m a Belarusian girl from this video haha! Happily dating for almost 9 months already ☺️ ps. every “foreign” woman is gorgeous in her own way. I would recommend to use dating apps for those who want serious relationships, because as foreigners we don’t have much opportunities to find it “naturally” like Japanese women, who usually find partners from their community like school, university, work. So foreigners who not belong to such communities in Japan have only two options like meeting someone at bars or clubs, or dating apps. From my experience it’s really hard to find someone with serious intentions in a bar or club so apps are a good way to go 🫶 (only if it’s not a tinder)
Countries all over the world have high fluency rates of English yet Japan has an embarrassingly low percentage. English is a universal language; Japanese is not.
@@a.s.1737 Why you come go another country they speak in English...and who idiot are said English is universal language...such stupid..gain a knowledge
Because she is not remotely close to fluent. She said a few words and you think she is fluent. I have lived in Japan for over 20 years, and I can count on one hand how many foreigners can speak Japanese fluently.
Hmmm, "The Language Barrier is Real"...I guess I'll have to be the Bridge, I'll commit to learning it before I go in 2024. (Fingers Cross). I can kinda practice it in person months from now in an area/business with japanese people here where I live if I'm lucky.
I think it would be interesting to learn about LGBT dating for both natives and foreigners in Japan, although I know it will probably be hard to people for the latter.
Dating is not a sacred and formal act of finding a marriage partner. It is a simple matter of being in close proximity for only five minutes and sharing the same way of spending time together. This channel takes dating too broadly.
I think it is stupid to expect japanese people to be able to speak english. You come to a foreign country, you should be the one who adjust, and learn the language.
They actually...dumb people...they visit in Spain they visit Argentina how many speak English..I challenge you interview in Messi they understand but not speak English at all
In Japan, it's not worth it for brothas to go on dates. The Japanese (Asians in general, especially in their home country) rarely go for black people (especially black men), as evidenced by the experiences of the Senegalese man and Patrick from America. If you're white, I believe you'll have a lot more freedom and success dating Japanese women. When they refer to "foreigners," they are referring to white men and women. If you're black, go to Japan as a tourist and enjoy yourself, but don't waste your time dating; if it happens, you're lucky.
@@itsDjjayyArt nah, I've seen some black guys on UA-cam videos claim that the women here love black men, and obviously I can't speak for their experiences but imo thats a bunch of bs. I've been to many social events and trust me when I tell you that the Japanese women here love white men. I've seen it with my own eyes many, many times. white guys don't have to say or do much to get a Japanese girls attention, I've had many instances where my conversations with a Japanese girl will immediately stop when a white man approaches them, and theres immediate interest in their eyes, they would glare at them, smile a lot, and become instantly interested in everything they have to say. I think I had that reaction with maybe 1 Japanese girl. Now I have managed to befriend some Japanese girls but thats about it, I can't get any closer than that. I've met far more Japanese women that just flat out ghost me or walk away from me in person so they can go talk to the white guy they saw. also I'm a 6ft5 black guy so maybe they're just afraid of me, who knows🤷🏿♂ I have listened to some other black guys talk about having a bunch of sex with Japanese chicks they hookup with at places like Shibuya, but heard nothing about any relationships. Also I rarely actually ever see any black guys in Tokyo walking with Japanese women, they're either by themselves or walking with another black dude, and if they are walking with another women then she's likely not Japanese. Dating Apps don't seem to be a fix either, if anything its worse.
@@c-red4637 damn and I've been mainly watching international passports. I guess it depends what part you go to . What about Okinawa I heard they have Amejo. japanese woman who have more style and are attracted to black men. There's a video about them.
