मैं इन्हें बहुत वर्षों से जानती हूं।यह बहुत ही विचारणीय है,इनकी बहु तो स्वयं आर्मीमें है और उसे अपने रैंक के मुताबिक सुविधाएं मिल रही थी,अगर बेटे की सुविधाएं मां बाप को मिल जाती तो उनको एक सहारा हो जाता,न तो ट्रेन की सुविधा,न कैंटीन एवं मेडिकल की ।इस उम्र में मेडिकल की सुविधा बहुत महत्वपूर्ण होती है।
@@ramatyagi8165 to phir pension or army facility maa baap ko dene me kya dikkat h ....bahu to dono trf se mje kr rhi or maa baap ke aakho me aasu h ....ye aasu khi bahu ke liye baddua ka kaam na kr jaaye
Pehla adhikaar to gallantry award par parents ka hi hai jinhone apne bachche ki aisi parvarish ki aur aisi personality develop ki. Court ko intervene karna chahiye.
We are still stepping in boots made by the English. Why we could not craft as per Indian culture since 1947. Ministry of Defence and ,DOPT should should make necessary Changes
Kuch nahi milna cahiyey. Us soilder kay bacchon ka future kyon kharab ho. Yeh bikari parents apnay bachhon ko bankrupt kana cahtey hein. Children have no right to select their parents so parents should not stake claims on children's wealth if they are married.
all that the wife gets or parents gets is a choice that the soldier makes. If he knew his parents were not in good terms with the wife and there is insecurity in the job then in the Nomination form they should add their parents as well. I feel sad for the parents who have invested in their son for years and now what they get is nothing. This is also case in civil where sons are throwing their parents out on street to beg. They should educate the soldiers of all these realities of life
Biswaranjan Pattanayak, the benefits of a soldier are automatically diverted to his wife and children after his death. But he can write to the Army and instruct that a part of the pension etc should go to his parents.
Are moorkh ye khud. Govt servant likh ke jata kitna kisko milna this is not problem of system kuch pta nhi h to bakchodi Mt kro y totally uski declaration pr depends krta Jo o khud deta dept ko year me 2 bar mangta h ki if any casualty hoti to kisko kitna milega
@@mohitnegi8412bewkuf hi rhoge moorkh kisi army personnel se pucho y asa kyu y soldiers khud bharta h uski mrji 50% 50% v likh skta but Jo o likhega usiko milega smje
The family has finally spoken against the harrasment. It is important to speak against injustice. Just imagine this is the pain of family of Major Mohit Sharma. The system needs to be balanced. This is akin to dishonour of such heroes. The government must make sure that both the Family and wife of the soldier are taken care off. Both deserve equal mention and any compensation given must be divided accordingly. Currently the system is extremely biased.
it was in hand of him , he decided to give everything to wife . and second his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning . we must know the law before we beleive someone . it is a family dispute nothing else .
@@sonabhalke3486 First and foremost do not include Maj Mohit in this. NOK status in those times were automatically allotted to the wife. Major Mohit would never approve of a situation where his parents were denied entry to the Republic day ceremony because his wife would refuse to invite them. Moreover any compensation either in the form of insurance lumpsum or pension must be divided to both the wife and parents of fallen soldiers. If laws give money to the lady then she must divide money accordingly provided parents get nothing. The idea is to make sure no one is left dependent and this is basic ethical nature which must be applied to both parents and wife. You say that people are earning and not dependent but truth is there are many cases where parents are left helpless with zero compensation and zero pension because of different circumstances in different areas/states. Read about Naib Subedar Chuni Lal (most decorated Indian soldier) whose parents got nothing while the wife walked away with everything leaving them in depleted condition. Read about Lance Naik Govind Bhadouriya whose wife was in the process of obtaining divorce as she had an affair with another man but immediately arrived and took all compensation when husband died in Operation. She was such a sadist that she even fought for the medal and later lost the case.. Imagine what his parents must have felt when they couldn't even hold the medal forget money. This is not about wife or parents but about fairly compensating everyone who is affected. In case of Major Sharma the family has kept respectable silence all these years but imagine the insult and dishonour they were subjected to when they had to barge in the Republic Day ceremony to see their own son being awarded posthumously... Today with god's grace they are well to do but this is not the case every time.
@@sonabhalke3486no it was not in his hand if someone get killed automatically his wife get nok and his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning than why his wife is getting all the benefits? His wife is col in the army and I am saying this as a sosa
In the Award ceremonies the Parents are supposed to go with their Daughter in law. They too have lost their Son whom they groomed for so many years. These days, it seems very common amongst these Army families. Parents too need their Medical help, Canteen facilities etc. Am sorry to this all. Ma'am you should fight for your rights. Stay Blessed Ma'am
major mohit sharma ek legend hain aur unke mata pita ke upbringing, shikhsha, di hui educarion , values ki wajh se thi ...oosmein sirf mata pita ka credit hain 😢
@@MR.K.P.-mi4uh she lost her husband and she is alone , this lady has her husband and second son too . do you care about it ? she is unable to defend herself in media . do you care about that ? everything was done as per law and her son's wish . she is alone lady why should she be burdned with taking of them ? doesnt this lady has her husband and second son to take care ? NET nET is a family dispute for money and we must leave it at that .
@@SagarKumar-ub6oj ye baat mujhse acchi tarha kon janega jiske papa bhi army me rahe or ab chhota bhai bhi .. lekin main kya kahu jub mere father army me the tab meri mother bhi ek wife rahi hain or ab Mera Bhai army me hain to vo hi mother army person ki maa ho gayi ... Main to bs yahi samjhti hun ki dono ko respect milni chahiye bs wife apne authority ka fayda uthate hue saas sasur ko dukh na pahuchaye ... Or usi tarha saas sasur bhi apni bahu ke dukh ko samjhte hue usko hamesha ek family member ki tarha se rakhe ..taki kabhi ek hath se nahi bajti to dono ko ek dusre ke bare me soach chahiye
Punarbasit karne ki koi jarurat nahi hai. Duniya ke har desh me family matlab husband wife aur children hota hai. Parents come in extended family. Bas India me log itne laalchi hai ki bete ko investment samjhte hai usko apni nayi family basane nahi dete khud pure paiso par aiyaashi karna chate hai. Sharma aati hai Indian parents ki hipocracy par
Apni bakwas band karo tum..baaki desho se hame kya..ham india me hai...and here parents come before anyone else ..to khud ye baate banana band karo....or jo ye bol rahe ho ki family me wife or bacche hai ye rules Britishers ke time ka hai...hamne isme kuch change nhi kiya@@Raythelightlife
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz wah bhai wah agar parents pehle aate hai to shadi mat karo. India me parents laalchi hote hai bete ko ek investment samjhte hai. Isliye brainwash karte hai ki parents come first. Isliye India me khokh me bacchiya maar di jaati hai. Kyuki beta is an investment jeevan bhar uski kammayi khana hai. Aise bhikmango ko apne ladko ki shadi nahi karni chahiye
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz 🤣🤣🤣 tere laachi bhikmange parents Tera brainwash kiye hai. Lagta hai abhi single hai. Sun meri baad kabhi shadi mat karna. Tu ghar basane aur sambhalne ke kaabil nahi. Apne maa ki chaat Jaa kar
Kitna pain hai Maa ki aawaaz mein 🥺 Hey Bhagwaan inko strength dena 🙏 I pray for them 🙏 Shat Shat Naman Parents ko bhi aur Brave Late. Major Mohit Sharma ji ko 🙏🇮🇳
ससुराल छोड़ने पर और दूसरी शादी करने के बाद सारे अधिकार समाप्त होने चहिए। कानून इसके तहत बनना चाहिए। और मां बाप को क्यों नहीं पूछा जाता है। जबकि सबसे बड़ा अधिकार मां बाप का है। और शहीद की पत्नी ससुराल में ही रहती है तो उसको सारे अधिकार हैं। मगर शादी करेगी तो सब कुछ समाप्त।
@@NeelamSharma23500 next shaadi karne par woh naye pati par depend hogi na, toh usko pichle husband se jo faida utha rhi thi woh khatam ho jayega.. tum dono pati se faida nhi utha sakti.. ye law ke khilaf hai.. esa hai toh dono admi se shaadi karna padega jo ki hindu law ke anusar allowed nhi hai.. agar bacha hai toh sirf us bache ka maintenance ke lie hi paisa milega..
