PSYCHOTHERAPY - Melanie Klein
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- Опубліковано 17 тра 2024
- Melanie Klein was a great psychotherapist who teaches us how to stop either idealising or denigrating others.
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As a psychologist, I find this Melanie Klein video very well put together. From what I know, it is an excellent presentation of concepts that are difficult to understand and that tend to be neglected by universities nowadays. Bravo!
Melanie Klein is a genius, she gave possibility to understand difference between bipolar/borderline and neurotic state, with her study about children
Personally I would burn dsm5
@@Diana-sb4yl I would burn insurance companies and pharmaceuticals.
The breast giveth, and the breast taketh away.....
Oh Lord Voldemort ! " Pettigrew shrieks in the corner"
This animation was superb the choice of images the statues all very fun, thank you
You should do a Carl Jung video... And videos of other currents in psychology! They help me study a lot :)
Adriana Castelo agreed!! I would love to see The School of Life cover Jung. Also, Carl Rogers / humanism would be brilliant for this channel. Viktor Frankl / logotherapy / existential analysis too. Oh, oh, and Erich Fromme! (Can you tell I was a psych major?)
Excellent presentation of how ambivalence can confuse and distress, sometimes leading to depression.
Thank you so much for these videos, they're my daily medicine!
the voice over is great. you are inspiring me to do psychotherapy, i never thought it will sound appealing to me .thank for inspiring
Psychologists Like Maslow, Skinner, Watson & Adler etc. videos may be done about them too. Humanistic Psychology - Self Actualisation, Behaviourism - Classical & Operant Conditioning, Individual Psychology etc. there are other sub-branches of Psychology which may be introduced to us viewers as all of them have something important in understanding the human psyche and our everyday growth in maturity.
This is probably my favourite channel on UA-cam, the use of pictures alongside Alain De Botton's voice is pure harmony! One thing I have noticed is that there is no referencing and citing like in vSauces's videos. Obviously that may interfere with the pace of the production but I suppose general ideas and concepts are usually covered so there may not be a need (just a thought). Also, I would love to see different era's in art covered in one video, like impressionism, cubism etc. And maybe some music related topics?
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He forgot to mention that she looked just like Stephen Fry.
@@therespectedlex9794 maybe because he's not a misogynistic pig who expects women to be attractive to men? maybe this channel is too smart for your dumb brain. go watch andrew tate.
Please make videos on:
- Viktor E. Frankl (logotheraphy)
- CBT theraphy
Amazing channel, keep up the good work!
Your videos are excellent. This must be the best corner of YT
I’m in grad school for counseling and your videos are helping me!
loved these psychotherapy videos, thank you!
9 years on, and this is one of the better edited videos of all time. so fun and funny to watch
Thank you for this. Really helpful
Great topic! I think the benefit of realizing that people are ambivalent, even though it may ruin our image of some and can be very difficult to cope with, is to also realize that therefore those who some think "evil" are not necessarily as hopelessly lost as one might think.
I’m inclined to think that getting a handle on one’s projections is more useful than succumbing to the inability to feel anything “too positive” or “too negative”. It may be that Klein’s ambivalence is just a recipe for nihilism. Makes me think of Alfie Kohn’s reference to Monty Python’s “How to Get Hit on the Head” skit. It seems like this ambivalence is just a coping mechanism for a childhood lacking attunement, where ruptures are seldom repaired in a timely manner.
Wow this really opens your eyes love this channel
What a great series of videos this is. Making psychoanalytic ideas, which sometimes seem fantastic, into elements of ordinary life.
Psychoanalytic ideas seem “fantastic” because they deal with the unconscious mind, which is by its very definition always going to be fantastic from the perspective of the conscious mind. Fantastic > fantasy > autonomous action of the subconscious
6:01 it was by this moment when I took a big gulp with an anxious look in my face as I realised that this entire section on adults had been talking about me.
One thing I'd like to add to this is that the child starts to develop even more ego defences as they mature physically. Imaginaty friends that want to help you and love you or imagining a future where we are finally loved is part of this same paranoid-schizophrenic position
I love how Bieber pops up when he says something you hate XDDD
Excelente trabajo! Muy bien resumido y entendible.
this is nice i hope you continue doing it!
Thanks for a great lesson.
Excellent! Very useful and interesting information. I had heard of her but knew nothing about her.
Do one on Lacan psychoanalysis please :) !