@@itsDjjayyArt No, Japanese women (and Asian women in general) do not date black men for a variety of reasons; there are exceptions, but the rule is that they do not. Firstly they are in an environment that has many anti black elements. whiteness is a essential part of their society as a proponent of health, success and beauty, they are taught that whiteness equals this and this has been around for centuries. Secondly there upbringing of avoidance from foreigners especially black people is real, they would be ostracised from their families if they ever date black men, most who have dated or even married black have strained relationships. Black peoples are looked down upon in Asia as a whole even thought black music and entertainment are popular, the Japanese have separated the people from their art form. Thirdly they only like white foreigners so you’d have to compete with them. I would really take the advice or experiences of passport bros with a grain of salt especially in certain countries, Japan being one of them. The problem with passport bros is they fail to understand that going to another country especially when you have a higher currency will allow you certain benefits. Most passport bros just go to poor countries and use their money. Japan is one of the richest countries on Earth, same with South Korea and China, passport bros (black ones) will not have a great time unless you’re a millionaire perhaps. I have heard the stereotype of Okinawa because a us base is stationed there but it’s most likely exaggerated even if your success might increase.
the Belarusian girl who had been only for a few months yet speaks Japanese is very impressive
Tbh she was probably one of the rarest types of foreigners in Japan - the one that actually learned at least the basics back home in Belarus.
that Belarusian girl is incredible
@@MrBejkovec Its so unfortunate that people who move to Japan don't bother with learning the language beforehand. I feel like a decision like moving to japan is a well thought out one and in light of preparation i feel like its important to know the language of the country you are moving to, or at least the basics.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16
@@MrBejkovec I can understand taking a vacation in a country where you don't speak the language, but if you are going to be there for a while, its kind of incumbent on you to start learning the language.
My wife was a motorcycle cop. I got pulled over on my bike for reckless driving. I got a ticket, she got my phone number, we have 5 kids.
bro really living the life lmaoo
Stop the cap!! 🧢
And then everyone clapped
Insert “my nigga” meme here
Ignore this Daenack Dranils guy...He scours the Internet for Japan content to insult the Japanese and gets ruffled when he gets called out on his bigotry...Just type in his name in Google and see his history of comments. Cheers!
I could definitely see cultural and religious differences being the hardest parts for alot of people in these relationships.
Specially the religious part is extremely hard
@@xPoisonDashx ikr !! It's hard everywhere tbh
most Japanese are not very religious, I'd say the "religion" is more a part of culture but they aren't really "religious"
Between 30 and 39 per cent of the people on the Japanese islands say they are "convinced atheists".
Dating is straightforward in Japan. No friendzone or let’s get to know each kind of thing. Yes or No. And you’ll know right away. They either show good emotion/compliance (green light) or ghost out (red light). No waste of time. I like it
I wish everywhere was like that no games just straight forward
@@loganwisnieski4913 Blame the stupid media for that.
@Daenack Dranils could you please elaborate?
korea too 😭😭😭 I’m in england rn and cannot get used to this dating culture
why don’t they officially see each other even they both have good feelings and attachment?
Dude, first you say in Japan is either "yes or no", then you say you either get a good feedback or they ghost you out, ghosting isn't a "no", ghosting is ghosting. I'd rather get a "no" than being ghosted.
I'm from Belarus. It was amazing to see belarusian girl in Japan with so good knowledge of language. Felt so proud of it.
Made me laugh to see everyone mentioning bumble. I met my husband off the app my 2nd year living in Japan, and somehow here we are. For me, I'd say the hardest thing we struggle with from time to time is actually cultural differences and family values. Our listening comprehension of each other's language is fairly high, so rarely do we not understand one another when talking. It's mainly been me getting used to the more closed off dynamic of his family compared to my overly connected and over sharing family, and him learning to be more active and less passive during discussions, or when informing me if I've hurt his feelings. My family loves him, and his family truly cares about and loves me, and I feel lucky that we managed to meet and continue to work together to overcome our international differences to be where we are today.
What app is it?
@Daenack Dranils what masochism?
@Daenack Dranils ouh now I get it
For me, I had a lot of good and bad experiences. My advice for women especially is to be careful about guys that are only interested in you because you're foreign. They'll always mention you're foreign to their friends and take pictures and it just feels like they're only dating you for that purpose. Most of my relationships that ended badly were due to that or cultural differences that we couldn't get past. But I had some good experiences too. I learned to speak Japanese through dating. When I dated people that couldn't speak English, it forced me to learn and speak Japanese more quickly. The guy I'm dating now can only speak Japanese. And it's crazy to see how far my language ability has come from it. 😸
And I agree that bumble is a bit better than tinder in terms of dating. For tinder, the majority of people want hookups. If you're using Tinder, I'd always ask the person directly what their purpose is. Usually they'll tell you directly. And you can just unmatch with people who don't have the same purpose. ☠️
@Daenack Dranils true like how white men treat Asian girls as sex toys
@Daenack Dranils lmao
Kinda reminds me of all the UA-camrs who treat the Japanese like some kind of fascination zoo curiosities
@Daenack Dranils You’re replying to channels that treat Japan like some sort of fascination zoo and the Japanese like some curious animals. You’re especially guilty of this
@Daenack Dranils You scour the Internet to insult the Japanese...please do mute me so I don't have to see your garbage anymore
You’re so close to 100k CONGRATS! I’ve learned so much about Japanese from your videos which has allowed me to keep trying to learn the language so thank you ❤
Why you learng japonese?
