GO AWAY WITH YOUR TRAUMA. And other stories. MUM AND ME, SEGMENT 24

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  • @tumibaloyi2915
    @tumibaloyi2915 Рік тому +9

    Kendy looks absolutely like her granny. Gorgeous gorgeous.

  • @thegodlyprincess_kenya
    @thegodlyprincess_kenya Рік тому +25

    I shall never allow the society to define how old I am.

    • @rosemaryochieng6267
      @rosemaryochieng6267 Рік тому

      How very informative. Bless bless and bless you. Thank you for really truelly blessing the world.❤

  • @WILMA_
    @WILMA_ Рік тому +35

    One thing that Kitt is, is CONSISTENT. Truthfully speaking, I have never seen this girl’s upload @ 10:01pm. It is always at 10:00pm PST (I am in California). Thanks for sharing, Kitt. Now let’s see what Ms. Apondi has to say!

    • @LoveYT88-ee3ql
      @LoveYT88-ee3ql Рік тому +1

      UA-cam should create a consistency award just for Kitt😊

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому +1

      So good to connect with fans from all over the world 🤗

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому

      ​@@LoveYT88-ee3qlthis is so sweet. Thank you

  • @justamummy6598
    @justamummy6598 Рік тому +32

    42 and 8 months pregnant with my 3rd child. Easiest pregnancy of all times. I only felt pregnant at 6 months. I have laughed😂😂😂. Apondi my love❤

    • @RUZHOFFS
      @RUZHOFFS Рік тому +2

      Wow, congratulations 🎉

    • @justamummy6598
      @justamummy6598 Рік тому +4

      @@RUZHOFFS Thanks love. My surprise baby. Someone told me my ovaries got together and agreed to send me off to menopause in style 😊

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 Рік тому +1

      ​@@justamummy6598How sweet of the ovaries 😂It should have been twins even 😂

  • @carolinem3885
    @carolinem3885 Рік тому +7

    Apondi said being away from the kids was not a sacrifice 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. I stan a self aware and real queen ❤

  • @karenagufana6928
    @karenagufana6928 Рік тому +2

    33 and Apondi was considered old yet now am 33 not married yet oh lord! have mercy! .....anyway i love these conversations.

  • @mwflossy
    @mwflossy Рік тому +1

    @38:59 "We have persued the same areas of growth together..."...i think that's a secret to not growing apart in the long-term...

  • @sophiemaua3043
    @sophiemaua3043 Рік тому +6

    With Apondi appearing....am always liking before l watch❤. The wisdom that she oozes. I love Apondi and am glad she loves 'my audience'.

  • @ndindajackline
    @ndindajackline Рік тому

    1:58 Is it just me or Kendi looks a lot like Apondi 😍
    Always a joy having mama!

  • @kazmorich
    @kazmorich Рік тому +5

    I totally love how Apondi articulates out conversation. I literally sit like a statue when she's speaking.

  • @missbeckyg
    @missbeckyg Рік тому +8

    Kitt and Apondi deliver wisdom in ways that just give new perspective and motivation. I love your content Kitt.

  • @maryambasa1863
    @maryambasa1863 Рік тому +14

    I love this conversation .We should have Apondi more often.She is very organic.

  • @kaki_karei
    @kaki_karei Рік тому +10

    I love your mama's style! She is soooo beautiful. She needs her own channel on style and life.

    • @lizo7898
      @lizo7898 Рік тому +1

      Agreed 😊

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому +4

      Unfortunately she would never record, edit or post 😅
      Just enjoy her here

  • @maureenwambui2992
    @maureenwambui2992 Рік тому +3

    Kitt, that part for sacrifices would make a lovely short.

  • @LoveYT88-ee3ql
    @LoveYT88-ee3ql Рік тому +14

    A friend's dad once told them 'you don't really know me' and I was just thinking about that and it's true. Our parents just like everyone else has a different version of themselves at work,with their own families and friends.So we only get a parent version of them...very insightful 😊

  • @eddahwachuka1066
    @eddahwachuka1066 9 місяців тому

    Listening to this in Kenya after postelections violence. Apondi has spoken reality and we all run away from the chaos. And the talk of trauma I was in laughter but it is soo sooo true. I have healed immediately. Thank you Kitt and Apondi. God bless you and your families.

  • @dorrisnkirote5614
    @dorrisnkirote5614 Рік тому +3

    I can relate to the part of praying for God to keep me here for my babies.God is indeed faithful

  • @noelaadhiambo
    @noelaadhiambo Рік тому +8

    Conversations so refreshing and profound!! I learn EVERYTIME from your videos. I can't thank you enough, truly. I am beautifully transformed just by virtue of listening to you.Thank you so much.
    And yes, I will take that job however far it may be. Everyone will eventually learn to maintain shurrrup!

