Your skin just looks Fantastic!! I swear you look 35!!! I am just in awe of you! You are such a beautiful Lady.....Inside and out!! Loved this video very informative!! Thank you for the info...Love you to Pieces! Joye
Oh girl, I just love you! I was just thinking the same thing watching your video. Wow does your skin ever glow! Love you, Joye. You are a joy to me for sure. Love you, Melissa
@@Melissa55 Melissa I have only just come across your UA-cam channel now, your skin looks amazing!! have you used only Retin A, or had any other treatments or fillers or anything else to help sagging skin ? I'm 37 and have got sagging in face, was looking into what I can do. Do you use anything else products or treatments (not make up) along side Retin A? Also could you tell me which one you use? Thanks xx
what I'm doing when I peel too much at the morning, I put a moisturizing mask for 20 minutes after I clean my face with soft scrub peeling it's miraculous, no more dead skins. I use retin a for 20 years
Your skin is absolutely stunning! I'm 33 and noticing big changes beginning in my skin so I've started a 0.025% Retin-A just this past week. I'm really happy with my decision when I see people that have had such great success like you. Thanks for sharing all of your experiences!
Hey Lauren. You know, I was your age when I started using Retin A, too. I do think it has served me well. About eight years later I started on Obagi and that kicked it up a notch. But I feel like you are really taking excellent care of your skin and creating a really good base to fight aging. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa
Melissa, I know this is an old video, but I just had to say how darling you are. You had me smiling and laughing along with you when you were saying, "then try this"... I knew you were sincere and so refreshing. You are beautiful inside and out. Bless you, sweet Melissa!
One thing I've done to help control flakes after I've put on my makeup is to spritz the area with setting spray, and then gently patting the area with a cosmetic wedge sponge. It basically flattens the flakes and holds them in place rather than removing them. Sometimes if I try to get too aggressive with dislodging them, it will take the makeup with it, and then I'll have a lot of 'holes' in my makeup. Of course, most of the time I don't really have to deal too much with flakes or irritation, because I use avocado oil as the last step in my AM and PM skincare, which holds the flakes in suspension. In the morning, when I wash my face, the loose flakes are dislodged, and any flakes that might want to start to form will become suspended in the new layer of avocado oil that I put on. I use a cosmetic wedge sponge to wipe away any excess oil before putting on my sunscreen/'foundation' (I use a tinted sunscreen in lieu of foundation). I have found this regimen really keeps the flakes at bay, and I've been using tretinoin on an almost daily basis.
Oh what a wonderful tip. I will try it. Oh I have had the holes in my makeup before, too! This was so helpful and I can't thank you enough for sharing it. It really was terrific. Many thanks Melissa
I know it dilutes the power of the Tretinoin, but I moisturize first, let the moisturizer dry, then apply my RetinA. I had no trouble/irritation with the lower strengths, but when I moved up to 0.1%, I got flakiness around my mouth and on my chin. I apply some Cerave Helaing Ointment, or La Roche Posey Cicaplast balm, and those products works well
If I could have a jawline like yours, I wouldn't let a moisturizer in my house! Thank you so much for your honest advice! This is SO helpful! Happy Thanksgiving!
aw, thank you so much, Suzy! I don't know why moisturizers make my skin sag, but when I use them, my jowls sag to my knees! lolol. Love and joy to you, Melissa
Melissa55 Do you do any facial exercise /massage to help prevent sagging / jowls ?? You are just exquisitely beautiful and your facial muscular structure and toned jawline is amazing ! I have learnt so much from you about not ' overdoing ' moisturisers / clarisonic etc as it is tempting to 'kill with kindness ' when our skin feels dry ! You are testament to the 'less is more ' philosophy ⭐️⭐️
Oh Sarah, thank you so much!!! I don't do any kind of facial exercises. With me it truly is moisturizing. My cheeks and jawline really do drop from the heaviness of using it. If anyone else was in my body and could feel the feeling of my facial skin they would probably think it felt way too tight. But for me, it is what I feel comfortable with to feel firmer. I do try to always sleep on my back, too. I think that helps my muscles not get squashed into strange positions. xxxx
I have used retin a on and off. Now just using serums and matrixl. After seeing you im going back to retin a which I have tubes of. If your prescription plan does not cover it, you can get it from a friend or coworker who might be traveling to Mexico or going back home to visit in phillipines or India. Last coworker went back to phillipines and it was 20$ a tube. You are gorgeous and inspiring. Thank you for the videos.
Thank you for all the suggestions and tips. You really have no idea how much you have helped me with my skin care!!! I am thrilled with the results from the Obaji line as well as the Retin a. I have been using the bare minerals with the brush during the time that I am peeling a bit and it's worked well for me. as I said before, I am not peeling badly but I sure have noticed the brown spots fading, skin tightening and wrinkles relaxing.. I am just so very thankful that I found your channel.. you're so sweet and I love watching every video I've seen!!! I hope that you and your family have a very wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving... Sue
Oh Sue, thank you so much for telling me that. I am so happy you are having good results. I always worry so much when I talk about something that people are going to be disappointed. So this really means a lot to me. Thank you more than I can say. Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Melissa
Really good info, Melissa. Thank you! My peeling has FINALLY decreased to the point where my skin looks normal again. I'm starting to see some very nice results from RetinA. I'm very pleased. I have a very gentle exfoliating pad that I run over my face 2 or 3 days per week. It makes my skin look perfect. It took 9 months for the peeling to improve and I almost gave up but I'm so glad I stuck with it. I don't use a liquid foundation anymore. A mineral powder foundation seems to do everything I need now. xoxo!!!
I am so thrilled that you are getting some relief from the peeling. It's so hard to handle sometimes and I'm extremely glad you like the way Retin A is working for you. Thank you so very much for sharing this. Much love, Melissa
melinda wilson I do this too. If you keep massaging in the oil's for about three minutes the flakes start to just roll off. But you really have to massage the oil well into the skin to get to the point where the flakes are going to let go of your new skin and roll off
melinda wilson Yes, yes, yes!!! Check out Stephanie Nicole youtube channel, video titled, The Science Behind Face Oils. She is a real treasure of knowledge. She has,a science background and comes from a family in the industry of cosmetology.
Melissa, you are such a blessing to so many, including me. As I've told you before, you have the most gentle spirit But, you're also such a spitfire and a lot fun at the same time! Just a wonderfully genuine human being that I'm thankful to "know" in the limited capacity of UA-cam. I just started using Retin-A .05%, thanks to you. You took my fear of it away and got me excited to start my journey with it. So, thank you!! When I peeled the first time, I used the First Aid Beauty (FAB) Ultra Repair Cream. It really, really helped a lot. It's not expensive and it's all natural. The main ingredient is colloidal oatmeal. Just thought I'd throw another option into the mix of choices. Thank you again for addressing so many questions. Some I didn't know I had until you answered them.... haha!! Much love from my home to yours! Happy Thanksgiving, beautiful friend, we have so much to be thankful for, don't we? ❤️❤️ xoxo Lisette
oh Lisette, I'm sitting here crying! You are the sweetest, loveliest person. You truly are. Oh thank you so much for the hint on the FAB!!! I am going to get me some and it really makes sense that it would help with the oatmeal in it. It's so soothing. I'm going to give it a try. Thank you for that, and thank you for being you. I have enjoyed you and been touched by your kindness. You are much appreciated and I wish you so much joy and love in this upcoming holiday season. Love you, Melissa
Great tips, as usual. You are so right, everyone just needs to experiment to find what works for them, but it's awesome to have so many great suggestions to try, something's bound to work! Love you! xoxoxoxo
Definitely have found what works for you. You're looking more beautiful every time I see you. I have definitely found some products I will always use and about to test some new additions. Hope your Thanksgiving was blessed and have a great week. 💋
Dear Melissa, I found out just lately that coconut oil (fantastic stuff! + renew skin) and Aloe vera jel are working beautifuly to reduce redness and much more! I use them every day...
Happy Thanks Giving Beautiful Melissa... We don't celebrate that here in the UK but I must say that I'm very Thankful for you xx Much love to you and your family xx
I really needed this advice. I've been using .025% starting this year in July. Once a week for month one, every 6 days for month 2, every 5 days for month 3, etc. I am now using every third day day now. I have sensitive skin and must ease into this long term relationship! Day THREE is always the day I look the flakiest. Today is a day three, I cleansed, did a lightweight moisturizer and applied a sheer foundation . Bad idea! I look perfectly fine with just the moisturizer but the foundation accentuated every little tiny and big place of flaking! I washed it all off, applied a soothing gel mask and watched your video. In fact I've watched it twice already. I am thankful for Melissa!