@@milleis because they know
I met my Japanese husband at a Denny's in Japan. I tried following the Japanese rules while dating, but we ended up doing our own thing 😂. Been married for 5 years ❤
I like the editing style very refreshing
You’re a very likeable guy, content great as always. Keep up the grind!
As a hungarian, I was surprised to see hungarians in the video. Great content, keep it up!
Have you ever had a date in Hungary where you shared the price of the food? Especially in the first couple of times?
Maybe only in my bubble... but I was surprised that the girl was surprised. I think hungarian guys at least try to pay for the whole.
@@zoli400 Yeah indeed. In my opinion, whoever invited the other person on the date, pays for the whole, which is usually (especially, in the first couple dates) is the guy.
@@zoli400 She is in her own bubble not you. In Hungary and generally in Europe and the USA is expected from the guy to pay. She is on tinder trying to match only with the top 5% of men who has 500 other options for that day so they either split the bill or dont pay anything at all because the girl is desperate to try to keep that 10/10 guy around :D Many woman has crazy high standards nowadays but they willing to break them for the guy they want :D
アップロードしてくれて嬉しい！来月日本に行くから楽しみね！このアドバイス感謝している😄
For an easier East Asian experience, foreigners should go to Korea instead. Seoul is like Tokyo without the language barrier or social awkwardness. Most of the people I met in Seoul spoke English an are easily approachable. Comparing my visits to both Seoul and Tokyo, I'd give Seoul the advantage, by far.
4:30 So true. Also want to state that even you could speak fluent Japanese doesn’t mean the barrier disappears, SERIOUSLY.
I’ve been in Japan for 8 years since 17 years old, despite of my Japanese speaking sounds just like natives, some of them still gonna look down to me when they found out I’m actually a foreigner, which is pretty obvious 上から目線.
Your content is always very enjoyable to watch, thanks to the algorithms for showing me your channel, thanks for your amazing work too!!
You can teach me japonese?
man i get never bored watching your videos ,content creative 100%
I'm from Poland. Lived in UK for 10 years and honestly like the guy said he met with this girl and after meeting after 2nd, 3rd date you're boyfriend and girlfriend. No games, no messing about, just straight up I like you I want to be with you. I'm the same, I met my boyfriend and tbh after 1 date I was already into him, I was like yup this is it, we together now ahah but this definitely stems from Poland, not UK
You’ve got a lot of interesting content on your channel man, thx for sharing these unique conversations
can you interview Asians that moved to Japan but that aren't Japanese, like how is it like for them since they can easily blend in and it's not obvious that they're foreigners too.
In my experience it’s really hard. There are factors like income, what family you come from, and being Japanese. Of course there are Japanese girls that marry sailors and foreigners yes, but in my experience, dating in Japan isn’t really welcoming. It’s really difficult, I’d rather go casual dating in the US than in Japan.
Im living in Tokyo and it's been 2 month I'm dating a japanese. I kinda disagree with the person saying that the japanese speaking only japanese are close minded. Quite the opposite ! They feel frustrated not being able to speak any foregin language so they do want to learn. Im french and I'm learning japanese thanks to my girlfriend and she's learning english (and a little bit of french) thanks to me.