I recently visited Major Mohit Sharma metro station in ghaziabad for exam centre and I'm grateful to the UP government to give metro station on the name of martyrs ❤ and it's beautiful and cleaned city and well maintained then Delhi. I also prayed their where Mohit Sharma sir statue was placed and I hope all people of India should be together when it's comes to nation 🙏❤
मैं स्वयं एक बहू हूं और एक सैनिक की पत्नी हूं,, पत्नी को अधिकार मिलने चाहिए,,,,पर मां की जगह पत्नी नहीं ले सकती इसलिए मेरी बहनों से प्रार्थना है कि सास को मां की तरह समझें,,, जीवन में मुश्किलें आती हैं पर परिवार में सामंजस्य बना कर रखें,,,हम औरतों को भगवान ने बहुत शक्ति दी है और बहुत सारी जिम्मेदारीयां भी हमें खुशी खुशी इनको निभाना चाहिए 🙏
V sad to hear Heart touching real story Changes should be done Parents are sufferers Why A girl in very short duration getting everything Parents are no where Govt should look into these matters
शहीद को जो भी सम्मान दिया जाये वो माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए, ताकि उसकी आने वाली पीढियां उसको देखकर गर्व महसूस करें NOK rules bilkul galat hai so sad for parents😢
I raised this issue in smriti case also. NOK , misuse of female centric laws , all other related stuff . And all feminists came heavily . Luckily people awareness have increased and several voices in support of Parents have grown immensely..I hope this idiotic rules change and parents get their due recognition which should be primary and not secondary .🙏
Teri maturiry kahan gayi alok srivastava. Mujhe pata hai army main will kaise banwayi jati hai. Zabardasti wife ko hi dena hota hai sab kutch nahi toh CO piche pad jata hai.
Parents ka haq pehle hai kyonki wife apni ichhaanusar shadi karti hai koi jabardasti uski shaadi nhin karwata par maa baap kya jo apne bachhe ke saamne haar maan jaate hain @@aloksrivastava2797
जो भी अपने जिंदगी में द बेस्ट होते हैं वही अपने देश के लिए सर्वोच्च बलिदान देते हैं। और हमारे देश के सैनिक तो, पूरे विश्व में सर्वश्रेष्ठ हैं। हमारे देश के सैनिक श्रेष्ठ बलिदानी होते हैं। इसीलिए तो हमारा देश सशक्त और सुरक्षित है
🙏aunty ji Major Aashish Dhonchak's sister here. Hamarè saath bhi yahi hua h.Parents aur siblings is dukh k saath jeeta h ,wife to apne parents k pas rehne k liye chali jaati h
You should approach Supreme Court through PIL with documetry evidence of all such cases. Your community have lot of reputed lawyers and dominance in politics. There are still men of integrity who shall consider themselves fortunate to fight such cases.
Major Ashish Dhonchak will always be remembered for his selfless and supreme sacrifices for this Motherland 🇮🇳. May God give the tremendous support and love to his entire family 🙏🎉🙏 Major's selfless sacrifice will always be remembered till ages and also it will work as a fuel of motivation for the energetic youth of this country 🙏🇮🇳🙏
This was a very heart breaking interview. The parents have been totally neglected by the Army. Very astonishing. This is being so cruel to the mother, who has given birth. Why is the daughter in law being so insensitive? Please change NOK rules to the satisfaction of all.
it was her Son who decided to give everything to wife and this lady's husband is well earning and getting benefits of bank . they are not on road that she is needs medical benefits etc and why not this expectation from their second son who is alive ???? we need to differentiat between family fued and actual requirement
@@anii9398 what is the definition of depedent ??? Her husband is getting benefits from govt bank retirement . And they have their second son too why no one questions him that why your parents are Not being looked after by you after his death . Sasural and bahu ke fights commin hey . Jo yahab gyan de rahe hey woh bhi jane kya karte hoge real life mein .
@@sonabhalke3486 you are totally wrong over here. Parents are equally dependent on their son as his wife is. He might be receiving salary or pension but contrary to that she is also earning a good salary. Equal distribution should have been there in case of disagreement between the wife and parents of the major. No one has the sole right over his martyrdom. Even till now his father is paying loan EMIs for the house in which they aren't even allowed to enter. Pathetic.
इसमें कोई दो राय नहीं पत्नी की आयु को देखते हुए उसे लम्बे समय तक संघर्ष करना पड़ता है। फिर भी सरकार को असाहय बुजुर्ग माता-पिता का ध्यान में रखते हुए आर्थिक रूप से सहायता करनी चाहिए। सम्पूर्ण राष्ट्र भारत माता के महान सपूतों का ऋणी रहेगा। जय हिन्द वन्दे मातरम् 🙏🌹🌹🌹🇮🇳
@@prakashtiwari8003 श्रीमान प्रकाश तिवारी जी मैंने ये नहीं कहा कि माता पिता को कुछ नहीं मिले। आर्थिक सहायता अवश्य मिले ताकि उनके बाकी के जीवन में कम से कम शारीरिक कष्ट हो।🙏🇮🇳
@@VijaySharma-zj7pi sab cheez radar main laao. Kitni property hai parents ki. Kisko kitna mila. Gold kitna hai . Bahu ko bhi equal haq mile. Fir pension bhi divide ho.
क्यों माता पिता का अपमान किया जाता है सरकार और सेना द्वारा ? पैसा चाहे औरत को दो पर सम्मान माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए , क्योंकि वो ही दो लोग है जिन्होंने किसी वीर पुत्र या पुरुष को शारीरिक और मानसिक रूप से तैयार किया है
this is agree both parents and wife should be respected but if she is talking about money n all uska husband decide kiya ismein galti hey to ladke ki hey
Very sad , Parents must have given rights for their child . Parents pain is very limitless ,only Parents in same situation can understand their pain 😭😭
Throughout the video I could not stop my tears....😢..last me jo Bola I support this ....agar in-laws ki care krti hai to hi unko nok ka right dena chahiye .....judiciary must intervene the nok matter
Mam you & your son has done enough for this country. I salute you for giving birth & raising son like mohit. I wish best for you & mohit's father. God bless you mam.