Lisa it's just so tough to deal with the peeling. And I get discouraged at times and tired of it. When that happens I just back off on some of my products until things calm down and then ease back into it. It's just such a delicate balance isn't it? Thank you so very much. Love, Melissa
Hi Melissa. I'm 3 years into my tretinoin and my skin has just recently started peeling. I find it's really helpful to use the Peter Thomas Roth FirmX Peeling Gel. It's super gentle, yet very effective. I also use the Peter Thomas Roth Pumpkin Enzyme Mask 2 - 3 times a week to help, too. Recently, my dermatologist has prescribed Elidel and suggested CeraVe for the peeling. Hope this helps.
Happy Thanksgiving! You must be so busy getting ready for Thanksgiving. I baked a batch of cornbread today for my stuffing. Love your hair. Your skin is absolutely radiant. Thanks for sharing your tips.
Hey Karen! I was baking cornbread about the same time you were!!! aw, thank you so very much. I hope your holiday season has been full of much joy and much love,. Thank you, my friend. Love, Melissa
First of all, your skin look gorgeous!! Great advice, Melissa. You know I am a huge believer in IT CC+ cream as my last step in morning skincare, and as my foundation. I did try the Bare Minerals a few times, and it worked very well. I still have some sort of peeling every 4 to 6 weeks. Love you, my friend, and happy Thanksgiving. Yes, we have so many thing to be thankful for. Blessings, prayers, and love...MaryEllen
Melissa, I know you're not a big fan of exfoliants but I absolutely love the Smoothie Peeling Jam that MaryEllen recommended. It's just fabulous and doesn't sting, isn't in the least harsh but does the job and the amount of flaking it removes is incredible. Maybe you should give it a try. (The 'shaving' gave me the 'fear' Lol). Happy Thanksgiving to everyone celebrating. Much Love, J xx
Thank you so much for that! I think I will give it a go. The worst that can happen is it will burn and if that happens I can just rinse it off right quick. Thank you so much for the heads up. I can't thank you enough. Lots of love, Melissa
I am going to try the peeling gel you recommended. I wish I had remembered to talk about it in my video. I am so sorry. You have incredible skin. Just so flawless and young. Thank you and you know how much I care about you! Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Melissa
The Holika Holika Smoothie Peeling Jam is fruit (I think this one is grape) enzymatic, very gentle peel. It not the least bit harsh. It has helped me the most, with the extra peeling I've been doing since using the 0.1%, and in the beginning of using Retin A. It sells anywhere from 13.00 to 23.00 on Amazon. I am still using the one I purchased two years ago, but I have purchased a new one, since it ships from the Orient. You are a doll, and I love you to pieces.
Hi Melissa, I have used the Obagi Nuderm system off and on for 10 years now. I probably need to start another round of it. Like you the Bareminerals makeup was really all that seemed to hide the peeling and not stir it up like a liquid would. I am now just using Retin a micro gel. When I discovered Peter Thomas Roth firmx peeling gel it was a game changer. Wow, it gently rolls the peeling skin off and reveals a soft new layer of skin, ready to fully absorb any creams or serums. On very peeling days I use it after my morning cleanse and my makeup glides on smoothly. I can use a liquid foundation and find a Beauty blender does not cause my flakes to get stirred up. I love this product and will never be without it. My daughter also uses it because her acne products dry her out. After the gel, products seem to work so much better. Just used it tonight. I enjoy your videos so much. Xo Sonya💜
Hey Sonya!!! This is such a good comment with good hints. I appreciate it. Joye, my friend I mention, uses the PTR with her Obagi and she swears by it. I think I'm going to pick some up and give it a try. Your comment just confirmed it for me. I thank you so much. Love, Melissa
Greetings from the UK. Hi Melissa, I have just discovered your videos and think you are AB FAB! I've just turned 60 like yourself and also have been using Retin A for about the last 30 years on and off but mostly on! However, I have never used Obagi, I've only ever used Retin A on its own. I'm amazed that you can tolerate the 0.1%. and that you shun moisturisers. Firstly, it is almost impossible to get the 0.1% Retin A in the UK but even if it was possible, I don't think I could go anywhere near it. I use the 0.5% and have a difficult enough time with it with the peeling, irritation etc. You obviously have very tough skin and are really lucky. My skin is very good but your skin is FAB! The area that I've always shied away from using it on is the eye area and so that is my most disappointing area as I have quite a bit of drooping on my upper eyelids and crows feet. However, I see that you use it all around the eyes with the exception of the eyelid. So, I've going to start copying you and start OBAGI. Thank you SO much for your videos. They are honest and when you just look at the way you look, the whole Obagi system is definitely worth it. Keep up the brilliant work and any more specific details about how to treat the eye area would be much appreciated.
Oh hello sweetie darling (I LOVE Ab Fab) lol. That is interesting about the different strengths in the two countries. Probably the .05 would have been just fine for my skin. The .1 was available, so I just used that. lol. But even if they ever came out with anything stronger, I don't think I could tolerate it. I think the .1 is my absolutely limit, especially when you throw the Obagi in there. I am a bit embarrassed to admit I use it around my eyes. I know you're not supposed to, but I started kind of sneaking it up there. First, just into my under eye area a bit, then into my brows and then on my brow bone. So far it has never bothered me that I can tell. Even with being used to the Retin A, please be careful with the Obagi. It is strong and will boost the Retin A some. So even if you have to start really slowly, that's ok, too. I wish you the very best of luck! And I hope to come back there for a visit soon! Love, Melissa
I've been on Tretinoin 0.025% for 6 weeks now...due to acne. The peeling was driving me crazy and my skin was so red! It gets worse sometimes but then gets better. Thanks for this video! You're beautiful!
I think ageing brings so many losses and that maintaining good skin is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves!! Thank you for making the effort and showing how it is possible-you look fantastic!
Great advice Melissa. Your skin is beautiful. So sweet of you to share your experiences and techniques with Retin A. I hope you and your family have a safe and blessed Thanksgiving.
aw, thank you so much!!! I hope you have such a wonderful and joyous holiday season coming up. You are so kind and you deserve any and all blessings coming your way. Love and thanks,, Melissa
I needed to watch this video for a second time. I am flaking big time transitioning from 0.025% tretinoin cream to 0.05% Refissa. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and providing information to deal with the dryness/flaking!!! I need to kinder to my skin when I going through this so as to not cause any damage to my skin!!! Thank you, Shelly😈💋
Thank you for this video, sweet Melissa. I was one that commented on my flaking situation. I'm afraid of steroid creams but the burning, itching, and flaking due to eczema are becoming unbearable so I May Go back to them. A friend of mine shared that her doctor said five days on and two days off. I think I may try that, especially around the holidays. It is so embarrassing sometimes. Anyway, I am so very very grateful for the UA-cam community, and especially you, as I've shared in a private email we do have a lot in common. Enjoy every second with your wonderful family!!
I did see an article while researching this from Paula at Paula's choice that said not to be afraid of the hydrocortisone creams, especially with eczema. I really believe in cutting back if it gets to be too much. It does get embarrassing doesn't it? I am so grateful to you. You are such a sweet and beautiful woman. Love you, Melissa
Subscribed! You are SO gorgeous (inside and out) and your videos are so inspiring. I'm 25 with hormonal acne and I just started Retin-A for the second time. When the molting snake-skin peeling gets to me, I watch your videos to distract myself haha! Hopefully when all my friends are older and wrinkly, I'll be pretty like you!
New subbie here! AND you're absolutely exquisite. Your skin is gorgeous. Im so so happy I came across your channel. Thank you for your tips, they're much appreciated. 😍❤ Your personality is so perfect.