  • @patriciamwaura5859
    @patriciamwaura5859 Рік тому +3

    Such beautiful nuggets of wisdom ..... I especially love the lane Apondi chooses as hers... I'd choose that lane too all day everyday, and nobody will ever decide how old I am EVER!!! Thank you for always sharing this with us. More Grace to you! ❤

  • @marthaharriet1706
    @marthaharriet1706 Рік тому +1

    Shame is the most useless expression and very accusatory and judgmental
    Love this!

  • @mildredouma5914
    @mildredouma5914 Рік тому +1

    The resonance in this convo. Deep, Especially when words like advanced maternal age, geriatric mother etc were being thrown around! Powerful perspectives on dealing with what is not a you problem. Thank you for this @kittkiarie

  • @karenagufana6928
    @karenagufana6928 Рік тому +1

    Oh my so much wisdom in this, I have been taking so much personally, only recently that I realized people will just be who they are and that shouldn't influence whom am becoming, as in I shouldn't take it to personally, and especially not allow it to take control of me. Unlocking that mode has been so helpful lately.

  • @nikuzemuyira6988
    @nikuzemuyira6988 Рік тому +5

    Weuh that sacrifices part has me rethinking my whole life aki our unsaid cultures tell us esp women that sacrifices is the way to go. Wow with Apondi there is always wisdom.
    Thanks Kitt for always sharing Apondi, Your always reminding to unlearn toxicity and embrace a wholestic view of ourselves.

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому +1

      That was truly my best part. And she reminded me that you don't have to be sad to be a good parent. Struggling and sacrificing 😅

    • @nikuzemuyira6988
      @nikuzemuyira6988 Рік тому

      @@KittKiarieChannel so true still journaling and stdwi.g over it as i laugh at myself for making sacrifices that made me sad and angry 😂 yes happy and parent can go together

  • @christinenjeriwaithaka7293
    @christinenjeriwaithaka7293 Рік тому +6

    That analogy of sound going in the same direction is absolutely everything 💯
    Truly as a man thinketh so is he. Thank you both for continuously sharing your golden insights.

  • @carolineakinyi4834
    @carolineakinyi4834 Рік тому +1

    My regards to Apondi. Meeting her and you for the first time 15years ago and the impact still fresh. She's a powerful woman.

  • @edgargithatug6866
    @edgargithatug6866 Рік тому +3

    I really learn alot from kitt's mum ....may God bless her abundantly

  • @wacukakangethe4281
    @wacukakangethe4281 Рік тому +5

    Always a good way to start the week listening to Apondi

  • @diannaachando9160
    @diannaachando9160 Рік тому +3

    This was so much fun to watch. Apondi is so cool, in this episode she reminded me so much of my own really amazing mother. Thank you both soooo much

  • @Prayerpartnerinternational
    @Prayerpartnerinternational Рік тому +2

    😢...now I know... Can we make this an Apondi and Kitt channel? Always learning something new...I love it

  • @Justbarbara.B
    @Justbarbara.B Рік тому +2

    I love Apondi so much. We all need her wisdom.

  • @knjerv
    @knjerv Рік тому +3

    Lovely way to kickstart this week!

  • @loanneokongo
    @loanneokongo Рік тому +1

    Placenta preavia. They might have diagnosed that much earlier in the pregnancy. A later examination would have shown that it was nolonger lying low.

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Рік тому +1

    We had missed Apondi welcome back she says it as it is it's the wow part for me Kitt u blessed with such a wonderful mum love u both❤❤

  • @gertywilson1514
    @gertywilson1514 Рік тому +3

    Wow until you said… I just realised that I am at the stage of telling people or someone it’s ok, good for you and I was even told by my friends and in work… light bulb moment but am in peace with it 😂💕

  • @sunshineheaven1802
    @sunshineheaven1802 Рік тому +4

    Thank you, Kitt. It is already a good time by default when I see mama Apondi, it is the butterfly love sound effects for me. 😂 My take home is that shame is useless and has no place in my life (I needed that).

  • @suevewog
    @suevewog Рік тому +1

    Lol Apondi💯carrying these gem drops along .."Choose how old you want to be and don't invite me along. Hiyo ni yako🎤","...It was not a sacrifice...On the Apondi lane, it was a holiday...🎤"

  • @lisashikuku
    @lisashikuku Рік тому +1

    I have loved the episode,full of great lessons ... and as a huge fan of chilli nimepatika unaware kwa ghafla 😂😂😂😂. I love the new learning as always my biggest take away : never to let society to dictate my age and its okay for people to be people😊 thank you Kitt❤

  • @savannahondego566
    @savannahondego566 Рік тому +2

    This was such an eye opening conversation, as usual. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

  • @valerieesther5549
    @valerieesther5549 Рік тому

    Your daughter Kendi looks so much like her Dani.
    Beautiful. ❤

  • @meriothmungai4005
    @meriothmungai4005 Рік тому

    Such a resourceful conversation!Very loaded!!!Soo much wisdom!