@@God...............Ek umar ke baad and jab kamane lage to khud ka baccha apne maa baap ka dependant nahi mana jata. Maa baap ke baad bachhe pension nahi draw kar sakte, unhe maa-baap ki medical policy ka benefit nahi milta. To kya biwi hi itni gayi gujri hai, ki ek to uska apna khud ka family hai, wo aapke barabar ki insaan hai, khud kama bhi rahi hai, phir bhi dependant mani jaye. Isme to spouses ko khud beizzati mehsoos honi chahiye. Jahan aapke maa-baap, bhai-behen, bacche hak nahi jama sakte, to biwi ko kyu. Aur yadi biwi ka hak hai, to phir dost yaron ko bhi de hi do. Biwi ka to bas business contract wala relation hota hai, bacchon ke khatir ek sajhedari. Unse purana, unse gehra aur saga rishta to apne dost yaron se koi bhi feel karta hai. Yadi khoon ke rishte ko neecha dikhakar relationships of choice ka argument dena fashionable ho gya hai, to phir theek hai, unhi ke level par aate hain. Apni family ho hak nahi de sakte, to biwi ko bhi nahi milna chahiye. Dost yaar ko bana do NOK, wahi le jaayein phir. 😂
हमारे पड़ोस में एक भईया शहीद हुए थे, उन्होंने लव मैरिज कि थी घर वालों के खिलाफ़ जाकर, उनके शहिद होने के बाद उनकी मां ने सबके सामने बोला था की यह लड़की मेरे बेटे को खा गई और उसे घर पर रखने से मना कर दिया ।उसके कुछ समय बाद उन्होंने अपने छोटे बेटे की शादी उस लड़की से करवाई, लड़की के घरवालों को मनाकर क्योंकि नौकरी और पैसा तो लड़की को ही मिला था। क्या अब वो लड़की उनके छोटे बेटे के लिए सही है? यह दुनिया बोहत दोगली है... बोहत ज्यादा।
Immense gratitude and respect towards your acquaintance for his service and sacrifice. A great son to his nation. Unfortunately, with all due respect, I must say, that he failed in his duty to his own parents if he left them behind for that girl. Rahi baat aunty ke u-turn ki, to pehle hi sarkar maa-baap ko bacche ka next of kin maanti, unhe unke deceased son ke effects aur inheritance deti, to aunty ko compromise hi nahi karna padta. Beta unka tha, family unka tha, morally correct yahi hai ki wahi apne bacche ki legacy ki hakdaar hoti. System chutiya ho to logon ko gande samjhautey karne padte hain. Ladki ka koi hak hi kyu banta hai. Wo apne family par claim kare, apna khud ka kuch achieve kare aur apni legacy apne family aur aage ki generations ke liye chhode. Apna family, apna career, apna self-esteem drain me phek kar dusre par kabja kyu jama rahi hai. Tumhare martyr bhaiya ko na hi usne paal pos kar bada kiya hai, na hi sath me pali badhi hai ki uski koi common heritage ho, na hi wo unka baccha hai. Faltu ke sexual relationship bas to hai, asal mudde ki baat karein to, aur on the paper wala rishta. Ladke bacche hote to thoda kuch value bhi hoti ki chalo business partner jaisi baat hai, mutually owned business ke interests apke alawa apka business partner execute kar sakta hai. Us sense mein, kyuki baap ke legacy par bacche ka hak banta hai aur guardian uski maa hai to bacche ke behalf par wo uske finances execute kar sakti hai. Yahan to bas havas-panti ke balboote par log hawa me udd rahe hain. Uske apne khoon ka koi hak nahi par outsider log mauz udate baithe hai. Pehle ke jamane ki baat alag thi, women ke liye opportunities nahi thi, unko independent hone nahi diya jata tha, jisse ki husband unka misuse kar ke unhe exploit kar ke khud maze kar sake, to unhe jabardasti husband ke bharose jeena padta tha. Phir achanak se husband mar gya, to bure job market me company bankrupt ho gayi wala haal jo jayega. To us time women ko husband ke wealth me hak dena sense banta tha as a form of social security, as a form of compensation and affirmative action against patriarchy ne unse jo kuch cheena, uske liye. But, ye aaj kal ki ladkiyon ko kyu mile. Char paanch saal purani, bina bacchon wali shaadi me kyu mile. Aap log capable hai, apke paas choice hai, phir bhi aap log khud ye purane jamane ki majboori ko ideal mann kar baithi hain, normalise kar liya hai. Yahan tak ki romanticise kar rahi hain aise ghatiya idea ko jo kehta hai ki "spousal relation top priority hoga, spouse guardian hoga, spouse ka aapke upar first claim hoga". Aapke samajh nahi aata hai ki sexual relationship ko true love wala hype ke peeche kitna neech, kitna sexist, kitna women ke reproductive autonomy ko restrict karne ki mentality, unka jo next generation par itna bada influence hota hai usko exploit karke administrative and political agendas fulfill karne ke liye ye itna misogynist system banaya gaya hai. Ye aapko inferior samajhta hai, aapko fetishize karta hai, aapko sexual partner ki property bana kar rakh diya gaya tha, reduced to little better than a slave, aapka ghar, aapka wealth, aapka adhikar yahan tak ki apke apni legacy tak is system ne aapse cheen li hai. Jab aapko itna helpless and apni khud ki family se isolate kar diya, to aapke fear and desperation ko, sense of abandonment ko, ek stockholm syndrome ko ye log aapko pyaar, mohabbat aur janam-janam ka sath etc me lapet kar, romanticize kar ke aapke dimaag me bhar diye hai, aap ko delude karne ke liye ki tum isi shoshan ko ideal mano, isi beizzati me kush ho, tum insan nahi ek commodity ho, ek tool ho aur usi me tumhari shaan hai. Aapko thoos thoos kar religion, dharam granth, kahani, movies, gaane, yahan tak ki bhoole bhatake aapke apne family aur society se ye jehar me indoctrinate kiya hai. Aaj aapka haal ye hai aap isi kharab system jisne aapka, aapki maa ka, aapki kitni purwazon ko exploit kiya hai, aap usi ke paksh me bol rahi hain.
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Very Seriously issue parents ko bhi 40 percent Haq milna chahiye Medical Facility bhi Deni chahiye Pension bhi parents ko mile Major Mohit Ki wife already Army officer hai now Full Colonel hai salary leti hai pension stopage immediately
Major Mohit Sharma are born once in a century. Goverment , Indian Army and even courts should come forward for his parents . They deserve all respects and benefits. I pray from God
100% Responsibility lies with son. It is he who has to nominate his parents and wife. Daughter in law must give some financial support to parents. This is her responsibility.
No; son cannot do that. As per NOK rules, after marriage, the soldier's wife get the 1st preference and all preference in case of the soldier's death.. That's the rule.
Does nomination work in nok? I have not been able to find it out.Will applies to “estates” only,pension and pensionary benefits are given to nok only.But can a military personnel change his/her nok.Because after marriage nok is by default changed to spouse.
@@karv80The pension benefits are switched to the wife after marriage, it is true. But soldiers can write to the authorities and add their parents name to the NoK. They can also mention the percentage of allocations to each party.