Happy Thanksgiving Melissa. I hope you have a wonderful time with your family. I watched your video the other day but I am out of town visiting family and I am finally sitting down to comment. This video was so helpful and I am going to watch again and write down several of the products you suggested. I struggle with peeling all the time from Retin A. I feel like a snake if I wear it more than a couple of times per week. The other day I woke up and looked 95 years old! I used Beenigma only for a few nights and everything calmed down quickly. Thank goodness! Lol Your skin is so gorgeous. You always give such great suggestions and you have helped me in so many ways. I am so thankful for you! Love you lots...Laura
Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving, Laura. Don't ever worry about watching and commenting. It's so hard to find the time sometimes! Oh it's so hard to deal with the peeling. I think I'm going to back off on some of my products now. You have beautiful skin and I know how much you have loved the Beenigma. It works beautifully for you. Love you and I am thankful you are my friend. Love Melissa
Hi Melissa, I've always been in awe at how beautiful your skin is. You are obviously doing something right. As yet I haven't gone down the Retin A path as I am worried it may irritate my skin since it's slightly on the sensitive side. I have used products with retinol in them though and my skin tolerates them well with no irritation. If I do start using Retin A I'll be using your videos as guidelines on how to care for my skin, they are so informative. Yes, there are a lot of blessings in our lives to be thankful for. Wishing you and your family a very blessed and Happy Thanksgiving. Love and hugs to you, Toula xoxo
Toula, you are so sweet and I thank you more than I can say. If you do ever decide to use it, just ease into it slowly. but that being said, retinols really work so well, and you might not ever need Retin A. I thank you more than I can say. I hope this upcoming holiday season is one of joy and blessings. Lots of love Melissa
Thank you Melissa for the update. As usual you look gorgeous and your personality matches your appearance. I look forward to trying the CC Cream. Thanks!
Melissa, Thank you for your amazing videos! I was wondering, after all these years of using Retin-A... you still peel? I thought that at one point the peeling would stop completely?
Hi Melissa! You did a wonderful job explaining how you deal with the flaking from the Retin-A. I used it for about a year when i was in my 40's and being the picker that I am, I peeled the dead skin off and had my face raw all the time. I have never seen a flake on your skin and it always looks so glowy and beautiful! Thank you so much for all of the information you gave us. Geeeze girl, look at all the money we're saving on moisturizer. lol I think you and I are part of a rare breed that feels the same way about it. Wishing you and your family a Happy, Blessed Thanksgiving, my friend! Love you! xox Colleen :-)
aw, thanks, Colleen. Oh, I always have the urge to start picking at my skin!!! I've peeled off things I shouldn't either. aw thank you. Sometimes my skin looks pretty horrific and like a snake shedding. I think we really see skin care a lot the same Colleen. And I tell you, girl, you have the most beautiful skin I believe I have ever seen. If I didn't love you so much I would be jealous!!! Love you dearly, melissa
Your skin is gorgeous! I so wish my skin would handle the retain a better but am going to try your suggestions. The Obagi burned my skin so bad that it actually hurt but you and so many others use it and it have no problems...I am a wimp. :) I was talking about you on Thanksgiving and shared some of your pictures and everyone thought you were in your 30's to 40's. I hope you had a wonderful thanksgiving with your family. Love you! Carolyn xoxo
Carolyn, I wonder if you could handle just a good retinol product. I really think it's such a good substitute for Retin A and much milder. You are not a wimp. This is not a skincare line for everyone. Oh my goodness, thank you! I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. You are so special, and you know how Thankful I am for you. We are always there for each other and it's such a comfort. Love you, Melissa
What do you use to take off your makeup/foundation? I've been on and off with Retin-A for about 1 year now and could never get over the peeling phase. But after coming across your channel, watching your videos, and seeing your beautiful face/skin I finally told myself to just stick with it! First few days were the worst, but now after a week my skin has become brighter and smoother. I got all the same products you use in your skin care routine because it obviously works as you are proof of it! Thank you for making these videos!
I been asking this question but no body response to me. My question is does the peeling go away after months or years of using ? Thank you for answering.
Hey, Missy! I wondered also if the peeling hurt or burned...I loved your tips for this. And, I must say, your hair looks beautiful! I love the length! Thank you so much for sharing, Melissa! Love you so much! Love, Jeanie xxoo
You are so right Ms. Melissa, we're all different and we just need to find different ways to see what works best. I tried, but, couldn't go on without saying how gorgeous you look! I know I say it all the time, but, geez, I don't think you have any "off" days! Funny you mentioned the shaving! By accident, I noticed how it really took all the flakes off, then I exfoliated in the shower and my skin came out so smooth, thanks for confirming that for me. Have a Happy Thanksgiving my friend!!
Thanks so very very much, my sweet friend. I know several men that use Obagi and REtin A and they shave daily and don't deal with the flakes as much, so I figured it would hurt us to do it either! I hope this holiday season is so joyous for you. Love you! Melissa
your skin is so beautiful! I have just started on Retin A..0.5 percent. Ugghhh, the peeling is terrible and I am ready to quit! I look at your skin and continue.
I continue to learn so much from you since I have started my Retin A journey a few months ago. I have already been dabbling in cortisone cream for the pesky red spots. I want to put Retin A just under my chin to tighten the skin, but I find it migrates down further on my neck to areas which I know are ultra sensitive. I find if I coat my neck first with Vaseline it helps to protect those areas. Happy Thankksgiving! Love, Joy
Thank you so much, Joy. Oh the neck balance is so hard to find!!! It's so hard to keep it from getting super irritated. I think the vaseline is a terrific idea!!! Thank you and Happy thanksgiving to you, too! Lots of love, Melissa
My husband really likes that Aquaphor. He has psoriasis, and he says it really helps his skin at tough times. Thanks for sharing your ideas, Melissa. This really caught my eye as I've been having trouble with peeling on my upper lip. I'll try some of these!~Dana
Hello Melissa! I love your cideos. Does the peeling from retin a stops at some point or is like a permanent side effect? I have been using it for six months and still peeling a lot. I will appreciate if you can tell me from your experience. Thanks!
Hope you had a nice Thanksgiving! I enjoyed hearing your tips. I just finished peeling from a medical-grade peel and had to go without foundation a couple days. I stayed home, so it wasn't a big deal. My Retin-A does make me peel a little sometimes, but that's when I take a break for a day or two. You're looking lovely, Melissa. .. Hugs... Michelle ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for the great tips. I so appreciate you and your videos. It's so refreshing to watch you with your kindness and honesty. A true gem. May you have a blessed Thanksgiving!
Exfoliating is a key element for youthful skin. Use the Salex cloth to exfoliate, as much as you can handle. Then, use your Retin A, Vitamin C & Hydro.
Melissa...I am thankful for you! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family. It is snowing here in Colorado this morning but I got myself a cup of coffee and enjoyed your video so much. You were so right...the peeling on week 5 of Obagi is now minimal. Wish me luck putting on foundation before I see family on Thursday! Heard the Hourglass primer works...I will let you know!
aw, thank you more than I can say, Lynne. The snow sounds heavenly. And I than you for your kind words. Oh I hope the foundation just glides on and that you had a marvelous Thanksgiving. Much love and thanks, Melissa
You can also put Selsun Blue on the flakies if you are desperate. My daughter's dermatologist advised her to use this on a flaky skin condition she had and I wondered if it would work on my Retin A flakes. It sure did! I usually just but a bit on the corner of a washcloth, add a couple of drops of water and rub it on gently. Leave on about 3 minutes and rinse off. If it's particularly bad like around my nose, I apply it full strength with a Q-tip and leave it on about 5 minutes (or longer). I don't do this everyday but if it's extra bad and/or I have to go out somewhere and look extra good.
Melissa, I have been using Retin A for a year now. I combated the peeling with putting some moisturizer on after applying the Retin A. Helped so much. I do wish though that the Retin A was helping my neck wrinkles :( You look beautiful and blessed with great genes.
Oh Thank you so much, Angela!!! gosh, we wish we were England right now. One of these days we are going to have Christmas there. Thank you so very much! Love Melissa
I really think you have such good skin that it doesn't need to peel. And you are getting the benefit of all the products even if you don't peel, and it shows because you look so glowing and gorgeous! Love you!!!!!
Very helpful Melissa! I find it is more of an issue foe me in the winter. Can't wait to try some of your suggestions! Thanks for another great video! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!!!!
I certainly understand that, too. I'm really peeling this winter and think I'm going to back off on some of the items. Thank you so much and Happy Thanksgiving to you (I can't remember if you live in the U.S. ) Much love, Melissa
I just turned 36 and I'm subscribing! I love your personality and your accent. I'm originally from northeastern Arkansas (about an hour from Memphis) and now I live in Texas.
