Object Relations Theory: Why we repeat the same toxic relationship patterns.

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
  • We discussed the main points of the Object Relations Theory, followed by a case study.
    The Object Relations Theory is a modern psychodynamic concept created collectively by various psychoanalysts, most notably Melanie Klein and Donald Winnicott. The theory places emphasis on how our relationship with our early caregivers creates a bedrock for our relationships later in life.
    This video was largely based on the book “Essential Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: An Acquired Art” by Teri Quatman ➭ amzn.to/3NyeS4o
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 48

  • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
    @goodenoughpsychiatrist  2 роки тому +9

    Thank you for watching this video. If you liked this video, please let us know what you think and leave a comment below on topics you'd like us to cover in future videos.

  • @Labrigni
    @Labrigni 2 роки тому +38

    Thank you so much, I have read it in my textbook, attended the class lecture on it, and reviewed my professor's PowerPoint over and over. Because of you I FINALLY feel like I understand. It might be the culmination of all the studying but this is where the lightbulb lit

    • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
      @goodenoughpsychiatrist  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for your feedback, Labrigni. We're always happy to hear that our content brings further clarification and understanding to our viewers. Thank you for supporting our channel!

    • @jessymanalu5
      @jessymanalu5 Рік тому +1

      I know right! my personality lecturer was very smart, but i still didn't get the point of Klein's theory😅

    • @imnina9086
      @imnina9086 2 місяці тому

      Hello what’s the name of the text book please?

  • @calistatermini5403
    @calistatermini5403 Місяць тому +3

    I'm studying for my licensing exam and this video finally helped me to understand the fundamentals of Object Relations Therapy. If only you had more videos for the other psychological theories!

    • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
      @goodenoughpsychiatrist  Місяць тому

      @@calistatermini5403 I am glad that it is helpful. Good luck with your exam.

  • @FriskyTendervittles
    @FriskyTendervittles Рік тому +13

    If you don’t “gravitate” toward the familiar is possible you “create” the familiar? Like if in the example he had a good loving partner he felt anxious so he took steps to change the dynamic between the two of them to make it more familiar for him?

    • @sarahhajarbalqis
      @sarahhajarbalqis Рік тому

      I appreciate this question. Curious for some answers too.

  • @ΚωνσταντινοςΚαραλης-ω8ψ

    So that would explain the rigid and strict way we interact with people-we,love people,but we hate some kind of people,although there is no real reason for it.

  • @stevensteinberg6206
    @stevensteinberg6206 Рік тому +2

    I'm teaching HS psychology and this is a clear and visual explanation THX

    • @bellakrinkle9381
      @bellakrinkle9381 6 місяців тому

      PERFECT. ALL secondary schools ought to have mandatory psych classes.

  • @jaclynnward2858
    @jaclynnward2858 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for making this simple and informative

  • @sarahhajarbalqis
    @sarahhajarbalqis Рік тому +3

    Thank you. This is certainly good enough. I have had trouble understanding the concept 'object' in this context.
    I hope to see more good enough videos from this channel.
    🇲🇾

  • @paxsophia2225
    @paxsophia2225 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for this well-explained video. I could not wrap my mind around Object Relations theory in relation to the enneagram. This is helping me to understand it better along with its implications. Thanks so much!

  • @michaelwolf2795
    @michaelwolf2795 Рік тому +2

    The quote by Dr.Bruce helped me thank you

    • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
      @goodenoughpsychiatrist  Рік тому +1

      Agreed - we're glad you also find it helpful. Thank you for supporting our channel!

    • @wizthem
      @wizthem 3 місяці тому +1

      Great video....but just for clarification, that quote about people who prefer the certainty of misery was actually NOT by Dr. Bruce Perry. Even in his book, he gives credit for that quote to someone else. I believe the original quote came from the late great family therapist Virginia Satir.

  • @Our_Patterns
    @Our_Patterns 6 місяців тому +1

    I love the name of this channel. Winnicott video next!

    • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
      @goodenoughpsychiatrist  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for stopping. Yes, a Winnoctt video is definitely in store in the future.

  • @wandawilliams6848
    @wandawilliams6848 Рік тому +2

    Very well explained. Thank you!

  • @sunitavishwakarma9086
    @sunitavishwakarma9086 Рік тому +2

    hi , thanks for uploading very informative video

  • @loimagdaraog1481
    @loimagdaraog1481 Рік тому +2

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS🥰

  • @altaaaaeee
    @altaaaaeee Рік тому

    Certainly, this video help me to apply the theory in real life situation.

  • @aridivinity7123
    @aridivinity7123 11 місяців тому

    This video was amazing ! Thank you. Wish there were more.

  • @malakhamadto
    @malakhamadto 8 місяців тому +1

    thanks, you make it so simple

  • @jasmines2328
    @jasmines2328 Рік тому

    Thank you so much. I love the video. Great to the point explanation unlike the go around of the book.

  • @giticaravan7196
    @giticaravan7196 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for such a great video!!

  • @echoes4679
    @echoes4679 2 роки тому +8

    Would be interested to know how can that person change....now that the abusive pattern is gone, how healthy relationship will look like?

    • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
      @goodenoughpsychiatrist  2 роки тому +12

      That is an excellent question. In my opinion, a healthy relationship is defined by what IS NOT rather than what IS. In other words, building a healthy relationship is a journey, not a destination. For instance, as you start noticing your current relationship pattern is not healthy, you may try to move away from that type of negative relationship pattern. Through this journey, you may continuously discover and update what you want in a "healthy" relationship.

  • @shivantikauchiha1822
    @shivantikauchiha1822 3 місяці тому

    Very well explained

  • @trocchiettoski
    @trocchiettoski 2 роки тому +2

    fantastic video, fairbairn was genial

  • @ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705

    but for real yeah can relate and hope to fix that

  • @tammyphan3260
    @tammyphan3260 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for a great video!

  • @safetifying
    @safetifying Рік тому +1

    Very good thank you 🙏

  • @leojablonski2309
    @leojablonski2309 9 місяців тому

    Well done.

  • @macminator3000
    @macminator3000 Рік тому +2

    5:29 wasn't it Virginia Satir that said this?

    • @wizthem
      @wizthem 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, even in Dr. Bruce Perry's book, he gives credit to someone else for that quote. I think it was Virginia Satir.

  • @Naii_lah
    @Naii_lah Рік тому

    great video!

  • @deeptikheterpal8430
    @deeptikheterpal8430 2 роки тому +1

    Awesome

  • @drm4819
    @drm4819 Місяць тому

    I have been reviewing key psychodynamic theories and for some reason, this one just doesn't click..... I know this theory turns the single person psychology into a 2 person psychology focusing on relationships with "objects". But how does this differ from attachment theory? also, is the depressed position and paranoid schitzoid related to this? Thank!

    • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
      @goodenoughpsychiatrist  Місяць тому +1

      my apologies for the late reply. I think similarly as you in that both object relations theory and attachment theory talk about interpsychic realm rather than intrapsychic. But, I do think they are distinct. Attachment theory adds a unique layer of biological drive infants have to attach to caregivers while object relations theory discusses the internalized representations of relational landscapes. Of course, the two theories complement each other. I hope it is helpful.

  • @ogcastroneto1
    @ogcastroneto1 2 роки тому +3

    Do you know any books about this?

    • @goodenoughpsychiatrist
      @goodenoughpsychiatrist  2 роки тому +4

      Hello, there is no good book for the general public for the object relations theory. But, “Essential Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: An Acquired Art” by Teri Quatman is a great intro book for anyone interested in this type of therapy.

  • @ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705

    damn thats some computer science