मैं इन्हें बहुत वर्षों से जानती हूं।यह बहुत ही विचारणीय है,इनकी बहु तो स्वयं आर्मीमें है और उसे अपने रैंक के मुताबिक सुविधाएं मिल रही थी,अगर बेटे की सुविधाएं मां बाप को मिल जाती तो उनको एक सहारा हो जाता,न तो ट्रेन की सुविधा,न कैंटीन एवं मेडिकल की ।इस उम्र में मेडिकल की सुविधा बहुत महत्वपूर्ण होती है।
You are right❤❤
Help kro didi aap...wo besharm bahu ne uske naam se sena me nokri bhi le li lekin maa baap ka hak maar liya us besharm aurat ne ....or army kya kr rhi
Maa baap ka haq maara? Use govt de Rahi hai. @@manusingh-ip9ir
@@manusingh-ip9irनौकरी ली नहीं पहले से ही आर्मी में हैं।
@@ramatyagi8165 to phir pension or army facility maa baap ko dene me kya dikkat h ....bahu to dono trf se mje kr rhi or maa baap ke aakho me aasu h ....ye aasu khi bahu ke liye baddua ka kaam na kr jaaye
She is a women who did raise a legend like Major Mohit Sharma, she indeed deserves everything...🙏🏻❤
True.Parents have equal rights as wife.
@@shaikifthekar5957 much more than the wife
I am mohits buddy. Don't perpetrate falsehood. The parents are devils.
@@chacharesarish581 when you don't know the whole facts it's better not to pass loose comments
@@shaikifthekar5957 yes that is just and fine but not all one sided
सेना में शहीद के मां बाप को भी हक मिलना चाहिए
Hearts of life partners are won, wars are won, and vice-versa. Specialists knows the strategy. Hak is always given, still hak is confusing in meaning.
@@Subhash-v2p jiske maa baap bhikmange hai wo apne ladke ki shadi na kare. Pura paise milega. Maze hi maze
Are khahna kya chahte ho😅😢@@Sagar4321-q4v
Koi army join krta h to parents ki vjah se wife k vajh se nhi saari suvidhae wife ko di jaati h after marriage this is wrong
Sena me to ma Pita bachhae ko bhejnae ki himmt kartae haen phir into kaesae ignore keya ja sakta.Glantry award to parents ko hi milna chaheya
अंशुमान की मां और मोहित शर्मा की मां को सौ बार नमन जिन्होंने इस क़ानून को बदलने का साहस किया और ईश्वर से प्रार्थना करते हैं कि इन्हें सफलता मिले
Agree 👍💯
Pehla adhikaar to gallantry award par parents ka hi hai jinhone apne bachche ki aisi parvarish ki aur aisi personality develop ki. Court ko intervene karna chahiye.
माँ बहुत कष्ट में है 😥सरकार से अपील है इनकी सहायता करें 🙏
I ❤️ u major sahaab🥹
आजादी के दिन ये सब देखना, सुनना और वो दर्द महसूस करना। कितना दुर्भाग्यपूर्ण है।
Mam aap bilkul sahi hai aapko justice milna chahiye 😢😢😢😢😢
Bolne c mill jayega
शहीद की माता बिलकुल सही बात कह रही है...कृपया सरकार को शहीदों की पत्नी के साथ साथ माता पिता का भी ध्यान रखना चाहिए
This is the mirror of our Indian Administrative system
We are still stepping in boots made by the English. Why we could not craft as per Indian culture since 1947.
Ministry of Defence and ,DOPT should should make necessary Changes
ये इंडियन एडमिनिस्ट्रेशन की नहीं बल्कि ब्रिटिश परंपरा वाली भारतीय सेना का नियम है।
मां बाप का बच्चे पर सबसे पहला हक होता है।🎉❤
Are dost normal aadmi pe itna against laws h army walo pe choro
Also the marriage institution
Ye angraizo ka qanoon hoga Pakistan me parents first . Idhar army parents ko pehle credit dyti hy
Indian Army should provide justice to the parents of Army staff
शहीद के माता पिता दर दर की ठोकरें खा रहे हैं सेना में नियम बदलने होंगे माता-पिता को हक मिलना चाहिए इस मां के आंसुओं की कोई कीमत नहीं है, 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Badlav hona chahiye
Kuch nahi milna cahiyey. Us soilder kay bacchon ka future kyon kharab ho. Yeh bikari parents apnay bachhon ko bankrupt kana cahtey hein. Children have no right to select their parents so parents should not stake claims on children's wealth if they are married.
मा बाप ही एक वीर सपूत को जन्म देती है
Ye Jo kolkatta me rape case hua wo bhi maa baap ka hi saput tha
all that the wife gets or parents gets is a choice that the soldier makes. If he knew his parents were not in good terms with the wife and there is insecurity in the job then in the Nomination form they should add their parents as well. I feel sad for the parents who have invested in their son for years and now what they get is nothing. This is also case in civil where sons are throwing their parents out on street to beg. They should educate the soldiers of all these realities of life
माता पिता कोभी सम्मान दिया जाना चाहिए तिरंगा हमें उनके सपूतों के बलिदान से मिला है सरकार की जिम्मेदारी है पूरे परिवार को मदद करें 🎉
एक मां के दिल में कितना दुख है मां का भी सामान बराबर होना चाहिए
You are such a strong woman...salute to you
ब्रिटिश परंपरा वाला ये नियम खत्म होना चाहिए।जवानों को दी जाने वाली मदद पर मां बाप का पहला हक है।
सत्यमेव जयते 🎉❤
एक मां के अंदर कितना दर्द है😢😢😢
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Army officers need to write their wills seriously if they want compensation to be given to parents after their death.
Absolutely, valid point..
Alll men
That is by default given to wife.They can't put will as their parents after marriage as per army rules
Do you even know the meaning of will?
@@biswaranjanpattnaik7962
Biswaranjan Pattanayak, the benefits of a soldier are automatically diverted to his wife and children after his death. But he can write to the Army and instruct that a part of the pension etc should go to his parents.
Shame on our system and on such daughter in law
bilkul ye desh ke lie he prem hai ki gov itna nahi bhi karti fir bhi jaan dete hai jawan is desh ke lie ....sharam se doob mare gov
@@mohitnegi8412 ye law abhi aaya hai kya jo gov ko ab gaali de rha h ...
Are moorkh ye khud. Govt servant likh ke jata kitna kisko milna this is not problem of system kuch pta nhi h to bakchodi Mt kro y totally uski declaration pr depends krta Jo o khud deta dept ko year me 2 bar mangta h ki if any casualty hoti to kisko kitna milega
@@mohitnegi8412bewkuf hi rhoge moorkh kisi army personnel se pucho y asa kyu y soldiers khud bharta h uski mrji 50% 50% v likh skta but Jo o likhega usiko milega smje
@@Aheeryaduvansdost abhi tak koi option nhi tha automatically wife ko nok manajata ha . Ab kuch change ho jaye to acha hoga
Very very heartbreaking. I don't have any words for these girls. ☹️
The family has finally spoken against the harrasment. It is important to speak against injustice. Just imagine this is the pain of family of Major Mohit Sharma. The system needs to be balanced. This is akin to dishonour of such heroes. The government must make sure that both the Family and wife of the soldier are taken care off. Both deserve equal mention and any compensation given must be divided accordingly. Currently the system is extremely biased.
it was in hand of him , he decided to give everything to wife . and second his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning . we must know the law before we beleive someone . it is a family dispute nothing else .