Hi Melissa! Great tips on what to do to help with peeling due to the Retin-A. I also use the BM powder foundation as well the IT cosmetics but what works the best for me (doctor suggested it) is to apply some moisturizer after I apply the Retin-A mixed with Obagi. That's what works best for me, but like you said everyone is different. You are looking stunning as always! I hope you're having a great evening! Have a wonderful & very Happy Thanksgiving! Love you! xoxo Marlene
You have beautiful skin!!! I really think a lot of people need moisturizer, especially in colder climates. Finding what works for each of us really is the key I think. But it sure is frustrating at times! lol. Love you and I hope you Thanksgiving was full of love and joy! Love, Melissa
When I do my power peel, I am peeling like mad. And like you said, I just got to go out and "deal with it". Now, I'm afraid to use any kind of brush when I'm peeling. I use the beauty blender at those times. I guess I'm just really afraid of any hyperpigmentation. As always, you look gorgeous! XO XO, Swoozie
Your the best! You're so beautiful and amazing to me you're my inspiration for taking care of my skin I tend to be lazy in this area lol! I get so excited when I see your video pop up! Hope you have an amazing thanksgiving! 💄❤️💄❤️❤️
Oh Donna, thank you more than I can say. You bring up a good point because I'm kind of lazy about getting ready and stuff like that, too. But once I got my routine down it was really nice cause I could be lazy again if that makes sense. It was just second nature so I didn't have to think about it and it wasn't a pain anymore. I appreciate you! I'm sending you much love and joy. Love, Melissa
Hi Melissa! Thank you for all these tips! Retin A is not easy to get here, but there are lots of retinol products. I have managed to get a vit A serum from Mad Hippie and have been using it for about 6 months; I can see a definite improvement in the appearance and texture of my skin. Your skin is glowing and you look absolutely beautiful! I have been a bit behind with YT so apologies that I didn't comment on your last video. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Lots of love, xoxo Daphne.💞💞
Daphne, I really do like retinol products. I am thrilled that you were able to get some of the serum and that you like it. aw, thank you so much. I really appreciate you so much and love you dearly. xxx, Melissa
My peeling is exactly like yours. There's no irritation with mine and it's gone after I wash my face in the morning. Just remember to hydrate and moisturize for those who peel. I want it to peel cause I know it is turning over the skin faster. But I don't peel everywhere.
HI Melissa, You are gorgeous and I love your podcasts! I use Obagi Nu Derm with Retin-A and Blend but have never used the Clear. What is the benefit of it? Thank you for all the wonderful beauty tips! Shirley
Hi Melissa, you look so young for your age, Im absolutely astounded your over 50! your skin and hair look amazing, Im debating using retin A . 1, cant get it without prescription in the uk ( so means a little holiday to Spain) 2, peeling is very scary, but looking at you i would like to give it a try, Keep up the good work ...you shine like a star hunni xxx
Hi Melissa :) You always look so nice and glow to your skin :) I agree we have to remember we all have different skin and texture , somethings will work for one and maybe not the others. Almost have to play around until you get more familiar with your skin, and also we go threw some skin changes due to our Hormones too. So it is all over the place, i love listening to you though about skincare, as i learn so much from several of you. Hope your doing well, love and blessings xoxox
Awesome tip about using a razor lightly. Thank you for everything that you do, I appreciate your videos so much, they are a joy to watch. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.
Super tips Melissa!!! I have tried some and they really work...Thanks for sharing my beautiful friend!! I want to wish you and your family the Happiest of Thanksgivings!! Love you honey!! xoxoxoxooxxo CAROL
your skin is so amazing! I will be using retina a religiously in hopes of looking as good as you! I'm 28 so hopefully I'm starting around when you did!
Thank you so much for all of the helpful tips, Melissa! Sharing your experiences has made so many of us going through similar journeys that much easier. Happy Thanksgiving!! Lorna
I have a quick thing to share with everyone. I have discovered that along with the Clairsonic and delicate brush head using a hydrating mask such as one Aveda makes helps. Also and this is a huge help....using a hydrating setting spray after you apply your make up and either using your clean dry palms or a beauty blender to press it in keeps those little flakes and peeling spots from showing !!! Made a huge difference !!
Oh Donna, very helpful hints!!! And I wanted to thank you so much for taking the time to type all this out. It was very kind of you and I appreciate it so much! Great hints! Love, Melissa
Hi Mellissa, first, you are a beauty! and thank you for your beautiful videos! As a fellow retina-A devotee, and ever-experimenting skincare junkie, I wanted to ask you if you've ever tried Nerium? I have at least 5 friends who all swear by it - and I being the junkie that i am - bought some and have to say it immediately made my skin look even better - however, I don't want to just throw away my awesome skincare program that I know works (aka retina-A/ peptides/ aha's/vitamin C etc). I'm so confused because the claims and real photo evidence and faces of my friends all say that Nerium does all the same stuff- but without the side effects of peeling, sun sensitivity etc... what do you think? thank you so much in advance.
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Your skin just looks Fantastic!! I swear you look 35!!! I am just in awe of you! You are such a beautiful Lady.....Inside and out!! Loved this video very informative!! Thank you for the info...Love you to Pieces! Joye
Oh girl, I just love you! I was just thinking the same thing watching your video. Wow does your skin ever glow! Love you, Joye. You are a joy to me for sure. Love you, Melissa
I agree she does look 35, she is just beautiful!!
@@Melissa55 Melissa I have only just come across your UA-cam channel now, your skin looks amazing!! have you used only Retin A, or had any other treatments or fillers or anything else to help sagging skin ? I'm 37 and have got sagging in face, was looking into what I can do. Do you use anything else products or treatments (not make up) along side Retin A? Also could you tell me which one you use? Thanks xx
You look Beautiful!
I’m 30 and have just started using retin A!
I hope it works as much on me as it has on you. You look absolutely fantastic!
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You could not look more beautiful! Your skin is glowing.
what I'm doing when I peel too much at the morning, I put a moisturizing mask for 20 minutes after I clean my face with soft scrub peeling it's miraculous, no more dead skins. I use retin a for 20 years
Oh thank you so much for that hint! I appreciate it. xxx, Melissa
Do you use retin a in summer? It's get really hot around 115-120. Some months are very humid too.
Will appreciate your insight on this
I am s sporatic with Retin A....If I knew my skin would look like yours I'd be so faithful! Love you...xoxo patti 🎀
aw, thanks, Patti, but girl, your skin is to die for. It's flawless. Thank you and love you, Melissa
I agree. She has beautiful skin and is just beautiful period!
rxstrmom you also have beautiful skin and you are so beautiful , I'm sporadic too with Retin a . Melissa Thankyou for the great information
You don't need it! it's gonna thin your skin. I am sure thereare wayy better things out there for you
I looove Retina a start lower and keep working up it’s amazing my wrinkles are going away so fast miracle treatment
Your skin is absolutely stunning! I'm 33 and noticing big changes beginning in my skin so I've started a 0.025% Retin-A just this past week. I'm really happy with my decision when I see people that have had such great success like you. Thanks for sharing all of your experiences!
Hey Lauren. You know, I was your age when I started using Retin A, too. I do think it has served me well. About eight years later I started on Obagi and that kicked it up a notch. But I feel like you are really taking excellent care of your skin and creating a really good base to fight aging. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa
Melissa, you are beautiful and you have a beautiful soul! You are such a wonderful inspiration to all of us. Love you! Jean
I'm turning 64 soon and you are my inspiration !!!! You're beautiful and I love your vivacious personality
Melissa, I know this is an old video, but I just had to say how darling you are. You had me smiling and laughing along with you when you were saying, "then try this"... I knew you were sincere and so refreshing. You are beautiful inside and out. Bless you, sweet Melissa!
One thing I've done to help control flakes after I've put on my makeup is to spritz the area with setting spray, and then gently patting the area with a cosmetic wedge sponge. It basically flattens the flakes and holds them in place rather than removing them. Sometimes if I try to get too aggressive with dislodging them, it will take the makeup with it, and then I'll have a lot of 'holes' in my makeup. Of course, most of the time I don't really have to deal too much with flakes or irritation, because I use avocado oil as the last step in my AM and PM skincare, which holds the flakes in suspension. In the morning, when I wash my face, the loose flakes are dislodged, and any flakes that might want to start to form will become suspended in the new layer of avocado oil that I put on. I use a cosmetic wedge sponge to wipe away any excess oil before putting on my sunscreen/'foundation' (I use a tinted sunscreen in lieu of foundation). I have found this regimen really keeps the flakes at bay, and I've been using tretinoin on an almost daily basis.