It's true that it is difficult to cummunicate sometimes but you dont learn anything from someone speaking the same language than you...
teach her french tongue
You can definitely learn from people who speak the same language as you. There’s this thing called “Teachers”
@@SonicSega0964 Obviously you can learn in many others ways. It's so obvious that I wasn't expecting this kind of answer. Your teacher ain't h24 with you and it's easier to learn a language when your family or GF use it every time. That's my point. Why should have even explained that isn't it obvious ? 😅
Loved this!! I’m going back to japan soon so these were the on point tips lol
You are gonna be big, keep up the good work👍👍
Met my GF in University. lots of cultural differences but thankfully I speak some Japanese so we were able to talk about it. the hardest concept for me to get is 気をつかう where you have to consider other people's feelings. Great content Jesse! ALMOST 100K!!!!!
thats called empathy and youre meant to have it anyway
your videos are always fire, Jesse, always interested in clicking on your vids when i get that notification. Keep it up man!
The extremely venezuelan way the venezuelan lady said “shibuya” 🥰🥰🥰
What an amazing vid as always!!; ❤️ Plz more of this!!
Great video Jesse! Keep em videos coming!!
日本語字ありがたすぎる。内容おもろいしリスニングの練習になる！
Awesome content, as always.
Asian mentality is that, if you wanna try out if this works out, you stay as a friend first. Dating is a stage where both already confessed their feelings to each other, hence is official.
I saw this phrase "confess one's feelings" in Terrace House a lot and to me it's so odd. First off, if you're asking someone to go out, your feelings should be fairly obvious. Second, there's the word "confess", making it sound like telling someone you're attracted to them is some terrible secret that you're revealing. Puts way too much pressure on the whole thing. Maybe I'm reading too much into the wording but this is the sense I got watching stuff like TH.
@@woutertron Back then, dating means leading to marriage. If they don't have this understanding, they should not date or even face backlash from the community. These days, dating can be casual but many people still see confession as part of the beginning phase.
I love love your channel.. as a Nigerian girl in Japan, I would like to know what it’s like for girls of African descent (both African American) in the dating pool in Japan
loved this video
Almost hitting 100k subscribers! I've been watching u for a while now. Keep up the amazing content!
Ever since I read somewhere that when Americans introduce themselves they usually never just say "I'm from the US" or something they say "I'm from (insert US state)". I find that interesting.
Yes, we tend to identify with our state first, country second. If you look at the geographical size, American states are about the same size as European countries. Wouldn't someone say "I'm from Switzerland" rather than "I'm from Europe"?
@@earlysda On the other hand, I'm from Canada, but I just usually say that. I don't tell them my province or hometown. Maybe that's because I doubt they would recognize the names anyway...
@@kobecanuck78 That's cool, Peter. Most people don't know my state either, but once in a while I'll meet somebody who has been there and their face will really light up!
@@earlysda Europe is not a country, but the US is. To me, telling me your state first feels like there's a subtext of "you should know all the states of my country, because it is the cultural default".
@@woutertron woutertron, that's fine that you don't understand America.
Love the content as always
I would say Language is Nr. 1. If you're both from non English speaking country there are gonna be lots of misunderstandings. If at least 1 is speaking in their mother tongue it's starting of easier if there is a base level.
But once you get close to that you just reached the first Plateau and notice that the culture difference is the real challange.
I lived in Korea, China and now in Japan due to my job, in my very personal opinion asian girls ask too much compared to what they give.
As I said is my personal opinion after living more than 20 years in asia.
Yeah but the passport bros dont know that. In east asia they want a provider, a supportive husband that help them do the housework and hand them all the paycheck
Keep it up, you were just reintroduced into my feed, continue engaging with the comment section 👍🏾
I love how he used a periodic table image in one of the transitions XD (chemistry)
what a nice content, third video that i watch and i cant stop, keep fresh and cool, your channel is 1 in a million frr
I love your videos!! They are so much fun to watch~~
awesome video man! 🤝🏽💯
Different language and culture is definitely hard but love is love so if you find that right person those barriers will not matter ☺️
Buddy love your videos, video quality, the sounds that you add the way you have a conversation is awesome :)
I had a wonderful experience little bit over four years ago. Japanese ladies seemed to be far more open-minded and kind than in my country (Finland). After that experience dating in Finland hadn't felt anything. I am very happy that in this world there is a country where women appreciate kind and polite gentlemen.
Thats nice dude, tell more about it.
I was in busan korea for a bit and Ive never met more rude people in my life.
I feel you, I'm coming back to Finland in 3 months and i'm already feeling like "Noo i don't want to date no finnish girls" haha
@@WassupWassup123 Kantsii nauttii vielä ku pystyy ;) sitten Suomeen palaessa saattaa iskeekki hirvee kulttuurishokki. Tai näin ainaki mulle kävi!