@@sonabhalke3486 First and foremost do not include Maj Mohit in this. NOK status in those times were automatically allotted to the wife. Major Mohit would never approve of a situation where his parents were denied entry to the Republic day ceremony because his wife would refuse to invite them. Moreover any compensation either in the form of insurance lumpsum or pension must be divided to both the wife and parents of fallen soldiers. If laws give money to the lady then she must divide money accordingly provided parents get nothing. The idea is to make sure no one is left dependent and this is basic ethical nature which must be applied to both parents and wife. You say that people are earning and not dependent but truth is there are many cases where parents are left helpless with zero compensation and zero pension because of different circumstances in different areas/states. Read about Naib Subedar Chuni Lal (most decorated Indian soldier) whose parents got nothing while the wife walked away with everything leaving them in depleted condition. Read about Lance Naik Govind Bhadouriya whose wife was in the process of obtaining divorce as she had an affair with another man but immediately arrived and took all compensation when husband died in Operation. She was such a sadist that she even fought for the medal and later lost the case.. Imagine what his parents must have felt when they couldn't even hold the medal forget money. This is not about wife or parents but about fairly compensating everyone who is affected. In case of Major Sharma the family has kept respectable silence all these years but imagine the insult and dishonour they were subjected to when they had to barge in the Republic Day ceremony to see their own son being awarded posthumously... Today with god's grace they are well to do but this is not the case every time.
@@sonabhalke3486no it was not in his hand if someone get killed automatically his wife get nok and his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning than why his wife is getting all the benefits? His wife is col in the army and I am saying this as a sosa
There are many more cases like this.... it's so sad to see... after their son's demise parents has to suffer this much...😢
@@sonabhalke3486 yahi to baba saheb ka samvidhan hai
मेरे आंखों में आसू आ गया ❤❤❤😢😢
आजकल के रिस्तो मे इतनी खटास है कि क्या बोले माँ का दर्ज़ा सब से बड़ा है बहुत दुःख हुवा देख के🙏❤️
How sad that Parents couldn't attend their ceremonies
How sad that Parents couldn't attend their ceremonies
In the Award ceremonies the Parents are supposed to go with their Daughter in law.
They too have lost their Son whom they groomed for so many years.
These days, it seems very common amongst these Army families.
Parents too need their Medical help, Canteen facilities etc.
Am sorry to this all.
Ma'am you should fight for your rights.
Stay Blessed Ma'am
@@pushpakanyalsawant4051 well said dear 💕🙏
Shame on now colnel Reshma Sarin
सरकार इन भावनाओं को नजर अंदाज नहीं कर सकती।।। सैल्यूट है इन माता जी को।।।मगर अफसोस इन आसुंओ को न्याय मिलेगा भी या नहीं हमारे सिस्टम में।।।।😢
Ye log apni izzat k karan itne sal chup rahe .
We are with them
major mohit sharma ek legend hain aur unke mata pita ke upbringing, shikhsha, di hui educarion , values ki wajh se thi ...oosmein sirf mata pita ka credit hain 😢
This lady is speaking the truth.
not really we dont know other side of story
@@sonabhalke3486She lost her son. Do Anyone care about that???
@@MR.K.P.-mi4uh she lost her husband and she is alone , this lady has her husband and second son too . do you care about it ? she is unable to defend herself in media . do you care about that ? everything was done as per law and her son's wish . she is alone lady why should she be burdned with taking of them ? doesnt this lady has her husband and second son to take care ? NET nET is a family dispute for money and we must leave it at that .
@@sonabhalke3486 usne apne husband ya fr uske bcche ko 9 mhine womb m ni rkha jo vo ye dard smj payegi.
@@Dannyy1300 haan if your father dies ( bhagwan na kare ) to yeh question apni maan se bhi poochna )
ऐसा ही रहा तो परिवार अपना बच्चा सेना में भर्ती के लिए तैयार नहीं करेंगे 😢😢
Haan sach me aisi stories sunne ke baad parents ko man nahi karega apne baccho ko is line me bhejne ka
@@worldofahomemaker आर्मी में पत्नी नही मां बाप भेजते हैं बीवी बाद में आती हैं
@@SagarKumar-ub6oj ye baat mujhse acchi tarha kon janega jiske papa bhi army me rahe or ab chhota bhai bhi .. lekin main kya kahu jub mere father army me the tab meri mother bhi ek wife rahi hain or ab Mera Bhai army me hain to vo hi mother army person ki maa ho gayi ... Main to bs yahi samjhti hun ki dono ko respect milni chahiye bs wife apne authority ka fayda uthate hue saas sasur ko dukh na pahuchaye ... Or usi tarha saas sasur bhi apni bahu ke dukh ko samjhte hue usko hamesha ek family member ki tarha se rakhe ..taki kabhi ek hath se nahi bajti to dono ko ek dusre ke bare me soach chahiye
@@worldofahomemaker नमन करता हूं आपके परिवार को 🙏🙏🙏
@@SagarKumar-ub6oj 🙏😊
Mohit Sir is only one piece in India and his greatness will inspire millions of youngsters ❤
This is bound to happen in this country ..keep on serving this beautiful country 👏👏
Offcouse by seeing his mom crying Mohit sir soul will crying too..
सवाल तो उठता है जब अपने मां बाप ही सुरक्षित नहीं तो देश के सेवा किसके लिए शहादत किसके लिए
Bai system ka weakness hai beta ki nahi
कितनी टीस है।
दर्द के साथ अपमान-दर्द की कोई सीमा नहीं
सरकार रिश्तों को पुनर्भाषित करे
Paiso ke liye apne bete ko badnaam kar rahe hai maa baap. Jub paise khud hi rakhne the to shadi kyu kiye ladke ki
Punarbasit karne ki koi jarurat nahi hai. Duniya ke har desh me family matlab husband wife aur children hota hai. Parents come in extended family. Bas India me log itne laalchi hai ki bete ko investment samjhte hai usko apni nayi family basane nahi dete khud pure paiso par aiyaashi karna chate hai.
Sharma aati hai Indian parents ki hipocracy par
Apni bakwas band karo tum..baaki desho se hame kya..ham india me hai...and here parents come before anyone else ..to khud ye baate banana band karo....or jo ye bol rahe ho ki family me wife or bacche hai ye rules Britishers ke time ka hai...hamne isme kuch change nhi kiya@@Raythelightlife
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz wah bhai wah agar parents pehle aate hai to shadi mat karo. India me parents laalchi hote hai bete ko ek investment samjhte hai. Isliye brainwash karte hai ki parents come first. Isliye India me khokh me bacchiya maar di jaati hai. Kyuki beta is an investment jeevan bhar uski kammayi khana hai. Aise bhikmango ko apne ladko ki shadi nahi karni chahiye
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz 🤣🤣🤣 tere laachi bhikmange parents Tera brainwash kiye hai. Lagta hai abhi single hai. Sun meri baad kabhi shadi mat karna. Tu ghar basane aur sambhalne ke kaabil nahi. Apne maa ki chaat Jaa kar
Brave mother of Brave son!!
Lots of repsect..