Oh what a wonderful tip. I will try it. Oh I have had the holes in my makeup before, too! This was so helpful and I can't thank you enough for sharing it. It really was terrific. Many thanks Melissa
I get soooo excited when I see you have a new video up---I MISS you in between---LOL!!
aw, thanks so much, Carol!!! You are so sweet and I appreciate it so much. Love, Melissa
I have been watching videos obsessively looking for answers about dealing with the peeling and yours is by far the best! ❤️
You are LITERALLY the reason why I started Tretinoin last week. Stunning.
I know it dilutes the power of the Tretinoin, but I moisturize first, let the moisturizer dry, then apply my RetinA. I had no trouble/irritation with the lower strengths, but when I moved up to 0.1%, I got flakiness around my mouth and on my chin. I apply some Cerave Helaing Ointment, or La Roche Posey Cicaplast balm, and those products works well
Have a Happy Thanksgiving Melissa! I loved these tips for peeling and will be trying some of them. Lots of love to you! xoxo
Thank you so much, Anne. I hope your Thanksgiving was absolutely wonderful. Love to you melissa
If I could have a jawline like yours, I wouldn't let a moisturizer in my house! Thank you so much for your honest advice! This is SO helpful! Happy Thanksgiving!
aw, thank you so much, Suzy! I don't know why moisturizers make my skin sag, but when I use them, my jowls sag to my knees! lolol. Love and joy to you, Melissa
Melissa55 Do you do any facial exercise /massage to help prevent sagging / jowls ?? You are just exquisitely beautiful and your facial muscular structure and toned jawline is amazing ! I have learnt so much from you about not ' overdoing ' moisturisers / clarisonic etc as it is tempting to 'kill with kindness ' when our skin feels dry ! You are testament to the 'less is more ' philosophy ⭐️⭐️
Oh Sarah, thank you so much!!! I don't do any kind of facial exercises. With me it truly is moisturizing. My cheeks and jawline really do drop from the heaviness of using it. If anyone else was in my body and could feel the feeling of my facial skin they would probably think it felt way too tight. But for me, it is what I feel comfortable with to feel firmer. I do try to always sleep on my back, too. I think that helps my muscles not get squashed into strange positions. xxxx
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I have used retin a on and off. Now just using serums and matrixl. After seeing you im going back to retin a which I have tubes of. If your prescription plan does not cover it, you can get it from a friend or coworker who might be traveling to Mexico or going back home to visit in phillipines or India. Last coworker went back to phillipines and it was 20$ a tube. You are gorgeous and inspiring. Thank you for the videos.
Thank you for all the suggestions and tips. You really have no idea how much you have helped me with my skin care!!! I am thrilled with the results from the Obaji line as well as the Retin a. I have been using the bare minerals with the brush during the time that I am peeling a bit and it's worked well for me. as I said before, I am not peeling badly but I sure have noticed the brown spots fading, skin tightening and wrinkles relaxing.. I am just so very thankful that I found your channel.. you're so sweet and I love watching every video I've seen!!! I hope that you and your family have a very wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving... Sue
Oh Sue, thank you so much for telling me that. I am so happy you are having good results. I always worry so much when I talk about something that people are going to be disappointed. So this really means a lot to me. Thank you more than I can say. Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Melissa
Really good info, Melissa. Thank you! My peeling has FINALLY decreased to the point where my skin looks normal again. I'm starting to see some very nice results from RetinA. I'm very pleased. I have a very gentle exfoliating pad that I run over my face 2 or 3 days per week. It makes my skin look perfect. It took 9 months for the peeling to improve and I almost gave up but I'm so glad I stuck with it. I don't use a liquid foundation anymore. A mineral powder foundation seems to do everything I need now. xoxo!!!
I am so thrilled that you are getting some relief from the peeling. It's so hard to handle sometimes and I'm extremely glad you like the way Retin A is working for you. Thank you so very much for sharing this. Much love, Melissa
I use facial oils on my skin. They really help keep you from peeling. I've never had a problem. Maybe try that sometime. ❤️
Thanks Melinda. You know, I've never tried oils. But it seems like it could really help get those peels off there. Thank you! Melissa
melinda wilson I do this too. If you keep massaging in the oil's for about three minutes the flakes start to just roll off. But you really have to massage the oil well into the skin to get to the point where the flakes are going to let go of your new skin and roll off
melinda wilson Yes, yes, yes!!! Check out Stephanie Nicole youtube channel, video titled, The Science Behind Face Oils. She is a real treasure of knowledge. She has,a science background and comes from a family in the industry of cosmetology.
I had a lot of peeling today and after reading about oils, i tried something i had, and voila! all gone, thank you melinda!!
Melissa, you are such a blessing to so many, including me. As I've told you before, you have the most gentle spirit But, you're also such a spitfire and a lot fun at the same time! Just a wonderfully genuine human being that I'm thankful to "know" in the limited capacity of UA-cam. I just started using Retin-A .05%, thanks to you. You took my fear of it away and got me excited to start my journey with it. So, thank you!! When I peeled the first time, I used the First Aid Beauty (FAB) Ultra Repair Cream. It really, really helped a lot. It's not expensive and it's all natural. The main ingredient is colloidal oatmeal. Just thought I'd throw another option into the mix of choices. Thank you again for addressing so many questions. Some I didn't know I had until you answered them.... haha!! Much love from my home to yours! Happy Thanksgiving, beautiful friend, we have so much to be thankful for, don't we? ❤️❤️ xoxo Lisette
oh Lisette, I'm sitting here crying! You are the sweetest, loveliest person. You truly are.
Oh thank you so much for the hint on the FAB!!! I am going to get me some and it really makes sense that it would help with the oatmeal in it. It's so soothing. I'm going to give it a try. Thank you for that, and thank you for being you. I have enjoyed you and been touched by your kindness. You are much appreciated and I wish you so much joy and love in this upcoming holiday season. Love you, Melissa
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I'm thankful for you too Melissa. You give me courage to fight this aging battle. Say hello to Doug and Family and Oliver of course. Love, Kelly💗
aw, thank you so much, Kelly. You always brighten my day and I am thankful for you. Love Melissa
Great tips, as usual. You are so right, everyone just needs to experiment to find what works for them, but it's awesome to have so many great suggestions to try, something's bound to work! Love you! xoxoxoxo
It's just not one size fits all with using things that make you peel. And with winter coming up, it's even trickier. Love you lots! xxx, Melissa
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Definitely have found what works for you. You're looking more beautiful every time I see you. I have definitely found some products I will always use and about to test some new additions. Hope your Thanksgiving was blessed and have a great week. 💋
so glad you are back, you are my fave youtuber! so much great info, such an inspiration! xxx from down under :)
Oh my goodness, thank you so much! I really appreciate it. xxx, Melissa
Dear Melissa, I found out just lately that coconut oil (fantastic stuff! + renew skin) and Aloe vera jel are working beautifuly to reduce redness and much more!
I use them every day...
Happy Thanks Giving Beautiful Melissa... We don't celebrate that here in the UK but I must say that I'm very Thankful for you xx Much love to you and your family xx
I sure am thankful for you Ms. Fuzzbutt. You have made me laugh and brought me much joy and I am so grateful to you. Love you! Melissa
I really needed this advice. I've been using .025% starting this year in July. Once a week for month one, every 6 days for month 2, every 5 days for month 3, etc. I am now using every third day day now. I have sensitive skin and must ease into this long term relationship! Day THREE is always the day I look the flakiest. Today is a day three, I cleansed, did a lightweight moisturizer and applied a sheer foundation . Bad idea! I look perfectly fine with just the moisturizer but the foundation accentuated every little tiny and big place of flaking! I washed it all off, applied a soothing gel mask and watched your video. In fact I've watched it twice already.
I am thankful for Melissa!
Lisa it's just so tough to deal with the peeling. And I get discouraged at times and tired of it. When that happens I just back off on some of my products until things calm down and then ease back into it. It's just such a delicate balance isn't it? Thank you so very much. Love, Melissa
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Try sweet almond oil, vitamin e oil or maracuja oil. I find that the maracuja oils is very calming and these oils help with the peeling.
Hi Melissa. I'm 3 years into my tretinoin and my skin has just recently started peeling. I find it's really helpful to use the Peter Thomas Roth FirmX Peeling Gel. It's super gentle, yet very effective. I also use the Peter Thomas Roth Pumpkin Enzyme Mask 2 - 3 times a week to help, too. Recently, my dermatologist has prescribed Elidel and suggested CeraVe for the peeling. Hope this helps.