@@ne0wa Thanks, kyl kuullostaa suomeen paluu semi laimeelta täl hetkel. Pakko päästä johoki töihi mitä voi tehä Japanista käsin
@@WassupWassup123 Tai vaan työnhakuun Japanin päässä? Sulla on vielä kolme kuukautta aikaa löytää töitä! Japanissa on tällä hetkellä kauhee työvoimapula kaikenlisäksi! Missä päin Japania muuten asustelet?
@Jesse where do you get your fades in Japan my guy? Gonna be teaching English there next year!
Good perspectives. Love the background music.
I haven’t been to Japan. But even experiences dating (trying to 😂) Japanese in Australia. They are by far the shyest country I have met
I remember seeing you on Tik tok first. Glad your channel was on recommended
If it is so difficult to get a bf in Japan that even that Belarusian woman has to use dating apps, it must be hopelessly difficult for other foreign women...
I’m a Belarusian girl from this video haha! Happily dating for almost 9 months already ☺️ ps. every “foreign” woman is gorgeous in her own way. I would recommend to use dating apps for those who want serious relationships, because as foreigners we don’t have much opportunities to find it “naturally” like Japanese women, who usually find partners from their community like school, university, work. So foreigners who not belong to such communities in Japan have only two options like meeting someone at bars or clubs, or dating apps. From my experience it’s really hard to find someone with serious intentions in a bar or club so apps are a good way to go 🫶 (only if it’s not a tinder)
Christina the Belarusian girl is inspirational for some reason...
congratulations on 100k!!!!! ❤❤
Mrs Belarus is beautiful and very sincere ❤️
Loving the content my man
This is my first time seeing black japanesse, that is really cool
I’d love to meet a girl in Japan, but I don’t think meeting other lesbians would be easy. Especially for someone half black half white.
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*The last lady has a dark story* 😶
your videos always have a nice positive aura
keep going
happy 100k jesse
“Japanese people don’t speak much English.” That’s because you’re in Japan. Look at it the other way .. you don’t speak much Japanese.
Countries all over the world have high fluency rates of English yet Japan has an embarrassingly low percentage. English is a universal language; Japanese is not.
@@a.s.1737 Why you come go another country they speak in English...and who idiot are said English is universal language...such stupid..gain a knowledge
I am surprised no one mentioned their partner's parents as a hurdle in the relationship.
You’re doing great job bro👍👍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
100k omedeto jesse🥳
Everyone from around the world still speaks English, blows my mind ...
to the girl saying she not a model
girl U ARE A MODEL 🔥
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its not easy to date Japanese women...but foreigners or hafu are easy...many one night stands
No one going to mention how the women from Belarus is really fluent in Japanese?
Because she is not remotely close to fluent. She said a few words and you think she is fluent. I have lived in Japan for over 20 years, and I can count on one hand how many foreigners can speak Japanese fluently.
A great video, I love it. I LOVE THEIR FASHION AS I DO. A beautiful places as well Good job I enjoy watching it.
Hmmm, "The Language Barrier is Real"...I guess I'll have to be the Bridge, I'll commit to learning it before I go in 2024. (Fingers Cross). I can kinda practice it in person months from now in an area/business with japanese people here where I live if I'm lucky.
They say exactly the same about Scandinavian countries.... Cold
VICTORIA IS A DEFINATION OF BEAUTY 10/10 FOSHO💯
This is a dope channel.
日本語字幕ほんとたすかる
Last advice is true
super interesting video😮
What’s up Broski 🦋,
I guess I’m just unlucky or ugly. Every match I get on bumble (which isn’t a ton) is a flakey chick who’s not serious at all. Or downright crazy.
I think it would be interesting to learn about LGBT dating for both natives and foreigners in Japan, although I know it will probably be hard to people for the latter.
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Yes this will be a Great video!!!!❤
These people are fun. I would like to be their friend
Dating is not a sacred and formal act of finding a marriage partner. It is a simple matter of being in close proximity for only five minutes and sharing the same way of spending time together. This channel takes dating too broadly.
More of this series please
Osaka is pretty friendly than Tokyo
Another Juicy video, yeah!😊
i like that Belarus girl, she is impressive
Busuu? That's hilarious!