And do one on Karl Popper philosophy/epistemology please
Very interesting! I've had these thoughts myself, but very obscure (Leibniz). I'll definitely look into her theory :) Thanks for another very superb video!
Excelent, as always!
This one, howeverm is a bit uncomfortable to watch because the blue background keeps blinking. At some point I just had to look away and only hear the rest of the video.
LMAO i thought it was just me!!! god help anyone with epilepsy
Very helpful to review prior to exams. Thanks! please consider doing other theorists.
this was awesome!
very good channel love your work :)
excellent video thanks. interesting and fun!
I love what Elyn Saks said about how much she benefited from a therapist who practices were based on Klein's methods. I would've preferred someone to challenge me and try to understand me rather than just ignore me and keep me medicated. Makes you feel less human There are still rules in an alternative reality.
i can completely understand the language but even if i couldnt this mans' voice can therapy me!
Love it. No mumbo jumbo. Do more....many more.
bravo, well done video
More psychology and philosophy please!
never heard of her! liked it :) may i suggest you to make a video about Erich Fromm? i think you put him in a both philosophy and psychology sections
Fromm who?
Do one on Heinz Kohut / Self Psychology, please ;-)
What software is used to animate these cartoon like videos? I don't mean what is used to create the images themselves, but what is used to make images and text move as they do across the screen? I find the look both eye-catching and entertaining.
The good breast/bad breast part explained Stewie Griffin's behavior in te first few season's of Family guy perfectly.
Thank u, I found this video very helpful
EXCELLENT !!
Could you pleaaaaase please please make a video on Gregory Bateson?
Learning, using the Feynman technique to make videos on a vast range of interesting subjects; what a way to make a living. Fulfilling, if nerdy.
Nicely explained
Very interesting video!!
I love The School of Life but the images in this one are particularly witty!
outstanding video
Good research
excellent overview of Klein's psychotherapeutic beliefs.
As soon as you were explaining the "Paranoid-Schizoid Position" I immediately thought of Dorian Gray. Not sure if I am correct about that though.
The narcissist. In terms of Klein's theory, they are unable to move past the paranoid schizoid position and so can never accept reality that is ambivalent. They are perfect and any hint of a flaw causes a meltdown.
great take on depression at the end of video pre-dispostion for growth (accomodating a non-neat non-moral reality) and not an illness - is that right?
Actually, it just hit me: Feelings of ambivalence are THE justification for Avoidant Attachment Style. Is Klein ultimately responsible for psychology’s great crime of the 20th century: holding up the MOST unhealthy style of attachment as the very definition of “maturity”?
-- “We made a big mistake many years ago. We went along with this cultural idea that strong people were separate people… What we realize now is that’s an actually fragile place to be.”
- Dr. Sue Johnson
I'd like to translate the captions into spanish, can you open the possibility?
Dude you should go to ted talks ....You appear to be one the smartest youtubers i can find on youtube. spread your ideas. My guess is you study all this out of your interest and i feel you would have connected a few dots across some ideas. please share some of your ideas even if they arent well formed it would be interesting to see them in their in their initial points of formation.kind of like the evolution of an idea.
i just commented on one video ....but all of them are amazing .....i am sure you understand i dont agree with all of them(it could be a lack of understanding or perspective on my side.) ...but i do agree that there is a lot of substance in them. hats off.
man this is gonna make your day - this guy has done a ted talk
www.ted.com/talks/alain_de_botton_a_kinder_gentler_philosophy_of_success
he is a philosopher called alain de botton, he has also written books and done documentaries for british telivision
Allan De Botton, the voice on these vids has sold millions of books... check him out
Her ideas of infant perception thinking people are just objects are now dated that we know babies are born with facial recognition hard wired into their brains and other neurological findings.
Great, I can´t wait for the one talking about Jaques Lacan
Tanks brother
you should do political theory of Emma Goldman !!!!
It would make more sense to do one on Kropotkin. Emma Goldman was more of an activist than a theorist.
well she did write essays and formed a journal called 'mother earth' , i get your point about kropotkin though. de botton dosnt seem to fucks with much anarchism which is a shame because anarchist ideas seem to be so missrepresented in todays society
I always think that a dog is only as smart as the years it has lived and the quality of its time spent doing so :) and apply the thought that if I was the animal I would have only learned in the end to be an animal or dog.
hi school of life, I'm ur new watcher ..
I really love ur video 'bout psychotherapy .. what if you post about some of psychology's ideologies?
it's pretty useful and easier to understand for a student of psychology like me 😆😆
hope you read it ..
thanks for uploading these video 😊😊
+Ristania Herlinda This is not a site for helping lazy students do their homework.