I am stunned that you're over 60! Beautiful and lovely caring personality. Thanks for the Retin A tips!
Happy Thanksgiving! You must be so busy getting ready for Thanksgiving. I baked a batch of cornbread today for my stuffing. Love your hair. Your skin is absolutely radiant. Thanks for sharing your tips.
Hey Karen! I was baking cornbread about the same time you were!!! aw, thank you so very much. I hope your holiday season has been full of much joy and much love,. Thank you, my friend. Love, Melissa
Thank you for your videos Melissa! You are helping my skin journey *so* much and I want you to know how much your work is appreciated ♥️
First of all, your skin look gorgeous!! Great advice, Melissa. You know I am a huge believer in IT CC+ cream as my last step in morning skincare, and as my foundation. I did try the Bare Minerals a few times, and it worked very well. I still have some sort of peeling every 4 to 6 weeks. Love you, my friend, and happy Thanksgiving. Yes, we have so many thing to be thankful for. Blessings, prayers, and love...MaryEllen
Melissa, I know you're not a big fan of exfoliants but I absolutely love the Smoothie Peeling Jam that MaryEllen recommended. It's just fabulous and doesn't sting, isn't in the least harsh but does the job and the amount of flaking it removes is incredible. Maybe you should give it a try. (The 'shaving' gave me the 'fear' Lol). Happy Thanksgiving to everyone celebrating. Much Love, J xx
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Thank you so much for that! I think I will give it a go. The worst that can happen is it will burn and if that happens I can just rinse it off right quick. Thank you so much for the heads up. I can't thank you enough. Lots of love, Melissa
I am going to try the peeling gel you recommended. I wish I had remembered to talk about it in my video. I am so sorry. You have incredible skin. Just so flawless and young. Thank you and you know how much I care about you! Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Melissa
The Holika Holika Smoothie Peeling Jam is fruit (I think this one is grape) enzymatic, very gentle peel. It not the least bit harsh. It has helped me the most, with the extra peeling I've been doing since using the 0.1%, and in the beginning of using Retin A. It sells anywhere from 13.00 to 23.00 on Amazon. I am still using the one I purchased two years ago, but I have purchased a new one, since it ships from the Orient. You are a doll, and I love you to pieces.
Hi Melissa, I have used the Obagi Nuderm system off and on for 10 years now. I probably need to start another round of it. Like you the Bareminerals makeup was really all that seemed to hide the peeling and not stir it up like a liquid would. I am now just using Retin a micro gel. When I discovered Peter Thomas Roth firmx peeling gel it was a game changer. Wow, it gently rolls the peeling skin off and reveals a soft new layer of skin, ready to fully absorb any creams or serums. On very peeling days I use it after my morning cleanse and my makeup glides on smoothly. I can use a liquid foundation and find a Beauty blender does not cause my flakes to get stirred up. I love this product and will never be without it. My daughter also uses it because her acne products dry her out. After the gel, products seem to work so much better. Just used it tonight. I enjoy your videos so much. Xo Sonya💜
Hey Sonya!!! This is such a good comment with good hints. I appreciate it. Joye, my friend I mention, uses the PTR with her Obagi and she swears by it. I think I'm going to pick some up and give it a try. Your comment just confirmed it for me. I thank you so much. Love, Melissa
Greetings from the UK.
Hi Melissa,
I have just discovered your videos and think you are AB FAB! I've just turned 60 like yourself and also have been using Retin A for about the last 30 years on and off but mostly on! However, I have never used Obagi, I've only ever used Retin A on its own.
I'm amazed that you can tolerate the 0.1%. and that you shun moisturisers. Firstly, it is almost impossible to get the 0.1% Retin A in the UK but even if it was possible, I don't think I could go anywhere near it. I use the 0.5% and have a difficult enough time with it with the peeling, irritation etc. You obviously have very tough skin and are really lucky.
My skin is very good but your skin is FAB! The area that I've always shied away from using it on is the eye area and so that is my most disappointing area as I have quite a bit of drooping on my upper eyelids and crows feet. However, I see that you use it all around the eyes with the exception of the eyelid. So, I've going to start copying you and start OBAGI.
Thank you SO much for your videos. They are honest and when you just look at the way you look, the whole Obagi system is definitely worth it. Keep up the brilliant work and any more specific details about how to treat the eye area would be much appreciated.
Oh hello sweetie darling (I LOVE Ab Fab) lol. That is interesting about the different strengths in the two countries. Probably the .05 would have been just fine for my skin. The .1 was available, so I just used that. lol. But even if they ever came out with anything stronger, I don't think I could tolerate it. I think the .1 is my absolutely limit, especially when you throw the Obagi in there. I am a bit embarrassed to admit I use it around my eyes. I know you're not supposed to, but I started kind of sneaking it up there. First, just into my under eye area a bit, then into my brows and then on my brow bone. So far it has never bothered me that I can tell.
Even with being used to the Retin A, please be careful with the Obagi. It is strong and will boost the Retin A some. So even if you have to start really slowly, that's ok, too. I wish you the very best of luck! And I hope to come back there for a visit soon! Love, Melissa
I've been on Tretinoin 0.025% for 6 weeks now...due to acne. The peeling was driving me crazy and my skin was so red! It gets worse sometimes but then gets better.
Thanks for this video! You're beautiful!
I think ageing brings so many losses and that maintaining good skin is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves!! Thank you for making the effort and showing how it is possible-you look fantastic!
Thanks Melissa! We are thankful for you too and everything that you do for us! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving! Hugs!
Ok, I have a lump in my throat!!! Thank you so much. Many blessings and love being sent to you. xxx, Melissa
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Great advice Melissa. Your skin is beautiful. So sweet of you to share your experiences and techniques with Retin A. I hope you and your family have a safe and blessed Thanksgiving.
aw, thank you so much!!! I hope you have such a wonderful and joyous holiday season coming up. You are so kind and you deserve any and all blessings coming your way. Love and thanks,, Melissa
You're just so gorgeous, Melissa! Thank you SO much for all of your informative and fascinating videos.
I needed to watch this video for a second time. I am flaking big time transitioning from 0.025% tretinoin cream to 0.05% Refissa. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and providing information to deal with the dryness/flaking!!! I need to kinder to my skin when I going through this so as to not cause any damage to my skin!!! Thank you, Shelly😈💋
Thank you for this video, sweet Melissa. I was one that commented on my flaking situation. I'm afraid of steroid creams but the burning, itching, and flaking due to eczema are becoming unbearable so I May Go back to them. A friend of mine shared that her doctor said five days on and two days off. I think I may try that, especially around the holidays. It is so embarrassing sometimes. Anyway, I am so very very grateful for the UA-cam community, and especially you, as I've shared in a private email we do have a lot in common. Enjoy every second with your wonderful family!!
I did see an article while researching this from Paula at Paula's choice that said not to be afraid of the hydrocortisone creams, especially with eczema. I really believe in cutting back if it gets to be too much. It does get embarrassing doesn't it? I am so grateful to you. You are such a sweet and beautiful woman. Love you, Melissa
Subscribed! You are SO gorgeous (inside and out) and your videos are so inspiring. I'm 25 with hormonal acne and I just started Retin-A for the second time. When the molting snake-skin peeling gets to me, I watch your videos to distract myself haha! Hopefully when all my friends are older and wrinkly, I'll be pretty like you!
I just love how sweet and genuine you are! God Bless!
Oh thank you so much! That is so kind! Love, Melissa
New subbie here! AND you're absolutely exquisite. Your skin is gorgeous. Im so so happy I came across your channel. Thank you for your tips, they're much appreciated. 😍❤
Your personality is so perfect.