Shaheed ke mata pita ko izzat aur sukoon ki zindagi milni chahiye...Major Mohit Sharma amar rahe 🙏JAI HIND
आजादी ऐसे बहु से साहिए देश को। मा बाप का दुःख सबसे भारी।
Sir ma bhi fouji hu .आँखों में आंसू aa गए फौजी कभी रोता नहीं है पर ऐसे बात सुनकर और क्या करे ❤❤❤❤❤. माता जी की हेल्प करो
Apni nok badlao sir fir
I fully agree with the mother of Shaheed Mohit Sharma Parents should be protected
शत् शत् नमन् 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐💐💐🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Kitna pain hai Maa ki aawaaz mein 🥺
Hey Bhagwaan inko strength dena 🙏
I pray for them 🙏
Shat Shat Naman Parents ko bhi aur Brave Late. Major Mohit Sharma ji ko 🙏🇮🇳
माँ बाप पाल कर देश को बेटा देते हैं सरकार उनके साथ ऐसा सलूक करती है ऐसे माँ बाप का सम्मान होना चाहिए
ससुराल छोड़ने पर और दूसरी शादी करने के बाद सारे अधिकार समाप्त होने चहिए। कानून इसके तहत बनना चाहिए। और मां बाप को क्यों नहीं पूछा जाता है। जबकि सबसे बड़ा अधिकार मां बाप का है। और शहीद की पत्नी ससुराल में ही रहती है तो उसको सारे अधिकार हैं। मगर शादी करेगी तो सब कुछ समाप्त।
Right
Inke case me to uss aurat ne shadi ni ki h pr sab kuch le gayi.... 50-50 milna chahiye, jbtk wo next shadi ni krti....
@@NeelamSharma23500 next shaadi karne par woh naye pati par depend hogi na, toh usko pichle husband se jo faida utha rhi thi woh khatam ho jayega..
tum dono pati se faida nhi utha sakti.. ye law ke khilaf hai.. esa hai toh dono admi se shaadi karna padega jo ki hindu law ke anusar allowed nhi hai..
agar bacha hai toh sirf us bache ka maintenance ke lie hi paisa milega..
@@sourabhkumar3852 Haan... Next shadi krne pr 50% wife ki pension again parents ko transfer ho Jani chahiye....
सरकार को सैन्य बलों के साथ साथ केन्द्र और राज्य की सेवाओं में भी माता पिता की देखभाल और उनके अधिकार के बारे में नियम बनाने चाहिए।
Such a sensible lady
Well said👍 parents का bhi अधिकार है बेटे पर
Salut to mothers
All are requested to raise the voice of parents...
I recently visited Major Mohit Sharma metro station in ghaziabad for exam centre and I'm grateful to the UP government to give metro station on the name of martyrs ❤ and it's beautiful and cleaned city and well maintained then Delhi. I also prayed their where Mohit Sharma sir statue was placed and I hope all people of India should be together when it's comes to nation 🙏❤
Bilkul shi. ..parents should have more rights
Salute to this Mother❤ 🫡 Bahut Bojh ott rkha hai unhone apne dil m🥺
मैं स्वयं एक बहू हूं और एक सैनिक की पत्नी हूं,, पत्नी को अधिकार मिलने चाहिए,,,,पर मां की जगह पत्नी नहीं ले सकती इसलिए मेरी बहनों से प्रार्थना है कि सास को मां की तरह समझें,,, जीवन में मुश्किलें आती हैं पर परिवार में सामंजस्य बना कर रखें,,,हम औरतों को भगवान ने बहुत शक्ति दी है और बहुत सारी जिम्मेदारीयां भी हमें खुशी खुशी इनको निभाना चाहिए 🙏
Speechless......hurt
आर्मी (सेना) का कानून अंधा है। क्या डिफैंस मिनिस्ट्री (भारत सरकार ) तत्काल नियमों में संशोधन करके माता पिता के साथ न्याय करेगी।
Pura desh ka kanoon hi andha hai bhai
Uche log apne mutabik use kr lete hai
Nahi karegi
@@PrinceCommonsenseI can understand that Fellow could not decipher Hindi.
V sad to hear
Heart touching real story
Changes should be done
Parents are sufferers
Why A girl in very short duration getting everything
Parents are no where
Govt should look into these matters
शहीद को जो भी सम्मान दिया जाये वो माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए, ताकि उसकी आने वाली पीढियां उसको देखकर गर्व महसूस करें NOK rules bilkul galat hai so sad for parents😢
कितना दुर्भाग्यपूर्ण है। Please have a look on this ASAP 🙏🙏🙏
माँ का हक़ पूरा होना चाहिए
I raised this issue in smriti case also. NOK , misuse of female centric laws , all other related stuff . And all feminists came heavily . Luckily people awareness have increased and several voices in support of Parents have grown immensely..I hope this idiotic rules change and parents get their due recognition which should be primary and not secondary .🙏
A mother gives son to tha nation, not a wife, why she is glorified? She even remarried. Can our nation not respect a mother?
Shame on your ideology. You can't compare mother with any one on this earth.n@@aloksrivastava2797
Teri maturiry kahan gayi alok srivastava. Mujhe pata hai army main will kaise banwayi jati hai. Zabardasti wife ko hi dena hota hai sab kutch nahi toh CO piche pad jata hai.
Parents ka haq pehle hai kyonki wife apni ichhaanusar shadi karti hai koi jabardasti uski shaadi nhin karwata par maa baap kya jo apne bachhe ke saamne haar maan jaate hain @@aloksrivastava2797
Oye inki wife ne bhi dobara shadi krl.i@@guptagup8909
@@Moanacookinghub aaj ke time me sari ladkiya aisi hi hai , kuch din pahle bhi same case aaya tha
सरकार को शहीदों के माता पिता के हित में नियम बनाने चाहिए।
Bhaut smjdaar hai mohit bhai ki maaa ♥️♥️♥️
Really ❤
@RitikaGoyat-fh8gm ha ji ❤️❤️❤️
जो भी अपने जिंदगी में द बेस्ट होते हैं वही अपने देश के लिए सर्वोच्च बलिदान देते हैं। और हमारे देश के सैनिक तो, पूरे विश्व में सर्वश्रेष्ठ हैं। हमारे देश के सैनिक श्रेष्ठ बलिदानी होते हैं। इसीलिए तो हमारा देश सशक्त और सुरक्षित है
🙏aunty ji
Major Aashish Dhonchak's sister here. Hamarè saath bhi yahi hua h.Parents aur siblings is dukh k saath jeeta h ,wife to apne parents k pas rehne k liye chali jaati h
We all now feel ur pain thru youtube video ,govt shud take strict decision 4 parents n siblings
I seen major Ashish's mother's video n ur papa also tear were dere in my eyes
You should approach Supreme Court through PIL with documetry evidence of all such cases.
Your community have lot of reputed lawyers and dominance in politics.
There are still men of integrity who shall consider themselves fortunate to fight such cases.
Major Ashish Dhonchak will always be remembered for his selfless and supreme sacrifices for this Motherland 🇮🇳.