  • @janewakush
    @janewakush Рік тому

    When I think of refugees, it's usually in a far away reality. Hearing Apondi speak about it! We truly live in peace privilege.

  • @muriukirispherwambui5867
    @muriukirispherwambui5867 Рік тому

    Apondi and Kitt's wisdom needs state protection

  • @mercymakau2222
    @mercymakau2222 Рік тому +1

    Apondi and my mom .same watsapp. Any video with her am watching. End of story and thank you

  • @kay0kello894
    @kay0kello894 Рік тому +2

    Sprinted here for this gem.Thank you Kitt and Apondi.❤

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 Рік тому

    I had ti stop doing my laundry and comment about the different kind of sufferings people enjoy...why put pilipili in your food 😂😂😂😂 gems of wisdom flowing.... enjoying

  • @judywambui9028
    @judywambui9028 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Kitt its always a delight to have Apondi on the show I Love her

  • @jerutochumo3400
    @jerutochumo3400 Рік тому

    Kitt your mum is awesome and you have great chemistry. The most valuable thing cherish to bits.

  • @YvieFAB
    @YvieFAB Рік тому

    Lol. But Kitt! Wueh!!! Ati ‘they lie in church but at home we know the truth’. Mayoooo!!! You have hit my hubby and I hard with that SHOUT hadi we had to pause and reflect on that statement. Wueh! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 38:01

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому

      Siiiiiiiissssss 🤣
      And you have thoroughly ousted yourself, eh? We thank God for self awareness

  • @nanahanyango
    @nanahanyango Рік тому

    When I see Apondi,am definitely watching

  • @sheillahsanau1189
    @sheillahsanau1189 Рік тому

    Yeah Kitt we love that song Kuna siku hamkuimba was like aaai like it's my right😂😂😂😂was telling my hubby about this trauma thing in marriage then I saw you posting and was over the moon

  • @gilliansstories02
    @gilliansstories02 Рік тому +1

    ''maintain the shut up'' 🤣wise quotes by Ms Apondi!

  • @Loise_waithira
    @Loise_waithira Рік тому

    Agreement is not necessarily Peace!
    Wow, wisdom

  • @aliciaaSylvie
    @aliciaaSylvie Рік тому

    Hahaha I love that part of assistant God/junior Holy Spirit. Bravo

  • @mazkwamboka
    @mazkwamboka Рік тому

    I really loved this video, Kitt. Thank you so much for sharing Apondi with us. ❤️

  • @margaretwachira2544
    @margaretwachira2544 Рік тому

    Very wise mother. Thank God for her. I needed a good laugh.

  • @achieng726
    @achieng726 Рік тому

    Wow wow wow! Loved everything about this episode. I have so many take aways

  • @WhatsPoppin-z
    @WhatsPoppin-z Рік тому +2

    When Apondi is on the channel...the world has to stop.
    Also,the song had to come through.

  • @janealice4591
    @janealice4591 Рік тому

    I just love Mama Kitt..She says it is .

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 Рік тому +3

    😂😂😂 your mum is hilarious .
    Such wisdom

  • @njugunabee.9076
    @njugunabee.9076 Рік тому

    Just saw with Apondi and the song songed in my head. Mama is heeereeeee guys 🎉🎉🎉

  • @seelamurero1488
    @seelamurero1488 10 місяців тому

    We love an Apondi x Kitt combo❤

  • @maryannemutheu1172
    @maryannemutheu1172 Рік тому

    I swear we need liberartion like this of Mum Apondi🤣🤣🤣🤣- I don't like children on my face all the time!

  • @mercymboya9112
    @mercymboya9112 Рік тому

    Kitt, you are blessed so much.. thanks for sharing bits of Apondi with us.

  • @kemuma4150
    @kemuma4150 Рік тому +1

    I'm liking the wisdom nuggets💞

  • @aysherbint2684
    @aysherbint2684 Рік тому +2

    Weuh!! This conversation was….what’s the word? That part of running away and not towards trouble. I don’t think we realize how much of a delicate dance peace and chaos is. Apondi’s take on age/ageism and agreement is not necessarily peace is officially mine. Thanks Kit and Apondi💐💐

  • @Comet_Loves
    @Comet_Loves Рік тому

    Mama responded, "Thank you" to I love you 😂

  • @jemimmahwangui8648
    @jemimmahwangui8648 Рік тому +1

    Nyamama full of wisdom❤❤❤

  • @MwathiWanjiku
    @MwathiWanjiku Рік тому

    I love love Apondi, thank you for today's show.