Happy Thanksgiving Melissa. I hope you have a wonderful time with your family. I watched your video the other day but I am out of town visiting family and I am finally sitting down to comment. This video was so helpful and I am going to watch again and write down several of the products you suggested. I struggle with peeling all the time from Retin A. I feel like a snake if I wear it more than a couple of times per week. The other day I woke up and looked 95 years old! I used Beenigma only for a few nights and everything calmed down quickly. Thank goodness! Lol Your skin is so gorgeous. You always give such great suggestions and you have helped me in so many ways. I am so thankful for you! Love you lots...Laura
Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving, Laura. Don't ever worry about watching and commenting. It's so hard to find the time sometimes! Oh it's so hard to deal with the peeling. I think I'm going to back off on some of my products now. You have beautiful skin and I know how much you have loved the Beenigma. It works beautifully for you. Love you and I am thankful you are my friend. Love Melissa
Hi Melissa, I've always been in awe at how beautiful your skin is. You are obviously doing something right. As yet I haven't gone down the Retin A path as I am worried it may irritate my skin since it's slightly on the sensitive side. I have used products with retinol in them though and my skin tolerates them well with no irritation. If I do start using Retin A I'll be using your videos as guidelines on how to care for my skin, they are so informative. Yes, there are a lot of blessings in our lives to be thankful for. Wishing you and your family a very blessed and Happy Thanksgiving. Love and hugs to you, Toula xoxo
Toula, you are so sweet and I thank you more than I can say. If you do ever decide to use it, just ease into it slowly. but that being said, retinols really work so well, and you might not ever need Retin A. I thank you more than I can say. I hope this upcoming holiday season is one of joy and blessings. Lots of love Melissa
Thank you Melissa 😊 💝
Happy Thanksgiving Melissa and Doug! God is good. Our blessings just living in this country are beyond number! Love you, Sharon ❤️
You are such a sweetheart, Sharon. Thank you so much for just being yourself. Much love, Melissa
Thank you Melissa for the update. As usual you look gorgeous and your personality matches your appearance. I look forward to trying the CC Cream. Thanks!
What a sweet and kind thing for your to say. Truly I am grateful to you. Love and thanks, Melissa
Melissa, Thank you for your amazing videos! I was wondering, after all these years of using Retin-A... you still peel? I thought that at one point the peeling would stop completely?
Happy Thanksgiving From Scotland. You're a credit to women of all ages ☺
Oh my goodness, this brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so very very much! Love, Melissa
Hi Melissa! You did a wonderful job explaining how you deal with the flaking from the Retin-A. I used it for about a year when i was in my 40's and being the picker that I am, I peeled the dead skin off and had my face raw all the time. I have never seen a flake on your skin and it always looks so glowy and beautiful! Thank you so much for all of the information you gave us. Geeeze girl, look at all the money we're saving on moisturizer. lol I think you and I are part of a rare breed that feels the same way about it. Wishing you and your family a Happy, Blessed Thanksgiving, my friend! Love you! xox Colleen :-)
aw, thanks, Colleen. Oh, I always have the urge to start picking at my skin!!! I've peeled off things I shouldn't either. aw thank you. Sometimes my skin looks pretty horrific and like a snake shedding. I think we really see skin care a lot the same Colleen. And I tell you, girl, you have the most beautiful skin I believe I have ever seen. If I didn't love you so much I would be jealous!!! Love you dearly, melissa
You look absolutely radiant and your hair looks so beautiful! It just brightens my day to see your pretty face. 😊
Hannah, I can't thank you enough!!! You just made my day much brighter just reading this and I am grateful to you. Love Melissa
Your skin is gorgeous! I so wish my skin would handle the retain a better but am going to try your suggestions. The Obagi burned my skin so bad that it actually hurt but you and so many others use it and it have no problems...I am a wimp. :) I was talking about you on Thanksgiving and shared some of your pictures and everyone thought you were in your 30's to 40's. I hope you had a wonderful thanksgiving with your family. Love you! Carolyn xoxo
Carolyn, I wonder if you could handle just a good retinol product. I really think it's such a good substitute for Retin A and much milder. You are not a wimp. This is not a skincare line for everyone. Oh my goodness, thank you! I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. You are so special, and you know how Thankful I am for you. We are always there for each other and it's such a comfort. Love you, Melissa
What do you use to take off your makeup/foundation? I've been on and off with Retin-A for about 1 year now and could never get over the peeling phase. But after coming across your channel, watching your videos, and seeing your beautiful face/skin I finally told myself to just stick with it! First few days were the worst, but now after a week my skin has become brighter and smoother. I got all the same products you use in your skin care routine because it obviously works as you are proof of it! Thank you for making these videos!
I been asking this question but no body response to me. My question is does the peeling go away after months or years of using ? Thank you for answering.
Hey, Missy! I wondered also if the peeling hurt or burned...I loved your tips for this. And, I must say, your hair looks beautiful! I love the length! Thank you so much for sharing, Melissa! Love you so much! Love, Jeanie xxoo
Thank you so much, JJ!!! I hope you had a blessed Thanksgiving. I'll check back in with you! The posse has been quiet! lol. Love, Missy
You are so right Ms. Melissa, we're all different and we just need to find different ways to see what works best. I tried, but, couldn't go on without saying how gorgeous you look! I know I say it all the time, but, geez, I don't think you have any "off" days!
Funny you mentioned the shaving! By accident, I noticed how it really took all the flakes off, then I exfoliated in the shower and my skin came out so smooth, thanks for confirming that for me.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving my friend!!
Thanks so very very much, my sweet friend. I know several men that use Obagi and REtin A and they shave daily and don't deal with the flakes as much, so I figured it would hurt us to do it either! I hope this holiday season is so joyous for you. Love you! Melissa
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your skin is so beautiful! I have just started on Retin A..0.5 percent. Ugghhh, the peeling is terrible and I am ready to quit! I look at your skin and continue.
Robin Bush any updates please do you still use it?
Happy Thanksgiving to you and Doug. I have enjoyed every video you have ever done. Thank you!
Thank you so much, Kathy. What a very kind thing to say. I hope your holiday season will be filled with much love and joy. Love Melissa
I continue to learn so much from you since I have started my Retin A journey a few months ago. I have already been dabbling in cortisone cream for the pesky red spots. I want to put Retin A just under my chin to tighten the skin, but I find it migrates down further on my neck to areas which I know are ultra sensitive. I find if I coat my neck first with Vaseline it helps to protect those areas. Happy Thankksgiving! Love, Joy
Thank you so much, Joy. Oh the neck balance is so hard to find!!! It's so hard to keep it from getting super irritated. I think the vaseline is a terrific idea!!! Thank you and Happy thanksgiving to you, too! Lots of love, Melissa
My husband really likes that Aquaphor. He has psoriasis, and he says it really helps his skin at tough times. Thanks for sharing your ideas, Melissa. This really caught my eye as I've been having trouble with peeling on my upper lip. I'll try some of these!~Dana
Hello Melissa! I love your cideos. Does the peeling from retin a stops at some point or is like a permanent side effect? I have been using it for six months and still peeling a lot. I will appreciate if you can tell me from your experience. Thanks!
Hope you had a nice Thanksgiving! I enjoyed hearing your tips. I just finished peeling from a medical-grade peel and had to go without foundation a couple days. I stayed home, so it wasn't a big deal. My Retin-A does make me peel a little sometimes, but that's when I take a break for a day or two. You're looking lovely, Melissa. .. Hugs... Michelle ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for the great tips. I so appreciate you and your videos. It's so refreshing to watch you with your kindness and honesty. A true gem. May you have a blessed Thanksgiving!
What a sweet and kind thing to say, Lisa. I am so grateful. Much love, Melissa
Exfoliating is a key element for youthful skin. Use the Salex cloth to exfoliate, as much as you can handle. Then, use your Retin A, Vitamin C & Hydro.
Melissa...I am thankful for you! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family. It is snowing here in Colorado this morning but I got myself a cup of coffee and enjoyed your video so much. You were so right...the peeling on week 5 of Obagi is now minimal. Wish me luck putting on foundation before I see family on Thursday! Heard the Hourglass primer works...I will let you know!
aw, thank you more than I can say, Lynne. The snow sounds heavenly. And I than you for your kind words. Oh I hope the foundation just glides on and that you had a marvelous Thanksgiving. Much love and thanks, Melissa
You can also put Selsun Blue on the flakies if you are desperate. My daughter's dermatologist advised her to use this on a flaky skin condition she had and I wondered if it would work on my Retin A flakes. It sure did! I usually just but a bit on the corner of a washcloth, add a couple of drops of water and rub it on gently. Leave on about 3 minutes and rinse off. If it's particularly bad like around my nose, I apply it full strength with a Q-tip and leave it on about 5 minutes (or longer). I don't do this everyday but if it's extra bad and/or I have to go out somewhere and look extra good.