Dating should just be dating; shouldn't matter where you're from lol
What is dating?
Wtf ,there is a language barrier lol ,how are you gonna communicate ??
@@Србомбоница86 google translate 😂😂joking lol
I think it is stupid to expect japanese people to be able to speak english.
You come to a foreign country, you should be the one who adjust, and learn the language.
They actually...dumb people...they visit in Spain they visit Argentina how many speak English..I challenge you interview in Messi they understand but not speak English at all
In Japan, it's not worth it for brothas to go on dates. The Japanese (Asians in general, especially in their home country) rarely go for black people (especially black men), as evidenced by the experiences of the Senegalese man and Patrick from America. If you're white, I believe you'll have a lot more freedom and success dating Japanese women. When they refer to "foreigners," they are referring to white men and women.
If you're black, go to Japan as a tourist and enjoy yourself, but don't waste your time dating; if it happens, you're lucky.
Already knew that we don't date in America so why would it different there prolly worse
Damn is it that bad
Jeez I thought they love black men
@@itsDjjayyArt nah, I've seen some black guys on UA-cam videos claim that the women here love black men, and obviously I can't speak for their experiences but imo thats a bunch of bs. I've been to many social events and trust me when I tell you that the Japanese women here love white men. I've seen it with my own eyes many, many times. white guys don't have to say or do much to get a Japanese girls attention, I've had many instances where my conversations with a Japanese girl will immediately stop when a white man approaches them, and theres immediate interest in their eyes, they would glare at them, smile a lot, and become instantly interested in everything they have to say. I think I had that reaction with maybe 1 Japanese girl. Now I have managed to befriend some Japanese girls but thats about it, I can't get any closer than that. I've met far more Japanese women that just flat out ghost me or walk away from me in person so they can go talk to the white guy they saw. also I'm a 6ft5 black guy so maybe they're just afraid of me, who knows🤷🏿♂
I have listened to some other black guys talk about having a bunch of sex with Japanese chicks they hookup with at places like Shibuya, but heard nothing about any relationships. Also I rarely actually ever see any black guys in Tokyo walking with Japanese women, they're either by themselves or walking with another black dude, and if they are walking with another women then she's likely not Japanese. Dating Apps don't seem to be a fix either, if anything its worse.
@@c-red4637 damn and I've been mainly watching international passports. I guess it depends what part you go to . What about Okinawa I heard they have Amejo. japanese woman who have more style and are attracted to black men. There's a video about them.
@@itsDjjayyArt No, Japanese women (and Asian women in general) do not date black men for a variety of reasons; there are exceptions, but the rule is that they do not.
Firstly they are in an environment that has many anti black elements. whiteness is a essential part of their society as a proponent of health, success and beauty, they are taught that whiteness equals this and this has been around for centuries. Secondly there upbringing of avoidance from foreigners especially black people is real, they would be ostracised from their families if they ever date black men, most who have dated or even married black have strained relationships. Black peoples are looked down upon in Asia as a whole even thought black music and entertainment are popular, the Japanese have separated the people from their art form. Thirdly they only like white foreigners so you’d have to compete with them.
I would really take the advice or experiences of passport bros with a grain of salt especially in certain countries, Japan being one of them. The problem with passport bros is they fail to understand that going to another country especially when you have a higher currency will allow you certain benefits. Most passport bros just go to poor countries and use their money. Japan is one of the richest countries on Earth, same with South Korea and China, passport bros (black ones) will not have a great time unless you’re a millionaire perhaps. I have heard the stereotype of Okinawa because a us base is stationed there but it’s most likely exaggerated even if your success might increase.
man, I love the background music. May I know the song?
Darude-Sandstorm
A Malawian in Japanese soil , that's amazing , you have made proud can we become friends please !!!!!
Jesse to 100K
i have dated two americans before
i found its difficult to adjust wetern selfish culture
That naming for the app though LOL
people talk about language barrier while they converse in english while being in japan for 1.5 years.... somethings wrong with these people.
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Hint for man :If you are rich , dating is not hard.
hint for women :If you are a woman its not hard.
if you are poor or ugly that might be a problem
and you continue to perpetuate an ongoing problem for men
One word: Abundance
7:06 lol that was hilarious!