    • @MwathiWanjiku
      @MwathiWanjiku Рік тому

      I have never been so thankful for the far Yahweh has brought Kenya. Listening to Apondi talk about the humanitarian crisis in the refugee camps made me realize how ignorant we can be of the troubles others go through

  • @christineno2887
    @christineno2887 Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂 I dont like children in my face all the time😂😂 eeh 😅😅... No sacrifice 😂😂 Apondi

  • @carolm4691
    @carolm4691 Рік тому

    I just love Apondi so much.

  • @isabelomolo8853
    @isabelomolo8853 Рік тому

    Apondi...zero chills😂😂😂, self aware queen❤

  • @christineheri5096
    @christineheri5096 Рік тому

    I always wait for 'Apondi nya mama'

  • @estherwangui8449
    @estherwangui8449 Рік тому +2

    Hehehe true you don't need kids on your face 24/7

  • @homesteadingwiththeangafam2158

    Uuuiiii nimekimbia huku am still panting..

  • @naomianyango1051
    @naomianyango1051 Рік тому

    Damn!! I look forward to any vlog featuring Apondi

  • @jemelirose9953
    @jemelirose9953 Рік тому

    I love these women...*it is the Apondi lane for me*

  • @abbydoeskenyaobufu
    @abbydoeskenyaobufu Рік тому

    Putting a star on the reunification program⭐

  • @Angela_Wambugha
    @Angela_Wambugha Рік тому

    What a lovely conversation

  • @lindamwanzia3755
    @lindamwanzia3755 Рік тому

    Apondi is a wise woman!!!...Made me subscribe for more of this vybe🎉

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому +1

      Welcome to the channel. Watch 'Mum and me' playlist for more Apondi

  • @Asalix2
    @Asalix2 Рік тому

    Ati Modekaya Apwoyo? Eh aol!

  • @fellynamu
    @fellynamu Рік тому

    Apondi ❤️. You are wise.

  • @malkiawaalego2552
    @malkiawaalego2552 Рік тому +3

    Apondi nyar mama! Ok let me sit down now lol. Yebeyebe brrrrr krrrr 😂😂😂😂 maintain shurrup 😂😂😂 How profound, thank you for this candid discussion and for your openness Apondi of Apondi lane lol😂

    • @aduda9659
      @aduda9659 Рік тому

      Maintain shurrup😂😂😂😂...I love this

  • @Arungakate
    @Arungakate Рік тому

    Very informative 👏

  • @NyandengAGarang
    @NyandengAGarang Рік тому

    Thanks, Kitt and Apondi Nyamamaa, for such an amazing video😂

  • @itsjuliam
    @itsjuliam Рік тому

    I was my oldest at 32 for the same reason. Geriaric pregnancy. Ill throughout. Now, at 43, what is age? What is???

  • @lindak266
    @lindak266 Рік тому

    You guys are so cute doing the intro.

  • @aliciaaSylvie
    @aliciaaSylvie Рік тому

    This was so powerful 😊🎉❤❤❤

  • @Bethwel1
    @Bethwel1 Рік тому

    Agreement is not necessarily peace. Light bulb moment 💡 . I could just mean ceasefire.

  • @christinenaanyu8002
    @christinenaanyu8002 3 місяці тому

    I love Apondi

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 Рік тому +1

    Whenever I see Mama Apondi, I see Kitt's daughter and vice versa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @chriswaithes7512
    @chriswaithes7512 4 місяці тому

    Those doctors had no clue!
    How old is your child? The one you had when you were 34? .
    I had mine at 36 and another at 39, both placenta previa. But by the time i reached full term, the previa had corrected itself. Mine were 20 years ago.

  • @sofie9608
    @sofie9608 Рік тому

    I love the Apondi song

  • @julieopar2710
    @julieopar2710 Рік тому

    Mudkai Apuoyo….😂😂😂😂

  • @claudiaonsare875
    @claudiaonsare875 Рік тому

    Loooove Apondi.

  • @terryray3147
    @terryray3147 Рік тому

    Shame is wich kwot and it serves a very important purpose in society😅😅

  • @pattyray328
    @pattyray328 Рік тому

    Apondi my friend❤

  • @ruo.
    @ruo. Рік тому

    Apondis' humour🤣🤣🙌

  • @JamillahA
    @JamillahA Рік тому

    Apondi nyamama... Mmm Apondi.....(how do you not click like at that point) 😂

  • @florencewanjiku5411
    @florencewanjiku5411 Рік тому

    Apondi ❤ ❤.

  • @gracemumbi6219
    @gracemumbi6219 Рік тому

    NUGGETS GALORE!!!❤❤❤