May God give the tremendous support and love to his entire family 🙏🎉🙏
Major's selfless sacrifice will always be remembered till ages and also it will work as a fuel of motivation for the energetic youth of this country 🙏🇮🇳🙏
Par app ki babhi Tu bool rahe ha ve rahna chate ha app ke sath leken app rakhna nhi chate, kya ye sach ha
This was a very heart breaking interview. The parents have been totally neglected by the Army. Very astonishing. This is being so cruel to the mother, who has given birth. Why is the daughter in law being so insensitive? Please change NOK rules to the satisfaction of all.
it was her Son who decided to give everything to wife and this lady's husband is well earning and getting benefits of bank . they are not on road that she is needs medical benefits etc and why not this expectation from their second son who is alive ???? we need to differentiat between family fued and actual requirement
For her It is not about money... But there r sm parents who r totally dependent on there sons... So army has to change there rules
@@anii9398 what is the definition of depedent ??? Her husband is getting benefits from govt bank retirement . And they have their second son too why no one questions him that why your parents are Not being looked after by you after his death . Sasural and bahu ke fights commin hey . Jo yahab gyan de rahe hey woh bhi jane kya karte hoge real life mein .
@@anii9398 in his parents case it is not a fact they have another son and a retire bank employee pension too and it was their son”s choice
@@sonabhalke3486 you are totally wrong over here. Parents are equally dependent on their son as his wife is. He might be receiving salary or pension but contrary to that she is also earning a good salary. Equal distribution should have been there in case of disagreement between the wife and parents of the major. No one has the sole right over his martyrdom. Even till now his father is paying loan EMIs for the house in which they aren't even allowed to enter. Pathetic.
Ek aulaad par maa se jyada haq kisi ka nahi ho sakta , patni ka bhi nahi 😢😢😢
Sahi bat hai
😢😢😢😢 Maa G Belive upon D mighty. Radhe Radhe🙏🙏🙏🙏
Full support to you ma'am
इसमें कोई दो राय नहीं पत्नी की आयु को देखते हुए उसे लम्बे समय तक संघर्ष करना पड़ता है। फिर भी सरकार को असाहय बुजुर्ग माता-पिता का ध्यान में रखते हुए आर्थिक रूप से सहायता करनी चाहिए। सम्पूर्ण राष्ट्र भारत माता के महान सपूतों का ऋणी रहेगा। जय हिन्द वन्दे मातरम् 🙏🌹🌹🌹🇮🇳
Bilkul shi bat ❤❤❤❤❤
Patni shadi kr leti hai agar umar kam hoti hai
Wife ke sath sath maa papa ko bhi pure hak hone chahiye
Mein bhi ladki hu tab bhi aisa bol rhi hu
What if she marry again? Her pension and perks should be discontinued.
@@prakashtiwari8003 श्रीमान प्रकाश तिवारी जी मैंने ये नहीं कहा कि माता पिता को कुछ नहीं मिले। आर्थिक सहायता अवश्य मिले ताकि उनके बाकी के जीवन में कम से कम शारीरिक कष्ट हो।🙏🇮🇳
@@VijaySharma-zj7pi sab cheez radar main laao. Kitni property hai parents ki. Kisko kitna mila. Gold kitna hai . Bahu ko bhi equal haq mile. Fir pension bhi divide ho.
I'm shocked beyond word's. Especially coming from a family of a such a renowned hero of IA.
Ek Beta jane ke baad jo dukh Mata pita Ko hota wo govt ya koi nahi samajh sakta my salute to Brave mother
Extremely painful.....so difficult to see the mother's tears......shame on the daughter in law
जिन माता पिता के अथक प्रयासों के कारण एक बच्चा ऑफिसर बनता है उनकी ऐसी दुर्दशा एक विचारणीय मुद्दा है
क्यों माता पिता का अपमान किया जाता है सरकार और सेना द्वारा ? पैसा चाहे औरत को दो पर सम्मान माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए , क्योंकि वो ही दो लोग है जिन्होंने किसी वीर पुत्र या पुरुष को शारीरिक और मानसिक रूप से तैयार किया है
this is agree both parents and wife should be respected but if she is talking about money n all uska husband decide kiya ismein galti hey to ladke ki hey
Very sad , Parents must have given rights for their child . Parents pain is very limitless ,only Parents in same situation can understand their pain 😭😭
मां आप बलिदानी सपूतों की कुर्बानी पर सच्ची देशभक्ति निभाती हैं जयहिंद जय-जवान जज्बे को सलाम ईश्वर हिम्मत दे सुरक्षित रखे आपको 🎉🎉
It’s sad but a true story of almost all the martyrs
I think it’s high time for our government to think about it
बहुत ही विचारणीय
If constitution can be amended .. Then why not NOK ?
सब कहते हैं कि बहू को बेटी के समान मानो। तो बहुएं सास को मां के समान क्यों नहीं मानतीं
शर्म करो इंडियन आर्मी शर्म करो ये रोते मां बाप के आंसू तुम्मको बरबाद कर देंगे, अपयश हो रहा है
Very bad. Parents must get their rights equally. I fully support the parents
This Reality hits...💔
Throughout the video I could not stop my tears....😢..last me jo Bola I support this ....agar in-laws ki care krti hai to hi unko nok ka right dena chahiye .....judiciary must intervene the nok matter
Mam you & your son has done enough for this country. I salute you for giving birth & raising son like mohit. I wish best for you & mohit's father. God bless you mam.
there was no need for background music to make it more emotional.
बापरे बाप.... सूनकर दिमाग का दही हो गया❗😢
😭😭😭🥺🥺😟😟
Truth Spoken Shahhed Major de Mother, Center Govt Watch Pl this matter.Parnaam Shaheeda Nu.
Salute to Mother..
Can see the pain of mother. Government should take care of such things.
मेजर मोहित शर्मा की पत्नी की पेंशन तुरंत प्रभाव से बंद होनी चाहिए और वह पेंशन मोहित शर्मा की मां को मिलनी चाहिए
Kyu band honi chaiye dono ko barabar barabar बांट दो
@@God............... मोहित शर्मा की पत्नी का पेंशन बंद इसलिए होना चाहिए क्योंकि वह वर्तमान में भारतीय सेना में कर्नल रैंक पर विराजमानहै
@@SarojKumari-v2lpension tab bandh hoti agar woh dusri shadi kare
@@God...............Ek umar ke baad and jab kamane lage to khud ka baccha apne maa baap ka dependant nahi mana jata. Maa baap ke baad bachhe pension nahi draw kar sakte, unhe maa-baap ki medical policy ka benefit nahi milta. To kya biwi hi itni gayi gujri hai, ki ek to uska apna khud ka family hai, wo aapke barabar ki insaan hai, khud kama bhi rahi hai, phir bhi dependant mani jaye. Isme to spouses ko khud beizzati mehsoos honi chahiye.
Jahan aapke maa-baap, bhai-behen, bacche hak nahi jama sakte, to biwi ko kyu. Aur yadi biwi ka hak hai, to phir dost yaron ko bhi de hi do. Biwi ka to bas business contract wala relation hota hai, bacchon ke khatir ek sajhedari. Unse purana, unse gehra aur saga rishta to apne dost yaron se koi bhi feel karta hai. Yadi khoon ke rishte ko neecha dikhakar relationships of choice ka argument dena fashionable ho gya hai, to phir theek hai, unhi ke level par aate hain. Apni family ho hak nahi de sakte, to biwi ko bhi nahi milna chahiye. Dost yaar ko bana do NOK, wahi le jaayein phir. 😂
❤उसे सेवा से बर्खास्त करना चाहिए। वह औरत, किसी चीज के लायक नहीं। गद्दार औरत है।
हमारे पड़ोस में एक भईया शहीद हुए थे, उन्होंने लव मैरिज कि थी घर वालों के खिलाफ़ जाकर, उनके शहिद होने के बाद उनकी मां ने सबके सामने बोला था की यह लड़की मेरे बेटे को खा गई और उसे घर पर रखने से मना कर दिया ।उसके कुछ समय बाद उन्होंने अपने छोटे बेटे की शादी उस लड़की से करवाई, लड़की के घरवालों को मनाकर क्योंकि नौकरी और पैसा तो लड़की को ही मिला था। क्या अब वो लड़की उनके छोटे बेटे के लिए सही है? यह दुनिया बोहत दोगली है... बोहत ज्यादा।
Immense gratitude and respect towards your acquaintance for his service and sacrifice. A great son to his nation. Unfortunately, with all due respect, I must say, that he failed in his duty to his own parents if he left them behind for that girl.