Do one of Pirandello, he's an Italian writer
I was staring into the distance often as a child.
nothing interesting to look at and when you stare into the distance it is easier to focus on your thoughts.
More!!!!!!!! plz?
informative!
plz do jung soon! Thanks
ur loving viewr
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i think i am stuck in the paranoid/schizoid stage, i'm a 27 year old man. does anybody have any advice? i won't be able to pay for therapy until after the lockdown. thanks in advance!
awesome
CARL JUNG!!! PLEASE DO!
I would say School of Life, it would be lovely to have some musicians involve. Bob Marley? John Lenon, or Elvis Presley. They have some how influenced all of us. Or perhaps a bit of Movies evolution, and how that has effected us. A look at some semiotics or communication authors such as Ferdinand de Saussure, Charles Sanders Pierce, or Roland Barthes, are all very interesting people to study. Wouldn't you agree?
Can you do one about boredom?
Thanks!
+uwais qarani What boredom? Do bored people still exist today?
stabiljka Go work on a production line in a factory for 8 hours or more, doing the same thing everyday, with the same people, and the same management who see you as an extension of the machines, for years on end and then ask.
I'm gonna need therapy after watching this 😵 I never think of babies the same
❤excellent video
Seems like Terry Gilliam had creative control of this video ...
Please do more profile videos!!!!
The narrator speaks of a child's wise gaze as a support for Klein's ideas. Is there a source for this?
What painting is that at 4:05?
You just have to put justin beever in it with bad turn don't yer? Heheh very humorous and well told.
4:05 Who painted this picture?
I hit this depressive state at about 19
Me at the age of 25 😅
❤ después de ayer fue duro pero lo logre 🥰
They chose this image,
Melanie Klein lives today, known as Stephen Fry
is there only going to be psychoanlisis?
Hola a los compañeros del curso corto "Amor y Pleitos en la familia" del CENTRO ELEIA 2022.
2:35 off topic but what is the painting?
'Ionian Dancing Girl' by John William Godward
she was the best
The way I learned this, it was a dynamic theory. All about continued oscillation between the two poles, even as an adult. I think this is a much more powerful take. We all have these tendencies and of course it depends what is stressing / challenging us at the time how likely we are to resort to splitting. Show me a politician who doesn't split when under pressure: that is where enemies come from.
Does it come from splitting, or from projection of something repressed? I don’t know if Klein ever addressed whether these children were also being punished by the person who fed them - if not, that’s a major oversight. Punishment = repressed rage = lots of Shadow stuff to project onto others. The fact that splitting does not seem to occur in children raised in tribal societies with much higher levels of attunement and a complete absence of punishment is a pretty big tip off.
Now, if only enough video game writers can watch this video
***** Is the paranoid schizoid position somehow related to ego-splitting manifested in those with NPD and BPD as well as those with codependent traits, who idealize and then devalue potential partners?
+yeghor yes it is related, all these people operate mainly in the panaroid schizoid position
How would splitting the mother into good and bad help the infant's anxiety?
WOW! Is she related to Stephen Fry? :P They look so much alike!
You should check out the twitter feed of "Mrs Stephen Fry" :-D
Wow! Maybe this explains why some people are obsessed with Bobs!
I feel guilty now.
That’s ok dude 🧚🏻♀️ Own it :) it’s normal human development 💕
Maybe Carl Rogers next?
Françoise Dolto!!!!!!
5:08 justin bieber appeared when he said hate 😂
This is great. Is Carl Jung coming soon?
or is the series over?
Perhaps some modern psychotherapists? Seligman, Beck, etc.?
Seligman learned happiness is more like learned delusions and learned gullibility.
What happens if you were bottle fed?
I'd love to see some research on this. Is there a prevalence of oral fixation, of emotional instability, proneness to depression, disconnection from others, anxiety?
the "breasts" are not meant literally. -.- the "breasts" are just a picture for you to understand that the baby in its early days is reducing the mother to her milk-giving qualities.
K Ya So will the baby link the mother with the milk-giving qualities if she bottle feeds as the bottle is not physically part of her?
William Rupp Yep. As i know, Klein didn't make distinction between breast-feeding and bottle-feeding..
K Ya Aren't they meant literally? I was directed here when I wondered if there was a philosophy of breasts.
I'm seeing a lot of the theories about personality disorders and their development...