Melissa, I have been using Retin A for a year now. I combated the peeling with putting some moisturizer on after applying the Retin A. Helped so much. I do wish though that the Retin A was helping my neck wrinkles :( You look beautiful and blessed with great genes.
Hi Melissa, enjoyed the video. Than you for all the tips!! Glad to here it's getting cold for you. Happy thanksgiving😘 love from England. xx
Oh Thank you so much, Angela!!! gosh, we wish we were England right now. One of these days we are going to have Christmas there. Thank you so very much! Love Melissa
Great tips girl. I sometimes wish my face would react and peel....ok, maybe not quite. Love you and you look gorgeous as always! ♥ Elle
I really think you have such good skin that it doesn't need to peel. And you are getting the benefit of all the products even if you don't peel, and it shows because you look so glowing and gorgeous! Love you!!!!!
I think some people just don't peel, which is good because then you can use any of the products without worrying about all the irritation!!!
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Very helpful Melissa! I find it is more of an issue foe me in the winter. Can't wait to try some of your suggestions! Thanks for another great video! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!!!!
I certainly understand that, too. I'm really peeling this winter and think I'm going to back off on some of the items. Thank you so much and Happy Thanksgiving to you (I can't remember if you live in the U.S. ) Much love, Melissa
I just turned 36 and I'm subscribing! I love your personality and your accent. I'm originally from northeastern Arkansas (about an hour from Memphis) and now I live in Texas.
Hi Melissa! Great tips on what to do to help with peeling due to the Retin-A. I also use the BM powder foundation as well the IT cosmetics but what works the best for me (doctor suggested it) is to apply some moisturizer after I apply the Retin-A mixed with Obagi. That's what works best for me, but like you said everyone is different. You are looking stunning as always! I hope you're having a great evening! Have a wonderful & very Happy Thanksgiving! Love you! xoxo Marlene
You have beautiful skin!!! I really think a lot of people need moisturizer, especially in colder climates. Finding what works for each of us really is the key I think. But it sure is frustrating at times! lol. Love you and I hope you Thanksgiving was full of love and joy! Love, Melissa
I just got the Laura M foundation...like it so far. Thanks so much for taking the time to tell us what you think and know about things!!!
Oh I'm thrilled, Mariane!!! I really do like it so much. I hope she never discontinues it! It's always my greatest fear. lol. Much love, Melissa
Happy Thanksgiving sweet Melissa! Love ya to the moon and back!
I feel the same, Charlie Girl! You are one of my biggest blessings! Love you, Melissa
When I do my power peel, I am peeling like mad. And like you said, I just got to go out and "deal with it". Now, I'm afraid to use any kind of brush when I'm peeling. I use the beauty blender at those times. I guess I'm just really afraid of any hyperpigmentation. As always, you look gorgeous! XO XO, Swoozie
Thanks, Melissa, you're the sweetest! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family. XO
That is so kind of Eileen. Thank you more than I can say. Love, Melissa
Your the best! You're so beautiful and amazing to me you're my inspiration for taking care of my skin I tend to be lazy in this area lol! I get so excited when I see your video pop up! Hope you have an amazing thanksgiving! 💄❤️💄❤️❤️
Oh Donna, thank you more than I can say. You bring up a good point because I'm kind of lazy about getting ready and stuff like that, too. But once I got my routine down it was really nice cause I could be lazy again if that makes sense. It was just second nature so I didn't have to think about it and it wasn't a pain anymore. I appreciate you! I'm sending you much love and joy. Love, Melissa
Great points! I love that you are making a video dealing with this.
The multi-layers of skin affected can be patchy. Thanks so much ! xox
aw, thanks so much, Kathy. I hope you had a blessed and very joyful Thanksgiving. Much love, Melissa
Hi Melissa! Thank you for all these tips! Retin A is not easy to get here, but there are lots of retinol products. I have managed to get a vit A serum from Mad Hippie and have been using it for about 6 months; I can see a definite improvement in the appearance and texture of my skin. Your skin is glowing and you look absolutely beautiful! I have been a bit behind with YT so apologies that I didn't comment on your last video. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Lots of love, xoxo Daphne.💞💞
Daphne, I really do like retinol products. I am thrilled that you were able to get some of the serum and that you like it. aw, thank you so much. I really appreciate you so much and love you dearly. xxx, Melissa
Daphne C Try Diferen. It's over the counter with a very high % of retin a!
Beth Helmly Thank you so much Beth! I'll check that out!😊
My peeling is exactly like yours. There's no irritation with mine and it's gone after I wash my face in the morning. Just remember to hydrate and moisturize for those who peel. I want it to peel cause I know it is turning over the skin faster. But I don't peel everywhere.
Hope you, Doug, and your family have a very blessed and wonderful Thanksgiving!
That you so much, Nola. I hope yours was full of many blessings. Much love Melissa
HI Melissa, You are gorgeous and I love your podcasts! I use Obagi Nu Derm with Retin-A and Blend but have never used the Clear. What is the benefit of it? Thank you for all the wonderful beauty tips! Shirley
Hi Melissa, you look so young for your age, Im absolutely astounded your over 50! your skin and hair look amazing, Im debating using retin A . 1, cant get it without prescription in the uk ( so means a little holiday to Spain) 2, peeling is very scary, but looking at you i would like to give it a try, Keep up the good work ...you shine like a star hunni xxx
Hi Melissa :) You always look so nice and glow to your skin :) I agree we have to remember we all have different skin and texture , somethings will work for one and maybe not the others. Almost have to play around until you get more familiar with your skin, and also we go threw some skin changes due to our Hormones too. So it is all over the place, i love listening to you though about skincare, as i learn so much from several of you. Hope your doing well, love and blessings xoxox
Happy Thanksgiving Melissa, to you and your beautiful family! God Bless You All!!!
xxoo Bev
You are so sweet, Bev. Thank you so very much. Love, Melissa
Awesome tip about using a razor lightly. Thank you for everything that you do, I appreciate your videos so much, they are a joy to watch. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.
I can't thank you enough, Andrea for this comment. I hope you have a wonderful and blessed week. Love, Melissa
You are welcome Melissa. We are lucky to have you here on You Tube, thank you. Love Andrea
Thank you for all of your advice, and you and your family have a happy Thanksgiving
Thank YOU, Carol for your kindness. I wish you much happiness and and I am grateful to you. Love, Melissa
Super tips Melissa!!! I have tried some and they really work...Thanks for sharing my beautiful friend!! I want to wish you and your family the Happiest of Thanksgivings!! Love you honey!! xoxoxoxooxxo CAROL
aw, thanks so much Carol. I hope you and your family had a wonderful holiday. I appreciate you my emoji guru! lolol Love you< Melissa
your skin is so amazing! I will be using retina a religiously in hopes of looking as good as you! I'm 28 so hopefully I'm starting around when you did!
Thank you so much for all of the helpful tips, Melissa! Sharing your experiences has made so many of us going through similar journeys that much easier. Happy Thanksgiving!!
Lorna
How kind you are, Lorna. Thank you so much, beautiful lady. Love, Melissa
What have you done with your teeth? They literally look like gorgeous little pearls. Just beautiful!
I just have to say this woman looks amazing! I should look this good as I age. I think I'm going to get some Retin A.
I have a quick thing to share with everyone. I have discovered that along with the Clairsonic and delicate brush head using a hydrating mask such as one Aveda makes helps. Also and this is a huge help....using a hydrating setting spray after you apply your make up and either using your clean dry palms or a beauty blender to press it in keeps those little flakes and peeling spots from showing !!! Made a huge difference !!
Oh Donna, very helpful hints!!! And I wanted to thank you so much for taking the time to type all this out. It was very kind of you and I appreciate it so much! Great hints! Love, Melissa
Hi Mellissa, first, you are a beauty! and thank you for your beautiful videos! As a fellow retina-A devotee, and ever-experimenting skincare junkie, I wanted to ask you if you've ever tried Nerium? I have at least 5 friends who all swear by it - and I being the junkie that i am - bought some and have to say it immediately made my skin look even better - however, I don't want to just throw away my awesome skincare program that I know works (aka retina-A/ peptides/ aha's/vitamin C etc). I'm so confused because the claims and real photo evidence and faces of my friends all say that Nerium does all the same stuff- but without the side effects of peeling, sun sensitivity etc... what do you think? thank you so much in advance.
You are just such a beautiful woman inside and out! Keep posting! You are so incredible!
How do you get your skin to look so glowing and beautiful without moisturizing