Rahi baat aunty ke u-turn ki, to pehle hi sarkar maa-baap ko bacche ka next of kin maanti, unhe unke deceased son ke effects aur inheritance deti, to aunty ko compromise hi nahi karna padta. Beta unka tha, family unka tha, morally correct yahi hai ki wahi apne bacche ki legacy ki hakdaar hoti. System chutiya ho to logon ko gande samjhautey karne padte hain.
Ladki ka koi hak hi kyu banta hai. Wo apne family par claim kare, apna khud ka kuch achieve kare aur apni legacy apne family aur aage ki generations ke liye chhode. Apna family, apna career, apna self-esteem drain me phek kar dusre par kabja kyu jama rahi hai. Tumhare martyr bhaiya ko na hi usne paal pos kar bada kiya hai, na hi sath me pali badhi hai ki uski koi common heritage ho, na hi wo unka baccha hai. Faltu ke sexual relationship bas to hai, asal mudde ki baat karein to, aur on the paper wala rishta. Ladke bacche hote to thoda kuch value bhi hoti ki chalo business partner jaisi baat hai, mutually owned business ke interests apke alawa apka business partner execute kar sakta hai. Us sense mein, kyuki baap ke legacy par bacche ka hak banta hai aur guardian uski maa hai to bacche ke behalf par wo uske finances execute kar sakti hai.
Yahan to bas havas-panti ke balboote par log hawa me udd rahe hain. Uske apne khoon ka koi hak nahi par outsider log mauz udate baithe hai.
Pehle ke jamane ki baat alag thi, women ke liye opportunities nahi thi, unko independent hone nahi diya jata tha, jisse ki husband unka misuse kar ke unhe exploit kar ke khud maze kar sake, to unhe jabardasti husband ke bharose jeena padta tha. Phir achanak se husband mar gya, to bure job market me company bankrupt ho gayi wala haal jo jayega. To us time women ko husband ke wealth me hak dena sense banta tha as a form of social security, as a form of compensation and affirmative action against patriarchy ne unse jo kuch cheena, uske liye.
But, ye aaj kal ki ladkiyon ko kyu mile. Char paanch saal purani, bina bacchon wali shaadi me kyu mile. Aap log capable hai, apke paas choice hai, phir bhi aap log khud ye purane jamane ki majboori ko ideal mann kar baithi hain, normalise kar liya hai. Yahan tak ki romanticise kar rahi hain aise ghatiya idea ko jo kehta hai ki "spousal relation top priority hoga, spouse guardian hoga, spouse ka aapke upar first claim hoga". Aapke samajh nahi aata hai ki sexual relationship ko true love wala hype ke peeche kitna neech, kitna sexist, kitna women ke reproductive autonomy ko restrict karne ki mentality, unka jo next generation par itna bada influence hota hai usko exploit karke administrative and political agendas fulfill karne ke liye ye itna misogynist system banaya gaya hai. Ye aapko inferior samajhta hai, aapko fetishize karta hai, aapko sexual partner ki property bana kar rakh diya gaya tha, reduced to little better than a slave, aapka ghar, aapka wealth, aapka adhikar yahan tak ki apke apni legacy tak is system ne aapse cheen li hai. Jab aapko itna helpless and apni khud ki family se isolate kar diya, to aapke fear and desperation ko, sense of abandonment ko, ek stockholm syndrome ko ye log aapko pyaar, mohabbat aur janam-janam ka sath etc me lapet kar, romanticize kar ke aapke dimaag me bhar diye hai, aap ko delude karne ke liye ki tum isi shoshan ko ideal mano, isi beizzati me kush ho, tum insan nahi ek commodity ho, ek tool ho aur usi me tumhari shaan hai. Aapko thoos thoos kar religion, dharam granth, kahani, movies, gaane, yahan tak ki bhoole bhatake aapke apne family aur society se ye jehar me indoctrinate kiya hai. Aaj aapka haal ye hai aap isi kharab system jisne aapka, aapki maa ka, aapki kitni purwazon ko exploit kiya hai, aap usi ke paksh me bol rahi hain.
@@SatrupaSharma Men are geat, brave but also dominating.
Sahi bat mere bhai doglo se bhara h ye desh batte badi badi aur harkate neechta wali
Ok didi sb ak jaise nhi hote pahli baat aur rahi jab ap ak maa bnegi aur kabhi apke sth hoga aisa tb apko smjh aayega dusro ke sth hota hai to sbko acha lgta hai
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My favourite War Hero ..
Mohit Sharma ..❤❤
आँखों में आंसू आ गए माँ को देखके 😢
माता पिता को प्राथमिकता ज़रूर मिलनी चाहिए
Very Seriously issue parents ko bhi 40 percent Haq milna chahiye Medical Facility bhi Deni chahiye Pension bhi parents ko mile Major Mohit Ki wife already Army officer hai now Full Colonel hai salary leti hai pension stopage immediately
Not 40 percent, 70 percent given to parents and 30 percent for wife if she has kids.
Yes very true👍
ik k tu kids b nai hain.@@rozlinpanda5483
@@rozlinpanda5483don't get married 100% money will be given to parents .... ku ldki ki zindagi khrb krni h
Exactly
आप court में अपना संघर्ष जारी रखिए एक दिन आप की जीत होगी शायद युग परिवर्तन है
But will.they be alive till then.....
Major Mohit Sharma are born once in a century. Goverment , Indian Army and even courts should come forward for his parents .
They deserve all respects and benefits. I pray from God
😢😢😢 भाई एक तरफ एक पत्नी हैं और एक तरफ मां ____इन दोनो के बीच एक घर का लड़का की कहानी 😢😢😢
Maa to maa hoti h jiska sthan bhagwaan se uppar hai....
Sacrifice of a Mother and Father. 🙏🙏🙏 Sat Sat Naman.
100% Responsibility lies with son. It is he who has to nominate his parents and wife. Daughter in law must give some financial support to parents. This is her responsibility.
No; son cannot do that. As per NOK rules, after marriage, the soldier's wife get the 1st preference and all preference in case of the soldier's death.. That's the rule.
Does nomination work in nok? I have not been able to find it out.Will applies to “estates” only,pension and pensionary benefits are given to nok only.But can a military personnel change his/her nok.Because after marriage nok is by default changed to spouse.
@@karv80The pension benefits are switched to the wife after marriage, it is true. But soldiers can write to the authorities and add their parents name to the NoK. They can also mention the percentage of allocations to each party.
This is shameful no one can replace parents...They deserve respect too
Request to govt Please do something about this NOK